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The Use of Therapeutic Stories in Counseling Children and Adolescent Sexual Abuse Survivors
The Use of Therapeutic Stories in Counseling Children and Adolescent Sexual Abuse Survivors
JENNIFER YENSEL
Kent State University, Kent, Ohio, USA
Child sexual abuse is a serious societal issue with estimates indicating that
12% to 35% of females are sexually abused as children and 4% to 9% of
male children are sexually abused (von Fraunhofer, 2006). In clinical help-
seeking populations, the prevalence of sexual abuse rises to 45% in females
and 29% in males (Jespersen, Lalumiere, & Seto, 2009). Thus, counselors
will regularly counsel children and adolescents who have a history of sexual
abuse.
Children and adolescents who are sexually abused are vulnerable to
many issues including shame and guilt, negative self-perceptions, substance
use, psychiatric disorders, suicide, and health problems (Dube et al., 2005).
Adult survivors of child sexual abuse display an increase in family problems
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such as divorce, domestic violence, and having family members who abuse
substances or are emotionally unavailable (Dube et al., 2005). They also
report a higher prevalence of depression, suicide attempts, illicit drug use,
and alcohol abuse than adult peers who report no childhood sexual abuse
(Dube et al., 2005).
Although child sexual abuse can present many challenges to nor-
mal development, most people can (and do) heal and move beyond
being victims to living healthy and productive lives (Chew, 1997; Dolan,
1991; Heckman & Westefeld, 2006; Phillips & Daniluk, 2004). Research has
shown that after experiencing abuse, survivors can experience posttrau-
matic growth (Tedeschi, Park, & Calhoun, 1998). Thus, a treatment focus
that emphasizes and strengthens resiliency factors that already exist within
clients while concurrently identifying methods that facilitate the develop-
ment of new resiliencies may prove to be therapeutic and helpful (Bogar &
Hulse-Killacky, 2006).
When working with a sexual abuse survivor, a counselor’s challenge is
to provide supportive and empowering interventions that serve to move a
client from a victim to a survivor status (Bogar & Hulse-Killacky, 2006; Kress
& Hoffman, 2008). Counselors working with this population can benefit from
developing clinical skills and interventions that are not only strength based
but are also tailored for use with child sexual abuse survivors (McGregor,
Thomas, & Read, 2006). Strength-based therapeutic stories provide mes-
sages of a more positive reality. Therapeutic storytelling decreases young
clients’ resistance to change while enhancing opportunities to connect with
alternative, optimal narratives (Creative Therapeutics, 1982).
The interesting characters and events conveyed in stories is one means
by which clients can connect with a more adaptive worldview. Through
therapeutic stories, clients’ perceptions can be altered and their interpreta-
tions of reality can become more positive; these strength-based solutions
may be difficult to reach through the use of only traditional talk-therapy
methods (Gardner, 1990). Davis (1989) suggested therapeutic storytelling as
an effective intervention when treating young victims of sexual abuse. Davis
(1989) suggested that therapeutic stories were even effective when working
with distractible, young children because they connected with the child’s
unconscious processes and thus facilitated change. Stories connect young
survivors with interesting characters, and children can then—consciously or
unconsciously—translate these ideas into their own personal experiences
(Creative Therapeutics, 1982; J. T. Pardeck & Pardeck, 1993).
2008). Thus, the therapeutic stories themselves were not intended to create
the outcome; the client’s destabilization is what facilitates enduring client
change.
(2001) explained that through stories, the child sees the main character strug-
gle with his or her own problem, experiment with several ways of resolving
the problem, and then ultimately overcome the problem. The rapport that is
built between the client and the story’s character can assist clients in grasping
the difficulties in their own problems and provide new ideas for facilitating
change (Bergner, 2007; Wilson, 2000). This experience helps young clients
realize that they are not alone with the problem and reinforces the idea that
it can be overcome.
were not limited to, difficulty in social relationships, memory and speech
deficiencies, and challenges controlling feelings (Davis, 1996). When work-
ing with child sexual abuse survivors, Davis (1996) recommended using
therapeutic stories to empower children and work through other symptoms
of abuse.
Child sexual abuse survivors are often unable to verbally express them-
selves (Carlson, 2001). Therapeutic stories can be used with sexual abuse
survivors to help facilitate the recovery process by providing them with lan-
guage they can relate to and by normalizing painful situations. The child’s
belief in a story’s characters allows the unconscious to interpret the story’s
message, which empowers the client and encourages change (Erickson,
1989).
Stories can also provide a way to address the emotional struggle of
child sexual abuse recovery. Children can easily relate to stories and feel
comfortable using this form of communication. Through stories, child sex-
ual abuse survivors are given permission to change and to accommodate
traumatic experiences and internal complexities in a way that is acceptable
to the child (Honos-Webb et al., 2001).
of the client. The outcome of the story should support the therapeutic goal
of treatment. The resources used by the main character in the story should
parallel resources available to the client for achieving desired therapeutic
outcomes. The problem presented in the story should signify the clinical
problem faced by the client (i.e., frustration, guilt, resentment). Abuse symp-
toms may be characterized in stories as nightmares, challenges with eating
or sleeping, anxiousness, or fears and can be tailored to the client’s unique
struggles. The story may portray the main character making several failed
attempts at change or overcoming the problem before success is achieved
(Cook et al., 2004).
Connecting the client to the story is the next element in developing
a sound therapeutic story. When clients are able to identify with a ther-
apeutic story, their concept of the problem can be altered; this cognitive
alteration challenges the validity of automatic thoughts related to their core
issues and problem narratives. A good therapeutic story is designed to con-
nect the client to the main character, supporting characters, and the setting
(Burns, 2001; Cook et al., 2004; Malchiodi, 2008). The gender and culture of
the client should also be considered before developing a therapeutic story
(Burns, 2005). The main character could be a person, animal, or even an
object. Abused children might be portrayed as a puppy, fawn, or kitten;
these typically gentle animals have few defenses to protect themselves from
abuse (this works to minimize self-blame). Abusers may be characterized as
aggressive lions or dragons, but care should be taken to consider the com-
plex relationship the child may have with the abuser if it is a parent or sibling
(Davis, 1989, McGregor et al., 2006; J. T. Pardeck, 1989). Finally, story sce-
narios and landscapes which relate to the client’s interests and experiences
can be identified (e.g., use a soccer-focused story if the client enjoys soccer;
Davis, 1996).
Another important aspect when selecting a story is ensuring that the
message is positive and attainable. Ideally, the stories presented to clients
have messages or resolutions which portray reasonable, achievable client
outcomes (Cook et al., 2004; Malchiodi, 2008; Wilson, 2000). Personal power,
which is one goal of using therapeutic stories with abused persons, can be
seen in stories as self-love, acceptance, and utilization of personal abilities.
While there is no way to determine beforehand which aspects of the story
will resonate, clients are likely to take from the story what they are most
ready to find or what is most needed. Therapeutic stories with positive
messages can provide counselors, caregivers, and parents with a tool to
better support and comfort the child (Freeman, 1991).
Counselors should also determine if a prewritten story or a counselor-
generated, personalized story will be most therapeutic. Prewritten stories are
easily accessible and can be altered to suit the needs of the client. Counselors
may choose to use one of many prewritten therapeutic stories (e.g., Burns,
2001, 2005; Cook et al., 2004; Davis, 1989; Holmes, 2000; Lowenstein, 2002).
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CASE EXAMPLES
In this section, two case examples that illustrate clients who may bene-
fit from the use of therapeutic stories are provided. Each case is followed
by an appropriate therapeutic story for the client. Using the guidelines in
the Appendix, a discussion of how the story was chosen, how it could be
applied, and the associated benefits follows.
Case of Lisa
Lisa, a 6 year-old female, was repeatedly sexually abused by her grandfather.
Her parents noticed a change in her demeanor about 1 year ago, and they
were unsure as to why she no longer wanted to go to her grandparents’
house for after-school or weekend visits. She would often cry and scream
and hide in her home before leaving for her grandparents’ house or leaving
for school (if she was to visit their home after school). Her parents did not
understand her behavior and believed she was protesting separation from
her parents and neighborhood friends. They were told by the grandpar-
ents that Lisa became comfortable as soon as the parents left and that her
behavior was “not a problem” while she stayed at their home.
After 2 months of Lisa protesting going to her grandparents’ home,
she began to complain to her classmates at school that her genitals were
uncomfortable. A female classmate told their teacher, and Lisa was sent to the
school counselor. Lisa disclosed that her grandfather was “hurting” her, and
the counselor contacted the local Children Services Board. An investigation
led to legal action against Lisa’s grandfather and grandmother. It has been
7 months since Lisa disclosed the abuse to the school counselor.
Since Lisa’s disclosure, she has been reluctant to interact with others
and has a fear of leaving her parents. She often protests going to school and
refuses to go anywhere without her parents. Lisa is withdrawn and shows
aggression when children or unknown adults approach her. Lisa has told
you—the counselor—that she does not feel safe “leaving my mommy,” and
she wishes to “stop going to school.”
was happening. Sometimes, Samantha would slide down the staircase, and
other times she would catch a ride in a laundry basket as Tony carried it
down the stairs. Tony took care of Samantha and loved Samantha very much.
Samantha also loved Tony very much. Samantha loved to pounce and play
with Tony, and sometimes she would just cuddle on his lap. Samantha also
loved it when Tony took her to the park! Samantha had many friends, and
whenever it was time to go to the park, Samantha was always ready and
excited!
The park was a magical place with all sorts of fun things to do.
Samantha loved meeting all the new cats and would jump and play hap-
pily at the park. Samantha would climb up in the trees and then scurry
down. Samantha would race with the other cats and trot across the beautiful
green grass to show off her silky fur. Samantha always had fun at the park
and loved meeting new cat friends. Samantha loved to play at the park and
sometimes wandered far away from Tony. Samantha would run and jump
and pounce and play, and Tony would come get her when it was time to
go. Samantha was always sad when it was time to leave the park.
One day, it was time to go to the park, and Samantha became very
excited! She really wanted to run and explore and play. One of her new cat
friends, Graham, asked her if she would like to explore the old castle on
the other side of the park, and Samantha was quite excited. She knew Tony
would come get her when it was time to go home.
Samantha and Graham trotted away and finally reached the big, old
castle. It was large and wonderful, and there were many rooms to explore.
The two ran up and down the winding halls of the castle. But then, all of
a sudden, the castle began to shake and then it began to crumble. The old
castle was falling apart! Samantha and Graham had to run as fast as they
could to get out, and just as they reached the door, a big piece of the castle
landed on Samantha’s tail. She could not get away, but Graham kept on
running!
Oh, no! She tried to pull her tail out, but it was stuck, and it hurt! She
was trapped. She tried to push the rock with her back legs, but it wouldn’t
budge. This was awful—she was hurt and stuck and felt all alone. But
Graham didn’t leave her; as soon as he knew what happened to Samantha,
he came back to help her. Graham and Samantha both pushed and heaved
the rock until it finally slid off of her tail. Although she was free and safe,
Samantha’s tail was hurt and damaged. She was very sad for a long time.
Every time she saw the scars on her tail, she would feel scared, trapped, and
alone.
Samantha did not want to go back to the park ever again. Samantha did
not want to go anywhere. She was very sad about the terrible castle falling
and ruining her beautiful tail. Samantha was worried that it was her fault
that the castle fell on her tail. Maybe if she was not running so fast, it would
not have fallen on her tail. She was also angry that the castle fell on her tail.
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She couldn’t do anything to stop it. Samantha was very upset and did not
want to make any new friends or do anything fun. Tony was very worried
about Samantha. She never left the house; she just lay in a ball on the floor.
Samantha was afraid to leave her house, and she was very unhappy.
She used to have so much fun going to the park, and she missed meeting
new friends, but she was afraid something bad would happen if she went
outside again. Samantha told Tony why she was unhappy, and Tony thought
having some of Samantha’s friends over to the house might cheer her up.
Samantha thought that would be OK since she would not have to go outside,
and she had a great time. Her friends did not even notice that her tail had
been hurt, and they played and laughed. After her friends came to her house
a couple more times, Samantha felt like she could go to their house to play.
She went and nothing bad happened!
After playing with her friends in their houses, Samantha started to want
to go to the park again. She was very scared to go back to the park, but all
of her friends said they would go with her. They slowly walked to the park,
and Samantha felt so happy to see the grass and the slides, and she ran and
pounced and had a great time!
Now, Samantha knows that every once in a while, bad things can hap-
pen in life, but most of the time nothing scary happens. Samantha loves to
be happy, and she plans to keep going to the park. Even though she will
never go in any other old castles again, she could not have known that it was
going to crumble and fall down. Samantha is going to make safe choices,
and she is not going to worry about the things she cannot control.
Application
The first step in determining how to use therapeutic storytelling with Lisa is
to carefully determine an appropriate time to do so. This story could be used
early in therapy with Lisa, and she could be encouraged to begin to process
the sexual abuse she experienced. The story should be told in a comfort-
able setting by a counselor who is familiar with the tale and its intended
meaning.
It is next imperative to choose an appropriate story for the client.
Samantha’s Tail was written for Lisa by the authors and incorporates a
conflict that aligns with Lisa’s conflict; the client is expected to identify with
the main character, and the damage done to Samantha’s tail represents Lisa’s
sexual abuse. The goal of the story was to help Lisa understand that the
sexual abuse was not her fault and was conveyed to the client through
Sam’s ability to overcome her fear and depression. Details of Samantha’s
Tail, such as Samantha’s name and sex, could be changed to align with a
different client’s needs.
The storyteller can next decide whether the story should be verbally
processed with the client. The following questions can be posed.
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● What made Samantha realize that she was not happy staying inside all day?
● Was it smart for Samantha to talk about her problem?
● Who was able to help Samantha with her sadness and fears?
● What made Samantha strong enough to start enjoying life again?
● Did Samantha feel like it was her fault that her tail got injured?
The counselor may relate Lisa’s answers to the client’s sexual abuse, if
appropriate. The relationship between Samantha’s story and Lisa’s problems
may be revisited at a later time as well.
Therapeutic storytelling can increase trust and build rapport between a
counselor and client, and Lisa may begin to feel more comfortable engaging
in an open therapeutic relationship if the counselor uses stories to reach her.
Samantha’s Tail will help the client organize her thoughts, and Lisa will be
able to better identify her own struggle and develop strategies to overcome
the impacts of the abuse she endured. Finally, the positive message of hope
found in the story about Samantha will empower Lisa and provide hope for
the client’s future.
Case of Brad
Brad, a 9-year-old boy, has been sexually abused by a 17-year-old male.
Brad told his mother that when he spent the night at his classmate’s house,
the classmate’s older brother “did bad things” to him. After reporting the
incident to legal authorities, Brad’s mother brought him to see you. His
mother reported that he does not seem to have “any happiness left in him.”
He does not get excited to play with friends or go to his favorite restaurant,
and he has stopped “caring about his grades.”
Brad calmly and methodically tells you—the counselor—about his
friends, immediate family, and school, but he refuses to talk about his friend
whose older brother abused him. When asked about the night he spent
at his friend’s house, Brad becomes silent and stares at the floor until the
topic of discussion has been changed. Brad’s mother has reported that he
is experiencing many emotional difficulties. Most notably, Brad has “scared”
some of his classmates by making obscene sexual comments. Brad’s teacher
reported that he is typically very “mellow” but occasionally gets “very angry
in class.” Traditional methods of talk therapy do not seem to be engaging
Brad in therapy.
Application
A counselor may choose to use therapeutic storytelling with Brad because
he is not responding to traditional talk-therapy methods. The increase in
trust and rapport that results from the storytelling process may allow Brad to
eventually engage in traditional methods of therapy. Additionally, the client
will be able to begin processing the event and organizing his cognitions
surrounding it. The positive message in the story will also empower the
client and show him a way to improve his current situation.
The Family Friend was developed by the authors especially for Brad,
but a prewritten story could also have been used to communicate with the
client. The Family Friend could also be altered in the future to align with a
different client with similar sexual abuse history. Discussion questions may
be processed to explore the client’s interpretation of the story.
SUMMARY
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APPENDIX
Guidelines for the Use of Therapeutic Stories
1. Carefully choose the story.
a. Present an appropriate story at an opportune time.
b. Incorporate goals, resources, and conflicts that align with those of the
client.
c. Connect the client to the story.
d. Ensure the message is positive and attainable.
e. Determine if a prewritten story or a personalized story will be most
therapeutic.
2. Deliver the story.
a. Know the story very well.
b. Introduce the client to the story.
3. Process the story.
a. Apply the therapeutic value of the story.
b. Use therapeutic storytelling in a responsible and ethical manner.
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