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NI DUNG
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LI GII THIU ................................................................................................. 7
I. Tm Dng .......................................................................................................13
1. Chuyn ng Chm Li .......................................................................15
2. C B Khin Ngi C Su Dng Li .............................................19
3. Ngy Andy Ri S Lm Sm .............................................................23
4. Lnh Cng Gia Ma Xun ................................................................26
5. a Tnh Cch Khng Phi L Mt Chng Ri Lon .................31
6. Ti Sao Chng Ta Thch Susan Boyle ............................................35
7. Bn Khng Cn Phi Thch Anh Ta ................................................38
II. Lm G Trong Nm Nay? .........................................................................43
8. Lm G Khi Bn Khng Bit Phi Lm G .....................................45
9. Ti Lp Tr Chi ....................................................................................49
10. Ti S Ly Con Tm ...........................................................................53
11. Nhng Ch Ngi m p ...................................................................55
12. V C Trng Cu Mng 155 Hnh Khch...............................59
13. Ai Cng C Th Hc Cch Trng Cy Chui .............................63
14. Cng Thc Tm Thy Cng Vic Thch Hp ......................66
15. iu G Quan Trng i Vi Bn? ................................................71
16. Ti L Bc Cha M M Ti Buc Phi Tr Thnh ..................75
17. Ti Ht Hn Chn Ngn Lt ..................................................79
18. Khi Tng Lai Khng R Rng ......................................................82
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19. C Th Vy .............................................................................................87
20. Lm G Trong Nm Nay? ..................................................................91
III. Lm G Trong Hm Nay? .......................................................................97
21. Ny Anh Bn, Xy Ra Chuyn G? ....................................... 100
22. Tng Ch Chim Mt ........................................................................ 102
23. n Nhm Tng ................................................................................ 107
24. Ngy Mai L Khi No? .................................................................... 111
25. Quy Lut 3 Ngy ............................................................................... 115
26. Bn L Ai?............................................................................................ 118
27. Bn S Ngc Nhin V Nhng G Bn Pht Hin Mt Khi
Bn Ch n ................................................................................................. 123
28. 18 Pht Qun L Mt Ngy Ca Bn ................................. 126
IV. Lm G Trong Thi im Ny? ........................................................ 132
29. Di Chuyn Ci Bn ........................................................................... 135
30. ng Bao Gi T B Vic n King Khi ang c Thc
n Trng Ming ............................................................................................ 140
31. Gii Php Nintendo Wii ................................................................. 143
31. C m Kt Hp ............................................................................... 147
32. Ti L Kiu Ngi ........................................................................ 152
33. Ong bp cy t sng tm tr ti ............................................... 157
34. Mi Quan H Hp Tc Mt Thi Gian ..................................... 162
35. Nhng B i ................................................................................... 165
36. Ln Th Ba ......................................................................................... 169
37. Chng Ta Vn Cha Mun............................................................ 172
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LI GII THIU
Khi Molly n vn phng vo ngy u tin tip nhn cng
vic trng phng nghin cu v pht trin ca mt ngn hng u
t c quy m va, c m my vi tnh ln, ng nhp bng mt khu
cng ty, m hp th in t, v h hc mm v kinh ngc.
C va nhn vic cha n mt pht m hp th ca c c
n 385 th cn c. Phi mt nhiu ngy c mi c th xem xong
nhng thng tin ny. Khi t hn c s c thm hng trm th mi
na.
Chng ta bt u lm vic mi ngy v bit rng khng th hon
thnh ht mi th. Ri chng ta nhn li nhng nm thng qua, t
hi n tri v u v ti sao chng ta vn cha t c nhng g
mnh mong mun.
Thi gian l th duy nht khng th vn hi mt khi mt i.
Mt tin, bn c th kim li nhiu hn. Mt mt ngi bn, bn vn
c th cu vn mi quan h. Mt vic, bn c th tm cng vic mi.
Nhng nu mt thi gian, n s ra i vnh vin.
Ti c mt ngi bn, mt ngi Do Thi tn l Hayyim Angel,
anh lun mang theo ti liu c mi khi i n cc cuc hn. Ti
sao? Bi v, anh cho hay, theo Talmud [sch lut Do Thi], nu ai
tr hn th ngi phm phi ti n cp n cp s thi gian
m ngi ta phi b ra i h. l hnh thc n cp ti t nht
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I. Tm Dng
Bay ln trn th gii ca bn
Ti khi nghip vo nm 1998, trong cn h mt phng ng
tng 5 ca mt ta nh khng c thang my. M c ca ti l gy
dng mt cng ty t vn qun l ton cu tr gi hng triu -la,
bao gm cc nh t vn, chuyn gia o to v hun luyn vin c
kh nng gip mi ngi lnh o, qun l, lm vic v sng thnh
t hn. Mt c m ln.
Khi , ti khng c bt k khch hng no v ti sn duy nht
ca cng ty l mt my vi tnh. Trong 6 thng u tin, ti phi cm
c bng khon tin tit kim ca mnh v hot ng kinh doanh
khng my thnh cng. Cng ty khng th nui ni bn thn ti, ch
ng ni n i ng t vn vin.
Sau , ti k c hp ng ln vi mt ngn hng u t c
ting tm. l c t ph ln, mt d n m ti c th dng lm
bn p xy dng s nghip ca mnh. Ti cn phi nhanh chng
tp hp mt i ng ban u l 6 t vn vin, v sau , nu mi
vic theo ng k hoch, thm 50 ngi na. Ti nh mnh ngi
trong phng khch/phng n/nh bp rng 60 mt vung cng vi
bn gi ca ti l Eleanor, lng trn y phn khi vi c hi c
c, cng nh hi hp vi th thch trc mt; liu ti c thnh
cng hay khng?
Ti xy dng mt i tin phong lm vic in cung tha
mn yu cu ca khch hng. Sau , d n c m rng, i ng
nhn vin ca ti cng vy. T New York n Chicago, San
Francisco, Paris, London, Tokyo v Hong Kong. Vi i ng nhn
vin m rng hn, lng khch hng ca ti cng tng dn ln.
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1. Chuyn ng Chm Li
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3. Ngy Andy Ri S Lm Sm
Dng li tng tc
Mt chiu th su gn 20 nm trc, chng bao lu sau khi gia
nhp mt cng ty t vn New York, ti ang chy mt bui thuyt
trnh quan trng vi Tin s Andy Geller, ngi qun l vn phng.
Bui thuyt trnh d kin din ra vo sng th hai, v chng ti
chm tin .
Vo lc 2 gi, Andy ni rng anh y phi i.
Nhng chng ta cha lm xong, ti lp bp. Andy khng phi l
loi ngi b d gia chng khi cha hon thnh cng vic, ti cng
th.
Ti bit, anh va tr li va nhn ng h, nhng vi gi na
l n ngy Shabbat v ti phi v nh. Ti s tr li vo ti th by.
Nu anh cng quay li c th chng ta s cng lm vo hm .
Cn khng th anh c tranh th lm tt c nhng g c th trong hm
nay, ti mai ti s hon thnh nt nhng g cn li. Ti quyt nh
cng v vi anh y v chng ti gp li vo 8 gi ti th by. Tnh
to v trn y nng lng, chng ti hon thnh cng vic trong
mt khong thi gian k lc.
Ngoi l mt t: Shabbat l ngy th by Shabbat theo o Do
Thi; n bt u t thi im mt tri ln vo ngy th su v kt
thc vo ti th by. Thi gian c th th ty thuc vo thi im
mt tri ln vo ma ng s sm hn, v ma h th mun hn.
i vi nhng ngi theo o Do Thi, l mt ngy ngh ngi.
Khng lm vic, khng du lch, khng my tnh, in thoi hay ti-vi.
Theo nh nhng g ti bit, ngy Shabbat ly tng t vic chng
ta dnh 6 ngy s dng nng lng vo vic thay i th gii, cn
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9. Ti Lp Tr Chi
Yu t th nht: Pht huy im mnh ca bn
Lm th no m mt vi tn cp bin trn chic tu nh c th
bt gi nhng chic tu ch du khng l lm con tin? Lm th no
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10. Ti S Ly Con Tm
Yu t th hai: Chp nhn im yu ca bn
Ti ang n tra vi Geoff, mt ngi bn ca ti vn rt thnh
cng trong s nghip. Anh v cng ho phng khi trao tng phn
ln ti sn ca mnh cho mt t chc, c tnh hng trm triu -
la.
Khi nhn vin phc v n nhn yu cu gi mn, Geoff gi mn
x lch trn Caesar vi tm v ni thm, Nhng ti mun thay tm
bng c hi c khng?
Khng thnh vn , tha ng, nhn vin phc v p. Nhng
xin ng hiu cho, chng ti s thu thm 1 -la.
Vy , Geoff tr li sau mt lc chn ch, Vy thi khi i, ti
s ly tm vy.
Bn gi l g? Keo kit? D hm? Bt thng? Ti gi l b
quyt thnh cng ca anh y. Khng phi ca bn nh. Ca anh y.
Geoff c mt quy nh v gi tr. Anh khng th chu c ngh s
dng thm 1 -la nu n khng mang li t nht 2 -la gi tr khc.
C th l hi thi qu. Nhng ci gia ti (v t chc) hng trm triu
-la cng th thi. Khng phi Geoff thnh cng cho d anh y lp
d; m anh y thnh cng chnh v anh y lp d.
V Geoff thnh cng l v anh y khng ngng ngng v iu
. Cng khng cm thy xu h v n. Anh y khng h che giu,
kim nn hay chi b n.
Anh y s dng n.
Ti ang tr chuyn vi mt ngi ni ting m ti bit mt
ngi m bn c th ngay lp tc nhn ra khi nghe n tn th anh
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Trnh tm nhn hp
Ch , trong lc nhn ln con ng mn m chng ti ang
cuc b trong vi ting ng h, ti ngh, chng ta ang u
y?
Ti bit mnh i lc. Nhng khng may l ti khng i mt mnh.
Ti ang dn on ca Trng Hng o sinh Quc gia (NOLS)
tham gia chng trnh 30 ngy thm him rng hoang. Trong
trng hp ny, tc l ang c 8 hc vin t 16 n 24 tui ang i
theo ti.
tht s thm him, cc nhm NOLS khng i theo ng
chnh. Chng ti s dng bn a hnh c nh du nhng c
im t nhin ca mt khu vc ni, sng, sui, thung lng, i v
xoay s tm li i bng cch so snh nhng g chng ti nhn thy
xung quanh vi nhng th c nh du trong bn .
Mi bui sng chng ti thng nht v mc tiu ni chng ti
d nh cm tri vo cui ngy ri sau chn mt li hoang vu
thm him. Chng ti nhn bit khi qut phng hng mnh
ang di chuyn n v m bo hng i bng cch lu n mi
trng xung quanh ngn ni phi lun bn tri, con sng nh
kia bn phi, cn nh ni lm chm kia th trc mt.
Thi thong c ng mn xut hin cng hng chng ti
ang i th chng ti s i theo n. Nh vy d dng hn.
Nhng ri ro khi i theo ng mn chnh l: Chng ti khng
lu n cnh vt xung quanh na. Khi c li i qu d dng, chng
ta cho php tm tr mnh l ng v bt cn trong vic quan st xem
chng ta ang u.
Ri chng ta tin ln pha trc, di chuyn vi tc nhanh v
tp trung, thng tin cho n khi chng ta nhn ln v nhn ra, nh
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19. C Th Vy
ng vi phn xt
Bn o Lo c cu chuyn Ti ng Tht M k v mt ngi
nng dn ngho b mt mt con nga. Nhng ngi hng xm u
thng cm cho ng, h ni, Tht khng may!
C th vy, ng tr li.
Ngy hm sau, con nga tr v cng nhiu con nga hoang khc.
Tht may mn! nhng ngi hng xm tht ln.
C th vy, ng p.
Vi ngy k tip, a con trai ca ng b ht vng xung t v b
gy chn khi ang c ch ng mt trong nhng con nga hoang.
Tht xui xo! nhng ngi hng xm li ni.
C th vy, ng p li.
Mt tun sau , qun i n ngi lng bt tt c thanh nin
i lnh, nhng khi nhn thy ci chn gy ca cu con trai h
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26. Bn L Ai?
Sc mnh ca ting bp
Dov l mt anh chng tuyt vi. L CEO ca mt cng ty dch v
chuyn nghip, anh thnh cng trong mi lnh vc. Kinh t gia nh
anh n nh. Anh c nhiu con v mt cuc hn nhn hnh phc.
Anh nng n hot bt trong cng ng tn gio. Anh thng minh,
hiu bit rng, bit iu v rt ng mn. Anh l kiu ngi m bn
s thch tr chuyn mt bui tic ti.
Ri mt ngy n, trong cn tc gin, anh nm chic in thoi
gia phng, gn nh trng phi ngi khc.
khng phi l ti. Dov ni vi ti. V ng th. Ti bit anh
y.
V ti cha tng thy anh y nh vy.
th chuyn nm in thoi kh l cc oan. Nhng nu bn
xem xt mc thp hn, Dov khng phi l trng hp duy nht.
Lisanne l mt nh lnh o rt thnh cng mt cng ty khc c
l ngi ti rt qu mn v tuyt i tn trng. C ang b mi
ngi nhn xt l cc cn, th l, kh giao tip v kht khe. Khi ti
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t cc hnh ng ca bn s a bn n vi mc tiu m bn
mun n, b qua nhng th khin bn phn tm.
Lm ch cc bc khi u hon thnh bt k iu g, chng
ta u cn lc y to nn chuyn ng u tin t t th ng
yn. Bc khi u l phn kh khn nht, theo nhiu cch. Ti b
ra rt nhiu thi gi dn dp nh ca, tr li email, lt web, sp
xp li k sch, xem truyn hnh v n, n, n ch trnh n mt
nhim v. Khng phi vic n ung v dn dp khng c gi tr g.
Nhng nu chng l th ti dng n trnh cng vic m ti cn
v mun thc hin, th chng l th khin ti phn tm.
V thng thng, s tr hon c tc ng mnh nht ti thi
im bt u mt cng vic.
ng ngc nhin ch l rt nhiu ln cng vic m ti mun
trnh n tht ra li l cng vic m ti c hng th. V mt khi ti
bt u th rt kh dt ra. Nhng nu cng vic nng nhc v
nhiu th thch, cn phi suy ngh nhiu v u t cng sc, n s
khin ti nn ch v ngn ngi khng mun bt tay vo thc hin.
Cc chng k tip s gip bn vt qua tr ngi ban u .
Chng ta s khm ph mt k thut th v hon thnh cng vic
m khng cn n bt k ng lc no. Sau chng ta s hiu c
khi no th ta tht s cn ng lc, cn mt t ng lc, v ti sao m
nim vui c th l mt ngun ng lc tuyt vi, s s hi c th l
mt c c ch, v suy ngh ca chng ta s dn ng.
u tin, hy bt u bng vic tm hiu mt cch loi b
hon ton nhu cu cn n ng lc.
29. Di Chuyn Ci Bn
Ngn nga nhu cu cn n ng lc
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31. C m Kt Hp
Bt u v duy tr
Ti ang ni chuyn in thoi vi mt ngi no v mt
chuyn g ti khng th nh c trong lc dn ba a con
n chic xe ti nh ca chng ti, ang u bn phn ng i
din ta nh chng ti .
Ti cm in thoi bn tay phi, vi ci ti bn tay tri v c
gng gi cho bn tr khng chy ra ng. Daniel, a 2 tui, nm
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V vy ti t b. Thay v ch tm vo kh nng ti c th b d
ng, ti t nhc nh mnh rng ti b ong chch trc v ch b
phn ng nh thi. , tm tr ca ti p li, nhng anh cha bao
gi b chch nhiu nh ln ny. Ti nhm mt li, ht th su v
quyt nh rng chng c g khc c.
V ri, bit rng ti khng th khng ngh n iu g , ti lm
mnh phn tm bng cch ni chuyn vi Eleanor v ba ti m
chng ti ln k hoch. Nghe c v in, ti n gin ch hnh
ng nh th nhng vt chch khng c g nguy him.
Chng ti tip tc chy xe n hiu thuc s rt bt cn nu
chng ti khng lm vy. Nhng khi n ni, u c ti th lng,
chc nng h hp c ci thin, cc u trong c hng ti bin mt v
adrenaline gim dn. N gn ging nh l ti cha h b chch vy.
Tm tr bn c th gip bn tin ln pha trc hoc cn ng
bn. Hy chn th gii tng tng no ng h bn.
V tr hin ti ca chng ta Cng sm s dng thi gian ca mnh
mt cch hiu qu, chng ta cng sng mt cch trn vn hn. V,
nh chng ta thy, khi u khng cn phi kh n th. Chng
ta c th thit k mi trng xung quanh sao cho n thc y chng
ta tin n mc tiu ca mnh mt cch t nhin. Mt khi chng ta
nhn ra rng ch mt vi giy bt u, chng ta c th dng ch
a bn thn mnh ra khi s tr tr. Hoc chng ta c th bin
cng vic tr nn th v khng cm thy do d na. Nu iu
khng c tc dng, th mt cht s hi, mt cu chuyn hay, hoc
tr tng tng c vn dng hiu qu u c th hu ch.
Tuy nhin, khi bt tay vo thc hin, chng ta s i mt vi
mt th thch hon ton mi: s phn tm m ngi khc t trc
mt chng ta.
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35. Nhng B i
T chi mt cch thuyt phc
Ti ang trong vn phng ti nh v ni chuyn in thoi vi
mt khch hng mi th nghe ting g ca. Ti nhn ng h: By
gi l 4 gi chiu, thi im con gi ti Isabelle v Sophia i hc
v. Thng th ti thch ngh gii lao vo thi gian ny nghe
chng k chuyn trong ngy.
Nhng ti c mt quy tc: Nu ca vn phng ca ti ng, th
chng phi g ca mt ln. Nu ti tr li, chng c th vo. Nu ti
im lng, tc l ti khng mun b lm phin v chng phi ch cho
n khi ti bc ra.
Ln ny, v khng mun cuc tr chuyn in thoi b gin on
mt cch khng chuyn nghip, ti gi im lng. Nhng chng vn
tip tc g ca, v cui cng, c th bc vo. Ti sng s! Chng
khng m xa g n quy tc m ti a ra? Ti ra hiu cho chng
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36. Ln Th Ba
Bit khi no nn m li
Ti c nn ni chuyn vi c y khng? Anh ngh sao? Mike,
gim c marketing, ang ni vi ti v Lorraine, mt trong nhng
nhn vin ca anh y, ngi lm vi chuyn khin anh y khng
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ng ch i qu lu a ra mt vn . Ngi ta ch c th
tn trng nhng ranh gii m h nhn thc c.
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Vi pht ngn ngi trong thi gian trung chuyn c th gip cho
cng vic k tip ngn hn, nhanh hn v hiu qu hn cho bn
cng nh cho ngi khc.
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chng ang hot ng chng li bn. Hon thnh cng vic mt na,
khng hon ho, linh hot v vi mt lng xao nhng c ch nht
nh c th l gii php gip bn khng lc li v lun tin ln pha
trc.
Lm ch bn thn phn 1, bn chun b cho thnh cng ca
mnh bng cch hiu r bn thn, sn sng t vn, v chun b
tm dng v tp trung vo kt qu m bn mun t c.
phn 2, bn kt hp u im, khuyt im, s khc bit v
am m ca mnh khm ph b quyt a bn n vi thnh cng
v hnh phc. Sau khi nhn thc c vi kh khn c th cn
ng bn, bn ch trng vo 5 vic chnh (hoc mt con s c th
no khc) m bn la chn tp trung thc hin trong nm.
phn 3, t 5 vic chnh , bn to ra danh sch vic cn lm
hng ngy gip bn di chuyn theo hng m bn mun i. S dng
bn k hoch 18 pht, danh sch vic cn lm v thi gian biu
gi vng tin mi ngy, quan st ci no hiu qu v ci no cn
thay i.
phn 4, bn hc c rng i khi s phn tm l c ch.
Nhng khi n khng c ch, bn cn n mt lot nhng cng c
li ni, hnh ng, suy ngh ch ng n. Rn luyn kh nng
lm ch bc khi u, lm ch ranh gii v lm ch bn thn
thc hin cc trng tm trong nm ca bn.
Vy by gi th sao? Hy vng rng bn p dng nhiu tng,
cng c v k nng vo cuc sng v cm nhn c kt qu
mang li. Cho d ang u chng na, bc tip theo tt nht ca
bn l g? Ch c mt th duy nht.
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KT LUN
By Gi Th Sao?
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LI CM N
C ngi ni rng vit sch l mt n lc trong n c.
khng phi l nhng g ti tri qua. Quyn sch ny c rt nhiu
du tay trong v ti bit n tt c v iu .
Ti may mn tm c s ng h m mi tc gi u mong
mun Rick Wolff, nh xut bn v bin tp vin ca ti. Cm n
cc bn v nhm ca cc bn Business Plus v s nhit tnh
dnh cho quyn sch ny, v tm nhn xa trng rng thc hin n
v s ng h cha bao gi suy gim i vi nhng tng ca ti.
Giles Anderson, anh chnh xc l ngi qun l m ti m c.
Cm n v tm ra Rick, v v s tin cy, s chnh trc cng nh s
tn tm ca anh. Anh l mt cng s tuyt vi.
Katherine Bell, bin tp vin ca ti ti Harvard Business
Review, cm n ch v l mt bin tp vin xut sc v mt cng
s lun bit ng vin; cm n v lun lun tin tng ti, v to
ra khng gian ti pht biu kin, v v quan tm n nhng
cu chuyn ca ti cng nh kha cnh lnh o rt c nhn ny.
Daisy Wademan, cm n ch v tinh thn ho phng. Khng c hai
ch, bi vit ca ti s vn nm mi trong my tnh.
Ti c rt nhiu ngi bn m nhng li gp mang tnh xy
dng ca h vn tip tc mi gia li vit ca ti. Mermer Blakeslee,
cm n anh v hn 30 nm t vn. Ti ngng m ging ni ca anh
v rt bit n v anh gip rn luyn ging ni ca ti. Anthony
Bregman, Howie Jacobson v Eleanor, cm n mi ngi c tc
phm ca ti v lun c nhn xt gip mi tc phm tr nn hon
chnh hn. kin ca mi ngi rt quan trng i vi ti (ngay c
khi ti khng lm theo li khuyn ca mi ngi). Esther
DeCambra, cm n v tng n tng ca bn v v t b cuc
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