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Love
Love
Love
But we think that romance is one of three basic brain systems that evolved for mating and
reproduction:
The sex drive or lust—the craving for sexual gratification--evolved to enable you to seek a
range of potential mating partners. After all, you can have sex with someone you aren’t in love
with. You can even feel the sex drive when you are driving in your car, reading a magazine or
watching a movie. Lust is not necessarily focused on a particular individual.
These three brain systems--and feelings--interact in many ways to create our myriad forms of
loving.
We began our studies with attraction. Whether it’s called romantic love, obsessive love,
passionate love, or infatuation, men and women of every era and every culture have been
affected by this irresistible power.
The intensity of romantic love tends to last somewhere from six months to two years before
turning into attachment in most relationships. Romance is where love begins, and it seems to
have the most extreme effect on human behavior.
Special meaning: the romantic partner is the center of the world, and you like anything they like
Intense energy and it’s hard to sleep
Loss of appetite
Mood swings
Separation anxiety
Craving
Intense motivation for emotional union
Possessive
Intrusive thinking