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She will be speaking at the Jewish Feder- as Jews have always had difficult memo-
adassah Freilich Lieberman is ation of Northern New Jersey’s Holocaust ries, hard things to remember, and that we
the daughter of survivors. commemoration in Fair Lawn on Wednes- have simultaneously stood up and flown,
She is the Prague-born wife day. (See box.) with our wings, despite how low we have
of a retired United States sen- “I am a representative of the Shoah’s been on so many occasions.
ator who became the first Jewish vice pres- next generation,” Ms. Lieberman said. “What I want to talk about, what is so
idential candidate (that’s former senator “My parents were survivors, my mother of important to me to talk about, is that my
Joseph Lieberman, first Democrat, then Auschwitz and Dachau — she was liberated mother survived the worst of horrors. I
Independent, from Connecticut); she is from Dachau — and my father from slave found a diary after she died in 1970, telling
the mother of two children, one of whom labor camps. me that she could write only a few pages, Hadassah Freilich Lieberman
is a rabbi revolutionizing Jewish egalitar- “I really have no bigger message than that and therefore prayed that her children
ian intellectually focused learning (that’s I come to talk as a person who is a daugh- could tell more of the story. not striking in his or her own way, she
Rabbi Ethan Tucker of Hadar), and the ter of survivors, and who wonders how we “We” — that’s Ms. Lieberman and her asked.) “We must remember, repeat, and
stepmother of two children, and she also is can pass things on,” she said. “I was talking brother, Ary Freilich, who lived in Tenafly listen. And at the same time, we have chil-
a powerhouse of charisma, charm, social to my machetuniste, Ruth Wisse” — that’s until a few years ago and continues to be dren and grandchildren, and we have to
advocacy, and professionalism. Dr. Ruth Wisse of Harvard, the mother of active in local Jewish institutions — “had move forward with memory and strength.
She’s also a frequent speaker on issues of Hadassah’s stepdaughter Rebecca Lieber- striking parents.” But their obligations are And now we are very lucky because we
American Jewish life, particularly the Holo- man’s husband, Jacob Wisse — “who was the same as those all children of survivors have the state of Israel.
caust and its effects on the next generations. speaking about her memories. She made confront. (And really, which survivor was SEE LIEBERMAN PAGE 8
A Happy, Sweet
and Pleasant
Pesach
children is strength, not weakness.” situation. Rabbi Freilich was Orthodox by been, while also always remembering to
Lieberman Her father, Rabbi Samuel Freilich, was background and early education, Conser- be grateful for where they find themselves
FROM PAGE 6
active in postwar Czechoslovakia, work- vative by smicha, and not well versed in now. And it’s not an abstraction for Hadas-
“My husband and I just recently went ing with the government to help get Jews American Jewish life. The shul was nomi- sah Lieberman, as the life story she tells to
back to Ukraine — he is on the board of out of the country. “There still was ten- nally Conservative but that affiliation make that point demonstrates.
Babi Yar — since both of our ancestors sion between eastern and western Jews,” wasn’t very deep, and the Jewish commu-
are from that area,” she said. “There she said — in rough, hugely overgen- nity was tightknit but small and not Jew-
were no Jews left. I really wanted to get eralized terms, between the more and ishly knowledgeable. Who: Hadassah Lieberman
out of there quickly. less modern, more and less educated, It was a learning experience on both What: Will give the keynote talk at the
“As Jews, I don’t even want to have the ones who had been fairly affluent sides, their daughter reported. Jewish Federation of Northern New
memories of the town that marked our until the Nazis struck and the ones who Her mother was an always-elegant Jersey’s annual Holocaust commemo-
ration
families’ exodus from those areas. As never had been comfortable. “It always woman, attractive and poised, who taught
difficult as it is to remember, to go back is sickening to hear about any tensions Hebrew school and took a leading role in Where: At Temple Beth Sholom, 40-25
to those places — difficult because we between Jews, when you look at how the shul’s women’s club. Fair Lawn Ave., in Fair Lawn
are no longer there, we are in another difficult everything was for Jews,” Ms. Ms. Lieberman had a happy childhood When: On Wednesday, April 11; the art
place, and we are strong, and we want Lieberman said. but it was not without its challenges. exhibit begins at 6 p.m., and Hadassah
Rabbi Freilich had a yeshiva back- “Thank God we were where we were,” Lieberman will speak at 6:30.
to remain strong — we have worked
really hard to maintain that. We want ground; when he got to the United States, she said. For more information: Go to www.
no part of the societies that have ousted he was ordained at the Jewish Theologi- Now, her goal is to ensure that Jews tbsfl.org or call either the main number,
(201)797-9321, or Roz Melzer at (201)
us. And what comes out of the memo- cal Seminary. He took a pulpit in Gard- remember the terrible places where many
791-3463.
ries that we want to pass on to our ner, Massachusetts. It was an interesting of them, including her parents, have
201-837-9090 • www.jfcsnnj.org
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hen Mireille Knoll was
about 7 years old, she
escaped a roundup of
French Jews in Paris;
those Jews who did not escape, including
her family, soon were slaughtered by the
Nazis and their eager allies.
We are told that one of the two young
men who the French police arrested for
her brutal murder — “brutal” might be a
tabloid word, but it is hard to know what
more gentle word could be applied to a
death that involved being stabbed 11 times
and set on fire — knew Ms. Knoll since he
was 7; she was kind to him, we are told.
She was a kind woman, we are told, as
well as chic in the Parisian way that elderly
women can maintain with such apparent
ease in that capital of chic.
She was 85 years old, and in failing
health, when she was killed on March 23.
But she was Jewish, and apparently that
was enough to provoke her murderers,
according to French officials.
It also apparently was enough to pro-
voke an anti-Semitic murderer to kill
Sarah Halimi, a 66-year-old retired physi- Alain Ndigal, left, and Ruth Grammens wrap themselves in Israeli flags at the memorial march in Paris for Mireille Knoll.
cian and kindergarten teacher who lived Cnaan Liphshiz
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escaped the Nazis 76 years ago, only to be who was looking for community. She the Exodus, and to ponder what freedom
Justice murdered in her own home. found it at Base — “she’s coming to us for means, but it is also the commemoration of
from page 10
“We lined up and lowered the aron” seder,” Rabbi Mlotek said — and in return the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising. I think about
rally, and I went to the funeral, and it was — the casket — “into the grave. It was so she connected her mother, still in Paris, how my children won’t know what a Holo-
just so powerful.” powerful, the chesed shel emet,” the obli- with Rabbi Mlotek, and Rabbi Mlotek got caust survivor’s voice sounds like by the
The president of France, Emanuel gation to take care of the dead with tender- to meet her rabbi, Tom Cohen of Kehilat time they grow up.
Macron, was at the funeral. So too were ness and respect, an obligation that by its Gesher in Paris, an American expatriate “Yes, we can talk about how genocide
somewhere between 100 and 200 mourn- nature can never be repaid, at least by its who is “married to the first woman rabbi continues to be perpetrated, and we can
ers, Rabbi Mlotek reported. “I introduced recipient. “And there were these people, in France,” Pauline Bebe. chant ‘never again,’ but now there still are
myself to the officiating rabbi and the fam- the president of France, Israel’s ambassa- Talking to Rabbi Cohen, Rabbi Mlotek survivors living. It is a sacred responsibility
ily after the ceremony,” he said. “She was a dor to France, all the mourners, standing “heard about the vibrant Jewish life in to ensure that they can live in peace during
widow and had two sons — I think her hus- in the mud and the rain, because before Paris, juxtaposed with these horrific their last years on this earth.
band had been a survivor as well. Both the death everyone is equal.” attacks.” There has been “a decrease in the “The parallel to Passover is almost over-
sons are married, and one has a daughter Because the Jewish world is so con- number of anti-Semitic attacks in France, whelming. We say that in every genera-
who made aliyah; one of the sons and that nected, Rabbi Mlotek was able to meet but those attacks have become more vio- tion they rise up against us to annihilate
granddaughter spoke. with other Jews through the inevitable lent,” he said. us. This is nothing new. There are pha-
“I met Macron, and I met the ambassa- although often improbable networks The march and the vigil that followed raohs and there is Hitler. They have much
dor from Israel,” he continued. The funeral that link just about everyone. “I met attracted many non-Jews, Rabbi Mlotek in common. Anti-Semitism is a plague like
was at graveside, “and it was raining, so we with a local rabbi in Paris,” he said. “It said; still, “there must have been 10,000 any other plague, like racism or misogyny
were all stuffed together under the tent. was crazy.” He had led a group from Base people there, and the core was Jewish stu- or homophobia. It is our responsibility to
Right after the ceremony it poured even Hillel to the Women’s March that filled dents. It was driven by these youths, who combat anti-Semitism by raising awareness
more rain, so we were all pushed together Manhattan on the Shabbat in January want a different reality, a different France, and holding the bigot accountable, and it
even closer.” Somehow, Rabbi Mlotek 2016 that immediately followed Donald a different home.” is also our responsibility to try to build a
ended up as one of the pallbearers. Trump’s inauguration, and on that unsea- It also is important to remember the world of compassion and love.
“It was unfathomable to me,” he said. sonably warm, oddly hope-filled, day, he reality that Passover is not only an “oppor- “It is that responsibility that brought me
“This woman, who was 85 years old, had ran into a young French Jewish woman tunity for the Jewish people to remember to Paris.”
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Celebrating
Israel’s founding
A gala Teaneck-area Orthodox community-
Rishad Patel, wide celebration of Israel’s 70th anniver-
left, with Lewis sary is set for Yom Ha’atzmaut — Wednes-
Feldman, Howard day, April 18 — at 7:15 p.m., at the Jewish
Barmad, Dave Center of Teaneck.
Kronick, Lou The evening begins with Mincha, fol-
Adler, Peter lowed by a Yom Hazikaron presentation
Cafasso, Marty from an Israeli soldier, and Ma’ariv. It
Rotella, Barry continues in the shul’s social hall, which
Weiss, and Tracy will be transformed into a shuk Yisraeli,
and Carol Adler. with Israeli food, music, and experien-
PHOTO PROVIDED tial activities focusing on Israeli culture,
geography, and history. It concludes with
Shirei Eretz Yisrael — classic Israeli folk
songs — in the sanctuary.
Local synagogues sponsoring the cele-
bration include Beth Aaron, Beth Abraham,
Bais Medrash of Bergenfield, Bnai Yeshu-
JWV Post 76 entertains vets at East Orange hospital run, Jewish Center of Teaneck, Keter Torah,
Netivot Shalom, Ohr Hatorah, Ohr Saadya,
Jewish War Veterans Zweiman-Grover Post 76 of North Bergen Day Dawn Group, featuring Dawn Botti, David Botti, and Elo Rinat Yisrael, Shaare Tefillah, Shaarei Orah,
recently presented a two-hour, three-act program at the East Hernandez, played rock music. Young Israel, and Zichron Mordechai.
Orange Veterans Hospital. The post commander, David Kronick, thanked its senior vice The event, sponsored by Nathan and
The program included inspirational songs by Marty Rotella; commander, Barry Weiss, for arranging the performance. Shari Lindenbaum, is geared for everyone
Peter Cafasso performed a tribute to Frank Sinatra; and New in sixth grade or older.
Woodcliff Lake marks the Holocaust Yeshivat He’Atid third-graders, from left, Aaron Hartstein,
The Sisterhood of Temple Emanuel of the children, and the grandchildren. Diana Ros- Eitan Toledano, Noam Toledano, Benjamin Sichel, Tani
Pascack Valley and Pascack Valley/North- ner and Ronnie Silver are event co-chairs. Fleischmann, Nathan Sichel, Eli Benzel, Lily Mezei, Yoni
ern Valley Hadassah will hold the annual Erwin Ganz, the speaker, will talk about Toledano, and Levi Mezei made a significant contribu-
community Holocaust commemoration on growing up in Nazi Germany, before, dur- tion to the Mega Food Drive. They put up posters at the
Wednesday, April 11, at Temple Emanuel in ing, and after Kristallnacht. He emigrated school, and Benjamin Sichel emailed his classmates to put
Woodcliff Lake, at 7:30 p.m. to the United States with his family when their chametz to good use by donating to Bergen County
The evening incudes a candlelighting he was 9 and settled in Newark. food pantries. The students packed supplies for the pan-
ceremony that honors survivors, their For information, call (201) 391-0801. tries, including the newly opened one in Fair Lawn.
Ron Rosensweig, Susan Benkel, Simone Wilker, Assemblywoman Vicki Monaloy, Linda Cohen, Jane Levine, Lori Daugh-
Holly Schepisi, JCRC chair Bruce Brafman, JCRC director Ariella erty, and Sheila Packer of the Jersey Hills section of the
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JOANNE PALMER The Israel Story does that. first one was the news narrative — Israel is a place of vio-
It’s a radio show that became also a podcast that lence and conflict and Bibi and Iran. The other narrative
eople love stories. became also a live show — that live incarnation will be at was classic Israel advocacy, hasbara — look at how homo-
There seems to be a primal urge the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades later this month, spon- sexuals love living in Tel Aviv! Look at how many Israeli
toward stories; the desire, the need to sored by Congregation Beth Sholom of Teaneck (see box) companies there are on the Nasdaq! Look at Israelis saving
know what happens next just propels — and it tells stories from Israel. Not, despite its name, people in Haiti and Nepal.”
us forward. THE Israel story; there is no one Israel story, its founders It’s not that neither of these narratives are true. They’re
Stories can be disarming. They’re would tell you. No, there are many stories in Israel, each all true. But “having all spent time abroad, we all felt that
so much more personal than speeches authentically Israeli. neither of those narratives was capturing the real com-
or position paper or rants or talking And, they say, their work is not at all political. The show plexity of what was going on. And it wasn’t engaging
points. They can allow you, the reader or listener, to meet is deeply smart, but it is apolitical. people — or at least it was engaging only the people who
someone, a person, with a history and parents and a birth- “We position ourselves very carefully in that regard,” would be engaged anyway.
place and a set of physical and emotional characteristics, Mishy Harman, one of the show’s four founders, said. “The majority of young people, the Jews I went to col-
and to react to that person. They can go around or under- “Israel Story really was kind of born out of the realization lege with” — Dr. Harman, 34, graduated from Harvard in
neath or blithely above people’s usual defenses. that there were these meta narratives about Israel. The 2008, after three years in the IDF — “were Jew-ish. Those
to the United States. (He followed Abba — went back to Hebrew University. His
Eban and was followed by Yitzhak Rabin.) doctoral dissertation is a biography of
One of his children — and therefore one the first Protestant missionary to work in
of Mishy’s aunts — is Naomi Chazan, the Ethiopia (or Abyssinia, as it was then). “He
Israeli legislator, champion of women’s was Swiss, worked for a British missionary
and human rights and liberal causes, and society, and I spent so much time with him
general public intellectual. that I felt that we were dear friends,” Dr.
Mishy Harman was in an intelligence Harman said. Of special interest to Jews,
Fawz and
unit in the IDF, and then he went to Har- this missionary, Samuel Gobat, who later
vard, and then to Cambridge University for Muhammad
a master’s degree in archaeology. There, Qutob told their
he looked into ancient Middle Eastern pig story to Mishy
Harman — and
bones. “The question is why did the proto-
Israelites stop eating pig?” he said. “The he told it to us. We try to
short answer is I really don’t know. humanize Israel.
“This is a question that has been fasci-
nating researchers for decades,” he said.
Israel is like any
So, the longer answer involves the Philis- other place —
tines, because “it seems that there is at
least some archaeological evidence that
but maybe
the pig prohibition was a reaction against even more so.
the Philistines’ diet.” The Philistines abundant is peculiar behavior. Prior to the main narrative.
recently moved into the area, and started arrival of the Philistines, there was pork “But once the Philistines arrived and became the bishop of Jerusalem, “was the
pushing eastward, away from the seacoast. consumption in the proto-Israelite sites — started moving inland, and settling right first outsider to interact with the Falasha”
“The evidence of the pig bones was not a ton of it, but about 10 percent of the next to the local inhabitants, you see a — the Jews of Ethiopia — “and to a large
pretty dramatic,” Dr. Harmon said. “Wild bone assemblages contain pig bones. dramatic drop, to literally 100 percent no extent he was the one who got that story
boars do exist in the area, in that period “There is a lot of literature about pig bones. It looks like a differentiation going. He went back to Europe and pro-
— 13th, 12th, 11th centuries — it’s not like whether you should call those people strategy.” posed a mission that would be directed
today. Then, you would eat what you proto-Israelites or Canaanites,” he said Next, Dr. Harman — Mr. Harman then, primarily at Falasha Jews.”
could hunt, so not eating something that is parenthetically, before resuming his or more likely Mishy to almost everyone So it is clear that Dr. Harman is a man of
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widely ranging interests. But until about “Nothing like this at all existed in
six years ago, those interests did not Israel, even though there is a high inter-
include podcasts. est in radio here, because a lot of Israelis
“The truth is that this whole project have cars, even more than in most other
was entirely accidental,” he said. “No one Western countries, so a lot of people lis-
NEW YORK
of us had any inclination that we were ten to radio all the time, but it’s mainly
going to become podcasters. Right before talk or news or music. We wanted to
I came back to Israel, in 2011, I went on a change that.
really long road trip across America with “So I came back home and talked to
my dog. My friend, Ro’ee” — that’s Ro’ee some of my closest friends, and we all סיטי פילד
Gilron, one of the other founders, who got excited about it.”
went to Brandeis, did a project at NASA,
and is working toward a doctorate in
They worked, at first at night, after
their other jobs and obligations were
SUNDAY APRIL 29 2018, 8:45 am - 6:00 pm
neuroscience — had downloaded This finished, teaching themselves, with help
American Life — the Ur of storytelling from This American Life’s mastermind FEATURED SPEAKERS
radio and podcasts, the model and goal Ira Glass, among others, learning the
of so many newer, younger podcasters — technology and tradecraft they needed.
“because he assumed I would spend a lot Eventually, they realized that Israel Story
of time in my car. was a full-time, all-consuming thing. Not
“I had never heard of podcasts a hobby. A passion.
before. Ro’ee had been my best friend At first, Israel Story — in Hebrew,
for about 20 years. I knew he had kind it’s called Sipur Israeli — was made in Rabbi Judah Rabbi Yonason Rebbetzin Dr.
of far-out ideas about what is enjoy- Hebrew. That was logical. But soon, Mischel Sacks Adina Shmidman
able, so I didn’t listen to his podcasts. “we realized that we wanted to start
Instead, I turned to books on tape and doing episodes in English, so that peo-
some music. Once I reached the Bible ple can get more engaged in conversa-
Belt, I found Christian radio, which I tions about Israel.” The team started a
found fascinating, and I couldn’t get still-ongoing partnership with Tablet,
enough of it — and then at some point I the online Jewish magazine. “That was
got enough of it, and I started listening a real leap for us, because in Israel we
to these podcasts. were kind of pioneers in the field. There Mrs. Esther Wein Rabbi Dr. Rabbi
“And then I had this really magical wasn’t anybody who was doing the kind Jeremy Wieder Mordechai Willig
experience, where I was sitting in my car of radio we were doing, so we knew that
with my dog, and suddenly, in my ears, if we continued to do it well, people
with my headphones on, I found myself would be interested in it. IMAGINE... Citi Field overflowing with
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and Mondays language — sometimes in a language that women’s stories, and “there was a live
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201-944-8011 the operations are different. We are the Mishy Harman lives in Jerusalem now,
same one organization, but most of the with his fiancée and two dogs. One of
stories in Hebrew aren’t in English, and those dogs, Nomi, a Vizsla, is the one
vice versa. Maybe only about 10 to 15 per- who went on the road trip with him,
cent of the stories are shared. and the other, Golda, is Nomi’s daugh-
“A lot of people listen to the English sto- ter. When you call him, you hear them
ries in Israel, but the majority of people in the background.
who listen to Israel Story in English are Yochai Maital, on the other hand,
not in Israel. They are in North America.” now lives on the Upper West Side, at
A word about radio and podcasts — least until his wife finishes up her mas-
many radio shows, particularly the ones ter’s degree in environmental science at
with highly produced, scripted narra- Columbia; after that, the plan is for the
tives, are available as podcasts, which two parents and their two young chil-
are unlike radio in that you can listen dren to move back to Israel.
to them whenever you want to, and Mr. Maital is another of Israel Story’s
you can go back and hear what you’ve four founders. After the IDF, where, like
missed or go forward should you hit a the other Israel Story founders, he was in
boring patch. But Dr. Harman and his intelligence, he studied creative writing.
friends seem often to use the words “I think that really our mission is sim-
almost interchangeably. ple,” he said. “To tell people stories, and
After the move from radio to podcast- on a deeper level to create an environ-
ing — and with a much bigger staff and ment that lets people listen to each other,
budget, thanks at least in part to the Ste- and to different perspectives on life.
ven Spielberg’s Righteous Persons Foun- “You get a prism, where you are trans-
dation — the team next began live per- ported to a different experience and
formances. (Many podcasts now offer look at the world in a different way. It is
live performances, but unlike many of a powerful and transformative experi-
those, these are not unscripted discus- ence. It can be very personal.”
sions. They are stories, Israel Stories, It is not political, Mr. Maital said. “We
read onstage.) are not necessarily trying to be an advo-
Israel Story’s first live show was at the cate for Israel. This is not hasbara. But
JCC in Manhattan — most of their per- we bring stories from Israel. We bring
formances are at JCCs and other Jewish the Israeli perspective, whatever that
institutions, and to primarily but not means — both broadening Israelis’ per-
entirely Jewish audiences. spectives and broadening the world’s
At first, Dr. Harman said, “We were perspective on Israel.”
quite concerned. Here we were, com- The fourth founder is Shai Satran,
ing to New York to perform, but people who was working on a graduate degree
could just choose to see “Hamilton” in clinical psychology when the Israel
instead. It didn’t seem that we were Story bug bit.
really offering something that could be a Israel Story’s new production, Mix-
viable option. But then it went very well, tape, tells Israel’s stories through music.
and the audiences were very receptive, “We are exploring underlying tensions
and we came back with that first live within Israeli society through the lens of
show, Herzl 48, many times.” some of Israel’s most iconic songs,” Dr.
The conceit of that show is that Harman said.
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proposition absent a U.S. presence, said north and the regime and its allies from regime, which Russia and Iran have been
Syria Moshe Maoz, Israel’s pre- eminent the south. The concern that this could propping up in the Syrian civil war, trusts
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Syria expert. create a vacuum for I.S. to regain some Russia more than Iran; Assad and his
the Institute for National Security Studies “Israel will have to bomb Iranian posi- strength is not unjustified.” clique remain secularists and are wary of
in Tel Aviv, said Trump’s pronouncements tions in Syria” if Iran establishes a weap- Heather Hurlburt, who directs the New Iran’s religious posturing.
were stirring turmoil in the region. ons supply line to Hezbollah, the Leba- Models of Policy Change initiative at New “I’m not convinced for Iran this is sus-
“It raises fundamental questions not nese militia allied with Iran that is assisting America, a liberal think tank, said the tainable,” he said of Iran’s ambition for
just for Israel, for our Kurdish allies, even Syria, or if it establishes a permanent pres- United States remains too entrenched in a permanent stake in Syria. “They don’t
our adversaries, about whether the United ence in Syria, said Maoz, a professor emer- the region though its various alliances to have allies.” Still, he said, Israel had rea-
States plans to remain in Syria to complete itus at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem. fully disengage. son to be alert to Iranian efforts to transfer
the fight against ISIS and to help prevent “And the danger is that the Russians will “What I assume is happening is that the weapons to Hezbollah, which launched a
an Iranian takeover of those areas that intervene, and Israel needs the backing of connections between the Israeli military war with Israel in 2006.
ISIS has vacated,” he said. The U.S. forces the United States.” and the Pentagon are incredibly tight,” Hiltermann said Israel had cause to be
in Syria are advising and assisting Syrian Russian officials reportedly have told said Hurlburt, a foreign policy speech- unsettled by Trump’s pledges. “The Irani-
Kurdish rebels. ISIS is an acronym for their Israeli counterparts that Israel likely writer in the Clinton administration. ans would benefit most were the United
Islamic State. will have to put up with a permanent Ira- “Those folks are talking to each other; States to remove its footprint.”
Israelis fear that the defeat of the Islamic nian presence in Syria. in terms of what the Israelis need I’m Schanzer said Trump’s promises
State, while welcome, leaves in place Iran, Aymenn Jawad Al-Tamimi, a fellow at the sure that line is open,” she said. “The to pull out were especially jarring for
an enemy, and Russia, a country that is Philadelphia-based Middle East Forum, people in the administration who under- Israel and other allies, who expected
friendly to Israel but whose interests are said a U.S. withdrawal could embolden the stand Israel’s security concerns are Trump to reverse the policy of his pre-
not as aligned with it as the United States’. Islamic State. consoling themselves that they’ve got decessor, Barack Obama, of limiting U.S.
Russia, notably, has been Iran’s de facto “I think the consequences at this stage all the firepower in place if and when involvement in the Syrian conflict — not
ally in Syria. would be very negative for the SDF-held they’re needed.” to advance it to its logical conclusion
The U.S. presence, comparatively, is areas where the U.S. maintains a pres- Joost Hiltermann, the Brussels-based and leave.
limited, but simply by maintaining a pres- ence, particularly as no peace plan has Middle East and North Africa director at “From the Israeli perspective, this is
ence, the United States signals that it has been devised between the SDF and Tur- the Crisis Group, an international think handing over the keys to their backyard to
Israel’s back, thus freeing Israel to take key,” he said, referring to the U.S.-backed tank, said Iran’s influence in Syria may be their mortal enemies,” he said. “Across the
action, as it did in February with airstrikes rebel alliance, the Syrian Democratic overstated. Russia, he said, is in Syria as board this would be an unmitigated disas-
on Iranian targets in Syria after an Iranian Forces. “Indeed, it is possible that there a means of leveraging its influence else- ter and also an unforced error.”
drone entered Israeli airspace. could be an attack on multiple fronts where in the world, and is not invested JTA WIRE SERVICE
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Things were not any better at home. On Forces and the members of the security
Saturday night, Netanyahu released a state- forces who this night are protecting the The debate in Israel over the
ment praising the country’s soldiers for
“guarding the country’s borders and allow-
citizens of the state and are required to
be away from their family Seder tables,”
Palestinian protest and the IDF
ing Israeli citizens to celebrate the holiday he wrote. response is likely to remain at a
quietly.” The following day, Defense Minis-
ter Avigdor Liberman asserted that the sol-
Yair Lapid, head of the centrist Yesh
Atid party, asserted on Facebook that
rolling boil for the next several
diers “did what was necessary” and asserted Israel “has no war with women and chil- weeks as March of Return
there would be no international inquiry into
their actions.
dren. We’re doing everything we can to
avoid hitting civilian populations.”
protests continue and increase.
But an inquiry is precisely what the left Lapid also said that a commission of
wants. Tamar Zandberg, the newly elected inquiry should ask “what would have did not plan the Friday march, but just protests, and three Gaza Palestinians were
head of the left-wing Meretz party, called on happened if instead of investing in ter- joined in as a supporter. arrested Sunday evening for attempting
the government to open an independent ror and death, the Palestinians would Meanwhile, Army Radio host Koby to breach the security fence. Large-scale
investigation into the violence on the Gaza have spent the last 12 years building Meidan grabbed some attention in Israel, protests are in the works again for Friday,
border. She called for “a probe into the rules their economy, civilian life, education, and was suspended, for a Facebook post on and some have threatened that they will go
of engagement and the military and political a health system? Why are they willing Saturday in reference to the previous day’s beyond Gaza. Israeli-Arab lawmaker Ahmed
readiness for the events.” to make their own life, their children’s, violence saying “Today I am ashamed to be Tibi told Army Radio last week that Palestin-
“We must not allow a ‘trigger-happy’ to an ongoing hell just because the most Israeli.” Liberman responded in an inter- ians would breach the fences of West Bank
policy to lead to the loss of innocent important thing to them is to try to kill view that he is “ashamed to have a radio Jewish settlements during the weeks-long
lives,” she also said in statements posted Jews?” host of the type on Army Radio,” and called protest — though “without weapons, in a
on social media. The head of the Arab Joint List party, on Meidan to resign. peaceful way.”
Isaac Herzog, the leader of the Israeli Ayman Odeh, had a different view. He The debate in Israel over the Palestin- And while Hamas has appeared to
opposition and head of the Zionist Union, asserted in an interview on Israel’s 10 ian protest and the IDF response is likely endorse a nonviolent march, Ismail Hani-
was more circumspect in a Facebook post News that Hamas is “under occupa- to remain at a rolling boil for the next sev- yeh, the head of its political bureau and a
on Friday night. tion” and that Israel “closed Gaza, threw eral weeks as March of Return protests con- former Palestinian Authority prime minis-
“Sending strength and encouragement the key into the sea and said ‘We’re not tinue and increase. Clashes continued over ter, indicated that it has not given up its ter-
to all the soldiers of the Israel Defense responsible.’” Odeh also said that Hamas the weekend following the large Friday rorist ways. JTA WIRE SERVICE
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Bank of Israel chief warns Netanyahu freezes deal to resettle African migrants in West
U.S.-China trade war is In a dramatic turnaround, Israeli Prime Minister Ben- an unprecedented deal with the UNHCR to resettle-
jamin Netanyahu has frozen a plan reached with the ment some 16,250 migrants, mostly Sudanese and
‘bad news’ for economy United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees on Eritrean illegal immigrants living in Israel, to various
The governor of the Bank of Israel warned on Thursday the deportation of African migrants just hours after Western countries, with another 18,000 being allowed
that a trade war between the United States and China it was announced. to remain in the state.
would be “bad news for the Israeli economy,” in an inter- “In the last few weeks, following tremendous However, he faced significant criticism from mem-
view with Bloomberg TV. pressure on Rwanda by the New Israel Fund and bers of his right-wing coalition, who said the new deal
Central Bank of Israel Governor Dr. Karnit Flug said, “I elements in the European Union, Rwanda has with- would award those who have broken the law.
think if we go back from free trade this is bad news for drawn from the agreement and refused to absorb Education Minister Naftali Bennett said that “grant-
the global economy, and it’s certainly bad news for small, infiltrators from Israel who are forcibly removed. ing legal status to 16,000 infiltrators will turn Israel
open economies such as Israel’s … I think we all benefit Due to this, I decided to strive for a new agreement into a paradise for infiltrators and is a surrender to the
from free trade.” that would allow us to continue deporting the infil- false campaign spread in the media in recent months.
She also referred to the strengthening Israeli shekel, trators,” Netanyahu said in a Facebook post. By signing this agreement, we are sending a danger-
which she said was a reflection of the fundamentals of “However, I am attentive to you, and first and ous message to the whole world: Whoever succeeds in
Israel’s economy. foremost to the residents of southern Tel Aviv,” infiltrating Israel illegally will get a prize of legal resi-
According to Bloomberg, the shekel grew 3.6 percent in the Netanyahu said, referring to the neighborhood that dence here or a Western country.”
final quarter of 2017. It further attributed the shekel’s strength is home to many of the migrants, which has been The previous plan, which was due to go into effect
to the monetary policy of the European Central Bank. plagued by crime and complaints from long-term on Sunday, would have seen Israel expel migrants to
While the U.S. Federal Reserve has begun to raise inter- residents. “Therefore, I decided to meet, together African countries such as Rwanda. That earlier pol-
est rates, Flug noted that Israel’s policy would only be with Interior Minister Aryeh Deri, with representa- icy, which offered each migrant $3,500 and a plane
guided by local conditions. tives of the residents of southern Tel Aviv tomorrow ticket, was widely condemned by activists and the
The Bank of Israel has kept its key interest rate at an all- [Wednesday] morning.” United Nations, and had been delayed by a Supreme
time low of 0.1 percent for the past three years “In the meantime, I am suspending the implemen- Court ruling.
“I think that tighter monetary policy, to the extent that tation of the agreement, and after I meet with the According to a report by the Population and Immi-
it reflects better economic performance in the U.S., is representatives, I will bring the agreement to a new gration Authority, some 34,187 Sudanese and Eritrean
good news for the Israeli economy,” she said. “But gener- examination.” nationals are illegally in Israel, some of whom are
ally, our policy is based on developments here.” JNS.ORG Earlier on Monday, Netanyahu’s office announced seeking political asylum. JNS.ORG
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the chief rabbi of England.
Friedmann concedes that museums do not play
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“We’re introducing the legitimacy and the
power that a museum can bring as an educational
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Amud Aish also has the papers of Mike Tress, a
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lady Eleanor Roosevelt and officials at the State a Lublin Yeshiva student who fled to Vilna. the Amud Aish Memorial Museum in Brooklyn.
Department. Reidel said his grandfather violated
the prohibition against travel on the Sabbath Breckenridge Long, an assistant secretary at the State heroic job of reuniting these children with the Jewish
because his mission involved “pikuach nefesh,” the saving of Department, was convinced of the gravity of the situa- people, there is what he termed “an interesting value
a human soul. tion because these Orthodox Jews were willing to violate tension” when considering what was in the best inter-
One Saturday Tress joined Jacob Rosenheim, president of their Sabbath, and he intervened. Kotler made it out of ests of the child in such situations.
the umbrella group for Orthodox Jewry, Agudath Israel, at the the Soviet Union and went on to found Beth Medrash Another challenge is grappling with the dynamics of
State Department. They were desperate to get a visa to the Govoha in New Jersey, also known as the Lakewood the Holocaust’s impact on religious belief.
U.S. Embassy in Moscow for Rabbi Aharon Kotler, an Ortho- Yeshiva, which is thought to be the largest yeshiva in “If they tell the story of Jews who preserved their faith
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oration of Yom Hashoah We know that anti-Semitism
— Holoc aust Remem- never dies; sometimes it’s just onight (Friday, April 6, 2018), families when we invite the invisible prophet Elijah to
brance Day. a blistering ember, sometimes and friends will gather in many Jewish enter our homes to sip some wine from “his”
For the next week or so, the it’s full-on hatred, but it’s always homes around the world to drink four cup. While people usually sing the “Eliyahu Ha-
community will offer a range of there. It’s resurfacing in Europe — cups of wine, eat some matzah and navi” song at that moment, it does not appear in
speakers and exhibits. read about the hideous murder of other special foods, sing some songs, and pray traditional haggadot. The words that do appear,
It used to be that it seemed to Holocaust survivor Mireille Knoll for our redemption finally to be complete with and should be recited and discussed, are these:
be easy to get survivors to speak. elsewhere in this paper — and even the coming of the messianic age. “Pour out Your wrath, O Lord, on those
But perhaps easy is the wrong in the United States. (Remember No, this column is not being published a week nations whose actions and deeds deny Your
word to use in this context. Many Charlottesville, and its chant of late. For possibly as long as the last 200 years ways, as they demonstrate a total disregard for
survivors could not talk about “Jews will not divide us.”) It is not or so, the beginning of the eighth day of Pesach, human life and human dignity, and as they seek
what happened to them for the main current running through Passover, has been marked in chasidic com- to subdue and dominate and enslave. Pour out
decades. Later, some of them did this country — it’s just a tiny munities worldwide by a special meal known Your anger upon them and let Your raging fury
begin to tell their stories — some shunted-off line leading to some as se’udat ha-mashiach, the “messiah’s feast,” catch them. Chase them in anger and vanquish
kind of internal dam broke for godforsaken wilderness — but it’s which includes elements of the seder. Tradition them from under God’s heaven.”
some of them, and they found here. We can’t afford to forget it. attributes the origin of the feast There are other words in the
some momentary balm in talking. Something else that we get from to Rabbi Israel ben Eliezer, the seder that also get short shrift, or
For others, it hurt every time they the importance of stories on Yom founder of chasidism known pop- no shrift, that relate to the “Pour
told the story, but it hurt even Hashoah is the importance of ularly as the Ba’al Shem Tov (the out Your wrath” text:
more to think about them going stories. We understand far more “master of the good name”). “In every generation, a person is
untold. It was a debt they owed about the horror of the Holocaust As Yitzchak Schochet, rabbi of required to see himself [or herself ]
the dead, some of them came to from highly specific first-hand Mill Hill United Synagogue in Lon- as if he [or she] personally came
feel; passing the story on is the accounts than we do from larger, don, explained it, “while belief in out of Egypt.” That is because we
only way to make its happening more impersonal histories. Stories Mashiach is a cardinal tenet of the must forever keep up our guard.
again less likely. (Never impossi- give us the chance to imagine what Jewish faith…, abstract belief is not Our redemption was not complete
ble, we all know. But significantly we would do, how we would react, enough. Our awareness must be Shammai when we left Egypt. The universal
less likely.) how we would feel. It is not at all translated into action.” Just as the Engelmayer message of the Exodus is that injus-
But there used to be many sur- comfortable to imagine yourself seder’s special foods and rituals are tice and intolerance have no place
vivors — particularly here, in this as a Jew during the Holocaust, in meant to help us recreate the Exo- in our world, yet they are still with
area — and there always were a concentration camp, in a death dus vicariously, he wrote, “by partaking of this us. Also still with us — although people do not
some who could and would talk. march, and the truth is that none special meal on the last night, and ingesting the want to acknowledge it — are the specific acts of
Now, though, that’s changing of us who has not been there can food, [it] helps to internalize the … yearning for injustice and intolerance that Egypt directed at
again. There are fewer and fewer know what we would do. There Mashiach…. Having recited the words ‘Next year us, the People Israel, the Jewish people. If we are
survivors left, and none of them are some things whose reality we in Jerusalem’ at the conclusion of the Seder, it is not prepared to stand up against the anti-Semi-
are young. Eventually, there will cannot imagine, and in fact we incumbent upon us all to turn that dream into tism that seems to be getting more pronounced
be none. Then all we will have should not try to imagine, because reality.” every day, God certainly will not act for us.
left is the stories they have told if we really were capable of imagin- The custom derives from the haftarah, the That is one of the messages in the Torah read-
us, the evidence they left behind. ing them as they were, in their full prophetic reading we recite on the morning of ing in synagogues this morning, Pesach Day
We will have their voices archived horror, we would go insane with the eighth day (meaning tomorrow morning). 7 (and it, too, gets short shrift nowadays). The
in the institutions founded and terror and despair. It would be Taken from Isaiah (10:32-12:6), it describes the Egyptian host is bearing down on the Israelites.
funded by such visionaries as Ste- the flip side of Moshe shielding his age of the messiah, when “the wolf shall dwell The people cry out for deliverance, but God says
ven Spielberg. But we won’t have eyes and sheltering in the rock lest with the lamb, the leopard will lie down with the to Moses, “Why do you cry out to Me? Tell the
them, their physical presence, he see the full glory of God as God kid…, with a little boy to herd them.” Israelites to go forward.”
the unassailable truth of their passed by him. There are things The theme of this “messiah’s feast” originates In other words, tell them to go forward into
experiences and their losses and that human beings should not see. in the seder itself, however, although that text the not-yet-parted sea.
their pain, and also their indomi- A s t h i s Yo m H a s h o a h is either completely passed over by many, or The message is clear: God will intervene on
table spirit and their understand- approaches, we offer our aston- is recited without comment or thought. That our behalf, but only if we act first. Which is why,
ing of what the human body and ished gratitude to the survivors, is because it is encased in a moment of “fun,” “In every generation, a person is required to see
soul can bear, their understand- both those who can talk about
ing of the role of luck and timing what they endured and those who Shammai Engelmayer is rabbi of Temple Israel Community Center | Congregation Heichal Yisrael in Cliffside
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First Amendment, and we think our redemption is
somehow complete. We ignore the reality that is right abbi Neil Gillman, gifted and beloved teacher,
before our eyes. for 46 years professor of philosophy at the
According to the Anti-Defamation League, for exam- Jewish Theological Seminary of America, for-
ple, the swastika is considered to be “the most signifi- merly dean of its rabbinical school, leading
cant and notorious of hate symbols, anti-Semitism, theologian, and passionate advocate for sophisticated
and white supremacy for most of the world….” Swas- theological inquiry by both rabbis and the adult laity of
tikas have no place in our world, yet they keep show- the American Jewish community, died this past Novem-
ing up. In October, a swastika was spray-painted on ber at the age of 84.
the outside wall of a Rutgers University residence hall. Throughout the time I was in residence at JTS’s New
In November, one was carved into the ground in a New York campus, as both an undergraduate and then in rab-
Jersey playground. Two weeks ago on Friday night, a binical school, I made sure to study with Rabbi Gillman
Holocaust memorial in Lakewood and the synagogue every year, frequently both semesters (and occasionally
adjacent to it had swastikas smeared on their walls. during the summer term). Introduction to Jewish philos-
There are many other such incidents. ophy, methodologies in Jewish philosophy, philosophy
Then there is Charlottesville. Last August, the city of Conservative Judaism, theology of the liturgy — each
sought to remove from public ground a statue of course was a treat and a source of illumination, as Rabbi
Robert E. Lee, because it was seen as a symbol of the Gillman engaged, entertained, inspired, and guided his
oppression of blacks in the Old South. This led to a students in articulating a personal theology, a philoso-
“Unite the Right” rally that had less to do with blacks or phy of Jewish observance, an understanding of Jewish
Robert E. Lee that it had to do with Jew-hatred. Swasti- history, and a thoughtful approach to the big questions Rabbi Neil Gillman
kas and brown shirts emblazoned with swastika arm- — God, revelation, redemption, Israel, chosen-ness, evil,
bands and Hitler quotes were ubiquitous, as were anti- human suffering, the hereafter. I shared Rabbi Gillman’s words with family and guests
Jewish slogans, such as “Jews will not replace us” and My gratitude for his instruction and friendship is in at our seder. If, indeed, “hope is a theological category,”
“Jews are Satan’s children.” Neo-Nazi websites even no way diminished by the fact that our personal theolo- as my teacher taught, it is a category absolutely cen-
urged protestors to burn down the local synagogue, gies differed dramatically. Rabbi Gillman served as my tral to the Passover experience. Hope frames the seder.
Congregation Beth Israel. personal adviser, mentoring me through an indepen- We begin with “L’shanah ha-ba’ah b’nei chorin!” and
As the ADL National Director Jonathan Greenblatt dent major (and thesis) in liturgy for my B.A. As I have we conclude with “L’shanah ha-ba’ah b’Yerushalayim”
noted, “This [demonstration allegedly] is an agenda pointed out on a number of occasions, the only semi- — “Next year in Jerusalem.” When activists wished to
about celebrating the enslavement of Africans and nary faculty member with whom I spent more time, and raise consciousness about Jews persecuted in the Soviet
their descendants, and celebrating those that then who has had a more profound impact on Union, they introduced “The matzah of
fought to preserve that terrible machine of white my thinking and on the course of my life… hope” to our 1970s seders.
supremacy and human enslavement…. And yet, some- was the one I married. (I was, however, This year, there is no intermediate Sab-
how, they’re all wearing shirts that talk about Adolf discreetly exempted from my newlywed bath (Shabbat chol ha-moed Pesach)
Hitler.” bride’s required Bible course.) because the first and eighth days of the
Swastikas are only part of the story. According to As Passover approached for the first time festival coincide with Shabbat. This ren-
the ADL, the number of anti-Semitic incidents in the since his death, I felt my teacher’s absence ders chol ha-moed (the festival’s interme-
United States in 2017 set a record by rising nearly 60 profoundly. So as to revisit the many cher- diate days) an entirely weekday affair. The
percent over 2016. Incidents were reported in all 50 ished hours I spent under his tutelage (and haftarah that would be chanted on Shab-
states, something that had not happened in at least simultaneously so as adequately to prepare bat chol ha-moed, however, is taken from
10 years. for my role as a seder leader), I re-read a Rabbi Joseph Ezekiel. It is the vision of the dry bones.
This is a trend that is worldwide. A couple of weeks commentary he had written on the Pass- H. Prouser Ezekiel laments “avdah tikvateinu” — “Our
ago, it led to the murder in Paris of an 85-year-old over Haggadah. In his reflections on the hope is lost” (Ezekiel 19:5. The most famous
Holocaust survivor, Mireille Knoll. Police said she was passage “Ha lachma anya,” toward the midrash on this verse is to be found in the
killed because she was a Jew. beginning of the seder, Rabbi Gillman focused on the defiant words of Hatikvah (“The Hope”), the national
The year 2017 also saw a record number of anti- phrase “L’shanah ha-ba’ah b’nei chorin!” — “Next year, anthem of the State of Israel: “Od lo avdah tikvateinu” —
Semitic incidents in Britain, higher than any year since may we be free.” His commentary (written years ago, “Our hope is NOT lost!”
such statistics began to be kept there in 1984. It may when he was in good health) struck me as particularly Like the dry bones in Ezekiel’s vision, the Jewish peo-
have been this sharp rise that prompted this comment poignant, especially in light of his death after a long and ple defied death and overcame losses that appeared
by Prime Minister Theresa May in her Passover mes- difficult illness: insurmountable and defining, and some 70 years ago
sage last week: “L’shanah ha-ba’ah b’nei chorin. This is the ultimate miraculously took on new life as a sovereign state in its
The “Exodus from Egypt,” she said, “did not mark eschatological hope. Hope is a theological category. historic land, precisely “when all indications counseled
the end of anti-Semitic persecution. For millennia, the Not the everyday kind of hope that I will pass my exam, despair, when the statistics were against us…. Yet, in
descendants of those Moses led to freedom have con- or that the Red Sox will win the pennant, but what we the face of all this, there surged within us hope … hope
tinued to face hatred, discrimination, and violence. can call ‘hope against hope’ — hope when all the indi- against our better instincts.” Historic Zionism was pre-
It’s a situation that continues to this day, including, I’m cations counsel despair, when the statistics are against cisely “hope against hope.”
sad to say, here in Britain.”
Those in the chasidic world who tonight will sit
you, when the diagnosis suggests that all is lost. Yet, in
the face of all this, there surges within us hope… hope
Hope is a theological category woven throughout our
observance of Passover. We hope in the future, even as
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down to their seder-like seudat ha-mashiach under- against our better instincts.” we look back at our distant past and strive to re-create
stand the consequences of complacency. Perhaps all Of course, Rabbi Gillman, even if uniquely com- and relive the experience.
of us need to partake in “the messiah’s feast,” as well. pelling in his presentation, was not entirely original The defiant hope that opens the Haggadah can seem
in his approach to “hope against hope,” an insight a bit less defiant to 21st-century American Jews, living as
anticipated by a variety of religious thinkers. G. K. we do with freedom, civil liberties, social acceptance,
The opinions expressed in this section Chesterton, the British theologian who was a convert and legal enfranchisements our ancestors could not
are those of the authors, not necessarily those of the
to Roman Catholicism, said, “Hope means hoping have imagined. Gratefully, “L’shanah ha-ba’ah b’nei cho-
newspaper’s editors, publishers, or other staffers.
when everything seems hopeless.” The Rev. Dr. Mar- rin” — “Next year may we be free” — hardly constitutes
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pointment, but never lose infinite hope.” SEE GILLMAN PAGE 39
I
n his March 23 response to my opin- constituted the majority in cities: Jaffa, The call to annex the territo- policies. Because of the poor
ion piece of March 2, Rabbi Robert Haifa, Lod and Ramle, Hebron, Nablus and ries has grown louder among state of the pipelines link-
Wolkoff posed some serious chal- Ramallah, and they inhabited hundreds right-wing politicians. ing Palestinian communi-
lenges to my assertion that the of smaller towns and villages. By 1945, ties and also of the water
Israeli occupation of the West Bank and 1.3 million Arabs and 600,000 Jews lived 3. Checkpoints and other grids within Palestinian cit-
East Jerusalem involves serious human within the borders of Mandate Palestine. limitations on Palestinians’ ies and villages, about one-
rights violations. What follows are some of freedom of movement are third of all water supplied
his assertions and my responses. 2. We could question whether the occu- essential for reasons of to the Palestinian Authority
Rabbi Wolkoff’s piece was written in the pation is really an occupation at all. security. is lost due to leakage. Israel
spirit of “makhloket leshem shamayim,” Even before the resistance to the occu- Certainly Israel has secu- Rabbi has refused PA proposals
— the understanding that a controversy pation began, Israel began to construct rity concerns and the sep- Aryeh Meir to repair the pipeline infra-
for Heaven’s sake has lasting value (Avot, Jewish settlements and an elaborate infra- aration barrier has been structure. As a result, West
ch. 5) — and I trust that my response will structure in territories they conquered effective in minimizing the Bank Palestinians live with a
continue a respectful dialogue, one that in the Six-Day war in 1967. The desire to incursion of terrorists. However, security constant water shortage. At least 180 Pal-
should be more a part of the Jewish com- expand the territory controlled by Israel should not trump the numerous human estinian communities with a population
munal agenda. was a product of two factors: Israel’s need rights violations that Israel has committed of 30,000 people have been prevented
for more defensible borders, and the push over the many years of occupation. This from connecting to the water grid. They
1. When exactly did it (the occupied from far-right nationalist and messianic has not been (and by definition cannot be) are forced to purchase water from tank-
territories) become their (the Palestin- groups, such as Gush Emunim, to take pos- a humane occupation. ers year round. Average water consump-
ians’) land? session of “the Greater Land of Israel,” the tion in these communities is 20 liters per
There is no “exactly” here. Arabs have biblical land of Israel, whose eastern bor- 4. Because of Israel, Palestinians have day, way below the WHO recommended
been living in Eretz Israel/Palestine for der would be the Jordan River. more water and better water than they minimum of 100 liters. This water often is
hundreds of years. Many migrated to For more than half a century, the Israel ever had before. not safe due to poor sanitary conditions in
the area from surrounding lands and military has occupied those lands and This is another myth. The truth is that the tankers. In area C, Israel forbids even
established hundreds of villages in what ruled over the lives of their Palestinian Israel has control of all water resources in the digging of cisterns for collecting rain-
it now the West Bank, Gaza, and Israel residents. The Israeli government has tried the land between the sea and the Jordan water. Why are the areas around Israeli
proper. In 1948 those Arabs represented a to normalize the occupation and to trans- River. Both the West Bank and Gaza suf- settlements bathed in green while the sur-
demographic majority. Palestinian Arabs form the territories into a region of Israel. fer water shortages as a result of Israeli rounding Arab villages are subject to water
T
his year, as last year, the Jew- “We have to hide the signs of our Juda- the two suspects arrested for attacked French anti-Semi-
ish community in France spent ism — kipot, Magen David necklaces,” said her killing already have been tism and Islamist anti-Sem-
Passover in the shadow of the Mickaël, who has lived there for 15 years. charged with an anti-Semitic itism, has spotlighted the
brutal murder of a vulnerable, “We trim our beards short, and we don’t hate crime. thematic overlaps between
elderly Jewish woman living on her own in wear our tzitzit on the outside.” A Jewish Why the contrast? Perhaps anti-Semitism and anti-Zion-
public housing. shopkeeper confessed that he was forced the most significant factor ism, and has declared his
She survived the Holocaust, but not a to keep his door locked most of the time. here, tragically, is timing. solidarity with the country’s
murderer in Paris. “There are many suspicious people trying When Dr. Halimi was mur- 465,000-strong Jewish com-
On March 23, 85-year-old Mireille Knoll to get in,” he explained. “We’ll see what dered, the French elections munity — pointing out, as
was stabbed to death and her apart- the future brings.” were a few weeks away and Ben Cohen have many others, that such
ment set on fire by two intruders, one But there is also a major difference a good portion of the French a modest number belies
of whom is alleged to have shouted the between the two murders. Dr. Halimi’s media decided, with charac- the true nature of the Jew-
words “Allahu Akhbar” before plunging death was barely noticed for weeks and teristic hubris, that reporting her ordeal ish contribution to France over the past
the weapon into his victim. Last year, on months by the media in France and would boost the fortunes of the far-right millennium.
April 4, 65-year-old Dr. Sarah Halimi was abroad. But Mrs. Knoll’s death — and the presidential candidate, Marine Le Pen. This was the changed environment into
badly beaten and then ejected from the ensuing demonstration against anti-Semi- So for weeks, virtually nothing was said which the news of Mrs. Knoll’s murder
window of her third-floor apartment by tism less than a week later that brought a about a murder notable for its chilling emerged last week. Her killing took place
an intruder, a young Malian-born Islamist, crowd of nearly 30,000 onto the streets of level of violence, as well as the incompe- on the same day that a heroic police officer
who bellowed the word “Satan” at his vic- Paris — has been front-page news for the tent response of the police and judicial and three hostages were shot dead by an
tim during the ordeal. New York Times, The Washington Post, authorities. “I waited seven weeks before Islamist terrorist during a siege at a super-
There are some obvious similarities the BBC and every single media outlet in I said anything,” Dr. Halimi’s brother, Wil- market in southern France. And when
between these two atrocities. Both Dr. France. (We write about it this week on liam Attal, later grieved. Macron delivered his speech at the moving
Halimi and Mrs. Knoll had close family page 10.) The decisive victory over by Le Pen by national tribute on Tuesday to Col. Arnaud
nearby, but they lived alone. Both of them In Dr. Halimi’s case, several French centrist candidate Emmanuel Macron in Beltrame, the slain gendarme, he noted that
lived in the 11th Arrondissement in east- officials scandalously tried to deny the May 2017 was therefore the most important Mrs. Knoll — “murdered because she was
ern Paris, where many other elderly Jews anti-Semitic nature of her murder on outside development upon the Halimi case Jewish” — was a victim of the same “barbaric
in similar circumstances remain among a the grounds of her assailant’s supposed — and in many ways, explains the radically obscurantism.”
much larger community of Muslims from mental illness, despite the fact that he is different response to Mrs. Knoll’s fate. As historically significant as these state-
the Maghreb and West Africa. Indeed, resi- a known petty criminal who growled the Within weeks of his election, Macron ments certainly are, the situation is akin to
dents in the neighborhood told a Paris TV words “dirty Jewess” when passing Dr. solemnly recognized that Dr. Halimi had the shattering late discovery by investigators
station after Mrs. Knoll’s murder that they Halimi on the stairwell. In Mrs. Knoll’s been a victim of anti-Semitic hatred. Since that a series of previously unlinked mur-
live in fear. case, there has been no such dispute, and then, the French president frequently has ders were actually committed by the same
Gillman
FROM PAGE 37
rotation? Because Israel’s national water company pro- regarding a strategy that will improve their prospects Similarly, the defiant hope inherent in the later mes-
vides water to Jordan Valley settlements while Palestin- for a brighter future. Most “Palestinians also believe that sage of the seder can seem a bit less defiant to 21st-
ian villages must buy water from rusty tank trucks. Israel’s long-term aspirations are to extend its borders century American Jews, living as we do with the real-
to include all territories occupied in 1967 and expel the ity of a free, proud, powerful, and sovereign State of
5. When Rabbi Meir writes that Palestinians cannot inhabitants or deny them their political rights.” (Shikaki). Israel celebrating 70 years of independence. “L’shanah
participate in the political process that determines As frustration with the lack of progress increases, the ha-ba’ah b’Yerushalayim” — “Next year in Jerusalem”
the future of this geographic area he is precisely support for violent resistance increases. — hardly constitutes the “hope against hope” it repre-
wrong. sented for countless earlier generations, notwithstand-
The basic fact is that Palestinians — under occupation, 7. The Israeli occupation is a moral occupation. ing the very real challenges and abiding dangers con-
lacking Israeli citizenship — cannot participate in the one There is nothing moral about this occupation. There is fronting the Jewish State.
government that controls their everyday lives, the gov- nothing moral about home demolitions, administrative Nevertheless, in these troubled times, Passover
ernment of Israel. Under occupation, Palestinians have detention, expulsion of communities, road closures, and remains a time for “‘hope against hope’ — hope when all
no vote and no representation in the Israeli government denial of the right to compensation caused by security the indications counsel despair, when the statistics are
that oversees the military occupation. The fact that Pal- forces. (B’tselem). There is nothing moral about con- against you, when the diagnosis suggests that all is lost.”
estinians can vote in Palestinian elections is irrelevant trolling the lives and destinies of millions of people and Such defiant hope found expression at seder tables
to this point, since the elected leaders of the PA do not denying Palestinians basic human rights (freedom of where thoughtful families, friends, and communi-
control the lives of Palestinians under occupation. The movement, property rights) afforded to Jewish residents ties related the memory of slavery, displacement,
Israeli military authorities do. of the same occupied territories. Because of the inherent and liberation to the plight of immigrants and the ill-
discrimination between those with full rights and those treatment of refugees, both in the United States and
6. The majority of Palestinians would prefer leaders whose rights are limited, occupation of another people in Israel.
who are more supportive of violence. A majority of cannot by definition be considered moral. Such defiant hope found expression at seder tables
Palestinians, according to polls, support violence. I thank Rabbi Wolkoff for his thoughtful response, and where thoughtful families, friends, and communities
This is extremely complicated. Professor Shikaki’s look forward to continuing the dialogue with any and reflected on the lack of civility in public discourse.
2016 poll concluded that “in the absence of negotia- all readers. Such defiant hope found expression at seder tables
tions 60% [of Palestinians] support the return to armed where thoughtful families, friends, and communities
intifada. An identical percentage supports peaceful Rabbi Aryeh Meir of Teaneck is on the faculty of the voiced profound concern at religious leaders, move-
popular resistance. This points to Palestinian frustration Academy for Jewish Religion and is chairperson of the ments, and institutions that seem to have lost their
and anger with their reality and to their ambivalence Teaneck Environmental Commission. way, cynically sacrificing moral principle and clar-
ity on the altar of political expediency or political
correctness.
The challenge, of course, is to translate such defi-
ant hopes (as pioneered decades ago by the “matzah
of hope”) into meaningful and transformative action
throughout the year, once our seders have concluded
and our Haggadot are back on the shelf.
Rabbi Gillman, also a prolific and eloquent author, iden-
tifies the way forward. Among his most impactful theologi-
cal works are “Shattered Fragments: Recovering Theology
for the Modern Jew,” “Doing Jewish Theology: God, Torah
& Israel in Modern Judaism,” “The Way into Encounter-
ing God in Judaism,” and “The Death of Death: Resurrec-
tion and Immortality in Jewish Thought.” In “The Death
of Death,” Rabbi Gillman reflects:
“The moral quality of the life I lead here on earth is of
importance to God, and … God will hold me responsible
for that life. But moral issues are complex, and human
motivations are obscure. I then forego my right to pass
judgment on my fellow human beings. That judgment I
am prepared to leave in God’s hands, convinced as I am
that, in the words of the liturgical formula I recite upon
hearing of a death, God’s judgment is always true. That
is my hope. That is my expectation.”
In our shared study of the liturgy so many years
ago, Rabbi Gillman also placed special emphasis on
the fact that the Passover Haggadah (through its final
song, “Chad Gadya”) concludes with God destroying
the Angel of Death. Despite his much lamented death,
Rabbi Gillman’s call for moral conduct in the service
Marchers honor the memory of Holocaust survivor Mireille Knoll, 85, who was murdered March 23 in a of God, and a faith strong enough to inspire non-judg-
brutal anti-Semitic attack. EUROPEAN JEWISH PRESS mental piety, is very much alive, and continues daily
to fire the imaginations of the countless disciples and
person. Since 2006, when the young cell-phone salesman identify anti-Semitism as the serial killer responsible for admirers whose hearts and minds he touched through-
Ilan Halimi was kidnapped and murdered by a largely all these crimes of hate. Those who admit grimly that this out his life.
Muslim gang who seized him on the conviction that “all represents a form of progress are probably right. JNS.ORG Will that vision, in the end, prevail in our communi-
Jews are rich,” France has witnessed hundreds of assaults ties and in our troubled world?
and home robberies alongside these shameful murders of Ben Cohen writes a weekly column Jewish affairs and We can only hope.
Jews. In the end, it took the slaying of a woman who sur- Middle Eastern politics. His work has been published in
vived the July 1942 Vel d’Hiv Nazi deportation of the Jews Commentary, the New York Post, Haaretz, the Wall Street Joseph Prouser is the rabbi of Temple Emanuel of North
of Paris — the widow of a survivor of Auschwitz no less — to Journal, and many other publications. Jersey in Franklin Lakes.
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I
have to be honest with you…I hammered together. Now what he did
wrote this column over a year ago. when he left the house is another story,
It was never printed, so I decided but to make a long story short again, he
to resurrect it. You see, many of turned our do-it-yourself headboard into
you may be home for the Passover holi- a real headboard. So much for saving
day, and I hope you will be reading my money, but at least I am no longer afraid
column. But, many of you are away for that son #3 is going to be impaled by one
the Passover holiday. So I decided that of the really long nails that I had ham-
since I wrote about my failures with son mered into the very thin wood.
#3 last week, that I will take the oppor- And for the record, son #3 is the
tunity to use this week to demonstrate only kid still living in the house, so he
how seriously I take being son #3’s gets lots and lots of attention. He gets
mother. And then next week, I can use his dinner driven to TABC at least two
this forum to make fun of all the things nights a week, and gets away with lots
I have witnessed while being away for of other stuff we don’t need to go into.
Passover. It is really a win- And he really is fun to go
win. Unless you don’t like shopping with because
or read my column and then he hasn’t inherited his
this will just be appearing on father’s Monsey gene
the floor of a bird or gerbil (and for those of you from
cage near you… Monsey, you know what I
So this column will be am talking about).
dedicated to son #3, and I Son #3 was our faithful
will tell you the tale of the companion on our trip
headboard fiasco of 2017. to Israel last winter vaca-
Per square inch, son #3 Banji tion (2017). He helped
has the nicest room in the Ganchrow Husband #1 navigate with
Across Down
house. I say per square inch Israeli Waze, he made all
1. Adidas alternative 1. Larson’s “The ___ Side”
because it is also the small- of our day trips highly
5. Four-time Australian Open cham- 2. Ex-dictator Amin
pion Andre 3. Franchise operator est room in the house, but when you are entertaining, and he only made one judg-
11. Like how Aleve and Advil are sold, 4. Jewelry location, perhaps the last to arrive, you get the last avail- mental face at all of the chocolate that I
briefly 5. Notable PED user able room. In order to make access to the was consuming (but can you blame me,
14. Court term, for 5-Across 6. Neighbor of Aus. high riser easier for his old mom (since some of that stuff is kosher only in Israel.
15. Fill an Uzi again 7. The youngest Haim sister
I have enabled all of my boys to know A girl’s gotta do what she’s gotta do!) And
16. Nes Gadol Haya ___ 8. Former Seattle basketball player,
17. “Spaceballs” star born April 18, 1953 for short that mom will do everything for them), he even slept over at Sha’alavim one
19. Samuel’s High Priest teacher 9. “Thus ___ the L-rd” we moved his night table against the wall night so he could bond with his brother.
20. City east of Tel Aviv 10. Driver’s lic. and others and the bed next to the night table. This There is always that fine line of being
21. Secondary hoops event, familiarly 11. “Aida” and “Carmen” way, anytime he has a friend sleep over, I a parent to your kid and a friend to your
22. Larson who won an Oscar 12. “L’chaim!”
don’t have to shlep the night table across kid. I am the first to admit that I cross
23. “Lou Grant” actor Ed 13. Travis Kelce and Kareem Hunt’s team
25. “Scrubs” star born April 6, 1975 18. Big name in candy bars the room to pull out the bed. (Of course, the line a lot. I am convinced that the
27. Rosa Parks gained fame in one 22. Slowed, in a car since son #2 has been away, his room has relationship you have with your chil-
28. Make like Mikaela Shiffrin 23. Attorneys’ org. become a dormitory, but that is another dren is entirely based on the relation-
30. Applies less pressure, with ‘up’ 24. Predicate’s counterpart, grammati- story altogether and I am only allowed to ship you had with your parents. I never
31. Facilitate, as a felon cally (abbr.)
speak of son #3 this week.) thought my parents (well my mom spe-
33. Org. that ranked 5-Across 25. Acne, slangily
35. “A mouse!” 26. Burger meat, often OK, so we move everything around cifically, sorry mom) was my friend. Of
36. “Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee” 29. Strikeout symbols, in baseball and then we discover that his pillows course now she sort of is my friend in
star born April 29, 1954 32. Stanley Cup, e.g. keep falling off his bed and he really a very unusual and codependent way.
41. Some kosher symbols 34. Liveliness needs a headboard. Easy, right? No. (Good save, right?) But growing up
42. Debater’s position, sometimes 35. Hall-of-Famer Slaughter
Because they didn’t seem to make the — not so much. So I try to be my kids’
43. Bucks’ mates 37. Region bordering the Rhine
45. It comes before a bet? 38. Persia, now headboard that we were looking for. friend. Sometimes it works and some-
48. Cleopatra biter 39. They’re often boiled alive Long story short, son #3 and I decided times it doesn’t. But I have to say, son
50. Letters avoided by kosher keepers 40. Pastrami purveyor to make our own headboard. We went #3 is a great son and a great grandson.
51. “The Interview” star born April 15, 44. Jump or Wall: Abbr. to AC Moore and bought some pieces of And if I forgot to mention him, it isn’t
1982 45. Italicized
wood. We get home and I hammer the because I don’t love him with all of my
55. “Ready Player One” locale, with 46. Rented out, as an apartment
“the” 47. Engraves with acid pieces together and voila — a headboard. heart, it is because I have narcissistic
57. Running back Eddie 49. Serve, as coffee Sort of. Now there is a whole not-spend- personality disorder. And admitting it
58. Higher power, to many 52. Shrek’s mishpacha ing-money-element to the story, and is a great first step. Love you kid…Enjoy
59. Executive, slangily 53. Soccer scores here we thought if we did it ourselves, the headboard.
60. Shade of blonde 54. Disorient
we would save money. But then I had
61. “‘Til Death” star born April 14, 1960 56. Network showing a television show,
65. AKA alternative e.g. the great idea to call Dani Faber, who is Banji Ganchrow of Teaneck hopes that
66. Fed head Janet 59. Right-minded this amazing carpenter who had fixed son #3 will appreciate this additional
67. Cupid, by a Greek name 61. “Shalom” my cracking piano legs a few years back. shoutout. Next week, hold on to your
68. 57-Across got 13 of ‘em in ‘14 62. Ike’s title, before being Pres. The nicest thing about Dani? He didn’t cynical horses, because they will be
69. Ancient Jewish monastic 63. “Mazel ___ !”
laugh at us when he saw what we had galloping all over the place!
70. Bat mitzvah request? 64. “Joy of Cooking” abbr.
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the issue of prenuptial agree- August 12, weekdays from 9:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. (The six show The Jewish Home Family
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