10 Steps for an Orgasmic

Yoni Massage
 Dear Lover,
I am Mariah, your Sexual Empowerment Coach and I realized throughout my journey as a coach that, in a
founder of beducated.com. I thrive on helping you grow similar way to a stiff neck, a pussy needs attention and
through pleasure into fulfilment. massages too. Many Yoni owners store a lot of emotional
tension inside their vulva. When we don’t take care of
I wouldn’t be where I am today without the powerful
those tensions, the Yoni tends to become numb over
experience of Yoni Massage. Today, I feel sexually
time.
confident as a woman, I experience magical orgasms
whenever I want to; I feel more, and I know what I want. I found that the best way of releasing this tension is
That wasn’t always the case. through the practice of Yoni Massage. I hope that this
book brings you closer to what you want to experience,
In the past, I had a tendency for frigidity, and sexual
and to feel holistically fulfilled and deeply connected,
encounters were more for the benefit of my partners
with your self, your sexual self, and your partner
than for my pleasure (let alone spiritual evolution!). I
didn’t get much out of it. I felt numb. I was disconnected.
Sexually sad.

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 What's This About?
A Tantric Yoni Massage (pronounced Yo-nee) is a very
sacred practice. Translated from Sanskrit Yoni means the
massage of the sacred temple. Why sacred? Because the
tantrics looked upon the vagina as a holy symbol, the
entrance to the Universe.
You can also look at it as a holistic “vaginal massage”. It
helps to release sexual traumas, frigidity and increases
sexual pleasure. Orgasmic potential gives a woman in
control of it the opportunity to connect with her inner
essence, her feminine being! It works on the physical,
emotional and mental levels and can transform a
women’s view of herself, as well as her sexual being.
To help you give a successful and healing Yoni Massage, a
few things need to be made clear in advance.
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It’s not just about giving a massage but also concerns the
intentions of the giver and receiver and the attitude they
bring to it. Because Yoni Massage works on deeper levels,
affecting more than just the body - and a clear idea of
your intentions will bring great results.
Both partners who are involved with the Yoni Massage
need to cultivate love and openness to invite whatever
manifests itself. Ideally, you are both in a state of
detachment so that you are grateful for whatever arises.
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 On Solo-Practice
I realized over the years that a Yoni Massage can also be practiced
by yourself (the only thing required is a Yoni). So ladies, enough
with the “I don’t have a partner” excuse.

I call this the Yoni Self-Massage. By learning how to massage your

Yoni, you can rewire your whole being and become the most
orgasmic woman on earth. No other person is required.
In my online course, I included an entire
This ebook - like most write-ups you can find - is written in couple module that teaches you step-by-step how to

language. Just know that you can craft a ritual for your beautiful practice a Yoni Self-Massage. Empowering
you straight from where you are. I promise: it
self, and do those translations in your head. is JUST as delicious.

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 1. Attitude of the Giver

Presence is one of the most important attitudes the giver
needs to cultivate. When you are present, the woman will
most likely open up more easily. She will feel worshipped
and will be able to express whatever needs to be
expressed without any reservations. When you give a
Yoni Massage, it’s also important to be caring and
empathic, and occasionally ask how she is feeling.
You are worshipping the divine feminine, and ideally, you
want nothing in return. Your presence will help you to
know how far you can push her, what her limits are and
how much she can take. Yoni Massages can be very
healing but also very painful in the beginning, not just
physically but especially emotionally. There might be old
traumas surfacing – so hold her in your arms.

Communication during a Yoni Massage is essential to

understand what’s working for her and what’s not. Watch
her body language and signs. Is she expressing tension in
her eyes, face and neck or does she open up and enjoy
what you are doing? Whatever you do, do it with a
selfless attitude.

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 2. Attitude of the Receiver

The most important attitudes when receiving a Yoni Be clear about your intention but try to stay detached
Massage are trust and surrender. When you trust your from the effects of the practice at the same time (it’ll help
partner you will open up more easily and let go of fear to stay grateful whatever is going to happen). Don’t have
and tension – when you can let go of your tension, magic a goal. Just enjoy the process. New feelings and
happens. sensations will appear, so let your partner know what’s
going on so that he knows what’s good for you. Self-
Surrender is a very feminine aspect, and often
awareness will help you to transform every trauma which
misunderstood. It doesn’t mean being passive and
arises. The light of awareness brings healing into the dark
powerless, but rather the opposite, being active and
corners of your being.
powerful but with trust, love and softness. Have the
courage to let go of old patterns and tension. It’s time to
transform yourself, baby, and to get out what needs to
get out.

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 3. Preparation

Create a romantic and sensual environment. Work with Remember to bring enough towels and sheets; in some
colors, lots of cushions, aroma oils and music to stimulate orgasmic states women lose literally liters of liquid during
the senses. Imagine you are in an ancient Indian temple a G-spot orgasm (also called squirting). For that I have my
where golden, red silk brocade covers the space, an personal squirting sheet (100% waterproof) To comfort
intoxicating feeling of love and pleasure and the soft the woman bring plenty of towels, to avoid
smell of lotus and sandalwood is in the air. embarrassment and shame. Ask the receiver to wear a
sarong when starting the massage.
Prepare oils for the body. No essential oils near the
intimate areas. Always use pure, organic oils, preferably
organic virgin coconut oil, almond, sesame, grapeseed oil
or olive oil. I personally, prefere coconut oil on and in my
pussy. Some people might suffer irritation from oils in the
vaginal area. In such a case rely on natural lubrication.

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 4. Warm-Up Ritual

Starting the Yoni Massage with a meditation is one of the

tantric essentials. Inviting healing energies, and
detaching yourself from the fruits of the action, helps you
to be selfless and, at the same time, open for whatever
comes. It decreases expectations and simply frees one’s
mind from fear.
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One way of starting is to sit facing each other, legs
detail about different Warm-Up Rituals (for
crossed, and hold hands. You can use heart centering couples as well as for singles).
music and image your hearts melting into one another.
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offer the fruit of the Yoni Massage to the Universe.

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 5. Oxygen Is The ”O” In Orgasm

Breath is life energy. Continue holding hands and look

into each other eyes, thank the other one for their time,
presence and openness, and start breathing together, in
and out.

This will connect both partners strongly at the level of the

heart, and is a great preparation for the next steps. There
are many tantric breathing techniques one can perform
also during the Yoni Massage to release tension. You can
look into it more once you are a bit more advanced. One
of the basic principles is becoming aware of the breath
and looking at it as food, which is nourishing, healing and
sustaining us. Breath is an energy which helps to
transform orgasm into higher state of consciousness and
release tension.

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 6. Awakening of the Senses

Once you feel attuned with your partner’s heart you can
finally start. The receiver lies down on a soft mattress
covered with the sarong she was wearing before, closes
her eyes and surrenders to the situation.
As the giver, know that your arms are the extension of
your heart; stay connected with your heart and breath
and try to check now and then to keep in touch with the
receiver’s heart and breath.
Use feathers, fur, silk, your fingertips, your handballs and
your nails to produce different sensations. Play with
intensity, sometimes softer but also sometimes stronger.
You can also use aroma therapy to stimulate the olfactory
organs. Whatever you think fits into the situation. Even
some raw chocolate bliss balls might be a nice stimulator
for the beginning.

Start slowly, awakening the senses through the silky

towel or sarong. After some time you can slide the sarong
over her body down to her feet. That gives a magical,
heavenly sensation and is a smooth slide into nudity. The
skin is our biggest sensory organ and wants to be
touched, massaged, caressed etc...

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 7. Abundance of Oil And Massage

Once the senses are awakened you can start with some more
tension releasing massage. In this case you can incorporate Shiatsu,
Thai massage, etc. whatever you know works best for relaxation.

If you don’t know any massage styles simply be intuitive and work
around the neck, legs and feet, arms and back. Oil is essential here
and you don’t want to skimp on it.

A breast massage after you have worked through most of the body
areas will open up more pleasure and relaxation. You can work with
your thumb around the breast moving towards the nipples,
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on Full Body Massage and how to make sure
the receiver is fully awakened:

massaging any knots out. You can make a never-ending movement

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around both breasts with one hand. Or you can squeeze the breast
towards the nipple with both hands. Just be creative and watch out
for the receiver’s feedback.

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 8. Yoni Massage

Heart-Yoni Connection
The breast massage is a great knock-knock on the temple
gate because the vagina is strongly connected with the
breasts. You will learn this delicious breast massage in
more detail in my course. Once you feel the receiver is
ready, work your way down the belly around the hips and
inner thighs. Many women are very stiff around the pubic
bone. So try to soften her up until it’s literally a ‘jelly
belly’. Before you touch her vagina, ask if you are allowed
to.

Then make a cap-form with your left hand and let it close
the entrance of the vagina. You can push slightly to
increase the pressure. Place your right hand on the
receiver’s heart. Imagine you are bringing the Heart and
Heart-Yoni Connection
the Yoni together. Always remember that your arms and
hands are the extensions of your heart; let them act in the
name of your heart.

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From Outside to Inside
Apply a lot of lubricants. Begin massaging the outer lips of
the vulva (Labia majora). Pressing them with thumb and
fingers together, this technique is called vaginal shiatsu.
You can play piano on each side of the outer lips moving
them towards the outside. Make circular movements,
tapping movements, or rain with the tips of your fingers.

Then you can move towards the inside of the vagina.

Massaging the inner lips (Labia minora) with two fingers.
The clitoris always wants lots of attention - it’s the spot
through which most women orgasm. With thousands of
nerves, it is a highly sensitive center. You can play with it
like a little penis jelking it up and down and tingling the
tip of the clitoris.
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course, I show you a plentitude of massage
techniques for outside and inside the Yoni.
On a real model, anatomical models, as well as
beautifully illustrated in printable cheat
sheets.
Female Anatomy I
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On Orgasms
Attention: The clitoral orgasm is one of the most
superficial and short orgasms a woman can experience.
There is way more potential in a woman’s orgasmic
power then we think.

Most women totally ignore other pleasure zones, like for

example the G-spot. A magical spongy area at the inner
vaginal entrance on top. It can produce deeper and
longer-lasting orgasms with more depth and multiple
potentials. Another very powerful pleasure zone is the
cervix. It’s truly a divine bliss spot. At the entrance of the
The Female Reproductive System
uterus, very deep inside the vagina.

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Slide Into the Temple
Once you feel that the receiver is pleasured and wet ask
if you are allowed to enter her holy temple. Use the
middle finger and enter very slowly, asking her to firstly
squeeze her vaginal muscles and then relax them. During
the relaxation phase, the finger slides in naturally. Repeat
the process a few times until the finger is fully inside. Stay
there without moving for a few minutes. Simplicity is
sometimes truly magical. Feel into her from your heart.
Exploring the Walls
Then you can slide your finger clockwise from the
entrance towards the inside, exploring the walls of her
vagina temple. Be intuitive and try to find certain spots
which seem tense or even reveal physical knots. Massage
them all out.
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There are many numb spots in a women’s vagina where
she simply cannot feel the area. It’s a sign of emotional
tension too. Help her to create awareness and discover
together what’s behind this numbness. This vaginal
releasing massage can take at least 20 – 30 minutes and
might be a very emotional journey for the receiver. Every
time there is pain, use the breath to release. Breathe
together and make sure the jelly belly around her pubic
pone is there.
Clockwise Yoni Mapping
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Squirting
Once all emotional tensions are massaged out and worked through,
let’s start with some juicy stuff.

Take the index finger and the middle finger, insert them into the
vagina with your palm upwards and perform an alluring movement
with your fingers. Try to feel the spongy area at the upper entrance
wall of the vagina. You can persuade it to become bigger and
eventually you can make an up and downward movement with your See it in action: Inside the online course we

hand, using your whole arm. Press with your free hand on the pubic have tastefully filmed material of me giving a
Yoni Massage to a model.
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eventually produce the ejaculation of liquids.

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Some women also need a certain arousal deeper inside
around the cervix to squirt. And don’t worry, it’s not
urine. Squirting is an amazing blessing, - the tantrics
believed it is the physical manifestation of sexual energy.
Even today the question of where the liquid comes from
is still under discussion; some researchers claim there is a
female prostate known as the Skene’s gland. However,
squirting brings amazing pleasure to the massaged
person. Some women experience orgasms; others feel an
amazing energy rush.
9. Pleasure Climax
Sometimes the squirting will be the end of the Yoni
Massage because it’s quite an ecstatic peak and it is
common for some women to experience a slight burning
sensation inside their vagina after squirting. But if the
receiver is still aroused and wants more, you can take it
even further, even deeper, by stimulating the cervix - the
entrance of the uterus.
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When the cervix gets massaged strongly you can awaken
the most powerful mind-blowing multiple orgasms.
Massage with your index or ring finger around the A-
spot(the spot just before the entrance of the uterus/
anterior fornix and posterior fornix). You can massage
around it, press on it and slightly tingle it. Sometimes it’s
not easy to reach the cervix with the fingers, because
some women have very deep yonis. In such a case simply
use a non-vibrating dildo for stimulation. You can play
with the cervix and jump in between G-spot and cervix.
When massaging the deeper spots, you might want to
come back to the clitoris as well to transform the easily-
aroused energy into deeper energies. The cervix can be
very painful, so when arousing the clitoris at the same
time, the receiver’s brain might transform the pain into
pleasure. There is lots to discover and no limits to how far
both of you can go.
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 10. Stillness
Once you have finished the massage, do the capping
method again. Left hand capping the vagina, right hand
sits on the heart. Bring all energies mentally upwards, to
make sure there is no stagnation. Let the receiver rest for
some time, while you sit next to her and meditate on your
heart center. Stillness is what you need after such an
emotional orgasmic storm. Enjoy the peace and
tranquility.

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