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The Parent's Guide To The U.S. Navy: An Excerpt
The Parent's Guide To The U.S. Navy: An Excerpt
PARENTS GUIDE
TO THE
U.S. NAVY
have chosen to alert you to their existence while assuming you can find
up-to-date information on the Internet once you know what to look for.
When all is said and done, I sincerely hope that this book will serve
you as intended, that it will give you a better understanding of what
your child will be doing as he or she leaves your nest for a very differ-
ent way of life. Come away reassured that your child is in good hands,
that your understandable fears and concerns are offset by the knowl-
edge here offered. Take pride as you realize that your son or daughter
is serving in the worlds finest Navy, helping to protect this great nation
of ours.
Thomas J. Cutler
These are the words of The Sailors Creed, and they guide all Sail-
ors who serve in the United States Navy. As the words make clear, join-
ing the Navy is serious business. If your son or daughter decides to take
that momentous step, he or she will be embarking on a great adventure
that will prove extraordinarily challenging and immensely rewarding.
Todays Navy is a massive and complex organization, a far cry
from the makeshift fleet that opposed the British in the Revolutionary
War. Hundreds of ships, thousands of aircraft, hundreds of thousands
ENLISTED OR OFFICER?
People serving in uniform in the Navy are either enlisted or offi-
cers. Consequently, there are different paths into the Navy that your
daughter or son may take, depending upon whether she or he will be
enlisting or joining through an officer accession program. The differ-
ence between the two is largely determined by education.
In earlier timesbefore the United States of America changed the
world with its successful democracyif a man were born into the
so-called nobility and entered military service, he would become an
officer, and as a result of good performance, or too often because of
whom he knew, he could aspire to reach the levels of command and
perhaps go beyond to achieve the highest ranks of general or admiral.
If an individual were of so-called common birth, his only choice was
to enter the army or navy as a foot soldier or deckhand, and while he
might be promoted, there was a ceiling he could never penetrate because
of his social class.
In America, even though our Army and Navy were originally mod-
eled after the armies and navies of Europe, this class system was obvi-
ously not going to work in a democracy. Various means of keeping this
basic system but tailoring it to American ideals were triedincluding
the election of officersbut what eventually evolved was a system based
primarily upon education. A reasonable way to look at the system that
evolvedand is still basically in effect todayis to think of enlisted
Sailors as those who enter the Navy without a college degree and officers
as those individuals who enter the service with college degrees. There
are exceptions and variations, but it is a reasonably accurate way to
begin to understand the system. Another way of looking at it, that is not
entirely accurate but may be helpful in understanding the differences,
is to think of enlisted personnel and officers as roughly equivalent to
labor and management respectively in civilian life.
PEOPLE TERMINOLOGY
People who enlist in the Navy are generically called enlistees or
enlisted personnel and serve specifically contracted periods of time
called enlistments. People who enter the Navy as officers (or later
CAUTION!
Joining the Navy can be one of the best things a young person can do.
Serving the nation as a Sailor can bring a great deal of prideto both
the Sailor and his or her parentsand it can lead to greater maturity,
at the Naval Station Great Lakes in Great Lakes, Illinois, as part of the
Naval Service Training Command. This 1,628-acre training facility, on
the shore of Lake Michigan about forty miles north of Chicago, has
been training Sailors since July 1911. During World War II, nearly a
million Sailors were trained there.
While at Boot Camp, your son or daughter will be known as a
Recruit (officially a Seaman Recruit). Once they have completed
training at RTC, Recruits are usually promoted to Seaman Appren-
tice and become Sailors from then on.
Your Recruit will make the transition from civilian to military life
known as Sailorizationin the time spent at RTC, typically seven to
nine weeks. Nearly every minute of every day will be filled with military
drills, physical training, hands-on experiences, and a busy schedule of
not do it. They should keep in mind that honor includes the honor of
their nation and their Navy as well as their own, and that maintain-
ing honor will often require courage and commitment. They should
remember that courage can be physical or moralsometimes having
to make a decision that is not easy and may not result in their getting
what they want, but because it is the right thing to do, they must find
the courage to do it. And they must be committed to doing what they
know is right, what is honorable, what is courageous.
(See Appendix B for additional discussion of these core values.)
Contacting Recruits
Because of the structured nature of the training at Boot Camp, your
Recruit will not be able to contact you except on specified occasions.
Upon arrival, Recruits are assigned to a special barracks that is
called a ship and will have a name that reflects the Navys heritage,
such as USS Pearl Harbor or USS Constitution. They will begin
receiving their mail there, usually around the second or third week. To
help avoid delays, you should wait until you receive your Recruits offi-
cial address via mail. While you can write to your Recruit every day,
your Recruit can only write to you a few evenings each week and dur-
ing holiday routine, meaning Sundays and federal holidays.
Recruits can receive anything that can fit into a standard-sized
envelope. Do not write on the outside of the envelope except the recipi-
ent and return addresses, and do not send care packages.
Recruits are generally allowed only three phone calls during their
time at RTC. The first call is permitted when they arrive to notify a
family member or friend that they have arrived. This is a single call
only, and it will be up to the Recruits whom they call, so try not to be
disappointed if your Recruit chooses a boyfriend or girlfriend to call
instead of you.
Recruits will be given the opportunity to place a second call mid-
way through their training. There is no set schedule and no way to know
if or when these calls will come.
Calling home
The final call you will (hopefully) receive is the call letting you
know that your daughter or son is no longer a Recruit, but is a Sailor in
the worlds finest Navy! This call comes during the final week of train-
ing. As you can probably imagine, this is often an emotional call for the
Sailors and their families.
There is one additional call that you do not want to receive but
that may be necessary. If your Recruit fails a training requirement or
becomes injured or ill, he or she will be allowed to call.
If you have an emergency situation that requires you to contact
your Recruit, you will need to contact the American Red Cross at (877)
272-7337. The Red Cross will relay to your Recruit urgent messages
containing accurate, factual, complete, and verified descriptions of an
emergency such as the death or serious illness of an immediate family
member.
Graduation
Recruit graduation is known as Pass-in-Review. It is a formal military
ceremonya parade of sortsthat honors your Recruits hard work
and dedication to a new way of life. It is a ceremony that ties together
the future of the Navy with long-held naval traditions and customs.
You may attend this special ceremony, but only your Recruit can
place names on the guest list. The number of guests permitted will be
limited to three or four, depending upon the size of the graduating
group, and anyone three and older must be on the guest list. Children
under two years of age may attend and do not have to be on the list.
Guests eighteen and over will be required to show a photo ID, such
as a drivers license, passport, or military ID. The restricted number of
guests is necessary because the ceremony is held indoors and the space
available for guests is limited.
Graduation Pass-in-Review
After Pass-in-Review
After the ceremony, your Sailor may have additional responsibilities
but then will be given liberty, which is the Navy way of saying free
time to go ashore. This is a time for family members and friends to
spend some leisure time with these brand-new Sailors and to share their
pride in their achievement. Be aware that this newly acquired freedom
comes with some important restrictions. Your new Sailor:
may not travel more than fifty miles from base during liberty,
meaning no further than downtown Chicago
may not use alcohol or tobacco products
may not drive a vehicle
must remain in uniform at all times
must allow ample time to get to his or her ship (barracks) before
the expiration of liberty
may not bring civilian items (clothes, mobile phone, MP3 player,
etc.) or food back to RTC
Most Sailors will attend a Class A School after leaving RTC. These
specialized schools provide occupational training that will vary in
length depending upon your Sailors rating. (See Chapter 6 and Appen-
dix E for an explanation of ratings.)
Once your Sailor has successfully completed A School, she or he
will likely report to her or his first operational duty assignment, such as
a billet on a ship or in an aircraft squadron. This assignment could be
virtually anywhere in the world. It is at this point that your Sailor will
begin to play a vital role in the defense of this great nation. The impor-
tance of this cannot be overemphasized and should be realized with a
degree of gratitude as well as pride.
BECOMING AN OFFICER
A Navy officer must be able to assume a variety of duties at sea, in the
air, and ashore. Navy officers must have at least a bachelors degree and
must be U.S. citizens, physically fit, and at least nineteen years old. As
explained earlier, your son or daughter may qualify to enter the Navy to
become an officer. There are two commissioning programs that lead
to a college degree as well as a commissionthe U.S. Naval Academy
and the Naval Reserve Officers Training Corps (NROTC). There are
also other commissioning programs, such as Officer Candidate School
(OCS), for those who already have a degree.
A Word of Caution
The earlier warning in this book about parents pushing their child to
join is every bit as important here. Because of the prestige of a Naval
Academy education, and because of the free tuition and the guaran-
teed post-education employment, you may be tempted to exert some
extra encouragement (i.e., push) to your daughter or son to go to
the Academy. But it is imperative that she or he wants to go to USNA.
Young people who go to the Academy because their parents want them
to, but who do not share that commitment, are virtually guaranteed to
be very unhappy and are not likely to succeed. To gain admission, they
will have been very thoroughly vetted in terms of academic credentials,
physical abilities, and leadership potential, but they must also have the
requisite desire to be there.
Plebe Summer
It all begins with Induction Day, which occurs in the summer before
their first academic year, roughly around Independence Day. This marks
the beginning of what is known as Plebe Summer, an experience that
your daughter or son will not forget. Designed to be a challenging and
transforming experience, Plebe Summer is in many ways much like
Induction Day at the U.S. Naval Academy begins when the incoming Plebes
(freshmen) are issued uniforms, are given medical examinations, receive haircuts,
and learn basic military drill. Here a group of Plebes study Reef Points,
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24 Chapter One
Parents Weekend
Near the end of Plebe Summer, the Naval Academy hosts a Parents
Weekend that is designed to offer family members and guests an oppor-
tunity to visit with their Midshipman prior to the start of the fall term to
experience a taste of the traditions, academics, and atmosphere unique
to the Naval Academy.
There are several airports (Baltimore-Washington International
Thurgood Marshall, Washington Dulles International, and Ronald Rea-
gan Washington National) that serve the Annapolis area, and AMTRAK
trains also can get you to the area.
If you are able to attend, it is a worthwhile experience. But not all
parents are able to come to Annapolis for Parents Weekend. The Parent
Survival Guide advises that if there are orphans in your Mids com-
pany that do not have family there, invite them along! The more the
merrier! Extra Mids are an asset. You will hear more stories with extras
around.
Like most colleges, USNA has an alma mater. The lyrics to Navy
Blue & Gold are:
Four years together by the Bay, where Severn joins the tide,
Then by the Service called away, were scattered far and wide;
But still when two or three shall meet, and old tales be retold,
From low to highest in the Fleet, well pledge the Blue & Gold.
So hoist our colors, hoist them high, and vow allegiance true,
So long as sunset gilds the sky, above the oceans blue.
Just let us live the life we love, and with our voyage through,
May we all muster up above, a-wearing Navy Blue.
Commissioning Week
Graduation for Midshipmen takes place in the latter part of May each
year and is marked by the better part of a week of exciting and unique
activities. For the Midshipmen, it is more than receiving their baccalau-
reate degrees; they also are being commissioned as officers in the Navy
or the Marine Corps.
Parents are invited and encouraged to attend. You should of course
make every effort to do so. Your Midshipman will give you the details.
Be sure to make reservations for travel and lodging well in advance.