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DVAR MALCHUS

EXPEDITING
OUR
DELIVERANCE
There are absolutely no limits to the feeling of
zrizus, excitement and enthusiasm that gives shofar as early as possible in the
rise to a constant spiritual state of alacrity. * morning on Rosh HaShana, with the
spiritual intent of bringing about the
The above should inspire us to action. First off, victory of the Czars forces [against
to publicize that we are presently in the end Napoleon]. The Alter Rebbe sided
with the Czar because he saw the
of days, eis keitz, during which time, Many spiritual condition under his rule as
shall refine themselves and make themselves preferable [to the influence of French
white, and be purified... culture anticipated in the wake
of a French victory over Russia].
Thus, in a move that transcends the
constraints of the regular order, the
Translated by Boruch Merkur Alter Rebbe blew the shofar prior to
davening.
The saying of our Sages, If
TO FILL THE LACK then. There are things that simply you have seen kingdoms clashing
cannot be done before daybreak. with one another, anticipate the
IN ALACRITY footsteps of Moshiach, brings out
However, there are absolutely
The very fact that Moshiach no limits to the feeling of zrizus, this storys connection to the coming
Tzidkeinu still has not come proves excitement and enthusiasm that gives of Moshiach (apropos to what was
that there is still a need to increase in rise to a constant spiritual state of said above about having zrizus with
all aspects of serving G-d, including alacrity. This inspiration transcends regard to the redemption).
increasing in zrizus, alacrity all measures and boundaries, The Messianic sign of kingdoms
going from strength to strength to resulting in a person should always clashing with one another applies
the point that they have no rest. give precedence to Mitzva-related to our generation as well, though
Here I dont mean zrizus solely activities (Nazir 23b), a person it will not be manifested with the
in terms of action, but also an should always run for the sake of a same devastation as in the time of
emotional, heartfelt inspiration or Mitzva. the Alter Rebbe, G-d forbid. After
enthusiasm. all the horrors that befell the Jewish
There are several limitations WAKING THE DAWN WITH THE people since that time, especially in
inherent to zrizus in terms of the last generation, etc., certainly we
expediting action, and the like. For
SOUND OF THE SHOFAR have fulfilled our obligation to suffer
example, the verse says, Avrohom A sort of illustration of how more than we can bear! From now
rose in the morning [in preparation zrizus defies measure or limitation on, everything must be with kindness
for the binding of Yitzchok]. That is the well-known story about the and with mercy, amidst tranquility,
is, he woke up immediately at the Alter Rebbe, who once rushed to joy and gladness of heart. []
start of the new day, but not before perform the Mitzva of blowing the

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HOW TO PREPARE the refinement, cleansing, and That is to say that since
IN THE END OF DAYS purification of everything related Moshiach Tzidkeinu has still
to him, by means of adding one not come after all our deeds and
The above should inspire us positive activity after another service that have been done until
to action. First off, to publicize one action, one spoken word, now, there should be a further
that we are presently in the even a single thought. For by increase in refinement, cleansing,
end of days, eis keitz, during doing so, he inclines himself and purifying, etc. a totally
which time, Many shall refine and the entire world to the side thorough refinement.
themselves and make themselves of favor, bringing to himself (From the address of Shabbos Parshas
white, and be purified (Daniel and to the others salvation and Tzav, Shabbos HaGadol, 12 Nissan 5747,
12:9-10). The call to action is deliverance. bilti muga)
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PARSHA THOUGHT

MESSIANIC
MATURITY AND
CHILDLIKE
INNOCENCE
By Rabbi Heschel Greenberg the Holiday of Passover in most
years, we must also look for
the connection between these
obligations and Passover.
TWO VERSIONS OF were they to stay?
In addition, the Shabbos
THE SEVEN DAYS OF The Rebbe answers that the before Passover is called Shabbos
two verses actually discuss two HaGadol, the Great Shabbos.
INITIATION different obligations. The first There are literally dozens if not
At the end of this weeks verse was directed to those inside hundreds of explanations why
parsha, after discussing the the Tent of Meeting performing it is so called. Whatever the
seven-day period of initiation the required services during the reason for the name, the question
of Aharon and his sons into the first seven days. Their obligation presented here asks about the
priesthood, the Torah concludes. did not extend into the nights connection between the Torah
You should not leave because the Tent of Meeting reading concerning the seven
the entrance of the Tent of was taken down and no services days of initiation and the theme
Meeting for seven days until were performed until the next of the Great Shabbos.
the concluding day of your morning.
At first glance, the connection
days of inauguration You However, the second to Passover is the seven-day
should stay at the entrance verse was addressed to those initiation period Aharon and his
to the Tent of Meeting day who remained outside the sons had to serve in the Tent
and night for seven days, and Tent of Meeting; they had an of Meeting and its parallel in
must guard your appointed independent obligation to stand the seven days of the Passover
duty to G-d guard at the site of the Tent of Holiday.
Commentators ask why the Meeting even when the Tent was
But that is where the analogy
Torah repeated the command not disassembled for the night.
appears to end. The seven
to leave the Tent of Meeting for We must try to understand days in the parsha were for the
seven days. the spiritual dimension of these inauguration and initiation of
Another question: Why does two obligations. the Priests, whereas Passover
it mention day and night the celebrates the Exodus from
second time this command is THE CONNECTION Egypt. What is the connection
given, but not the first time? between these two events?
WITH PASSOVER AND
A third question is posed,
if the Tent of Meeting was
SHABBOS HAGADOL
PASSOVER AS INITIATION
disassembled every night and Since this Torah reading
there was no entrance, where occurs on the Shabbos before Upon deeper reflection,

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it is apparent that Passover an adult retains a latent spark of PREPARING FOR THE AGE
too is a time of initiation and childhood innocence and purity, OF MATURITY
inauguration. The Passover so too, a child possesses a spark
Seders dominant theme is of maturity and adulthood. It is The above discussion also
education of our youth. It is the the educators role to ignite that sheds a light on our own status
child who asks the four questions. spark. as we prepare to enter the
We do things differently during Messianic Age. In exile we are
We can now understand the
the seder so that the children like children preparing for the
connection between the seven-
will ask additional questions. We Messianic age of maturity. As
day period of inauguration and
are required to start the seder we stand close, so very close to
the Holiday of Passover: they
promptly at nightfall so that the the Final Redemption we must
are both designed to prepare
children do not tire out and fall conduct ourselves as adults, not
the uninitiated for their ultimate
asleep too soon. And, indeed, as immature children.
roles.
a good portion of the Seder And here is the ultimate
Although the PriestsAharon
is devoted to answering the paradox. On the one hand,
and his sonswere grown
questions of the Four Sons. the Messianic Age is the age
men, they were regarded as
In truth, Passover is not just of ultimate maturity. The
children relative to their future
for children. It is also meant entire world will be filled with
position in the Tent of Meeting.
to inspire we adults, who are the knowledge of G-d. As
Consequently, they were charged
children relative to the spiritual Maimonides puts it, we will
with activating their more
level we are capable of reaching know G-d To the extent of
advanced adult level.
but have not yet achieved. When human potential, which means
The lesson at this point is that we will reach the apex
we respond to the questions of obvious. Every day of our life
the child we are also responding of intellectual and spiritual
is a day of preparation for the development and act accordingly.
to the child in us. future. Each and every day we In these last moments of exile,
are both an adult as compared to we must cultivate that maturity
CULTIVATING THE ADULT the preceding day and a child as by learning the teachings of
IN THE CHILD compared to the next day. Chassidus which introduce us
According to many opinions, to a more sophisticated level of
when we train a child to do a SHABBOS HAGADOL: SETS understanding of G-d.
Mitzvah we must train him or her THE TONE FOR PASSOVER On the other hand, Moshiach
to do it in the precise manner it This also explains the is also associated with childlike
is done by an adult. It does not connection with Shabbos innocence. The Talmud,
suffice to get the child to perform HaGadol, which can be commenting on the verse
a Mitzvah in some symbolic, half- translated as the Shabbos of Do not touch My anointed
baked, compromised fashion, maturity. The focus of Passover [Meshichoi] ones, states that it
absent its details and intricate is the introduction of the Gadol- refers to the children who study
requirements. If the contrary great-mature-adult dimension of Torah with purity and innocence.
were the case, it would be spirituality to the child. The Moshiach spark in us is the
misleading the child. He or she inner child that we all possess.
To be sure, Passover is a Our individual responsibility is to
would be ill-prepared to perform
childrens holiday in which we cultivate that spark of innocence
the mitzvah properly.
cultivate the childlike purity and and bring it to the fore.
We are led by this thought to innocence within our children
an arguably novel way of viewing and within ourselves. However, it So, which is the real
the role of an educator. While the is also a time for us to cultivate Messianic dynamic: childlike
educator must recognize that he the adult dimension of our lives. innocence or mature knowledge?
or she is dealing with a child, he To set the tone for the second
or she must also view the child objective, the Shabbos before THE NEXUS
as a potential adult. Indeed, a Passover is designated as the
child possesses far more adult The answer is a synthesis of
Shabbos of adulthood and the two. We have to strive for the
characteristics than we usually maturity.
give him or her credit for. Just as highest level of knowledge and
maturity even as we preserve the

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purity and innocence that flows We are led by this thought to an arguably novel way
from the essence of our soul. A
child is born that way and does of viewing the role of an educator. While the educator
not have to do anything to be a must recognize that he or she is dealing with a child, he or she
child. To acquire our Messianic
childhood, by contrast, we must must also view the child as a potential adult. Indeed, a child
invest great effort so that it is not possesses far more adult characteristics than we usually give
overshadowed by a Messianic
sophistication. The ultimate goal him or her credit for. Just as an adult retains a latent spark of
is the fusing of the inner child childhood innocence and purity, so too, a child possesses a
and adulthood.
spark of maturity and adulthood. It is the educators role to
This synthesis is highlighted
by observing Passover (the ignite that spark.
Holiday that cultivates childlike
innocence) after Shabbos
HaGadol-the Shabbos of represents our Messianic that can become obscured by a
Maturity. aspiration to meet with G-d. In persons sophistication.
The connection between our preparation for this meeting, That is why the people had to
Shabbos HaGadol and Passover there are two dynamics. stand outside the disassembled
suggests that our educational First, we have to anticipate Tent of Meeting and guard it,
goal must be to inspire the all that we will be doing in i.e., preserve the integrity of
child to strive to become an the future. This seven-day the holiness of the place, the
adult. Moreover, the true goal period corresponds to our holiness of a disassembled (read:
is to create a fusion of spiritual seven emotional attributes. unsophisticated, childlike) Tent
adulthood with childlike The objective is that all of our of Meeting. That too must be
innocence and purity. faculties should be harnessed to preserved.
So, when we educate our the highest level of our meeting As we wait and anticipate
children and ourselves we must with G-d. In this mode we are Moshiachs revelation, we must
focus on the two intertwined engaged in cultivating our adult work to attain a level of maturity
goals: achieving maturity and version of Judaism. Indeed, on in our knowledge of Torah;
preserving innocence. Both the next day, Nadav and Avihu, particularly, the part of Torah
goals are liberating. Achieving Aharons eldest sons, reached that introduces us to the highest
maturity allows us to break out of the climax of their spiritual spiritual levels. We then have to
our immature, unsophisticated, advancement to the extent that fuse that with the simple faith
infantile and foolish ways of their souls left their bodies. in the Rebbes words to us that
approaching everything in life, This seven-day adult The time of your Redemption
as well as breaking through program is limited to the has come.
the crust of intellectualism and daytime, when the Tent of
sophistication to reveal the pure Meeting is fully assembled
and holy essence of our soul. in operational mode, just
like true education of a
PARALLEL WITH TWIN child requires that the child
SEVEN DAY INITIATION perform the Mitzvah in an
adult fashion. The command
PROCESS not to leave the Tent of
But we still must understand Meeting indicated that this
the connection between the two was part of a permanent,
seven-day initiation processes; mature program.
the first for seven days in the However, these seven
Tent of Meeting and the second days of initiation served
seven days and nights outside the another function. They were
Tent of Meeting. intended to preserve the
The Tent of Meeting inner purity and holiness

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THE ONE MAN
MOSHIACH
SEUDA MACHINE
Throughout the year, Rabbi Eliezer Krugliak is
a teacher in Oholei Torah in Kfar Chabad. But
when Pesach approaches, he becomes a dynamic
shliach, campaigner, publicist and producer,
with one goal: to bring the Moshiach seuda to
every Jewish home. * In an interview with Beis
Moshiach, R Krugliak tells how it all began,
about the first Moshiach seuda, about a simple
way to get people to fulfill this custom, about
the Rebbes approach to strengthening this
mivtza, and why specifically a Moshiach seuda.
* Also, about a moving Moshiach seuda in the
heart of the inferno in Jenin.

By Zalman Tzorfati

Why a Moshiach seuda? I HaMoed that it is a segula to about it. Is there a greater Mivtza
asked R Krugliak. make a Moshiach seuda. Then Moshiach than this?
Its not just a seuda; its the child asks, what is Moshiach? When I wanted to interview
Moshiach, he said. Through When will he come? Who is it? R Eliezer Krugliak for the Pesach
the seuda you bring Moshiach Why do we need him? issue, he was thrilled. Of course,
into every Jewish home. Picture Without needing wonderful, thank you very
a family sitting around the table explanations, lectures and much, he said. I look for every
and the father explaining to his shiurim, in thousands and opportunity to urge Anash and
children that now we are eating hundreds of thousands of homes the shluchim to talk about this
a seuda in honor of Moshiach, and shuls, they will talk about and spread the word. If I reach
because he heard in shul or Moshiach, ask, answer, discuss, many more people through an
read on a paper he saw on Chol explain, and even tell a good joke article which they will read Erev

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does publicity through text


AN UNFORGETTABLE MOSHIACH SEUDA messaging, and all for the
R Rami Meir of Kfar Chabad has a story for us about a Moshiach purpose of spreading the idea of
seuda. It was in the middle of Operation Defensive Shield in 2002, and on the Moshiach seuda to more and
Shvii shel Pesach, Rami was in the center of Jenin. The war cost us many more Jews.
casualties and spirits were low. In the few days of fighting, they had lost
their commander. THE REBBE DRAGGED
Rami suddenly remembered about making a Moshiach seuda. He ME INTO THIS
decided it had to be done despite the dire circumstances. He had a small I got into this by divine
piece of matza left and the remains of a bottle of wine. He gathered his providence. I feel like the Rebbe
colleagues and told them about the special light, the light of Moshiach, pulled me into this, answers
which shines in the world at this time, and about the segula in making a R Krugliak with characteristic
Moshiach seuda. He gave out some crumbs of matza to each soldier and humility, when I ask him, What
some drops of wine. They ate, blessed one another, and were fortified. makes a person suddenly wake
Their mood improved and they continued fighting until they completed up one morning and decide to be
their mission. a Seudas Moshiach shliach?
After the war, they gathered in Ramis house and held a memorial for Apparently, the Rebbe
the commander who had been killed and another soldier who was killed wanted someone to be meshuga
after that when a Palestinian sniper shot at him as he wore tfillin. about Seudas Moshiach, he
The soldiers recalled the special Moshiach seuda and it was a very answers simply.
moving event. The soldiers all agreed to commit to putting on tfillin lilui It all began in 5751, when
nishmas their fellow soldier who had been slain. before Pesach I returned from
I told this part of the story to Menachem Cohen who edits the Chaim half a year on shlichus in Russia.
Yehudiyim column in Sichat HaShavua and he published it. During that period, the Rebbe
But the story did not end here. The father of that slain soldier, an older began to speak very strongly
Yemenite man, went to shul as he did every day, but the week of his sons about Moshiach, and every
memorial was unbearable for him. His emotional state affected his physical Shabbos there was another sicha
state and he began to feel sick in the middle of davening. He decided to go with yet another novel insight
out of the shul and sit on a bench outside and breathe some fresh air. about Moshiach. The Rebbe
As he sat there, he noticed the latest issue of Sichat HaShavua which put us all into a very powerful
was near him. He was familiar with the publication but said he never read atmosphere of Moshiach.
it since he read none of the Shabbos pamphlets. But now, as he sat outside, When Pesach arrived, the
he leafed through it and suddenly came across the story about his son. He whole idea of As in the days
was moved to tears and took it as a heavenly sign of encouragement. And of your exodus from Egypt, I
that is how, by divine providence, he received the strength to go on, thanks will show you wonders took
to a Moshiach seuda. on a special significance. So
when the seventh day of Pesach
Yom Tov or on Yom Tov and they a doubt, R Eliezer Krugliak came along, whose high point
will convey the message, thats of Kfar Chabad. He took the is Seudas Moshiach (outside of
great! Rebbes instruction and made Eretz Yisroel it is on the eighth
it into a real campaign with day), I was so inspired that I
Everything, even the most simply began going from shul to
holy, in order to be successful a main hub, volunteers, and
all sorts of publicity. He lives shul. I was living in Yerushalayim
in permeating the public at the time, and I recall spending
consciousness, requires that it with this all year, mobilizing
the funds and coming up with the entire seventh day going
have someone that is meshuga from place to place. At night I
about it, one of the mashpiim ideas. During the days before
Pesach, while everyone else is went to all sorts of shuls where
once said. Someone who is people were up learning, and
passionate about it, who will busy with cleaning and preparing
for the seder night, he is already in the morning at Shacharis
have mesirus nefesh for it and time I went to a few more. And
will excite everybody else. The up to the Moshiach seuda. He
makes flyers, puts ads in the before Mincha and after Mincha
meshuga for the Moshiach I managed to visit some more
seuda in Eretz Yisroel is, without papers and on radio broadcasts,

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shuls. I tried to squeeze in as The pointed answer became even more
many shuls as possible, and
in each of them I spoke to the incredible when I checked the exchange rate that
congregation and told them that day and the amount of $112.50 was exactly 500 shekels.
there is a segula on Shvii shel
Pesach to eat a seuda in honor of
Moshiach with matzo and wine. Pesach, many soldiers came over
I was shocked to see the to me and told me that they did
willingness and happiness with what I said and ate the Moshiach
which my words were accepted, seuda. Even those who seemed
without any deep conversations unlikely candidates, i.e., those
or explanations. People were who dont necessarily check for a
informed that there is such a Kosher for Pesach on the label
segula and they all wanted to of food, informed me that they
partake in the Seudas Moshiach. partook of a seudas Moshiach.
There were shul caretakers who
began opening up tables, rabbis
who stepped aside and let me
BREAKOUT AS
speak, simple women who went A NATIONAL CAMPAIGN
to prepare and eat the meal Every year, R Krugliak did
in their homes, and all with what he could to spread the idea
simplicity and sincerity. of Moshiachs seuda. But at some
I suddenly grasped that point, about fifteen years ago,
Seudas Moshiach is one of the came the big breakthrough.
Rebbes campaigns that is very and couldnt eat anything. I I was on mivtzaim in Assaf
simple to publicize and carry brought shmura matza with me HaRofeh hospital on Erev
out. When you speak to someone and thats all I ate. On Erev Shabbos HaGadol. We went
about tfillin, mezuza, Shabbos Shvii shel Pesach, he was granted through the departments with
observance, or any other matter, a leave along with the thousands tfillin and matza and wherever
it usually involves some physical of other soldiers who were part I went, I spoke about the first
exertion or an exertion of faith. of the March draft, who had kzayis on the first night of
Here we are talking about a been together with him at the Pesach and about the Moshiachs
simple project, eating matza and absorption and assignment base seuda on the last day.
drinking wine. You dont need to in Tel HaShomer. I really got into it and spoke
spend a lot of money, you dont with everyone, from my heart. I
Before their release, the
need to understand deep matters, was sorry it wasnt possible to go
thousands of recruits filled the
you dont need to drag yourself up on some high place and shout
main square of the base and
to a special location, and there so everyone could hear. Then I
received orders from their young
are no complicated instructions got the idea of advertising in the
commanders. R Krugliak went
to carry out. It is simple and easy. paper.
over to the commanders and said
You can eat it at home and youve
he wanted to bless the soldiers for I called Maariv, which was
done it.
the Yom Tov. The atmosphere then at its height, and the cost
was uplifting and they allowed was nearly 10,000 shekels for
MOSHIACH SEUDA IN me to speak. I spoke briefly a small advertisement. It was a
AN IDF TRAINING BASE about Pesach and mainly about fortune but I was so worked up
the Moshiach seuda that would about it, that I wanted to do it.
That was the first time that R
begin in a little more than a day. I called a friend who gave me
Krugliak reached out and since
I asked the soldiers to eat some part of the money and called
then many years of tireless efforts
matza then, and drink some wine another friend who also gave
have come and gone. Prior to
or grape juice and make whatever something. I had no fax so we
Pesach 5754, despite being a
requests they wanted, mainly for faxed the advertisement from R
newlywed, he was drafted literally
the Geula. Avi Piamentas house. We wrote
on Erev Pesach. I was in the
When I returned after the ad and sent it off and it was
army the entire Chol HaMoed

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featured in the papers holiday I dont know; its all get him to partner with me. He
issue. miraculous. I make commitments had already finished his project
At the bottom of the ad I put and it is just unbelievable how to publish the letter, but when
my phone number for those who every year things work out he saw the answer I got from
wanted additional information. amazingly. There are some the Rebbe he got into it and
I got lots of feedback. People wonderful people to whom this also obtained a donation for the
called to ask how to do it and is important and they donate a entire sum in the speediest, most
after the holiday some called to significant part of the costs. Id amazing way.
tell me they did it. Shluchim also like to mention the Stambler A number of times when I
told me that people came to their family who own the matza bakery wrote to the Rebbe about the
Chabad House because of the ad in Kfar Chabad, who donate campaign, I opened to where the
in the paper. every year in memory of their Rebbe speaks about advertising
*** father, R Yaakov, who passed in the papers and on radio. We
away on 11 Nissan. have answers from the Rebbe
This was the first time that his
personal efforts had a national Aside from that, we simply and miracles at every step.
impact. Since then, over the see miracles wherever we turn.
years, the work evolved and A few years ago we somehow R Krugliak went on to tell me
progressed, and R Krugliak got the information that the last extraordinary stories of divine
became more knowledgeable page in the most popular holiday providence connected to the
about the many ways to reach supplement in the country was campaign:
people and the campaign for a suddenly available due to a But that is not the main
Moshiach seuda has grown from canceled advertisement. They thing, he suddenly interjected.
year to year. were willing to sell it to us for an The main thing is to convince
especially low price. Although it the shluchim and Anash to take
Today we advertise in
was five figures, it was a quarter an active part and spread the
many venues. We have an ad in
of the full price. message about the Moshiach
the papers which is publicized
every year by Rabbi Shimon I didnt know what to do. It seuda.
Yehuda Pizem of Hisachdus was after I had already spent all
Hachassidim LKabbalas Pnei the money on the usual campaign
expenses and what I had left were
EASIEST AND
Moshiach. Aside from that, we MOST NATURAL
do a lot of advertising on the two donations from two friends,
radio, on stations that target 500 shekels from each. I wrote What do you tell people
religious Jews. We send hundreds to the Rebbe through the Igros about the Moshiach seuda
of thousands of texts, and print Kodesh and the answer was: The how do you convince them?
tens of thousands of flyers that two donations totaling $112.50 As I mentioned, whats
are distributed before Pesach and were received and now we can go unique about the Moshiach
during Chol HaMoed by Anash to print the letters of the Rebbe, seuda campaign is the simplicity
and shluchim. my father-in-law, for Pesach. of it. Deep explanations arent
I am in touch with many Whats amazing is that the necessary. Eating is easy and
reporters and journalists of letter is dated the month of Av! natural, and something that
various stations, through whom That means, it was a donation people do all the time. So we are
we raise the subject of the that the Rebbe received in the just asking that he or she eat a
Moshiach seuda on programs summer, so it seems, and he certain food at a certain time, and
which reach a variety of allocated the donations toward even better if they have in mind
audiences. printing the Rebbe Rayatzs that it is in honor of Moshiach.
letters for Pesach. The precise When I have occasion to
answer became even more elaborate, I explain that during
MIRACLES ABOUND incredible when I checked the the final hours of every holiday is
AND ENCOURAGEMENT exchange rate that day and the when the highest lights shine, like
FROM THE REBBE amount of $112.50 was exactly at the end of Shabbos and Nila
500 shekels. on Yom Kippur. All the holiness
It sounds like an organized
and well run campaign. Where At that moment, I took what of the holiday is accrued during
does the funding come from? I had and contacted R Pizem to the final hours. It is an auspicious

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time, a time when, on Pesach, the A number of times when I wrote to the Rebbe
light of Moshiach shines on the
world and the gates of heaven about the campaign, I opened to where the
are open. Its a time to ask for Rebbe speaks about advertising in the papers and on
whatever you want, for health,
parnasa, nachas from children, radio. We have answers from the Rebbe and miracles at
shidduchim, good spouses for every step.
your children, for grandchildren,
and of course to ask for the
Geula of the Jewish people
through Moshiach. go on trips with the family to the recipient, whether its Baba
the park. While the family is Sali, Rabbi Mordechai Eliyahu
enjoying themselves, I take my or Rabbi Yoram Abergel ztl who
MIVTZA (SEUDAS) older children for a walking tour were particularly interested in
MOSHIACH of the park for a few hours and this, or the Chassidishe Admurim
When a father or grandfather give out flyers. Chol HaMoed who follow this enactment of the
comes home and he gathers his is an excellent time. People are Baal Shem Tov.
wife, children and grandchildren relaxing in the park; its not like Its important to explain that
and gives out matza and wine the hectic shopping mall on Erev this is for women too. Often
or grape juice and tells them Yom Tov. You can talk to them people make do with the fact that
about Moshiach, it is the greatest and explain things and its always in shul there is a Moshiach seuda
publicizing of Moshiach there can amazing to see the interest they which the father attends. You
be. The Rebbe says that kabbalas have in it. need to explain that women and
pnei Moshiach is the gateway girls can and should do it too.
through which all aspects of EVERYONE IS INVITED TO They can do it on their own at
shlichus pass. Everything is home, or gather together. Either
JOIN
connected with Moshiach; mivtza way, its important they have a
mezuza and tfillin, Neshek, I go from family to family and Moshiach seuda too.
family purity, Torah study, it all there is hardly anyone who does
So how about joining the
has to be connected to Moshiach. not respond. Boruch Hashem, in
campaign? There is material on
The Moshiach seuda publicizes recent years we also have the kol
the Seudas Moshiach that you
about Moshiach in Jewish homes koreh that we published from
can take with you to parks and
and as they eat, so that it also rabbanim and Admurim through
zoos, wherever people congregate
becomes absorbed inwardly, as the efforts of Rabbi Naftali Roth
on Chol HaMoed. Who knows?
Chassidus explains. in which gdolei Yisroel call upon
Maybe the family you convince
I call upon all of Anash and everyone to fulfill this custom
to have a Moshiach seuda will be
the shluchim to join in this year and say they do so themselves.
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THE REBBES
VISIT TO THE
PESACH SEDER

A personal diary recorded by R Saadia Maatuf, describing his


year on kvutza, from Nissan 5733-Iyar 5734. In his emotionally
charged diary, he provides a unique perspective of a child of
Yemenite immigrants to Eretz Yisroel coming to the Rebbe for
the first time. * Part 1 the first encounter with the Rebbe, the
Rebbes visit on Seder night to the Seder held by the bachurim,
kos shel bracha in the place of matzos for the residents of
Bareket, the drama surrounding the yechidus for the shluchim
to Australia and other observations from Nissan 5733 with the
Rebbe.

By Rav Saadia Maatuf


Prepared for publication: Shneur Zalman Berger

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BROKEN EYE CONTACT deny that when I saw the Rebbe not plan on standing in a fixed
for the first time I did not see spot. I said to myself that I would
1 Nissan 5733:
anything extraordinary. The see how things go, and I actually
In his diary, R Saadia Rebbe davened like everybody stood in the place of someone
describes the flight from Lud to else and I spent the entire service else who stood not far from me
New York via London, during looking at the Rebbe. During and told me that it was his regular
which the Tmimim traveling to the final Kaddish, the Rebbe place, but since he meanwhile
kvutza engaged in mivtza tfillin, gave a half glance around and had a better place he would
held prayer services and danced automatically I broke eye contact yield to me for now. However,
and sang Chassidic melodies. and could not look at the Rebbe. those that stood on the same row
We want to reach the place Only when the Rebbe stopped pushed me slowly but surely until
where we have yearned to be looking in my direction was I they pushed me out completely.
for years, and about which we able to look at him. The entire time I held on to the
dreamed such rosy dreams. We finished davening table in front of me, but as soon
Boruch Hashem, the dream Maariv. Everyone was pushing to as I let go of the table due to the
is coming to fruition Every see the Rebbe while he was going pushing, I knew that I had lost
moment seems like a year to to his room. Rabbi Chadakov my place. Still, in the end, I could
us, but we are trying to arm immediately closed the door see the Rebbe between peoples
ourselves with patience. If we to Gan Eden HaTachton (the heads. Although it was not a
waited for years, we can wait a hallway outside the Rebbes comfortable spot, I managed
few more hours. room) behind the Rebbe. to stand and try to listen to the
The few hours passed, and On Thursday, 3 Nissan, Rebbe.
the jet landed peacefully. After we all made the HaGomel When the Rebbe entered, a
making their way through the blessing. The Rebbe looked at path immediately opened in the
bureaucratic procedures of each one of us. The feeling was sea of people. They squeezed
customs and immigration, the very emotional. Each one of us me and I was afraid of getting
Tmimim exited the terminal and knew that he is standing before a crushed, but boruch Hashem
met their friends who came to great man, a Rebbe, and that the I came out of it healthy and
greet them: Rebbe, through a glance, can read whole. The Rebbe immediately
We exited the arrivals your thoughts and you are before went to his seat and sat down.
terminal, where our friends were him like an open book. I was Meanwhile, the crowd had
already waiting for us. They very emotionally overwrought; begun to sing Yifrach BYamav
helped us board a rented bus and I looked for the blessing in the Tzaddik. Suddenly, shh...
we set off for 770. We arrived at siddur and began to stammer. silence. The Rebbe began to
the exact time that the Rebbe was With difficulty, I found the speak. I will not deny that I did
outside to draw mayim shlanu blessing and said it very quickly not understand the Rebbe all that
(water that sat out overnight - for and quietly. I was terrified that well, but I cant say that I did not
baking matza). This was the first I would just collapse on the understand anything, because
time that I was seeing the Rebbe. spot, and the feeling continued I did understand a bit. The
I could not see the Rebbes face, with me throughout the day. Rebbe made a siyum on Tractate
but I made the SheHechiyanu When I recall that moment I Ksubos and connected it to his
blessing. After the mayim am once again filled with fright. chapter of Thillim, Psalm 72.
shlanu, the Rebbe entered his Apparently, that is the power of a The Rebbe spoke about who
room and we went to the small glance from the Rebbe. is a Jew and the role of the
zal where we waited for Maariv. Rabbanut, and about drafting
In the meantime, we met friends yeshiva students etc. He also said
and acquaintances, and suddenly
STANDING PACKED AT a maamer Ki Yishalcha Bincha.
shh...shh. Everyone was pushing THE YUD-ALEPH NISSAN Between each talk the Rebbe
and squeezing, and the Rebbe FARBRENGEN said lchaim to whoever raised a
entered with a very serious face. Thursday evening, 11 Nissan: cup.
We stood opposite the door, and At the end of one of the sichos,
The farbrengen with the
the Rebbe practically did not look before the maamer, someone
Rebbe began at 9:30 PM. The
at us at all. not from Anash approached the
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Rebbe and shook his hand, and
spoke with the Rebbe for a long
time.
Meanwhile, the crowd sang a
number of songs until the Rebbe
finished talking to him. Suddenly
it was silent as the Rebbe began
another sicha, and when he
ended, he seemed to want to start
the niggun [normally sung before
a maamer] but R Yoel [who
usually began the niggunim]
did not begin and everybody
was silent. The Rebbe took out
a handkerchief and with closed
eyes said the maamer as everyone
stood, as is the custom at a
maamer [except for the Rebbe].
When the Rebbe finished
delivering the maamer, he said
another two sichos. At the end The author with the Rebbe
he made an after blessing and
began to sing Ufaratzta as the he would return late as usual, but During the tfilla, the Rebbe
entire crowd danced in place. that is not what happened; the stood the entire time. I stood
The Rebbe made a motion with Rebbe actually returned early and opposite the Rebbe during the
his hand and everybody began to there were barely twenty people reading of the Haftora and I
jump even more and it was very around. The Rebbe davened heard every word. The Rebbe
joyous. Immediately, the Rebbe Mincha and after the davening returned to his place, and I
exited by way of the path that he called for the shluchim visiting noticed that when the shliach
had entered, and went back to his from Los Angeles. Each one was tzibbur reached the priestly
room. called separately by the Rebbe, blessings, the Rebbe would turn
and he gave each one a medium to look at the shliach tzibbur
Later, we all waited outside
sized package of matzos. and Rashag stepped back so
of Gan Eden HaTachton and we
The bachurim who were as not to impede the Rebbes
began to sing Ufaratzta. The
there stood opposite Gan Eden line of sight. During Kdusha of
Rebbe left his room and made
HaTachton and sang Ufaratzta Musaf, the Rebbe gave a bang
an encouraging motion with his
and Yifrach BYamav Tzaddik, of encouragement on his lectern
hand, and exited [the building
but when the Rebbe exited he with his hand and they all began
of 770] and went into the car.
passed by without reacting and to sing Hu Elokeinu. That is
Outside, everybody was singing
went home. not what happened the previous
as the Rebbe conducted with his
Shabbos when the Rebbe did
hand. The Rebbe drove away
not bang on the lectern and they
with a police escort leading the THE EVENTS OF actually did not sing.
way. The farbrengen ended at SHABBOS HAGADOL
1:50 AM, and the entire street At the conclusion of the
Shabbos Parshas Metzora: davening, they made an
outside of 770 was packed with
people. Today I davened where there announcement about Mivtza
was a lot of pushing, unlike last Tfillin and Melaveh Malka, and
Shabbos when I stood on the the Rebbe left immediately. This
SENDING MATZOS platform. This time I davened was the sign that there would be
TO LOS ANGELES below and I got pushed around a farbrengen that day [because
Friday, 11 Nissan: with everybody else. The Rebbe they did not announce the time
entered by way of a path that for Mincha].
The Rebbe traveled to the
Ohel and everyone thought that was formed and approached his The farbrengen began at 1:30
place. PM, and the Rebbe spoke about

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the idea of Shabbos HaGadol. He when we went to eat our Shabbos after I received the matzos for
also asked a number of questions meal, and on Motzaei Shabbos myself and the family, but for
on Rashi on the verse Vechipeir there was a review [of the the Talmud Torah and Anash of
al habayis, and answered them. farbrengen] with R Yoel Kahn. Bareket, I could not get up the
Following that, the Rebbe called nerve to ask. That is because
up people traveling to other THE BIG NIGHT I had such a feeling as I stood
countries, such as Eretz Yisroel before the Rebbe that cannot be
and Italy, and gave each one Monday, 14 Nissan, Erev recorded in words. The line was
a bottle of mashke. Then he Pesach: very long and wound out to the
continued the sicha and spoke [Morning]: We waited for the street and then the length of the
about Mihu Yehudi, the honor Rebbe to come out and burn the street.
of the Rabbanut, R Goren etc. At chametz. The Rebbe came out at Even before I reached the
the end, he said that they should about 10:45, and obviously there Rebbe, as soon as I entered
farbreng on the yahrtzait of the was a lot of pushing as the Rebbe Gan Eden HaTachton, I got a
Tzemach Tzedek [13 Nissan] entered the elevator and went very strange feeling. And then
(and actually R Dovid Raskin down to the boiler [that heats I was standing opposite the
farbrenged that night until 3 in the building where he burned Rebbe, and the Rebbe looked at
the morning). the chametz. After he finished, me and said to me in Yiddish,
After the farbrengen, we he came up and] together with obviously, A kosher and happy
davened Mincha and the Rebbe him were the secretaries, R Pesach. Even before he gave
received the third aliya. After Binyomin Klein and R Leibel me, I said to the Rebbe that I was
Groner. When he walked back to also requesting on behalf of the


family. The Rebbe first gave me
I was emotionally overwrought; I looked for the
my matzos, and then I mentioned
blessing in the siddur and began to stammer. With the family again, and the Rebbe
gave me two pieces of matzo. As
difficulty, I found the blessing and said it very quickly
mentioned, I did not work up the
and quietly. I was terrified that I would collapse on the nerve to ask for Anash of Bareket.
I immediately wrapped up my
spot, and the feeling continued with me throughout the
matzos first and put them in my
day. When I recall that moment I am once again filled pocket, and the matzos that I
received for my family I wrapped
with fright.
in a paper that I had prepared in
advance and I sent them home
via express mail. I then took my
Mincha, he went to his room and his room from the elevator, there matzos and put them into my
everybody ran outside and lined was a lot of pushing again, but I package of matzos, which I had
up in two facing rows, and began was close enough that I heard the already stored in the Farband
to sing Yifrach Byamav Tzaddik. Rebbe say to R Binyomin Klein, hall on Kingston [which served
The Rebbe walked between the Yasher koach. The Rebbe went as the dining hall of the Tmimim
two rows, and we all followed into his room and then went in for Pesach], where we will be
along to accompany the Rebbe to [to the small zal] for the reading carrying out the Seder.
his house. Obviously, we kept our of the Torah, and received the
When the Rebbe finished
distance so that the Rebbe would third aliya. After that he returned
distributing the matzos, at
not sense our presence, but to his room.
around 6:30, he went home.
when the Rebbe turned to cross After the davening, I went to When he returned, they davened
the street he saw us and did not purchase stamps in order to send the holiday Maariv and finished
say anything. We accompanied to my parents the matza that I at about 7:30. After the davening,
him until we got to President would receive from the Rebbe he continued to distribute
Street where the Rebbe lives and for them. I hope to also receive matzos to those who had not yet
everybody stopped and watched matza for Anash of Bareket. received, and we [the Tmimim]
the Rebbe until he entered his [After receiving the matzos]: went to set up the Seder plate
house. I just returned from 770 in the Farband on Kingston,
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come and see how the bachurim
prepare for the Seder.
The Rebbe came at about
9:15, with the secretaries and
a few members of Anash. The
Rebbe entered and all of the
bachurim stood, each next to his
own Seder plate. As soon as he
entered, he looked at the Seder
plates and then went into Mrs.
Moussia [the cook]. I didnt hear
what he said to her, because as I
mentioned each one stood at his
place and did not have the nerve
to budge. Afterward, he stood
and blessed the bachurim that
may it be [G-ds] Will that it be
fulfilled the promise of And His
honor shall fill the entire earth, The author in front of 770
amen vamen [from Psalm 72,
the Rebbes chapter that year] returned to 770 as is the custom police closed it off. The Satmar
and next year in Yerushalayim. to study Torah on the night of the Chassidim stood off to the side
After the Rebbe left, we 7th day of Pesach. At 1:30 AM, and looked at us as if the whole
continued to conduct our Seder the farbrengen with R Dovid thing had nothing to do with
as usual, and each one had his Raskin began and continued them. From there we dispersed
own Seder plate. until 4:30 in the morning, when and divided into groups that
we rushed off to get some sleep, went to different shuls. I went
because at ten we had to be at to one of the shuls where we
TAHALUCHA MARCH
davening with the Rebbe. danced after Maariv, and from
Eve of the 7th day of Pesach: After Shacharis, they there we went to the shul of the
I bought grape juice for the announced the Tahalucha that Belzer Chassidim where we made
four cups of Seudas Moshiach, would take place at 5:30. We kiddush and danced again. One
and I also purchased a small went to eat and then rested a bit of Anash who came with us read
bottle in order to put into it the in order to have some strength to the letter of the Rebbe written in
kos shel bracha that I will receive walk, because it is a distance of honor of Yud-Aleph Nissan.
for the family in order to send an hours walk to Williamsburg. On the way back, it was
it to them. Afterward, I thought The day was a bit nice, the raining at first but then it
about why should I not get morning was clear, but at about stopped. We were soaked to the
wine also for the Talmud Torah five oclock the skies became bone and many hats were beyond
in Bareket?! At least wine of cloudy and it began to rain. salvage.
blessing if not matzos, because Meanwhile, we went to daven In general, there were no
simply put, matzos you have to Mincha and at the conclusion of problems on the Tahalucha
ask directly of the Rebbe [and the prayers we ran in the pouring except for the fact that some
that is a concern due to the rain to get our coats. Satmar Chassidim threw
tremendous awe], but kos shel The Tahalucha march set out some papers with derogatory
bracha, you just have to extend with an escort of police cars and statements against Chabad.
to the Rebbe the amount of cups motorcycles. During the walk,
that you want and the Rebbe the rain continued to pour down
pours. IT IS LITERALLY A JOY TO
but we paid it no mind and we
7th day of Pesach: sang Chassidic songs. At times
SEE THE REBBE SMILE
We davened the holiday there were breaks in the singing. Farbrengen of Acharon shel
Maariv, and after the prayers we When we reached Williamsburg, Pesach:
went to eat the holiday meal. We we danced in the street and the The Rebbe began the

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farbrengen at 6:30. Among the The distribution of kos shel shluchim and the shluchim
topics he spoke about was the bracha by the Rebbe ended at themselves also spoke. Parts of
shchuna [lit. neighborhood, four in the morning. the sichos that the Rebbe said the
i.e., Crown Heights], and he Wednesday, 23 Nissan: previous Shabbos were reviewed.
said that whoever went on The Rebbe received people The event concluded with
Tahalucha should say lchaim. for yechidus the entire night, and dancing.
The farbrengen was very joyous. we [the Tmimim] waited until Monday, 28 Nissan:
I stood on the edge of a crate the end of yechidus. At 4:11 in After Mincha, at about 3:30
and with difficulty heard what the morning, we davened Maariv PM, the shluchim traveling to
little I heard. The farbrengen with the Rebbe. Australia along with those that
concluded at 1:20 after midnight. returned from Australia, went in
Thursday, 24 Nissan:
There was a Jewish police officer for yechidus with the Rebbe. After
who came in to the farbrengen The Rebbe received people for
yechidus until 8 in the morning. they entered, R Groner suddenly
and the Rebbe motioned to him came out and announced that all
that he should say lchaim. The of the groups that had previously
Rebbe even saluted him and THE SHLUCHIM been to Australia should be called
smiled a captivating smile. It is TO AUSTRALIA immediately. Those who were
literally a joy to see the Rebbe in 770 at the time, immediately
smile, because usually the Rebbe Shabbos, 26 Nissan, Parshas
Acharei: put on gartels and entered, and
is very serious and only on rare others had to be called and they
occasions does he smile. The farbrengen began at 1:30
came post haste. A number of
PM. I stood in a place that was
them are already married, as


When the Rebbe passed near me, I was literally there have been four groups to
date, each one for two years.
trembling. I held strongly onto the handle After they came, the Rebbe began
because I was afraid that the door would close due to (some entered in the middle of
the yechidus), and some were so
my great excitement, before the Rebbe could pass. frantic that they entered without
putting on gartels.
The yechidus lasted between
comfortable to stand in, however twenty minutes and half an hour.
After the farbrengen we When they exited, they said that
davened Maariv. I have no sense I could not see the Rebbe except
between the heads of people the Rebbe said a brief maamer
of how I managed to daven, for them, Al yipater adam
because the pushing was terrible. and because of that I did not
understand much of what was meichavero elah mitoch dvar
The Rebbe made Havdala halacha. Then the Rebbe said
said. The Rebbe gave wine to
and began to distribute kos shel some words of blessing and gave
a few of Anash to distribute in
bracha. Anash stood in several each one a pocket-sized Tanya
their places, including R Dovid
rows, and meanwhile they began and ten dollars. For the actual
Raskin who got for Lubavitch
to sing and the Rebbe made shluchim, he gave additional
Youth Organization. The Rebbe
motions with his hands, and the money for tzdaka. The Rebbe
said a maamer in the tune of a
joy was up to the heavens. There instructed them to spend about
sicha. The farbrengen ended at
were those to whom the Rebbe a week in Eretz Yisroel, and
5:10.
gave a bottle to distribute in their gave them more money to give
shuls or places that they were Sunday, 27 Nissan:
to tzdaka to the institutions in
traveling to, and among them This evening there was a Eretz Yisroel and Australia.
was Motti Lipsker who received farewell gathering for the
We went back to our learning,
a bottle for the city of Lud. At a Tmimim shluchim to Australia,
and at about 6 PM we returned
quarter to three in the morning, who are going there for two
to 770 (in those days the kvutza
I received kos shel bracha for years. R Dovid Raskin chaired
learned in Chovevei Torah), and
the family and also for Anash of the event. R Mentlick and R
we waited for the Rebbe to come
Bareket, which as mentioned was Chadakov spoke about the
out to send off the shluchim. The
in place of the matzos. importance of the matter,
Rebbe came out and stood in the
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doorway of 770. He looked at
the bus and was only murmuring THE DIARY WRITTEN FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A YOUNG BACHUR
with his mouth. When the bus 1 NISSAN, 5733 5 IYAR 5734
with the shluchim began to Rabbi Saadia Maatuf ah, was born to a family of Yemenite immigrants.
move, the Rebbe looked after it He learned in Yeshivas Tomchei Tmimim in Pardes-Lud and went to 770 for
until it could no longer be seen a year of kvutza.
and then he went to his home. This diary is unlike other diaries that report on the Rebbes conduct. It
has a unique style which combines documenting the Rebbes activities with
HOLDING THE DOOR the understanding and feeling of a bachur, the child of Yemenite immigrants,
FOR THE REBBE being at the Rebbe for the first time and yearning to connect to the climate of
Chassidishkait in 770.
[There were some bachurim
who traveled with the shluchim While acclimating to Beis Chayeinu, he documents everything in his diary
to the airport, however] I in an open, honest way, and shares everything that he was feeling and thinking.
remained in 770. Meanwhile, I He describes ups and downs, lofty moments and routine occurrences.
spoke with Yisroel Glitzenstein, In a page attached to the diary many years later, he notes that he wrote
and he told me that the Rebbe about his year on kvutza starting from 1 Nissan 5733 until 5 Iyar 5734.
would be arriving at any moment Unfortunately, we do not have the entire diary since most of it was written
and that I should wait near the in a thick notebook containing 300 pages, but the notebook was filled up in
door [of the main entrance to the middle of 7 Nissan 5734 and the continuation was apparently written in
770]. When the Rebbe would another notebook which we do not have.
arrive from his house, I would A diary of a Tamim which documents an entire year with the Rebbe is,
open the door for him and hide of course, a precious Chassidic treasure. R Maatuf had the diary in his
behind the door until the Rebbe possession all the years but despite our being neighbors for two years, and
passed. [The two of them went although he helped me prepare articles for Beis Moshiach for several years,
to the main door] and suddenly he never mentioned the diary. It was only after his passing that his son, my
the Rebbe came and I opened friend Yossi, offered me the diary which I was thrilled to get for our readers.
the door and hid behind the At the beginning of the diary, R Saadia wrote the following introduction.
door. When I saw through the It was written many years later and it tells us why he did not publicize the
crack of the door that the Rebbe diary, although there is indication that he expected it to be read someday:
had passed, I closed it. That is This diary was written for a private individual from the perspective of a
how I merited to open the door young bachur on kvutza from 1 Nissan 5733 until 5 Iyar 5734, consistently,
for the Rebbe. When the Rebbe every day, persistently. Every night I wrote how the day went and every
passed near me, I was literally Shabbos I tried to remember and write on Motzaei Shabbos, and the same for
trembling. I held strongly onto Yom Tov. On Chol HaMoed Pesach and Sukkos (when writing is forbidden) I
the handle because I was afraid wrote brief notes, and after Yom Tov I would sit and fill them in. In the diary
that the door would close due are things that are private, albeit not secrets, as I was and remained a bachur
to my great excitement, before Tamim throughout.
the Rebbe could pass. Boruch
It should be noted that the talmidim in our kvutza sat and learned with all
Hashem everything went fine.
seriousness, and every week we would submit a report to the Rebbe. In order
29 Nissan, Erev Rosh to give the Rebbe nachas, we kept to the sdarim persistently and consistently.
Chodesh Iyar:
Today, I read excerpts from the diary and recall things that are hard to
The Rebbe went to the Ohel believe I wrote. Most likely, [readers] will understand that it was all written
and we davened Mincha very for myself and without any thought that someone else would read it. Whoever
late. The Rebbe entered for was [there at the Rebbe] at that time surely will find it of interest in awakening
Maariv holding a small pocket pleasant memories and will be filled with yearning, and perhaps just for this it
siddur besides for his siddur. is worthwhile reading. Happy reading!
The entire time, even during
Shmoneh Esrei, the Rebbe held
not from Chabad, and spoke secretary, R Groner, closed the
the siddur in his hand. After the
with the Rebbe for about five door but left it open a drop, and
davening the Rebbe went towards
minutes. The Rebbe stood in Gan we saw the Rebbe give her the
his room, but before he entered
Eden HaTachton the whole time siddur and she left with her face
Gan Eden HaTachton a woman
and did not enter his room. The aglow.
approached who was apparently

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THOUGHT

THE MORNING
BLESSINGS
ON 11 NISSAN
By Rabbi Sholem Dickstein

L
ast year, on the morning are likened to their Creator, as on every topic.
of the Rebbe, Melech I said the blessings, I thought of Matir assurim Who unties
HaMoshiachs birthday, guidance for life, insights and those who are bound: The going
when I began saying approaches, which the Rebbe out of straits, leaving real and
the morning blessings, thoughts instilled in us, that are expressed imaginary limitations with the
came to me in the spirit of the in these very blessings. Rebbes koach.
day. I thought it would be nice to *** Zokeif kfufim Who
share them with you, my fellow HaNosein lasechvi vina straightens those who are bent
Chassidim. Who gives understanding to the over: Gaon Yaakov, Gaon
How much we need to rooster: In such confusing times Lubavitch! Its enough if we recall
give thanks and praise that we in which many call darkness the story of an elder Chassid who
merited the light of the Rebbe, light, and call day night, the saw the Rebbe (before he became
the memutza hamechaber Rebbe gives us understanding to Rebbe) eating mezonos in the
(connecting intermediary), who distinguish between them. sukka before davening and made
helps us and guides us in our Pokeiach ivrim Who opens a comment about it. The Rebbe
lives in all the aspects stated in [the eyes of] the blind: The said out loud, There is nothing
the morning blessings. Chassidic outlook, which the to be ashamed about Chassidic
Along the lines of tzaddikim Rebbe provides every mekushar, practices.

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Malbish arumim Who Along the lines of tzaddikim are likened to
clothes the naked: The Rebbes
concern for the spirituality (and their Creator, as I said the blessings, I thought
material circumstances) of every of guidance for life, insights and approaches, which the
Jew as is - so that he does not
remain without a garment, both Rebbe instilled in us, that are expressed in these very
literally and spiritually. blessings.
HaNosein layaeif koach
Who gives strength to the weary:
Rebbi lo shana, Chiya minayin problem, for any need, material making me a woman: One, the
(homiletic allusion to the Rebbe and spiritual. Rebbe explains the significance
as the source of life throughout Ozer Yisroel bgevura Who of this blessing and the womans
the year), the place from which girds Israel with strength: The position in Judaism in the face of
light goes forth to the world, Rebbe changed post-Holocaust the confusion of modern man,
where every weary person can Judaism from a defensive war to and two, on a deeper level, the
find the strength to perfect the an offensive war. Rebbe turned every Jew into a
world through the Almightys shliach, a mashpia, rather than a
Oteir Yisroel bsifara Who
sovereignty. mekabel.
crowns Israel with glory: The
Roka haaretz al hamoyim respect which the nations of the Hamaavir sheina meieinoy
Who spreads the earth out over world have for the Rebbe, like the Who removes sleep from my eyes
the water: Water is where man letters and invitations from the one, the understanding and
cannot live, and the blessing is American presidents, establishing internalization of the fact that
that specifically over this, there Education Day in his honor, etc. G-dliness is the default reality
is earth, a place where things and existence is the novelty, and
Shelo asani goy For not
can grow. The Rebbe took two, waking up from the dream
making me a gentile: This
technology with all its dangers of exile, the yearning for Geula.
blessing cannot be said with the
and showed us how to use it in ***
fullest appreciation without the
a way that not only isnt harmful,
Rebbes explanations about a Above all this, Were our
but also increases the spreading
goy who has no free will, without mouth as full of song as the
of the wellsprings.
internalizing the message that the sea, and our tongue as full of
Hameichin mitzadei gover entire world (including a billion joyous song as its multitude
Who prepares mans steps: Chinese) was created for the Jew. of waves, and our lips as full
Shluchei Adoneinu! The Rebbe of praise as the breadth of the
Shelo asani oved For not
gave us a completely new heavens and our feet as swift
making me a slave to the
understanding of the verse, as hinds, we still could not thank
assumptions of the world. The
from Hashem are the steps of sufficiently for this great gift, this
deepest internalization that I
man prepared. As the HaYom great light that rose 115 years
am a servant of G-d, and again,
Yom says, not only does Hashem ago and whose light continues
the HaYom Yom which says that
direct our steps but there is a to shine and increase until the
Shma Yisroel a Jew hears,
particular mission to accomplish complete revelation of Moshiach
understands that, Hashem
wherever we go. - Menachem is his name, and the
Elokeinu, that our strength and
Shasa li kol tzorki Who life force is above nature. kingdom befits him, speedily in
made me all my needs: The our days, teikef umiyad mamash!
Shelo asani isha For not
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THOUGHT

THE ROAD TO
HISKASHRUS
Hiskashrus to the Rebbe begins with our thinking
about another Jew. Thinking about how to
connect another Jew to the Rebbe and also
connect him to the tremendous chain of the Nasi
Hador. To put the Rebbes wishes before us at all
times and to push aside our egos which diminish
others in our eyes.* Presented for 11 Nissan

By Rabbi Zalman Landau

T
here is a sicha (Leil from him. Miraculously, rather than
Hoshana Rabba 5752) After some time, it came to take away the merchandise of the
in which the Rebbe says light that in that town lived a big Chassid, the government took the
that in our generation Misnaged who was very jealous Misnageds merchandise. The
each of us needs to be a Rebbe. of the rich Chassid and how all Misnaged was left with nothing
What can this possibly mean? the townspeople honored him. and had many debts. Due to his
What connection is there to being The Misnaged tried to do all he great debts, he became deathly ill.
a Rebbe on the part of a Chassid could to denigrate the Chassid The Chassid went to visit
who is battel to the Rebbe? and even tried to compete with him and after leaving the house
Whoever learns this sicha of the Chassids livelihood. of the Misnaged, the members
the Rebbe understands that the The Chassid would import of the household discovered that
Rebbe did not mean acting like a great quantity of tea every he had left a large sum of money
an Admur, as we might imagine year which he would sell across to support the Misnaged and
superficially, or acting above any Russia. In the Misnageds great another large sum to marry off
other group. He means acting in envy and after seeing that all his daughters.
a way of true bittul on the level of his attempts to humiliate the When the family heard this
yechida, which is the level of the Chassid were unsuccessful, he story, they realized what the
Rebbe. decided to inform on him to Alter Rebbe meant when he said
There is a story about a the government. He said that a great light emanated from him.
Chassid of the Alter Rebbe who the one who sold the tea to the From this story we learn
was very rich and passed away Chassid did not pay the requisite about how a Chassid behaves
at a very young age. After his tax. In this way, he thought, he and how this kind of behavior is
passing, the Alter Rebbe told the wouldnt directly inform on the demanded of every one of us. A
mans sons that they should not Chassid but would cause him a genuine Chassid is someone who
be sad over their fathers death heavy monetary loss, since the puts himself in a position of utter
for he sees that their father is government would confiscate the bittul, to the point that he raises
currently on extremely high levels goods after the Chassid had paid himself totally above his desires
and a great light is shining forth good money for it.

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and inclinations.
One of the signs of a
Misnaged is that he protects his
honor and always looks for ways
to raise himself up over others; to
see himself as important relative
to the other, and to put down the
other persons qualities.
Contrariwise, the quality of
a Chassid is expressed in his
lowered ego. A Chassid looks at
another person and sees, first
and foremost, the good points of
the other, and he does not give
any weight and significance to
the weaknesses of another.
When speaking of a
Misnaged, we need to remember
that there is the Misnaged


within you. In each of us exists
a Misnaged, who burrows into Without living with genuine Chassidic love, and without
the heart and causes us to think rising above our material desires and calculations, it is
negatively about others and
diminish their worth. not possible to fully accept the Rebbes malchus.
True love for another is when
he shames you, and you respond
We need to start living in a with genuine Chassidic love, and
with love and shower good upon
Moshiach-state of mind, a state without rising above our material
him.
in which each of us rises above desires and calculations, it is
This is the avoda of every all limitations of this world and not possible to fully accept the
Chassid, to rise above himself, above all exile considerations. Rebbes malchus.
without considering his honor
At this time, we need to place This is the point which we
and dignity. As one of our
ourselves in a position in which need to take with us from this
Rebbeim once said to one of the
we see the essential goodness special day of 11 Nissan. The
Chassidim, that before he says
that is hidden within every Jew, point that unifies all areas of
a maamer Chassidus, he puts
to see the goodness in every hiskashrus to the Rebbe is to have
himself into such a state of bittul
Jew without looking at how he utter bittul to the Rebbe, and to
that he imagines himself walking
regards us. truly love every Jew because of
down the street and a group of
The avoda assigned to us to his G-dly soul. That is how we
children are chasing him with
live with Moshiach is an avoda can ask for the Rebbes malchus.
stones to throw at him (as they
would the town lunatic). that pertains to each one of us. This doesnt include any
What we need to do is to start sadness whatsoever; it entails
To be a Chassid is to reach a
living in the Moshiach state in rising above our personal
true level in which we can look
which there is no jealousy and concerns and being utterly
at every Jew from the aspect of
competition. battul to the Rebbe, the bittul of
his G-dly soul. Although there
Each of us can welcome yechida.
may be times when it is legitimate
to get angry at someone and Moshiach by getting out of our When we all rise above our
be annoyed with him, why he inner exile and starting to live ego, we will all be battul to the
doesnt give us enough respect with simcha and with real Ahavas Rebbe and merit his complete
and doesnt value what we do Yisroel for every Jew. and immediate hisgalus.
enough, but in the times that This point is essential when Yechi Adoneinu Moreinu
we live in we have no time it comes to hiskashrus to the VRabbeinu Melech HaMoshiach
for considerations like these. Rebbe MHM, for without living Lolam Vaed!

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CHINUCH

QUESTIONS
NOT JUST
FOR PESACH
There is a common saying, that when a person
asks too many questions, he is told, ask your
questions at the seder. Therefore, this week,
we are devoting the chinuch column to the
importance of asking questions. * Why are adults
so afraid of questions? What can give us the
confidence to listen and respond? What is the
educational advantage to not answering right
away? How should we treat those children who
by nature are quiet and dont ask questions?
* Rabbi Avrohom Bitkin, a social worker and
therapist, who specializes in fears and trauma in
children and youth, and who moderates parents
groups on educational issues, responds to these
and other questions.

By Nosson Avrohom

T
here is a story about a the child has another question. And why does water cover most
nomad and his son who Father, why is the sky blue like of the earth?
are walking slowly in the the sea? The child asks and asks and
blistering desert. Father, The father thinks and thinks, the father says he does not know.
why does the sun rise in the east scratches his head, and says, After a while, the boy stops his
and set in the west? once again, that he does not questions about the world around
The father gazes upward and know the answer. him and says, Father, you dont
says, I have no idea. Father, why do camels have get angry when I ask all these
The two keep walking and a hump unlike other animals? questions, right?

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The numerical value of the
word adam in Hebrew is 45,
which is the same numerical
value of the word ma (what).
A person, who is likened to his
Creator, must ask and search,
thereby deepening his bond with
the One who gave us the Torah.

NO LONGER ALONE ON
THE FRONT LINES
Please tell us what you do
and why you entered this field.
After a year on kvutza and
a stint on shlichus, I studied for
smicha in the kollel in Rechovot.
At the same time, I became
aware of a group of Chabad
kids who werent fitting into the
communitys educational system.
I cared very much about them
and spent a lot of time with them,
talking with them sometimes into
the wee hours of the morning.
During those conversations, I
saw that my shlichus is in the
informal field of chinuch.
How did you turn your
hobby into a profession?
Awareness is far greater
today than it used to be. Things
used to be different, and as a
volunteer I found myself alone on
the front lines. People preferred
ignoring these fringe kids
because they didnt know what
to do with them. It was hard for
people to listen to their personal
stories - stories of struggles
with hopelessness, to take in the
complexities of their lives and to
confront seemingly unresolvable
conflicts. I would occasionally
consult with Lubavitcher
His father smiles and says, students, and definitely not to psychologist Mrs. Ilana Yisroel,
Not at all. If you dont ask, how ignore or be frightened by them. who helped me a lot in terms of
will you know? We need to listen to questions, practical advice about how to be
Pesach in general, and the including the challenging ones, a mashpia-figure to the kids.
seder night in particular, is and find answers to them. Even
One day, she said to me
different than other Jewish the child who does not know
offhandedly, I see that you like
holidays. One of the outstanding how to ask needs to be drawn
to provide therapy. Why dont
lessons of the Hagada is to allow out to ask, and then his questions
you do it professionally? So I
questions from our children and are answered.

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went to study social work. While like the fourth child in the be quiet. These children generally
working on my masters degree Hagada, who doesnt know how come from a background of
in clinical social work, I focused to ask? What should be done emotional or physical neglect or
my studies on children and young with a child who doesnt ask, experienced extended emotional
people, and that is my specialty. who doesnt take an interest? trauma.
Boruch Hashem, I now work at Should this be cause for Arent you taking it too far?
training therapists in the field concern? How can we teach a Arent there quiet children who
of Psychodynamic Therapy for little child to be curious and to by nature prefer not to call
Children and Youth at Bar Ilan ask questions? attention to themselves?
University. Children are curious by A quieter nature can explain
nature, from when they are born. a child with fewer questions but
WHAT LIES BEHIND THE Thanks to the natural desire to thats not great news. I met with
QUESTION explore their environment, a a quiet child who was brought
baby makes the effort to move, to therapy because of extreme
Being able to ask questions to crawl, to empty closets, to hypochondria. He had zero
is an important foundation spill the paint and to eat with motivation to be involved in his
in a persons education and their hands. There are children treatment process. Furthermore,
intellectual development. What who explore more and those I got the impression that this
do you think is important about who explore less, it depends child wanted nothing for himself,
being able to question? Why on their personalities, but in did not know how to enjoy
do you consider this question- general, a child does not need to himself, and had no sense of his
answer dynamic important in a be encouraged to ask and take an place in the social order.
childs education? interest. His father told me that since
Our Sages say, a bashful Parents and teachers he was born he remembers him
person does not learn. From sometimes put a halt to childrens as a fun child with a very
there we learn that questioning questioning, mostly due to lack of easygoing temperament, the
is important for proper patience which comes from lack kind who causes his parents no
development, both intellectually of time or interest, and then the bother, who doesnt ask or take
and in personality development. child feels that his questions are an interest in his surroundings.
Just as feeling hunger leads to not legitimate and are a burden This told me that the childs
eating, and eating is critical for and he needs to restrain himself. fears began many years earlier,
growth, so too a question leads A child like this will learn to be the moment the child realized
to an answer that enriches a quiet to please his parents. This that he needed to behave this
persons knowledge which is can be pleasant for the parents way, i.e., not disturbing and
needed for his development. when he is young, but it means not questioning. They never
In Chassidus, the question- they are raising a child who, even encouraged him to look around
answer dynamic between father when he is older, will hesitate to and ask for anything or to take
and son and teacher and student take the initiative, to stand up any initiative.
represents the entire structure of for himself and to ask for what is A child who does not know
existence - the mashpia-mekabel coming to him. how to ask behaves that way
or the cause-effect. Parents who When a child refrains because he is not sure whether
allow questions to be asked and from raising questions and its okay to ask; he doesnt
give room for open conversations, doesnt initiate contact with his know whether his question is
have healthy communication. A environment, it is definitely a legitimate or foolish. A child like
child trusts his parents more and form of behavior that should raise this doesnt know how this new
the home feels secure and calm. concerns about his emotional knowledge that he will get by
Stifling questions is like stifling state. A child who chooses not asking can be useful to him. The
eating and the results will be to check out his environment is role of the parent and teacher is,
apparent in the childs perception a child who is in a state of fear, at psach lo - open for him the
of himself and the world. and I can tell you that he is in possibility to ask, give him some
When you speak about the crisis. He sees that curiosity examples of questions that are
great importance of asking exacts a price and he would age appropriate so that he will
questions, what about someone therefore rather hold back and identify with them, and most

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importantly, show him how his what is the proper response to it came from a place of honesty,
questions are important to you. questions? warm Jewish feelings that felt the
You remind me of a meeting presence of the Creator in every
AVOIDING EXTREMES I had with a father from a certain aspect of life. Those who studied
religious group who came to a Torah never refrained from
There are children who ask asking questions on the material
parent training session. After a
so many questions that the they learned, nor on philosophical
series of meetings, together with
adults cant take it anymore. matters. Since our Torah is so
his 14-year-old son, I found that
Where does that come from and stable, it surely doesnt need
the son, a smart yeshiva bachur,
how should it be dealt with? man-made fortresses to protect
was dealing with many doubts
Any extreme situation along in emuna. He had somehow it.
the spectrum ranging from too found propaganda material that The reality is that a boy who
little to too much is sourced contradicted belief in a Creator. sees that his father or teacher is
in some internal feeling of avoiding answering due to fear,
On the face of it, it looked
insecurity. We are not talking has his confidence in their chosen
as though he could be helped by
here about a talkative child, path shaken.
learning ideas from Chassidus,
the kind who is called a crowd
but I needed time to prepare his So what should be done?
pleaser, who finds it important to
parents for that. At one meeting, First, we need to accept that
run his social circle. I am talking
I told the father, with the sons


about a child who asks again
and again and about the smallest Chinuch is not about the what and the
details because he is not sure of
himself. He uses questions to get quantity but about the how and the quality.
attention. There is no need to wait for calmer days in order to have
A child like this can be
a conversation, especially when your child needs you in
considered a nudge, which will
serve to further distance him the here and now.
from the people around him,
which will increase his fears,
which will in turn cause him to consent, about the doubts in a Jew does not run away from
seek ever more attention. emuna that his son had. The questions. A Jew knows how to
When we discover the reason father was very surprised but survive confounding complexities
for his behavior, we can formulate immediately recovered and said, without being dependent on
an appropriate message, which I always taught my children that finding an immediate solution.
can convey confidence in himself we have chachomim - the eyes of What greater proof do we need
and his environment. We will the congregation. Why does he than the sufferings of exile, which
convey a message that he is suddenly have doubts in emuna? have provided us with plenty of
visible and present enough Rabbanim have already checked opportunities to see how firm
to his environment, and it is things out for us and found footed a Jew is even when there
unnecessary to test to what extent no place for questions about a arent always answers. Just as we
people around him are listening Creator, so why does he need to see the Rebbes attitude about
in a never-ending cycle. vacillate at all? the Holocaust, that despite the
There are those who teach The fathers answer shocked questions, our emuna remains
children not to ask questions, me. I knew there are groups rock-solid.
because questions, according within the frum world where Must we respond to every
to their view, undermine pure repressing questions is a way question a child asks, or are
faith. There can be an absurd of life. Some explain that this there questions for which
situation in which a child goes is the approach of a previous the answer is that there is no
off the derech and is called generation, a more innocent answer?
chozer bsheila, as though to generation that had emuna, but Sometimes, its not the
say that in Judaism there is no I dont believe it. Sincere faith what but the how, meaning
room for questioning. Where do back then did not flourish out that not always does the child
you think their mistake lies and of repression and suppression; understand the depth of the

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answer, but its important to him a childs questions make him or expand your knowledge.
how it is said. If, for example, feel powerless. Does the child And it is your job to model for
a parent or teacher allowed a know more than me? Or, Does the child how to deal with a
question to be asked, that means the child want to challenge what difficulty without falling apart.
that the question is important I said? Or sometimes there Dont be afraid that questions
and the child is important. When can be a situation in which a that stump you will adversely
the father doesnt get thrown question disturbs the lesson or affect your authority. On the
by the question and he answers the message the parent wants to contrary, honestly saying that
calmly, or if he did not have an convey at home. The mechanech you dont know, and showing a
answer and he went and asked expects the child to march in willingness to learn even at your
someone else and came back with lockstep with everyone else, advanced age by saying, Thats
an answer, then even if the child and by nature of his position he an excellent question, I will check
did not get a satisfactory answer, ascribes less importance to the it out for you, is an impressive
it wont affect his confidence to childs individuality. Especially lesson in itself. This is a sign of
ask again in the future. when the mechanech thinks the true greatness on the part of the
As to your question, there childs questions will harm or educator or parent and the child
definitely are questions which hinder those that are marching in will admire you for it.
dont have answers or only a line.


WHEN PARENTS ASK
Stifling questions is like stifling eating and the QUESTIONS
results will be apparent in the childs perception Can you give us, parents
of himself and the world. and teachers, some tips about
how we can ask our children
good questions when we want
to hear how their day in school
partial, not fully satisfactory These days, there are many was or in general, how they are
answer, because its not possible more children who are not willing doing? How should we word
to respond at that time. For to march in line and they do the question to get a satisfying
example, if a child asks a question this by asking questions or even answer?
about matters that should be challenging. People nowadays There is no formula. If you
treated with modesty, or even if value their individuality and the have good communication with
the answer is it is a decree before idea of a natural sense of security the child and he feels confident
Me and you have no permission is vanishing. People are protective about talking, he will be happy to
to doubt it, the child will not get of their personal boundaries share his life with you, especially
a complete, detailed answer, at ten times more than they used if he needs help. However, when
least not then. But even in such a to be, and young people are no for any reason he is convinced
situation, what is very important exception to this phenomenon. that the conversation will be
is not the depth of the answer but The mechanech or parent needs harmful to him, for example,
how the question is treated. to know that the child wants a child who is suffering from
boundaries. He sometimes wants bullying who knows that if he tells
QUESTIONS THAT to test the strength of these his father, his father will show up
boundaries so he can feel secure at school the next day and make a
FRIGHTEN PARENTS with them, not necessarily in scene, which will likely bring on
Why are we, parents or order to break them. They make more bullying, it is unlikely that
teachers, afraid of questions? him feel secure and the child likes hell share what is going on.
What can get us not to be that. Still, since you ask how to
afraid? If, with his question, the word it, you can start with an
To one degree or another child caught you not knowing open question like, How was
we all have the fear of losing something, accept it lovingly. school today? If the child just
our authority. Chinuch requires About this it says, and from says, I dont know, or fine or
kabbalas ol. The mechanech my students most of all. The not great, that would indicate
needs to lead the child from one question is good for you; it will that his emotional vocabulary
point to another and sometimes, increase your desire to deepen is meager. We can offer some

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responses and the child can and what they are saying are no need to wait for calmer days
choose the ones that suit him. important to us. in order to have a conversation,
Older children will cooperate A final question - parents especially when your child needs
more with concrete questions are very busy getting ready for you in the here and now.
of the yes-no variety and that is Pesach. How can we still ask When we listen attentively for
perfectly fine. Of course, this and listen when we are under so even one minute, and throughout
is under normal circumstances much pressure and have so little those sixty seconds we are
when we know that nothing free time? entirely present with the child
dramatic is going on in their These days challenge our with complete exclusivity, we
lives. patience for childrens questions look him in the eye and convey to
In all these situations, we and their need for attention. him that he is more important to
should maintain eye contact Despite that, we all have free us than anything else, that is true
with the child throughout the moments throughout the day. As quality which leaves the child
conversation. This conveys the I mentioned previously, chinuch with a positive and constructive
message that we are not busy is often not about the what experience that will stay with him
with anything else when we are and the quantity but about the for years.
talking to them, because they how and the quality. There is


Continued from page 33 When he finished he said, Rabbi, you need to
start believing more in your Rebbe "
Purim and I read the Megilla for
him.
Some months passed and
he was still alive, despite the weight of his decision on a letter I saw that he was excited by
doctors dire predictions. The that wasnt even addressed to this answer that was so on target.
doctors wanted to do a medical him. I suggested that he read the I said goodbye and didnt hear
experiment to try and see what answer as advice and guidance anything from him for a while.
might be effective against the to be taken into consideration From mutual acquaintances, I
disease but he said he didnt want together with the other advice he heard that he remained adamant
it because he didnt know what it was given. and did not agree to the
might do to him. He agreed to write to the experiments.
One day, he invited me to his Rebbe and the truth is, I was Six weeks went by and I
home and asked for my advice. afraid. I knew that this entailed got a phone call from him. He
The doctors really wanted to a life and death matter and I did sounded jubilant. He told me
go ahead with their medical not feel confident... that he had just returned from
experiments and they had even The volume was opened the hospital where the doctors
threatened him to agree. They felt to a letter the Rebbe wrote to found problems with his blood. It
that their professional prestige someone who told him that his turned out that if he had listened
was at stake. wife was sick with a neurological to the doctors and had done the
disease, and the doctors were experiment, he would no longer
Despite my opinion on the
advising a new treatment that be alive. When he finished he
matter, I explained to him the
was unconventional and not said, Rabbi, you need to start
idea of writing to the Rebbe
yet accepted. The Rebbe wrote believing more in your Rebbe
through the Igros Kodesh and
not to do it unless the doctor You told me to take the Rebbes
that now too, we can receive
would explain his reason for view as just one factor in my
answers from the Rebbe.
doing it to two other doctors decision, but I took it as the only
I will admit that back then I factor and thanks to that, my life
and they agreed with him. In the
was still confused myself about was saved!
meantime, suggested the Rebbe,
writing to the Rebbe in this way,
he should take medication to
so I told him not to put the full
treat the disease.

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MIRACULOUS
HEALER OF THE SICK
Two miracle stories, told by Rabbi Pinchas
Baumgarten and Rabbi Eliezer Gurkow.
By Menachem Ziegelboim

OPEN MIRACLE IN After I explained the protocol


to them, they understood that
THE REBBES ROOM
they had to wait a few days until
R Pinchas Baumgarten of after Tisha BAv. The secretary
Buenos Aires, Argentina, told the understood the urgency of
following story: the matter and gave them an
When I was in 770 as a appointment on one of the days
bachur, in Av 5733/1973, I was following Tisha BAv.
called to the secretaries office In the interim, I met with
by the secretary, Rabbi Binyamin them and we even farbrenged
Klein ah. I had no idea why, but together. Before their yechidus, I
of course I rushed over. There suggested they make some good
I found three people waiting. I commitment as a means to better
later learned that the three men receive the Rebbes blessing.
were brothers. They begged the They immediately agreed and
secretary to allow them to enter Rabbi Pinchas Baumgarten that same day we bought three
the Rebbes room since one pairs of tfillin. Every morning, I
of them was very sick and the went to put tfillin on with them.
doctors had given him a short with my father, R Berel, serving On the day of their
time to live. as the main shliach there. appointment with the Rebbe,
Since they were wealthy, and R Klein asked me to be the I wrote to the Rebbe all the
they were sure that money would translator and told me to say details that I knew about them.
get them what they wanted, they that the Rebbe was not meeting The sick man, his wife and two
did not understand why they with anybody at this time, during brothers arrived at 770 and I also
were being refused. the Nine Days between Rosh joined the yechidus as per the
There actually wasnt much of Chodesh Av and Tisha BAv. secretaries request, so I could
a conversation between them and After I explained this to them, translate what the Rebbe said for
the secretary, since the brothers I asked how they were doing and them. I entered the Rebbes room
spoke Spanish and the secretary where they were staying. They with awe and stood on the left
did not know that language. I had taken rooms in an expensive side of the Rebbe.
knew Spanish because of our hotel and they had brought along The Rebbe asked them to
years on shlichus in Argentina, the doctor from Argentina. sit. After reading the letter that

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I wrote, the Rebbe said to them had to literally pull me out. me sadly, See what happens
that if they wanted their brother The next day, the couple when you dont listen to what the
to recover, they had to commit to went to the hospital, where to Rebbe says ...
kashrus. the amazement of the doctors,
I tried to translate what the the growth had disappeared. The FAITH THAT SAVED
Rebbe said, but apparently I did family was ecstatic and of course
This story, told by R Pinye
not translate it properly. The they began keeping kashrus
Baumgarten, spread quickly
Rebbe corrected me and said, punctiliously. From New York
among the shluchim. One shliach
That is not what I meant. I they went to Miami and they kept
in Canada, R Eliezer Gurkow,
tried again and the Rebbe nodded kashrus there too.
upon hearing it, decided to
his satisfaction. A few months later, in Kislev share his own story with fellow
Then the Rebbe addressed the 5734, I got married. Since my shluchim. It happened after 3
sick man and asked him to show father was very close to them, Tammuz 5754. This is his story:
him where the disease was. The they were invited to my wedding,
There was a person in our
man had skin cancer and he got but they didnt come. I asked my
community who called me and
up to show the Rebbe. The Rebbe father why they didnt come, but
said he wanted to say goodbye.
put on his glasses and looked he didnt answer me. I asked him
When I asked him why, he said
where the man pointed and again the next day and he told
his doctors had diagnosed him
said, Pinye, tell him that I see me that the couple had gone on
with a critical and rare disease.
nothing. Then the Rebbe began vacation to Punta del Este where
In the medical literature there
blessing them with numerous they were less careful about
are only fifteen cases in the world
blessings. kashrus. Within a short time the
and most of them died within
When he finished, he asked to cancer returned and a week later,
six weeks of diagnoses. I was
see the exact spot again. He put the man died.
shocked.
on his glasses again and stared at When I heard this, I went
That same day I went to his
it and then said again, Tell him to console the family, as it was
home to boost his spirits. After
that I see nothing. still during the Shiva. At the
that, I visited him frequently. I
They got up to leave but I entrance to the house I met one
visited him many times including
couldnt move. Even after they of the brothers whom I had met
left the room, I remained stuck in previously in New York. Before
I could say a word, he said to Continued on page 31
my place so that R Leibel Groner

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FEATURE

MOTHER OF
20 CHILDREN
Uzit Schneersohn of Kfar Chabad speaks about
the two minyanim of children she brought into
the world. She describes the hardships, how she
handled things, as well as the joy and health that
are granted to the mother of a large brood. *
Presented for the holiday in which children are
the centerpiece, When your child will ask ...

By Rochel Haramati

I
ts probably happened to one another, she says she would should be wanting a large family
you that you go shopping, like a break and its too hard and and view it as the most natural
to the dentist, or are waiting expensive, and its accepted now. and normal thing.
on line for something and And then you ask yourself, whats Well, there are all kinds.
like the typical Lubavitcher, you going on here? I dont get it! There are many wonderful
start talking with the person next The Rebbes approach is women whose way of life is in
to you. The baby you hold helps clear and well-known. The accordance with the absolute
break the ice and one, two, three, Rebbe spoke so much about truth of Torah and Chassidus,
a nice conversation develops and encouraging large families and whose desire is to bring more
you have a wonderful opportunity about the enormous benefit of and more children into the world,
for kiruv. bringing another Jewish child who see each additional child as a
The question is soon asked, into the world at large and fantastic gift from Hashem, who
Is that your first? particularly into the family, and dont stop thanking and praising
When you answer, No, the the hastening of the Geula. He Hashem for this.
tenth, the conversation comes negated any thought of family One of these women is
to a screeching halt. She looks planning! rather famous. She is Mrs.
at you with surprise mixed with You would have expected Uzit Schneersohn, mother of
confusion, or astonishment thatunlike the person you 20 children, boruch Hashem,
mixed with admiration, or meet somewhere or in your and grandmother and great-
wonder mixed with concern, and place of shlichus, who is not yet grandmother to numerous
once again, you need to break the a Chassida, which is why she grandchildren and great-
ice. expressed her lack of faith and grandchildren, kein yirbu.
Then you go and visit a her shock over the size of your When you were a girl, did
Lubavitcher friend and when the familyat least your friend the you already picture having such
two of you are sitting over a cup Lubavitcher should know what a large family?
of coffee and catching up with the Rebbe said. At least she Not at all. I didnt think about

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it and did not imagine it would be Excuse me, I cannot do that. If she continues to give birth, it
this way. But as they say, With I could not destroy. It was clear is dangerous and you can start
the food comes the appetite. I to me that every child is a huge looking for another wife.
had my first and looked at her gift from G-d. So how could I be I thought that life is more
and wanted more. And if you an ingrate and give him back the important, and I had children
can manage with two, then why gift? waiting for me at home, so I
not more? I did not want to I said to my husband, There started a medical treatment that
interfere with G-d; I preferred is a doctor and there is a Healer the doctor recommended which
putting the time I had into raising of all flesh who does wonders. made me feel horrible! I felt that
my children rather than baking I felt a strong connection to G-d I would kill someone, G-d forbid.
another cake or cleaning the at that time. I prayed a lot and I stopped it and begged Hashem,
house some more. boruch Hashem, our Yossi was If you give me another one, it
During hard times, did you born. should be a healthy pregnancy.
consider taking a break? Over the years that followed Boruch Hashem, our Shmulik
After my second birth, I was I felt healthy. I was able to get was born and everything was
in the hospital for a month and a around and to function and I was fine. Of course I did not neglect
half because of a pelvic fracture, grateful for every additional child. myself; I had my legs treated
a rare medical condition, There are women who wait for a and I took natural remedies that
one in several thousand. The child for 20 years and I merited helped me recover. I carried on.
doctor said that I couldnt have to have 20 without waiting, so I Now I look at them all and
more children! Aside from the do not stop saying thank you to say: Hashem, who could I
tremendous pain I would suffer, Hashem. give up? Each one is an entire
it would be downright dangerous. After my eighth birth, I world with ambitions and
I did what the doctor said but suffered tremendously from amazing accomplishments and
became pregnant anyway. I went thrombosis in my legs. I went to a a wonderful legacy. It is literally
back to him and he said I should top doctor who told my husband, the revelation of the Ein Sof
immediately abort rl. I said, within the nature of creation.

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I thank G-d for my health, that at my age I still easy with disposables; its a great
solution.
get around and am active. Most of my friends are
Its really not easy, even
already in wheelchairs with lots of medication. Giving though its the best thing. Those
to whom order and cleanliness
birth is healthy for a woman, healthy for the world,
are important, should take help;
healthy for everyone. its important. Its part of the
expenses of having children. We
rely on G-d who does the best for
us.
How does one manage in her room feeding the baby and
financially? not to disturb. When I saw that a When was it the easiest time
baby was a little hungry, I added for you?
We had to adjust ourselves to
the childrens needs. Parnasa is almond milk which is the closest When Yedida and Nediva (the
from heaven. One can be without to mothers milk. I would soak oldest girls) began helping me.
parnasa, G-d forbid, with one the almonds, peel them, grind What age was that?
child and another has 20 children, them in the blender with water, When Yedida was 3. The first
and each one has what they need. and strain it through a cloth help I remember well was when
They may not have had all the diaper. The pieces of almonds I asked her to help me hang the
luxuries of the latest styles and that remained on top I ate, and I laundry. She would hand me
lots of toys, because I simply did gave the almond milk to the baby. item after item. Do you know
not find them necessary. I wanted How did you do everything how helpful that was, instead of
them to live properly, and that the laundry, cooking, childcare, me bending down? As they got
they should get along socially. housekeeping, and in such older, they helped more. I didnt
A child can sometimes find a quantities? Did you get help? burden them, but all help was
paper and crayons, or a pot and There was no money for help, appreciated. After the tenth child
ladle that are given with a smile, so Hashem helped us understand things got appreciably easier,
more enjoyable than a battery what is important and what is because the older ones helped
operated fancy car that runs on trivial, because perfection is raise the younger ones. After
its own all day and makes their impossible. We are not angels and the 20th child, youll laugh, but
natural creativity wither. You we cannot manage everything! I really wanted another child.
can take simple things that dont From the time my family grew Could it be I was done?
cost anything and make children significantly, this thought about In addition to having your
happy with them. important and trivial was my own children, you have done
The main thing is to remember guiding light. Although by nature a lot and are still active in
to say a good word and to listen I am neat and clean (to the point convincing women not to abort.
to them, and then you will see of ironing sheets), I had to forgo What do you say?
how they can be happy with just things for the sake of that which There was a long period
about anything. Aside from that, was more important. of time when I went to every
we know (as it says in the HaYom Every morning I ask myself, department at Assaf HaRofeh
Yom) that Jewish wealth is not what is the most important thing hospital. I went with Penina
found in houses and money but to do today? What is the order Yisroel and with other women
in children who are educated in of priorities? And I do that first. and we really made an impact.
the way of Torah and mitzvos. So Even if I managed to do only Then we would go to the bris and
it is obvious to us that we are rich three out of ten things, I am they would say, This is Uzits
and we feel happy! satisfied, grateful and happy, baby boy.
They are close in age. Did with the three. I see the cup as First I spoke about myself.
they miss out on personal half full. I didnt manage this, but Then I exposed them to other
attention? I managed that. Joy and gratitude insights, such as that G-d does
I dont think I could give more create a wonderful atmosphere in not ask of us that which we
attention to children than what the home, even if the home is far cannot do. What do you choose
I gave. The nursing period was from being organized, but I am to clean windows or raise a
great. Those hours were restful good with it. My children never Jewish child? To develop a career
and the children knew that Ima is ate off dirty plates and today its

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or hasten the Geula through for her and for us its so helpful.
drawing down another soul from Your career as a
the treasury of souls? grandmother started very
I always say and its tried young, while you were still
and true, From this child that bearing children of your own.
you are thinking of aborting, Did your grandchildren feel the
you will have much nachas! love of a grandmother or was
What a terrible pity to lose good, that impossible?
wonderful children. And if G-d The grandchildren dont miss
forbid you abort, it will be on out on having a grandmother.
your conscience for the rest of They feel there is another person
your life. It depends on what you who loves them, they have a
want, on what you are looking grandmother who is interested
for in life. Life is limited in this and who smiles at them; they
world. Maybe by aborting you dont need more than that. It
managed to keep your looks doesnt matter that I gave birth
R Moshe Schneersohn ah
and get to doll yourself up every along with my daughters and
morning. Is that what you are daughters-in-law that goes
going to take with you to the say, Oh my, what a balagan together excellently. There
heavenly court, or are you going (chaos). are those who think that there
with mitzvos and good deeds? I would say, Whats the needs to be a space between
Or, as we put it nowadays, problem, the door is open! and raising little ones and having
with what will we go to greet he would laugh. grandchildren. People plan
Moshiach? With lipstick or a My mother ah would come We dont need to plan anything.
baby? and say, Leave the children and The planning we can leave to our
When the husband finds a make some order. I spent more Boss. There is a baal habayis in
larger family difficult, what can time with the kids, listening, the world, blessed is He, and He
be done? giving attention, watching over is the best planner there is for us!
My husband was an educator them, but I have no doubt that Closing remarks?
and a very special person. He it is far better to raise children I thank G-d for my health,
always knew how to introduce in an orderly home. The that at my age I still get around
creative ideas and enthusiasm chaos bothered them and still and am active. Most of my
into everything and raised them bothers them, but they have to friends are already in wheelchairs
with lots of fun. When Moshe understand that they have one with lots of medication. Giving
would come home from work mother and she isnt an angel birth is healthy for a woman,
I would complain that it was and whoever wants order, should healthy for the world, healthy for
hard for me and I need help. I make order. everyone. There is nothing more
meant he should help me out in What should women do if important. Whoever can, should
the house. What he understood they yearn for children but were grab this amazing gift with both
of what I said is that its hard, not blessed with them? hands.
and after ten children, having They should help those with We need to constantly give
more would be too hard. The children! I grew up in a home thanks. Thats how we start our
neighbors also pitied me and let with seven children. We had a day and how the rest of the day
me know that ten is enough. childless neighbor. My mother ought to go. Laughing is healthy!
When I realized that, I made would let her come down every Its good! I discovered that,
a switch in my head and stopped morning and help us; apparently, long before the era of laughter
complaining entirely. I did what she liked doing this. A woman therapy and workshops. Come
I could quietly. I learned to who helps with a large family and visit me and youll see
forgo things and to know that is a partner with them, and chaos. I help my children with
its possible. Despite my orderly women with children should not the grandchildren and its really
nature I forwent order in favor of be ashamed to ask for help. If a nonstop, but boruch Hashem,
giving attention to the children. woman does it happily and feels there is a lot of joy.
Moshe would come in and good about helping, its a mitzva

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HALACHA 2 GO

MEASUREMENTS,
MEN & MIRRORS
Selected Halachos from the
One Minute Halacha project
By HaRav Yosef Yeshaya Braun, Shlita,
Mara Dasra and member of the Badatz of Crown Heights

CAN GLASS WHAT WORK IS and is needed for yom tov. Work
of this kind may be performed
BE KASHERED? FORBIDDEN ON EREV
in a professional manner for
There are three differing PESACH AFTER CHATZOS? oneself, or for someone else but
opinions among poskim on During the era of the Beis without payment.
the subject of koshering glass, HaMikdash, Chazal instituted a Professional writing is
namely: prohibition against any Jewish considered a true form of work
Glass doesnt absorb, and person performing work from and is not permitted even for a
therefore there is no need to midday on Erev Pesachthe mitzvah.
kasher a glass utensil. It only has hours in which the korban Pesach
to be washed and wiped clean. was offered. This Rabbinical HOW MUCH IS A KZAYIS?
The opinion on the opposite prohibition was not removed
end of the spectrum is that even after the destruction of The term kzayis is frequently
glass does absorb, and that this the Beis HaMikdash and the found in Torah sources. A kzayis
absorption is irreversible and discontinuation of the korban is the volume of an average-
cannot be kashered. Pesach. sized olive. However, there is a
difference of opinion amongst
The middle-ground opinion All activities that may
early authorities as to the volume
is that glass, like most other be performed during chol
of an average-sized olive. Many
materials, needs to be kashered if hamoedsuch as a matter that
Rishonim maintain that a kzayis
it becomes treif, and can in fact will be lost if left unattended, or
is approximately the equivalent
be kashered. something that is necessary for
of half an average-sized egg
The Sephardic custom is to the days of chol hamoed and is
(without its shell). Another
be lenient and follow the first done non-professionally, not as a
opinion is that a kzayis is slightly
view. Ashkenazim, although worker trained in that fieldmay
less than a third of an egg (with
they concur with the third certainly be performed on Erev
its shell).
view in principle, are stringent Pesach afternoon.
Regarding a Torah rule, such
in practice and do not kasher It is only true work that
as eating a kzayis of matza on
glass. Some argue that this may not be performed, such as
the first night of Pesach, we must
stringency only applies to Pesach crafting a new utensil or sewing
be stringent and go by the larger
glasswarethat is to say, we new garments. By contrast, one
shiur; regarding the amount
never rely on koshering glass to may repair something that has
of maror to be eaten, which is
remove chametzbut others are been slightly damaged and is
a Rabbinic ruling, we can be
stringent all year round. needed at present. Similarly, one
lenient, if necessary. At times
may sew and repair clothing that
the larger shiur is a leniency: For
has been slightly torn or damaged
example, regarding the halacha

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of destroying any chametz over tfillin), and for checking for food using a mirror for this purpose
a kzayis found in our possession stains or dandruff on the person is proper since it enhances
on Pesach which is a Biblical or clothing to present a well- respect for Torah in the larger
law, we must be stringent and groomed appearance. Halachic community.
deem the smaller shiur kzayis authorities add that even absent
as the kzayis. (According to some sullying substance, a man ANTICIPATING THE
Rabbinic law, we must destroy may glance in the mirror to
even chametz which is under a simply straighten his clothing to
COMING OF MOSHIACH
kzayis.) look presentable. One of the principles of our
Before making a bracha Later authorities qualify that faith is to believe in Moshiach
acharonah, an after-blessing since in the current age mirrors and not only to believe in
which is required only after are no longer considered gender- Moshiach, but to anticipate his
eating a kzayisone should be specific, the above restrictions coming every single day. It is a
sure to eat at least the equivalent are relaxed and mirrors may be fundamental tenet of Yiddishkait,
in volume of half an average egg used for a range of purposes by and there are numerous
in order to avoid the possibility men as well. Other authorities references to Moshiachs coming
of saying a bracha in vain. One nevertheless maintain that in the Torah. Indeed, we pray
should avoid the equivocal zone: chaverim (colleagues; i.e., many times a day for his coming.
either eat less than the smaller Torah scholars) refrain from One of the first questions
shiur kzayis and not make a gazing in mirrors indiscriminately asked of each departed soul by
bracha acharonah, or eat more and maintain the standards of the beis din shel malah (Heavenly
than the larger shiur kzayis so previous generations. There are tribunal) is: Tzipisa lyeshuah?
that a bracha acharonah can be also kabbalistic motives for men (Have you yearned for the
saidin compliance with all curbing their mirror use, as it Redemption?) Some poskim
opinions. states in the Zohar concerning say that believing that Hashem
ruchos raos (evil spirits) will redeem us through the
OF MIRRORS AND MEN unleashed by males who use coming of Moshiach is actually
mirrors, including a memunah part of the principle of Anochi
The lav (Torah prohibition), (appointed [angel]) called Mareh Hashem Elokecha, believing in
Lo yilbash gever simlas isha (mirror) whose negative Hashem. A person who does not
(a man may not dress in a energies are thus fortified. do so is denying a basic tenet of
womans garment) prohibits Obviously, this warning does Yiddishkait; therefore, it is crucial
many types of adornments and not apply to utilizing the mirror to make everyone aware of this
beauty enhancements normally when sanctioned by halacha basic principle of our faith.
practiced by women; in this vein those activities outlined by the Part of believing in and
the Talmud Yerushalmi states Yerushalmi and earlier poskim. awaiting Moshiach is not to
that men gazing in the mirror is
The established practice is make any pre-conditions for his
also a violation of lo yilbash.
that mirror-use by men is only coming: for example, we may
However, the Yerushalmi restricted when it is lihisgaos not say that because Eliyahu
continues, there are exceptions (for vanity)but in other HaNavi has not come, therefore
to this precept, such as those who circumstances and when in the Moshiach cannot come yet. Nor
are krovim lmalchus (involved range of acceptable halachic may we set a keitz (a specific
with the government)they may practice, or otherwise lsheim time) by when Moshiach should
look in the mirror to maintain the Shamayim (for the sake of come, but rather we should
impeccable standards of dress Heaven), it is acceptable. Some constantly be anticipating his
befitting their position. Poskim latter-day poskim mention arrival. It is a halacha to yearn
maintain that there are also a that in current times, when a and pray for Moshiach every time
range of non-glamour related Torah lifestyle has become more we think or talk about him.
activities where mirror use by marginalized, it is even more One Minute Halacha is a succinct
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The events of Pesach 5733: Lubavitcher Chassidim on Tahalucha
meet Satmar Chassidim, Rabbi Elbergs comments on the royal
characteristics of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, the Rebbes response
to the question of the secret of successfully influencing so many
people, and the difference between a Jew and a goy. * Sparkling
gems discovered in the letters of a diary written to friends and
family by Rabbi Yekusiel Menachem Rapp ah, mashgiach in
Tomchei Tmimim 770, director of Chabad at Kennedy Airport,
and director of the Matteh LHatzolas HaAm VHaAretz.

By Chaim Bruk

Rabbi Yekusiel Rapp


(bottom right)

I
met him for the first time at the and at the Central Bus Station a Lubavitcher
Central Bus Station, said R bachur noticed me. He came over and asked,
Refael Cheruti, of Nachalat Har Did you put on tfillin today?
Chabad in Kiryat Malachi. It was I told him that I was on my way to the
when I was a young man starting to take an yeshiva in Kfar Chabad, but he was focused
interest in Judaism and Chassidus. I went for on his goal and he said, First put on tfillin.
my first Shabbos to the yeshiva in Kfar Chabad, He then called over another bachur who was

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manning the stand with him. according to custom. toward evening (as every year),
Zimroni, come put them on with He went to the kitchen and a large crowd, thousands of
him. blessed Mussia the cook and people, walked on Tahalucha
That is how I met R Kuti returned to the hall and blessed accompanied by singing to the
Rapp ah, and, yibadel bein us, Chag HaPesach kosher Williamsburg neighborhood (and
chayim lchayim, R Zimroni vsameiach, ulshana habaah other neighborhoods), about an
Tzik, shliach in Bat Yam. We bYerushalayim, ulkiyum hayiud hours walk from Crown Heights,
kept up over the years and when Elokei Yisroel oseh niflaos in order to bring joy to Jews in
R Rapp went to the Rebbe, he levado amen vamen. Then the shuls, the joy of Yom Tov, and
sent me letters with a diary of Rebbe walked toward the door to convey to them sichos of the
events he experienced in the as the hundreds of bachurim Rebbe and the General Letter
Rebbes presence. Apparently, sang the new niggun in honor of (addressed to all sons and
these were photocopies of some the Rebbes 72nd year, Yifrach daughters of the Jewish people in
of the letters he sent to his family. BYamav Tzaddik. every place they may be) which
Unfortunately, I cant find all the Then the Rebbe visited the Rebbe wrote for Pesach.
letters, but I have two of them. Yeshivas Hadar HaTorah (the It poured during Tahalucha,
When I went to console the yeshiva for baalei teshuva), but that did not stop the Rebbes
family during Shiva, I presented where the bachurim made the soldiers from carrying out the
them with a copy of the letters. seder, and blessed them. Then order and going, happily! I
R Cheruti allowed the letters the Rebbe went upstairs and heard that they announced that
to be published in Beis Moshiach looked over the entire building, day in Satmar in the name of
and we thank him for that on their zal, the classrooms and their Rebbe not to fight and to
behalf of our readers. bedrooms, and he also wanted welcome Lubavitch graciously.
to go up to the roof. He asked Indeed, we were welcomed in
whether there was a sukka there Williamsburg graciously and with
A DESCRIPTION OF A VISIT wonder over the obedience of
for Sukkos. The Rebbe said, Its
TO THE REBBE one thing for the bachurim to use Lubavitcher Chassidim.
BH paper plates for Pesach, but here After everyone finished their
Pesach 5733 [Hadar HaTorah] better quality assignments in the shuls, they
Our Pesach was experienced dishes should be used. When the gathered in one central spot
with elevation of spirit and Rebbe left the building, he made and one of the Chassidim read
supernal joy in the fullest sense. I a hand motion of amazement. the Rebbes letter before a large
will write a little about the events On Thursday, the first day crowd that gathered there and
(and experiences) of Yom Tov of Chol HaMoed (outside Eretz the dancing lasted a long time.
with the Rebbe: Yisroel), there was a Kinus We returned to Crown Heights
Torah in the farband hall for late at night.
The sdarim and the Yom Tov
meals took place in the farband the yeshiva students in Crown At the big farbrengen of
hall that was prepared especially Heights. A few bachurim who Acharon shel Pesach, the
for Pesach (not in the kitchen of live here and learn in other Rebbe spoke about rains of
the yeshiva dormitory where they yeshivos also attended. Bachurim blessing that accompanied us
eat all year). After Maariv on the from the yeshiva here and from on Tahalucha and danced with
first night, and after the Rebbe other yeshivos in America and us (absorbed in the clothing)
finished giving out matzos mitzva other countries said pilpulim while we brought Jews the joy of
to those who had not made it to of chiddushei Torah for Yom Tov. The farbrengen began
the Rebbe on the long line that several hours. The gathering before sunset and lasted seven
continued for several hours on was organized by R Zalman hours (from 6:30-1:30).
Erev Pesach, we merited that the Wilschansky. In addition, there At the end of the farbrengen,
Rebbe came up (on the red carpet was the established Kinus the Rebbe gave leftovers of his
that was prepared on the steps HaTorah that took place in 770 matza to Rabbi Mentlick so he
in his honor) to the hall where that Rabbi Mentlick organizes, could distribute it at the Kinus
we held the seder and scanned where roshei yeshiva and others Torah the next day (which was
the bachurim and the kearos speak. attended by Rabbi Simcha Elberg
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about the royal characteristics
of the Lubavitcher Rebbe). The
Rebbe also said that the series
of talks on the conclusion of
Meseches Ksubos on the topic
of Yemos HaMoshiach that he
started on 11 Nissan, was his
participation in the Kinus Torah
(R Yoel reviewed this at the
Kinus). On the Shabbos after
Pesach the Rebbe continued on
this topic at length discussing the
Rambams codification.
After Birkas HaMazon (which
the Rebbe himself said over a
kos), Maariv and Havdala, the Rabbi Rapp with the Rebbes packages of matzos that were sent to Eretz Yisroel
Rebbe gave out kos shel bracha
from his cup to the thousands of
ziknei Anash and shluchim went grow your thing). You simply
participants who passed by him
to the Rebbes room to bless him need to have his welfare in mind
until after 3:15. Many also asked
and R Moshe Pinchas Katz (a and then what you say will have
for kos shel bracha on behalf
Kohen) said the priestly blessing an influence on him.
of their relatives and friends
(as he does every year on this They asked about the
which they would send to other
day). The Rebbe responded, And difference between a Jew and a
countries. The Rebbe personally
I will bless those who bless you, goy and the Rebbe answered,
conducted the singing and the
with the blessing of HaKadosh A goy is also a creation that
rejoicing during the distribution
Baruch Hu with an increase that G-d invested in, but a G-dly
of kos shel bracha. Toward
is greater than the original and spark that is a Jew. From a
morning, the Rebbe left the room
this is a preparation for a kosher spark you can make a flame
after he himself began singing the
and joyous Pesach. which illuminates and warms. To
niggun Ki BSimcha Seitzeiu.
A few weeks ago, the illuminate and warm the world is
Fortunate is the eye which
leadership of the UJA had something only a Jew can do.
saw (and the ear that heard the
yechidus with the Rebbe, six They asked about Chabads
sichos and joy and) all this. I
men and their wives (these are attitude toward Eretz Yisroel
will, G-d willing, write about the
the ones who decide and are in and the Rebbe answered, Eretz
sichos at the farbrengen another
control of the charitys money, Yisroel is a holy land and even
time, but for now I will make do
more than the 17 who entered the non-Jews admit to this and
with this brief description.
previously, which I already wrote call it the holy land. However,
I will end with a blessing for to you about). The Rebbe spoke fulfilling mitzvos is easier outside
a pleasant and healthy summer to them in detail about how to of Eretz Yisroel (I cannot take
(Rambam in Hilchos Deios says allocate the funds (which is why responsibility for the exact
it is from the ways of Hashem they came) and that they should quote on this [KR]). Because in
to have a healthy, whole body). give most of the money for Jewish Eretz Yisroel (with Hashems
Kol tuv, your son and brother, education. eyes upon it) there is more
Yekusiel They asked the Rebbe, What particularity about mans deeds.
is the secret of Chabads success? They had the yechidus
PEARLS FROM YECHIDUS How do they influence so many together with the Rebbes
Pesach 5733 people? secretaries and were there for
And now, some of the The Rebbe said, When an hour and a half. I heard these
latest news: influencing a Jew, one does not points from Avrohom Shemtov
need to look at him from the top who had a part in bringing them
On 11 Nissan in the
down, nor because you desire to and who also went in with them.
afternoon, before the Rebbe went
bring him to your approach and Before and after the yechidus
home before Shabbos, a group of
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A few weeks ago, the leadership of the UJA world, I arranged a printing of
the Tanya at Kennedy Airport. At
had yechidus with the Rebbe, six men and their the time, those in charge of the
wives. The Rebbe spoke to them in detail about how to project did not give permission
to print the Tanya everywhere;
allocate the funds and that they should give most of the just in cities and yishuvim, but
money for Jewish education. R Chadakov gave me permission
to print it at the airport. He said
that its an international area.
The Tanya printed at the airport
the members of the secretariat Your son and brother, was one of the first 1000, number
farbrenged with them in the Yekusiel 625.
Rebbes library near 770.
The binding of the sfarim
Preparations for the Lag IN THE MARGINS took place around the time
BOmer parade are in full swing. OF THE LETTERS that the Rebbes matzos were
They are preparing this year for being shipped to Eretz Yisroel, a
at least 20,000 children and In one of R Rapps letters,
the Rebbe is quoted as saying shipment that I was responsible
students. On the flyers they for overseeing. I brought two
wrote there will be 50,000. They in yechidus, Even the goy is a
creation that Hashem invested in, Tanyas with me (since we printed
hung a banner about the parade two kinds of dedications) in order
and the Shnas HaShivim on but a G-dly spark - that is a Jew.
From a spark you can make a to give them to the Rebbe, while
the Tzach building 788, and they were packing the matzos.
over Kingston Avenue, corner of flame that illuminates and warms.
Illuminating and warming the When I handed the Rebbe
Eastern Parkway (the banner is
world is only for a Jew ... the Tanyas, he asked me,
attached to houses on both sides
When I read this I was Did you already receive my
and the cars drive under it) and it
reminded of what R Rapp told participation? (Whoever printed
is quite impressive.
me when I interviewed him a Tanya received $20 from
The Rebbe gave one hundred the secretaries as the Rebbes
single dollars for the parade. for Beis Moshiach, about an
interesting thing that happened participation in the printing). I
There was a big gathering of said, Not yet. The Rebbe said I
Anash and they sold each of when he was involved in sending
matzos from the Rebbe to Eretz should go to the secretaries later
the dollars for $118, and the and get it. He then added, Since
bachurim also participated in Yisroel.
you gave two sfarim, get two
this by pooling into groups. And The second part of the story
bills (of $20 each).
since all the dollars were sold, the was left out of the article written
then, due to lack of space, but When I called the secretaries
Rebbe added $80 (of which 50
perhaps it would be fitting to to report to R Leibel Groner
were sold) and said that if they
include it here as an addendum about the shipment of matzos
need it, he would add more.
to what the Rebbe said in that and to give him the number of the
Apparently, there will be a container, as the Rebbe said to
broadcast from the parade to all yechidus quoted above, from
which, by the way, you can see do, so it would be easier to locate
countries and on the radio here it in Eretz Yisroel, he asked me,
too. And from now on, it seems to what extent R Rapp lived
wholeheartedly with what the Where will you be tomorrow by
that at every weekday farbrengen the Torah reading?
there will be a radio broadcast, Rebbe said in his sichos and with
the instruction to do all that you I said, By the Rebbe in the
like on Purim. On 11 Nissan the
can to bring Moshiach. beis midrash (in the zal upstairs
farbrengen was not broadcast
where they davened and read
on the radio, because they only
from the Torah in those years).
found out that it would take THE REBBE RECEIVED THE He said, The Rebbe wants to
place on the day itself, and so INTERNATIONAL TANYA give you the money himself for
last Motzaei Shabbos there was
This is what R Rapp told me the printing of the Tanya and to
a tape that was broadcast on the
at that time: hear for himself how it went with
radio for about an hour.
In 5744, when they began the matza shipment. Tomorrow
When will we have a radio morning, stand near the door of
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the Rebbes room after the Torah the airport. The Magen Avrohom The Rebbe said that all the small
reading. writes, In Erfurt (in English it lights would join together to be a
The next day, at the appointed sounds like airport) they would large flame that would burn the
time, I stood in Gan Eden light four and five lights. Thats remnants of galus and bring the
HaTachton (the hallway outside the remez, he said jokingly, for light of the Geula.
the Rebbes room). The Rebbe lighting the menorah for 400 I thought that based on
appeared after the Torah reading, and 500 people (or thousands) this one can say that this is the
took out two bills from his pocket during Mivtza Chanuka at the remez in the Magen Avrohom. I
and gave them to me. He asked airport. forbade it, is from the Hebrew
how it went with the shipment The halacha there is actually root to (assur) bind all together,
and then spoke to me about a few about whether you can light as the Rebbe said, so that by
other things. several wicks in one bowl. The mivtzaim and lighting the many
Magen Avrohom writes that candles, four and five hundred
AN ALLUSION TO MIVTZAIM in Erfurt (which refers to a become a great torch that burns
European city by the name of the remnants of galus and brings
IN MAGEN AVROHOM Erfurt), they light four and five the light of the Geula.
I figured that one of the lights together. But the Magen I wrote all this in my report.
reasons for this kiruv from Avrohom writes, I forbade it Who knows? Maybe the Rebbe
the Rebbe was that along with to them, since he rules that by enjoyed it and that is why he gave
the Tanyas, I gave the Rebbe doing so, it becomes like a torch. me the money himself.
a letter with a report about I said to the young man that if ***
activities in recent months at the so, it is not a remez to encourage
airport. I described what we did This is what came to mind
mivtzaim since the Magen
on Chanuka with thousands of when seeing the words of the
Avrohom forbids lighting the way
passengers who lit the menorah. Rebbe in yechidus quoted in R
they lit in Erfurt.
Kutis letters, about the G-dly
A while before writing the I wrote this all to the Rebbe in spark of the Jew and how that
report, a Chassidishe young man my report and added that perhaps can grow into a flame, and how
wanted to encourage me, and he one can explain this in a light it is only the Jew who can light up
showed me that in the Magen vein based on what the Rebbe and warm up the world with his
Avrohom commentary on the said in the sicha in which he inner flame.
Laws of Chanuka there is a remez spoke passionately about Mivtza
(allusion) to Mivtza Chanuka at Neshek and Mivtza Chanuka.

G-d miraculously this is the G-d to whom we hope; we shall rejoice and be
Continued from page 47
saved the glad in His salvation.
children that With the blessing of a kosher and happy Pesach
might later receive the Torah, so will He also save our M. Schneerson
generation that the Torah may not be forgotten. He will
After Pesach, on April 18 1952 [23 Nissan 5712] Mr.
save the remnants of our children also from those who
Beckelman responded:
rise up to destroy them, G-d forbid, through a distorted
education which calls evil - good, and good - evil, Dear Rabbi Schneerson:
and considers darkness - light, and light - darkness. Thank you very much for your kind Passover
Despising the Torah of G-d. G-d will save us and them greetings. I, too, hope that it will be possible for us to
from their hands, that this generation be the generation continue to cooperate with the work of your organization
of the Redemption, not by might and not by power, but in the interests of our common cause.
by the spirit of G-d, and every one, boy and girl, man With all best wishes,
and woman, will recognize G-d, pointing a finger and I am,
saying, Behold our G-d, to whom we hoped to save us;
Sincerely yours,

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PASSOVER
GREETINGS
FROM THE REBBE
Pirsum Rishon: In honor of the upcoming holiday of Pesach we
present letters of the Rebbe to the American Joint Distribution
Committee (JDC) in honor of the holiday of Pesach, and the
response of the JDC to the Rebbe * The Rebbes Letters

PESACH 5710 your work in this field, for he considered you a real
friend with foresight and understanding for both
The Rebbes Letter to Dr. Joseph J. Schwartz, the material and spiritual needs of our brethren. I
Chairman of the JDC: am sure that his prayerful wishes and blessings to
Nissan 10, 5710 you, in your public work as well as in your personal
March 28, 1950 life, will continue to stand you in good stead.
Dr. Joseph J. Schwartz With kindest personal regards and best wishes,
Chairman, European Executive Council, Very sincerely yours,
American Joint Distribution Committee, Rabbi Mendel Schneerson
Dear Dr. Schwartz: On April 10, 1950 [23 Nissan 5710] Dr. Joseph
With the approach of Pesach, the festival of our J. Schwartz responded to the Rebbe:
Liberation, I send you my best wishes for a kosher My dear Rabbi Schneerson:
and joyous Pesach. I want to thank you very much for your kind
In our generation, Galuth and Exodus have letter of March 28th in which you express best
both been a bitter reality. No one is more familiar wishes for the Passover Holidays.
than you with the appalling circumstances of the I had the great privilege of knowing your late
present day Galuth and Exodus of our Jewish father-in-law, the sainted Lubavitcher Rabbi, and
brethren. had the deepest respect and regard not only for
It has been your Providential privilege to help his personality but for the wonderful and inspiring
alleviate the pain and suffering of hundreds of work which he performed. His Interest in things
thousands of our brethren. I know with what affecting the Jewish people was universal and
high esteem my late father-in-law, the revered was not confined to any single country or to any
Lubavitcher Rabbi of sainted memory, regarded single group. The community of Israel scattered

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throughout the world was his sphere of interest living. Still more so are our festivals, since their
and to this community he gave his great heart and purpose is not only to inspire us during the period
mind and his unbounded energy. It was a privilege of celebration, but their influence is to be felt in our
for me to have been associated with him even at daily life all year round. First and foremost among
this distance. It is my hope that the same pleasant them is the festival of Passover.
associations that prevailed between the Lubavitcher The remembrance of the Departure from Egypt
group and ourselves during the life of your father- is one of the main pillars of our Torah and faith.
in-law will continue in the future. The event of the Exodus has been singled out for
With kindest regards and best wishes, remembrance every day of the year, and on the
night of Passover it is, of course, the very center of
PESACH 5712 our attention.
Of the numerous lessons which this event has
The Rebbes letter to Mr. Moses Beckleman,
for us, I want to mention here but one point, a point
Director-General of the JDC:
which is significantly related to both the beginning
By the Grace of G-d and the end of the festival.
Nissan 13th, 5712 The first festive ceremony, after dark, is the
Brooklyn 13, N.Y. Seder. It begins with one of its basic features -
My dear Mr. Beckelman: the fulfillment of the precept, Thou shalt relate it
The forthcoming festival of Pesach gives me the to thy son. The Seder ceremony contains changes
pleasant opportunity to send you my greetings and and deviations from our customs and practices,
best wishes for a kosher and happy Pesach. with a view to rousing the interest of the children
Rabbi Benjamin Gorodetzky, who recently and make them participate in the service. Moreover,
came back for a brief visit, reported to me fully on our duty to the children is not confined to the wise
the matters of our mutual interest. On his return ones, but for the wise, the wicked, the simple and
he will convey to you my personal regards. In the the one who knows not what to ask. All of them
meantime, however, I want to take this opportunity must be gathered to the Seder, and each one must
to assure you of my sincere appreciation of your be instructed according to his intelligence and
cooperation, which I trust will go from strength to understanding.
strength. The concluding event of the story of Passover is
I trust the enclosed Pesach Message will be of the miraculous Crossing of the Red Sea, when so
interest to you. great was G-ds revelation, that every one of the
people of Israel could point a finger and exclaim,
With personal regards and best wishes to you This is my G-d and I will glorify Him. The sons
and yours, and daughters who were born at the height of
Cordially, the enslavement and oppression were those who
M. Schneerson recognized G-d first.
Attached to this letter was the English Michtav The end of the festival is rooted in its
Kloli from the Rebbe in honor of Pesach 5712, dated beginning.
Rosh Chodesh Nissan 5712 (the Hebrew was printed We must make every possible effort to find the
in Igros Kodesh Vol. 5 page 277ff): ways and means (even at the sacrifice of personal
To My Brethren Everywhere habits and customs) to rouse the young generation
G-d bless you all, and bring all Jewish boys and girls without exception
Sholom uBrocho: the wise, wicked, simple and the one who knows
not what to ask to Torah and Mitzvoth. Then we
The festival of Passover is approaching.
can confidently look to the Redemption and be sure
Everything in this world, on reflection, can serve that With our youths and our aged shall we go,
us as useful instruction in our daily behavior, either (together) with our sons and daughters.
in our relationship to G-d, or to fellow man, or
Like that generation in Egypt, this generation,
both.
too, was born and bred in the most tragic period
The Torah, Torath Chayim, as the name of our history. And as in those days of old, when
implies (Instruction In Life), and its Mitzvoth,
are particularly a source of instruction in good Continued on page 45

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CELEBRATING
THE HERE
AND NOW
By Rabbi Gershon Avtzon

T
hey tell a story of birthday of our father and our I did not know what to do or who
three people who were Melech, the Rebbe. The number to turn to. Finally, I decided to
schmoozing about what 115 is the Gematria of the word pour out my heart to the Rebbe.
type of eulogy they would . The opening pasuk of the I wrote a letter describing all the
like to be said at their funeral. The test of the Akeida, when Hashem hardship and all the agmas nefesh
first one said, I would like the requested of Avraham to act I was experiencing. In the letter, I
Rabbi giving the eulogy to stand with the highest level of Mesiras wrote to the Rebbe that people are
up, look at the coffin and say that Nefesh, reads as follows: telling me that one of the reasons
the person lying there was known that I am not finding supporters
to be a very smart and learned . Rashi comments on is because of our proud and open
man. The second person said: the word , saying: stand about our emuna in the
I wish that the Rabbi would get , this is indicative of the Rebbe.
up, look at the coffin and say that humility of Chassidim.
I opened the Igros Kodesh
the person lying here lived with We all know that we are going (Vol. 3 pg. 282) and read: It was
Mesiras Nefesh for Yiddishkait through a tremendous test now, my assessment that you might
and the education of his family. right before the complete Hisgalus possibly think that the challenge
The third one said: I think it of Moshiach. The Torah teaches us would be too great, because
would be great if at my funeral, the way Chassidim should answer who knows what you would lose
the Rabbi would get up, look at !We are all here and together by fulfilling my suggestion and
the coffin and say Hes moving! we will definitely overcome the request. Therefore when I was at
Hes alive! final test. the gravesite of my revered father-
There are many special dates It is not easy, in-law, the Rebbe, , I recalled
throughout the year on which . The following personal your [name] with a request that
Chassidei Chabad farbreng story will illustrate this point you find the power within your
together, clearly. soul or that you be granted
?Some dates, for example It was the night of Rosh the powers to withstand what
19 Kislev, seem superficially to Chodesh Tammuz just a few years appears to you as a challenge
be a celebration of the history and ago, which was the last night of the and that very soon you will see
greatness of Chassidus. Other zman. My family was in NY for a that there was nothing to it, as
times, such as 12 Tammuz, inspire simcha and I was home alone. I explained in Chassidus with regard
us when we recall the Mesiras could not sleep that night; I was so to the concept of challenges.
Nefesh of Chassidei Chabad worried. The very next morning, I read the letter, and I
throughout the generations. I would have to pay all the money understood the message, but I
However tonight is different owed for the past as well as for still could not imagine how the
from all other nights. Tonight the the upcoming summer, and the situation would resolve.
message is different: !! financial struggles were crushing. Well, there is a Yid in
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Cincinnati (please daven for Shalom entire world. way, then .
ben Rachel for a refua shleima!) who We are about to celebrate Pesach, While most of the older
is a Holocaust survivor. He came the time of Yetzias Mitzrayim and generation bemoans the advancement
after the war to America with just 7 Krias Yam suf. There is only one way of technology and the seemingly
dollars and BH was able to build that we will see that , endless , we ought to take
up a very successful business. He and that is if . a moment and look at what is in front
values Jewish education and his name The Rebbe revolutionized the of our eyes: Thousands of young boys
can be seen displayed on almost all entire world. There is no place is the and girls who have grown up in this
Jewish institutions in the city. Ever world where the light of the Rebbe great nisayon and are the strongest
since I moved to Cincinnati, I had has not reached and permeated. The and most dedicated chassidim,
tried meeting him, but I could never sea of Helem Vehester does not exist hundreds of people who have been
get through to him. And now this was for the Rebbe. Of course, the Rebbe niskarev to the Rebbe and have given
about to change. is a Nasi, Navi, Melech and Tzaddik up everything for their commitment
The next day, I woke up a little and therefore nothing is concealed to the Rebbe. What is their secret?
late, and by the time I came to before him. Yet the Rebbe, with his What is the source of their strength?
Yeshiva, Shacharis had already begun. tremendous love for us, shared a I am sure, if we asked these children,
I walked in and saw two bachurim special secret that we can learn from, we would all hear these three words:
laughing. They said that a few minutes and the secret is very simple. What !
ago an older man walked in and asked was on the Rebbes mind since the It is so important that as we
to speak to the Rabbi. Because I had day he was born? celebrate another year of the Rebbes
not been there I was busy being In a famous letter written on presence in our lives, our commitment
sad they assumed he was just an 11 Nissan 5716 to Mr. Shazar, the ought to get stronger.
ordinary visitor and took him around Rebbe makes it very clear: From I want to share with you another
the Yeshiva; they danced with him the time that I was a child attending personal story. Ten years ago I spoke
and then he went on his way. Before cheider, and even earlier than that, with a friend about becoming a
he left, he gave them a paper with his there began to take form in my mind partner in the Chinuch of the Yeshiva.
name and personal number. When I a vision of the future redemption He agreed and starting sending me
saw the paper, I almost fainted. It was the redemption of Israel from its a check every month for the amount
this big Gvir who had come looking last exile, redemption such as would of 1050. After Pesach, I noticed
for me! explain the suffering, the decrees and that the amount went up to 1060.
I quickly called him and the massacres of exile. Part of that The next time I spoke with him, I
apologized for missing his visit. On special future will be a special person, thanked him for the increase. He said,
the phone, he told me that he was Nasi Zeh Melech, a king for whom The increase is because the Rebbe
not sure what happened that day. For the only one above him is Hashem. increases. I assumed he meant that
years he had known that I was trying Bhashgacha Pratis, this letter his business was doing better with
to connect with him, but he was not is the letter . the brachos of the Rebbe. But then
interested in meeting me. Yet this We are all familiar with the Pasuk in he continued, Until 11 Nissan, the
morning, he woke up with the feeling Mishlei . This letter Rebbe was 105 so I sent 1050, now
that he needed to visit me is the key to Hatzlacha in everything that the Rebbe is older, and became
Baruch Hashem, he has been in Chinuch. We all must know with 106, the Tzdaka needs to increase as
supporting me ever since. certainty that . The Rebbe is well.
. not just Adoneinu whose directives Let us all take on Hachlatos to
Dear Chassidim, especially all we follow; the Rebbe is not just strengthen ourselves, our families and
those gathered here that answered Moreinu that we ask him advice, our communities to get involved in
Hineini, we know for sure that if we and not just Rabbeinu that we learn the . Let
have full Emuna, then his Torah. He is ! And us all stand up, say Lchaim and show
. at any moment the sea of Helem the world that we have full faith that
Yet the world conceals the truth Vehester will split and the Rebbe will ... !
like the ocean conceals the treasures be revealed to the whole world. When
beneath the water. We all desire the , when we educate our Rabbi Avtzon is the Rosh Yeshiva of
splitting of our ocean of children from the time they are infants Yeshivas Lubavitch Cincinnati and a well
before our eyes and that the truth that that they are connected to the Rebbe sought after speaker and lecturer. Recordings
Melech HaMoshiach and we live this of his in-depth shiurim on Inyanei Geula
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TZIVOS HASHEM

THE BAAL SHEM


TOVS GENTILE
HELPERS
By Menachem Ziegelboim

serene. By his side was his young children but a bachur with
PART I a lofty soul. She agreed to his
wife Chana.
A small house made of The two of them lived in this stipulation despite the sacrifice
old wood stood on the side shack, alone in the mountains.
it required of her.
of a mountain, among the It wasnt easy for Chana, who Chana was happy, even
mountains between Kitov though she did not see her
was dislocated from her birth
and Kosov, as though hiding city of Brody where she had husband much at home.
in its shade. As far as the eye lived with her family. Her older Throug hout the week he would
could see were the Carpathian brother was Rabbi Avrohom wande r throug h thick forests
Mountains in their full glory. Gershon of Kitov. He was one of which there were plenty in
G-ds creation is magnificent of the members of the kloiz the Carpathians. He would leave
indeed. (informal group of great Torah home on Sunday morning and
A young couple lived in this scholars immersed in full-time return on Friday afternoon,
house, a couple which chose to Torah study) in Brody, and before Shabbos. And yet, Chana
flee the tumult of the city and was considered a mekubal and was happy. She knew that her
the hordes of humanity. They great in Torah. However, this husband was an outstanding
had married just a few months was the condition that her tzaddik, a scholar, and a holy
earlier and had built their lives future husband made when man. Not many knew this.
in peace and quiet. their shidduch was suggested, Actually, only she knew. He
The mans name was Yisroel. that after the wedding they hid his ways from others, even
In his childhood he had been would leave the bustling city from her brother who was
called Yisroelik and later, when and live in isolation where the angry at his sisters decision to
he became the great leader young groom could continue marry this apparent simpleton.
of the Jewish people, he was to chart his spiritual course in R Gershon had not thought
known as Rabbi Yisroel Baal climbing the heights of holiness his sister would do such a
Shem Tov. Despite his youth and purity, a course exclusive to shidduch. He hoped with all
there was always a seriousness him and based on the guidance his heart that he could marry
about him, and he looked like of his illustrious teacher. her off to an outstanding
someone older who was steeped The young lady soon Torah scholar, someone G-d
in wisdom and possessed of figured out her groom s secret. fearing, and not some nobody
great intellect. His eyes always She realized he wasnt just a who appeared one day at his
radiated joy and his face was teachers assistant for young home and showed him an

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shoulder. The pack contained his fashion and with the little bit of
engagement document that
tallis and tfillin, a seifer or two, money that he had, he bought
R Gershons late father had
and some bread. some wheat and ground it well
signed.
To suppor t their household, and set off for home with a
After the couple met briefly, medium size sack of flour and a
they agreed to marry. Having Chana did various jobs while her
supply of meat for Pesach.
no choice, R Gershon had to husband continued his growth
in isolation and his holiness When he arrived home, he
go along with the plan. But in
reached great heights. There said to his wife, It would be
order not to suffer shame from
was nobody happier than her. a good idea to bring the meat
this ignominious match, he sent
and flour into the house and
the young couple far away.
to unhitch the horse. He then
He was happy they so readily PART II
hurried off to the hut where he
agreed to comply and did not
The snows began to melt, and would often sit in solitude, so
realize that this was exactly
the first signs of spring began as to return immediately to his
what his new brother-in-law
to show here and there. The spiritual pursuits. Only he truly
wanted.
holiday of Pesach was beginning appreciated the inestimable
And thus, far from the to approach, but Yisroelik did value of every moment.
public eye, Yisroel would
not yet have matzos or meat A few minutes passed,
wander through the mountains, for the upcoming holiday of and before his pious wife had
during the long summer days in freedom. Making do on little or managed to bring the sack of
the heat and during the snowy continuing his many customary flour into the house, a sudden
winters, going from path to fasts were not options, since storm bore down and it began
path, skipping from one rock eating matza is a biblical to pour heavily, the torrents
to another, crossing brooks and commandment. of water flowing down the
praying and singing to Hashem,
So Yisroelik hitched his horse mountain sides and washing
as he reached ever greater
to a wagon and set out for one away the last remaining vestiges
spiritual heights. He held a
of the nearby villages. There, he of snow that still remained.
ridged thick staff in his hand
slaughtered an animal in proper There was no end to the
and carried a small pack on his

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anguish of his wife over the another surprise rainstorm appeared to be a sturdy fellow
sack of flour that had been which would turn this flour too with broad shoulders, and large
solid legs in heavy shepherds
rendered chametz due to the into chametz.
exposure to water. She realized For many hours, he dragged boots.
that there was nothing that the wagon up the steep The name of the strange
wandered
could be done except to use the mountain until he had no young man who
the mount ains was
flour for regular bread baking. strength to continue. Standing among
known among the
Hurriedly, she informed her next to the wagon, he began already
gentile s, so Yisroel ik was
husband of what had occurred to cry bitterly. He understood local
the man
so that he be aware of the that this was a heavenly test not surprised when
sed him like an old
situation and once again go off placed in his path of fulfilling addres
Srulch e, tie your wagon
in search of flour for shmura the mitzva, but he no longer friend,
to my wagon and Ill take you
matza. had any strength.
home. The powerf ul man
Yisroelik was not upset in the
decree loaded the horse carcass onto
least, and accepting the PART III
the wagon, the two wagons
of Heaven, he set out once again
As he stood crying, he could were hitched to each other,
to one of the villages, in order
see through his tears the image and the young Yisroelik began
to acquire wheat to be ground
of a tall and impressive figure to walk alongside his unlikely
into flour for matzos. When he
approaching. The man appeared companion as they made their
completed the task, he loaded
to be an honorable and dignified way up the mountain.
the sack of flour onto the
Jew making his way easily A short while later, the two
wagon, and set out once again
struggl ed through the winding mountain reached the hut of the young
for home as the horse
paths. Yisroelik understood that couple. When they reached the
to climb the long hill upon
this was no ordinary Jew that house of the Baal Shem Tov,
which his hut was situated.
just happened to be passing. the gentile turned to him and
It was a long and steep It must be Eliyahu HaNavi
said, What will you give me
road, and the haggard horse himself who had come special
if I skin the horse for you?
toiled mightily to drag the for him. Eliyahu HaNavi looked
This was considered a valuable
heavy wagon with the sack of at him and with a warm
commodity in those parts, and
flour. Although having traversed smile informed him, You
the Baal Shem Tov gave him
this road many times in the should know that your tears
a gold coin worth thirteen
past, it seemed as if this time are pleasing and your prayers
rubles as he skinned the animal
the horses strength was not up have been accepted. I will
expertly and speedily.
to the job. The young Yisroelik immediately send a gentile to
tried to help the horse and take the wagon and the flour to Not long after, another local
push the wagon from behind, your house. gentile came to the Baal Shem
but the pitiful animal could not Tov and he bought the horse
Meanw hile, Yisroelik started hide from him for four gold
withstand the effort and in
awake and realized that this coins, and said to him, Try
middle of the climb it collapsed
had been a dream and that he to use the money to buy nice
and after a few moments
had dozed while crying. He had clothes for your Jewish holiday,
breathed its last.
merited seeing the fulfillment for you and your wife. The
Yisroelik was well aware that of fortunate is one who sees
Baal Shem Tov realized that
this area was almost completely his face (Eliyahu HaNavi) in a
these gentiles were messengers
devoid of human traffic and dream. Knowing that this was
sent to him from Above, to help
there was no point in waiting not a simple dream and that
him with his needs for the Yom
for help. Having no choice, he his salvation was near, Yisroelik
Tov.
was compelled to drag the waited patiently. Presently,
wagon himself, since he was (Based on Shivchei
he spied coming up the path HaBaal Shem Tov)
afraid to leave the flour withou t
a powerful gentile with a
proper protection in case of
horse and wagon. The gentile

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