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CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Conflict in relationships, whether it be between spouses, family members,
friends, or coworkers, is virtually inevitable. Conflict itself isnt the problem;
however, how its handled can bring people closer together or push them
farther apart. Poor communication can potentially weaken the bond between
people, resulting in mistrust, frustration, and resentment. Disagreements and
misunderstandings can be grounds for intense anger and distancing. On the
other hand, effective communication can enable sharing of information,
perspective taking, and profound understanding. When communication flows
well, conflict is more likely to be resolved in a cooperative manner, instead of
escalating to a destructive level. Good communication is essential to achieving
and sustaining a healthy relationship.
1. Choose an mutually acceptable time and place to discuss the The single biggest
conflict problem in
2. Talk it out- each person takes a turn stating his/her position and needs, communication is the
while the other person attentively listens and tries to understand the speakers
illusion that it has
perspective.
taken place.
3. Brainstorm solutions to resolve the conflict
~George Bernard Shaw
4. Choose a solution that meets both parties needs and on which they can
both agree. Try it. If it doesnt work, try a different one. Be patient!
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