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Two more Israeli stars in the heavens


Up in the sky. among a swarm of 104 satellites the can detect climate phenomena and a
Its a bird? Indian Space Research Organization guidance system that lets the opera-
Its a plane? launched this week. tors choose the areas to shoot and
No, its a pair of Israeli satellites! BGUSAT is the result of a five-year research through a dedicated ground
Okay, youre not actually going to joint project between Ben Gurion station in Beersheva.
be able to spot BGUSAT or DIDO2 University of the Negev, Israel Aero- DIDO2 belongs to SpacePharma and
when they next pass a few hundred space Industries, and Israels Ministry is designed for medical experiments.
miles overhead. Both are nanosatel- of Science, Technology and Space. The 10-pound satellite will examine the
lites, about the size of milk cartons. Israeli academias first nanosatel- effect of weightlessness on materials.
The two research satellites were lite, it is outfitted with cameras that LARRY YUDELSON & ISRAEL21C.ORG

Valentines Day happy meal Israel cashes in on two more poets


at Tel Aviv Burger King Money is a kind of poetry, Wal-
lace Stevens once said. He would
Putting the blue in the know, as a Pulitzer Prize-winning
blue-and white, a Burger poet and the husband of Elsie Ka-
King franchise in Israel chel, whose profile is believed to
offered something extra be embossed on the 1916 Mercury
to spark romance on Val- dime.
entines Day. The Bank of Israel apparently
After 6 p.m. on Tues- agrees with Stevens. It has been in-
day night, Israelis over troducing a new series of banknotes
the age of 18 could buy a with enhanced security measures,
special Adults Meal (as and the theme is Israeli poets. Na-
opposed to a traditional than Alterman is on the new 200
Kids Meal) from the shekel note (worth about $50) and
Burger King in Tel Avivs Shaul Tchernichovsky is on the 50
Rabin Square or so shekel note.
Burger King Israel posted Now the next two notes have
to its Facebook page. been announced.
The meal consisted of Rachel Bluwstein, known to Is-
two burgers, two orders of fries, and in the United States raelis as the poet Rachel, will be on the 20 shekel note. The 100 shekel note will
two beers, and came with one of three Whether the meals were actually bear the face of Leah Goldberg, a poet who also is known for her classic chil-
non-culinary treats: a blindfold, a feath- served, or if it was all a publicity stunt, drens books, which she both wrote and illustrated. LARRY YUDELSON
er duster, or a head massager. was not yet determined by Snopes.
Valentines Day, named for a third- com when this paper went to press. It
century Catholic saint, is not widely ob- is important to note, however, that the
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Noshes
FAUDA, on Netflix. Cool Israeli thriller.
With episodes only a little longer than your
average sitcom, its all killer and no filler.
Stephen King, posting on Twitter. Eric Idle replied: I loved it too!

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theaters across the musical role and hes that Tinker handled all of
country on February 16, been starring ever since, their business dealings.
18, and 22. Filmed live on in a series of shows Think Yiddish, Write
stage in Los Angeles, and in Smash, the TV British, is an old line
this rousing show series. Fankhauser has among Jewish writers to
co-stars original Broad- been profiled in the De- describe how they take
way stars JEREMY troit, Cleveland, and San material (comedy or
JORDAN, 32, as Jack Diego Jewish papers. His drama) from their Jew-
Kelley and BEN maternal grandparents ish background or sen-
FANKHAUSER, 27, as both were Holocaust sibility and translate it
Davey. Newsies began survivors. His parents (a into material that retains
as an original movie Swiss Jewish business- Jeremy Jordan Ben Frankhauser Barry Mann comedy or pathos but
musical with songs by man and an American is relatable to the over-
ALAN MENKEN, now Jewish psychologist) whelmingly non-Jewish
67,and lyrics by JACK met in Detroit, Bens world. CARL REINER,
FELDMAN, now 68. It mothers hometown. now 94, drew from his
was a box office flop, Bens parents divorced own experience in writ-
but gained a cult when he was 5 and his ing, with a pack of other
following over the years. mother relocated to Jews, the Sid Caesar
It became a smash Cleveland, where Ben Show, when he cre-
Broadway hit in 2012, went to Hebrew school ated Van Dyke. Then
aided by a new book by and was confirmed. Dur- he plucked Moore out of
HARVEY FIERSTEIN, ing the last two years, obscurity to co-star. She
now 62. The musical, he has co-starred in a said they had a basically
based on a true story, is national road company father-daughter relation-
set in the 1890s. Kelley is of Beautiful: The Carole ship. Likewise, the bril-
a newsboy and the King Musical. He played Zoe Kravitz Carl Reiner James L. Brooks liant JAMES L. BROOKS,
leader of a band of the great songwriter now 76, was the main
ragged teenaged BARRY MANN, now 77. the point of murder. ZOE the Jewish press that too (Rhoda; played by creator and writing
newsies, and long Big Little Lies, a NEWS
KRAVITZ, 28, plays cast Moore and Grant Valerie Harper, who isnt overseer of TMTMS.
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work. Davey, another Feb. 19. The show is an ex-husband. Bonnie is a 1962 to 1981) in roles TMTMS, Mary, the take this translated ma-
newsboy, is Jacks smart adaptation of Liane spiritual yoga instructor, they never played. This character, stood up to terial and be its brilliant
ally and friend. (It is Moriartys 2014 darkly a sensitive soul with a writer credited them anti-Semitic discrimina- vessel not a dumbed
playing in Manhattan, comic novel of the same strong moral compass. with the following: (1) tion directed at Rhoda. down All-American girl
Paramus, and Wayne). name. It revolves around I loved Mary Tyler
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divorced when he was kindergartners Celeste TV screen in her signa- Jewish character in the had a big hand in the type of American could
very young, and his Jew- (Nicole Kidman), ture starring roles in The 1960s, when few other creation and writing relate to, and laugh with.
ish mother (his father Madeline (Reese Wither- Dick Van Dyke Show shows did (Buddy; of her shows. Tinker Reiner and Brooks knew
isnt Jewish) struggled to spoon), and Jane and The Mary Tyler played by the late had some role getting that she had a huge
support him and two sib- (Shailene Woodley) Moore show. But I was MOREY AMSTERDAM); TMTMS on the air. But hand in their success
lings. But he was a very whose apparently distressed when I saw a (2) that TMTMS had a he didnt create or write and said so in their trib-
good student and got perfect lives unravel to recent tribute piece in major Jewish character, it. And while TMTMS utes to her. N.B.

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Tzedek, tzedek tirdof
Congregation Beth Sholom tackles issues of social justice
Lois Goldrich

R
abbi L ee Paskind
i s no st ranger to
social activism.
Until a few years ago
a congregational rabbi in Peek-
skill, N.Y. now a Teaneck resi-
dent and member of Congrega-
tion Beth Sholom Rabbi Paskind
has participated in the Conserva-
tive movements social justice
commission for nearly 30 years
and now is a part-time consultant
on these issues to the movements
Rabbinical Assembly.
Political times being what they
are, the issues of particular con-
cern to Rabbi Paskind the plight
of refugees, for example have
spurred him, and fellow congre-
gants who share his concerns, to
explore ways in which the syna-
gogue feasibly can respond to
these challenges .
I think that about a year and
a half ago, there were some peo-
ple interested in responding in
particular to the Syrian refugee Dr. Dennis B. Klein, director of Jewish studies at Kean University, is helping guide the Tzedek Tirdof effort at Congregation
crisis, he said, suggesting that Beth Sholom.
the much-publicized photo of a
3-year-old refugee boy washing up on the soup kitchens in Hackensack and prison reform to food insecurity
shores of Turkey probably had something Englewood and collect food and to human trafficking.
to do with that. clothing for special drives through- At a second meeting in Feb-
Its ironic, he said. The war in Syria out the year. The committee also ruary, members were given a
had been going on for years. But thats sponsors special activities based narrowed-down list of topics
what happens. Something caught peo- around Jewish holidays so that those and were asked to select their
ples attention, and everyone wanted to who are less fortunate can still cele- priority issues and then to focus
react. As a result, several people at the brate our joyous times like Hanuk- on what we could have a local
synagogue started to discuss what the kah, Purim, and Passover with impact on, Rabbi Paskind said.
shul might do in the face of this continu- dignity and respect. We had the feeling that prob-
ing humanitarian crisis. In some shuls, there is one group ably wed have the most impact
It was close to Pesach, he said. So we that does hands-on gemilut hasadim where people could make a
put together resources for people to use at which our social action committee Dr. Elaine Cohen Rabbi Lee Paskind hands-on commitment.
seders. The materials were not only about does, and that is wonderful, Rabbi At that meeting, the sugges-
Syrian refugees but included information Paskind said. But the committee didnt appointed by the president. And thus, tion that representatives from other orga-
on human trafficking as well. HIAS [for- feel that the refugee issue was their niche. Tzedek Tirdof justice you shall pursue nizations be invited to address the commit-
merly the Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society] People who wanted to do other things felt as Deuteronomy 16:20 tells us was cre- tee or possibly all interested members of
had a lot on its website, and we shared a they had to find a way to do those things. ated to provide the Beth Sholom com- the congregation to report on the needs
good amount of that, Rabbi Paskind said. Last spring, they began to pursue this munity with opportunities to address of vulnerable groups in the community
We also spoke about it after Shabbat ser- goal in earnest. Rabbi Paskind, Dr. Elaine contemporary social concerns from our was accepted. For example, speakers from
vices and got a good response. Cohen, Dennis Klein, and Rabbi Julia Jewish perspective. Family Promise, which offers services for
Still, the sense emerged that this kind Andelman all members of Beth Sholom The committee whose first meeting the working homeless, and the Center
of activity did not fall within the purview began to explore the idea of a separate in January drew some 30 people, much to for Food Action, which helps address the
of our social action committee, he contin- committee dedicated to these issues. After Rabbi Paskinds surprise has been a work problem of hunger throughout the area,
ued. According to Beth Sholoms website, presenting the idea to Beth Sholoms Rabbi in progress. We wanted to get it right, he since have been invited.
The Social Action/Tikkun Olam Commit- Joel Pitkowsky who has been very help- said. We tried to be inclusive. We want At the closing session of the syna-
tee is dedicated to spreading the word ful and supportive and to synagogue anyone to be involved who wants to be. gogues Shabbaton last week, several
about opportunities to repair our world president Lynn Geller, who invited Dr. At the meeting, facilitators invited attend- members of the committee talked
through commitment and love for our fel- Cohen and Rabbi Andelman to make a pre- ees to note particular areas of concern. It briefly about how each of us came to
low man and woman. Members of the sentation to the board, it finally emerged soon became apparent that members were social justice work and how different
synagogue regularly volunteer at the area that we could be an ad hoc committee passionate about dozens of topics, from parts of Jewish tradition motivated us,

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Rabbi Paskind said. Inevitably, the issue has given us a context for sharing, speak- work, he said, he is very aware of injustice, fear, amplified by the media. It will be a
of President Donald Trumps executive ing, and engaging in social justice work and I react to that quite strongly. challenge for us to get people in the same
order on refugees was raised, and some together. I feel that it is helping me get It was while he was working on a paper room who have hard feelings, and begin
expressed real surprise and dismay that beyond feelings of helplessness and frus- in high school during the summer that he to create a spirit of good will.
we are not addressing this crisis. tration, and I hope that we will be able to got interested in problems we have since He became involved in the synagogues
A subsequent synagogue meeting, to contribute in some modest ways to the referred to as white supremacy. I took my social justice efforts when he was invited
which everyone was invited, drew 30 betterment of others less fortunate than mother to [a white supremacist] meet- to make a presentation comparing
congregants interested in sharing their we are. ing to see how people think about this. todays refugee problem to the experi-
thoughts and expectations. Were now The scholar, author, and lecturer Dr. I could hardly believe it, he said, adding ence of Jews during the Holocaust. He
trying to figure out how to fold them into Dennis B. Klein a professor of history that, of course, he couldnt voice his dis- shared the platform with the late Dr. Ste-
the social justice group or another par- at Kean University and the director of the may out loud. (He did say, however, that phen P. Cohen, who for decades served as
allel group, Rabbi Paskind said. Tzedek schools Jewish studies program has he had an amazing mother.) a back-channel mediator between Israel
Tirdof might incorporate a group allow- been an important force behind the cre- That experience, he said, had a clear and its Arab neighbors (and was Elaine
ing people to dialogue who see them- ation of Tzekek Tirdof. influence on him. I became aware of Cohens husband). The program drew
selves on opposite sides, he added. Echoing Rabbi Paskinds statement the other side; I wanted to understand a lot of people to talk about refugees,
Many in our community are feeling that the scope of the committee is one where they were coming from. Its not he said, adding that it took place right
a great deal of anxiety, fear, and upset of the things were sorting out, Dr. Klein me vs. them, but a conversation there. after the violence in San Bernardino. The
these days about the state of the world noted that hes particularly interested in He has also been influenced by a recent problem, he said, goes beyond the peo-
and the turning inward of our country, the question of refugees, and how we article in Christian Century, written by ple now in power. Were trying to de-
Dr. Cohen said. Creating this commit- understand both sides of the problem. the journalist David Brooks, where he Trumpize the conversation or we cant
tee has given us a place for conversations I dont want to just advocate, I want to makes it really clear that we are an over- have a conversation.
about our concerns and our shared Jew- talk, bringing folks with different opin- politicized, under-moralized culture. Dr. Klein is working now to organize
ish and American values as well as a vehi- ions together and recognizing that we That is, he said, we argue in terms of meetings between the synagogue and the
cle for taking productive and construc- probably share more in common than political symbols rather than addressing local African American community, not
tive action even though we havent yet what separates us. moral disagreements. We need to dig about the usual black-Jewish relations but
decided on our priorities for this year. Dr. Klein said his own experience in the away a little to what were all concerned what were sharing in common on issues.
Mindful that not everyone in our con- area of social justice comes very much about, so we can get to a conversation He is hopeful that a similar meeting can be
gregation holds the same perspective out of the milieu of Jewish influences, and that moves us. arranged with the Muslim community, to
or interprets the current realities in the how I see myself as a Jew positions me Klein suggested that todays polarized bring in folks we dont talk with to discuss
same way, establishing the committee toward these endeavors. Given his line of climate is basically coming out of a great the difficult spot were all in.

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When the collaborator is your grandfather


Poet-turned-historian to talk in Hoboken about her family
Joanne Palmer grandfather, whom she continued to love, had been a
partisan in the war against Russia. She knew about one
A good poet and a good historian, surprisingly, have a lot heroic deed hed managed to get his children in the
in common. back of a wagon, across mined fields, to safety, but still
Both write with precision. Both have fiendish eyes for she didnt know what he had done in the war.
detail. Both reject generalizations as not useful, stereo- One day, after her father died, when she was sitting with
types as not accurate, and platitudes as a great big waste her mother having coffee at a diner on the Upper West
of words. Side, I asked her if her father had been a policeman, and
Rita Gabis, who will be speaking at the United Syna- she said yes. And I said What do you mean? Under the
gogue of Hoboken on Sunday, February 26, is a poet; by Gestapo? And she said yes.
midway through her extensive research for her book, A Ms. Gabis knew bits of Polish, German, and particularly
Guest at the Shooters Banquet. My Grandfathers SS Past, Lithuanian; she began to do research, starting at the Holo-
My Jewish Family, A Search for the Truth (see box for caust museum in Washington. (I could speak Lithuanian
details) she qualified as a historian as well. as a child, she said. I remember once listening to my
Ms. Gabis, who lives in Manhattan and teaches cre- mother and a friend speak Lithuanian and realizing that
ative writing at Hunter College, said that the book is a I couldnt understand them. I had lost it.) Her linguistic
hybrid a memoir, a family story, and also very heavily skills developed, and soon she moved the focus of her
grounded in research. She went to Eastern Europe work to eastern Europe.
Poland, Ukraine, and particularly Lithuania, where most I knew where my grandfather had been stationed,
of her family story unspooled. And its also a book about and I learned that he had been a regional chief of security
identity, she said. police. The security police were the deadliest collabora-
Ms. Gabiss mother is a Lithuanian-born Catholic who tion force in Lithuania, where 95 percent of the Jewish
immigrated to the United States from a DP camp in Ger- population was annihilated, she said.
many when she was 5 years old. Her father, who died 11 Rita Gabis Rina Castelnuovo Building on shreds of information, Ms. Gabis searched
years ago, was a second-generation American Jew. through records; the Germans had kept meticulous files,
Ms. Gabiss identity always has been complicated. My Jewishness became increasingly important to him. She the Soviet Union took them over, and later gave them back
fathers mom was the amazing matriarch of the family, learned more about her fathers family her grand- to Lithuania. I was going through microfiche for hours,
she said. Even though Judaism passes through the matri- mother had escaped from Ukraine to London decades looking for names, its all horrific, and then I am think-
lineal line, my grandmother took me aside when I was before the Holocaust. Most of the relatives who stayed ing to myself What am I doing here? And I give myself
about 12, and in defiance of rabbinical law, she said Youre behind died. another half hour, and then another ten mninutes, and
a Jew. Her father kept trying to give me a paperback, His- I was turning the dial this was the days of microfiches,
A few years earlier, my grandfather, my Lithuanian tory of the Jews, filled with his scribbly handwriting. He with dials and all of a sudden there is my grandfathers
Catholic grandfather, for reasons that I did not understand kept saying, Read it. Read it. Read it! He said, These are signature on a report. He had dictated it to a secretary,
then, took me aside and said Dont be like your father. your people. You have to know where you came from. I and it had been translated in German. And then there was
I was upset about that. I adored Dad. And then he clari- raised my eyebrow, and I said, With my Lithuanian Catho- another report. And another report. And another report.
fied. No Jews. No good. lic mother in the kitchen, making soup? and he said, Nev- And another and another and another. It was the begin-
My parents were married, and they remained married, ertheless, take it. ning of the paper trail.
although it was a complicated marriage. And the declara- And when it became clear that he was dying, I put it For Ms. Gabis as a granddaughter, that was a moment
tion of my Jewish grandmother really stuck with me, and on my shelf. Thats where it is today. Full of his scribbly of pure pain; for her as a historian, she had been parched
it would have, I think, even if I hadnt felt defiance toward handwriting. and it was mannah.
my grandfathers statement. As she grew older, Ms. Gabis realized more and more Soon, she went to Warsaw, where I tracked down the
Thats how I grew up. about her mothers background. Her grandmother, her last living survivors of the ghetto in Svencyionas, the
Ms. Gabis was born in Chicago, where her father earned mothers mother, had been arrested by the secret police town her grandfather had policed. She also found the last
a Ph.D. in political philosophy, but her family soon moved in early 1941 and shipped off in a cattle car to Lubyanka surviving eyewitnesses to the massacres there. There
to Missouri. Every summer, wed trek to Marthas Vine- prison, where she was tortured, she said. The skin was were two major massacres, she said. In the fall of 1941,
yard, where her grandmother had scrabbled together pulled off her forearms. And then she was given a prison eight thousand Jews were rounded up and taken to a long
enough money to buy a house. term in the gulag. pit, about seven kilometers from where my grandfathers
Shed grown up celebrating both Jewish and Christian Astonishingly, her grandmother survived, although no office was based, and the street where he lived with my
holidays; now, her identify is perhaps complicated, per- one in the family knew about it until much later. At about mom and her siblings. The Jews were interned, and then
haps made more clear by the fact that her husband is 11, we all went to JFK airport, and she descended, in the they were taken and shot. The second massacre saw
Jewish. Her father had been secular until he got sick he middle of a blizzard, Ms. Gabis said. the murder of about one thousand noncombatant Poles,
suffered from multiple myeloma and as he weakened, Meanwhile, she was beginning to realize that her mainly women and children.

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Sandi M. Malkin, LL C
I discovered documentation that placed my grand-
father at the meeting with other chiefs of police, where
they discussed how to organize the mass killings of
Interior Designer
Jews and the creation of the ghetto. And then, in the
prison yard, I went to what had been his office in the (former interior designer of model
old jail, reading the list of the names of the Poles who rooms for NYs #1 Dept. Store)
had been marched to the Jewish cemetery and shot in
the back of the head.
From her talks with witnesses and survivors, it
became very important to Ms. Gabis to weave into
For a totally new look using
my book these incredible stories of folks who I came to
know quite well, who survived against the odds, she your furniture or starting anew.
said. Anyone who does this work realizes that time
is very short. I felt very driven to report this deeply. Staging also available
I also felt driven to really give a sense of the region
prior to the Soviet occupation, because if you dont
know what a place was, you dont know what was lost.
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Ms. Gabis has been thinking a great deal about col-
laboration lately, she said. Current events compel her
to it. Each story of collaboration has its own complex-
ity, and it became more and more important to me to
understand my grandfather not only because he was
my grandfather, but because he was someone who
found himself in a postion to gain from chaos.
Even though he hated the Germans, he really was
anti-Semite, and he was given a position with a certain
amount of power. That became a really important part
of the story the choices people make.
So many people including many of the Jews in
my life said, I dont know what I would have done
if someone put a gun to my head. And I said to them,
Actually there wasnt a gun to his head. And in the
end he was able to immigrate to this country. M A AYA N OT Y E S H I VA H I G H S C H O O L F O R G I R L S I N V I T E S T H E CO M M U N I T Y TO O U R
Her grandfather benefitted from the American post-
war obsession with Communists, she said. He had
been an anti-Communist, so whats a little war crime
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Her grandfather, oddly enough, was a guest at Rich-
ard Nixons inauguration. He was one of the found-
ers of the Lithuanian-American Society, and a staunch WE A R E G R AT E F U L TO H AV E T H E O P O R T U N I T Y
Republican.
Her own emotions, from which she frequently TO D E D I C AT E T H I S Y E A R S D I N N E R TO T H E
disconnected as she researched, were complicated.
Researching the book was like a series of shocks, she M E M O RY O F B R U C E R I T H O LT Z , Z L .
said. The first discovery was a profound shock, but
each following one was less severe. We are honored to present to his family our
That early exchange I had with my grandfather Beer Torah Memorial Award.
about my father, before I understood the extent of
his anti-Semitism, haunted me, she said. The more
I worked on the book, the more it haunted me. She
learned that her grandfather had ranted against Jews I N A D D I T I O N, PL E A S E J O I N U S I N H O N O R I N G :
during her childhood, although never in mixed com-
pany, or when she and her father were there. My
grandfather was very pragmatic, she said. He saw
that my father would earn a good living.
His brutal, Jew-killing past never got in the way of
her grandfathers continuing to love her, Ms. Gabis
said, but there is a question mark. In different his-
torical circumstances I dont know how far that love
would have gone.
I just dont know.

LO R I & E L I OT L I N Z E R R A B B I DA N I E L & D I A N E CO H E N M R S . S U Z A N N E CO H E N
A M U D E I M A AYA N OT H O N O R E E S PA R E N T S O F T H E Y E A R T E AC H E R O F T H E Y E A R
Who: Rita Gabis
What: Will talk about her book, A Guest at the
Shooters Banquet. My Grandfathers SS Past, My For information on donation opportunities, or to RSVP for the Dinner, please contact
Jewish Family, A Search for the Truth, at brunch
Pam Ennis, Director of Development, at ennisp@maayanot.org
When: On Sunday, February 26, at 10:30 a.m.
Where: At the United Synagogue of Hoboken, 115
Park Ave.
Maayanot Yeshiva High School for Girls
For more information: Call (201) 659-4000 or go
1650 Palisade Avenue | Teaneck, New Jersey | 07666 | www.maayanot.org
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More perfect union


Gettysburg Address, in Hebrew, to be read in Franklin Lakes
Joanne Palmer because it included servitude and left
some human beings out.
On Monday, February 17 thats both Pres- So when Lincoln goes back to 1776, he
idents Day, marking the births of two of is embracing a very controversial aboli-
our most iconic presidents, George Wash- tionist argument, Dr. Zeitz said. People
ington and Abraham Lincoln, both born who heard it understood it. And then he
in the second half of February, and one of talked about the new birth of freedom!
the three days on which Jews read Torah He almost was embarking on a new
aloud at morning minyan every week American revolution, to perfect what had
Rabbi Joseph Prouser of Temple Emanuel been imperfect.
of North Jersey in Franklin Lakes will bring It was a very radical speech, he
the two together. stressed. It was widely reprinted and dis-
During the Shacharit service, after the tributed. The Republicans loved it. The
Torah has been taken out of the ark, car- Democrats hated it.
ried around in procession, undressed, In another echo of todays politics, Lin-
unfurled, kissed, read, closed, and coln was very polarizing, Dr. Zeitz said.
recloaked in its velvet and silver, Rabbi We think of him today as unifying, but
Prouser will read the Gettysburg Address, he elicited the kind of polarization we see
which hes translated into Hebrew and set today. He was violently polarizing.
to haftarah trope. (Thats the one breach of He became an increasingly popular
standard synagogue protocol here gen- wartime president, but the opposition
erally we read the haftarah aloud only on hated him.
Shabbat and holidays.) Not only did the South want to retain
This year, for the third time, Rabbi slavery, people who lived in the Midwest
Prouser has invited local dignitaries, some had no interest in freeing slaves, Dr. Zeitz
Jewish, some not, to the service, to hear said. They were perfectly willing to risk
the prophetic voice of Abraham Lincoln, In this 1861 photograph, Abraham Lincoln addresses the huge crowd at his first their lives and livelihoods to save their
set in the Gettysburg Address in short, inaugural in front of the as-yet-unfinished Capitol building. Library of Congress country but they were white suprema-
strong, vivid phrases, Hebrew-like in their cists. They would not fight to wipe out
intensity and momentum. toward his second electoral vic- slavery they were fine with that gro-
This year, one of the guests will be Dr. tory as president, Dr. Zeitz said. tesque institution.
Joshua Zeitz of Hoboken, a historian who And Lincoln wasnt even the key- People tend to view the Gettysburg
has taught at Princeton and Harvard and is note speaker that was Edward Address as about sacrifice and it is and
the author of Lincolns Boys. Everett, the ever-present politician he was not jettisoning the argument that
Often, when we look at the Gettysburg from Massachusetts whose speech it was being fought to save the country
Address, we see literature, he said; its was listed on the program as an but the war was not to save it as it had
brilliant, but its so filled with phrases that oration. become, Dr. Zeitz said.
since have become clichs a testament It was long, and set off Lin- We were fighting it to restore the val-
to their brilliance, of course that often colns 272-word gem of a speech to ues of 1776. And in urging that fight on, by
it can seem saccharine, he said, but the perfection. providing it with one of its most emotion-
address actually is radical. Delivered in It is easy for us to forget that the Dr. Joshua Zeitz Rabbi Joseph Prouser ally resonant images, President Abraham
1863, two years into the bloody American parties have completely realigned Lincoln sowed the seeds for much of what
Civil War, halfway to its ending, as a dedi- themselves since Lincolns day. Then, it his listeners picked up on immediately. It was to follow in the next few years, and
cation of a newly made cemetery filled was the Democrats who represented big begins Four score and seven years ago. beyond to our time.
with soldiers who had died fighting that money, old families, and the southern Thats 87 years. Do the math, Dr. Zeitz So Rabbi Prouser, who loves history and
war, it was, among other things, a canny slaveholding aristocracy (we should par- said: 87 years before 1863 was 1776. It has identified at times as Republican, and
campaign speech as Lincoln worked don that one word modifying the other); was more than just using a fancy way of who is working very hard to maintain both
the Republicans were the party of immi- saying numbers, he continued. Lincoln an apolitical position and a moral core, has
Who: Rabbi Joseph Prouser of Temple grants, the less wealthy, and change. was arguing that the countrys founding chosen to mark Presidents Day and the
Emanuel of North Jersey There were scores of important Repub- document was the Declaration of Indepen- genius of Abraham Lincoln by reading the
What: Will read the Gettysburg Ad- licans senators, congressmen, other dence, famously written and released that Gettysburg Address aloud.
dress at morning minyan important politicians, and newspaper edi- year, the year that we now think of as the The decision was not at all related to
Where: At his shul, 558 High Mountain tors at this dedication, Dr. Zeitz said. Lin- year of our countrys birth. the polarized if not actually toxic politi-
Road in Franklin Lakes coln used it as the opportunity to reframe Then, 1789, the year after the Constitu- cal atmosphere weve all been trying to
the purpose of the war. tion was ratified, the year that its provi- breathe through Rabbi Prouser has
When: On Monday, February 20, dur-
ing minyan, which begins at 8 a.m. and He had been meticulous in defining the sions went into effect, is the year that was been doing this program for three years,
ends at 9:15. war, until the address, as being fought just considered the nations first. starting long before anyone could have
to defend the nation, Dr. Zeitz said. When The Declaration of Independence is predicted the results of the 2016 elec-
Who else: Its open to the whole com-
munity; many local elected officials he reframed it as a war to create a new a statement of beliefs. It is not a legally tion but it seems prescient today. And
and politicians will be there. Dr. Joshua birth of freedom, he acknowledged that binding document. The Constitution is somehow it seems even more potent in
Zeitz will have an aliyah. it no longer just was about preserving the legally binding. But the abolitionists his shul which is old, elegant, attractive,
What else: Light breakfast after the union. It was arguing that it was time now to whose ranks Lincoln joined claimed and comes with a very strong sense of his-
minyan. create a country that no longer had slaves. the Declaration as their own, Dr. Zeitz tory that seems to radiate out from its old
For more information: Call the shul at Lincoln was making the war be about said. The Declaration does not talk wooden pews.
(201) 560-0200 or email it at office@ emancipation. about slavery. The abolitionists viewed This year, the reverberations from the
tenjfl.org There was a clue in the speech that all the Constitution as a sullied document, bimah will be even louder.

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Shirei Hodu
New melodies emerge in Indian Jewish research
MEYLEKH VISWANATH

On February 6 and 7 in New Delhi, India,


there was a very interesting conference on
Indian Jews called Shirei Hodu or Songs
of India, subtitled Hodu and the Jews.
(Hodu here refers to India.)
There were sessions on the oral and
written traditions of Jews in India, on com-
munity and identity, on relations between
Jews and non-Jews in both historical and
modern times, on Jews migration to and
from India, on Jewish art and architecture
in India, and on the challenges of preserv-
ing the Jewish heritage in India.
What was amazing about this conference
is that, as Joan Roland of Pace University,
a scholar of the Bene Israel community,
noted, it represented a maturing of Indo-
Jewish studies. There has been an influx
of many new young scholars into the field,
bringing with them new interdisciplinary
perspectives and more importantly, a care-
ful examination of existing documents and
new texts and a close inspection of the his- From left, community activitists Yael Jhirad and Ralphy Jhirad, MV Bijulal, Elijah Jacob, and Jael Silliman
torical trail. This moves us away
from an uncritical acceptance of
legends as history.
Another prominent scholar
of Indian Jews, Shalva Weil of
Hebrew University, noted that
Indian Jews are no longer thought
to be exotic, given that there has
been several decades of research
into the community. Unfortu-
nately, we continue to have popu-
lar Jewish magazines in the United
States that print and reprint factu-
ally incorrect and mythologized
accounts of Indian Jews. Hope-
fully, this new research will act as
a corrective to this trend of over-
romanticizing the Jewish commu-
nity in India.
Here are some of the new young
scholars who attended the confer-
ence, and who have blazed new
trails in the field.
Navras Jaat Aafreedi has been From left, an Israeli poster for a Bollywood film, Boot Polish, featuring
working on Indian and Muslim atti- a Bene Israel actor, David Cheulkar; another featuring a Bollywood
tudes toward Jews for more than a star, Sulochana, aka Ruby Myers; and one about doctors.
decade and has been tireless in try-
ing to establish the field of Jewish and Holocaust studies studying the way Yemeni rabbis in the eighteenth
in Indian universities. This has not been easy, because of through the twentieth centuries acted as a bridge
Indian scholars historical bias toward the Arab cause and between rabbinic Judaism and Indian Jewish commu-
the overt hostility (including Holocaust denial) that many nities, which were somewhat isolated from events in
Muslim Indians feel toward Jews and Israelis as a byprod- the larger Jewish world. He uses texts and archival doc-
uct of the Palestinian issue. In his remarks, Professor Aaf- uments, written in Arabic, Hebrew, Judeo-Hebrew, and more than 5,000 German-speaking refugees in India dur-
reedi noted that when he wrote an article in the Lucknow other languages, to throw light on the relationship of the ing the Second World War. While the attitude of the Brit-
Tribute in 2012, called Jews in Lucknow: Moneylender Indian Jewish communities in modern times to the wider ish government and certain sections of Indians made it
and the Watchmaker, the editor illustrated it with a clas- Jewish world of the Indian Ocean. difficult for more refugees to enter India, nevertheless
sic anti-Semitic depiction of a hook-nosed Jew. Dr. Margit Franz of Vienna University in Austria, build- the existence of such a large Jewish community in India is
Professor Aafreedi now is assistant professor of history ing on Dr. Weils work, is looking at new texts that docu- remarkable and deserves greater examination.
at the prestigious Presidency University in Kolkata, India. ment the entry of German-speaking refugees from Nazism Professor Ophira Gamliel from the Ruhr University
Professor Menashe Anzi of Ben-Gurion University is into India. It was amazing to discover that there were Bochum in Germany is taking a fresh look at the history

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of Kerala Jews by looking at cold evidence, as opposed the Jewish cultural heritage of Maharashtra, and Jael Silli-
to legends and myths current in the Jewish commu- man, who spoke about her successes in building the digi-
nity. She focuses on Old Malayalam inscriptions, tal archive of the now minuscule Baghdadi community in
Judeo-Arabic documents from the Cairo Geniza, ref- Kolkata/Calcutta.
This is a replica
erences in pre-modern Western travelogues, Jewish These three perspectives on todays Indian Jewry repre-
of a genizah
and Christian literary compositions, and references sent three different melodies of Shirei Hodu. While they in Calcutta.
in the Synod of Diamper, which was convened in 1599 do not always sound pessimistic notes, they make clear (A genizah is
in Kerala and laid down rules for the unification of that the outlook for the future is not unambiguously posi- place where
the ancient Saint Thomas Christians of Kerala with the tive, either. Nevertheless, even if the outlook for the now sacred books
Roman Catholic Church. 4,000-strong Indian Jewish community of mainly Bene that no longer
Dr. Shimon Lev, who earned his Ph.D. from Hebrew Israelis is not clear, the presence of novel Judaizing move- can be used
University last year, and Professor Boaz Huss of Ben- ments, such as the Bene Menashe of North East India and are stored
Gurion University also are looking at modern Jewish- the Bene Ephraim of Andhra Pradesh in South India, as well before they
Indian history. Dr. Lev has worked on cultural and as the newly vibrant research into Indian Jewry, past and can be buried.)
political encounters between Jews and Indians in the present, ensures that we will continue to hear about Jews
context of their respective national movements. He and Judaism in India for a long time to come.
also has made significant contributions to the study
of the relationship between Mahatma Gandhi and his Meylekh (PV) Viswanath of Teaneck is a professor of finance
Jewish followers. Dr. Huss is studying the role of Jews at Pace Universitys Lubin School of Business.
in the context of new age movements in India. At the
conference, he made a presentation on Jewish theoso-
phists in India.
There were about 50 people at the conference. By
my count, about 30 percent were Jewish. Probably 30
percent of the participants were non-Indians as well
but of course not all the Jews were foreigners. The
gathering represented an interesting mix of scholars
from all over India and the world.
One of its interesting cultural aspects was the open-
ing ceremony, which included the traditional lamp-
lighting. Usually this lamp-lighting involves an image
of the goddess Saraswati or another deity, but in
deference to Jewish sensibilities, the image was not
included. Still, the ceremony provided a very Indian
start to the proceedings.
Another Indian touch was a performance of Bene-

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Are we using our tablets today?


Federation funding supports high tech Hebrew school learning
Larry Yudelson

T
he sixth graders at Temple Beth have a place in her classroom. was conducted by an Israeli educator. It was sparked by a course the federation ran
Ors Hebrew school cant wait for If you cant beat them, join them, she said. exposed the teachers to a wide range of for principals of supplementary schools.
the magic words: Please take out She credits her new mindset largely to online tools and challenged them to learn On Monday, when northern New Jersey
your devices. an online course in educational technology to use them. public schools shut down for a snow day,
Cammy Bourcier, their Hebrew teacher in that she and nine other supplementary school It was a lot of work, Ms. Bourcier said. Temple Emanuels seventh graders took
the Washington Township synagogue, believes teachers took last summer. The course was pro- It totally stretched my brain. part in their regularly scheduled class on
in aligning with technology rather than argu- vided by Kulanu NNJ, a program that helps the The course also knocked down some of Israel, video conferencing from home, as
ing with it. communitys synagogue schools. Funding to the walls separating the religious schools. they always do on Monday afternoons. A
So whether its having the class look pay for the course came from the Jewish Fed- One of the biggest things weve seen is the teacher in Israel leads the class. The kids
something up, or competing against each eration of Northern New Jersey and the Cove- collaboration between different teachers are really involved, Rabbi Kniaz said.
other on vocabulary quizzes, smartphones nant Foundation. The distance learning course and the different religious schools, said In Devorah OBriens sixth-grade class-
Sarah David, the federations education room at Temple Emanuel, Google Slides
coordinator. has replaced worksheets. If shes teaching
The teachers have shared with each about Joshua, for example, she will pose
other more than 75 classroom activities questions and assign students to small
theyve created, ranging from quizzes on groups to research the answers on their
the Shema to getting-to-know-you ques- iPads or phones.
tionnaires for the start of the school year to Theyll put together pictures and a little
slide shows on holidays. bit of history and their own thoughts on
A couple of teachers not from our how it applies to them in their own life onto
school did these beautiful activities related a Google Slide, Ms. OBrien said. Then
to Tu bShvat, Rabbi Shelley Kniaz, the each group will present to the rest of the
director of congregational learning at Tem- class. Its very visual, very engaging, and
ple Emanuel of the Pascack Valley in Wood- everyone feels theyre a part of it, she said.
cliff Lake, said. My teachers are going to She uses Google Forms to get feedback
use them. from her students at the end of class to
Rabbi Kniaz and Rabbi Paula Feldstein of find out what interested them most and
Temple Avodat Shalom in River Edge orga- what they would like to learn next. Ms.
nized Kulanu NNJ and wrote the grants for OBrien has been teaching at Temple
the teacher training program . Emanuel for 15 years. Educational
The technology training is having a technology has made a huge change in

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and our current participants would men- She said that bringing this technology
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Norpac gathering to hear


new member of Congress
Dr. Munr Kazmir welcomes Representative Josh Gottheimer
(D-5th Dist.), who will be at a Norpac meeting in Closter on
Monday, February 20. The private dinner begins at 7 p.m. For
information, email Avi@NORPAC.net or call (201) 788-5133.

Representative
Josh Gottheimer

COURTESY FEDERATION
COURTESY NORPAC

Federation leaders meet Israel consul


Leaders of the Jewish Federation of North- Standing, from left, are Jason Shames,
ern New Jersey recently visited Ambas- the federations CEO; Bruce Brafman; Lee
sador Dani Dayan, Israels consul general Lasher; the federations president; Jayne
in New York, at his office. They discussed Petak; Ambassador Dani Dayan; the federa-
Ambassador Dayans vision of his role, tions incoming president, Stephanie Gold-
goals, and objectives during his tenure in man; Dan Shlufman; Ron Rosensweig, and
New York. They also spoke about strate- Israels deputy consul general, Amir Sagie.
gies and how the federation and the con- Roberta Abrams and Lori Fein, the director Photos from last years NBN event.  COURTESY NBN

sulate could work together with groups of the federations Jewish Community Rela-
within and without the Jewish community
to benefit Israel.
tions Committee, are seated. Nefesh BNefesh schedules
mega event in Manhattan
The annual Nefesh BNefesh Mega Event
Touro College of Pharmacy in Manhattan will be on February 26
at John Jay College in Manhattan. An
appoints local assistant dean estimated 1,500 potential olim (immi-
Heidi Fuchs of Teaneck has pharmacy, drug research grants), the largest number ever, are
been appointed assistant and development, medica- expected to attend the aliyah fair, where
dean for admissions and tion safety, nuclear phar- they can learn about moving to Israel
enrollment management at macy or managed care we and have their questions answered by
Touro College of Pharmacy. offer a wealth of rotations and professionals from all sectors of Israeli
In her new position, she will expose our students to abun- life and society.
oversee the office of admis- dant career options as we The Nefesh BNefesh fair is the pre-
sions and lead the college skillfully situate them to pur- lude to its aliyah fair road tours, called
in all aspects of admissions, sue their professional dreams Imagine Greater Possibilities, which
including recruitment and while living an observant life- will visit Toronto, Montreal, and Los from seven hospitals and four healthcare
enrollment management. Heidi Fuchs style, she added. Angeles. All the fairs are co-hosted by providers will be coming to help recruit
Heidi will ensure that our  COURTESY TOURO Founded in 2008, Touro Nefesh BNefesh, Israels Ministry of Ali- doctors to join their staff. Representa-
applicants receive the high- College of Pharmacy is the yah and Immigrant Absorption, the Jew- tives of Israels Health Ministry will be on
est levels of student service, responsive- only pharmacy school in Manhattan that ish Agency for Israel, Keren Kayemeth hand to offer on-the-spot licensing and
ness, and satisfaction, the schools dean, provides students with two years in the LeIsrael, and JNF-USA. professional consultations.
Henry Cohen, said. One of her primary classroom followed by two years in the Participants will be able to choose from There are many reasons for the
responsibilities will be to focus on recruit- field on rotation. The school has state-of- more than 50 sessions, workshops, and increase in interest among Jews in mov-
ing the most qualified students. Under Hei- the-art laboratories and a working phar- one-on-one meetings with Israeli organi- ing to Israel, ranging from the political
dis capable leadership, we will embark on macy, where students gain critical expe- zations and aliyah professionals, on topics environment in the United States to the
partnerships with other colleges and fur- rience as practicing pharmacists. TCOP ranging from home buying and education booming tech scene in Israel.
ther implement our enhanced strategic is affordable, and strives to increase the to professional licensing and health insur- We have continuously seen a rise in
plan for student recruitment. number of minority health professionals ance. Eight Israeli municipalities will be aliyah interest from North America in
There are so many rewarding and while serving under-resourced communi- represented at the fair, providing a snap- recent years, so much so that we had
exciting career paths available to the next ties and providing outreach and education shot of life across the country. to move the Mega Event to a college
generation of PharmDs, Ms. Fuchs said. about preventive care. Some of the people at the fair are likely campus to accommodate and ensure
The career is especially suited for those Ms. Fuchs has been the schools direc- just to have begun considering aliyah; for every interested individual and fam-
in the Orthodox community who seek tor of recruitment and external relations others the fair provides the important last ily gets the attention and information
a challenging, science-based profession for the last three years, and she was the pieces that allowed them to finalize their they need, said Rabbi Yehoshua Fass,
that enables them to maintain strict reli- interim director of admissions for the plans. From meetings with accountants to Nefesh BNefeshs co-founder and exec-
gious observance and achieve a work-life Touro College of Osteopathic Medicine. financial planners, shippers, and a host utive director. Now we have the ability
balance. Our graduates are charting career Before that, she was vice president and of Israeli vendors, participants will be to provide additional programming for
paths that their grandparents could never recruiter for Merit Consulting Services and briefed on a broad range of matters asso- children, significantly more sessions
have imagined. operations manager for the Yeshiva Univer- ciated with moving to Israel. on aliyah planning as well as an Israeli
Whether it is a clinical pharmacy spe- sitys office of undergraduate admissions. This year, as a response to a rising themed food market.
cialty in organ transplantation, infec- Ms. Fuchs and her husband, Alan, have number of medical professionals inter- For more information, go to www.
tious diseases or pediatrics, community four children and three grandchildren. ested in moving to Israel, representatives nbn.org.il/mega-event.

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College students convene


at L.A. leadership conference
More than 400 Israeli-American and campus, and U.S.-Israel relations, as well
Jewish-American students will gather to as social activities with a purpose, such
learn, engage, and teach at the largest-ever as Madah Al HaBar, in partnership with
Israeli-American Council Mishelanu Lead- ScienceAbroad, which will bring Israeli-
ership Conference, set to fun from Febru- American post-doctorals and profes-
ary 17 to 19 in Los Angeles. sors together with students interested
The conference has doubled in size, in science.
reflecting the overall growth of IAC The conference will include breakout
Mishelanu, which now includes more sessions on initiative-building, network-
than 1,000 students on 100 campuses in ing, policy and political organizing, stra-

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Mishelanu aims to bridge the gaps ing, Israeli-American media, and even
between Israeli-American and Jewish- Israeli music.
American college students, serving as a Over the last 10 years, the IAC, head-
hub and a home for both communities. quartered in Los Angeles, has grown to
The students explore and strengthen their include 12 regional offices, including one Keren Makleff; Jacqueline, Elana, Jeffrey and Jonathan Prezant; Liat Tretin,
Israeli, American, and Jewish identities at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in Sharon and Daphne Amir, and Ronen Mikay at last years concert.
through Israeli culture, Hebrew language, Tenafly. It is among the fastest growing
Israeli- and American-style Judaism, and
shared heritage and activism.
Jewish organizations in America.
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March concert to support families
To encourage further connection, this American Council, go to www.israe- who find themselves in crisis
year the conference will include student- liamerican.org. For conference infor- The Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in crises due to illness, loss of a loved one,
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The spirit of
innovation Daniel Straus of CareOne talks
about investing, health care, and life
Joanne Palmer

aniel Strauss conference general and on the Jewish community. objector, and a vegetarian, his son said. That
room probably would lend Hes not a doctor; he is a lawyer but he was unusual for his time; he came home with
itself to a metaphor but doesnt practice as one. Instead and as well many stories.
to come up with it, a visi- as being a generous philanthropist, a highly Joseph Strauss wife Daniels mother
tor would have to stop successful venture capitalist, a real estate also had stories. Born Gwendolyn Goldstein
gawking at the view first. developer, an owner of a basketball team, the in 1918, she grew up in Williamsburg, lived
The office is high above Memphis Grizzlies, and an unstoppable entre- through the Depression, and uncharacter-
the George Washington preneur he owns CareOne, a big tristate istically for her time and place, she went to
Bridge, on the Fort Lee area rehabilitation and senior living company college, graduating from Brooklyn College.
side. It offers a hypnotic whose well-tended buildings are visible all Her family owned a hat factory; they were
view of traffic; on a good over northern New Jersey. fairly prosperous until the Depression, when
traffic day you watch as cars, Mr. Straus also is an Orthodox Jew, deeply they werent any more, Daniel said. (The hat
trucks, and buses shoot from tied to his community; hes the son, the company still exists, he added; cousins own it
the bridge and hurl themselves brother, father, and most recently the grand- now.) She earned a bachelors and then a mas-
at the spaghetti bowlful of lanes. On father of a family that is rooted in the Ameri- ters degree in teaching, and taught second
a bad day a day, say, for traffic prob- can Jewish life. and third grade in Brooklyn public schools.
lems in Fort Lee youd get to see a panorama Mr. Straus was born in 1956 in Boro Park, After the war, Joseph and Gwendolyn mar-
of fuming drivers from your Olympian perch. Brooklyn. His father, Joseph, was born in 1912. ried and moved to Boro Park, where he prac-
The most compelling thing about the inher- In 1922 Joseph Straus and his mother fled to ticed as a lawyer, tried his hand as a politician,
ently mesmerizing view is that it is of con- Brooklyn from Uman, the legendary town that and began to develop a reputation as someone
stantly changing motion within an unchanging attracts hordes of chasidim every year as they who knew everybody and therefore was useful
structure. Its a dance of fluidity and solidity. follow the trail of Nachman of Bratslav. The for everybody to know. He was very involved
Meanwhile, the conference room smells Strauses were not Braslavers. Instead, they with the Democratic party, and he ran for
scrumptiously of brand-new furniture, all were refugees from the Bolshevists. office a couple of times, Mr. Straus said. He
leather and polish. When they arrived in Brooklyn, the was well known in Brooklyn at the time.
Its not a new room or a new office, Dan- Strauses were reunited with Josephs father, He was a general practitioner, which means
iel Straus of Englewood said. Hes been there who had left first. His father drove a laun- he was like the community lawyer for Boro
for years. But the conference room has just dry truck; Joseph was the first in his family Park, he continued. You try to explain what
been remodeled. The key is to keep it new, to go to college. He graduated from the then- a general practitioner is today, and nobody
he said. almost-brand-new Yeshiva University, with can understand it. Just as general practitioner
And theres the metaphor. Mr. Straus, who rabbinic ordination, and then went on to physicians used to take on all cases, sending
has come to care a great deal about health NYUs law school. patients to specialists only when it was neces-
care, particularly as it applies to the elderly, During World War II, Joseph Straus was a sary, so too general practitioner lawyers would
has run many successful businesses, moving chaplain, not for the armed forces but for the take all the cases that came their way. Their
from field to field, but always retaining a focus USO, stationed in Ogden Utah, and then in expertise was broad, and their relationships
on the elderly, on the health care system in Cheyenne, Wyoming. He was a conscientious were deep.

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Daniel Straus in his office
overlooking the George
Washington Bridge
Jerry Szubin

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Its not like today where you have Connecticut and New Jersey; when he
to turn people down because you dont died unexpectedly in 1978, Daniel who
agree with their ideology, Mr. Straus said. had been working as a lawyer at Paul Weis
He would represent the very Orthodox, in Manhattan and his brother Moshael
and the Conservative. In fact, he added, took them over. We formed a manage-
his fathers college roommate went on to ment company Multicare Companies
become a Conservative rabbi, and the two to operate the nursing facilities that
remained friends. our father left us, Mr. Straus said. Over
It wasnt so long ago, but the world was a period of 12 years, we built it up. It was
different then, Mr. Straus said. It was less sold in 1997 as a publicly traded company.
divided. My family was strictly Orthodox, (The buyer was Genesis Health Systems.)
but its not that the rules then were more That year, Mr. Straus pointed out, the New
relaxed they werent but people didnt York Times quoted a health care analyst,
look down on everybody else. Peter J. Sidoti, as saying that the Straus
The Straus family went to the Young brothers firm was a jewel in the nursing
Israel of Boro Park, Mr. Straus said. My home business, in quality of care and qual-
father was very involved with the reli- ity of management measured by earnings
gious Zionists, and my mother was very growth and stock price appreciation.
involved with Amit. She used to volunteer It was sold for a princely sum, Mr.
all the time. Straus said. (According to the Times, it was
Because of his parents involvement, At the Holy Name Medical Center Founders Ball, from left, Stanley Cup cham- $1.06 billion, in cash.) Repeating his quote
we had parlor meetings in our house all pion and N.J. Devils alum Grant Marshall, Devils president Hugh Weber, Daniel in the New York Times, We made a lot of
the time, where dignitaries would come to Straus, Max Weinberg of the legendary E Street Band, and Holy Names Michael money for a lot of people, he said.
talk. The subject often was the still-new Maron hold up a very large jersey. Mr. Straus was only 40 years old barely
state of Israel, which always took up a big middle-aged when Multicare was sold;
part of the Straus familys collective heart. then law school at NYU. called then. Today there are skilled nurs- the drive and energy that had gotten him
Mr. Straus went to the Yeshiva Eitz Just as he followed his fathers lead by ing, assisted living, and independent so far would not allow him to retire then.
Chaim in Boro Park for elementary school, going to law school at NYU, Mr. Straus living facilities). His father, introduced I have been a serial entrepreneur ever
and then to BTA, YUs Brooklyn-based entered the business his father had found to that world because he represented since, he said. A lot of the businesses I
high school. College was at Columbia, and congenial nursing homes (as they were nursing home owners, bought some in operate are in health care. Im also in real

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A lot of the investing I do is not in health care, but it
public is that theyre going to have better buying power
because they are bigger, but they dont have more buy-
Contemporary.
started that way, Mr. Straus said. ing power. They are getting rid of their competition, and
Some of his investments are entirely unrelated as a result they are driving up costs. They are buying
to health care. Mr. Straus owns real estate, includ- physicians practices, and as a result the physicians are
ing brownstones right next to Manhattans Whitney just employees, who dont have the same relationships
Museum, which he is turning into spectacular (and spec- with their patients that they used to have.
tacularly priced) high-end apartments. And to turn to Mr. Straus criticizes hospitals in general, but he does
something completely different not only is he a minor- not criticize all hospitals. He works closely with Holy
ity owner of the Memphis Grizzlies, he also is a vice pres- Name Hospital and Medical Center in Teaneck, which
ident of the NBA. honored him at its Founders Ball at the Pierre Hotel
But I have always believed that the best way to influ- in Manhattan in December, and he has nothing but
ence social policy is through changing the world by good praise for it.
business practices, by best practices, he said. I try to One of the reasons I agreed to be honored by Holy
influence public policy in health care by some of the Name is because it is run by the sisters, it is a local hos-
things that I do in business. pital, and it is very forward-thinking and progressive in
To that end, Mr. Straus published an op ed in the terms of its patient care, he said. It has not succumbed
New York Observer at the end of January. Free the to the need to merge, or the need to own all its doctors.
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Authority, he headlined it. He does not think that nity, local Orthodox Jews, he said. (He and his wife, Joyce
Obamacare lives up to its promise, and he believes that Gabel Straus, belong to Congregation Ahavath Torah in
it must be overhauled. His argument, which he presses Englewood.) I think it is very important to express grat-
passionately, is that the real problem with the Ameri- itude for that, he said. When I accepted the honor, I
can health care system is that hospitals, with what he wanted to say that, representing the Orthodox commu-
sees as their bloated bureaucracies, are more inter- nity. Holy Name is absolutely non-denominational. It is
ested in enriching themselves than looking after their Catholic, but it does such a wonderful job reaching out
patients. The way to restore the system is to put phy- to everybody. I just wanted to say thank you.
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aide. CareOne helped many victims of Hurricane Sandy,
and has led fundraising projects for organizations that help
children who have cancer, and their families, including the
Make-A-Wish Foundation. He also raised money and also
gave much of his own to fund breast cancer research.
Daniel and Joyce Straus have three children, Joseph and
Lizzie, who work in the family business, and Julia Baruch,
who is a yoetzet halacha she is trained and authorized by
the Orthodox community to provide halachic answers to
women on specifically womens issues. The Strauses also
have four grandchildren.
Michael Maron is Holy Names president and chief operat-
ing officer, and he is unstinting in his praise of Daniel Straus.
Daniel owns and operates CareOne, which is the major-
ity of the nursing homes in northern New Jersey, Mr. Maron
said. We have partnered with him recently in a number of
endeavors, trying to deliver value-based care through new
experimental payments, called episodes of care.
What does that mean? Traditionally, if you came to Holy
Name for, say, a knee replacement, you would be evaluated
by a physician, you would be treated by a surgeon, then stay
at the hospital, and then go to a rehab center, and then home.
Traditionally, those fragments were just that. Fragments. The Strauses celebrate Daniels 60th birthday together; from left, Charlie, in Josephs arms; Daniel; Lizzy;
They would not be well coordinated, and they would not Diana, holding Gwen; Joyce; Julia Straus-Baruch, holding her son, Jacob; and David Baruch. Jack Strauss is
be paid in a coordinated way. We treat these new episodes in front of Joseph. Charlie and Gwen are Joseph and Dianas children, Jacob is Julia and Davids son, and
of care as one episode, physicians, surgeons, hospital, sub- Jack is Lizzies son.
acute care, all in one bundle. We tell everyone, Guys, you
have to work together to care for the patient. We wanted to express Holy Names desire to be The philanthropist Angelica Berrie of Englewood
Daniel has been a thought leader in working with us in embraced by the Jewish community, and also to express our presented Mr. Straus with the award, standing along-
advancing this model. We wanted to applaud him for his gratitude to someone who is a real thought leader in terms side Mr. Maron. She, too, praised Mr. Straus. He
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Jews gather at rallies across U.S.


and urge support for refugees
JOSEFIN DOLSTEN week, a federal appeals court ruling upheld a stay on the
ban, a move praised by Jewish groups, including HIAS.
More than 100 years ago, Barnett Levine was greeted Thousands attended rallies on Sunday as part of the
by the New York skyline and the Statue of Liberty as he HIAS initiative, including in Boston, Washington, D.C,
arrived in the United States, having fled anti-Semitism and other major cities, a representative for the group
and pogroms in his native Poland. said The demonstrations had more than 20 co-sponsors,
On Sunday, his grandson saw those very same land- including the Anti-Defamation League, the American
marks when he joined about 700 others in this citys Bat- Jewish Committee, the American Jewish World Service,
tery Park downtown at a rally protesting President Don- the Union for Reform Judaism, and the Conservative
ald Trumps executive order banning all refugees from movements Rabbinical Assembly.
the country for 120 days. Mark Hetfield, the CEO of HIAS, said the rallies were a
I am the grandchild of four immigrants who came rare moment of joining together in support of refugees.
here when the gates of the United States were wide open I havent seen anything like this since I got my start
and they made a life here, Harold Levine, a 60-year-old [with HIAS] in 1989, which was at the height of the Soviet
marketing consultant, said. He added: I think that it is Jewry movement, he said. This is a galvanizing moment
the duty of the Jewish community to pay this forward to like that, but the difference is that then we were standing
other immigrants who are trying to come to the United up for Jews, and now we are standing up as Jews.
States. At the Manhattan rally, participants braved icy wind,
The rally was organized by HIAS, formerly known as hail, and rain to join in chants of When refugees are
the Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society, as part of an initiative under attack, what do we do? Stand up, fight back!
by the immigrant resettlement group called the National and Never again means never again for everyone
Day of Jewish Action for Refugees. between speeches by rabbis and clergy members, politi-
The president issued his order last month; it also cians, and leaders of Jewish groups. Among the speak-
At the Manhattan rally, Lisa Davidson said she sees parallels banned citizens of seven predominantly Muslim coun- ers were Mayor Bill de Blasio; Representative Keith Elli-
between the Holocaust and the civil war in Syria. JOSEFIN DOLSTEN tries from entering the country for 90 days. Late last son (D-Minn.); the ADLs national director, Jonathan

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refugee. share their family stories of coming to the
In Boston, speakers at a rally with several United States on social media, and to tag
hundred participants included City Coun- their posts with #ThisIsARefugee.
cilor Josh Zakim, whose father, the late We remember that we were once
Now featuring Lenny Zakim, was the longtime director of strangers, too, that Jewish refugees fleeing
the New England Anti-Defamation League; Nazi Germany and oppression during the
Michael Aram, Adi Sidler, and CJ Art Imam Faisal Khan, the director of religious
affairs at the Islamic Center of Wayland,
Holocaust were often denied entry with
claims eerily similar to some of the claims
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In this city we believe we can live in har- sons, both personal and historical. Lisa
mony, de Blasio said in New York. Its not Davidson, a 41-year-old professor who was
perfect, but we believe we can do some- at the New York rally, said she saw historic
thing that the whole world is struggling to parallels between the Holocaust and the
do, that we can all be together ... people of civil war in Syria.
all religions and backgrounds, that is what Whats going on in Syria right now is
were fighting for doesnt that fit beauti- criminal, and it is sort of reminiscent of
fully the profound Jewish concept of tikkun what happened in the Holocaust in the 30s
olam, of healing the world? and 40s, and I think that we dont want to
Ellison, who said that the rally was one repeat that again, and we dont want to sit
of the main reasons for his visit to New and say that we did nothing, Davidson said.
York, talked in his speech about the MS St. For some, the motivation came from
Louis, a ship with 900 Jewish refugees from their family history. Levine, the marketing
Germany that tried to enter the United consultant whose grandfather immigrated
States and other countries but was turned to the U.S. over a century ago, brought with
away. He called the incident a shameful him a poster saying This is personal and
time in our country. showing a photograph of his grandfather
All of our officials who worked with and his immigration paperwork.
this stuff knew about it. We cant say we I couldnt not come here. The minute
didnt know. We knew, said Ellison, who I heard about it, I thought I had to come,
is the first Muslim elected to Congress he said.
and a front-runner to lead the Democratic Elianna Kan had similar reasons for com-
National Committee. We didnt want to get ing. The 28-year-old, a translator and jour-
involved, we wanted to just mind our own nalist, said her family came to the United
business, we just kind of thought, Oh, this States in the 1970s as refugees from the
is not our issue. Soviet Union, receiving financial and logis-
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British Jews open safe space for Syrian women in Turkey


CNAAN LIPHSHIZ

ISTANBUL In a region awash


with half a million Syrian refu-
gees and the predators they
attract, home used to be the
only safe space for Samiyeh Hilo
and her infant son, Mohammed.
A teacher of English in her
30s, in 2011 Hilo was smuggled
out of her besieged city, Hama,
and into Turkey. She mostly has
stayed indoors since settling in a
camp for refugees of Syrias civil
war in the Turkish town of Isla-
hiye, 70 miles north of Aleppo.
I didnt go out much because
its not a safe environment for
me and for my child, anything
could happen, Hilo, a devout
Sunni Muslim, said during a
phone interview in Decem-
ber about her first five years in
Islahiye, a suburb of the city of
Gaziantep in Anatolia.
But Hilos situation, like that
of hundreds of other Syrian
women in Islahiye, improved
dramatically in June, when the
London-based World Jewish
Relief group and Turkish aid
workers opened a womens-only
educational and recreation cen-
ter, offering a rare safe space for
female clients. Syrian women learn English at the Womens Support Center in Islahiye, Turkey, in November. TANYA FREEDMAN/WORLD JEWISH RELIEF

It completely changed my
life, Hilo said of the center, where she now Even among more liberal refugees,
works as an English teacher for other refugees some women are hesitant to venture
while her son is in day care in an onsite nursery. alone into the street in Gaziantep, where
With an annual budget of under $200,000, 350,000 refugees constitute a fifth of
the Womens Support Center of Islahiye is oper- the population in the overcrowded city.
ated by 18 female staffers most of them refu- Relations between Turks and refugees
gees out of a three-story residential building
with a pink facade on the outskirts of Islahiye.
More than 1,500 women have used the facilities,
which World Jewish Relief designed and funds
exclusively; the Istanbul-based International
More than 1,500
Blue Crescent runs the place on the ground as women have
the implementing partner. Amenities include
a computer room with 20 machines, psycho-
used the
therapy sessions, Turkish and English-language facilities, which
classes, cooking and knitting workshops, child
care services, and literacy training.
World Jewish
Relief designed
TANYA FREEDMAN/WORLD JEWISH RELIEF

To be sure, the Womens Support Center is


not the only facility for refugees operating in the
vicinity of Islahiye and Gaziantep, a nearby city
and funds
that is a major destination in Turkey for immi- exclusively.
grants from Syria. The United Nations High Com-
missioner for Refugees, the International Blue are tense and sometimes turn violent, as
Crescent, and the Red Crescent all have commu- they did in 2014. Then thousands of Syr-
nity service units for refugees in the area, where ians left, fearing reprisals over the stab-
tens of thousands use the services. bing of a Turkish landlord by a refugee
But before the establishment of the Womens who felt he had been taken advantage of.
Support Center, there was no space for women Women are especially vulnerable,
in Gaziantep and Islahiye, Neslihan Klarslan, Syrian refugees Duaz, left, and Fatima show off two of Fatimas handmade according to a Council of Europe report
a project manager for the International Blue felt bags at the Womens Support Center in Islahiye, Turkey, in November. from last year that cited many cases of
Crescent, said in an interview at her organi- rape, pimping, sexual harassment, and
zations office in Istanbul. And this is crucial, she said, also has men. They are conservative, and their husbands gender-based violence, including in Turkey, which has
because Syrian women dont want to go to a space that dont allow it. nearly 3 million Syrian refugees. Children are another

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at-risk group, and Turkish and other bags in bright pink colors with bamboo World Jewish Relief, which has a core we get the added bonus of exposing peo-
sweatshop operators are quick to exploit handles. She sells the bags for $3. Her budget of approximately $6 million and ple to the substantial humanitarian work
them. friend Duaz, a 23-year-old mother of two about 22 salaried staff, has raised more facilitated by British Jews, but in other
Having identified the need for a wom- whose husband died while fighting in the the $1 million since 2013 for Syrian refu- cases, highlighting this could be compli-
ens-only center, the International Blue civil war, helps Fatima model the bags gees the second-most successful drive in cated, exposing projects to risk. So while
Crescent wrote a project proposal, the organizations history, according we never hide it, we dont always insist on
and last year World Jewish Relief to Richard Verber, its head of exter- PR either.
an international aid agency that nal affairs. Elsewhere in the world, other Jew-
British Jewry founded in 1933 Conducted alongside World Jew- ish groups also have raised considerable
decided to support as its only The result is a place ish Reliefs projects helping Jews in funds for Syrian refugees, including $2
sponsor.
The result is a place that stands
that stands out among Ukraine and Moldova, the Syrian aid
effort reflects not only the generos-
million by the American Jewish Joint Dis-
tribution Committees Jewish Coalition for
out among facilities for refugees facilities for refugees ity of British Jewry, but also how the Disaster Relief.
because it has a lot of joy and
hope, said Tanya Freedman, the
because it has a lot refugee experience strikes a chord
in the hearts of a community with
Coming from some of Syrias most rural
areas including Sunni provinces, where
digital communications manager of joy and hope. a strong generational memory of residents were denied education options
at World Jewish Relief. She vis- what it means to flee your home at by the oppressive Alawite minority rule of
ited the facility in November; before she while wearing a face scarf. As the women a moments notice, he said. President Bashar al Assad many refugees
started to work at World Jewish Relief, she chat at the center, Duazs boys, 3 and 5, The center does not display any men- are illiterate.
was involved in helping refugees in France. play in the nursery with Fatimas 2-year- tion of its Jewish sponsor, which is a prom- Among the centers literacy students
Most of the clients at the Womens old son, Omar. inent member of the Olam network of Jew- is 32-year-old Aliyah, a seamstress from
Support Center cover their heads, and Many of the older women are protec- ish international aid groups. Aleppo who came to Turkey six years ago
some cover their faces, according to tive of Sara and Amena, two 15-year-old And while partner groups like the Inter- with her 5-year-old daughter and husband.
strict Islamic custom. They remove the girls who are among the dozen or so teen- national Blue Crescent are aware of World Aliyah is learning to read and write in Ara-
face coverings once they are inside the agers who make use of the center. Unlike Jewish Reliefs involvement, neither party bic and Turkish, and says she hopes to
building since there are no men around, the Aleppo-born Amena, who lives with broadcasts to the clients that one sponsor teach others in her position one day.
Freedman said in an interview this week her parents, Saras family is still in Syria, is Jewishly affiliated, said Verber, whose It feels like at last Im doing something
in London. in Idlib. groups logo is made up of the left half of a of value, she said in a recent interview
One woman, 32-year-old Fatima from The women treat the girls, and Sara Star of David. with Freedman. I love having somewhere
Aleppo, uses her time at the center to especially, as though they were their own Our priority is to deliver aid to those in to go where I can feel comfortable.
socialize, but also to make elaborate felt daughters, Freedman said. need, full stop, Verber said. Sometimes JTA WIRE SERVICE

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Mans best friend dogs Brightview Tenafly. His name is Rocco.


Residents at Brightview Tenafly are growing fond of
Rocco, an eight-month old pug. He loves to snuggle
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Beginning in March, Holy Name Medical Center, the
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Good communication: Talking about your pref-
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providers.
Advance-care planning: Documenting your wishes
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Ellen Rand, hospice volunteer, former New York
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care at the end of life, and how to advocate for better
care for yourself or your loved ones.
On Wednesday, March 29 at 10:30 a.m. at the Rich-
ard Rodda Comunity Center a program on Advance
Directives: What You Need to Know will be presented.
Following a short film, Lauren Van Saders, admin-
istrative director of post-acute services at Holy Name
Medical Centers Community Hospice Program and
Villa Marie Claire Hospice, will discuss how to start the
conversation and the process, and will share tools and
resources available to create your advance directive.
The program will continue in April with talks on
Estate Planning for Elders and Patient-Centered
Care: Goals for Care at the End of Life.
For more information, visit www.holyname.org/
events or call (201) 833-3336.
Admission to all events is free. Conversation of Your
Life is an initiative of the New Jersey Health care Qual-
ity Institutes Mayors Wellness Campaign.

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Evidence-based, patient-centric,
team-directed health care for patients with AFib
When it comes to successfully In the past, treatment guidelines focused on outlining undergoing a catheter ablation procedure if antiarrhythmic
treating atrial fibrillation (AFib), medication recommendations for specific AFib patients. drugs are deemed undesirable or ineffective, explains Dr.
The new guidelines, on the other hand, are centered on Mittal.
collaboration is proving to be early diagnosis, stroke prevention and improving the It is important to understand that there is no single cause
more crucial than ever patients quality of life. For patients, this could mean hav- of atrial fibrillation, and in at least 10 percent of cases, no
ing a diagnostic targeted electrocardiogram screening, tak- underlying heart disease is found. Thankfully, more options
Atrial fibrillation, or an irregular heartbeat, can lead ing oral anticoagulation medication to reduce stroke risk or to treat atrial fibrillation are available now than ever before.
to blood clots and is associated with a higher inci-
dence of stroke and heart failure. Today, more than
2.7 million people in the U.S. live with AFib, and that
number is expected to double by 2050. Guidelines on
the management of AFib released this summer by the
European Society of Cardiology and the European
Association for Cardio-Thoracic Surgery suggest that Welcome
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this trend.
We were excited to see that the integrative
approach we practice here at Valley aligns with the
recommendations being laid out by clinical organiza-
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patient management approach. Rather than focusing
solely on ablation techniques as a treatment option,
our team works with patients to ensure appropriate
use of anticoagulation medication and address other
contributing health issues such as stress, hyperten-
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all the many people in the JCC senior Frank sailed to the U.S. in 1912 from
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Jewish Home Family to host elder abuse prevention brunch for interfaith clergy
SeniorHaven for the Prevention of Elder Abuse, the to provide shelter and to educate our community. We know this vital work.
first elder abuse shelter in New Jersey, is hosting an that elder abuse is an under-recognized and under-reported Members of the community are asked to let their religious
interfaith brunch to help clergy identify and prevent problem in our community and nationally. We have trained leaders know about the event.
elder abuse in their communities. many individuals including home health providers, hospital The event is free of charge and will take place on March
SeniorHaven was established by the Jewish Home staff, physicians, attorneys and more and continue to offer 28 from 10 a.m. To 12 p.m. at the Jewish Home at Rock-
Family, which runs the Jewish Home Assisted Living, workshops and programs on an ongoing basis. This will leigh, 10 Link Dr., Rockleigh NJ 07647. For more informa-
in River Vale, the Jewish Home at Rockleigh and Jew- be our first effort focused on educating clergy and we are tion on SeniorHaven, see http://JewishHomeFamily.org/
ish Home at Home, which provides care throughout excited about the chance to engage this important group in seniorhaven.
Bergen and Rockland counties.
Spiritual leaders are in a unique position to under-
stand and help identify elder abuse, says Jewish
Home Family President and CEO Carol Silver Elliott.
They have the opportunity to see families and recog-
nize stress, to see older adults and recognize changes.
Through SeniorHaven, our mission is really two-fold,

Test your glucose level Your Key to a


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People with diabetes and impaired glucose tolerance


are advised to spot-check their blood-glucose levels
several times daily to reduce the risk of serious com-
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plications. Thats a lot of finger-pricking, considering
that about 700 million people fall into one of those
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The Israeli company Integrity Applications put
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Prevention is at the heart of staying healthy.
described as the first truly noninvasive system for self-
monitoring glucose levels. This comprehensive and noninvasive
Instead of drawing blood, you clip the GlucoTrack evaluation by a board-certified Advanced
sensor to your earlobe. A patented combination of Practice Nurse helps detect your potential
ultrasonic, electromagnetic and thermal technologies
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Results are displayed within about a minute on a
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Heart auscultation measurements, including
required for U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA)
heart rate, rhythm, and presence of murmur
approval, and is working toward approval in China.
The DF stands for David Freger, the late Israeli Lung auscultation measurements
physicist who envisioned a novel noninvasive glucose Pulse assessments including carotid and
monitor. His colleagues Avner Gal and David Malka peripheral pulses
helped him turn it into reality. David passed away Blood glucose evaluation
from diabetes complications at age 48 in 2004, and
Limited neurological assessment
we called our device models DF to memorialize him,
Gal says. Reynolds Risk Score
GlucoTrack DF-F is intended for adults over the age
of 18 with Type 2 diabetes or pre-diabetes. Gal says a
www.ValleyHeartAndVascular.com/Screening
model for children and people with Type 1 diabetes is
in development.
The higher and faster fluctuations of glucose levels
in Type 1 make it harder to track, he explains.
Gal predicts that the simplicity of the pain-free
device will encourage people with Type 2 diabetes to
check glucose levels more often.
The device costs $2,000 and each ear clip costs
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Healthy Living & Adult Lifestyles

Easing the discomfort and complications of feeding tubes


ISRAEL21C STAFF dislodged or clogged. easily handled, replaced and removed as well as less
Inserting, replacing, and removing feeding tubes are prone to dislodging.
Anyone unable to eat food normally receives a feeding tube, unpleasant procedures for patients and time-consuming Fidmi Medical, the company he founded in 2014
a device inserted into the stomach through the abdomen. for nurses. with IP from Hadassah tech-transfer company Hada-
Globally, every year more than 1.3 million people need Israeli pediatric gastroenterologist Dr. Ishay Benuri, a sit, expects its revolutionary feeding tube to receive
feeding tubes. That translates to 4 million tubes inserted graduate of the Hebrew University of Jerusalems first BioDe- U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) approval by
each year because they need to be replaced when they get sign program, wanted to redesign feeding tubes to be more mid-2017 and CE approval in Europe sometime later.
Fidmis design delivers significant advantages over
existing feeding tubes, says CEO Shahar Millis, a
mechanical engineer with expertise in medical device
R&D and product management.
For starters, Fidmis rigid-core silicone internal
bumper keeps the tube in place better than the cur-

Rest easy knowing that rent soft bumpers meant to be removed along with the
tube. A special tool detaches the tube from the bum-
per, which then breaks up and is eliminated naturally
your loved one is receiving from the body.
That allows us to remove only the tube, so there

the best possible care from our is no need for anesthesia or endoscopy for removal,
Millis says.
However, the entire device rarely needs removing
dementia care experts... because Fidmi features disposable inner feeding tubes
easily removed and replaced externally by anyone.
The overall solution costs more or less the same to
If your loved one suffers from dementia the end user but you get an easy-to-handle, bacteria-
or related disorders, the newly expanded free, clog-free tube every week, says Millis.
Alzheimers Care Pavilion at Daughters In addition, Fidmis low profile looks discreet.
of Miriam Center/The Gallen Institute is Today when a patient first gets a feeding tube its
a long tube with a bulky connector to the source of
your answer. To better meet the needs
nutrition. When not in use, the tube must be taped
of our community, the Center has added against the skin and this often causes irritation and it
a second, newly refurbished floor to frequently falls out, Millis explains.
the pavilion, creating a safe and secure There are low-profile devices in the market but
home-like environment. they are only used after six to eight months, necessi-
tating another procedure to have the long tube device
Residents receive 24-hour medical replaced. Fidmi can be used from day one.
care in The Joint Commission accredited Millis presented the Fidmi device at the Innovations
facility from nurses and physicians in Gastroenterology international conference on Janu-
with the experience and training to ary 4 in Tel Aviv.
meet their specialized needs. The Feeding tubes in their current shape have been
interdisciplinary team creates an around since the late 1970s, and they look pretty much
the same today as they did in the early 80s, says Mil-
individualized care plan for each
lis. A lot of major corporations in this field are con-
resident. Structured activities run To find out how Daughters of Miriam Center
stantly trying to make their devices better by optimi-
from 8 AM to 9 PM every day to help may care for your loved one suffering from
zation, but they still have many limitations in terms of
maintain residents at their highest dementia, or for a tour of the new pavilion,
reliability, comfort and risks.
level of function. please contact the Admissions Department at
Its amazing that over 35 years no one came up
973-253-5358.
with a better solution. We approached it differently
With its convenient location and state- No entry fee is required for admission into any
and were able to bring solution to all major problems
of-the-art services in beautiful, private Daughters of Miriam Center/The Gallen Institute
in just one product.
program or facility.
and semi-private accommodations, our Dr. Stephen Cohen, director of acute care surgery
We are pleased to accept Medicaid, Medicare,
new pavilion is the perfect choice. at Greenbrier Medical Center in West Virginia, was so
private pay and managed care.
enthusiastic about the Fidmi prototype that he recorded
a testimonial on his iPhone for the company to post.
Current products get clogged all the time, espe-
ALZHEIMERS CARE PAVILION AT cially in nursing homes, and we should be able to
come up with a better device. Fidmi Medical has really
met an unmet need, Cohen says. This new tube
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Like so many things in life, our relationship to eat-
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The Valley Hospital unveils


plan to relocate and build
a new hospital in Paramus
Ridgewood campus will
be maintained for outpatient services

The Valley Hospital plans to build a new, operated and maintained using green
state-of-the-art hospital in Paramus. or environmentally friendly princi-
Audrey Meyers, president and CEO of ples and processes and will be in full
The Valley Hospital and Valley Health compliance with the Paramus zon-
System, said the new facility will allow ing ordinances.
Valley to meet the long-term health Moving inpatient and emergency
care needs of northern New Jersey and services to Paramus will allow Val-
ensures that residents have access to the ley to repurpose its current campus in
highest quality of care. Ridgewood for a broad range of health
On February 1, Valley filed a Certifi- care services, including an urgent-care
cate of Need application with the New center, and laboratory, radiology and
Jersey Department of Health, which endoscopy services. In addition, Valley
must approve the hospital relocation. plans to consolidate existing ambula-
Valley anticipates breaking ground in tory and outpatient services and health
2019 and the new hospital could open system business functions back to the
as early as 2023. Ridgewood campus.
The planned site for the new hos- The New Valley Hospital will com-
pital campus is on Winters Avenue in bine Valleys exceptional level of care
Paramus, 2.5 miles from Valleys cur- and dedicated staff with the latest inno-
rent location in Ridgewood and directly vations and advancements in health
across the street from the hospitals care, said Meyers. This new state-of-

Wishing you a
Wishing you a
comprehensive cancer and same-day-
surgery centers (The Luckow Pavilion).
Winters Avenue runs parallel to Route 17
the-art facility will allow us to raise the
bar in all that we do providing world
class health care, strengthening our
and the Garden State Parkway between communities and helping people and
Happy Passover
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East Ridgewood Avenue and A&S Drive.
The hospitals property is located
near the Fashion Center and Paramus
families live healthier lives.
Senator Robert Menendez, Repre-
sentative Josh Gottheimer (NJ-5), State
Park mall. Senator Bob Gordon, Assemblyman
While the new hospital has not yet Joseph Lagana, Bergen County Execu-
The Chateau been designed, it will be a state-of-the- tive James J. Tedesco III, and Paramus
art, welcoming hospital that incorpo- Mayor Richard LaBarbiera were among
At Rochelle Park rates the best practices in health care the elected officials on hand to show
facility design. Conceptual plans call their support for the new hospital. Sen-

The Chateau
96 Parkway for a 372-bed, approximately 910,000 ator Menendez, Assemblyman Lagana
Rochelle Park, NJ 07662 square-foot facility that will range in and County Executive Tedesco live in
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facility will be designed, constructed,
the Borough of Paramus
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try and regain their strength and independence.
Healthy Living & Adult Lifestyles

member of the Paramus community and the latest innovations and best
and we are excited to be the future practices in health care facility design.
home of The Valley Hospital, said It is being designed from the ground
Mayor LaBarbiera. The New Valley up to integrate innovative technology
Hospital will help revitalize an aging and the flexibility required to accom-
industrial and office-use area of Para- modate new and emerging health care
mus, bring much needed roadway models. To enhance privacy and com-
improvements, provide economic fort as well as improve the quality of
benefits for the entire town, and diver- care provided, the new hospital will
sify a retail-dependent tax base. Val- be built with single-patient rooms.
ley has always supported Paramus Research has found that patients cared
through sponsorships and commu- for in single-patient rooms experience
nity programs, and consistent with shorter lengths of stay, fewer sleep dis-
their philosophy of giving back, Val- turbances and lower rates of hospital-
ley has committed to work with us on acquired infections.
new initiatives. The plans for the new hospital also
Valleys continuous efforts to inno- call for the creation of universally
vate and elevate the level of care they sized rooms for surgery and proce-
provide demonstrates their stead- dures. These rooms will be designed
fast dedication to the people they to accommodate the latest in health
serve, said Senator Bob Menendez. care technology and meet all of the
The New Valley Hospital means standards to allow them to be used for
increased services for patients, more general surgery, minimally invasive
jobs for area residents, and greater robotic surgery, cardiac catheteriza-
access for families across northern tions or endovascular procedures.
New Jersey to the latest advancements While our staff has long been rec-
in health care now and in the future. ognized for the quality of care they
I am excited about the potential deliver to our patients in Ridgewood What Life Is Like at Brightview Tenafly
for Valleys new, modern hospital to where we consistently rank at the top
transform care for our residents and of patient satisfaction in New Jersey It is a full day to look forward to.
bolster our economy by supporting modern, single-patient rooms in our
local businesses and bringing good new facility will allow us to provide Rediscovering favorite pastimes. Sharing meals with friends. Enjoying the privacy
jobs to northern New Jersey, said our patients and their families with an to hear yourself think.
Representative Gottheimer. even higher level of care and service,
For all of us who live here, raise our said Meyers. Brightview Tenafly is filled with people who are comfortable, who feel at home,
families here or work here, access to Meyers said that Valley is committed who are rejuvenated and gain the energy to pursue their passions.
quality health care is an essential compo- to working with the town to improve
nent of our quality of life. Valley has been traffic flow in the area and that one An appreciation for possibilities rather than limitations is the focus.
the hospital of choice for my family, and of the advantages to this site were
Everyone enjoys Brightview.
this new project will ensure future gen- its multiple entry and exit points,
erations have access to the highest qual- which would mitigate any impact to Residents are engaged in a full calendar of intellectual and cultural pursuits,
ity care, said State Senator Bob Gordon. local streets. sports and exercise, music, art and travel.
This is a milestone day for Ber- We very much look forward to con-
gen County, said County Executive tinuing to work with Mayor LaBarbiera Mom and Dad enjoy themselves and are no longer isolated in a house that has
Tedesco. Valleys commitment to the and the council, and will be hosting gotten to be too much.
community has been unwavering, and town hall meetings for the residents
this exciting project will not only pro- of Paramus to introduce our project Everyone sleeps better at night.
vide greater access to health care for to the borough, said Meyers.
the residents of Bergen County, but Valley has launched a new website,
will also strengthen our local economy www.TheNewValleyHospital.com and Please call Richard
by creating new jobs. Bergen County a Facebook page, Facebook.com/The- to schedule a personal visit.
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Editorial
Interesting times
TRUTH REGARDLESS OF CONSEQUENCES

Will Cory Booker vote against


I Americas ambassador to Israel?
t might be a clich that it is a curse to live in interest-
ing times, but right now we are in a position to judge

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it for ourselves.
Remember the end of history? That was the lovely y the time you read this column, you prob- community, who made him the single largest recipi-
theory that gained traction in the 1990s, when the Ameri- ably will know whether David Friedman, ent of pro-Israel contributions in the nation, Cory
can political scientist Francis Fukuyama told us that we in an Orthodox Jewish lawyer, philanthropist, defended the nuclear agreement with the genocidal
the West had reached the summit of human achievement, and major supporter of Israel, was con- Iranian regime. This even while Iran repeatedly
and that the summit was flat, filled with bright flowers and firmed this week as the next U.S. ambassador to Israel. threatened a second holocaust of the Jewish people
their sweet perfume, and it is stretched on forever. (Okay, he And we in New Jersey will also know if our junior sena- and funded terrorism around the world. Cory fre-
didnt use those words, but it was his implication.) tor, my close friend Cory Booker, voted for or against quently uses social media to communicate, so it
Boy was he wrong. him. therefore was downright mystifying when he failed
If in fact the 1990s were the summit of human perfection Why Cory specifically? First, because he recently to post anything from Israel during his visit last sum-
in the West, then that summit actually was a jagged peak, joined the Senate Foreign Relations Committee and mer. This year he has opposed his colleagues efforts
and we are sliding down it, gaining speed, bouncing over will be questioning Friedman directly. Second and to completely condemn the U.N. for passing a one-
the rough parts, breaking bones and dreams as we go. more important, there is a growing evolution in Corys sided resolution attacking Israel and denying the
Maybe perfection was too boring. Maybe history had to position on Israel. He is becoming more aligned with Jewish right to Judaisms holiest sites in Jerusalem.
go on because there is no narrative in perfection, and we the political left, which often finds itself Voting against Friedman to placate the
human beings crave narrative. unfairly at odds with the Jewish state. far left would be unfortunate and inter-
We certainly are living a story now. As a plot, its a doozy. As everyone reading this column knows, preted as succumbing to further politi-
It has too many insane twists and impossible turns to be Cory once was a steadfast friend and a cal pressure against his core convictions.
anything but real life; no editor would buy it if it were fiction. reliable supporter of Israel. I do not in any Anti-Israel organizations and those on
And it has far too many literally insane characters, pinch- way question his love for the Jewish state the far left are mounting a campaign to
me motivations, and odd speech tics for even the largest and his commitment to its security. I do, derail Friedmans nomination because of
writing room, fueled with every legal or illegal drug in the however question, whether he is allowing his belief that Jews have the right to live
world, to think of. himself to succumb to pressure from the anywhere in their homeland, and that
And then theres Twitter. Pause for a second to think far left to criticize Israel. Jerusalem, Israels eternal capital, should
about the sheer improbability of Twitter, and then move on. That Cory is tending in that direction Rabbi be the site of the U.S. embassy. I hope that
If we were to hunt for a bright spot in this mess and we overall is demonstrated by his precedent- Shmuley the Senate Foreign Relations Committee
must, because we are human beings, and like plants most setting testimony and condemnation of Boteach will have ignored the attacks during his
of us cant help but contort ourselves toward the light it Senator Jeff Sessions, now our attorney hearing this week and moved his success-
would be in how it is driving all of us to be more and more general. Cory had every right to criti- ful nomination to the Senate floor.
involved. There is not much blandness around right now. cize him if he found him objectionable. What made After the president nominated him, Friedman
People have opinions, and they voice them, and not just his testimony contradictory, however, was that just said, I intend to work tirelessly to strengthen the
about politics. About everything. People seem to have found a year ago he had significantly praised Sessions for unbreakable bond between our two countries and
their voices, and thats a good thing. working together with him to promote civil rights. He advance the cause of peace within the region, and
We see it here at the Standard. We are sent more opin- said in February 2016 that he felt blessed and hon- look forward to doing this from the U.S. embassy in
ion pieces, more letters, more story suggestions, than I can ored to have partnered with Senator Sessions in being Israels eternal capital, Jerusalem. This is precisely
remember ever seeing before. Look at this weeks paper the Senate sponsors of a congressional gold medal, the position we should expect from our next ambas-
social justice committees, impassioned debates about which was awarded to those people who marched sador, and may I say its about time.
Orthodox womens roles, more looks at the Holocaust, from from Selma to Montgomery in 1965. For too long, American ambassadors have been
new angles. Somethings up. The same can be said of Corys criticism of Betsy forced to toe the line drawn by timid State Depart-
Maybe partly its the time of year. The sap will be rising DeVos to be education secretary, and his vote against ment officials, whose phobia over Arab reactions
in trees soon (to get all horticultural); its getting dark later, her, because of her support for charter schools. Cory to U.S. support for Israel have prevented the United
the groundhog did whatever it is that groundhogs do, which had up until then been a staunch supporter of char- States from recognizing Jerusalem as Israels capital
means that no matter what, dismal winter has less than six ter schools and someone who worked to advance their and relocating the embassy to the city.
weeks left. Even the thought of spring does things to us. cause with the very same Betsy DeVos. For too long, our ambassadors have seen the need
But its not only that. There are ideas rising like sap. Many But what most concerns me is Corys position on to criticize the democratically elected government
of us are worried, but many turn that worry into the fuel Israel. After years of pledging support to Israel in of Israel publicly for protecting the interests of the
that propels us forward. front of audiences drawn from the American Jewish people of Israel.
We dont have any idea of how this story weve just begun And for too long our ambassadors have blamed
will end, but one thing is certain. It will be very, very inter- Shmuley Boteach, Americas Rabbi, is the author of 30 Israel for the ongoing dispute with the Palestinians,
esting. Well be talking about it for generations after it ends. books, including his most recent, The Israel Warrior. rather than acknowledge the obstacle to peace is the
 JP Follow him on Facebook @RabbiShmuley. Palestinians refusal to accept the idea of a Jewish

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state coexisting next to a Palestinian state.


J Street predictably is leading the opposition
to Friedman because the group is fundamentally
opposed to Israeli democracy, insisting that its
members, sitting in the comfort of their homes
6,000 miles away, know better than the people of
Israel who should govern their nation and protect
them from their enemies. J Street does not believe
Jews have a legitimate claim to Judea and Samaria
or the right to live in all of their homeland. Further-
more, the group is out of step with Congress and
mainstream Jews who support moving the embassy
and recognizing Jerusalem as Israels capital.
Prodded by J Street, Friedman has been chal-
lenged about his past support for Jews in the com-
munity of Beit El. The world may villainize the
families as settlers, but they have every right to
live in the land of Israel. The territory may be dis-
puted, but Jews should not be barred from living
there just as Palestinians are not barred from liv-
ing in Israel and Friedman cannot be criticized
for making legal contributions to support Jews in
that community.
Friedman likely will be asked about his views
on a two-state solution. He should not be pun-
ished for his skepticism about the idea; he should
be applauded for his realism. Unlike many Middle
East commentators, Friedman knows the Palestin-
ians have been offered the possibility of statehood
no fewer than seven times going back to 1937. They Last Sunday, hundreds stood in the rain in Manhattan for a rally in support of refugees that was
missed every opportunity because of their refusal organized by HIAS. JOSEFIN DOLSTEN

to accept the idea that one of the two states would


be a Jewish state.
Democrats have obstinately united in opposition As Jews, we must take sides

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to Trumps cabinet nominations as is their right.
Support for Israel, however, has always been bipar- n January 21 I took my ritual prayer shawl my Jews went like sheep to the slaughter, that they should have
tisan because Republicans and Democrats recog- tallit and my sign, reading Orthodox Rabbi done more to protect themselves. I knew my grandparents
nize that Israel is the only democracy in the Middle Against Trump with Hate outlined in the friends were smugglers, couriers, and fighters in the Warsaw
East, the only reliable U.S. ally in the region, and background, and left my home. Ghetto uprising, and that they were partisans and poets. I
a nation that shares American values and interests. With hundreds of thousands of fellow New Yorkers was deeply knowledgeable about the rich cultural life that
President Obama undermined that bipartisan tra- around me, the street became my synagogue. I thought of thrived amid such persecution. I was raised to believe in
dition by his attacks on Israeli policy and its prime the blessing recited upon seeing such a large mass of people, peoples inherent spiritual strengths, as opposed to think-
minister, and by forcing Democrats to choose party where tradition blesses God as the knower ing I understood why they deserved whatever
loyalty over Israeli security when he demanded of secrets. What brought each of us here? suffering that had befallen them.
their support for the catastrophic nuclear deal he Were we marching for an ideal or against a Where were we then? We, who by chance
signed with the genocidal regime in Iran. leader? The answers were varied, the secrets and luck, found ourselves in positions of
I am confident that Democrats on the commit- unknown. power and places of privilege in our country,
tee will reaffirm the bipartisan support for Israel. The glory of the King is magnified by the which sings Give me your tired, your poor,
Staunch friends of Israel, such as Minority Leader multitude of people, say the sages of the Tal- your huddled masses yearning to breathe
Chuck Schumer of New York, Ben Cardin of Mary- mud. This felt appropriate as I saw countless free? Where are we now? As a rabbi, I think
land, and Robert Menendez of New Jersey, were people of varying ethnicities and backgrounds, of the rabbis and community leaders before
the only Democrats with the backbone and wisdom with posters and chants just as diverse. Still, me, who pleaded with the president and
to vote against the nuclear deal and they will not be there was a unity, not conformity, in this Rabbi Avram powers that were, who organized and took
swayed by the extremists in their party. conglomeration. Mlotek to the streets to protest and demand action.
Although Cory made a catastrophic call on the As the week went on and the president There must have been voices, like there are
Iran nuclear agreement, lets hope that going for- announced his executive orders on immigra- today, that implored rabbis to stay away from
ward he will ally himself with these staunchly pro- tion, I was thrust backward in time, looking through my politics, not to ruffle feathers, not to overly politicize. But
Israel Democratic colleagues in standing up for grandparents photo albums and reading their stories. As a there also were rabbis who accepted their mantle, who
Americas foremost ally and closest friend. grandchild of Holocaust survivors and refugees, I often think knew that they were part of a prophetic tradition that val-
about the worlds silence and Americas delayed interven- ued the sanctity of human life and were unafraid to rise
tion during World War II. While FDR and the Allies knew of up for the vulnerable.
the heinous war crimes being perpetuated against the Jews I see my family and community today my Jewish commu-
of Eastern Europe, the press failed to report these atroci- nity so protective of the memory of the Holocaust, of Hit-
ties though the Yiddish newspapers kept their readership ler, of the exceptionalism about the barbarism of Nazism that
The opinions expressed in this section are those of informed. I remember as a teenager wondering what if allows them blinders stopping them from bearing witness to
the authors, not necessarily those while reading While Six Million Died by Arthur Morse, and the suffering of today. I see my community as so confident in
feeling full of shame. I have felt that same stomach-churning its own mythologized sense of its own uniqueness that it for-
of the newspapers editors, publishers, or other
uneasiness over the past years of the Syrian genocide, but gets the charge of serving as a light unto the nations and fails
staffers. We welcome letters to the editor.
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Send them to jstandardletters@gmail.com.
I imagined: how might I resist, if I were an innocent Syr- I see my people spiritually stuck in a place of
ian fleeing persecution? As a native Yiddish speaker, I never fear that does not allow them to fulfill the sacred
accepted the claim of the weak shtetl Yid, the idea that SEE SIDES PAGE 45

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Lest we swallow each other alive


Remembering Rev. Peter Marshall

M
ore than 2,500 years ago, Emanuel of North Jersey, continues this floor: Help our leaders to individuals, had moral obli-
t h e P ro p h e t Je re m i a h tradition by including a brief prayer for weigh their words, that their gations that must transcend
warned, Seek the peace the United States in our Shabbat morn- words may carry weight. party loyalty, despite criti-
and well-being of the city ing worship, as do many contemporary At times, Marshall cou- cism from personal detrac-
where I have sent you into exile, and pray congregations. We elevate this prayerful pled his characteristically tors and adverse media
to the Lord on its behalf, for in its peace effort to a greater level of intensity with poetic turn of phrase with attention:
and well-being you will find your peace our annual observance of Presidents Day, a point illustrated through Forgive us, O God, that
and well-being ( Jeremiah 29:7). attended by a broad segment of the Jew- accessible metaphor and we are so anxious, in all
Several centuries later, Rabbi Chanina, ish community, as well as elected officials popular cultural imagery: we say and do, to have the
the assistant high priest, put Jeremiahs representing a variety of political persua- We pray, O God, that Rabbi Joseph approval of men, forgetting
sentiment into even more compelling sions and religious faiths. Thou wilt fill this sacred H. Prouser that it is Thy approval that
terms: Pray for the peace and well-being As we draw upon our prescribed lit- minute with meaning and brings us peace of mind and
of the government. Were it not for the urgy or devise our own prayers for our make it an oasis for the clear conscience. Make us
fear thereof, people would swallow each country, we do well to remember the sto- refreshment of our souls, aware of the record Thou
other alive (Pirkei Avot 3:2). ried career of a clergyman who devoted a window cleaning for our vision, and a art writing We need to remember that
George Washington instinctively much of his time and considerable skill recharging of the batteries of our spirits. there is no party in integrity, no politics
assented to Jeremiah and Chaninas call to that effort. Rev. Peter Marshall, a Scot- Let us have less talking and more think- in goodness.
for prayer in 1789, when he added the tish immigrant and Presbyterian minis- ing, less pressure and more prayer. For if Marshall also often addressed the
improvised So help me God to the oath ter, occupied the pulpit of churches in we are too busy to pray, we are far bus- closely related issue of personal spiri-
of office prescribed by Article II of the Atlanta and Washington, D.C., before ier than we have any right to be. Speak tual hypocrisy and superficial public
United States Constitution. Every presi- being appointed chaplain to the United to us, O Lord, and make us listen to Thy piety. May our faith be something that
dent since has followed his example. As States Senate. Tragically, he died of a broadcasting station that never goes off is not merely stamped on our coins, but
Presidents Day (a late reformulation of heart attack at the age of 46, just two the air. expressed in our lives, he prayed before
George Washingtons Birthday, Febru- years into his Senate ministry. His widow, So, too: Save us from hotheads that the Senate adjourned to celebrate Inde-
ary 22, which follows soon thereafter) Catherine, wrote a popular biography of would lead us to act foolishly, and from pendence Day in 1947. Similarly, Deliver
approaches this year, it is a particularly her late husband, titled A Man Called cold feet that would keep us from acting us from the error of asking and expect-
propitious moment for us to adopt our Peter. The movie adaptation by the same at all. ing Thy blessing and Thy guidance in our
first presidents prayerful example. name was nominated for an Academy The young Senate chaplains prayers public lives while closing the doors to
Jews have acted on Jeremiahs coun- Award in 1955. frequently addressed the national mis- Thee in our private living.
sel in many countries throughout our I have turned to the collected Senate sion of the United States, and its moral Notwithstanding his public responsi-
history. In my rabbinic study a leather- prayers of Peter Marshall from time to implications: Our Heavenly Father, if it bilities, Rev. Peter Marshall was first and
bound, gilded 1896 Viennese siddur is on time in my own congregational work, as, be Thy will that America should assume foremost a pastor, a man of God. Help
display. The book invokes Gods bless- too, in my personal life of prayer. His wis- world leadership, as history demands us, O God, to treat every human heart
ing upon the Fatherland, and specifi- dom and spiritual sensitivity continue to and the hopes of so many nations desire, as if it were breaking, and to consider
cally upon unserm Kaiser, the Austrian serve the nation well. During the week of make us good enough to undertake it. the feeling of others as we do our own.
Emperor Franz Josef I, and on the royal Washingtons Birthday in 1947, for exam- Marshall reminded his Senate flock Help us to be gentle, and to control our
family. My own community, Temple ple, Rev. Marshall prayed on the Senate that not only the nation, but they as tempers that we may learn to love one

The halachic ethos and female clergy

I
n a recent column, Rabbi Mitchell halachic ruling, as Rocklin theorized. By its accorded to each of these as an appreciation for, and
Rocklin of the Tikvah Fund, who is own admission, the panel refrained from [halachic] concerns as well as application of, tradition as
an executive committee member of issuing a classic teshuva or rabbinic respon- whether each carries definitive the guide by which new ideas,
the Rabbinical Council of America, sum, but instead wrote a position paper significance independently challenges and circumstances
misrepresented the Orthodox Unions newly that summarizes our extensive deliberations or cumulatively. Instead, the are navigated. Halachic ethos
announced policy prohibiting female clergy [and] . . . conclusions. It underscored that panel held that these [hala- analysis, the panel added,
(Closing the door on Open Orthodoxy: the conclusions were not based on any partic- chic] considerations combined assesses whether proposed
Why the Orthodox Union prohibited female ular black letter biblical injunction. Nowhere with [non-halachic] factors dis- changes and accommodations
clergy, February 9). did the panel mention the supposed biblical cussed below, impose a legal will enable the community
He claimed that the OU prohibited women prohibition Rocklin referenced. Rather, the preclusion to the appointment Daniel D. to advance the objectives of
clergy under strict halacha ( Jewish law), as panel emphasized that [t]he issue of female of women clergy. Edelman an authentic Torah ethos, or
contrary to the biblical prohibition of fol- clergy is complex, and touches upon not only Rather than substantiat- simply accommodate prevail-
lowing the religious paths of other nations. the dictates of halakhah, but also upon funda- ing a ruling on pure halachic ing values and expectations,
Rocklin understood the OU to be making a mental issues in our hashkafat olam (world grounds, the panel highlighted the Hal- often in opposition to the Torah worldview.
definitive statement about who may and may view). akhic Ethos as the primary basis for its The panel ascribed this halachic ethos
not be called Orthodox. He characterized The position paper only sparingly decision. It characterized this ethos as a methodology to Rabbi Dr. Joseph B. Soloveit-
proponents of female clergy as dissidents, addressed objective halachic bases for pro- collective world view emerging out of chik (the Rav). It wrote: For the Rav, the
and recommended that they leave the Ortho- hibiting female clergy. Just two of the posi- general directives in the Torah, such as appreciation that Torah values could be
dox community. tion papers 17 pages are devoted to Hal- the biblical requirements of being holy and derived through the examination of the
In fact, the eminent rabbinic panel com- akhic Perspectives on Women Clergy. And doing goodness. It explained that this hala- Torahs legal sources was fundamental to
missioned by the OU to examine the ques- the position paper disclosed: Members of chic ethos underlie[s] the oft-referenced an understanding of Torah and the hal-
tion of female clergy did not make a pointed this group differ as to the relative weights concept of masorah, which is defined akhic decision making process. The panel

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another. Give us the grace so to live this prayer he intended to deliver on the Sen-
day. It is not difficult to imagine the ate floor the next day. In both word and
interpersonal dynamics that inspired deed, he, too, seems to have embraced
the chaplain to address such rudiments the wisdom of Rabbi Tarfon. His prayer
of spirituality on the floor of the United was read in his name by a visiting mem-
States Senate. ber of the clergy:
When faced with difficult decisions or Deliver us, our Father, from futile
complex matters of policy and principle, hopes and from clinging to lost causes,
I often have turned to my favorite Peter that we may move into ever-growing
Marshall prayer, both timeless and timely calm and ever-widening horizons. Where
in its wisdom: Give to us clear vision that we cannot convince, let us be willing to
we may know where to stand and what to persuade, for small deeds done are better
stand for because unless we stand for than great deeds planned. We know that
something, we shall fall for anything. we cannot do everything. But help us to
Peter Marshall not only prayed for his do something.
country, he taught his countrymen about Let us all do something as Presidents
the nature of prayer, its limitations, pit- Day nears. Let us continue the work of a
falls, and potential: man called Peter, who died too young,
Sometimes we pray for that which but whose memory endures as a blessing
is already ours, neglected and unused. to us all.

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Sometimes we pray for that which can Seek the peace and well-being of the
never be ours and sometimes for that city where I have sent you into exile, and
which we must do for ourselves. How pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its
many times we never pray at all, and peace and well-being you will find your
then work ourselves to death to earn peace and well-being.
something that is ours for the asking. Pray for the peace and well-being of
Help us to understand that faith without the government.
works is dead and works without faith Lest we swallow each other alive.
can never live.
Whenever I conduct a funeral, I Joseph H. Prouser is the rabbi of Temple
include the words of Rabbi Tarfon, apt Emanuel of North Jersey in Franklin
reflections on human mortality recorded Lakes.
in Pirkei Avot: The day is short and there
is much work to be done. You are not
obligated to complete the task, but nei- The Rev. Peter Marshall preaches
ther are you free to desist from it. When at a sunrise service in suburban
Peter Marshall died, he left behind a Maryland in 1942.

acknowledged, for example, that the Rav the former takes stock of factual and subjec- in which we live, such as those impacting to the observance of halacha and who seek
employed halachic ethos considerations tive considerations. The Rav accentuated this synagogue architecture, writing that care to remain within the Orthodox camp.
more than 60 years ago in requiring that girls distinction, writing that the [t]he changes should continue to be taken to construct Inevitably, there are a growing number
receive the same talmudic education as boys. in the realm of fact do not have a bearing mechitzot (separation barriers between men of female clergy proponents, institutions,
To deduce the halakhic ethos of gender upon the a priori halakhic norm, but . . . the and women) that . . . are also sensitive to the and organizations within Orthodoxy. Those
roles in synagogue leadership, the panel ethos must be differently conceived. Where degree of engagement with the services. Yet, groups see resistance to female clergy titles
relied almost entirely on [d]ifferences Torah values are at issue, the Rav recognized the panel felt constrained at this time from and roles as morally reprehensible, not
between the roles of men and women that that [o]nly the general norm was legislated extending this flexibility to [t]he formal because of a desire to conform with societal
the Rav referenced in various lectures. The by God: Be moral and lead a saintly life, be structure of synagogue leadership. expectations but because such a discrimina-
panel then concluded that [w]e believe that holy and that there are an unlimited variety Certainly, eminent Torah scholars and tory prohibition is inconsistent, in their view,
these distinctions are not merely a relic of of ways in which the general norm could be halachic authorities have a right indeed with the obligations of morality and holiness
times bygone but reflect a Torah ethos a implemented. the obligation to issue policy statements that are integral to the halachic ethos and thus
masorah of different avenues and empha- Consistent with this subjective halachic about serious changes affecting the halachic to the observance of mitzvot and the sustain-
ses by which men and women are to achieve ethos approach, the panel acknowledged that ethos. They are the stewards of the masorah. ability of the Jewish people. As long as such
identical goals the service of God and the differing factual circumstances play a part in But it is also vital to appreciate the sensitiv- roles and titles are not uniformly deemed to
perpetuation of the Jewish people. Yet again, assessing the changing roles of women in ity and scope of such decision-making. The be in violation of strict halacha, it behooves
however, there was disagreement among the modern Orthodox community. It wrote panels position paper was not a teshuva those who genuinely care about the masorah
panel members, with the majority opinion [r]ole distinctions are not absolute and defining who may be considered Orthodox, to remain united in promoting halachic obser-
finding that the appointment of women it encourage[d] mothers and fathers to and no one should exploit it as such. In fact, vance and morality, even if there is no univer-
clergy would be a contradiction to this hal- assume appropriate roles and responsibili- the OU emphasized that there must be fur- sal consensus on the female clergy issue.
akhic ethos. ties for their family circumstances despite ther discussion based on achdut [unity] Let us all promote unity, not the schism
Moreover, as the panel recognized, hal- archetypical parenting roles in our tradition. and mutual respect . . . by convening and Rabbi Rocklin desires.
akhic ethos analysis differs from a pure It also acknowledged that the halachic ethos promoting substantive dialogue, and . . . to
halachic determination, in that the latter is strong enough to allow for some public reach out and be inclusive, and resist push- Daniel D. Edelman of Teaneck is a New York
generally is an objective assessment while gender-based changes reflective of the world ing away any individuals who are committed City attorney.

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Supporting our kids in college

O
ver the past several years, a hostility toward Israel in the last year, bacon at him in the cafete- Jewish students, even those
key and growing concern of and nearly 60 percent of the schools ria and called him Jew- with significant Jewish
our Jewish community has with the most Jewish students had inci- boy. Several local high identity and knowledge of
been: How do we prepare dents involving the targeting of Jewish schools have been defaced Israel, feel helpless when
our teens to be proud Jews and support- students for harm, anti-Semitic expres- with swastikas and similar a classmate, roommate or
ers of Israel once they are in college? sion, or BDS activity. Rutgers, Wiscon- graffiti. According to the friend expresses anti-Israel
The Boycott, Divest, and Sanction sin, NYU, and other popular schools Bergen County Prosecu- views that all too often
movement has generated alarming were named for having an especially tors office, these types of have become mainstream.
levels of anti-Israel rhetoric and anti- high number of incidents. Nearly half of incident are on the rise. Others feel uncomfortable
Semitism on college campuses. Tactics Jewish survey respondents had heard The impact on our chil- Lori Fein because they do not know
have grown more hostile as well as more messages such as Israelis behave like dren takes many forms. enough facts to counter
strident. Some methods used at numer- Nazis toward the Palestinians, and Students active in political common lies such as the
ous campuses, through coordinated about one-quarter were blamed for and social causes may find themselves apartheid analogy or defend their
national funding and training, include the actions of the Israeli government excluded from some groups, particu- point of view. Rather than confronting
public displays accusing Israel of being because they were Jewish. larly progressive ones, because of their someone they care about, many choose
an apartheid or Nazi-like state, demon- If you think this is limited to college support for Israel. Many attempts to to change the subject. The resulting
strations such as die-ins or fake evic- campuses, think again. Northern New remove Jewish students from student disengagement from the debate leaves
tion notices slipped under dorm room Jersey Jewish teens face anti-Semitism council and other leadership positions a sense that discussing Israel invites
doors, and persistent disruption and in school, extracurricular activities, and have cited visits to Israel on a Birthright unease.
attempts to shut down pro-Israel speak- summer programs. Teenagers involved trip as a basis for disqualification. Even Not all criticism of Israel is illegiti-
ers. In contrast to sincere debate on the in a Jewish Federation of Northern New non-Jewish students with no particu- mate. As with any complicated topic,
issues, BDS efforts are designed to dele- Jersey effort to address such issues had lar views on the underlying issues have reasonable minds can differ on any
gitimize the Jewish state and intimidate many stories to tell. One high school been attacked by BDS activists, some- number of issues. This makes it all the
American Jewish students. sophomore stopped wearing a Star of times with frightening results. more difficult to distinguish legitimate
Its working. A recent survey by the David to school, hoping that the relent- Not every student seeks leadership debate from delegitimization and pro-
Steinhardt Social Research Institute at less taunts about Israelis being killers positions. But when Jewish students feel paganda. Nuanced discussions of com-
Brandeis University found that more would cease. Another teen reported uncomfortable expressing their views plex issues can get lost in the clear good
than half of Jewish students reported that on a summer program after his on Israel, they are silenced before they vs. evil narrative of Israels detractors.
being exposed to anti-Semitism and freshman year, other students threw begin a conversation. Time and again As parents prepare to send their kids

Cry, the beloved country

W
e should all be ashamed on the right have many ideas that offend But then we moved forward the sidelines. Simply not
and embarrassed. the majority of the people. Some of these together as one country, com- promoting policies that you
We all should be very ideas are so scary and beyond the pale of mitted to working to make like, or even promoting poli-
ashamed and very embar- what is acceptable in a capitalistic repub- our nation great. cies that are offensive to you,
rassed by our part in the political climate, lic that in any sane time in history most Alas, the time of accep- isnt enough.
rhetoric, and lack of civility in the United of them would be marginalized. Instead, tance and civility has passed Like South Africa in the
States. We have reached a point where these charlatans, who claim to have magic and vitriol is the name of 1940s, as brilliantly cap-
only lip service is paid to diversity, because elixirs to cure our countrys woes and who the game. This occurs now tured in Alan Patons novel
true diversity of thought is not allowed. If yell loudly and obscenely at any opposi- through the relative anonym- Cry, the Beloved Country,
you are conservative, differences are not tion, have risen to the highest offices in ity of social media, where Daniel M. our beloved country is at a
applauded if you dare to come out as being our land. people (myself included) feel Shlufman crossroads but we seem
pro-choice and in favor of gun control and During my lifetime there have been mas- that it is not only proper but to be heading toward a time
against school vouchers. If you are liberal, sive disagreements over policies. These actually required to argue of separation, not reconcili-
differences are not applauded if you dare included the Vietnam war and affirmative with people we dont know, using more ation. Its not that we cant handle the
to come out as being pro-life, pro guns, or action. Each side was vocal about its posi- emotion than facts. If posting articles truth as Jack Nicholson famously said in
pro-Israeli settlements. tion, organized people and politicians to relaying other peoples thoughts passes as A Few Good Men. Its that we are too lazy
The Republicans and Democrats dont garner support and advocated vigorously support for a position, then we are headed to take the time to figure out what the truth
have big tents. Instead, they have a Big for its side. Sometimes your side won and toward the death of independent thought is for ourselves. We would rather have the
Top, where those with the loudest mouths, sometimes your side lost. When you won, and intellectualism. Both parties are quick talking heads of CNN, Fox, or MSNBC feed
who are willing to insult anyone in their you took your victory and savored it, but to grab the mantle of the Holocaust or fling us the party.
path, get the most attention. These dem- you did not lord it over those who did not. the name of Hitler to put down a person or When cities and states set up sanctuar-
agogues rose to the top of our political We were one nation. And when you lost, position on the other side. Jews often stay ies to protect illegal aliens who are accused
consciousness by doing exactly what our you accepted the loss and either let it go, silent on this, and at their worst are acces- of crimes rather than following federal law
mothers told us not to do by putting oth- or, if it was important enough (for exam- sories when their partisanship causes (whether you like the law or not), protest-
ers down so they could rise up. It is the ple, civil rights cases before the Supreme them to participate in this bastardization ing has moved toward anarchy. It is not
complete opposite of our Jewish teach- Court), you reenergized your side for a and degradation of the crime against our about politics, it is about the rule of law.
ings about doing unto others as you would fight at another time, when politics might people. Until a party or politician advo- This time it is immigration, but for another
have them do unto you. It doesnt matter be more in your favor. Then you worked to cates the murder of an entire group of president it could be about paying taxes to
that some people on the left and others elect officials who supported that position. people, we ought to keep these terms on support universal healthcare or abortion

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Opinion

off to college, they need to do more Chloe Valdary, Shahar Azani, and
than teach them to do laundry and Milan Chattergee, will educate and
manage their finances. Our children inspire, while students on campus
have to be informed about what they now will share their experiences and
may face, practice how to answer, and lessons learned. In workshops, stu-
know where to turn should a challeng- dents will get a chance to practice
ing situation arise. Moreover, they answers. Parents can attend a special
need to connect with peers who are program with Rabbi Dan Smokler, Hil-
experiencing the same situations, so lel Internationals chief innovation
they know they are not alone and can officer. To cap the day, comedian Jon
gain strength to answer rather than Rudnitsky, a Saturday Night Live alum
avoid tough questions. Finally, no and proud Zionist, will give a different
matter how strong your teens identity take on how to stand up. Teens will
may be, additional inspiration serves leave informed, inspired, energized,
to inoculate them from the attacks proud, and ready to tackle whatever
they may encounter. they may encounter.
This year, the Jewish Federation of The issues on campus are difficult
Northern New Jersey, working with a and serious, but by coming together to
coalition of youth groups, pro-Israel, face them, not only can we fight BDS At the Manhattan rally last Sunday, protestor Harold Levine held a poster show-
and campus organizations and a task and anti-Semitism, we can strengthen ing his grandfather, who immigrated to the United States more than 100 years
force of teens from over 15 area high ourselves, our kids, and our commu- ago, fleeing anti-Semitism in his native Poland. JOSEFIN DOLSTEN

schools, is launching a pilot program nity in the process.


on Sunday, March 5, called iCAN: I of the State of Israel, who strives and claims
Can Answer Now. The iCAN confer- Lori Fein is the director of the
Sides to represent Jewish people all over the
FROM PAGE 41
ence will empower area high school Jewish Federation of Northern New world, when he enthusiastically congratu-
students to wear their Judaism with Jerseys Jewish Community Relations commandment of loving the stranger, the lates and aligns himself with a man who
pride. Jewish teens from all back- Committee. Register free for the iCAN foreigner. has emboldened a new generation of
grounds will gather for common pur- conference at www.jfnnj.org/ican, or Over the last weeks I have looked inward anti-Semitism?
pose. Renowned speakers, including email Lori at LoriF@JFNNJ.org. and at my religion, practicing my tradition, I carry my family and people within me
imploring my God, studying my history and wherever I go. I accept that there is a time
staring at my people as I ask: How did we for war and a time for peace. I hold the
arrive here? dissonances that shaped my identity and
I am not a policy expert, political pundit, believe them integral to my spiritual DNA.
or lawmaker. But as a Zionist and religious I pray for the welfare of this United States
Jew, I am compelled to push my Ortho- government and all its elected officials. That
dox community and Jewish Trump sup- is why I cannot accept the presidents rheto-
porters: How do we account for the presi- ric, behavior, language, or executive orders
dent failing to mention Jewish deaths in as being aligned with normative religious
the Holocaust? How do we come to terms values or stay silent.
with House Republicans who avoid voting This is a deeper divide than Republican,
and seemingly contradictory truths that on a resolution stating that the Holocaust Democrat, liberal, conservative it is about
co-exist. Without this understanding, targeted Jews? How do we justify banning moral decency. In Hebrew, its derech eretz.
there is no way to negotiate a compro- an entire religion from entering the United For all the creative and provocative signs
Alas, the time mise between these positions. Some States who come from countries that have on Saturday, January 21, and at the rallies
competing truths are that our country not produced a terrorist on U.S. soil in since then, God hasnt made it onto very
of acceptance has a history of immigration, and immi- decades? What do we make of Trumps many cardboard posters. But I felt God
and civility has grants rights need to be supported. At countless tweets that do not include even with me then as I do now, emboldened by
the same time, we have a right to limit one announcement of the dozens of bomb the outpouring of love for the most vulner-
passed and immigration and to protect the safety threats against Jewish institutions? How do able in our society, touched by the com-
vitriol is of those living in the country. Similarly, we rationalize the presidents obsession munity that forms itself within hours, even
the Second Amendment allows for gun with his own persona? The Talmud teaches moments, after learning of a new damning
the name of ownership. At the same time gun own- that one who is arrogant is like an idol wor- decree. I feel God as I encounter a Trump
the game. ership must to be regulated and limited shipper. What then do we say of the man supporter and demand to understand
to protect our citizenry. Also, Israel has who builds towers to the sky with his name why the newest form of blatant racism
a right to a secure Jewish state but the emblazoned on them? feels acceptable to him. I feel God in these
rights. We cant have states refusing to Palestinians also have a right to a state, As Jewish parents, what do we say to moments of dissonance and despair, and I
follow federal law. If we do, we will no as long as they can accept the existence our children, especially our daughters, believe wholeheartedly that light will prevail
longer be the United States; instead, of a Jewish one. when they discover we have elected a man amid this invasive darkness.
we will be a confederacy of states. And, If we do not accept that our adver- accused dozens of times of sexual miscon- We must wake up, as the prophets
ironically, we are heading this way not as sary is motivated by good intentions and duct, who has said the most misogynistic demanded, rise up, and speak out. As
a result of a war that was won 150 years just does not share our vision, there is and vile things about women, who rates Elie Wiesel once said, Neutrality helps
ago, but rather by an intolerance of oth- no way for us to continue to exist as one women on their physical appearance alone? the oppressor, never the victim. So, Jews:
ers. As a result, through conduct not indivisible nation. Is this the Torah value of walking humbly Which side are we on?
war, the Civil Wars results may reverse, with our God, of treating each human being
150 years after its last shot was fired. Daniel Shlufman of Tenafly is a member with dignity and respect, and acting as if we Rabbi Avram Mlotek grew up in Teaneck,
Most disappointing of all is that we of the board of the Jewish Federation believe that each person carried the image where his parents still live. He is the
cant accept the concept that issues are of Northern New Jersey and one of its of God in them? How do we explain the twit- grandchild of Holocaust refugees and a
nuanced, and at times we must accept current cohort of Berrie Fellows. He is an tering bully-in-chiefs childlike behavior? founder of Base Hillel, a new model for
the fact that there can be two competing attorney and a mortgage broker. And what do we say to the prime minister Jewish engagement..

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Letters

Women clergy the change is organic Torah was given to men and women Pardon Pollard
and necessary It seems that the men do not think of women as equals. It was with sadness but not surprise that I have not yet
The op ed piece on the OUs letter about women clergy Is Judaism just for men? Isnt it interesting that none of read of any efforts by any individuals or Jewish orga-
claims that this change in the modern Orthodox world is our accepted Jewish texts were written by women? Yes, nizations to urge the pardon of Jonathan Pollard dur-
the result of external, inorganic trends (Closing the door we Jews had women leaders throughout history, but ing the final days of President Obama or currently now
on Open Orthodoxy, February 10). Nothing can be farther they did not have a say in Orthodoxy, which did not exist under President Trump.
from the truth. in name until the past two centuries. Rabbinic Judaism The action of President Obama to commute the sen-
The women clergy whom I have met are the daughters, involved only men. Orthodoxy followed, and it involved tence of Chelsea Manning to seven years was the time
sisters, and wives of the modern Orthodox world (in my only men. Women should proclaim their independence to make this plea. Manning was sentenced to only 35
case, a daughter-in-law). They are the daughters of rabbis now. They should disregard the rules set by men, and years in prison after being found guilty of releasing
and scholars. All the members of the first graduating class form their own rules. Repeat the lessons of prior wom- over 700,000 documents, many of them marked with
were daughters of rabbis. ens groups, who achieved success in achieving equal- various grades of secrecy while a member off our mili-
I have seen them serve communities, performing tasks ity. Man by brute physical strength assumed the role of tary. The release of some of the documents caused the
that all men and women can do. I have attended their master. Women, by their reasoning power, can and have death of individuals who aided our military. Manning
classes, heard their sermons, marveled at their leader- overcome that physicality. There are more female lead- according to Obama had served a tough prison sen-
ship, seen them direct old rituals and new(ish) ones, and ers of countries than ever at this date. That is because tence. The sentence was disproportionate. Manning
even call out when it is time for mourners kaddish at democracy has enabled that path to leadership. served a significant amount of time.
minchah. I have seen them not only answer questions on The Orthodox world is not democratic, and only by a Pollard served more time in solitary confinement
family purity, but build a mikvah. I also have seen them comparable all-women movement that grows in power than Manning spent in jail. His life sentence was far
deal with the mess after the criminal behavior of a pillar can equality be achieved. The Torah was given to men and more disproportionate than any other person sen-
of the RCA and OU. women at Sinai. Its commandments are for both sexes. tenced for the same crime. His actions did not cause
As Hillel said, If I am only for myself what am I? I also Let all involved remember that without women, there the loss of life due to the passing on of information to
have seen Orthodox women clergy lead the Jewish com- would not be a continuation of the Orthodox brand of our ally, Israel. He pleaded guilty to one count of pass-
munity in efforts that go beyond our parochial interests, Judaism! ing classified information to an ally, saving our govern-
working with others and building alliances. Rabbi Rock- Shel Haas ment the need for a trial which most probably would
lins list of modern Orthodoxys struggles with tuition Fort Lee have caused great discomfort and embarrassment to
costs, the atmospheres of secular colleges, high costs of our government.
living, helicopter parenting says much about what so Safety first What an excellent opportunity for those supposedly
many people find to be missing in modern Orthodoxy. Is In reality, I should copy my old letters to the Jewish Stan- representing our community to urge President Trump
it surprising that people are uninspired by the priorities dard (there have been many) about my confrontations to grant Pollard a pardon and allow Pollard to travel
that Rabbi Rocklin lists, and instead are looking for fresh with street walkers, because no rabbi or civilian ever has home to Israel with Prime Minister Netanyahu when
voices for Torah values and a meaningful Jewish life? responded to me. he comes here on his state visit. What an excellent way
Modern Orthodoxy has certified 20th century exter- The street walkers of Teaneck do not wear orange to start a new dawn of relations between the U.S. and
nal, inorganic changes like Zionism, womens education, safety belts or keep in single file. They walk dead center Israel.
womens communal leadership, and bat mitzvahs. Mod- in our streets; moving vehicles are not banned on Shab- Howard J. Cohn
ern Orthodoxy did so despite the gap that it created with bat and chagim. Their children straggle behind them, New Milford
the non-modern Orthodox. This is not the time for it to and many wear black coats, particularly in the winter
deny the internal, organic development of women clergy. months. Our days are short, and our walks to and from Best of both worlds
It can close its doors now to the synagogues and Jews who houses of worship are slippery. (I said our, meaning I am not a supporter of Mr. Trump, nor do I always
appreciate what women clergy bring, but it will accept its all of our walks.). agree with Rabbi Boteach, but I do agree with some
own daughters in the long run. There is no explanation for this behavior, even in the of his statements in his recent column (Moral light
Mark Friedman summer, spring, or fall. But in the winter, homeowners on Trumps temporary immigration ban, February 3).
Former Director, Institute for Public Affairs, are required by law to shovel their sidewalks. Teaneck If this country banned all immigrants many years
Orthodox Union, Englewood has created many, many sidewalks with handicapped ago, my grandparents would not have been allowed
access at the corners, so there is no excuse for the walk- to enter and I wouldnt exist. But both of my grand-
Decision an insult ing in the streets. You are setting a terrible example for parents did come here, one from Russia and one from
Having read both the OU statement and the rabbinic the children. You are taking your lives into your own Italy, and because of that I was born into a loving Jew-
responses regarding women in leadership roles in the hands. Even if I were driving at 20 mph, I would have ish/Italian family. I was raised Jewish, but I was close
Orthodox community, I was disappointed but not sur- difficulty seeing a small child darting into the center of to both sides of my family, and because of that I am
prised by the decision (Debating a ban, February 10). the street. accepting of all nationalities and religions. At that time,
The rabbinic decision was based on 3 main features: What is your investment in your familys life? Can intermarriage was frowned on, but my family made it
halakha, mesora (precedent) and halakhic ethos. The hal- they wear a reflector belt? Wear a neon bright light work. I went to my fathers side of the family for Easter
akhic decision was based primarily on a statement in Sifri flasher? And even with these basics of nighttime walk- and Christmas, and they came to my house for Pass-
that the women cannot be appointed king. Disregarding ing, how about trying to walk on the sidewalk? So wait over. I wasnt allowed to have a Christmas tree, but I
the questionable comparison of rabbi to king, what are we to schmooze until you get home. Trade in the black gar- was not deprived of decorating one. My aunt and uncle
to make of Devora the judge and Shelomtzion the queen ments for a lighter outer coat. And do not allow your always left some of the decorations for me to put on
of Judea? Women who were leaders of the Jewish people? children to escape from the safety of your hand. the tree.
The mesora and halakhic ethos sections site no sources I work hard to shovel my sidewalks. I work hard to Both of my sons married non-Jewish women, but I
at all. The rabbis state that the absence of institutional- drive very carefully and very observantly another couldnt ask for two more wonderful daughters-in-law,
ized womens rabbinic leadership has been both deliber- meaning for the word observant. So if you are obser- and all of my grandchildren are knowledgeable about
ate and meaningful. Deliberate certainly. Meaningful to vant, make it your business to stay on the sidewalk, not both their religions. When it became too difficult for
whom? And why? in the street, and make sure your children do not use the me to have all the holiday dinners at my house (after
This is an insult to Orthodox women and men who can streets for footfall in the afternoon. all, I am 80 years old), one son now hosts the break-
envision a more egalitarian leadership structure within Young kids always think that they are faster than the fast on Yom Kippur and the other one has Passover. I
halakha. New and halakhically valid minyanim are being car coming around the corner. Teaneck and the sur- still do Chanukah, and of course I am at their houses
founded and are growing, where women plan a more vital rounding burbs are chock full of small parks and play- for Christmas and Easter dinners.
and meaningful role than ever before. ing fields. I always tell people that I had the best of both worlds
In this nearsighted statement, the OU risks being left Safety first used to be a motto on TV. Its a shame we and I did.
behind as irrelevant. forget. Roberta Gross
Susan Fishbein Sandra Steuer Cohen West Milford
Englewood Teaneck

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Opinion

What Maimonides teaches us about Trump

I
f anyone can be said to In the wake of this
have discovered the for- comment, legions of
mula for a world with- pundits expressed
out evil, that accolade their horror that less
belongs to the great medieval than one month after
Jewish philosopher Moses Mai- an inauguration in
monides. For through cogni- which he pledged
tion of the truth, Maimonides fealty to the Consti-
wrote, enmity and hatred tution, the sitting
are removed and the inflict- Ben Cohen U.S. president would
ing of harm by people on one compare this nation
another is abolished. to Russia Americas
The successful search for truth is a nec- traditional foe, whose political sys-
essary condition for a world in which tem is designed to restrict, rather
peace reigns. As the Book of Isaiah, than expand, the freedom of the
cited by Maimonides, declares, Open individual.
ye the gates, that the righteous nation But there are many others who
which keepeth the truth may enter in. found Trumps candor liberating.
The accent here on keeping the truth is His remark can be interpreted as
significant; it suggests that truth is not shattering the very same assumption
something that we passively receive, that caused the objections to it: that
but something for which we strive, and American liberty is superior to Rus-
something that we hold dear in the face sian autocracy.
of competing claims based on false- In a world in which our first, and Russian President Vladimir Putin and U.S. President Donald Trump.
hoods and misrepresentations. perhaps our only, mission is to our- KREMLIN.RUANDWHITEHOUSE

At the same time, this vision is the selves, a belief like this one is a relic
polar opposite of the reality of politics, of the past. So, in place of elite plati- have been possible had America been Trump administration, such as its
as it actually has been practiced during tudes about the enduring importance disengaged and morally detached. As tougher line on Iran and its warmth
the last several centuries. of personal liberty, a free press, and fair for where it would leave us now, wed toward Israel, we shouldnt be under
Politics revolves around conflict, com- elections, Trump inserts a hefty dose probably be dealing with Putin in his illusions about the worldview underly-
petition, and cooperation: over power, of his own brand of realism: everyone capacity as the secretary-general of the ing it. You dont need to be an ardent
over resources, over territories, but ulti- does bad things, including Americans, Communist Party of the Soviet Union. advocate of democracy promotion to
mately over how those whose destiny is and Americans therefore shouldnt Additionally, the American public recognize the corrosive effects of no
to be ruled interpret the world around use their own standards to judge those might not have been such an authentic longer distinguishing between democ-
them. In that vein, history shows us that with whom, like Putin, they seek to base of support for Israel had it relent- racies and tyrannies.
there have been periods of relative intel- cooperate.
lectual harmony, when certain basic That is why, in my view, the White
truths about humanity are generally House will remain unmoved by protests Additionally, the American public
based on the facts that Putin
shoots and poisons his oppo-
might not have been such an
nents both at home and abroad, authentic base of support for
Trump inserts a hefty
that Russia is a mafia state, and
that the Russian security appa-
Israel had it relentlessly been
dose of his own brand ratus whose media constantly told that U.S. allies are a drain
of realism: everyone
pushes conspiracy theories
about American military opera-
on the countrys resources.
does bad things, tions is likely responsible for
one or two false flag terrorist lessly been told that U.S. allies are a No society has wrestled more with the
including Americans. outrages of its own. drain on the countrys resources, and realization that the purposes, desires,
Such indifference leads to a that America shares some of the fea- opinions, and beliefs in the words
recognized, and periods like now of deeper fear: that rather than just negoti- tures of a police state. Would succes- of Maimonides of human beings fre-
notable rancor, when the very assump- ating with these adversaries, as all presi- sive decades of polling have shown that quently lead to evil outcomes than has
tions that guide not just our thinking, dents have done, we will start adopting a comfortable majority of Americans the United States. You might say that
but our values and identities, are dug their habits and their ways of thinking. share some sense of common purpose this awareness of imperfection is what
up by the roots. Those who dont instinctively recoil at with the people of Israel? Im not so makes Americans free and gives them
Some of you no doubt are urging me such a prospect should consider what sure, if only for the reason that when moral purpose. It also teaches us
to get to the point, and quite a few of the world would look like now had you look sullenly inward, its difficult to realists take note that in an anarchic
you have probably figured out that the America adopted such a stance in, for see anything benevolent on the outside. world, casually tossing aside your most
trigger for these reflections is President example, the 1970s, when the political None of that precludes having shared precious values in full view of those who
Donald Trumps pre-Super Bowl inter- climate what with oil crises, reces- interests with other states, but shared already disdain them is a sign of weak-
view with Bill OReilly of Fox News on sions, and terrorism arguably was just interests are very different from the ness, not strength. JNS.ORG

February 5. In the most widely quoted as ripe for the kinds of populism weve proposition that it is shared values the
passage of their exchange, Trump seen emerge in America and Europe. bedrock of the U.S. relationship with Ben Cohen, senior editor of TheTower.
repeated his respect for Russian dicta- Recall the great anxieties of the Jewish Israel and other democracies that org and the Tower magazine, writes a
tor President Vladimir Putin. But hes people back then: Would Israel have stand between todays America and a weekly column on Jewish affairs and
a killer, OReilly cut in. survived the Yom Kippur War? Would reworking of the catastrophes of the 20th Middle Eastern politics. His work has
There are a lot of killers. You think rays of light have opened for the Jews century. been published in Commentary, the
our countrys so innocent? Trump imprisoned in the Soviet Union? All While we therefore might embrace New York Post, Haaretz, the Wall Street
retorted. these triumphs of survival might not some of the policy decisions of the Journal, and many other publications.

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Dvar Torah

Yitro: God is also a refugee

P
arashat Yitro is sacred lines. The Israelites were a people of refugees. with them wherever they were.
what we have all The most recognizable ele- That model from the Torah gave solace This critical notion is embedded in the
been waiting for, ment of this parashah through- and guidance to the people through the ages book of Exodus. The first half of the book
the moment when out most of Jewish history was as we moved from place to place, escap- is about the people leaving Egypt, while the
the Israelites arrive at Sinai. that the holiest moment in ing lands of trouble as we made our way to second half of the book is about God leaving
They have left Egypt, and our sacred history, that of the lands of promise. The wandering Jews took Sinai. After the excitement of parashat Yitro,
they gather at the foot of the establishment of the covenant the Torah wherever they went. It could be the bulk of the remainder of the book is
mountain to establish the cov- of the Torah with God, takes packed in a bag and carried around the devoted to the construction of the Taberna-
enant with God. The tension in place in the wilderness as the shoulder. A religion based on a covenant cle, the portable sanctuary that would allow
the parashah between chapter Rabbi Dr. people are leaving Egypt but of text and praxis, as expressed in parashat Gods presence, awesomely encountered
18, when Moses receives sage David J. Fine not yet in sight of their destina- Yitro, rather than a place-based cult, as is by the people in our parashah in Exodus 19,
advice from his father-in-law Temple Israel and tion. The Israelites of parashat emphasized alternatively in Deuteronomy, to be carried with the people. The people
JCC, Conservative,
Jethro, and the revelation of Ridgewood
Yitro are a refugee people. The was ideally suited to a people who so often move on only knowing that God will move
the Ten Commandments that monument of their founding found itself uprooted and decentered. on with them just as Gods presence spreads
follows, sets up what we can moment is a text, not a place. The key element of a religion of refugees only when the people are willing and able to
recognize as the three branches of govern- There is no Jewish tradition about where is the model of God as refugee. When Jeru- take God with them, to pack that scroll in a
ment: the judiciary, represented here by the Mount Sinai is (although there are Christian salem fell to the Babylonians in 586 B.C.E., bag over the shoulder, as in later years. The
court system with the high court of seventy and Muslim traditions about the location the people brought their stories and tradi- essence of the religiosity that comes from
elders that Jethro counsels Moses to estab- of the mountain). Our holy space is Jerusa- tions, their law and lore, to Babylon. There this part of the Torah is the worship of an
lish; the executive, represented by Moses, lem where the ancient Temple stood, but in the refugee scribes redacted their texts into ambulatory God by an ambulatory people.
with Aaron, and Joshua and his men; and the parashat Yitro Gods presence temporarily the Pentateuch as we know it, and there they We are ingrained by our historical-cultural
legislature, which is represented here as the rests atop a mountain, above a temporary accepted the radical notion that Gods pres- DNA as refugees who believe in a God who
text of the law, not only of the tablets but of encampment of the people. Parashat Yitro ence was not restricted to Jerusalem, that is a refugee. Gods sovereignty is all-power-
the continued legislation that follows. situates the essence of Jewishness in a dias- Gods power was not anesthetized by the ful because it can survive displacement and
While the Torah may not have been pora context where home and hearth are conquests of Nebuchadnezzar. rejection. So also is the strength and dignity
read in its time as pre-ordaining a three- moving targets. Mount Sinai, the place where The Jewish refugees in Babylon believed of the refugee. This is an ethic we should
branched governmental structure, it is hard God and humanity met, was a way-stop that God was a refugee with them, that God remember today as we recognize ourselves
for us not to recognize ourselves within its along a refugee route out of Egyptian slavery. accompanied them into exile, and would be in the text.

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Arts & Culture
Try not to cry
Still, watch this Oscar-nominated film about a Holocaust survivor and his violin
CURT SCHLEIER

F
ilmmaker Kahane Cooperman
hasnt written an Oscars accep-
tance speech yet, but its likely
that she will before the Academy
Awards ceremony on February 28.
Not to jinx things or appear overcon-
fident, Cooperman said, but on the
chance it happens, for fear of leaving
someone out.
Her film, Joes Violin, is up for an
award for short documentary. Thats a cat-
egory typically ignored by viewers, who
are more interested in what Emma Stone
is wearing. Its a 24-minute-long five-hand-
kerchief weeper; a joyous paean to the
human spirit and a testimony to how sim-
ple acts of kindness can have important
and far-reaching implications.
The (appropriately) short version of
the films story: The eponymous Joe is Joe
Feingold, a 93-year-old Holocaust survivor
from Poland. About three years ago, the
lifelong violinist realized that he no longer
had the dexterity to play well enough to
live up to his own standards. Joe Feingold and Brianna Perez in the Oscar-nominated short documentary Joes Violin. JOES VIOLIN

I had some good ideas of how a violin


should be played, he said. And I couldnt After the war, Feingold made his way a middle-aged soul in a youthful body. Did any of the events take place because
do it anymore. The violin was here, in its to a displaced persons camp in Germany. She was a student at the Bronx Global there was a camera there to film it?
case in my apartment, and I thought I One day he was at a flea market and saw a Learning Institute for Girls, a K through 8 Cooperman says no, this violin and its
should make some use out of it. violin like Prousts madeleine, it brought school where every pupil is taught violin tale would have been treated specially
He considered selling the instrument, back memories of happier times. Lacking from day one. even if she hadnt been there.
but then heard an announcement on money, he bartered a carton of cigarettes She grasped the significance of the gift I think everyone knew that while all the
WQXR, New Yorks classical music station. for the instrument. relatively quickly. That violin has so many 3,000 instruments donated in this drive
Working in conjunction with the Mr. Hol- Why a violin? secrets that nobody knows, she says in had a story, there was something compel-
lands Opus Foundation an outgrowth of Because I had a violin since childhood, the film. ling about this one, she said. It stood out
the film that won Richard Dreyfus an Oscar he said. I loved the violin. I studied it. I Cooperman calls Brianna the most from the pack.
nomination the station was looking for played it. I wasnt a great violinist, but the amazing 12-year-old. Cooperman launched the film while still
used instruments to be donated to needy music I made, it meant something to me. She had an innate respect and pro- working as a co-executive producer on
New York City schoolchildren. I missed it. found understanding of why this violin The Daily Show, a gig she got 18 years
So Joe hopped on a bus and went to the Music was central to his prewar life, was meaningful beyond just a musical earlier because of her background as a
collection point at Lincoln Center, and he Feingold said. His mother sang espe- instrument, added the filmmaker, a first- documentarian. She quit the job, she said,
left his treasured violin there. Matters may cially the songs of Edvard Grieg and the generation American whose father left to return to her roots.
have stood there were it not for the fact family performed weekly for guests. Germany in 1934. Making money was never part of this
that Feingold and his instrument had a fas- In the film, Feingold downplays the sig- Cooperman heard about Feingolds for me, Cooperman said. It was a labor
cinating past, and for a second fact the nificance of his donation. donation during a promotional segment of love.
recipient, Brianna Perez, 12 at the time, I thought it was just a violin, he said. on WQXR in 2013. That sparked the idea In fact, Cooperman and her producer,
had a potentially amazing future It was a simple thing. I dont use it. Let for the documentary. Raphaela Neihausen, needed Kickstarter
They were two strangers, connected by someone else have it. The earlier parts of the violins odys- to crowdsource the funding. Its unlikely
a fiddle. But during our conversation per- sey are told in a voice-over at the begin- that all 277 backers of the film will be men-
Feingold was born in Warsaw in 1923. haps because hes had time to reflect, or ning of the film. But the viewers see tioned in her planned Oscar speech.
After the Nazis invaded in 1939, word perhaps because he wants to promote everything else: We are at the assembly I do not see Joes Violin specifically
reached the family that his father was the documentary he offers a different where a teacher chokes up as she tells stu- as a Holocaust film for me its more
about to be arrested. So Feingold and his perspective. dents about the violin and its donor, and about human connection and hope,
dad fled to eastern Poland, then under I always thought it should mean some- announces that Brianna will receive it. We Cooperman said. But I am very proud
Russian rule. But the Hitler-Stalin pact thing to the person who gets it, just as it did are there when Feingold reads the letter that through Joe, we hear a first-person
changed everything. Father and son were for me, he said. It played such a great role Brianna wrote, inviting him to the school. account, especially when there are fewer
sent to separate Siberian labor camps, and in my life. When I found out that the violin We watch him at a different assembly and fewer voices left.
although they both survived, Feingolds was given to a girl in the South Bronx, thats addressing the students, and later as he Like most short documentary nomi-
mother and one of his two brothers, who exactly what I dreamed would happen. listens to Brianna play the Grieg number nees, the film is available online at www.
stayed behind, did not. That girl, Brianna, is an old or, at least, she practiced painstakingly. JoesViolin.com.  JTA WIRE SERVICE

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Calendar
Sunday Singles
FEBRUARY 26
Casino trip: Hadassahs
Sunday
Fair Lawn chapter takes a FEBRUARY 26
trip to the Sands Casino
Resort in Bethlehem, Seniors meet in Suffern:
Pa. A bus leaves the Fair Singles 65+ of the JCC
Lawn Jewish Center/CBI Rockland meets for lunch
at 9 a.m. Breakfast on at Sutters Mill, noon. 214
bus. $30; includes $20 Route 59, Suffern, N.Y.
slot play money and $5 Individual checks. Gene,
towards food. Checks (845) 356-5525.
payable to Hadassah.
Bring a valid ID. 10-10
Norma Ave. Varda,
Friday
(201) 791-0327. MARCH 3

FEB. Caf Europa, a social program for Holocaust survivors sponsored Brunch with author: The Teaneck Shabbaton: The
United Synagogue of Shidduch Project hosts
by the Jewish Family & Childrens Services of Northern New
22
Hoboken hosts a brunch a pre-Purim Shabbaton
Jersey, meets for a kosher lunch and a musical performance by about A Guest at the for modern Orthodox/
Shlomo Haviv at the JCC of Paramus/Congregation Beth Tikvah, Shooters Banquet. My machmir professionals,
Grandfathers SS Past, 23-40, at Congregation
E. 304 Midland Ave., on Wednesday, February 22, from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. My Jewish Family, A Keter Torah. Includes
For information, call Shari Brodsky, (201) 837-9090, ext. 237, or email her at Search for the Truth three interactive meals,
sharib@jfcsnnj.org. with author Rita Gabis, oneg with speakers,
10:30 a.m. Five years cocktails, and speed
ago, she discovered that dating; musical
from 1941 to 1943, her Havdalah and kumsitz,
is on Andrew Jackson;
beloved grandfather
Friday Sunday Monday February 28 on James
Polk. 1449 Anderson Ave.
had been chief of
and housing. Hosted
by Rachel Ruchlamer
FEBRUARY 17 FEBRUARY 19 FEBRUARY 20 (201) 947-1735.
security police under the and Dr. Shani Ratzker.
Gestapo. 115 Park Ave. Shidduchprojects@
Music in Englewood: Senior program in Hot topics in Bayonne: (201) 659-4000 or www. gmail.com or call
Englewood Hospital Wayne: The Chabad Temple Beth Am hobokensynagogue.org. (201) 522-4776.
and Medical Center Center of Passaic County continues its Point/
hosts the Heart & continues its Smile on Book discussion: The
Counterpoint series
Jewish Center of Teaneck
Soul Music Festival,
5:30 p.m. Guests will
Seniors program with
lunch and a baking
on current issues, led
by Rabbi Cathy Felix,
continues the Leaves of In New York
learn about heart health class, at the center, Faith book club with a
1:30 p.m. 111 Avenue B.
and have one-on-one 11:30 a.m. 194 Ratzer (201) 858-2020.
discussion of Sherwood
Andersons stories in Sunday
conversations with EHMC Road. (973) 694-6274 or
Winesburg, Ohio, FEBRUARY 19
physicians, nurses, and
staff; a buffet and live
Nitsana Darshan-Leitner Chanig@optonline.net.
Saturday 8 p.m. Discussion led
music will follow. 350 Fighting Israels Lunch and learn: Rabbi FEBRUARY 25 by Sarah Rindner, who Seforim sale: Yeshiva
Engle St., Ferolie Gallery enemies: Nitsana Aaron Katz leads a teaches English literature Universitys students
and Chiang Auditorium. Darshan-Leitner, founder discussion over lunch at Lander College for continue the 30th annual
Shabbat in Wyckoff:
(201) 608-2550 or of Shurat HaDin (Israel at Congregation Bnai Women and has taught Seforim Sale, North
Temple Beth Rishon
community@ehmchealth. Law Center) discusses Jacob in Jersey City, English at Maayanot Americas largest Jewish
offers services led
org. Bankrupting Terror noon. 176 West Side Ave. and SAR high schools. book sale, through
by Rabbi Ziona
at the Orangetown (201) 435-5725 or www. 70 Sterling Place. February 26, in Belfer
Zelazo, including
Shabbat in Washington Jewish Center, 11:30 a.m. bnaijacobjc.com. (201) 833-0515 or jcot. Hall, 2495 Amsterdam
meditations with music
Township: Temple 8 Independence Ave., org. Ave., on YUs Wilf
and self-reflection,
Campus in Manhattan.
Beth Or holds Shabbat Orangeburg, N.Y. Tuesday 10-11 a.m. 585 Russell
Hallelu, a family musical
service, with the Shabbat
(845) 359-5920, ext. 2, or
www.theojc.org. FEBRUARY 21
Ave. (201) 891-4466 or Monday www.theseforimsale.com.
bethrishon.org. FEBRUARY 27
Hallelu Band, 7:30 p.m.
56 Ridgewood Road. Talking about Fort Lee Israeli wine tasting:
(201) 664-7422 or www. history: At a meeting Lauren and Greg Mah jongg in Closter:
templebethornj.org. of REAP (Retired Sandler host an Israeli The Sisterhood of
Executives and Active wine tasting for adults, Temple Beth El of
Shabbat in Wayne: Professionals) at the particularly Temple Beth Northern Valley begins
Rabbi Meeka Simerly Kaplen JCC on the Tikvah religious school a fundraising series,
talks about her recent Palisades in Tenafly, parents, at their Wayne Mah jongg...The Fun
trip to Israel at Temple
Beth Tikvah, after
Tom Austin talks about home, 7:30-10:30 p.m. Continues, 7 p.m. Also
March 6, 15, and 20. 221
Announce
the Riviera Nightclub
services that begin at Israeli film in Tenafly: in Fort Lee; it closed
Tasting led by a wine
expert from Kedem Schraalenburgh Road. your events
7:30 p.m. Oneg Shabbat IAC Cinematec, a in 1953 to make way Winery. Appetizers (201) 768-5112 or www.
We welcome announce-
follows. 950 Preakness series of Israeli films at for the Palisades and desserts. Proceeds tbenv.org.
ments of upcoming events.
Ave. (973) 595-6565. the Kaplen JCC on the Interstate Parkway, benefit TBT religious Announcements are free.
Shabbat in Teaneck:
Palisades, continues
with Magic Man at
10:45 a.m. 411 E. Clinton
Ave. (201) 569-7900 or
school and family
programs. Rescheduled
Wednesday Accompanying photos must
be high resolution, jpg files.
Temple Emeth offers
7 p.m., the story of a www.jccotp.org. program. Greg, MARCH 1 Send announcements 2 to 3
musical services with
78-year-old Greek man (201) 704-3768. weeks in advance. Not every
the Temple Emeth Band, Election consequences: Game night in Paramus:
and his chasidic rapper release will be published.
Cantor Ellen Tilem, and The JCC of Fort Lee/ Music in Fair Lawn: Womens Philanthropy
son, who have been Include a daytime telephone
Rabbi Steven Sirbu, Congregation Gesher River of Dreams, a six- of Jewish Federation of
estranged for years. number and send to:
8 p.m. 1666 Windsor Shalom hosts visiting piece Billy Joel tribute Northern New Jersey
Director Guy Nattiv and
Road. (201) 833-1322 or scholar Janet DiNardo band, performs at the holds game night, an 
pr@jewishmediagroup.
Amir Bogen, head of the com 201-837-8818 x 110
www.Emeth.org. White as part of a Fair Lawn Jewish Center/ opportunity to try
film section in Ynet, will
answer questions. Series series, Elections Have Congregation Bnai Israel, mah jongg or canasta,
with English subtitles Consequences, a CSI 7:30 p.m. Sponsorships 7-9:30 p.m. Wine,
continues March 5 and Scholar Fund program, available. 10-10 Norma cheese, and crudits. 50
May 28. 411 E. Clinton 1 p.m.; refreshments at Ave. (201) 796-5040. Eisenhower Drive. www.
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Calendar

Weekly Tanach class


will begin in Teaneck
Rabbi Daniel Fridman will lead the Teaneck Tanach Study
Group at the Jewish Center of Teaneck on Mondays, from
7:45 to 8:30 p.m., after Maariv at 7:30.

MICHAEL LAVES
The five-week course is an analysis of Megillat Esther.
After Purim, the group will study the beginning of the
Prophets, the Book of Joshua.
All are welcome to join. For information, call (201) 833-
0515 or email office@jcot.org. Rabbi Daniel
Fridman

The Temptations

Seeking artists to exhibit at the JCC


The Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in to include in the show, the price range, The Four Tops
Tenafly is looking for painters, photogra- and your website, if you have one.
phers, digital artists, and other creative Exhibits run from four to eight weeks
designers to exhibit at its Waltuch Art
Gallery, on the centers second floor. The
and include a meet-the-artist reception
hosted by the artist, who buys food
Temptations and Four Tops
focus of the gallery is to exhibit themati- for it through the JCC Cafe. All exhibit join for bergenPAC concert
cally Jewish artwork or art produced by work should be for sale, allowing a por- The Bergen Performing Arts Center, at 30 North Van Brunt St. in Englewood, presents
Jewish artists. tion of the proceeds to support JCC two giants of Motown the Temptations and the Four Tops as part of the Kundert
To be considered for a solo exhibition, programming. Volvo Concert series, set for Thursday, March 23, at 8 p.m.
submit a brief bio and artists statement, Submissions should be sent to Nina The groups will perform classics, including the iconic My Girl, Papa Was a Rollin
show title and theme, three or four high- Bachrach at nbachrach@jccotp.org. For Stone, and Reach Out (Ill Be There).
resolution jpegs of pieces that you plan information, call Nina at (201) 408-1406. Tickets are available at www.ticketmaster.com or through the box office,
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Purim Crossword
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Think Purim March 12


Many organizations are selling cards for Purim. These are the ones we know about
so far.

Across Down
Sinai Schools offers Purim cards for $1 each. Since 1982, Sinai has provided Jewish
1. About or a former kosher restaurant in 1. Be guilty of nivul peh
education for children and young adults with a broad spectrum of learning and downtown Manhattan 2. Blessed ___ who shepherds...
developmental disabilities. Cards can be picked up at Sinai offices at the Rosenbaum 6. Cant stand (Like Newman of Jerry) (Ezekiel 25:17...in Pulp Fiction)
Yeshiva of North Jersey in River Edge; at the Torah Academy of Bergen County, 11. UWS clock setting 3. Strap many an Egyptian might have
Maayanot Yeshiva High School, and Heichal HaTorah High School, all in Teaneck, or 14. Ahava application words pulled at the Red Sea
15. Tu bShvat honoree 4. 1978 Jane Fonda James Caan film,
at the Joseph Kushner Hebrew Academy in Livingston. To order, call (201) 833-1134,
16. Kanes Batman & Robin, e.g. ___ Horseman
ext. 106, or www.sinaischools.org/purimcards. Cards also are on sale at Maadan 17. Oldest serving president 5. I
Caterers, Best Glatt, and in the gift shop at Holy Name Hospital in Teaneck. 19. Tree thats an anagram of legend 6. JSwipe, e.g.
Brooks 7. What the Nile did, once
Leket Israel, Israels National Food Bank and largest food rescue network, is selling 20. Lake in New York or a camp near 8. See 46-Across
Morasha and Lavi 9. It fits all
Purim cards. It costs $36 for 18 cards and envelopes, $70 for 36, $90 for 54, and
21. Jewish Federation of Greater ___ 10. 6 and 431 in Isr.
$170 for 108. Unlimited Purim e-cards, picture cards and video cards are available Moines 11. Biblical plot
online for $18. To order, call Elena at (201) 331-0070, ext. 2, or go to purim.leket. 22. Taking the Jews out of Egypt, e.g. 12. Kirks helmsman
org. Contributions support the distribution of fresh produce and hot meals to 23. A Steve Madden 13. Arnold and Brady
those in need throughout Israel. 25. Klein competitor 18. Mother-in-law of Ruth
27. First president 22. Speak from the pulpit

32. Snake in a plane with Indiana Jones 24. Ram mates
Sharsheret, a national not-for-profit organization supporting Jewish women and 33. Suffix with cash (shekel recipient) 26. Stop for those sent to Siberia
families facing breast and ovarian cancer, offers Purim cards. This years cards 34. Lauder and others 27. Feldman or Haim
have been redesigned. The inside text reads: In lieu of Mishloach Manot this 36. Flows very slowly into a mikvah 28. Island where the first Jew arrived in
Purim, a gift has been made in your honor to Wishing you and your family a 39. Benjamin to Judah, for short 1492
41. Vodka that sounds like the Western 29. Dampier who played for Cubans
Purim filled with joy, happiness, and good health! A package of 12 costs $36 and
Wall Mavericks
can be picked up in Teaneck at Sharsherets offices, 1086 Teaneck Road, Suite 2G, 42. Start a trip (or to make aliyah) 30. Yeshivat ___ Aryeh (school in
through March 10; they can be shipped until March 7. For information, call (201) 44. Item left behind by many making 43-Down)
833-2341 or go to www.sharsheret.org. aliyah 31. ___ say more
46. Words not heard at an 8-Down wed- 32. Modern anti-Semitic letters
ding 35. ___-mo (device used by Kubrick)
47. Longest serving president 37. Actress Annie in Reitmans
51. Abound (like a locust plague) Ghostbusters
52. Israeli singer Naim 38. Financial guru Orman
53. Hamans raffles 40. One getting a bris, usually
56. You might say Job got into a real 43. Old City
bad one 45. Pose to the rabbi again
58. Elisheba to Aaron 48. Like one enjoying a Marx brothers
62. ___ Idiot Brother (Paul Rudd film) film
63. President who recently got out of 49. Language heard by many Israelis
prison vacationing in Kathmandu
65. Great serve by Yishai Oliel 50. Shtetl coins
66. Eye parts that were striking on David 53. One might do one to have clean
67. Winona (Ryder) in Beetlejuice clothes for Shabbat
68. Makes like Ron Blomberg in the 54. Response to a Goldberg punch
lineup 55. Casspi can hit a lot of them, in slang
69. Prep group for future soldiers 57. Better ___ Ezra
70. Love ___ Around (The Mary Tyler 59. Kosher inspector inspectors: Abbr.
Moore Show theme) 60. Jib (by Eilat)
61. Assessment of a YU class
The solution to last weeks puzzle is 63. Elite coffee locale?
on page 55.
64. ___ Einai

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Obituaries
Benjamin Bell Sue-Ellen Finelt Mildred Lubitz
Benjamin Bell, 91, of Palisades Park died February 5. Sue-Ellen Finelt died February 2. Mildred Lubitz, 93, died on January 26 in Westwood.
A U.S. Army World War II veteran, he was the founder She was a special education teacher in Northern Valley Born in New York City, she was a retired teacher.
and proprietor of Bellarno International Limited. Regional High Schools in Demarest and Old Tappan. Predeceased by her husband, Benjamin, she is
His is survived by his wife of 69 years, Esther, sons, She is survived by her husband, Paul, and children, survived by children, Robert, Richard, and Candace
Alan (Florence) and Richard (the late Elaine), and a Ariel and Jessica. She was also a grandmother and sister. Redstone; grandchildren, Sara, Marcy, Douglas, Carrie,
grandchild, Samara Bell. Contributions can be sent to the Pulmonary Erica, and Adam, and great-grandchildren, Ronan,
Contributions can be made to Jewish War Veterans, Hypertension Association. Services were at Temple Beth Charlotte, Phoebe, Ben, and Landon.
Shoah Foundation, or Englewood Hospital and Medical El in Closter. Arrangements were by Gutterman Musicant Arrangements were by Gutterman Musicant Jewish
Center. Arrangements were by Gutterman Musicant Jewish Funeral Directors, Hackensack. Funeral Directors, Hackensack.
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Beverly Kaplan
Jeffrey Feldman Beverly Kaplan, ne Beldner, 90, of Bayonne died
Jeffrey D. Feldman, 58, of Fair Lawn died February 10. February 11. Obituaries are prepared with
He was a self-employed plumber. Before retiring 10 years ago, she owned Belco Sales information provided by funeral homes.
Predeceased by his parents, Dorothy and Edward Vending Machine Company in Jersey City. Correcting errors is the responsibility
Feldman, he is survived by sisters, Sharon Keller Predeceased by her husband, Jesse, in 1977, she is of the funeral home.
(Thomas) and Marilyn Leichtnam (Richard), and survived by children, Sanford of Westwood, and Cheryl
nephews, nieces, and a great-nephew. Wachtel of West Orange; four grandchildren, and three
Arrangements were by Louis Suburban Chapel, great-grandchildren.
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is nearly sold out. zation. The translated book is available online at the
Sefer Zambrow, the Yiddish version, was among Family History Museum website, www.museumoffam-
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When someone you love
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Gallery
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n 1 Minna Heilpern, a volunteer with


the Israel National Therapeutic Riding
Association, visited with students at the
Bergen County High School of Jewish
Studies. She gave them an update on
Jerry, one of their therapeutic horses, that
was purchased with tzedakah collected
in 2004 by BCHSJS students. Improving
Jerrys failing health has become this
years tzedakah project. COURTESY BCHSJS

n 2 Sixth and seventh graders at Shomrei


Torah in Wayne participated in the World
Wide Wrap, a celebration of the mitzvah
of wrapping tefillin. COURTESY SHOMREI TORAH

n 3 Congregation Gesher Shalom/


JCC Fort Lee congregants visited the
New York Historical Society with Rabbi
Ken Stern. COURTESY GESHER SHALOM

4 n 4 A delegation of Jewish Federation


of Northern New Jersey women recently
visited Nahariya, JFNNJs sister city in
Israel. They met with relatives of Adar
Barsano, an IDF soldier who died during
Operation Protective Edge. Federation
has named its executive conference room
after Barsano. Adars father, Gil, left, is a
firefighter in the Nahariya Fire Department.
With him are Gale S. Bindelglass, Franci
Steinberg, Dana Post Adler, and Suzette
Diamond. Two Nahariya firefighters stand
between them. COURTESY FEDERATION

n 5 Temple Emanu-El of Closters sixth and


seventh graders and families joined Rabbis
David-Seth Kirshner and Alex Friedman
and Cantor Israel Singer to participate in
the World Wide Wrap. COURTESY EMANU-EL

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