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ality and spiritual leaders?
people mock, so what?
’s not going to change anything.
Truth is never afraid of mockery.
When the wind blows, dust arises,
but solid rocks remain there,
they don’t move. So just smile at th
- Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi
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How to deal with people who mock spirituality and spiritual leaders in the name of
freedom of expression?
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar:
Let people mock, let them make fun, so what? It's not going to change anything. Truth
is never afraid of mockery. When wind blows, dust arises, but solid rocks remain there,
they don't move, So just smile at them.
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Europe has been bearing the brunt of the refugee crisis. How to balance compassion
and practicality?Sri Sri Ravi Shankar:
That's a challenge. It's the same thing here in India. There are some beggars who are
strong but people still give them alms, | would say, don’t give them any alms. There are
some weak elderly women, definitely do charity for them.
In the same way, there should be training for refugees. They come from a place where
there has been violence, mistrust and they have been victims of rage, anger and
inhuman treatments, so we need to remove these impressions of trauma from them.
If they carry their trauma and violence, then they can only express or contribute what they
have in their psyche. Just giving them food and shelter is not sufficient, we need to cater to
their emotional scars, spiritual poverty, and intellectual misconceptions. We need to give
them proper understanding through techniques and teachings which will make them
feel fresh, alive and help them have a new outlook in life, and not see society from
their past impressions. Unless they are given such training that will uplift and educate
them in etiquettes and in behavior, there will be disaster in society. It will create more
problems for people who are living in a civilized society, who are used to peaceful
conditions of co-existence, of human values or etiquette. There will be a mismatch
which will create problems and violence in society. So we need to attend to these
issues.
We have seen this in South Africa, when after the apartheid was over, there was so
much hatred and feeling of revenge among communities. Whether in prison or
outside of prison, violence had escalated. '™m really proud to say that The Art of living
is one of the very few organizations which had people from all communities, the
Caucasians, native Africans and Indians, where everybody came together and worked
in prisons. The change that it has brought in just seven days in prisons is a testimony
for how spirituality can remove the root cause of violence from the human psyche,
and bring harmony in the society as well as within the individual. BBC has made a
documentary on this as well.
We will have to do something like this in Europe too. Along with bread, butter and
shelter we need to counsel them, give them techniques to remove violent impressions.
Itis not their fault, itis unfortunate. The world still has many violent incidents in many
societies.
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Gurudev, what is the objective of meditation?
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar:
Let me ask you, "Why should you sleep? Why should you study? Why do you want
entertainment? Why do you want to be healthy? Why do you want to be happy? Have
you thought about it?”
Meditation is food for the soul, it nurtures the core of our existence. It gives the deepest
rest in the shortest time. Meditation has multiple benefits ~ it keeps you fit and healthy
physically, focused and sane mentally, brings sharpness in the intellect, keenness of
attention and awareness. It also makes the emotions lighter, softer and purer. It helps
you let go of all the past garbage and creates positive vibes around you. It influences
your behavior with others and other's behavior with you.
= tke TP — thee ea fioThe Vignan Bhairava talks about different techniques to slip into meditation. How do |
find the best one for me?
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar:
It doesn’t matter which technique you do, when you get into the space of stillness, a
state of stillness and a space of nothingness, then you are in meditation. And this can
come to you through any of the techniques. But Sahaj Samadhi is the best because
that you can do anytime, anywhere.
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I'm unable to express myself properly to people whom I love and end up losing
friends. Please advice.
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar:
Talk less, smnile more and whenever you feel that the friction is coming up, just be
aware of what you are doing. Don't forget to meditate because when you meditate you
emit positive vibes around you. We convey more through our vibes than through our
words.
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