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Loving: Nama: Qori' Setyadarma NIM: Prodi Ilmu Pemerintahan/A (Fisip)
Loving: Nama: Qori' Setyadarma NIM: Prodi Ilmu Pemerintahan/A (Fisip)
NIM : 5.16.03.06.0.026
So, first impressions arc important and predictive. Nevertheless, recognizing that
loving is not merely an intensification of initial liking, social psychologists are shifting their
attention from the mild attraction experienced during first encounters to the study of
enduring, close relationship.
What is this thing called love? Loving is more complex than liking, and thus more
difficult to measure, more perplexing to study. People yearn for it, live for it, die for it. Yet
only in the last few years has loving-despite Senator Proxmires scornbecome a serious
topic in social psychology.
One line of investigation has been to compare the nature of love in various close
relationshipsame sex friendship, parent-child relationships,and spouses or lovers. These
investigation reveal some elements of love that are common to all loving relationships:
mutual understanding, giving and receiving support, valuing and enjoying being with the
loved one. Although such ingredients of love apply equally to love between best friends or
between husband and wife, they are spiced differently depending on the relationship. For
example, romantic love, especially in its initial phase, is distinguished by sexual desire, an
expectation of exclusiveness and an intense fascination with the loved one.