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pmrsufESm - 12
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
&efukefrSm ESpfESpfcGJ MumNyD;aemuf e,fajymif;rdefYawG
xGufvmonf/
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vufrSwfxdk;vdkufMuonf/ aemufMumawmhvnf; xdk wyGJxdk;
Oya'ysufoGm;NyD; udk,fBudKufonfh bmom&yfudk wufcGifh&
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pmrsufESm - 13
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif

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trsdK;taqG todtuRrf;r&Sdaom e,frSm oGm;ae&rnfqdkawmh
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olYtod &Sdonf[k ajymojzifh oludkac:NyD; tajctae t&if
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pmrsufESm - 14
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
aq;Hku ao;ao;av;/ cGJpdwfcef;awmh &Sdygonf/ avmavm
q,f q&m0ef wpfa,mufwnf;&Sdonf/ NrdKYe,f q&m0efBuD;r&Sd/
acwvkyfay;aeonfh wdkufe,f q&m0ef wpfa,muf&Sdonf/
olYxufawmh toufBuD;onf/ 0ifEIwfqufNyD; tajctae
vmMunhfjcif;jzpfaMumif; reufjzef jyefrnfhtaMumif;ESifh
a&SUvqef;wGif owif;ydkY tvkyf0ifrnfh taMumif;ajymonf/ xdk
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pdwf&rnf toHMum;vQif onfvdkbJ aoG;<uvmwwfonf/
pcGJrnfh tcsdefar;NyD; jyefvmcJhrnfjzpfaMumif; ajymcJhonf/
csdef;onfhtcsdef aq;Hk a&mufoGm;awmh xdkq&m0efomru
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pmrsufESm - 15
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
owd&ovdk r&ovdkESifh atmf[pfkef;uefwwfonf/ 'gtwGuf
vlemudk csnfwkyfxm;jcif;jzpfonf/ olawmfawmf pdwfukef
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onfvdkESifh pcGJonf/ onfrSm odvdkuf&onfu onf
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jrefjrefxufxuf vkyf&rnfudk jznf;jznf;av;av;ESifh
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pmrsufESm - 16
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
[dkcsKyfBudK;ay;OD; onfcsKyfBudK;ay;OD; ajymaeonf/ ol
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tajctae vSrf;ar;&onf/ NyD;awmh ESmacgif;ESifh yg;pyfxJrS
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pmrsufESm - 17
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 18
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pmrsufESm - 19
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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uvnf; 00wkwfwkwf cspfp&muav;awGcsnf;/ onftwdkif;
aevdkY rjzpfawmh/
r,u udk em;yl&onf/ NrdKUvHk;uRwf jcifESdrfeif;a&;rsm; vkyf&ef
jzpfonf/ wNrdKUvHk;udpjzpfojzifh tm;vHk;u oabmwlMuonf/
tzGJUrsm; tm;vHk;aygif;NyD; pae we*FaEGaeYrsm;wGif wNrdKUvHk;
oefY&Sif;a&; jcifESdrfeif;a&;rsm; vkyfMuonf/ rD;owf? MuufajceD?
rdcifuav;tzGJUrsm;u onfae&mrSm tm;udk;&onf/ BuHcdkifa&;
tzGJUudkvnf; tultnDawmif;&onf/ NrdKUaevlawGuvnf;
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ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
udk,fhom;orD;rsm; ta&;jzpfvmawmh wufwuf<u<u
vkyfMuonf/ 3-4 ywf qufwdkuf vkyfvdkufawmh NrdKUay:
a&m*gjzpfEIef; ododomom usoGm;onf/ ESdrfeif;a&;uyJ
xda&mufvdkYvm; olYzmomol &moDukefvdkYyJ usoGm;ovm;awmh
rod/ &Gmrsm;zufrSawmh wzGJzGJvmaeMuao;onf/ pm&if;csKyfawmh
aoG;vGefwkyfauG;aMumifh taotaysmufEIef;u tawmfuav;
rsm;onf/ t&ifESpfrsm;u tajctae ar;Munhfawmh
jzpfawmhjzpfonf/ 'DESpfavmuf rrsm;[k ajymonf/ pm&if;rsm;
vSefMunhfawmh [kwfonf/ jzpfyGm;rI OD;a&&mcdkifEIef;t&udk
onfESpfu tawmfrsm;onf/ vcsKyf pm&if;csKyfNyD; wdkif;odkY
wifrnfvkyfawmh q&mrBuD;u vmar;onf/
]q&m aoG;vGefwkyfauG; vlemawG b,fvdk pm&if;jy&rvJ?
tukefpm&if;jy&rvm;}
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ydkjzpfwmyJ? b,fwwfEdkifrSmvJ}[k ajymNyD; trSeftwdkif; jzpfyGm;EIef;
taotaysmufEIef;wdkYudk pm&if; jycdkif;vdkufonf/
tusKd;qufuawmh tpD&ifcHpmrsm; a&;wifcdkif;jcif; cH&onf/
bmaMumifh ,cifESpfrsm;uxuf ydkjzpf&oenf;/ bmaMumifh

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ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
taotaysmuf rsm;&oenf;/ NyD;awmh wdkif;rSvlrsm; qif;
ppfonf/ {nfhcH&onf/ tvkyfIyfonf/ onfawmhrS ta&SUu
pDeD,mrsm; bmaMumifh avQmhjyoenf; qdkonfudk em;vnf
awmhonf/ 'gayrJhvnf; oluawmh ta&;wBuD; pdwfxJrSm
rxm;yg/ vmppfawmhvnf; &Sdonfhtwdkif; jyvdkufonf/ vmppf
olawGuvnf; vmppf qdkvdkYom vmppf&onf/ bmrSvnf;
vkyfay;Edkifwm r[kwf/ r,uESifhawGUNyD; tultnDay;zdkYajym?
[dkajymonf ajymvkyfNyD; jyefoGm;Muonf/
oluawmh {nfhcHp&dwf xGufoGm;onf/ wpfckawmh tjrwf
&onf/ ESpftukefrSm &efukefwGifvkyfonfh aoG;vGefwkyfauG;
qdkif&m tpnf;ta0;twGuf wpfEdkifiHvHk;rS aoG;vGefwkwfauG;
tjzpf trsm;qHk;NrdKUe,f 10 NrdKUe,frS TMO rsm;udk zdwfawmh
olvnf; ygonf/ &efukef cPjyefzdkY tcGifhta&;&avonf/

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ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif

aq;HkrSm jyifqifrIawG trsm;BuD; vkyf&onf/ aq;Hkt0if


0if;wHcg; ysufaewm/ tdyfomrsm; xyfcsJUwm/ acgifrdk;
rsufESmMuufudk iSufrsm; r0ifEdkifatmif oHZumawG wyfwm/
pdwful;&Sdoavmuf vkyfonf/ aq;pwdkudk aocsmjyefppfawmh
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trsm;BuD; &Sdaeonf/ onfawmh r0,fEdkifonfh vlemrsm;udk
pwdkxJrS aq;rsm; xkwfoHk;ap&onf/ q&mrrsm;uawmh
acwftqufquf wpfcgrS rBuHKzl;onfrsm; BuHKae&ovdk
jzpfaeMuonf/ aemuf aq;Hk p&dwfrQay;aq;qdkifudk Hk;zufrS
q&mrBuD;tm; BuD;MuyfapNyD; jyefvkyfcdkif;onf/ vlemrsm;tm;vHk;
aq;0,fzdkY vdktyfvQif p&dwfrQay; aq;qdkifrSmom 0,fcdkif;onf/
tu,f aq;uvnf; 0,f&rnfhaq; jzpfae vlemuvnf;
rwwfEdkifvQif olYudkom vmajym/ olu pm&Gufay:rSm vlem
trnfESifh aq;trnfudk a&;NyD; vufrSwfxdk;ay;vdkufvQif

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ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
aq;qdkifu tvum;xkwfay;&ef pDrHxm;onf/ aq;qdkif
wm0efcHu xdkpm&if;rsm;udk pkxm;NyD; wpfvwpfcg olYqDrSm
vm&Sif;&onf/ aq;rsm;twGuf NrdKUBuD;rS aq;vum;qdkif
wpfckESifh qufxm;vdkufonf/ ta<u;ig;odef;ESifh txuf
,lxm;vdkY&ojzifh aumif;aumif; vnfywfvdkY&onf/ tjrwfaiGudk
0efxrf;rsm; tm;vHk; cGJa0ay;onf/
NrdKYe,fq&m0efBuD; owif;u bmrSrMum;awmhojzifh olvnf;
aq;Hk0if;xJu q&m0efBuD;tdrfrSm ajymif;aeonf/ NrdKUv,fydkif;rSm
tcef;wpfckiSm;NyD; aq;cef;zGifhonf/ aq;Hk0if;xJrSm aeawmh
aeYcif;aeYvnfav; cP tdrfjyefem;vdkY &onf/ na&;nwm
vlem xMunhf&wmvnf; tqifajyonf/
,cifu cGJcef;0ifvQif q&m0efvufaq;zdkYudk tvkyform;u
yHk;xJrSa&udk cGufESifhcyfNyD; avmif;ay;&onf/ trSefuawmh
Elbow type ac: wHawmifqpfESifh zGifhvdkY ydwfvdkY&onf a&bHkbdkif
wyf&rSmjzpfonf/ 'gawmh rjzpfEdkif/ onfawmh oHjzLyHk; tBuD;udk
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tvkyform;u ydwfay;vdkY&onf/
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cGJpdwfzdkYtwGuf cg;xHkaq;xdk; tyfrsm;? aq;rsm;udk &efukefrS BudKpk
vmcJhonf/ aq;u aps;rBuD;aomfvnf; wpfcgoHk; cg;xHkaq;xdk;
tyfrsm;u aps;twefi,fBuD;onf/ wwfEdkifonfh olrsm;udk
0,foHk;cdkif;vdkufNyD; rwwfEdkifolrsm; twGufawmh oHk;NyD;om;udk
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pmrsufESm - 36
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
cGJpdwfrI tawmfrsm;rsm; vkyfEdkifavonf/ trsm;qHk;vkyf&onfu
Caesarian section ac: cav;cGJpdwf arG;zGm;ay;&jcif; jzpfonf/

yxrOD;qHk; ol cGJarG;ay;&onfh udk,f0efudk rSwfrdaeao;onf/


vlemu om;OD;ukd,f0efjzpfonf/ onfzuft&yfawG xHk;pHtwdkif;
om;zGm;q&mrESifhom jyxm;avh&SdMuonf/ 'guawmfawmfav;
usef;rma&; tod&Sdoljzpfonf/ tcsKdUvnf; t&yfvufonfESifhom
Zmwfvrf; NyD;oGm;Muwmrsm;onf/ tckvnf; om;zGm;q&mrESifh
arG;ae&mrS arG;csdefMumaeojzifh aq;HkvTwfvdkufjcif;jzpfonf/ ol
prf;oyfMunhfawmh rdcifrSm qHkydkif;usOf;aeojzifh yHkrSefarG;&ef
roifhawmfay/ cav;uvnf; tawmfxGm;yHk&onf/ om;tdrfu
npfaeNyDjzpfojzifh aumif;aumif;prf;r&awmh/ tjrefqHk;cGJpdwfzdkY
jyifqif&onf/ cg;xHkaq;xdk; AdkufzGifh om;tdrfzGifhNyD; cav;udk
qGJxkwfvdkufonf/ csufBudK;jzwfNyD; q&mrvufxJxnfh tcsif;udk
EIdufzdkYvkyfawmh om;tdrfu BuHKUroGm;ao;onfudk owdxm;
rdvdkufonf/ trTmyguvm;/ cav; aemufwpfa,mufudk
xyfqGJxkwfvdkufonf/ rdef;uav; a,mufsm;av; pHkwGJtrTm
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ajy;ydkYonfholu ydkYonf/ tarudk ajymonfholu ajymonf/
taru cg;xHkaq;ESifhom jzpfojzifh owd&aeonf/
0rf;omygw,f q&m&,f aus;Zl;wifygw,f[k ajymaeonf/
olvnf; cav;rsm;\ pl;pl;0g;0g; idkoHrsm;atmufrSm
Adkufjyefydwf&if; armorQ yef;orQ ajyaysmuf&avonf/
onfvdk remrusif cGJpdwfvdkY&onfh owif;u NrdKUxJrSm
ysHUoGm;onf/ yHkrSefqdk olYqDrSm Adkuftyfol tawmf&Sm;onf/
tckawmh ,cifu NrdKUay:rS tenf;i,f aiGaMu;wwfEdkifolrsm;
NrdKUBuD;odkY wufjyae&mrS olYqDa&mufvmMuonf/ olY vlemrsm;
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ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
xJrSm awmufawmufajymifajymif a&TwGJvJ aiGwGJvJ trsKd;orD;rsm;
yg0ifvmMuonf/

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&Sdonf/ ajymp&m qlp&m&Sdvsif aq;cef;rSmjzpfygap ajymqdk
vTwfwwfojzifh 'Dq&m0efu aq;cef;rSmawmif a[mufw,f?
rvG,fbl;[k ajymMuaMumif; aemufrS jyefMum;&onf/
wn nOD;ydkif; olYtdrfudk vlwpfodkuf a&mufvmonf/
trsKd;om;rsm; jzpfonf/ ]OD;__&JU trsKd;orD; AdkufemaevdkY
tdrfvdkufMunhfay;ygOD;? axmufBuD;&JUZeD;yg}[k qdkonf/
onfNrdKUrSm olYudk tdrfvdkufMunhfzdkY ac:wmrsKd; rBuHKzl;ao;/
olzufuvnf; vdkufzdkYrvG,f/ aq;HkudkypfNyD; a0;a0;vHvH
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aumif;aumif; ay;Edkifrnfjzpfonf/ 0wKawG kyf&SifawGxJu
EGm;vSnf;ESifh q&m0efvmyifh? q&m0efu vdkufoGm;NyD; cav;
arG;ay;wmwdkY bmwdkY b,fvkdrsm;vkyfovJ pOf;pm;r&/ olY
rSmvnf; tJovdk vdkufzdkYtwGuf jyifqifxm;wm r&Sd/
tonf;toef jzpfaeonfh vlemtwGuf toifhawmfqHk;ae&mrSm
aq;Hkjzpfavonf/
olu ]b,fuvJ aq;Hkac:vmcJhav} qdkawmh ]'DNrdKUay:uygyJ/
axmufBuD;&JU ZeD;yg}[k xyfajymonf/ axmufBuD;qdkonfrS
rnfolrSef; olrod/ odkYaomf axmufBuD;&JUZeD; qdkwmudk

pmrsufESm - 38
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
xyfcgxyfcg ajymaeojzifh olu ]b,folY ZeD;jzpfjzpfygav?
aq;Hkac:vmrS uRefawmf prf;oyfay;vdkY&rSmaygh? rD;zGm;vlemudk
tdrfrSm prf;oyfzdkY b,fvdkrS tqifrajybl;? wu,fvdkY
arG;awmhr,fqdkvnf; aq;HkyJ wif&rSmyJ} [kajymonf/
tifwifwif vkyfaeMuao;onf/ olu ac:omac:vmcJhyg
qdkawmhrS rjyefcsifjyefcsif jyefoGm;Muonf/ tdrfrjyefao;onfh
olYwynfhudk ]axmufBuD;qdkwm b,folwkef;} [kar;awmh
axmufBuD; qdkonfrSm onfNrdKUrSm wm0efusonfh
axmufvSrf;a&;rS vljzpfaMumif;od&onf/ 'DNrdKU"avhu onfvkdyJ
BuD;xnfhac:avh&Sdonf/ q&m0efBuD;? refae*smBuD;?
NrdKUe,frSL;BuD; ponfhjzifh/ ]'DrSm axmufvSrf;a&;uvl &SdvdkYvm;
wpfcgrS rMum;zl;ygbl; tpnf;ta0;awGrSmvnf; rawGUzl;ygbl;}
qdkawmh wynfhu ]&Sdw,fq&m&JU olwdkYu tpnf;ta0;awG
bmawGawmh odyfwufavhr&Sdbl;/ 'gayrJh r,u uawmif olYudk
owdxm;ae&wm? tqifhuawmh wyfMuyfBuD; tqifhavmufyJ
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oGm;Munhfawmh olYaq;cef;rSm AdkufvmjyaeMu a&TwGJvJ aiGwGJvJ
trsKd;orD; jzpfaeonf/ prf;oyfMunhfawmh cav;arG;zdkY tpjyK
aeNyD/ tajctaetm;vHk; aumif;onf/ dk;dk;yJ arG;vdkY&Edkifonfh
taetxm;jzpfojzifh arG;cef;xJ xnfhxm;NyD; aq;oGif;
ay;xm;cJhonf/ [dk axmufBuD;qdkonfhol ygrygawmh rod/
vlemapmifhawGuawmh wavSBuD;jzpfonf/ tvkyform;uwqifh
ESpfa,mufcefYom tapmifhxm;&efESifh usefolrsm; jyefMu&ef
ajymcdkif;&onf/ tvkyform;u ]q&m tJh'g axmufBuD;tdrfu
vlawG} [k jyefajymawmh ol a'goaxmif;ueJ xGufoGm;onf/
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ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
]vmjyefNyD 'DaxmufBuD;? axmufBuD;ruvdkY bmjzpfaeae . . 'D
aq;Hkwuf&if aq;Hkpnf;urf;twdkif; ae&r,f? raeEdkif&if
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tvkyform;udk a[mufvTwfvdkufonf/ tvkyform;vnf;
tJonfawmhrS xGufoGm;onf/ rMumcif tapmifhvdkufvmolrsm;
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ao;onf/ vlemudk aemufwpfBudrf jyefoGm;prf;onf/ arG;&ef
twefvdkao;onf/ q&mrudk arG;zGm;rI 'kwd,tqifha&mufvQif
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arG;rnfqdkvQif q&mrrsm;u wm0ef,l arG;ay;aeusjzpfonf/
olYudk vmac:avhr&Sd/ tckawmh owdxm;&rnf[k ,lqojzifh
vmac:cdkif;cJhjcif; jzpfonf/
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arG;vlemtdrfrS vlrsm;jzpfonf/ {nfhcef;rSm 0ifxdkif&if; ]vlem
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zdkYvnf; rSmcJhygNyD}[k ajym&onf/ wpfa,mufu vufxJrS
pmtdwfwpftdwfudk pm;yGJay:wif&if; ]q&mhudk uefYawmhckdif;vdkuf
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uRefawmf vHk;0rBudKufbl;/ cifAsm;wdkY[mu bmeJYwlaeovJ
qdkawmh a&mh ig ydkufqHay;xm;w,f... aumif;aumif;vkyfay;
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ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
taumif;qHk; jzpfatmifvkyfay;aeygw,f/ cifAsm;wdkY jyefvdkY&NyD}
[k ESifvTwfvdkufonf/ tukefvHk; rsufESmtysufysufESifh jyefoGm;
Muonf/ olvnf; a'guefNyD; usef&pfcJhonf/
onfvdk udprsKd;awG cPcP awGUBuHK&onf/ 'g t&if
q&m0efawG tusifhvkyfxm;cJhjcif; jzpfonf/ vmruefYawmhvQif
vlem vmrMunhfwm/ cGJzdkY jyifqifxm;NyD; q&mrrsm;u wqifh
ydkufqHawmif;cdkif;wmawG txd vkyfcJhMuonf[k ol od&onf/
a&mufcgpu tlusonfh vlemwpfa,mufudk cGJzdkY aq;Hkwifonf/
rcGJrD&ufrSm vlem&SifawG tdrfvdkufvmNyD; b,favmufusrvJ
ar;onf/ olu aq;zdk;ukefusp&dwf ar;onfxif oltwdtus
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q&mrrsm;udk taotcsm rSmxm;NyD;jzpfonf/ vlemaumif;NyD;
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r[kwfaMumif;/ NyD;rS vmuefawmhwm uawmh b,favmufyJ
jzpfjzpf bmBuD;yJjzpfjzpf ol vufcHaMumif; ajymxm;cJhNyD;jzpfonf/
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ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
reuf tkPfrwufrD tvkyform;vmac:onf/ vdkufoGm;NyD;
arG;ay;onf/ cav;a&m vlBuD;yg tajctaeaumif;onf/
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rodcJhonfrsm; 'DNrdKUrSm awmfawmfav; aeom;usvmawmh
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tawmfrsm;onf/ vli,fuav;rsm; &Jwyfom;0if&ef odkYr[kwf
avbmwif&ef usef;rmaMumif; axmufcHpm vm,lMuonf/

pmrsufESm - 65
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
vkyfief;&Sifrsm;u olwdkYvkyfief;onf usef;rma&;ESifh nDnGwfNyD;
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aq;cGifhwif&eftwGuf axmufcHpm vm,lMuonf/ oluawmh
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bmrS aumufcHrae/ pma&;ru pm&GufawG rSifawGu tvum;
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wpfa,mufudk 50-100 cefY tvSLxnfhckdif;vdkufonf/ onfawmh
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pmrsufESm - 66
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
&Jpcef;u 24 em&D *sLwDrdkYyg[k ajz&Sif;onf/ ta&;BuD;onfh
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wdkufe,fq&m0efrsm;? olemjyKrsm;? usef;rma&;rSL;rsm;udk

pmrsufESm - 67
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
tvSnfhus *sLwD csay;&onf/ 'gu ta&;rBuD;/ jyemu
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&onfh tpOftvmjzpfonf/
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olu 'gudk oabmrus/ b,fES,fh tdrfomqdkonfrSm
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pmrsufESm - 68
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 69
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 70
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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at;jraomn? bk&m;&ifjyifawmf . . .
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vdIufcwfapcJhonfh n? tHhtm;oifhcJh&onfh n? trSefudk odvdkuf
&onfh n? tJhonfn . . . . .
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pmrsufESm - 71
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif

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ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif

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olwdkYtdrfawGu us,fonf/ NyD;awmh rdbu olaX;awGqdkawmh
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pmrsufESm - 73
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
olu tm;vHk;udk pm&Sif;jy&onf/ NyD;awmh zwf&rnfh
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pmrsufESm - 74
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 79
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pmrsufESm - 80
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pmrsufESm - 82
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ao;onf/
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pmrsufESm - 87
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
avmufu vufzuf&nfqdkif oGm;rnfqdkNyD; tdrfrS xGufonf/ 5
rdepfcefYaeawmh tdrfay:jyefajy;wufvmNyD; owfr,f 'Daumifhudk
owfr,f[k atmf[pfNyD; "m;qGJ ajy;qif;oGm;onf[k qdkonf/
tdrfrS vlrsm;u &efjzpfonfxif aemufrS vdkufqGJMuonf/
wu,fawmh &efjzpfwmvnf; r[kwf/ ajy;&if;u yHk&uf
vJusonf/ bmrS aocsmar;r&/ zsm;emaejcif;vnf; r&Sd/
t&ufvnf; wpfcgrS aomufwwfol r[kwf/ wjznf;jznf;
ua,mifuwrf;awG ydkajymvmonf[k qdkonf/
nae av;em&D uwnf;ujzpfwm tckrS bmvdkY
ac:vm&ovnf; qdkawmh tarSmifhya,m* 0ifonfxifNyD;
ya,m*q&mESifh jyaewm[kqkdonf/ tckrS ydkydkqdk;vmojzifh
aq;Hkac:vmwmwJh/ Mum;xJrS jrefrmaq;q&m wpfa,mufESifh
vnf; jyvdkufao;onf/ jrefrmaq;q&mu pkwfawG xdk;onfwJh/
udk,fvHk;ESifh ajcaxmufawG vufawGrSm aoG;pdkYaeonfh
pkwfcsufrsm; [dkae&m onfae&m trsm;tjym;awGU&onf/
'Pf&mrsm;rS aoG;rsm; wpfpdrfhpdrfhxGufaeqJ/ pkwfcsufuvnf;
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rsufvHk;oli,ftdrfrsm; yHkrSef/ 0rf;Adkufudk prf;Munhfoavmufvnf;
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Drip wpfvHk;avmu fcsdwfxm;vdkufyg[k ajymonf/

pmrsufESm - 88
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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wpfckvHk; tkwftkwfusufusuf jzpfaeonf/ vlemuvnf;
ua,mifuwrf;ESifh kef;uefaeojzifh aq;oGif;zdkYudkyif csKyfxm;
&onf/ yHkrSefqdk q&mraq;xdk;onfudk ol ulay;avhr&Sd/
tJhonfaeYu bmhaMumifhrSef;rod/ q&mr aq;xdk;onfudk ab;rS
ulay;vdkufonf/ uHaumif;oGm;onf[k qdk&rnf/
q&mru taMumaq;oGif;zdkY tyfpdkufvdkufNyD;
xdk;xnfhvdkufonf/ ol uvnf; vufarmif;udk tay:rS npfxm;
&mrS avQmhay;vdkufNyD; aq;ydkufudk zGifhcsvdkufonf/ q&mru
aq;xdk;tyfudk yvmpwmESifh uyfNyD; xdef;zdkYvkyfonf/ yvmpwm
u uyfr&/ aq;xdk;onfh tyfeab;rS aoG;rsm;u rwdwfEdkif/
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ovdkvdkawmh ajymovdkvdk xifvdkufwmyJ[k qdkonf/ ol tawmf
pdwfnpfoGm;onf/ nae 4 em&DcefYujzpfwm/ tck n
oef;acgifyif ausmfaeNyD/ q&mrudk vlem\ aoG;cJMumjrifhcsdef
(Clotting time) ppfcdkif;&onf/ NyD;awmh vlemajcaxmufudk
aocsmppfaq;awmh ajczrdk;ab;rSm a>rpG,f&m[k ,lq&aom t&m
uav;ESpfckawGUonf/ cPMumawmh q&mru aoG;cJMumjrifhcsdef
pmrsufESm - 89
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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10 rdepfausmfaeNyD/ ,ckxdrcJao;/
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ol csufcsif; a>rqdyfajzaq;xdk;onf/ rD;rvmwvSnfh
vmwvSnfhESifh tat;yHk;xJrSm xdef;odrf;xm;aom a>rqdyf
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tJonf tcsdefuawmh *kPma'goESifh qlovdkjzpfaeonf/
naeuwnf;u jzpfonfhudp? tckrS vmwm? NyD;awmh
ya,m*awG jrefrmq&mawG vkyfaewm/ ,ck tajctaeu
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xyfxGuf&jyefonf/ tckudprSm ukefusp&dwfudk ajymaewm
r[kwfaMumif;? olYtaejzifh tckavmavmq,f
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pmrsufESm - 90
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
aemufaeYreuf jyefMum;&onfu xdkvlemrSm
wdkif;aq;HkodkYroGm;/ a>rq&mqDac:oGm;NyD; ukaeonfwJh/ ol
bmwwfEdkifrnfenf;/
aemuf 2 &ufajrmufaeY reuf ol cGJpdwfrIwpfck vkyfaepOfrSm
wynfh tvkyform;wpfa,mufu vmajymonf/ xdka>rayguf
cH&onfh vlemudk aq;Hkjyefac:vmcsifvdkY vlem&Sif rsm;u
q&mYudk ajymay;yg[k qdkojzifh vmajymwmygwJh/ e*dkuwnf;u
a'goxGufaeonfu tckydkxGuf&onf/ a'go jzpfjzpfESifh
raoao;bl;vm;[k yifajymrdonf/ aemufrS pdwfudk
jyefcsKyfwnf;NyD; ac:vmcsifvnf; ac:vm? 'gayrJh tck
tcsdefrSawmh bmrS vkyfay;Edkifawmhrnf rxif[k ajymvdkufonf/
ac:vmawmh wu,fvnf; bmrS vkyfray;Edkifawmh/ vlemrSm
udk,fwGif; aoG;,dkpD;rIrsm;aMumifh ausmufuyfysufpD;aeNyD/
qD;vHk;0 rxGufawmh/ ol aq;rsm;xdk;NyD; wwfEdkifoavmuf
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tNyD; 2 em&DcefY twGif; aq;Hka&mufvmonf/ tm;&0rf;om
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vdkufao;onf/ tuGufrsm;udk MunhfHkjzifh a>rayG;rSef;od&onf/
pmrsufESm - 91
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
b,fvdkyJvkyfcJhvkyfcJh aoG;cJ Mumjrifhcsdefuawmh rsm;aewmyJ
jzpfonf/ 'gayrJh trsm;BuD; arQmfvifhcsuf&Sdonf/ a>rqdyfajzaq;
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okdYaomf vlem&Sifrsm;u roGm;[kqdkonf/ onfaq;HkrSmyJ ukvdkY
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pmrsufESm - 92
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
qif;awmh tzdk;BuD;ESifhtzGm;BuD;u olYtdrfvmNyD; q&mpm;zdkY[k
qdkum t&Sifvwfvwf MuufBuD;wpfaumif vufaqmif
vmay;onf/ ol &,f&,farmarmESifh ,lxm;vdkufNyD; arG;xm;
vdkuf&ao;onf/ wynfhrsm;udkvnf; owfrpm;&ef trdefYxkwf&
ao;onf/
vlemESpfa,muf/
wpfa,mufu acwfynmwwf todkif;t0dkif;rS twef;ynm
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aq;HkESifh q,frdepfrQ ra0;aom ae&mwGifaeol/ aemuf
wpfa,mufu twef;ynmvHk;0 rwwfaom wdkif;&if;om;
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tcsdefwkef;uawmh Edkuf*sLwD twlqif;&rnfh&ufudkom arQmfae
rdcJhonfhtcsdef jzpfavonf/

pmrsufESm - 93
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif

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pmrsufESm - 94
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif

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pmrsufESm - 95
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
vmvnfonfudk bmrS xl;qef;[efrjy/ pkESif;u olYudk zcifESifh
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vdkufao;onf/
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pmrsufESm - 96
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
a[mufpfqm*sifu pkpkaygif; 6a,muf/ Edkuf*sLwDxGuf 2 a,muf
udk z,fvdkufawmh aeYbufqdkvQif 4 a,muf om&Sdonf/ reuf
apmapmvm? Edkuf*sLwDxGufrnfh oli,fcsif;xHrS vlem tajctae
rsm;ESifh rSmp&m&Sdonfrsm;udk rSwfNyD; Senior AS Round vdkuf?
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pmrsufESm - 97
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 98
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 99
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pmrsufESm - 100
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pmrsufESm - 101
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pmrsufESm - 102
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pmrsufESm - 103
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pmrsufESm - 104
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif

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pmrsufESm - 105
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 106
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 107
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 164
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pmrsufESm - 193
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pmrsufESm - 194
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pmrsufESm - 195
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pmrsufESm - 196
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pmrsufESm - 197
ta&SUtaemufawmifajrmuf b,frSm . . . Nidrf;Edkif
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pmrsufESm - 198
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