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Extended Inquiry Project Final Draft
Extended Inquiry Project Final Draft
David Ramsey
Malcolm Campbell
English 1104-004
April 4, 2018
(“PyeongChang 2018”). Since then, there have been twenty-eight Summer Olympic Games in
twenty-three cities and twenty-three Winter Olympic Games in twenty cities with the movement
continuing still today (“List of Olympic Games host cities”; “PyeongChang 2018”). According
to the Olympic Organization from their website article “Pyeongchang,” the International
Olympic Committee came into existence on June 23, 1894. The first Olympics took place in
Athens, Greece on April 26, 1896. In 1924 in Chamonix, France, the first winter Olympic sport
began: ice hockey. Overtime, more than fifty-nine events have been added (Cooney; “The
Olympic Games”).
Recently, the 2018 Winter Games in Pyeongchang County, South Korea regarding ice
hockey, birth witness to two sisters playing ice hockey while representing two different countries
(Dana, CBS News). This wonderful story is just one of the many stories that developed at the
2018 Winter Games, but this was the story in which captured my attention the greatest. Hannah,
for Team USA, and older sister, Marissa, for the unified Korean team, are the daughters of an
American couple, Greg and Robin Brandt (Jacobson). Marissa from South Korea was adopted by
the Brandt family when she was just four months old. She has always played the sport of ice
hockey and so has her sister. However, Marissa did wear a jersey that has her Korean name,
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Yoonjung, and hopes that it will trigger her birth mother to come forward. When asked what she
would say to her birth mother, she expressed that she would just want to thank her for putting her
up for adoption. In addition, she is thankful for the parents she does have. What intrigued me the
most about this compelling story was the fact that Hannah made the comment that her and her
sister have been playing on the same team pretty much every year growing up together as well as
Marissa’s comments on what she would want to say to her birth mother touched me deeply
(Jacobson). This heartwarming story obviously began to make me reflect on my own sibling
bonds that I have with my two sisters, Suzanna and Samantha. With the aid of this story and my
own reflections, the simple question of why siblings are similar or not was conceived. But more
importantly to me was, why are my sisters and me alike in some areas and completely different
in others? For example, I love mixed martial arts, but my sister does not.
Oh Suzanna!
On July 6, 1984 I was introduced not only to my mother and father but to the world, it’s a
boy! Conveniently, I was the first addition, that was until September 15, 1985 when I was
introduced to my baby sister, Suzanna. Growing up in the Ramsey household was short lived to
say the least. My loving parents sadly divorced when I was four and my sister was three so most
of my memories that I have from my younger years are of having parents living in two different
homes. However, my mother remarried a couple of years later to my stepfather who has to this
day, been a father to my sister and I. Unfortunately for my father, it would be awhile before he
tied the knot again which did not occur until I was twenty-one. The marriage would unite my
sister and I, who were much older, with a step brother and step sister as well as a half-sister
named Samantha. The marriage did not last though, so I will only be evaluating the sibling bond
that exists between Samantha, Suzanna, and myself. Given the ages of myself and Suzanna, we
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did not live in a family setting with our step brother and step sister, thus I would have not
established a quantified experience level with them to develop a true sibling bond to evaluate.
From the up and down, good and egregious, calm and tumultuous, roller-coaster ride we call
sibling bonds, I know and still know, that my sisters, just as I will, will always have each other’s
back. Throughout this exploratory essay, I will utilize the knowledge that I learned to examine
The Landscape
Unfortunately, sibling bonds have not adequately been researched due to the wide
accepted point of view from early scientists that siblings are fungible meaning a genetic
commodity (“Science Looks At The Sibling Effect”). In simpler words, everyone has one mother
and one father but can have more than one sibling suggesting that the parent to child bond is
more important to the development of a child than the applicability of their sibling bond
(Kluger). Because of the neglected area of sibling bonds, it was not taken serious by scientists
until approximately fifteen years ago (“The sibling bond”). Naturally, psychologists,
sociologists, anthropologists, biologists, and even zoologists began to study the dynamic bond
between siblings from a genetic, sociological, and psychological point of views (Kluger). For
example, after a sand tiger shark mates, a mother shark will release the fertilized eggs into her
womb where they will hatch. Once the babies have teeth, the strongest baby will feed on the
others until there is only one baby remaining in the womb which the mother will continue to
release eggs to feed that one baby until the baby is born. According to Jeffrey Kluger, there are a
myriad of environmental factors that complicate researching the dynamic sibling bonds such as
age differences, geography, culture, birth order, education and a plethora of more (Kluger). To
efficiently evaluate my own sibling bonds, I will be utilizing only four environmental factors
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which are age difference, gender difference, income, and birth order. These four environmental
factors I have chosen represents the greatest differences in how my sisters and I were raised. In
which to view the environmental factors that impact my sibling bonds which are psychoanalytic-
Environmental Factors
To begin my tedious, yet exciting journey, I first had to establish exactly what the sibling
bond is, which turns out is a sibling dyad constellation (Whiteman et al.). A dyad simply defines
a relationship between two people such as a brother and sister. To get an idea of just how many
dyads can exist within a family, let’s look at the famous Kennedy family who had nine children
Since I understood what my sibling bond could be defined as, I started investigating
environmental factors which are those factors from your surroundings such as a sibling or where
you live that effects an individual in any way (Whiteman et al.). Given the complexity and the
almost unsurmountable number of factors that contribute to a child as they navigate through this
world, it is understandable that I chose only four. Most of these environmental factors are self-
explanatory, such as age and gender difference, however, I will define birth order which means
the order in which you were born in relation to your siblings. Birth order is so profound that
twenty-one of the first twenty-three astronauts were either firstborns or only children (“Science
Looks At The Sibling Effect”). Typically, firstborns display the characteristic traits of being
Magazine). A middle child is prone to have the characteristic traits of being people-pleasers,
somewhat rebellious, thrives on friendships, has a large social circle, and peacemaker. The last
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born will usually exhibit the characteristics of being fun-loving, uncomplicated, manipulative,
outgoing, attention-seeker, and self-centered. Finally, an only child will encompass the
characteristic traits of being mature for their age, perfectionists, conscientious, diligent, and
leaders. There is an exception to these rules which is in the case of twins due to them operating
as a family within a family and are often perceived as a single unit (Voo). After reviewing these
characteristics, I can see that I, as being the firstborn, do posses a lot of those firstborn traits as
well as my sisters displaying the characteristic traits for their perspective birth order. For me, my
baby sister, Samantha, fits almost perfectly with the last-born characteristics, however, Suzanna
does not fit into the mold of the middle child but acts more like a firstborn.
That curiosity as to why Suzanna did not lead me to my next environmental factor which
is gender differences. Gender difference plays an important role to sibling bonds as well and
breaks into mixed gender dyads and same gender dyads (Whiteman et al.). I share a mixed dyad
with my sisters which explains why Suzanna did not have all those characteristic traits from the
middle or last born because she is the first girl born in our family. For example, if my sister
would have been another boy than that potential infinitesimal difference would have changed
how we interacted because she would have exhibited the characteristic traits of the middle born
or last born. In general boys tend to be more pugilistic than girls (“Science Looks At The Sibling
Effect”).
Next, I wanted to know how the age difference affected my sibling bonds due to Suzanna
and I only being a little over a year a part and Samantha and I having a more significant age
difference of twenty-one years. Age difference dictates that the less amount of a gap results in
more of a rivalry between siblings and if there is a large amount of a gap the older sibling will
take on the role of an aunt or uncle (Voo; Kluger). According to Kluger, studies have found that
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over ninety percent of small children fight over somebody touching, playing with, and looking at
the other person’s stuff (“The sibling bond”). In my case, that explains why growing up with
Suzanna, we always fought over who was the best at whatever the task was and why I act more
The next environmental factor that I will discuss is income, more importantly, the income
of a two-parent family and a single parent home and the effects it has on the children. According
to Gordon Berlin, about a third of all children born in the United States each year are born out of
wedlock and about half of all first marriages end in divorce. Those staggering numbers leave a
multitude of children living in a single-parent household which tends to be poor. Not to say that a
child will necessarily be better off living in a two-parent household but on average they will be
better on a wide range of social indicators. The reason I chose income as an environmental factor
is due to my parents divorcing when my sister and I were very young. On a couple of occasions,
I chose to live with my father and from those experiences I can truly say I understand the
less resources to deal with life’s challenges (Berlin). I saw the difference in how I lived versus
how my sister lived. Suzanna did not have to worry about clothing, food, and responsibilities as
much as I did. For example, I made sure I was up in the morning to catch the bus as well as make
myself some food when I got home but I would not change anything about the way I grew up.
Those circumstances created the man that I see reflecting in the mirror back at me.
Before moving onto the four theoretical psychologically oriented perspectives that I will
be utilizing to solve the rest of the mystery that is my sibling bonds, I want to address why the
deidentification process and favoritism was not mentioned. The deidentification process is the
process in which siblings develop different qualities and select different niches as a way of
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maximizing resources from parents thus, reducing the level of competition (McHale et al.).
Favoritism needs not to be defined, we all know it well. However, Kluger cites a study that found
seventy percent of fathers and sixty-five percent of mothers exhibit a preference for at least one
child (“The sibling bond”). The reason for their exclusion was due to the overlapping area
between a sibling dyad constellation and the dyadic relationship with a parent. Additionally, it
will insure that my message is received as to what my purpose was which is to find the answer to
Theoretical Perspectives
Upon learning the wide array of environmental factors, my question became how these
factors operate, coexist, and how may I implement the concepts into my world. The four
evolutionary, social psychological, social learning, and family-ecological systems. I will utilize
the theoretical perspectives as a lens to examine the environmental factors discussed earlier.
attachment and the survival function of social behavior (Whiteman et al.). Under this perspective
there will be two theories that I will discuss which are the attachment theory and Adler’s theory.
Attachment theory which is rooted in the writings of John Bowlby attempts to explain
developmental changes, mainly individual differences, in social relationships. Over the period of
an infants first year, an attachment relationship forms with a caregiver. Then in the second year
uses that caregiver and other members such as a sibling, as a secure base to return to in their time
of need. Due to the fragile condition a dyad is, children’s relationships good or egregious with
the caregiver sets the stage for the qualities of their sibling relationships. Adler’s theory focuses
on the important role of external social influences on personality development. One of the key
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concepts in Adler’s theory was the inferiority complex which put social comparisons and power
dynamics in families at the central of defining one’s self. Social psychological perspective looks
at how others influence one another and their motives. Of special interest in this perspective, is
the social comparison theory which was proposed by Leon Festinger in the 1950s. The social
comparison theory states that individuals are motivated to evaluate themselves based on how
they measure up against others, especially with those that are viewed as like themselves. Social
learning theories suggest a gained behavior through observing others. The principles of
observational learning propose that family members are important models for social learning if
they are warm and nurturing. Through the act of observing the interactional styles of other family
members a child learns social concepts. Finally, family-ecological systems view families as
independent elements that are always in flux with each other, extended families, and their
surroundings. The principles of family system theory hold that families must be studied as
complete systems. Within this theory, families are separated into a hierarchy, then separated into
After gathering the information about the theoretical perspectives, a vivid picture began
to materialize and with that picture came a level of understanding. The environmental factors are
heavily embedded into the theoretical perspectives as much as the theoretical perspectives give
almost a value to the environmental factors. The two elements dancing in a circle in constant
motion as they overlap and flux upon each other. By utilizing the environmental factors and
theoretical perspectives that I have discussed, it becomes clear why the two-aforementioned
sisters that played ice hockey in the 2018 Winter Olympics have the sibling dyad constellation
that they do as well as my own. However, I would like to add some points of my own to the
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conversation such as there should be greater attention and research dedicated towards the sibling
dyad constellation. In addition, that research should represent a greater representation of ethnic
groups in their studies. According to McHale et al., much less is known about the ways siblings
contribute to each other in a positive development in ethnic minority families. Moreover, there
needs to be a logical and ethical approach to get solid data on the full spectrum of sibling bonds.
Reflection
Reflecting upon the ponderous quantity of information that I was able to find on the
sibling dyad constellation I can efficiently answer the question why my sisters and I have the
bond that we have. For example, due to the small age difference between Suzanna and myself,
lead to a sibling rivalry which displays the key concept of the Adler’s theory which is inferiority
complex. Another example, is one that involves the overlapping areas of two environmental
factors which are gender difference and birth order regarding myself and Suzanna. Birth order
would suggest that I have certain characteristic traits as the firstborn, but she has some of those
same traits, but gender difference explains why we share some of those same traits. If the gender
of my sister was different than my childhood would have been extremely different. Who would
have thought that something so small as gender would have had a ripple effect that would have
not only changed our lives but also changed the countless lives that make up our world. For
example, our younger sister, mother, father, stepfather, aunts, uncles, cousins, and the people of
the world that we have directly or indirectly met. From this research I have gained a much deeper
understanding and a greater appreciation for the siblings that I have. In addition, through this
analyzing process I will be able to repair any bumps that may arise in the future and in the
further future, my own children. To conclude in the words of Jeffrey Kluger, “There may be no
relationship that effects us more profoundly, that’s closer, finer, harder, sweeter, happier, sadder,
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more filled with joy or fraught with woe than the relationship we have with our brothers and
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