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Love Types For HAIA
Love Types For HAIA
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18. When dating someone, I tend to value:
program by scoring yourself and finding out what your Love Type
F) emotional compatibility: expressing affection and being sensitive to
Personality is. This test is adopted from Dr. Avilas book: Love Types:
each other's needs.
Discover Your Romantic Style and Find Your True Soulmate.
T) intellectual compatibility: communicating important ideas;
discussing and debating matters objectively.
Instructions:
Although you may see yourself in both answers to a question, encircle 19. When I disagree with my partner:
the answer that fits you best. For scoring, count the answers that F) I do everything I can to avoid hurting his or her feelings, and
correspond to the letters in the box at the back. I may not say anything if it will hurt too much.
T) I usually speak up and set my mate straight because right is right.
1. I tend to draw more energy from:
E) other people.
I) my own thoughts.
20. People who know me tend to describe me as:
2. When I'm at a social gathering, I tend to have more energy:
F) warm hearted and sensitive.
E) toward the end of the night, and once I get going, I may be the last
T) logical and straightforward.
person to leave.
I) toward the early part of the night, and then I get tired and want to
go home. 21. I see most of my encounters with people as:
F) being friendly and important in themselves.
3. Which sounds more appealing? T) having a purpose.
E) going with my date to a place where there are lots of people and
social interaction, such as a nightclub or party.
22. If I had the time and money, and a friend invited me to an
I) staying home and doing something special with my date, such as
exotic location and gave me one day's notice, I would:
watching an entertaining video and eating my favorite
J) have to check my schedule first.
take-out food.
P) pack my bags without a second thought.
4. When on a date, I'm usually:
E) quite talkative throughout. 23. When on a first date, I:
I) more quiet and reserved until I feel comfortable. J) get upset if my date is late.
P) don't worry about it since I'm usually late myself.
5. In the past, I have tended to meet most of my dates:
E) when I'm doing things in the outside world: at parties,
24. I prefer:
nightclubs, work, recreational activities, chance meetings,
J) to know, in advance, what's going to happen on my dates: where
or when friends introduce me to their friends.
I'm going, who is going to be there, how long I will be there, how I
I) through private methods such as personal ads, video dating,
should dress.
or sometimes by personal introductions from close friends
P) to let the dates happen spontaneously without much (if any)
and family.
advance planning.
6. I tend to have:
E) many acquaintances and many (or a few) close friends. 25. I prefer a life that revolves around:
I) a few close friends and/or a few acquaintances. J) schedules and organization.
P) spontaneity and flexibility.
7. In the past, my loved ones and partners tended to say this about
me:
26. Which is more common:
E) "Can't you be quiet and still for once?"
J) I'm on time and everyone else is late.
I) "Can you come out of your shell, please?"
P) everyone else is on time, and I'm late.
9. I tend to trust:
28. I am the type of person who:
N) my leaps of intuition.
J) likes to work on one thing at a time until completion.
S) my direct observation and hands-on experience.
P) enjoys working on several things at once.
14. I usually:
N) tend to fantasize a great deal about a date I'm about to go on. Name: (optional)
S) tend to fantasize sparingly and simply allow the date to turn out the
way it's going to. Age: