1. Be well-groomed.

Brush your teeth, floss, shower, wash your hair, and apply acne
medicine (if you have a problem with your skin) daily. Don't wear your pants off your
butt, often called "sagging", it's not that attractive to the majority of girls. This is essential
if you are even going to approach an attractive girl. Wear clean, attractive clothes that fit
(if in doubt, get an older sister or close female friend to help you in this department).
Don't wear skin tight clothes, but don't wear clothes that are too baggy.
2. 2

Have a great attitude. Be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with, and be outgoing.
Just don't be full of yourself. A girl may like an overly cocky guy at first, but eventually,
she will find it selfish. Don't try to impress everyone - girls like humble guys. At the
same time, a sense of humor is always a plus. Girls love it when guys can make them
laugh.

3. 3

Show respect. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you.
With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting
pushed around while you're at it, they will be reassured that you will treat them right. Be
kind to all.

4. 4

Have good conversations. Don't talk about how you beat the King Black Dragon in
Runescape... unless you know them well enough that you know they are at least semi-
interested (otherwise, it's just a big jumble to her). Try to aim for you both to be speaking
50% of the time, but make sure that you are saying something worthwhile; it's not
attractive when only one person talks endlessly. Another thing to watch for is her
attention. If she isn't paying complete attention, do not repeat yourself several times. This
makes girls feel you are desperate, and usually annoying.

5. 5

Show interest in her - let her talk. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on
yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about common interests. Ask
about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. but not in that stalker kind of
way. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the
question back at her. This engages her in the conversation. When in doubt, compliment
her. Even if a girl does not like you yet, complimenting her will make her feel good about
herself and think positively about you.

6. 6

Try flirting! don't be obsessive! If you both make eye contact, do not be the one to look
away, but do not stare for too long. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight
smile. She may look away and she might blush a little. Be careful though; you don't want
 to stare her down. A good move is to look away, and if she likes you she will shoot you
glances. Watch for that. And be courteous. Open doors. Give Gifts. Do kind things. Girls
love that.

7. 7

Respect her friends and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and
never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation and yours and she'll possibly
dump you. Of course, her friends are going to tell her that you trash talked her. Hopefully
then it will work both ways - she will be tolerant of your friends. Be careful not to
compliment her friends too much, however. Example: You may say "Your friends seem
cool. We should hang out with them and my friends some time, I think they'd get along".
You may not say "Sally is so hot. She has the nicest eyes". You may think getting her
jealous is a good idea, but it just makes them angry.

8. 8

Have your friends be nice to her It's a fantastic thing when your friends don't make
a total fool of you. Warn them ahead of time and avoid topics pertaining to embarrassing
moments of your past or awkward jokes that make very little sense.

9. 9

Be polite to her parents. Be kind to everyone, especially them. Don't be too over-the-top
charming with the parents, however, or they'll think that you have something to hide.

10. 10

Don't criticize her. Unless she asks for constructive criticism. And even then she
probably wants you to compliment her.

11. 11

Be romantic, but not over the top. If you've been dating for a while you may attempt a
grand romantic gesture (note: "A while"=a month MINIMUM) otherwise, you'll look like
a stalker. It's also okay to be a little cheesy, like giving her a bouquet of roses and a
loving poem. It may sound like a bad idea, but girls will find it thoughtful if it came from
your heart

12. 12

Start talking to her casually. If you don't know her, make friendly conversation. Ask for
the time, and/or compliment her watch.

13. 13
 Do not play "hard to get". Sure, you'll get their attention for a day or two then after a
while, the girl will end up frustrated or think that you hate her for whatever reason, and
she'll think you don't find interest in her anymore. Or if she likes a guy who's like that,
her friends might not like you because you're acting like a jerk (this happens way too
much).

14. 14

Be careful with what you say. Remember, Hotty McHotterson is not your pal Lenny.
Do not discuss bodily functions in her presence, or make jokes of a sexual nature unless
she starts doing so. Also, don't discuss anything gross or raunchy. Don't talk about
bathroom jokes or sexual jokes. She'll get grossed out, and anyway, you're going to find
that pretty girls and gross things don't mix... at all.

15. 15

Hum a few bars of a song she likes around her. She might think of you whenever she
hears that song. And she'll probably be impressed by your good taste in music. Some girls
have actually dumped guys or stopped liking guys when they insulted the music they like.
So, it's OK not to like her music, but don't be insulting her favorite singer/band! Try to
agree with her as much as possible but not so over the top that she knows your not being
yourself ("I know, they are the best band EVER!"). Make sure the song is not overtly
feminine however.

16. 16

Start an inside joke with her! She will feel included and become closer to you. It also
gives you an easy-to-come-up-with conversation starter. Try not to overuse it and kill the
joke.

17. 17

End later meetings with a hug, or plans to meet some other time, if you can.

18. 18

Tell her that you "like her". Ask her out.

19. 19

Try to get her attentions to your plus and away from minus, but be original.

20. 20

Touch her occasionally, like on the shoulder or hand.(but be sure do not touch the
sexual parts like vagina,breast, or hips)!
 21. 21

Opposites attract. Be a courageous gentleman, not coy like a lady might be. Stand up
for her if something is wrong.

22. 22

Show your funny side. A lot of women look for sense of humor in a partner. You should
however be mindful of their reactions to your jokes and avoid offensive humor. Unless
they like that. Find out if she likes comedy. If she watches Comedy Central, find out her
favorite comedian or favorite impression and try it out for her.

23. 23

Make Her Feel Good. This is a really good thing that impresses girls. They love it when
you let them know you care for them. If she's sad, just simply put your arm around her
neck. Make her happy. Make sure she is ALWAYS happy. Or at least as much as you
can.

24. 24

Don't ever make fun of your friends around her If you do, it might make her think
that your a jerk. Even people that are not your friends, don't make fun of anyone around
her(Unless they absolutly hate them too). And if you are making fun of someone and she
thinks it's funny (for whatever reason) don't go overbored.

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 If you hold a girl around her hips, it is a romantic move for her. Girls LOVE romantic
moves. She will feel important, and that someone actually likes her. If she says to stop,
stop. Nothing is worse than a girl seeing you as a harrasser. If she acts a little odd, stop.
Don't take it personally because some girls just don't know how to act around guys. Do it
another day if this happens.
 Some girls may be put off by such early outbursts of physical contact - the problem can
be solved by spending more time with the girl.
 Show sympathy and affection. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt,
give her a quick hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better. This
works very well, because then the girl knows you care about her.
 If you have braces, glasses and acne... don't be disheartened! Wear contacts, use some
Proactiv/Accutane, and voila. Girls put a lot of effort into their appearance, perhaps you
should do the same. But don't think just because you have braces, glasses, or acne, that
the world is over, sometimes it works! Lots of girls think braces and glasses are
attractive, and many girls can get past a bad skin complexion (although they may tease
you about it).
 Have good posture!
 Don't act tough or try to be a thug. This doesn't attract girls.
 Don't follow her around everywhere. It automatically gives you a reputation as a stalker,
and it will freak her out. Even following her just a little can create a stalker rep.,
depending on how you act. How you act can determine whether she will actually want
you to be around her all the time or if even just seeing your face is too much contact. if
you know she sees you as a stalker, lay off because trying to do damage control tends to
just worsen your situation, instead try to get a friend of your or of hers to help your issue.
 If she just doesn't get that you like her (which most likely won't happen because girls are
pretty good at detecting this kind of stuff!) drop hints.
 Don't play games. Waiting a few days to call her, showing up a little late to things or
anything like that is only proving you are unreliable, a fake and a loser. Likewise, don't
tolerate it if she does any of these things to you.
 Use correct grammar when texting her or talking to her. If you don't then she will think
that you aren't very intelligent and that will turn certain girls off. (E.G. use predictive
(T9) text so that you can't spell something wrong in a text, if you're unsure of apostrophes
and such just say the full word (e.g. "they're" is "they are", but "their" means a group of
peoples' belongings) also if you're not the best at getting this right in conversation then
read up on how to speak proper english)
 While it's important to connect to her friends, you must avoid coming off as a player, as
players make girls feel unimportant and 'just another girl'. If a girl's friends do not
approve of you, this will influence her opinion of you.
 Don't be weird around her. NOTE: Weird and unusual are different things. Some girls
will see your unusual attribute as unique and special, especially if it endears you because
it's a secret from one of your friends.
 Share a secret with her and hope she shares one with you (e.g., strike up a conversation
starting with something along the lines of "Do you want to know a secret?" If she
reciprocates then it shows she trusts you and knows you trust her. DON'T be disheartened
if she doesn't share one back straight away, she will take your secret as a sign of your
trust and this will build your relationship.
 Be yourself. Don't be fake.
 Don't stand in the back and be quiet all the time, you'll look weird.
 Always be careful and respectful.
 If you hold a girl around her hips, it is a romantic move for her. Girls LOVE romantic
moves. She will feel important, and that someone actually likes her. If she says to stop,
stop. Nothing is worse than a girl seeing you as a harrasser. If she acts a little odd, stop.
Don't take it personally because some girls just don't know how to act around guys. Do it
another day if this happens.
 Some girls may be put off by such early outbursts of physical contact - the problem can
be solved by spending more time with the girl.
 Show sympathy and affection. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt,
give her a quick hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better. This
works very well, because then the girl knows you care about her.
 If you have braces, glasses and acne, don't be disheartened! Wear contacts, use some
Proactiv/Accutane, and voila. Girls put a lot of effort into their appearance, perhaps you
should do the same. But don't think just because you have braces, glasses, or acne, that
the world is over, sometimes it works! Lots of girls think braces and glasses are
attractive, and many girls can get past a bad skin complexion (although they may tease
you about it).
 Have good posture!
 Don't act tough or try to be a thug. This doesn't attract girls.
 Don't follow her around everywhere. It automatically gives you a reputation as a stalker,
and it will freak her out. Even following her just a little can create a stalker rep.,
depending on how you act. How you act can determine whether she will actually want
you to be around her all the time or if even just seeing your face is too much contact. if
you know she sees you as a stalker, lay off because trying to do damage control tends to
just worsen your situation, instead try to get a friend of your or of hers to help your issue.
 If she just doesn't get that you like her (which most likely won't happen because girls are
pretty good at detecting this kind of stuff!) drop hints.
 Don't play games. Waiting a few days to call her , showing up a little late to things or
anything like that is only proving you are unreliable, a fake and a loser. Likewise, don't
tolerate it if she does any of these things to you.
 Use correct grammar when texting her or talking to her. If you don't then she will think
that you aren't very intelligent and that will turn certain girls off. (E.G. use predictive
(T9) text so that you can't spell something wrong in a text, if you're unsure of apostrophes
and such just say the full word (e.g. "they're" is "they are", but "their" means a group of
peoples' belongings) also if you're not the best at getting this right in conversation then
read up on how to speak proper english)
 While it's important to connect to her friends, you must avoid coming off as a player, as
players make girls feel unimportant and 'just another girl'. If a girl's friends do not
approve of you, this will influence her opinion of you.
 Don't be weird around her. NOTE: Weird and unusual are different things. Some girls
will see your unusual attribute as unique and special, especially if it endears you because
it's a secret from one of your friends.
 Share a secret with her and hope she shares one with you (e.g., strike up a conversation
starting with something along the lines of "Do you want to know a secret?" If she
reciprocates then it shows she trusts you and knows you trust her. Don't be disheartened
if she doesn't share one back straight away, she will take your secret as a sign of your
trust and this will build your relationship.
 Some girls find it funny when you get hurt.If you start bleeding and you're by yourself,
probably a group of girls (and probably the girl you like will be there) will be the first
ones to notice you're hurt. If she gets you something to wipe off the blood, that means she
cares about you. If she doesn't, then maybe she is trying to play hard-to-get.
 Girls like to remain warm and comfortable, if you are walking together then then be close
but only if its cold outside (no one likes to sweat) if she says she is cold offer your
jacket(ps hugging her from behind usually works, especially if you're taller, girls find this
romantic) or hold her hands
 Always make girls laugh when they are sad. She will feel a lot better about what
happened. Girls love it when you do that and she will have a nice impression of you.