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EXPEDITING
OUR
DELIVERANCE
There are absolutely no limits to the feeling of
zrizus, excitement and enthusiasm that gives shofar as early as possible in the
rise to a constant spiritual state of alacrity. * morning on Rosh HaShana, with the
spiritual intent of bringing about the
The above should inspire us to action. First off, victory of the Czars forces [against
to publicize that we are presently in the end Napoleon]. The Alter Rebbe sided
with the Czar because he saw the
of days, eis keitz, during which time, Many spiritual condition under his rule as
shall refine themselves and make themselves preferable [to the influence of French
white, and be purified... culture anticipated in the wake
of a French victory over Russia].
Thus, in a move that transcends the
constraints of the regular order, the
Translated by Boruch Merkur Alter Rebbe blew the shofar prior to
davening.
The saying of our Sages, If
TO FILL THE LACK then. There are things that simply you have seen kingdoms clashing
cannot be done before daybreak. with one another, anticipate the
IN ALACRITY footsteps of Moshiach, brings out
However, there are absolutely
The very fact that Moshiach no limits to the feeling of zrizus, this storys connection to the coming
Tzidkeinu still has not come proves excitement and enthusiasm that gives of Moshiach (apropos to what was
that there is still a need to increase in rise to a constant spiritual state of said above about having zrizus with
all aspects of serving G-d, including alacrity. This inspiration transcends regard to the redemption).
increasing in zrizus, alacrity all measures and boundaries, The Messianic sign of kingdoms
going from strength to strength to resulting in a person should always clashing with one another applies
the point that they have no rest. give precedence to Mitzva-related to our generation as well, though
Here I dont mean zrizus solely activities (Nazir 23b), a person it will not be manifested with the
in terms of action, but also an should always run for the sake of a same devastation as in the time of
emotional, heartfelt inspiration or Mitzva. the Alter Rebbe, G-d forbid. After
enthusiasm. all the horrors that befell the Jewish
There are several limitations WAKING THE DAWN WITH THE people since that time, especially in
inherent to zrizus in terms of the last generation, etc., certainly we
expediting action, and the like. For
SOUND OF THE SHOFAR have fulfilled our obligation to suffer
example, the verse says, Avrohom A sort of illustration of how more than we can bear! From now
rose in the morning [in preparation zrizus defies measure or limitation on, everything must be with kindness
for the binding of Yitzchok]. That is the well-known story about the and with mercy, amidst tranquility,
is, he woke up immediately at the Alter Rebbe, who once rushed to joy and gladness of heart. []
start of the new day, but not before perform the Mitzva of blowing the
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HOW TO PREPARE the refinement, cleansing, and That is to say that since
IN THE END OF DAYS purification of everything related Moshiach Tzidkeinu has still
to him, by means of adding one not come after all our deeds and
The above should inspire us positive activity after another service that have been done until
to action. First off, to publicize one action, one spoken word, now, there should be a further
that we are presently in the even a single thought. For by increase in refinement, cleansing,
end of days, eis keitz, during doing so, he inclines himself and purifying, etc. a totally
which time, Many shall refine and the entire world to the side thorough refinement.
themselves and make themselves of favor, bringing to himself (From the address of Shabbos Parshas
white, and be purified (Daniel and to the others salvation and Tzav, Shabbos HaGadol, 12 Nissan 5747,
12:9-10). The call to action is deliverance. bilti muga)
for every single Jew to add in
Anywhere, Anytime !
CHITAS ,ww,j
INYONEI GEULA jhanu vkutd hbhbg
& MOSHIACH owwcnr
RAMBAM hyuekc ohrugha
SHIURIM IN LIKUTEI asue ,ujha
SICHOS KODESH
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MESSIANIC
MATURITY AND
CHILDLIKE
INNOCENCE
By Rabbi Heschel Greenberg the Holiday of Passover in most
years, we must also look for
the connection between these
obligations and Passover.
TWO VERSIONS OF were they to stay?
In addition, the Shabbos
THE SEVEN DAYS OF The Rebbe answers that the before Passover is called Shabbos
two verses actually discuss two HaGadol, the Great Shabbos.
INITIATION different obligations. The first There are literally dozens if not
At the end of this weeks verse was directed to those inside hundreds of explanations why
parsha, after discussing the the Tent of Meeting performing it is so called. Whatever the
seven-day period of initiation the required services during the reason for the name, the question
of Aharon and his sons into the first seven days. Their obligation presented here asks about the
priesthood, the Torah concludes. did not extend into the nights connection between the Torah
You should not leave because the Tent of Meeting reading concerning the seven
the entrance of the Tent of was taken down and no services days of initiation and the theme
Meeting for seven days until were performed until the next of the Great Shabbos.
the concluding day of your morning.
At first glance, the connection
days of inauguration You However, the second to Passover is the seven-day
should stay at the entrance verse was addressed to those initiation period Aharon and his
to the Tent of Meeting day who remained outside the sons had to serve in the Tent
and night for seven days, and Tent of Meeting; they had an of Meeting and its parallel in
must guard your appointed independent obligation to stand the seven days of the Passover
duty to G-d guard at the site of the Tent of Holiday.
Commentators ask why the Meeting even when the Tent was
But that is where the analogy
Torah repeated the command not disassembled for the night.
appears to end. The seven
to leave the Tent of Meeting for We must try to understand days in the parsha were for the
seven days. the spiritual dimension of these inauguration and initiation of
Another question: Why does two obligations. the Priests, whereas Passover
it mention day and night the celebrates the Exodus from
second time this command is THE CONNECTION Egypt. What is the connection
given, but not the first time? between these two events?
WITH PASSOVER AND
A third question is posed,
if the Tent of Meeting was
SHABBOS HAGADOL
PASSOVER AS INITIATION
disassembled every night and Since this Torah reading
there was no entrance, where occurs on the Shabbos before Upon deeper reflection,
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it is apparent that Passover an adult retains a latent spark of PREPARING FOR THE AGE
too is a time of initiation and childhood innocence and purity, OF MATURITY
inauguration. The Passover so too, a child possesses a spark
Seders dominant theme is of maturity and adulthood. It is The above discussion also
education of our youth. It is the the educators role to ignite that sheds a light on our own status
child who asks the four questions. spark. as we prepare to enter the
We do things differently during Messianic Age. In exile we are
We can now understand the
the seder so that the children like children preparing for the
connection between the seven-
will ask additional questions. We Messianic age of maturity. As
day period of inauguration and
are required to start the seder we stand close, so very close to
the Holiday of Passover: they
promptly at nightfall so that the the Final Redemption we must
are both designed to prepare
children do not tire out and fall conduct ourselves as adults, not
the uninitiated for their ultimate
asleep too soon. And, indeed, as immature children.
roles.
a good portion of the Seder And here is the ultimate
Although the PriestsAharon
is devoted to answering the paradox. On the one hand,
and his sonswere grown
questions of the Four Sons. the Messianic Age is the age
men, they were regarded as
In truth, Passover is not just of ultimate maturity. The
children relative to their future
for children. It is also meant entire world will be filled with
position in the Tent of Meeting.
to inspire we adults, who are the knowledge of G-d. As
Consequently, they were charged
children relative to the spiritual Maimonides puts it, we will
with activating their more
level we are capable of reaching know G-d To the extent of
advanced adult level.
but have not yet achieved. When human potential, which means
The lesson at this point is that we will reach the apex
we respond to the questions of obvious. Every day of our life
the child we are also responding of intellectual and spiritual
is a day of preparation for the development and act accordingly.
to the child in us. future. Each and every day we In these last moments of exile,
are both an adult as compared to we must cultivate that maturity
CULTIVATING THE ADULT the preceding day and a child as by learning the teachings of
IN THE CHILD compared to the next day. Chassidus which introduce us
According to many opinions, to a more sophisticated level of
when we train a child to do a SHABBOS HAGADOL: SETS understanding of G-d.
Mitzvah we must train him or her THE TONE FOR PASSOVER On the other hand, Moshiach
to do it in the precise manner it This also explains the is also associated with childlike
is done by an adult. It does not connection with Shabbos innocence. The Talmud,
suffice to get the child to perform HaGadol, which can be commenting on the verse
a Mitzvah in some symbolic, half- translated as the Shabbos of Do not touch My anointed
baked, compromised fashion, maturity. The focus of Passover [Meshichoi] ones, states that it
absent its details and intricate is the introduction of the Gadol- refers to the children who study
requirements. If the contrary great-mature-adult dimension of Torah with purity and innocence.
were the case, it would be spirituality to the child. The Moshiach spark in us is the
misleading the child. He or she inner child that we all possess.
To be sure, Passover is a Our individual responsibility is to
would be ill-prepared to perform
childrens holiday in which we cultivate that spark of innocence
the mitzvah properly.
cultivate the childlike purity and and bring it to the fore.
We are led by this thought to innocence within our children
an arguably novel way of viewing and within ourselves. However, it So, which is the real
the role of an educator. While the is also a time for us to cultivate Messianic dynamic: childlike
educator must recognize that he the adult dimension of our lives. innocence or mature knowledge?
or she is dealing with a child, he To set the tone for the second
or she must also view the child objective, the Shabbos before THE NEXUS
as a potential adult. Indeed, a Passover is designated as the
child possesses far more adult The answer is a synthesis of
Shabbos of adulthood and the two. We have to strive for the
characteristics than we usually maturity.
give him or her credit for. Just as highest level of knowledge and
maturity even as we preserve the
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8 11 Nisan 5777
By Zalman Tzorfati
Why a Moshiach seuda? I HaMoed that it is a segula to about it. Is there a greater Mivtza
asked R Krugliak. make a Moshiach seuda. Then Moshiach than this?
Its not just a seuda; its the child asks, what is Moshiach? When I wanted to interview
Moshiach, he said. Through When will he come? Who is it? R Eliezer Krugliak for the Pesach
the seuda you bring Moshiach Why do we need him? issue, he was thrilled. Of course,
into every Jewish home. Picture Without needing wonderful, thank you very
a family sitting around the table explanations, lectures and much, he said. I look for every
and the father explaining to his shiurim, in thousands and opportunity to urge Anash and
children that now we are eating hundreds of thousands of homes the shluchim to talk about this
a seuda in honor of Moshiach, and shuls, they will talk about and spread the word. If I reach
because he heard in shul or Moshiach, ask, answer, discuss, many more people through an
read on a paper he saw on Chol explain, and even tell a good joke article which they will read Erev
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featured in the papers holiday I dont know; its all get him to partner with me. He
issue. miraculous. I make commitments had already finished his project
At the bottom of the ad I put and it is just unbelievable how to publish the letter, but when
my phone number for those who every year things work out he saw the answer I got from
wanted additional information. amazingly. There are some the Rebbe he got into it and
I got lots of feedback. People wonderful people to whom this also obtained a donation for the
called to ask how to do it and is important and they donate a entire sum in the speediest, most
after the holiday some called to significant part of the costs. Id amazing way.
tell me they did it. Shluchim also like to mention the Stambler A number of times when I
told me that people came to their family who own the matza bakery wrote to the Rebbe about the
Chabad House because of the ad in Kfar Chabad, who donate campaign, I opened to where the
in the paper. every year in memory of their Rebbe speaks about advertising
*** father, R Yaakov, who passed in the papers and on radio. We
away on 11 Nissan. have answers from the Rebbe
This was the first time that his
personal efforts had a national Aside from that, we simply and miracles at every step.
impact. Since then, over the see miracles wherever we turn.
years, the work evolved and A few years ago we somehow R Krugliak went on to tell me
progressed, and R Krugliak got the information that the last extraordinary stories of divine
became more knowledgeable page in the most popular holiday providence connected to the
about the many ways to reach supplement in the country was campaign:
people and the campaign for a suddenly available due to a But that is not the main
Moshiach seuda has grown from canceled advertisement. They thing, he suddenly interjected.
year to year. were willing to sell it to us for an The main thing is to convince
especially low price. Although it the shluchim and Anash to take
Today we advertise in
was five figures, it was a quarter an active part and spread the
many venues. We have an ad in
of the full price. message about the Moshiach
the papers which is publicized
every year by Rabbi Shimon I didnt know what to do. It seuda.
Yehuda Pizem of Hisachdus was after I had already spent all
Hachassidim LKabbalas Pnei the money on the usual campaign
expenses and what I had left were
EASIEST AND
Moshiach. Aside from that, we MOST NATURAL
do a lot of advertising on the two donations from two friends,
radio, on stations that target 500 shekels from each. I wrote What do you tell people
religious Jews. We send hundreds to the Rebbe through the Igros about the Moshiach seuda
of thousands of texts, and print Kodesh and the answer was: The how do you convince them?
tens of thousands of flyers that two donations totaling $112.50 As I mentioned, whats
are distributed before Pesach and were received and now we can go unique about the Moshiach
during Chol HaMoed by Anash to print the letters of the Rebbe, seuda campaign is the simplicity
and shluchim. my father-in-law, for Pesach. of it. Deep explanations arent
I am in touch with many Whats amazing is that the necessary. Eating is easy and
reporters and journalists of letter is dated the month of Av! natural, and something that
various stations, through whom That means, it was a donation people do all the time. So we are
we raise the subject of the that the Rebbe received in the just asking that he or she eat a
Moshiach seuda on programs summer, so it seems, and he certain food at a certain time, and
which reach a variety of allocated the donations toward even better if they have in mind
audiences. printing the Rebbe Rayatzs that it is in honor of Moshiach.
letters for Pesach. The precise When I have occasion to
answer became even more elaborate, I explain that during
MIRACLES ABOUND incredible when I checked the the final hours of every holiday is
AND ENCOURAGEMENT exchange rate that day and the when the highest lights shine, like
FROM THE REBBE amount of $112.50 was exactly at the end of Shabbos and Nila
500 shekels. on Yom Kippur. All the holiness
It sounds like an organized
and well run campaign. Where At that moment, I took what of the holiday is accrued during
does the funding come from? I had and contacted R Pizem to the final hours. It is an auspicious
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THE REBBES
VISIT TO THE
PESACH SEDER
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BROKEN EYE CONTACT deny that when I saw the Rebbe not plan on standing in a fixed
for the first time I did not see spot. I said to myself that I would
1 Nissan 5733:
anything extraordinary. The see how things go, and I actually
In his diary, R Saadia Rebbe davened like everybody stood in the place of someone
describes the flight from Lud to else and I spent the entire service else who stood not far from me
New York via London, during looking at the Rebbe. During and told me that it was his regular
which the Tmimim traveling to the final Kaddish, the Rebbe place, but since he meanwhile
kvutza engaged in mivtza tfillin, gave a half glance around and had a better place he would
held prayer services and danced automatically I broke eye contact yield to me for now. However,
and sang Chassidic melodies. and could not look at the Rebbe. those that stood on the same row
We want to reach the place Only when the Rebbe stopped pushed me slowly but surely until
where we have yearned to be looking in my direction was I they pushed me out completely.
for years, and about which we able to look at him. The entire time I held on to the
dreamed such rosy dreams. We finished davening table in front of me, but as soon
Boruch Hashem, the dream Maariv. Everyone was pushing to as I let go of the table due to the
is coming to fruition Every see the Rebbe while he was going pushing, I knew that I had lost
moment seems like a year to to his room. Rabbi Chadakov my place. Still, in the end, I could
us, but we are trying to arm immediately closed the door see the Rebbe between peoples
ourselves with patience. If we to Gan Eden HaTachton (the heads. Although it was not a
waited for years, we can wait a hallway outside the Rebbes comfortable spot, I managed
few more hours. room) behind the Rebbe. to stand and try to listen to the
The few hours passed, and On Thursday, 3 Nissan, Rebbe.
the jet landed peacefully. After we all made the HaGomel When the Rebbe entered, a
making their way through the blessing. The Rebbe looked at path immediately opened in the
bureaucratic procedures of each one of us. The feeling was sea of people. They squeezed
customs and immigration, the very emotional. Each one of us me and I was afraid of getting
Tmimim exited the terminal and knew that he is standing before a crushed, but boruch Hashem
met their friends who came to great man, a Rebbe, and that the I came out of it healthy and
greet them: Rebbe, through a glance, can read whole. The Rebbe immediately
We exited the arrivals your thoughts and you are before went to his seat and sat down.
terminal, where our friends were him like an open book. I was Meanwhile, the crowd had
already waiting for us. They very emotionally overwrought; begun to sing Yifrach BYamav
helped us board a rented bus and I looked for the blessing in the Tzaddik. Suddenly, shh...
we set off for 770. We arrived at siddur and began to stammer. silence. The Rebbe began to
the exact time that the Rebbe was With difficulty, I found the speak. I will not deny that I did
outside to draw mayim shlanu blessing and said it very quickly not understand the Rebbe all that
(water that sat out overnight - for and quietly. I was terrified that well, but I cant say that I did not
baking matza). This was the first I would just collapse on the understand anything, because
time that I was seeing the Rebbe. spot, and the feeling continued I did understand a bit. The
I could not see the Rebbes face, with me throughout the day. Rebbe made a siyum on Tractate
but I made the SheHechiyanu When I recall that moment I Ksubos and connected it to his
blessing. After the mayim am once again filled with fright. chapter of Thillim, Psalm 72.
shlanu, the Rebbe entered his Apparently, that is the power of a The Rebbe spoke about who
room and we went to the small glance from the Rebbe. is a Jew and the role of the
zal where we waited for Maariv. Rabbanut, and about drafting
In the meantime, we met friends yeshiva students etc. He also said
and acquaintances, and suddenly
STANDING PACKED AT a maamer Ki Yishalcha Bincha.
shh...shh. Everyone was pushing THE YUD-ALEPH NISSAN Between each talk the Rebbe
and squeezing, and the Rebbe FARBRENGEN said lchaim to whoever raised a
entered with a very serious face. Thursday evening, 11 Nissan: cup.
We stood opposite the door, and At the end of one of the sichos,
The farbrengen with the
the Rebbe practically did not look before the maamer, someone
Rebbe began at 9:30 PM. The
at us at all. not from Anash approached the
truth of the matter is that I did
I will tell the truth and not
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the idea of Shabbos HaGadol. He when we went to eat our Shabbos after I received the matzos for
also asked a number of questions meal, and on Motzaei Shabbos myself and the family, but for
on Rashi on the verse Vechipeir there was a review [of the the Talmud Torah and Anash of
al habayis, and answered them. farbrengen] with R Yoel Kahn. Bareket, I could not get up the
Following that, the Rebbe called nerve to ask. That is because
up people traveling to other THE BIG NIGHT I had such a feeling as I stood
countries, such as Eretz Yisroel before the Rebbe that cannot be
and Italy, and gave each one Monday, 14 Nissan, Erev recorded in words. The line was
a bottle of mashke. Then he Pesach: very long and wound out to the
continued the sicha and spoke [Morning]: We waited for the street and then the length of the
about Mihu Yehudi, the honor Rebbe to come out and burn the street.
of the Rabbanut, R Goren etc. At chametz. The Rebbe came out at Even before I reached the
the end, he said that they should about 10:45, and obviously there Rebbe, as soon as I entered
farbreng on the yahrtzait of the was a lot of pushing as the Rebbe Gan Eden HaTachton, I got a
Tzemach Tzedek [13 Nissan] entered the elevator and went very strange feeling. And then
(and actually R Dovid Raskin down to the boiler [that heats I was standing opposite the
farbrenged that night until 3 in the building where he burned Rebbe, and the Rebbe looked at
the morning). the chametz. After he finished, me and said to me in Yiddish,
After the farbrengen, we he came up and] together with obviously, A kosher and happy
davened Mincha and the Rebbe him were the secretaries, R Pesach. Even before he gave
received the third aliya. After Binyomin Klein and R Leibel me, I said to the Rebbe that I was
Groner. When he walked back to also requesting on behalf of the
family. The Rebbe first gave me
I was emotionally overwrought; I looked for the
my matzos, and then I mentioned
blessing in the siddur and began to stammer. With the family again, and the Rebbe
gave me two pieces of matzo. As
difficulty, I found the blessing and said it very quickly
mentioned, I did not work up the
and quietly. I was terrified that I would collapse on the nerve to ask for Anash of Bareket.
I immediately wrapped up my
spot, and the feeling continued with me throughout the
matzos first and put them in my
day. When I recall that moment I am once again filled pocket, and the matzos that I
received for my family I wrapped
with fright.
in a paper that I had prepared in
advance and I sent them home
via express mail. I then took my
Mincha, he went to his room and his room from the elevator, there matzos and put them into my
everybody ran outside and lined was a lot of pushing again, but I package of matzos, which I had
up in two facing rows, and began was close enough that I heard the already stored in the Farband
to sing Yifrach Byamav Tzaddik. Rebbe say to R Binyomin Klein, hall on Kingston [which served
The Rebbe walked between the Yasher koach. The Rebbe went as the dining hall of the Tmimim
two rows, and we all followed into his room and then went in for Pesach], where we will be
along to accompany the Rebbe to [to the small zal] for the reading carrying out the Seder.
his house. Obviously, we kept our of the Torah, and received the
When the Rebbe finished
distance so that the Rebbe would third aliya. After that he returned
distributing the matzos, at
not sense our presence, but to his room.
around 6:30, he went home.
when the Rebbe turned to cross After the davening, I went to When he returned, they davened
the street he saw us and did not purchase stamps in order to send the holiday Maariv and finished
say anything. We accompanied to my parents the matza that I at about 7:30. After the davening,
him until we got to President would receive from the Rebbe he continued to distribute
Street where the Rebbe lives and for them. I hope to also receive matzos to those who had not yet
everybody stopped and watched matza for Anash of Bareket. received, and we [the Tmimim]
the Rebbe until he entered his [After receiving the matzos]: went to set up the Seder plate
house. I just returned from 770 in the Farband on Kingston,
It was 5:30 in the afternoon because the Rebbe is scheduled to
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farbrengen at 6:30. Among the The distribution of kos shel shluchim and the shluchim
topics he spoke about was the bracha by the Rebbe ended at themselves also spoke. Parts of
shchuna [lit. neighborhood, four in the morning. the sichos that the Rebbe said the
i.e., Crown Heights], and he Wednesday, 23 Nissan: previous Shabbos were reviewed.
said that whoever went on The Rebbe received people The event concluded with
Tahalucha should say lchaim. for yechidus the entire night, and dancing.
The farbrengen was very joyous. we [the Tmimim] waited until Monday, 28 Nissan:
I stood on the edge of a crate the end of yechidus. At 4:11 in After Mincha, at about 3:30
and with difficulty heard what the morning, we davened Maariv PM, the shluchim traveling to
little I heard. The farbrengen with the Rebbe. Australia along with those that
concluded at 1:20 after midnight. returned from Australia, went in
Thursday, 24 Nissan:
There was a Jewish police officer for yechidus with the Rebbe. After
who came in to the farbrengen The Rebbe received people for
yechidus until 8 in the morning. they entered, R Groner suddenly
and the Rebbe motioned to him came out and announced that all
that he should say lchaim. The of the groups that had previously
Rebbe even saluted him and THE SHLUCHIM been to Australia should be called
smiled a captivating smile. It is TO AUSTRALIA immediately. Those who were
literally a joy to see the Rebbe in 770 at the time, immediately
smile, because usually the Rebbe Shabbos, 26 Nissan, Parshas
Acharei: put on gartels and entered, and
is very serious and only on rare others had to be called and they
occasions does he smile. The farbrengen began at 1:30
came post haste. A number of
PM. I stood in a place that was
them are already married, as
When the Rebbe passed near me, I was literally there have been four groups to
date, each one for two years.
trembling. I held strongly onto the handle After they came, the Rebbe began
because I was afraid that the door would close due to (some entered in the middle of
the yechidus), and some were so
my great excitement, before the Rebbe could pass. frantic that they entered without
putting on gartels.
The yechidus lasted between
comfortable to stand in, however twenty minutes and half an hour.
After the farbrengen we When they exited, they said that
davened Maariv. I have no sense I could not see the Rebbe except
between the heads of people the Rebbe said a brief maamer
of how I managed to daven, for them, Al yipater adam
because the pushing was terrible. and because of that I did not
understand much of what was meichavero elah mitoch dvar
The Rebbe made Havdala halacha. Then the Rebbe said
said. The Rebbe gave wine to
and began to distribute kos shel some words of blessing and gave
a few of Anash to distribute in
bracha. Anash stood in several each one a pocket-sized Tanya
their places, including R Dovid
rows, and meanwhile they began and ten dollars. For the actual
Raskin who got for Lubavitch
to sing and the Rebbe made shluchim, he gave additional
Youth Organization. The Rebbe
motions with his hands, and the money for tzdaka. The Rebbe
said a maamer in the tune of a
joy was up to the heavens. There instructed them to spend about
sicha. The farbrengen ended at
were those to whom the Rebbe a week in Eretz Yisroel, and
5:10.
gave a bottle to distribute in their gave them more money to give
shuls or places that they were Sunday, 27 Nissan:
to tzdaka to the institutions in
traveling to, and among them This evening there was a Eretz Yisroel and Australia.
was Motti Lipsker who received farewell gathering for the
We went back to our learning,
a bottle for the city of Lud. At a Tmimim shluchim to Australia,
and at about 6 PM we returned
quarter to three in the morning, who are going there for two
to 770 (in those days the kvutza
I received kos shel bracha for years. R Dovid Raskin chaired
learned in Chovevei Torah), and
the family and also for Anash of the event. R Mentlick and R
we waited for the Rebbe to come
Bareket, which as mentioned was Chadakov spoke about the
out to send off the shluchim. The
in place of the matzos. importance of the matter,
Rebbe came out and stood in the
and each of the fathers of the
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THE MORNING
BLESSINGS
ON 11 NISSAN
By Rabbi Sholem Dickstein
L
ast year, on the morning are likened to their Creator, as on every topic.
of the Rebbe, Melech I said the blessings, I thought of Matir assurim Who unties
HaMoshiachs birthday, guidance for life, insights and those who are bound: The going
when I began saying approaches, which the Rebbe out of straits, leaving real and
the morning blessings, thoughts instilled in us, that are expressed imaginary limitations with the
came to me in the spirit of the in these very blessings. Rebbes koach.
day. I thought it would be nice to *** Zokeif kfufim Who
share them with you, my fellow HaNosein lasechvi vina straightens those who are bent
Chassidim. Who gives understanding to the over: Gaon Yaakov, Gaon
How much we need to rooster: In such confusing times Lubavitch! Its enough if we recall
give thanks and praise that we in which many call darkness the story of an elder Chassid who
merited the light of the Rebbe, light, and call day night, the saw the Rebbe (before he became
the memutza hamechaber Rebbe gives us understanding to Rebbe) eating mezonos in the
(connecting intermediary), who distinguish between them. sukka before davening and made
helps us and guides us in our Pokeiach ivrim Who opens a comment about it. The Rebbe
lives in all the aspects stated in [the eyes of] the blind: The said out loud, There is nothing
the morning blessings. Chassidic outlook, which the to be ashamed about Chassidic
Along the lines of tzaddikim Rebbe provides every mekushar, practices.
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THE ROAD TO
HISKASHRUS
Hiskashrus to the Rebbe begins with our thinking
about another Jew. Thinking about how to
connect another Jew to the Rebbe and also
connect him to the tremendous chain of the Nasi
Hador. To put the Rebbes wishes before us at all
times and to push aside our egos which diminish
others in our eyes.* Presented for 11 Nissan
T
here is a sicha (Leil from him. Miraculously, rather than
Hoshana Rabba 5752) After some time, it came to take away the merchandise of the
in which the Rebbe says light that in that town lived a big Chassid, the government took the
that in our generation Misnaged who was very jealous Misnageds merchandise. The
each of us needs to be a Rebbe. of the rich Chassid and how all Misnaged was left with nothing
What can this possibly mean? the townspeople honored him. and had many debts. Due to his
What connection is there to being The Misnaged tried to do all he great debts, he became deathly ill.
a Rebbe on the part of a Chassid could to denigrate the Chassid The Chassid went to visit
who is battel to the Rebbe? and even tried to compete with him and after leaving the house
Whoever learns this sicha of the Chassids livelihood. of the Misnaged, the members
the Rebbe understands that the The Chassid would import of the household discovered that
Rebbe did not mean acting like a great quantity of tea every he had left a large sum of money
an Admur, as we might imagine year which he would sell across to support the Misnaged and
superficially, or acting above any Russia. In the Misnageds great another large sum to marry off
other group. He means acting in envy and after seeing that all his daughters.
a way of true bittul on the level of his attempts to humiliate the When the family heard this
yechida, which is the level of the Chassid were unsuccessful, he story, they realized what the
Rebbe. decided to inform on him to Alter Rebbe meant when he said
There is a story about a the government. He said that a great light emanated from him.
Chassid of the Alter Rebbe who the one who sold the tea to the From this story we learn
was very rich and passed away Chassid did not pay the requisite about how a Chassid behaves
at a very young age. After his tax. In this way, he thought, he and how this kind of behavior is
passing, the Alter Rebbe told the wouldnt directly inform on the demanded of every one of us. A
mans sons that they should not Chassid but would cause him a genuine Chassid is someone who
be sad over their fathers death heavy monetary loss, since the puts himself in a position of utter
for he sees that their father is government would confiscate the bittul, to the point that he raises
currently on extremely high levels goods after the Chassid had paid himself totally above his desires
and a great light is shining forth good money for it.
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within you. In each of us exists
a Misnaged, who burrows into Without living with genuine Chassidic love, and without
the heart and causes us to think rising above our material desires and calculations, it is
negatively about others and
diminish their worth. not possible to fully accept the Rebbes malchus.
True love for another is when
he shames you, and you respond
We need to start living in a with genuine Chassidic love, and
with love and shower good upon
Moshiach-state of mind, a state without rising above our material
him.
in which each of us rises above desires and calculations, it is
This is the avoda of every all limitations of this world and not possible to fully accept the
Chassid, to rise above himself, above all exile considerations. Rebbes malchus.
without considering his honor
At this time, we need to place This is the point which we
and dignity. As one of our
ourselves in a position in which need to take with us from this
Rebbeim once said to one of the
we see the essential goodness special day of 11 Nissan. The
Chassidim, that before he says
that is hidden within every Jew, point that unifies all areas of
a maamer Chassidus, he puts
to see the goodness in every hiskashrus to the Rebbe is to have
himself into such a state of bittul
Jew without looking at how he utter bittul to the Rebbe, and to
that he imagines himself walking
regards us. truly love every Jew because of
down the street and a group of
The avoda assigned to us to his G-dly soul. That is how we
children are chasing him with
live with Moshiach is an avoda can ask for the Rebbes malchus.
stones to throw at him (as they
would the town lunatic). that pertains to each one of us. This doesnt include any
What we need to do is to start sadness whatsoever; it entails
To be a Chassid is to reach a
living in the Moshiach state in rising above our personal
true level in which we can look
which there is no jealousy and concerns and being utterly
at every Jew from the aspect of
competition. battul to the Rebbe, the bittul of
his G-dly soul. Although there
Each of us can welcome yechida.
may be times when it is legitimate
to get angry at someone and Moshiach by getting out of our When we all rise above our
be annoyed with him, why he inner exile and starting to live ego, we will all be battul to the
doesnt give us enough respect with simcha and with real Ahavas Rebbe and merit his complete
and doesnt value what we do Yisroel for every Jew. and immediate hisgalus.
enough, but in the times that This point is essential when Yechi Adoneinu Moreinu
we live in we have no time it comes to hiskashrus to the VRabbeinu Melech HaMoshiach
for considerations like these. Rebbe MHM, for without living Lolam Vaed!
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QUESTIONS
NOT JUST
FOR PESACH
There is a common saying, that when a person
asks too many questions, he is told, ask your
questions at the seder. Therefore, this week,
we are devoting the chinuch column to the
importance of asking questions. * Why are adults
so afraid of questions? What can give us the
confidence to listen and respond? What is the
educational advantage to not answering right
away? How should we treat those children who
by nature are quiet and dont ask questions?
* Rabbi Avrohom Bitkin, a social worker and
therapist, who specializes in fears and trauma in
children and youth, and who moderates parents
groups on educational issues, responds to these
and other questions.
By Nosson Avrohom
T
here is a story about a the child has another question. And why does water cover most
nomad and his son who Father, why is the sky blue like of the earth?
are walking slowly in the the sea? The child asks and asks and
blistering desert. Father, The father thinks and thinks, the father says he does not know.
why does the sun rise in the east scratches his head, and says, After a while, the boy stops his
and set in the west? once again, that he does not questions about the world around
The father gazes upward and know the answer. him and says, Father, you dont
says, I have no idea. Father, why do camels have get angry when I ask all these
The two keep walking and a hump unlike other animals? questions, right?
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NO LONGER ALONE ON
THE FRONT LINES
Please tell us what you do
and why you entered this field.
After a year on kvutza and
a stint on shlichus, I studied for
smicha in the kollel in Rechovot.
At the same time, I became
aware of a group of Chabad
kids who werent fitting into the
communitys educational system.
I cared very much about them
and spent a lot of time with them,
talking with them sometimes into
the wee hours of the morning.
During those conversations, I
saw that my shlichus is in the
informal field of chinuch.
How did you turn your
hobby into a profession?
Awareness is far greater
today than it used to be. Things
used to be different, and as a
volunteer I found myself alone on
the front lines. People preferred
ignoring these fringe kids
because they didnt know what
to do with them. It was hard for
people to listen to their personal
stories - stories of struggles
with hopelessness, to take in the
complexities of their lives and to
confront seemingly unresolvable
conflicts. I would occasionally
consult with Lubavitcher
His father smiles and says, students, and definitely not to psychologist Mrs. Ilana Yisroel,
Not at all. If you dont ask, how ignore or be frightened by them. who helped me a lot in terms of
will you know? We need to listen to questions, practical advice about how to be
Pesach in general, and the including the challenging ones, a mashpia-figure to the kids.
seder night in particular, is and find answers to them. Even
One day, she said to me
different than other Jewish the child who does not know
offhandedly, I see that you like
holidays. One of the outstanding how to ask needs to be drawn
to provide therapy. Why dont
lessons of the Hagada is to allow out to ask, and then his questions
you do it professionally? So I
questions from our children and are answered.
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went to study social work. While like the fourth child in the be quiet. These children generally
working on my masters degree Hagada, who doesnt know how come from a background of
in clinical social work, I focused to ask? What should be done emotional or physical neglect or
my studies on children and young with a child who doesnt ask, experienced extended emotional
people, and that is my specialty. who doesnt take an interest? trauma.
Boruch Hashem, I now work at Should this be cause for Arent you taking it too far?
training therapists in the field concern? How can we teach a Arent there quiet children who
of Psychodynamic Therapy for little child to be curious and to by nature prefer not to call
Children and Youth at Bar Ilan ask questions? attention to themselves?
University. Children are curious by A quieter nature can explain
nature, from when they are born. a child with fewer questions but
WHAT LIES BEHIND THE Thanks to the natural desire to thats not great news. I met with
QUESTION explore their environment, a a quiet child who was brought
baby makes the effort to move, to therapy because of extreme
Being able to ask questions to crawl, to empty closets, to hypochondria. He had zero
is an important foundation spill the paint and to eat with motivation to be involved in his
in a persons education and their hands. There are children treatment process. Furthermore,
intellectual development. What who explore more and those I got the impression that this
do you think is important about who explore less, it depends child wanted nothing for himself,
being able to question? Why on their personalities, but in did not know how to enjoy
do you consider this question- general, a child does not need to himself, and had no sense of his
answer dynamic important in a be encouraged to ask and take an place in the social order.
childs education? interest. His father told me that since
Our Sages say, a bashful Parents and teachers he was born he remembers him
person does not learn. From sometimes put a halt to childrens as a fun child with a very
there we learn that questioning questioning, mostly due to lack of easygoing temperament, the
is important for proper patience which comes from lack kind who causes his parents no
development, both intellectually of time or interest, and then the bother, who doesnt ask or take
and in personality development. child feels that his questions are an interest in his surroundings.
Just as feeling hunger leads to not legitimate and are a burden This told me that the childs
eating, and eating is critical for and he needs to restrain himself. fears began many years earlier,
growth, so too a question leads A child like this will learn to be the moment the child realized
to an answer that enriches a quiet to please his parents. This that he needed to behave this
persons knowledge which is can be pleasant for the parents way, i.e., not disturbing and
needed for his development. when he is young, but it means not questioning. They never
In Chassidus, the question- they are raising a child who, even encouraged him to look around
answer dynamic between father when he is older, will hesitate to and ask for anything or to take
and son and teacher and student take the initiative, to stand up any initiative.
represents the entire structure of for himself and to ask for what is A child who does not know
existence - the mashpia-mekabel coming to him. how to ask behaves that way
or the cause-effect. Parents who When a child refrains because he is not sure whether
allow questions to be asked and from raising questions and its okay to ask; he doesnt
give room for open conversations, doesnt initiate contact with his know whether his question is
have healthy communication. A environment, it is definitely a legitimate or foolish. A child like
child trusts his parents more and form of behavior that should raise this doesnt know how this new
the home feels secure and calm. concerns about his emotional knowledge that he will get by
Stifling questions is like stifling state. A child who chooses not asking can be useful to him. The
eating and the results will be to check out his environment is role of the parent and teacher is,
apparent in the childs perception a child who is in a state of fear, at psach lo - open for him the
of himself and the world. and I can tell you that he is in possibility to ask, give him some
When you speak about the crisis. He sees that curiosity examples of questions that are
great importance of asking exacts a price and he would age appropriate so that he will
questions, what about someone therefore rather hold back and identify with them, and most
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about a child who asks again
and again and about the smallest Chinuch is not about the what and the
details because he is not sure of
himself. He uses questions to get quantity but about the how and the quality.
attention. There is no need to wait for calmer days in order to have
A child like this can be
a conversation, especially when your child needs you in
considered a nudge, which will
serve to further distance him the here and now.
from the people around him,
which will increase his fears,
which will in turn cause him to consent, about the doubts in a Jew does not run away from
seek ever more attention. emuna that his son had. The questions. A Jew knows how to
When we discover the reason father was very surprised but survive confounding complexities
for his behavior, we can formulate immediately recovered and said, without being dependent on
an appropriate message, which I always taught my children that finding an immediate solution.
can convey confidence in himself we have chachomim - the eyes of What greater proof do we need
and his environment. We will the congregation. Why does he than the sufferings of exile, which
convey a message that he is suddenly have doubts in emuna? have provided us with plenty of
visible and present enough Rabbanim have already checked opportunities to see how firm
to his environment, and it is things out for us and found footed a Jew is even when there
unnecessary to test to what extent no place for questions about a arent always answers. Just as we
people around him are listening Creator, so why does he need to see the Rebbes attitude about
in a never-ending cycle. vacillate at all? the Holocaust, that despite the
There are those who teach The fathers answer shocked questions, our emuna remains
children not to ask questions, me. I knew there are groups rock-solid.
because questions, according within the frum world where Must we respond to every
to their view, undermine pure repressing questions is a way question a child asks, or are
faith. There can be an absurd of life. Some explain that this there questions for which
situation in which a child goes is the approach of a previous the answer is that there is no
off the derech and is called generation, a more innocent answer?
chozer bsheila, as though to generation that had emuna, but Sometimes, its not the
say that in Judaism there is no I dont believe it. Sincere faith what but the how, meaning
room for questioning. Where do back then did not flourish out that not always does the child
you think their mistake lies and of repression and suppression; understand the depth of the
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answer, but its important to him a childs questions make him or expand your knowledge.
how it is said. If, for example, feel powerless. Does the child And it is your job to model for
a parent or teacher allowed a know more than me? Or, Does the child how to deal with a
question to be asked, that means the child want to challenge what difficulty without falling apart.
that the question is important I said? Or sometimes there Dont be afraid that questions
and the child is important. When can be a situation in which a that stump you will adversely
the father doesnt get thrown question disturbs the lesson or affect your authority. On the
by the question and he answers the message the parent wants to contrary, honestly saying that
calmly, or if he did not have an convey at home. The mechanech you dont know, and showing a
answer and he went and asked expects the child to march in willingness to learn even at your
someone else and came back with lockstep with everyone else, advanced age by saying, Thats
an answer, then even if the child and by nature of his position he an excellent question, I will check
did not get a satisfactory answer, ascribes less importance to the it out for you, is an impressive
it wont affect his confidence to childs individuality. Especially lesson in itself. This is a sign of
ask again in the future. when the mechanech thinks the true greatness on the part of the
As to your question, there childs questions will harm or educator or parent and the child
definitely are questions which hinder those that are marching in will admire you for it.
dont have answers or only a line.
WHEN PARENTS ASK
Stifling questions is like stifling eating and the QUESTIONS
results will be apparent in the childs perception Can you give us, parents
of himself and the world. and teachers, some tips about
how we can ask our children
good questions when we want
to hear how their day in school
partial, not fully satisfactory These days, there are many was or in general, how they are
answer, because its not possible more children who are not willing doing? How should we word
to respond at that time. For to march in line and they do the question to get a satisfying
example, if a child asks a question this by asking questions or even answer?
about matters that should be challenging. People nowadays There is no formula. If you
treated with modesty, or even if value their individuality and the have good communication with
the answer is it is a decree before idea of a natural sense of security the child and he feels confident
Me and you have no permission is vanishing. People are protective about talking, he will be happy to
to doubt it, the child will not get of their personal boundaries share his life with you, especially
a complete, detailed answer, at ten times more than they used if he needs help. However, when
least not then. But even in such a to be, and young people are no for any reason he is convinced
situation, what is very important exception to this phenomenon. that the conversation will be
is not the depth of the answer but The mechanech or parent needs harmful to him, for example,
how the question is treated. to know that the child wants a child who is suffering from
boundaries. He sometimes wants bullying who knows that if he tells
QUESTIONS THAT to test the strength of these his father, his father will show up
boundaries so he can feel secure at school the next day and make a
FRIGHTEN PARENTS with them, not necessarily in scene, which will likely bring on
Why are we, parents or order to break them. They make more bullying, it is unlikely that
teachers, afraid of questions? him feel secure and the child likes hell share what is going on.
What can get us not to be that. Still, since you ask how to
afraid? If, with his question, the word it, you can start with an
To one degree or another child caught you not knowing open question like, How was
we all have the fear of losing something, accept it lovingly. school today? If the child just
our authority. Chinuch requires About this it says, and from says, I dont know, or fine or
kabbalas ol. The mechanech my students most of all. The not great, that would indicate
needs to lead the child from one question is good for you; it will that his emotional vocabulary
point to another and sometimes, increase your desire to deepen is meager. We can offer some
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Continued from page 33 When he finished he said, Rabbi, you need to
start believing more in your Rebbe "
Purim and I read the Megilla for
him.
Some months passed and
he was still alive, despite the weight of his decision on a letter I saw that he was excited by
doctors dire predictions. The that wasnt even addressed to this answer that was so on target.
doctors wanted to do a medical him. I suggested that he read the I said goodbye and didnt hear
experiment to try and see what answer as advice and guidance anything from him for a while.
might be effective against the to be taken into consideration From mutual acquaintances, I
disease but he said he didnt want together with the other advice he heard that he remained adamant
it because he didnt know what it was given. and did not agree to the
might do to him. He agreed to write to the experiments.
One day, he invited me to his Rebbe and the truth is, I was Six weeks went by and I
home and asked for my advice. afraid. I knew that this entailed got a phone call from him. He
The doctors really wanted to a life and death matter and I did sounded jubilant. He told me
go ahead with their medical not feel confident... that he had just returned from
experiments and they had even The volume was opened the hospital where the doctors
threatened him to agree. They felt to a letter the Rebbe wrote to found problems with his blood. It
that their professional prestige someone who told him that his turned out that if he had listened
was at stake. wife was sick with a neurological to the doctors and had done the
disease, and the doctors were experiment, he would no longer
Despite my opinion on the
advising a new treatment that be alive. When he finished he
matter, I explained to him the
was unconventional and not said, Rabbi, you need to start
idea of writing to the Rebbe
yet accepted. The Rebbe wrote believing more in your Rebbe
through the Igros Kodesh and
not to do it unless the doctor You told me to take the Rebbes
that now too, we can receive
would explain his reason for view as just one factor in my
answers from the Rebbe.
doing it to two other doctors decision, but I took it as the only
I will admit that back then I factor and thanks to that, my life
and they agreed with him. In the
was still confused myself about was saved!
meantime, suggested the Rebbe,
writing to the Rebbe in this way,
he should take medication to
so I told him not to put the full
treat the disease.
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MIRACULOUS
HEALER OF THE SICK
Two miracle stories, told by Rabbi Pinchas
Baumgarten and Rabbi Eliezer Gurkow.
By Menachem Ziegelboim
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MOTHER OF
20 CHILDREN
Uzit Schneersohn of Kfar Chabad speaks about
the two minyanim of children she brought into
the world. She describes the hardships, how she
handled things, as well as the joy and health that
are granted to the mother of a large brood. *
Presented for the holiday in which children are
the centerpiece, When your child will ask ...
By Rochel Haramati
I
ts probably happened to one another, she says she would should be wanting a large family
you that you go shopping, like a break and its too hard and and view it as the most natural
to the dentist, or are waiting expensive, and its accepted now. and normal thing.
on line for something and And then you ask yourself, whats Well, there are all kinds.
like the typical Lubavitcher, you going on here? I dont get it! There are many wonderful
start talking with the person next The Rebbes approach is women whose way of life is in
to you. The baby you hold helps clear and well-known. The accordance with the absolute
break the ice and one, two, three, Rebbe spoke so much about truth of Torah and Chassidus,
a nice conversation develops and encouraging large families and whose desire is to bring more
you have a wonderful opportunity about the enormous benefit of and more children into the world,
for kiruv. bringing another Jewish child who see each additional child as a
The question is soon asked, into the world at large and fantastic gift from Hashem, who
Is that your first? particularly into the family, and dont stop thanking and praising
When you answer, No, the the hastening of the Geula. He Hashem for this.
tenth, the conversation comes negated any thought of family One of these women is
to a screeching halt. She looks planning! rather famous. She is Mrs.
at you with surprise mixed with You would have expected Uzit Schneersohn, mother of
confusion, or astonishment thatunlike the person you 20 children, boruch Hashem,
mixed with admiration, or meet somewhere or in your and grandmother and great-
wonder mixed with concern, and place of shlichus, who is not yet grandmother to numerous
once again, you need to break the a Chassida, which is why she grandchildren and great-
ice. expressed her lack of faith and grandchildren, kein yirbu.
Then you go and visit a her shock over the size of your When you were a girl, did
Lubavitcher friend and when the familyat least your friend the you already picture having such
two of you are sitting over a cup Lubavitcher should know what a large family?
of coffee and catching up with the Rebbe said. At least she Not at all. I didnt think about
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I thank G-d for my health, that at my age I still easy with disposables; its a great
solution.
get around and am active. Most of my friends are
Its really not easy, even
already in wheelchairs with lots of medication. Giving though its the best thing. Those
to whom order and cleanliness
birth is healthy for a woman, healthy for the world,
are important, should take help;
healthy for everyone. its important. Its part of the
expenses of having children. We
rely on G-d who does the best for
us.
How does one manage in her room feeding the baby and
financially? not to disturb. When I saw that a When was it the easiest time
baby was a little hungry, I added for you?
We had to adjust ourselves to
the childrens needs. Parnasa is almond milk which is the closest When Yedida and Nediva (the
from heaven. One can be without to mothers milk. I would soak oldest girls) began helping me.
parnasa, G-d forbid, with one the almonds, peel them, grind What age was that?
child and another has 20 children, them in the blender with water, When Yedida was 3. The first
and each one has what they need. and strain it through a cloth help I remember well was when
They may not have had all the diaper. The pieces of almonds I asked her to help me hang the
luxuries of the latest styles and that remained on top I ate, and I laundry. She would hand me
lots of toys, because I simply did gave the almond milk to the baby. item after item. Do you know
not find them necessary. I wanted How did you do everything how helpful that was, instead of
them to live properly, and that the laundry, cooking, childcare, me bending down? As they got
they should get along socially. housekeeping, and in such older, they helped more. I didnt
A child can sometimes find a quantities? Did you get help? burden them, but all help was
paper and crayons, or a pot and There was no money for help, appreciated. After the tenth child
ladle that are given with a smile, so Hashem helped us understand things got appreciably easier,
more enjoyable than a battery what is important and what is because the older ones helped
operated fancy car that runs on trivial, because perfection is raise the younger ones. After
its own all day and makes their impossible. We are not angels and the 20th child, youll laugh, but
natural creativity wither. You we cannot manage everything! I really wanted another child.
can take simple things that dont From the time my family grew Could it be I was done?
cost anything and make children significantly, this thought about In addition to having your
happy with them. important and trivial was my own children, you have done
The main thing is to remember guiding light. Although by nature a lot and are still active in
to say a good word and to listen I am neat and clean (to the point convincing women not to abort.
to them, and then you will see of ironing sheets), I had to forgo What do you say?
how they can be happy with just things for the sake of that which There was a long period
about anything. Aside from that, was more important. of time when I went to every
we know (as it says in the HaYom Every morning I ask myself, department at Assaf HaRofeh
Yom) that Jewish wealth is not what is the most important thing hospital. I went with Penina
found in houses and money but to do today? What is the order Yisroel and with other women
in children who are educated in of priorities? And I do that first. and we really made an impact.
the way of Torah and mitzvos. So Even if I managed to do only Then we would go to the bris and
it is obvious to us that we are rich three out of ten things, I am they would say, This is Uzits
and we feel happy! satisfied, grateful and happy, baby boy.
They are close in age. Did with the three. I see the cup as First I spoke about myself.
they miss out on personal half full. I didnt manage this, but Then I exposed them to other
attention? I managed that. Joy and gratitude insights, such as that G-d does
I dont think I could give more create a wonderful atmosphere in not ask of us that which we
attention to children than what the home, even if the home is far cannot do. What do you choose
I gave. The nursing period was from being organized, but I am to clean windows or raise a
great. Those hours were restful good with it. My children never Jewish child? To develop a career
and the children knew that Ima is ate off dirty plates and today its
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MEASUREMENTS,
MEN & MIRRORS
Selected Halachos from the
One Minute Halacha project
By HaRav Yosef Yeshaya Braun, Shlita,
Mara Dasra and member of the Badatz of Crown Heights
CAN GLASS WHAT WORK IS and is needed for yom tov. Work
of this kind may be performed
BE KASHERED? FORBIDDEN ON EREV
in a professional manner for
There are three differing PESACH AFTER CHATZOS? oneself, or for someone else but
opinions among poskim on During the era of the Beis without payment.
the subject of koshering glass, HaMikdash, Chazal instituted a Professional writing is
namely: prohibition against any Jewish considered a true form of work
Glass doesnt absorb, and person performing work from and is not permitted even for a
therefore there is no need to midday on Erev Pesachthe mitzvah.
kasher a glass utensil. It only has hours in which the korban Pesach
to be washed and wiped clean. was offered. This Rabbinical HOW MUCH IS A KZAYIS?
The opinion on the opposite prohibition was not removed
end of the spectrum is that even after the destruction of The term kzayis is frequently
glass does absorb, and that this the Beis HaMikdash and the found in Torah sources. A kzayis
absorption is irreversible and discontinuation of the korban is the volume of an average-
cannot be kashered. Pesach. sized olive. However, there is a
difference of opinion amongst
The middle-ground opinion All activities that may
early authorities as to the volume
is that glass, like most other be performed during chol
of an average-sized olive. Many
materials, needs to be kashered if hamoedsuch as a matter that
Rishonim maintain that a kzayis
it becomes treif, and can in fact will be lost if left unattended, or
is approximately the equivalent
be kashered. something that is necessary for
of half an average-sized egg
The Sephardic custom is to the days of chol hamoed and is
(without its shell). Another
be lenient and follow the first done non-professionally, not as a
opinion is that a kzayis is slightly
view. Ashkenazim, although worker trained in that fieldmay
less than a third of an egg (with
they concur with the third certainly be performed on Erev
its shell).
view in principle, are stringent Pesach afternoon.
Regarding a Torah rule, such
in practice and do not kasher It is only true work that
as eating a kzayis of matza on
glass. Some argue that this may not be performed, such as
the first night of Pesach, we must
stringency only applies to Pesach crafting a new utensil or sewing
be stringent and go by the larger
glasswarethat is to say, we new garments. By contrast, one
shiur; regarding the amount
never rely on koshering glass to may repair something that has
of maror to be eaten, which is
remove chametzbut others are been slightly damaged and is
a Rabbinic ruling, we can be
stringent all year round. needed at present. Similarly, one
lenient, if necessary. At times
may sew and repair clothing that
the larger shiur is a leniency: For
has been slightly torn or damaged
example, regarding the halacha
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WHAT IS LUBAVITCHS SE
40 11 Nisan 5777
By Chaim Bruk
I
met him for the first time at the and at the Central Bus Station a Lubavitcher
Central Bus Station, said R bachur noticed me. He came over and asked,
Refael Cheruti, of Nachalat Har Did you put on tfillin today?
Chabad in Kiryat Malachi. It was I told him that I was on my way to the
when I was a young man starting to take an yeshiva in Kfar Chabad, but he was focused
interest in Judaism and Chassidus. I went for on his goal and he said, First put on tfillin.
my first Shabbos to the yeshiva in Kfar Chabad, He then called over another bachur who was
S SECRET TO SUCCESS?
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manning the stand with him. according to custom. toward evening (as every year),
Zimroni, come put them on with He went to the kitchen and a large crowd, thousands of
him. blessed Mussia the cook and people, walked on Tahalucha
That is how I met R Kuti returned to the hall and blessed accompanied by singing to the
Rapp ah, and, yibadel bein us, Chag HaPesach kosher Williamsburg neighborhood (and
chayim lchayim, R Zimroni vsameiach, ulshana habaah other neighborhoods), about an
Tzik, shliach in Bat Yam. We bYerushalayim, ulkiyum hayiud hours walk from Crown Heights,
kept up over the years and when Elokei Yisroel oseh niflaos in order to bring joy to Jews in
R Rapp went to the Rebbe, he levado amen vamen. Then the shuls, the joy of Yom Tov, and
sent me letters with a diary of Rebbe walked toward the door to convey to them sichos of the
events he experienced in the as the hundreds of bachurim Rebbe and the General Letter
Rebbes presence. Apparently, sang the new niggun in honor of (addressed to all sons and
these were photocopies of some the Rebbes 72nd year, Yifrach daughters of the Jewish people in
of the letters he sent to his family. BYamav Tzaddik. every place they may be) which
Unfortunately, I cant find all the Then the Rebbe visited the Rebbe wrote for Pesach.
letters, but I have two of them. Yeshivas Hadar HaTorah (the It poured during Tahalucha,
When I went to console the yeshiva for baalei teshuva), but that did not stop the Rebbes
family during Shiva, I presented where the bachurim made the soldiers from carrying out the
them with a copy of the letters. seder, and blessed them. Then order and going, happily! I
R Cheruti allowed the letters the Rebbe went upstairs and heard that they announced that
to be published in Beis Moshiach looked over the entire building, day in Satmar in the name of
and we thank him for that on their zal, the classrooms and their Rebbe not to fight and to
behalf of our readers. bedrooms, and he also wanted welcome Lubavitch graciously.
to go up to the roof. He asked Indeed, we were welcomed in
whether there was a sukka there Williamsburg graciously and with
A DESCRIPTION OF A VISIT wonder over the obedience of
for Sukkos. The Rebbe said, Its
TO THE REBBE one thing for the bachurim to use Lubavitcher Chassidim.
BH paper plates for Pesach, but here After everyone finished their
Pesach 5733 [Hadar HaTorah] better quality assignments in the shuls, they
Our Pesach was experienced dishes should be used. When the gathered in one central spot
with elevation of spirit and Rebbe left the building, he made and one of the Chassidim read
supernal joy in the fullest sense. I a hand motion of amazement. the Rebbes letter before a large
will write a little about the events On Thursday, the first day crowd that gathered there and
(and experiences) of Yom Tov of Chol HaMoed (outside Eretz the dancing lasted a long time.
with the Rebbe: Yisroel), there was a Kinus We returned to Crown Heights
Torah in the farband hall for late at night.
The sdarim and the Yom Tov
meals took place in the farband the yeshiva students in Crown At the big farbrengen of
hall that was prepared especially Heights. A few bachurim who Acharon shel Pesach, the
for Pesach (not in the kitchen of live here and learn in other Rebbe spoke about rains of
the yeshiva dormitory where they yeshivos also attended. Bachurim blessing that accompanied us
eat all year). After Maariv on the from the yeshiva here and from on Tahalucha and danced with
first night, and after the Rebbe other yeshivos in America and us (absorbed in the clothing)
finished giving out matzos mitzva other countries said pilpulim while we brought Jews the joy of
to those who had not made it to of chiddushei Torah for Yom Tov. The farbrengen began
the Rebbe on the long line that several hours. The gathering before sunset and lasted seven
continued for several hours on was organized by R Zalman hours (from 6:30-1:30).
Erev Pesach, we merited that the Wilschansky. In addition, there At the end of the farbrengen,
Rebbe came up (on the red carpet was the established Kinus the Rebbe gave leftovers of his
that was prepared on the steps HaTorah that took place in 770 matza to Rabbi Mentlick so he
in his honor) to the hall where that Rabbi Mentlick organizes, could distribute it at the Kinus
we held the seder and scanned where roshei yeshiva and others Torah the next day (which was
the bachurim and the kearos speak. attended by Rabbi Simcha Elberg
to see that they were arranged On Shvii shel Pesach, who, after saying a pilpul, spoke
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A few weeks ago, the leadership of the UJA world, I arranged a printing of
the Tanya at Kennedy Airport. At
had yechidus with the Rebbe, six men and their the time, those in charge of the
wives. The Rebbe spoke to them in detail about how to project did not give permission
to print the Tanya everywhere;
allocate the funds and that they should give most of the just in cities and yishuvim, but
money for Jewish education. R Chadakov gave me permission
to print it at the airport. He said
that its an international area.
The Tanya printed at the airport
the members of the secretariat Your son and brother, was one of the first 1000, number
farbrenged with them in the Yekusiel 625.
Rebbes library near 770.
The binding of the sfarim
Preparations for the Lag IN THE MARGINS took place around the time
BOmer parade are in full swing. OF THE LETTERS that the Rebbes matzos were
They are preparing this year for being shipped to Eretz Yisroel, a
at least 20,000 children and In one of R Rapps letters,
the Rebbe is quoted as saying shipment that I was responsible
students. On the flyers they for overseeing. I brought two
wrote there will be 50,000. They in yechidus, Even the goy is a
creation that Hashem invested in, Tanyas with me (since we printed
hung a banner about the parade two kinds of dedications) in order
and the Shnas HaShivim on but a G-dly spark - that is a Jew.
From a spark you can make a to give them to the Rebbe, while
the Tzach building 788, and they were packing the matzos.
over Kingston Avenue, corner of flame that illuminates and warms.
Illuminating and warming the When I handed the Rebbe
Eastern Parkway (the banner is
world is only for a Jew ... the Tanyas, he asked me,
attached to houses on both sides
When I read this I was Did you already receive my
and the cars drive under it) and it
reminded of what R Rapp told participation? (Whoever printed
is quite impressive.
me when I interviewed him a Tanya received $20 from
The Rebbe gave one hundred the secretaries as the Rebbes
single dollars for the parade. for Beis Moshiach, about an
interesting thing that happened participation in the printing). I
There was a big gathering of said, Not yet. The Rebbe said I
Anash and they sold each of when he was involved in sending
matzos from the Rebbe to Eretz should go to the secretaries later
the dollars for $118, and the and get it. He then added, Since
bachurim also participated in Yisroel.
you gave two sfarim, get two
this by pooling into groups. And The second part of the story
bills (of $20 each).
since all the dollars were sold, the was left out of the article written
then, due to lack of space, but When I called the secretaries
Rebbe added $80 (of which 50
perhaps it would be fitting to to report to R Leibel Groner
were sold) and said that if they
include it here as an addendum about the shipment of matzos
need it, he would add more.
to what the Rebbe said in that and to give him the number of the
Apparently, there will be a container, as the Rebbe said to
broadcast from the parade to all yechidus quoted above, from
which, by the way, you can see do, so it would be easier to locate
countries and on the radio here it in Eretz Yisroel, he asked me,
too. And from now on, it seems to what extent R Rapp lived
wholeheartedly with what the Where will you be tomorrow by
that at every weekday farbrengen the Torah reading?
there will be a radio broadcast, Rebbe said in his sichos and with
the instruction to do all that you I said, By the Rebbe in the
like on Purim. On 11 Nissan the
can to bring Moshiach. beis midrash (in the zal upstairs
farbrengen was not broadcast
where they davened and read
on the radio, because they only
from the Torah in those years).
found out that it would take THE REBBE RECEIVED THE He said, The Rebbe wants to
place on the day itself, and so INTERNATIONAL TANYA give you the money himself for
last Motzaei Shabbos there was
This is what R Rapp told me the printing of the Tanya and to
a tape that was broadcast on the
at that time: hear for himself how it went with
radio for about an hour.
In 5744, when they began the matza shipment. Tomorrow
When will we have a radio morning, stand near the door of
broadcast in Eretz Yisroel too? printing the Tanya around the
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G-d miraculously this is the G-d to whom we hope; we shall rejoice and be
Continued from page 47
saved the glad in His salvation.
children that With the blessing of a kosher and happy Pesach
might later receive the Torah, so will He also save our M. Schneerson
generation that the Torah may not be forgotten. He will
After Pesach, on April 18 1952 [23 Nissan 5712] Mr.
save the remnants of our children also from those who
Beckelman responded:
rise up to destroy them, G-d forbid, through a distorted
education which calls evil - good, and good - evil, Dear Rabbi Schneerson:
and considers darkness - light, and light - darkness. Thank you very much for your kind Passover
Despising the Torah of G-d. G-d will save us and them greetings. I, too, hope that it will be possible for us to
from their hands, that this generation be the generation continue to cooperate with the work of your organization
of the Redemption, not by might and not by power, but in the interests of our common cause.
by the spirit of G-d, and every one, boy and girl, man With all best wishes,
and woman, will recognize G-d, pointing a finger and I am,
saying, Behold our G-d, to whom we hoped to save us;
Sincerely yours,
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PASSOVER
GREETINGS
FROM THE REBBE
Pirsum Rishon: In honor of the upcoming holiday of Pesach we
present letters of the Rebbe to the American Joint Distribution
Committee (JDC) in honor of the holiday of Pesach, and the
response of the JDC to the Rebbe * The Rebbes Letters
PESACH 5710 your work in this field, for he considered you a real
friend with foresight and understanding for both
The Rebbes Letter to Dr. Joseph J. Schwartz, the material and spiritual needs of our brethren. I
Chairman of the JDC: am sure that his prayerful wishes and blessings to
Nissan 10, 5710 you, in your public work as well as in your personal
March 28, 1950 life, will continue to stand you in good stead.
Dr. Joseph J. Schwartz With kindest personal regards and best wishes,
Chairman, European Executive Council, Very sincerely yours,
American Joint Distribution Committee, Rabbi Mendel Schneerson
Dear Dr. Schwartz: On April 10, 1950 [23 Nissan 5710] Dr. Joseph
With the approach of Pesach, the festival of our J. Schwartz responded to the Rebbe:
Liberation, I send you my best wishes for a kosher My dear Rabbi Schneerson:
and joyous Pesach. I want to thank you very much for your kind
In our generation, Galuth and Exodus have letter of March 28th in which you express best
both been a bitter reality. No one is more familiar wishes for the Passover Holidays.
than you with the appalling circumstances of the I had the great privilege of knowing your late
present day Galuth and Exodus of our Jewish father-in-law, the sainted Lubavitcher Rabbi, and
brethren. had the deepest respect and regard not only for
It has been your Providential privilege to help his personality but for the wonderful and inspiring
alleviate the pain and suffering of hundreds of work which he performed. His Interest in things
thousands of our brethren. I know with what affecting the Jewish people was universal and
high esteem my late father-in-law, the revered was not confined to any single country or to any
Lubavitcher Rabbi of sainted memory, regarded single group. The community of Israel scattered
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CELEBRATING
THE HERE
AND NOW
By Rabbi Gershon Avtzon
T
hey tell a story of birthday of our father and our I did not know what to do or who
three people who were Melech, the Rebbe. The number to turn to. Finally, I decided to
schmoozing about what 115 is the Gematria of the word pour out my heart to the Rebbe.
type of eulogy they would . The opening pasuk of the I wrote a letter describing all the
like to be said at their funeral. The test of the Akeida, when Hashem hardship and all the agmas nefesh
first one said, I would like the requested of Avraham to act I was experiencing. In the letter, I
Rabbi giving the eulogy to stand with the highest level of Mesiras wrote to the Rebbe that people are
up, look at the coffin and say that Nefesh, reads as follows: telling me that one of the reasons
the person lying there was known that I am not finding supporters
to be a very smart and learned . Rashi comments on is because of our proud and open
man. The second person said: the word , saying: stand about our emuna in the
I wish that the Rabbi would get , this is indicative of the Rebbe.
up, look at the coffin and say that humility of Chassidim.
I opened the Igros Kodesh
the person lying here lived with We all know that we are going (Vol. 3 pg. 282) and read: It was
Mesiras Nefesh for Yiddishkait through a tremendous test now, my assessment that you might
and the education of his family. right before the complete Hisgalus possibly think that the challenge
The third one said: I think it of Moshiach. The Torah teaches us would be too great, because
would be great if at my funeral, the way Chassidim should answer who knows what you would lose
the Rabbi would get up, look at !We are all here and together by fulfilling my suggestion and
the coffin and say Hes moving! we will definitely overcome the request. Therefore when I was at
Hes alive! final test. the gravesite of my revered father-
There are many special dates It is not easy, in-law, the Rebbe, , I recalled
throughout the year on which . The following personal your [name] with a request that
Chassidei Chabad farbreng story will illustrate this point you find the power within your
together, clearly. soul or that you be granted
?Some dates, for example It was the night of Rosh the powers to withstand what
19 Kislev, seem superficially to Chodesh Tammuz just a few years appears to you as a challenge
be a celebration of the history and ago, which was the last night of the and that very soon you will see
greatness of Chassidus. Other zman. My family was in NY for a that there was nothing to it, as
times, such as 12 Tammuz, inspire simcha and I was home alone. I explained in Chassidus with regard
us when we recall the Mesiras could not sleep that night; I was so to the concept of challenges.
Nefesh of Chassidei Chabad worried. The very next morning, I read the letter, and I
throughout the generations. I would have to pay all the money understood the message, but I
However tonight is different owed for the past as well as for still could not imagine how the
from all other nights. Tonight the the upcoming summer, and the situation would resolve.
message is different: !! financial struggles were crushing. Well, there is a Yid in
Tonight we celebrate the 115th
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serene. By his side was his young children but a bachur with
PART I a lofty soul. She agreed to his
wife Chana.
A small house made of The two of them lived in this stipulation despite the sacrifice
old wood stood on the side shack, alone in the mountains.
it required of her.
of a mountain, among the It wasnt easy for Chana, who Chana was happy, even
mountains between Kitov though she did not see her
was dislocated from her birth
and Kosov, as though hiding city of Brody where she had husband much at home.
in its shade. As far as the eye lived with her family. Her older Throug hout the week he would
could see were the Carpathian brother was Rabbi Avrohom wande r throug h thick forests
Mountains in their full glory. Gershon of Kitov. He was one of which there were plenty in
G-ds creation is magnificent of the members of the kloiz the Carpathians. He would leave
indeed. (informal group of great Torah home on Sunday morning and
A young couple lived in this scholars immersed in full-time return on Friday afternoon,
house, a couple which chose to Torah study) in Brody, and before Shabbos. And yet, Chana
flee the tumult of the city and was considered a mekubal and was happy. She knew that her
the hordes of humanity. They great in Torah. However, this husband was an outstanding
had married just a few months was the condition that her tzaddik, a scholar, and a holy
earlier and had built their lives future husband made when man. Not many knew this.
in peace and quiet. their shidduch was suggested, Actually, only she knew. He
The mans name was Yisroel. that after the wedding they hid his ways from others, even
In his childhood he had been would leave the bustling city from her brother who was
called Yisroelik and later, when and live in isolation where the angry at his sisters decision to
he became the great leader young groom could continue marry this apparent simpleton.
of the Jewish people, he was to chart his spiritual course in R Gershon had not thought
known as Rabbi Yisroel Baal climbing the heights of holiness his sister would do such a
Shem Tov. Despite his youth and purity, a course exclusive to shidduch. He hoped with all
there was always a seriousness him and based on the guidance his heart that he could marry
about him, and he looked like of his illustrious teacher. her off to an outstanding
someone older who was steeped The young lady soon Torah scholar, someone G-d
in wisdom and possessed of figured out her groom s secret. fearing, and not some nobody
great intellect. His eyes always She realized he wasnt just a who appeared one day at his
radiated joy and his face was teachers assistant for young home and showed him an
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