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Club Newsletter: July 2017- Feb 2018 : Issue 01
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DIVISION DIRECTOR'S
MESSAGE
TM SHUVO HIDERYASHI
Focus on where you want to go not what you fear – Tony Robbins
Being a Toastmasters is a best gift you can give to yourself. In order to
influence others around you first you have to influence yourself. Self
discovery is the best way of learning. More you invest on you this will help
you understand yourself better. More you understand yourself in return you
will be able to help others. Toastmasters provide a very powerful platform of
self discovery. One of the main point of self discovery is the focus that we
hold at any given time.
Two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day
you find out why – Mark Twain
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AREA DIRECTOR'S
MESSAGE
TM M. SKANDERAJ
Hi friends,
When you start reading this article , first tap on your shoulder & if there are
Millennium members near by tap on there shoulder hard and say "Wow we
are part of a great team". Because as a club it’s always a challenge in
progression & sustainability. When heading towards successive years, you
know the art of do's & dont's for the betterment of the club.
Its always good to start a journey, but don't let it go when you think you are
already in the right track and there is nothing more for you. Because it’s a
journey of infinite growth & satisfaction not like your career. You keep
learning which would allow you to uplift yourself at the working
environment, at home and at society.
Finally, you transform yourself to a person you aspire to be, or did not think
of becoming a the start.
I want all the members to be a part of this club for long lasting years by
which you help new members as well existing members to succeed in turn
allowing yourself to grow.
A club that has redefined me to who I am today. Why not you?
Enjoy the journey of Toast mastering, there will be obstacles but then you
will find lot of helping hands including me to overcome it.
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PRESIDENT'S MESSAGE
TM DELANIE JAYESURIA
Dear Fellow Toastmasters,
EDITORS MESSAGE
CHATURI LIYANAGE
“The strength of each member is the team." (Phil Jackson) With that I say…”mic drop!”
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INSTALLATION OF
THE EXCO
The 17th installation ceremony of the Executive Committee of The
Millennium TM Club for 2017/18 was held on the 01st of July 2017 at the
Grand Oriental Hotel Colombo
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HUMOROUS SPEECH
&
EVALUATION CONTEST
The humorous speech contest was held on the 26th of September at Royal Skill
Center.The Contest chair was Thanuja
Participants of the humorous speech contest:
Club Contest
1. TM Dilusha Gamage
2. TM Dinal Edirisinghe
3. TM Kavitha Ganesan
4. TM Dr. Clive James
Winners:
1. TM Kavitha Ganesan
2. TM Paskaran Brahaman
3. TM Dinal Edirisinghe
1. TM Dinal Edirisinghe
2. TM Tharidu Amarasekera
3. TM Dilusha Gamage
4. TM Amritha Allahakkoon
5. TM Chaturi Liyanage
Winners
1. TM Chaturi Liyanage
2. TM Dinal Edirisinghe
3. TM Tharidu Amarasekera
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Area Contest
District Contest
The District Contest was held on the 5th
of November at The Central Bank
Auditorium. TM Kavitha awed the
audience with her intelligent use of
humor while TM Chaturi secured
second place at the Evaluation
competition.
Congratulations to all winners and
participants!
“It’s not the will to win that matters- everyone has that. It’s the
will to prepare to win that matters” –Paul Bryant
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INTERNATIONAL SPEECH
&
TABLE TOPIC CONTEST
The International Speech and Table Topic contest was held on the 20th of
February 2018 at the Royal College Skills Center. The contest chair was TM
Sentilnathan
Club Contest
Participants of the international speech contest: Participants of the Table Topic
Competition:
1. TM Clive
2. TM Tharindu 1.. TM Dilusha
3. TM Iromi 2. TM Clive
4. TM Amritha 5. TM Rasika
5. TM Dilusha
6. TM Chaturi Winners
1. TM Dilusha
Winners: 2. TM Clive
1. TM Tharindu 3. TM Rasika
2. TM Clive
3. TM Chaturi
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CHRISTMAS ON THE
BEACH
Division E Christmas party
HOWZAAT?!
District 82 Cricket Tournament
THEME MEETINGS
Christmas Meeting
“Jingle and Mingle” the much awaited
Christmas themed meeting took place
on the 19th of December.
This year we celebrated
Christmas with a twist, where Santa
paid a visit to our club. He was very
pleased that all our members have
been exceptionally good this year! So
much so he awarded us scrumptious
cookies! (our Santa was TM Thanuja,
if you are still wondering!)
After Santa's departure things only
got better! As the members all joined
in singing much loved carols! We
sound pretty good together!
The Table Topic session was tuned to
the theme of the day, where
participants had to pick their topic
from the Christmas tree!
The traditional Secret Santa gift
giving, also took place where we
exchanged gift with one another,
much to the delight of all club
members.
The meeting ended with a
scrumptious Christmas meal! With the
hope of a brighter , peaceful and
prosperous tomorrow.
To top it off the Christmas flyer
created by our very own TM Amritha
Allahakkoon was selected as one of
the top 5 flyers of the month!
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Diwali Meeting
The Diwali themed meeting took place
on the 7th of December.
In the spirit of Diwali the meeting
commenced with the ceremonial lighting
of the lamps by each member and guest
present. Lighting the lamps in unison
helped to fuel a sense of bond and
connection among all members , in turn
fueling the hope of a brighter tomorrow.
Pongal Meeting
The Pongal themed meeting took
place on the 16th of January ,
where, members and guests were
greeted by scrumptious Pongal
sweets courtesy by our very own
TM Laxmi Senthilnathan.
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EDUCATIONAL
SESSIONS
Officer Training Program
Success stories of the clubs in the
area were discussed and key
leanings were evaluated
The plan for the upcoming six
months were outlined by each
club
DTM Ajitha Goonewardene
conducted a presentation on how
to conduct an effective speech
craft program.
We gained important insights on
how to conduct an effective
meeting by TM Moditha
Sendanayake
MEMBERS CORNER
Experience at Convention 2017 – Vancouver
TM LAXMI SENTHILNATHAN
As a first timer I didn’t know what to expect but I can truly say
“Fantastic” over and beyond my expectation. Moreover, being part of
the “Helping Hands” made the experience ever more “Fantastic’.
It was a great way to meet and interact with so many Toastmasters
from around the globe and while enjoying the Educational sessions
organised at the convention.
My experience at Toastmasters
TM AMANDA ASSALAARCHCHI
Why I joined?
I was and well I am a very talkative person in general and also I used to do
many speeches at events back when I was schooling, however along my
journey to the professional world I met this new fear called ‘stage fright’ and
has had difficulty, especially in public speaking and that was the reason as to
why I joined Toastmasters, I wanted to improve on my communication and
public speaking capabilities.
So there you are. Smugly and rather pompously thinking that you have
enough in your life – work, family, friends and just the right smattering of self
growth and development. You don’t need anything more. Then the universe
laughs in your face and throws something your way. Something it knows
you will love, something you need and something that will help you grow,
without you realizing that you needed it. Something like….toastmasters.
Looking back, this is how I felt toastmasters happened to me. As a lawyer, I
naively believed that communication and leadership were in my professional
constitution and that there was little out there for me to learn or experience
in this regard. I was soon to learn the stupidity of that notion…
I had enrolled my daughter in the Gavel Club at the Royal College skills center
in March 2017. In the light of her plea of, “amma, please stay close by. What if
I hate it and want to leave”, on her first day, I was having to find a space and
activity within the skills center to pass the next 2.5 hours. The Millennium
Toastmasters were meeting in a room on the floor above the Gavel Club, so I
made my way there, purely out of curiosity. You’ve heard the saying
‘curiosity killed the cat?’ Not so in my case. In my case, this cat was made to
feel thoroughly welcome, invited to watch the meeting as a guest and was
mesmerized by the level of communication, team work and camaraderie
thereafter. This cat was bowled over without expecting it.
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Two weeks later, I was being initiated as a member of MTM – curious cat to
proud toastmaster in the space of a blue moon. I haven’t looked back. I have
dropped those previously held misguided notions that there was little for me
to learn in terms of communication or leadership. Every meeting has been a
learning experience in this regard. With every timed speech that I delivered, I
learned more about myself and the ways in which I could improve
thanks to the evaluations I received.
With every table topic speech I observed, I realized the many effective ways
there are to collect our thoughts and communicate spontaneously. With
every role play I was asked to take, I understood the importance of listening,
communicating and team work. Above all else, having had the privilege of
getting to know my fellow club members, I have come to realize what true
support, kindness and graciousness really mean. It's like that pesky universe
collected a group of the most diverse yet, warm, witty and wonderful people
and juxtaposed them on the second floor of the Royal College skills center.
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Reverberation
TM NIROSHAN MOTHA
This time I went to reverberations after three years and enjoyed very much.
Over 100 Sri Lankan delegates attended the conference in Chennai and it was
very nice to meet new toastmasters from new clubs attending the event.
I would like to urge all new members who have not been to a conference to
give a start at the very next conference Ovation 2018. I am sure you will learn
a lot and feel the difference. I wish all the best to everyone.
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I think I would not be wrong when I say many speakers taking part in a
contest, go though these motions and emotions !
First, the selection of the topic of your speech was perfect, spot on, and very
appropriate to convince the audience . You wrote and re-wrote your speech
many times over. You cut and chopped, added and subtracted, (helping to cut
down more trees in the process !) and read over it a dozen times. Finally, you
are convinced that the message you want to convey to inspire and motivate
the audience through your speech is the ideal one and the topic is very
accurate for this purpose ! And then comes the laborious and painstaking
task of practice ! You practice , and practice and practice and practice , with
your timer by your side . In front of a mirror as well ! You have actually lost
count of how many times you practiced because even in the revered
Toastmasters magazine they tell you to practice, practice, practice ! You are
quite sure that you can even give your speech backwards ! Oh ! by the way,
the “butterflies in the stomach” that you thought had flown away long long
ago, have found their way into your belly again ! The silly fellows ! How dare
they ?
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Suddenly, it is time ! That anxious moment is here ! You hear the two
familiar lines . Amy Scott – Let Bygones be Bygones – Let Bygones be
Bygones – Amy Scott and in no time, there you are standing in front of a
multitude of eyes affixed on you and only you ! Dumbstruck ? Yes . But
experience overtakes, and you are well on your way, delivering that
wonderful, well rehearsed speech . Nothing can stop you now. The timing ,
the delivery and the message to inspire the audience was perfect. Then the
familiar gesture as you address the Contest Chair, and as you walk away, you
hear the big applause. You are back in your seat - sitting on the whole chair
now!
As the evening comes to an end, the much awaited moment arrives. The
drum roll begins ! The Contest Chair is wasting time waving that all
important piece of paper around !! “Hurry up” – you whisper. “And the
third place goes ….…… “ . The 3 winners are announced ! But your name
was not ! The feeling of disappointment and dejection slowly creeps in. Your
Toastmasters world crumbles . You tell yourself – no more ! Never again !
That’s it !
It takes a while to tell yourself that there is always a next time ! Yes, you so
wanted to win this time. Next time is far away and who knows what can
happen ? But nothing un-toured happens. The days roll by just as the weeks
roll by, and the months roll by and the next time comes along before you
know it ! And you are at it again ! Looking for that perfect topic. That’s what
Toastmasters does to you, dear readers . It always gives you that second
chance ! You always have the opportunity to make that impact, to reach
your goals .
The triumph is not in the trophy, only. The Triumph is - YOU, striving to do
your best !
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PATHWAYS
LEARNING EXPERIENCE
PAUL STERMAN
Some of the new competencies are: understanding short- and long-term goals,
speaking about personal strengths and weaknesses, answering questions
effectively, leading with resourcefulness and flexibility, and demonstrating the
value of volunteering.
The five core competencies were paired to form five disciplines. The program
will launch with 10 different learning paths, based on these disciplines:
Public Speaking + Interpersonal Communication
Interpersonal Communication + Strategic Leadership
. Interpersonal Communication + Management
Public Speaking + Management
Public Speaking + Strategic Leadership
"The current education program teaches 68 competencies; Pathways adds
more than 250 competencies members can learn."
The idea is to build on what you learned in the previous level. The goal
throughout the Pathways program is to not just learn, but to apply what you
learn.
Members who choose to have the materials shipped to them from World
Headquarters will not have access to the interactive learning tools or to as
many learning paths as those who participate online.
Education videos are a key component of the new program. In addition, all
educational materials in Pathways, including the videos, will be translated
into eight languages.
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As this study indicates, it is likely that the audience will fail to absorb as much
as you expect.
14. Be a listener.
“Listen more than you talk.” This is what Richard Branson tells business
people who want to connect with others. To communicate effectively, first
listen to what others have to say. Then you can provide a thoughtful answer
that shows you have taken those ideas into account.
Conclusion
Communicating clearly is one of the most effective skills you can cultivate as a
business leader. Remember to communicate using nonverbal and verbal cues.
Listen carefully to what others have to say, and over-communicate in novel
ways to ensure the content of the conversation sticks with the audience.
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Have you ever walked up and down the stacks of the library or bookstore
looking for something to read? As you saunter, your eyes come to rest on a
book and you pull it off the shelf. What was it that compelled you to pick that
particular book over hundreds of others? It was the title.
Every workshop, seminar, speech, blog, book and journal article has a title. It
is how we name and introduce our work to the world. It is our first—and
perhaps only—lure to snag a potential audience. Yet despite its importance,
crafting the right title is typically overlooked and underrated. This integral
component of our written and oral presentations merits thoughtfulness and
creativity.
Here are five techniques for building a title that will bring your audience to
their seats.
1 Create Intrigue
Curiosity is the spark that ignites engagement. Find one aspect, result or
observation that is especially interesting about your topic and incorporate it
into your title. The main challenge is in keeping your title relevant and related
to your material. If it lacks a connection to the body of your work, you are
simply using curiosity as a well-documented marketing ploy. For example, I
could have titled this article, “A Good Presentation Title Increases Your Sex
Appeal by 73%.” Undoubtedly, more people might read this article. But
because the information they are seeking is irrelevant, they will finish the
article feeling frustrated, angry and duped.
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2 Ask a Question
When you pose a question in your title, it implies that the body of your work is
going to provide the answer. Most people are drawn to resolve; there is great
satisfaction in having a problem untangled. By posing a question, you are
letting your audience know, in advance, that their time invested will be well
spent and gratifying. For example, I could have named this article, “Can You
Meet the Challenge of Creating a Great Title?”
3 Enumerate
The brain operates optimally when it has finite chunks of information to
digest. Offering a defined number in your title—three cures, five mistakes, 10
secrets—gives the potential audience the assurance that they will receive a
delineated outline of information. Enumeration draws an audience because it
pre-defines the outcome. Success, in this case, is not defined by the quality of
the content, but rather, by the quantity of the content. Case in point: I could
have easily named the title of this article, “Five Ways to Increase Your
Presentation’s Visibility.”
The challenge to enumeration is keeping the numbers manageable. Although
“50 Ways to Leave Your Lover” (the title of the 1975 hit song by Paul Simon) is
exciting, it would take a long time to get through a list that long
4 Elicit Humor
Humor is a universal connector, capable of drawing people together from all
walks of life. Its upbeat nature tied to the human condition resonates with all
ages and all professions. It provides a safe environment for topics ranging
from the casual to the controversial. To illustrate, I could have named this
article, “I Stayed Up All Night to Write the Perfect Title … and Forgot to Hit
Save.”
The challenge with humor is making sure that it is appropriate for your
material. Topics that invoke human suffering, such as cancer or the plight of
refugees, don’t resonate well with a funny title.
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You have invested time, energy and passion in your work. Your words deserve
recognition. The right title will help bring many eyes and many ears to your
voice.
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The first is general physical maintenance: getting enough sleep and keeping
healthy. If you’re tired or sick, it’s that much harder to maintain focus and that
much easier to slack off.
The second thing is to limit the length of your practice sessions to about an
hour. You can’t maintain intense concentration for much longer than that—and
when you’re first starting out, it’s likely to be less. If you want to practice
longer than an hour, go for an hour and take a break. Fortunately, you will find
that as you maintain your practice over time it will seem easier. Both your body
and your mind will habituate to the practice. The practice never becomes
outright fun, but eventually it gets closer to neutral, so it’s not as hard to keep
going.
We’ve just seen several ways to decrease the inclination to stop; now let’s look
at some ways to increase the inclination to continue. It may be completely
intrinsic. Or maybe it’s for totally practical, extrinsic purposes. You hate public
speaking, but you recognize that your lack of speaking skills is holding you
back in your career, so you decide you want to learn how to address an
audience.
All of these are possible roots of motivation, but they aren’t—or at least they
shouldn’t be—your only motivators. Studies of expert performers tell us that
once you have practiced for a while and can see the results, the skill itself can
become part of your motivation. As long as you recognize this new identity as
flowing from the many hours of practice that you devoted to developing your
skill, further practice comes to feel more like an investment than an expense.
Another key motivational factor in deliberate practice is a belief that you can
succeed. In order to push yourself when you really don’t feel like it, you must
believe that you can improve and—particularly for people shooting to become
expert performers—that you can rank among the best. If you stop believing
that you can reach a goal, either because you’ve regressed or you’ve plateaued,
don’t quit.
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Make an agreement with yourself that you will do what it takes to get back to
where you were or to get beyond the plateau, and then you can quit. You
probably won’t.
One of the best ways to create and sustain social motivation is to surround
yourself with people who will encourage and support and challenge you in
your endeavors. Surrounding yourself with supportive people is easiest in
activities that are done in groups or teams.
Deliberate practice can be a lonely pursuit, but if you have a group of friends
who are in the same positions, you have a built-in support system. These
people understand the effort you’re putting into your practice, they can share
training tips with you, and they can appreciate your victories and
commiserate with you over your difficulties. They count on you, and you can
count on them.
While you may collect a group of like-minded individuals for support and
encouragement, still much of your improvement will depend on practice you
do on your own. How do you maintain motivation for hour after hour of such
focused practice? One of the best bits of advice is to set things up so that you
are constantly seeing concrete signs of improvement, even if it is not always
major improvement. Break your long journey into a manageable series of
goals and focus on them one at a time—perhaps even giving yourself a small
reward each time you reach a goal. There is no reason not to follow your
dream. Deliberate practice can open the door to a world of possibilities that
you may have been convinced were out of reach. Open that door.
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CLUB ACHIEVEMENT
DASHBOARD
The Educational awards
1.TM Mithraka Fernando-ACS(Advance Communation Silver) - 1DCP
2.TM Dinal Edirisinghe - CL (Competent Leader)-1DCP
3.TM Skandaraj Muthusamy-ALB (Advance Leader Bronze)-1DCP
Goals to achieve
Achieve education points- 3DCP Points( 4cc’s and 1 ACB)
To prioritize the needs of the members by facilitating
constructive feedback and fostering a conducive learning
environment.
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Delanie Jayesuria Anusha Fernando
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Secretary
Chathuri Liyanage
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