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Petitioner
Petitioner
Faeka Tsu
Petitioner,
Xander Ford
Respondent,
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3. Petitioner has been employed at the Solaire Hotel and Casino from
2003 until present. She was a Front desk clerk from 2003 to 2004; Event
planner from 2004 to 2005; Concierge from 2005 to 2006; Hotel
Manager from 2006 to present. She holds the record of being the
youngest Hotel manager at a young age of 25 years old of Solaire Hotel
and Casino.
5. Since then, petitioner and respondent had been seeing each other
once every month. They were already sweethearts when petitioner was
employed in Solaire Hotel and Casino. Their relationship continued via
long distance, with constant calls and emails. In 2001, petitioner &
respondent had their vacation in Biringan City. It was then when she was
introduced by the respondent to his family. The latter warmly accepted
the petitioner.
9. While living together as husband and wife, petitioner found out that
respondent was a very jealous and suspicious husband. Whenever
Petitioner arrived home from her work, Respondent would check her
belongings, especially her mobile phone, for any evidence of a probable
infidelity on her part. He suspected her of having an illicit affair with his
co-worker, particularly because they were very close and would always
eat meals together. While petitioner admitted that she is close with her
co-worker petitioner reasoned that such closeness was strictly
professional. However, respondent did not believe the petitioner and he
grew all more suspicious of her actions, accusing her of infidelity even if
he has no concrete basis at all.
10.Despite the fact that their marital relationship was already in shambles
as they continue to engage in heated altercations and fights. Their love,
nonetheless, resulted in the birth of their child, ALIEN who was born on
2007.
13. Since then Petitioner has been regularly sending adequate amount of
monetary remittances to the respondent. His monthly financial
allocations were initially amounting to PHP 20,000, until it increased to
PHP 30,000. At present, he is sending PHP 50,000 to the respondent on
a monthly basis. Despite these amounts, respondent is not yet satisfied
and even demanded more. He once told the Petitioner that she must
receive PHP 50,000 when she is a Front Desk Clerk, PHP 60,000 as
Event Planner, and PHP 100,000 as Hotel Manager.
15. When Petitioner took her vacation in Biringan City in 2008, she did not
stay with the respondent in his house. They were already separated
during this time although she still visited their child Alien in respondent
house whenever it is possible. During her visits, the estranged couple
still engaged in sexual intercourse.
16. Petitioner returned for a vacation in Biringan City in 2009. Petitioner and
Respondent were able to find ways to reconcile the marriage to give the
parties another chance. She thought that the latter would change for the
better but she was just disappointed at him. Petitioner was then
undergoing training for her promotion as Hotel Supervisor while
Respondent was questioning the huge amounts she was paying for the
training. He was also demanding so much time from her amidst the
training. To address the complaint of the respondent, petitioner asked
him to leave Biringan City and stay with her at her abode so that they
could be together more often.
19. In the early part of 2009, the couple again engaged in heated fights
when respondent refused to allow the petitioner to attend the wake of
her grandmother in Baguio City. Petitioner could not bring respondent
along with her in the wake because her family and relatives strongly
disapproved of him.
20. During heated fights, Respondent would call his parents and sister in
Biringan City, seeking for sympathy, which the petitioner hated.
21. Their marital fights became all the more frequent and intense until
respondent again move out of petitioner house and went back to
Biringan City.
24. The parties do not own any properties, whether real or personal.
26. The petitioner had engaged the services of Dr. Trina, Clinical
Psychologist, for the determination of psychological evaluation of both
parties, who will be presented as an expert witness in support of the
instant petition.
28. Based on the results of the psychological tests and interview on the
parties and corroborator as well as based on the background data
gathered and marital history of the parties, the findings of Dr. Trina are
reproduced in the succeeding paragraphs herein below, culled from
the Report of Dr. Trina, M. A., attached as Annex H hereof, to wit:
As no one was there to curb her defective ways, and help her alter
her growing negativism narcissism during childhood until she entered
adulthood, all her erroneous insight and faulty way of perceiving things
made the reference of her current maladaptive behavioral pattern. She is
further found to have no ample consciousness of her defective behavior
which made her laid up to properly function as a responsible, loving,
caring, protective, faithful, trustworthy and understanding wife.
The personality aberration that respondent is suffering from has its initial
course during the crucial developmental phase in his lifechildhood and
adolescent yearswhere negative experiences and child-rearing
practices severely affects the personality development. In the case of
the Respondent, he grew up without a father figure since his parents
separated when he was a baby and he never communicated with them
again after he left them. Looking at the picture, the young respondent
has developed a strong sense of insecurity and inadequacy in absence
of fatherly affection that he needs. Hence, he grew up compensating for
this insecurity by engaging in relationship with women by being
seductive and provocative in the hopes that they could fill the void that
he has inside only to be always disappointed since they always falls
short to his high expectation. He never realized that they would never
fulfill or quench the emotional insecurity that he has.
Along with this is the lack of fatherly affection comes the lack of
adequate discipline and guidance from his mother who was lenient in his
ways with them especially the respondent. Albeit that they were not
financially well off, her mother indulges his whim and allows him so
much freedom to do what he wants. Punishment and sufficient
disciplinary measures were not provided to him leaving the young
respondent with the defective notion that he has the liberty to do what he
wants. Later on, with the excess freedom given to him, he has come to
believed that he could use anyone at his own disposal, without care for
his or her feelings and emotions. Since he grew up perceiving himself so
deprived of love, he compensates later on by asserting his bloated self-
esteem to people. He became vain, materialistic and demanding as his
way to appease whatever ineptitude he has. Enjoying a rather unfettered
life due to the absence of effective caretakers, he became dominant and
demanding, as well as stubborn in insisting for what he wants no matter
how impractical it could be. Respondent did not learn to be submissive,
that he would do things without giving consideration on how it might
affect others or his relationships.
35. Quoted hereunder is the pertinent part of the Report of Dr. Trina, viz:
37. Dr. Trina thus recommends that the marriage between the parties be
declared null and void based on the established psychological
incapacitation of both the petitioner and the respondent as follows:
PRAYER
Petitioner also prays for other reliefs as may be deemed just and
equitable in the premises.
Calbayog City, 2017
I, Faeka Tsu , of legal age, Filipino Citizen, married, after having been duly
sworn to in accordance with law, hereby depose and say:
2. That I have cause the preparation of the foregoing Complaint/Petition and have read
the allegations contained therein;
3. That the allegations in the said complaint/petition are true and correct of our own
knowledge and authentic records;
4. I hereby certify that I have not commenced any other action or proceeding involving
the same issued in the Supreme Court, Court of Appeals, or any other tribunal or
agency;
5. That if I should thereafter learned that a similar action or proceeding has been filed
or is pending before the Supreme Court, court of Appeals or any other tribunal
agency, We hereby undertake to report that fact within five (5) days therefrom to the
court or agency wherein the original pleading and sworn certification contemplated
herein have been filed;
6. I executed this verification/certification to attest to the truth of the foregoing facts and
to comply with the provision of Adm. Circular No. 04-94 of the Honorable Supreme
Court.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, We have hereunto affixed our signature this 27 day of July
2017, in Calbayog City, Philippines.
Faeka Tsu
Affiant
SUBSCRIBED AND SWORN to before me this 27 day of July 2017, in the City of
Calbayog, with affiant exhibiting to me there SSS ID, with ID No. 1234 issued at
Calbayog City on June 2015.
Doc. No.123;
Page No.456;
Book No.780;
Series of 2017.