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About Our Children is designed to help Jewish families in our area live healthy, positive lives that make the most of OurChildren
the resources available to them. By providing useful, current, accurate information, this publication aims to guide
parents to essential information on faith, education, the arts, events, and child-raising in short, everything that James L. Janoff Natalie Jay Ruth Carmel
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top me if youve heard this one be-
fore.
A clueless first-time mom has a
lifelong habit of denial, so her two-year-
old cant possibly have a problem. Then,
okay, he has a problem, but it will fix itself
(like everyone tells her). Then she and
her husband get him diagnosed and its
something called PDD, which means Per-
vasive Developmental Disorder; at least
its not autism that seems to be sweeping
the nation.
Only, of course, it is.
Fast-forward and my son (call him
Cory) is a teenager. Not a regular teen,
but my beloved son, anyway. His speech
is a little stilted, and he gets annoyed if
he sees someone smoking on the street
(because it could kill you, so why would
you do it?).
Lifes not what it was supposed to be,
but maybe it was supposed to be much
more challenging, and what Im paddling
through is a sea of blessing. Who knows?
Im in a contemplative mood.
Rosh Hashanah is coming. For the not unchangeable. When you know what also found out about email groups of par- and I were disappointed but chose School
last few years, Ive made a note to my- to call a problem, you start asking ques- ents of special-needs kids. Night or day, B. Before the school year started, Cory
self before the holiday of what I should tions that lead to answers. I can ask any question or voice any fear, went to the summer program at School B.
request when praying for a good year. There have been plenty of missteps never having to sugarcoat my words, and Soon we realized it was the wrong place
The other day I checked out last years along the way. Early on, Cory was in a theres always a parent to listen, or share for him. Mid-August, I told Shannon, Co-
list and realized how much progress Cory mainstream nursery school. We were what she knows. rys speech therapist, how concerned I
has made. Not a moment too soon, either. looking for a special-needs setting but still 3. Feel as awful as you need to feel... was. She suggested I call School A again.
Id been feeling low. Some new medicine clinging to a secret hope that his issues up to a point. So youre not a pioneer. Whats the worst that could happen?
Cory is on thats not the hoped-for cure- would fix themselves. That episode was a Still, you are unique, and your childs is- she said. So theyll turn you down a sec-
all. It helps to remember that the last 12 disaster. But it showed me Cory needed a sues are unique to her. You dont have to ond time. Cory has come so far since the
months were, indeed, productive. school that was right for him, not one that adopt someone elses brand of optimism. winter. Try it. I called the admissions per-
Noticing the good stuff: Thats just fit some preconceived idea I had about Early on, family members would assure son at School A. To my shock, he told us
one thing Ive learned as the mom of a where a child of mine should be. An ego- me that things would be okay. Sometimes to come in. Cory was accepted, and spent
special-needs child. So in the spirit of the puncture can be a gift. thats exactly what I needed to hear. Other the next five years there.
season of renewal, here are five key les- 2. Get out there. This part is about times, I wanted to dig a hole and descend 5. Where we started: Let the positive
sons from me to you: showing up. The world is full of people to the bowels of the earth and disappear. catch your eye. Its easier to acknowledge
1. Face whats wrong head-on. With and ideas that can help you; meet it half- I eventually turned to therapy, and my the bad than accept the good. When your
apologies to the Rolling Stones, time is way. Dont isolate yourself. Go to lectures doctor also prescribed a little pharma- child struggles to do what should come
not on your side. Not if your child has about what your kid has. Network with ceutical help. I still get sad, at times, but naturally, you can find yourself so focused
a problem you need to address. When parents in his school. After Corys diag- its manageable. Im better at figuring out on helping him overcome his deficits that
Cory was born, he seemed normal. About nosis, I learned of a group at the local what will make me feel better, whether its you overlook his strengths. But dont.
a year later, he began to withdraw and JCC for parents of special-needs kids. The prayer, or a movie with a good friend, or Notice what your child can do that she
not make eye contact. My husband and first time I went there I was so sad, full reaching out to an online parents group, couldnt do a few years ago. Notice what
I were freaked out. We finally faced the of shame about my sons condition. And or rocky-road ice cream. he can do that normal kids cant. Step-
facts, months later than we should have, then I met these parents who had gone 4. Risk no. If you need something ping back and taking perspective reminds
and found a specialist to evaluate and di- through, more or less, what I was going for your child, keep trying to get it. When you theres something to celebrate.
agnose Cory. Having your fears confirmed through. It was so heartening to learn I planning for Cory to start kindergarten, Like Rosh Hashanah.
is terrifying. But sooner or later, you re- was no pioneer, that there were others I took him for an interview at School A.
mind yourself that a diagnosis is just a la- who had been where I was and could They turned him down, feeling he was Ruth Carmel is a nom de plume. She is a
bel, not a sentence. And, with Gods help, help me find my footing. Over the years I not ready for their program. My husband mother, writer and attorney.
School Is Starting
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Margaret Ravits M.D.
The Good Sleep Routine
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he summer ebbs and the transition from freewheel-
Providing Expert Dermatology Care for ing vacation with its relaxed schedule to a more
Beautiful & Healthy Skin, Hair, and Nails rigorous bedtime and rising schedule is about to
kick in. Its a good idea to try and transition children into
Treating Babies, Children, going to bed earlier before they really have to to accus-
Teens and Adults tom them to the change.
Sleep is so essential to a childs health and welfare.
Not only is the rest essential for a youngsters growth and
body repair, but a lack of sleep can result in a plethora of
problemsphysical, psychological and behavioral.
The Valley Health Systems Pediatric Sleep Disorders
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teens. The service offers treatment for the psychosocial,
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interfere with sleep.
Sleep coaching utilizes proven approaches to build
healthy sleep habits so that children can get a better
nights sleep, said Dr. Stephanie Zandieh, the director of
Pediatric Sleep Medicine at Valley. Whether we are help- in two to four sessions.
Reserve early ing a child overcome their fear of the dark or teaching a Dr. Zandieh and Kim Cahill work collaboratively to
for our toddler to fall asleep without their parent in the room, we accurately diagnose and treat sleep disorders. During
work collaboratively with patients and their families to an initial consultation, they will meet with patients and
develop treatment plans that are uniquely suited to each their families to obtain a complete medical and sleep his-
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ere are some tips to help your child bath and a bedtime story. of returning to the room is A more gradual approach
sleep through the night offered by Create a consistent bedroom environ- to reassure your child that is to teach your child to
Dr. Stephanie Zandieh, the direc- ment. Make sure your childs bedroom en- you are still present and to fall asleep on her own, but
tor of Pediatric Sleep Medicine at Valley vironment is the same at bedtime as it is reassure yourself that you with you in the room. This
Hospital. throughout the night, for example, lighting. child is okay. approach may take longer,
Develop an appropriate sleep Put your child to bed awake. After Respond to your but it can feel more com-
schedule with an early bedtime. Ironi- the bedtime routine, put your child into her child during the night. In fortable for some families.
cally, the more tired your child is, the crib awake and leave the room. Remember, the beginning, respond to The first step is to put your
more times she will awaken during the the key to having your child sleep through your child as you normally child into her crib awake
night. As such, be sure your child contin- the night is to have your child learn to fall do throughout the night. Dr. Stephanie Zandieh, and sit on a chair next to it.
director of the Pediatric
ues to take naps during the day and set an asleep on her own, so they can put them- Research indicates that Once she is able to consis-
Sleep Disorders and Apnea
early bedtime. selves back to sleep when they naturally the majority of children Center at The Valley tently fall asleep this way,
Introduce a security or love object awaken during the night. will naturally be sleeping Hospital. sit farther and farther away
to your child. A transitional object, like a Have a method for checking. If your throughout the night with- every three to four nights
stuffed toy, doll or blanket, helps a child child cries or yells, check on him or her. in 12 weeks of falling asleep quickly and until you are in the hallway and no longer
feel safe and secure when you are not Wait for as long or as short a time as you easily at bedtime. If your child continues in sight.
present. Help your child become attached wish. For some children, frequent check- to awaken during the night after several Be consistent and dont give up.
to a security object by including it as a ing is effective. For others, infrequent weeks, then use the same checking meth- The first few nights are likely to be very
part of the bedtime routine. In addition, checking works best. Continue returning od during the night as you did at bedtime. challenging and often the second or third
try to include this object whenever you to check on your child as long as she is Take a more gradual approach. night is worse than the first night. How-
are cuddling or comforting your child. crying or upset. The visits should be brief Some parents feel that not being pres- ever, within a few nights to a week, you
Have a bedtime routine. Establish a (one minute) and non-stimulating. Calmly ent when their child falls asleep feels will begin to see improvement.
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At All Office Locations on Weekdays uying new shoes and books and
getting your routine adjusted to the
Call our main office to schedule a new schedule are part and parcel
of entering the new school year. Also on
free Meet-the-Doctor visit. the list for many parents is making sure
Meet a physician and the staff! their children get their pre-school check-
ups and are in good health as they buckle
down with their books.
Dr. Howard Friedman, senior partner
at Washington Avenue Pediatrics in Ber-
Offices in Tenafly, Fort Lee, Paramus, genfield, has been very busy seeing his
patients before the school year begins. Hand-washing is key to proper hygiene.
FIRST place Oakland, Clifton, and Park Ridge Advice abounds for the upcoming
pediatrics
201-569-2400 www.tenaflypediatrics.com school yearfrom making sure that a the year, said Dr. Jetley.
child gets proper nutrition, he or she gets Dental checkups also rank high on
ample exercise, that teeth are properly the before-school to-do list.
brushed, flossed, and irrigated. Teaneck Dentist, which just moved its
We are checking to see how a child offices to a new location at 1008 Teaneck
is doing and how he or she was doing Road, and added a third dentist, Dr. Sami
from the previous year, said Dr. Fried- Solaimanzadeh, to the practice. It is host-
$50
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Also, its time to prepare for the flu They get their dental checks and
Cash only (reg. $100)
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When you mention this ad Tenafly Pediatrics announced on its healthy, but if they are not going to see
website that it has received its first ship- well, they are going to have problems in
ment of flu shots and are able to schedule school, said Dr. Starkman.
We Can Do Everything Your Regular children who are 3 and older for inocula- Dr. Starkman does a full eye exam to
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Doctor Can Do and More! 6 to 36 months old, but the practice will If a child needs corrective lenses or eye-
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here is one great parenting skill that skill: how to inject humor into our every Our toy box is invisible to pirates but not Pretend: Have everyone imagine they
beats all others, and that is the abil- day lives. Life is tough, but a sense of hu- to us! are at a tea party or eating with King and
ity to be playful with our children. mor can always help. Play the incompetent fool: Where do Queen in a palace.
Children love to play. They love being silly Joanna Faber and Julie King in their all these toys go? I know the dolls go in Play the incompetent fool: I am not
and goofy but most of all they like when book, How To Talk So Little Kids Listen, the back of the pick up truck! Right? No? sure how to eat this! Where does this go?
the adults in their lives play with them. outline some simple ways we can use They go in the red bin! I am so silly! How is this going to get into my stomach?
They love it when their parents get down humor and playfulness to our advantage Sing: Putting on some of your kids fa- Through my ear?
to their level and are silly and goofy, too. when dealing with young children: vorite tunes or just singing the clean up
It might take some extra energy and cre- song can do wonders. Bedtime:
ativity on our parts, but in the end, when Clean up time: Make it a game: Tonight is inside out
humor is used, we enjoy it too. Make it a game: Lets see how many toys Morning rush: night! Everyone needs to wear their paja-
It is not all fun and games. The ben- we can pick up in three minutes! Make it a game: Tell everyone they are air- mas inside out and sleep with their pillow
efits of play are manifold. It helps parents Make inanimate objects have feelings: planes and they need to be ready for take on the opposite side of the bed! Lets get
and kids bond and connect. Play reduces These toys are so sneaky! They dont off at a certain time. ready and go!
tension, bringing laughter instead of frus- want to go into their boxes! Sneaky toys, Make inanimate objects talk: Your Make inanimate objects talk: Tooth-
tration. Kids are much more likely to co- you cant hide from us! We are going to bed is saying that you are too heavy! He brush- Ugh, I dont want to go into your
operate when they are asked to do things get you! wants you out right now! What you cant mouth. It is so wet and slimy in there. Do
in playful ways. Pretend: Lets pretend the toys are hear him! Bed, you need to talk louder so I really have to?
Eli can hear you! Give silly choices: Should we sleep
Use silly voices and pretend: I am upside down like bats or stand on one leg
your teacher, Mrs. M., I cannot teach you like flamingos?
in bed today. I am very sorry! How can we Pretend: Lets imagine we are out in
color pictures when we are lying down in the woods and we are camping tonight.
bed! Our crayons will get lost under all Do you hear the owls hooting? Do smell
those covers. I need to teach you in our the campfire
classroom! Be creative and fun and most of all
Play the incompetent fool: Oh my enjoy playing youre your kids!
goodness! Where can Sara be? I dont see
her getting dressed! Is she in her drawer? Adina Soclof is the director of Parent
In the toy box? Is she in the closet? She is Outreach for A+ Solutions, facilitating
still in bed! Oh no! How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and
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Make inanimate objects talk and use silly able for speaking engagements. Check
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Financial Institutions
Teaching Kids the Basics of Money
H E I D I M A E B RAT T stepping up to the plate with education ings or passbook. While most banks have out a debit card, and take small dollar
and programs to help youngsters learn done away with passbooks, said Ms. amount loans for fun things like prom or
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ow often have we heard the lament about money early on. They offer youth Russo, Valley has not discontinued them new technology (some lending restric-
that if only the ins and outs of mon- programs for savings, new checking ac- because it helps the children watch their tions do apply). As they age through this
ey were taught earlier to young- counts with accompanying debit cards, savings grow. program they can take advantage of larg-
sters they would be better off? and Pay for A incentives that allow the We offer these programs to promote er dollar amount loans or a higher limit
More than ever when daily transac- student clients to make money if they the importance of savings for the future credit card. High school seniors are also
tions are done with a quick swipe or an make the grade. and to help them on their way to build a encouraged to apply for an annual schol-
insertion of a chip on a card, where mon- For example, at Valley National Bank, solid foundation, said Ms. Russo. arship or take advantage of private stu-
ey isnt seen as greenback dollars and with branches in Fair Lawn, Englewood, The bank also offers a teen checking dent lending solution.
silvery coins, but rather as shiny plastic, Wayne, and other locations, the bank has account that comes with a debit card to Additionally, Visions is involved with
learning about money basics like budget- a savings account geared for children, help teenagers manage money. financial literacy programs to members
ing, saving, investing, requires education which offers up to a $20 match (put in At Visions Federal Credit Union, there of the community in those age groups as
from all fronts the schools, parents, and $20, get $20) of the first deposit, and a are programs for youngsters from birth to well. The younger group would benefit
from financial institutions. 6-month promotional rate of interest, said 23. Its Kirby Kangaroo Club covers chil- from the Save, Spend, Share program.
Thus, many financial institutions, Thomasine Russo, director of marketing. dren 12 and under with their very first These classes are taught to religious
such as banks and credit unions, are This account can be a statement sav- savings account. The program includes a youth groups, scout troops, day camps,
savings passbook, ID card, savings bank, and other special youth clubs and cen-
special birthday card from Kirby, a kids ters. Its widespread financial literacy pro-
quarterly newsletter and a website/app gram starts around middle school and
to play money-themed games. Youngsters continues through college. The presenta-
are encouraged to make deposits and ev- tion is tailored to the audience. Through
ery time a child makes a deposit of $5 or a partnership with EverFi the program
more they receive a prize. Kirby offers fun reaches more schools, especially in New
parties throughout the year and invites all Jersey.
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club members. The parties are also free to Also, Visions provides in-class presen-
the community. tations on credit score, the importance of
After members turn 13, they can grad- a checking account, keeping identity safe,
CHOICES
uate to Visions SmartStart program. They
can open their first checking account, try Financial continued on page14
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Smart budgeting later on starts with the lessons they learn now. Visions Federal Credit Union
helps parents and children look ahead with age-appropriate programs that teach responsible
money management for life.
Life is unscripted. Trust Visions at every stage. Learn more at www.visionsfcu.org/youth
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young adults under 18 years of age. At age 25 the account reverts to a regular savings account. Rates subject to change without prior notice. VNB Teen Checking: Open a new account and receive $25 reward within 90
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Financial continued from page12 monthly transactions with no fee. Since beginning pro-
and what to do with your a paycheck, and life is a real- grams geared to young members, Ms. Ingersoll said,
ity events at some high schools. This program is meant to Weve seen a real increase of our youth account mem-
show the students what expenses they will incur with their bership. For other educational programs, Greater Alli-
first paycheck, and how the decisions they make can di- ance partners with financial management organizations
rectly impact their well-being (i.e. spending all your money to help its young members.
Together we can on an expensive car may not leave you enough money to At Lakeland Bank, with branches in Teaneck, En-
pay for the insurance and gas). glewood and throughout northern New Jersey, young-
make a difference. At Greater Alliance Federal Credit Union, which has sters can open a Young Savers Savings Account. The
At Lakeland Bank, giving back to the communities
branches in Paramus, Hackensack and Paterson, student account, a custodian account that is opened with a
account holders in grades 9th through 12th can get $3 parent, is good until a youth is 18 years old, and then
we serve has always been one of our top priorities.
added to their accounts for every A grade that they re- it becomes an adult account. The bank will match the
Whatever it takes to keep our local towns and
ceive, said Sheryline Ingersoll, director of marketing at first $10 of a deposit.
neighborhoods strong and thriving,
Greater Alliance Federal Credit Union. Lakeland Bank also offers no-fee student checking
you can count on us to lend a hand.
In addition, new members up to 21 years old can re- accounts for students 16 to 24 years old. The checking
LakelandBank.com 866-224-1379 ceive a good return on their deposits, 3 percent on their account features online banking and e-statements and an
first $1,000. And, on the anniversary of their account app that is compatible with mobile phones.
opening date, students get a gift card voucher as a token Ten years ago, banking on an app was the new-fan-
of appreciation. gled thing, now its the norm. Programs for youths also
Greater Alliance also offers a youth checking account have to address ATM safety and the importance of safe-
program for 15 to 21- year-old students. They can open guarding their identity.
the account with as little as $5 and there is no service
charge; they can write 50 checks for free and make 10 Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of About Our Children.
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here are four basic needs that every child needs, well: time to do homework, play on the computer, eat Older children and teens may resort to more drastic mea-
and if theyre not getting it that will negatively im- dinner and get into bed. sures when they dont get the attention they need from
pact their behavior. We need to make sure theyre You can involve your child and include his input. their parents.
getting these needs met before we can do anything else. When do you think the best time is for you to do your Spending time with our kids is key; even 10 minutes
homework? a day of your undivided attention will make a huge dif-
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tylist and salon owner Lillian Lee has been doing donations started pouring in. Wigs they look like themselves. They can
wonders for womens self-esteem for decades. Af- that were being retired would get a go out and be a kid.
ter all, the hair of her clients and the wigs that she new life through the deft and creative Ms. Lee will go into the hospital
has styled for years at her eponymous shop is a womans touches from Ms. Lee. Reshaping the for the girl if she is unable to come
crowning glory. wig, cutting and coloring, adding to into her salon.
So when an illness such as cancer and its accom- it, resizing it, she was able to breathe Someone once asked me, What
panying chemotherapy treatments causes hair loss, new life into the wig, and had more are you getting out of this? I said, Do
it is a feelingthat we should not know fromof a stock to give the women who needed you see that girl smiling. Its for that
one-two punch. For about a dozen years, Ms. Lee has it most. smile. Ive been a stylist for 35 years,
been softening that blow to women by offering free Aliza Fischman, who grew up in and with Do Wonders, I feel like Ive
wigs, which she styles, colors, and customizes to these Teaneck as Aliza Novogroder, took accomplished something. Ive discov-
womenand to many young girlsthrough the char- up the cause with Ms. Lee and, her- ered my purpose and I am grateful
ity she founded, Do Wonders. self handy with a wig, Ms. Fischman that my career can help so many peo-
It really started by accident, said Ms. Lee, who helped in the effort to collect, style ple. And I know I couldnt do it with-
used to do her work from home. A friend of hers was and distribute the wigs. These days, out the support of this community.
diagnosed with cancer and lost her hair during chemo- shes handling the fundraising ef- A girl feels like herself again thanks to And sometimes, Ms. Lee said,
therapy treatments. She had an unused wig and thought forts of the nonprofit, which got its Lillian Lee and Do Wonders. the biggest gift is that when the girl
to fix it up and offer it to her friend. legal footing and name from the enthusiastic clients who is done with her treatments, and done with her wig, she
Her whole attitude changed, recalled Ms. Lee. I wanted to support the effort. returns it for another recipeient to wear. The girl, healthy
went on a mission. But this all happened organically. It Im so thrilled, honored and love being involved, now, has her hair grown in. And then, she goes to Ms. Lee
was nothing I had planned. said Ms. Fischman. A parent comes in here so despon- for her first haircut.
Once her clientele learned about her effort to offer dent. Here is their child, who they love so much and Said Ms. Lee, The blessings are continuous.
wigs to women during their cancer treatments, there they have to fight cancer, which is bad enough. And To donate a wig, contact Lillian Lee, 201-837-6770.
was a groundswell of support from many of her clients, then there is the emotional hardship of how the other
kids will react. Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of About Our Children.
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hats hot for fall? Fabrics that new styles come in a variety of fun fabrics tered look patches and appliqus from olive with hot pink trim.
are soft or ripped, vests that that are sparkly, metallic, or velvety soft. roses to emojis, camouflage patterns in For the tootsies, slides continue to
set off an outfit, emojis of Crushed velvet, that wonderful wrin- traditional olive, as well as pink, blue, be popular, as do pom poms on footwear
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are the sartorial must-haves for school and 1960s, early 1970s, has made a big come- For boys, the rock n roll t-shirt never for easy on and off, with metal stud trim.
synagogue for this autumn season. back, as has anything that is distressed seems to go out of style, and a shirt that
Alene Brodsky Bloom, co-owner with holes, tears and rips, said Susan Sil- says something cute or smart to kick off a Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of About
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iles of windswept beach, trails and bike paths be- ist attraction. Throwing it back was easier said
hind dunes and coastal forests, and perhaps that The allure of Chincoteague was spe- than done. We had to dislodge the hook
ultimate reward, the sudden appearance of wild cial for us because we were invited to from its ravenous mouth without impal-
horses that roam the woods and wetlands of Virginias join our son, daughter-in-law and four ing our fingers.
Chincoteague Wildlife Refuge on Assateague Island. grandchildren on a brief vacation there. A few hours later when the tide
The horse story is not burdened by facts. Did they Grandpa, we want you and grand- shifted and the bait almost gone, our
swim ashore from shipwrecked Spanish galleons? Were ma to come with us. youngest grandson scored a triumph.
they let out to graze by 17th century settlers? Whatev- There would be two motel rooms for The authors grandson and his He landed a respectable looking fish of
catch.
eight people, four days supply of kosher a reasonable size. Of course we had no
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of the toaster oven. The next day called for some serious hiking for my
Gymnastics and Silks What a handsome waiter, we remarked, and he re- wife and me. The Wildlife Loop was the trail of choice. It
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1. It was a fun-filled summer for the campers and the teenagers from across the region put on three
staff attending Camp Regesh, which this year moved performances on the bergenPAC stage this summer.
into new grounds in Old Tappan. 5. Daniel Raykher, son of Gregory and Daphna
2. The final chinuch (learning) activity at Camp Raykher, longtime prominent donors of Bris Avrohom,
Moshava Bair in Paramus was helped along by Camp Hillside, recently celebrated his bar mitzvah. He
Moshava IO, which lent a 32-inch x 32-inch map of decided to use his bar mitzvah money to purchase
the Old City of Jerusalem along with 40,000 pieces of tefillin for the Israeli soldiers at the army base near
Legos for a major construction project. Gan Yavne. From left, Rabbi Mordechai Kanelsky,
executive director, Bris Avrohom, Daniel Raykher and
3. Big Idea, one of the many specialty camps at Gregory Raykher.
Neil Klatskin Day Camps at the Kaplen JCC on the
Palisades helped young, tech-minded campers create 6. Summer camp is all about being outside and
having fun at the Early Childhood Program (ECP) at
cool projects and have summer fun at the same time.
Temple Emanuel of the Pascack Valley. The children
4. The Performing Arts School at bergenPAC experienced a petting zoo right in their own backyard
presented its eighth summer musical, West Side Story, during summer camp. Boy, did the kids love the
to its biggest audience yet. More than 80 talented animals.
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CO M P I L E D BY H E I D I M A E B RAT T
Kid Crush-Proof
and Stylish Specs Shopkins Live! Shop It Up!
Unbreakable
childrens eye-
Comes to bergenPAC
glasses? You The #1 kids toy in North
can grab them America is live and on stage in
by the handle, Shopkins Live! Shop It Up! at
rip them off bergenPAC. The Shoppies make
your face, fling their theatrical debut in an origi-
them across nal new live show featuring musi-
the room, and cal performances by Jessicake,
nothings going Bubbleisha, Peppa-Mint,
to happen, said Rainbow Kate, Cocolette, Polli
optometric physi- Polish and more. The fun and
cian Dr. Steven D. fashionista Shoppies are joined
Starkman, owner by the Shopkins the grocery
Czins Optical. Dr. store-themed mini collectable
Starkman is not toys - Apple Blossom, Strawberry
recommending this, but simply describing the near-indestructibility of the Nanovista Kiss, Lippy Lips, Kooky Cookie,
brand of eyeglasses he carries at the Teaneck store. The Nanovista frames are made Poppy Corn, Slick Breadstick and
with a silicone hinge that can convert to sports goggles and take a child from the Shady Diva. An ensemble cast of
classroom to the ball field. Dr. Starkman carries several other hi-tech and kid-friendly multi-talented performers brings the show to life on stage through urban style music,
frames, including the lightweight iGreen frames, which come in an array of customiz- song and dance. Thursday, September 28, 6:30 p.m. bergenPAC, 30 N. Van Brunt
able colors, and the EasyTwist metal frames, which can be twisted like a pretzel but St., Englewood, 201-227-1030, www.bergenpac.org.
pops back into shape. Czin Optical, 489 Cedar Lane, Teaneck. 201-836-9199.
OurChildren
About
Simchas
Books That Bolster Social Skills
A trio of books by Rifka Schonfeld, director of S.O.S,
Strategies for Optimum Success, helps teach social
skills to children and teenagers. Social Skills Around
the Clock is a graphic depiction organized by two-
page spreads that portrays a before and after sce-
nario of acquiring social skills. The message is clear.
Social Success Dynamics 2 a sequel for teens
B'nai Mitzvah and adults to Ms. Schonfelds earlier Social Success
Dynamics is a useful and comprehensive workbook
ALEXANDER MCGUIRE for professionals and parents, which covers areas
Alexander McGuire, son of Sarah Monchar and James McGuire and brother of Jacob and from empathy, anxiety, organization and friendship
Daniella McGuire, celebrated becoming a bar mitzvah on Shabbat, August 19, at Congregation and conversation. Ms. Schonfeld has served the Jew-
Beth Sholom in Teaneck. ish community for more than 30 years as an educator
and social skills specialist.
DANIELLA MCGUIRE
Daniella McGuire, daughter of Sarah Monchar and James McGuire and sister of Jacob and
Alexander McGuire, celebrated becoming a bat mitzvah on Tuesday, August 22, rosh chodesh
Elul, at Congregation Beth Sholom in Teaneck. Friendship Solutions Now Forming Groups
Friendship Solutions, a new after-school social skills
5K for Teaneck Volunteer Ambulance Corps program for students in Hackensack, will launch the
week of September 18 and will continue forming groups
and Young Israel of Teaneck until mid-October. The brainchild of Eileen Stauber and
Cassie Romano, both experienced board certified be-
havior analysts with Bergen County Special Services,
Teaneck Volunteer Ambulance students 4 to 18 years old who, because of varying rea-
Corps (TVAC) and Young Israel of sons, have social skills deficits, will learn social skills
Teaneck (YIOT) are joining together in a fun and supportive environment, said Ms. Stauber.
for YIOTs 2nd Annual 5K Run/Walk, These students will increase their social skills and im-
which promises to be a great com- prove the quality of their lives. For more information: Friendship Solutions, 141 Main St.
munity event. Second Floor, Hackensack. 201-390-8017, friendshipsolutionsllc@gmail.com
On Sunday, Sept. 10, from 9 to
11 a.m., you can walk or run our 5K
through the Country Club section
of Teaneck. All are welcome to join,
from experienced competitive run-
ners, to those who simply want to
walk.
PARTY
There will also be a Family Run for and family can donate money through
children. No running experience is need- your personal fundraising page to sup-
ed. The event will support two commu- port you and this event.
nity organizations: Teaneck Volunteer To register, www.teaneckambulance.
Ambulance Corps and The Young Israel org, click on Donate and follow links to
of Teaneck. Join the race. Join in the fun- the 5K page.
draising before the race begins. Friends
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