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'Let Go And Let Love'.... Why Did No-One Tell Me

It's So Simple? ….from www.Life2point0.com

First up, an explanation of sorts.  There's been a continued

'enlightenment' theme to recent posts.  Maybe it's because I try not to
plan what I write that posts here tend to follow a path of their own, I
don't really know.  All I can say is that I have a load of ideas around
entrepreneurship, creativity and life hacks that I'd love to share with
you too.  But whilst we're still on this subject, and just so you have a
little perspective as to 'where I'm coming from', I'll tell you about my
own journey so far:

I guess we all come to the recognition of Truth in our own way and in
our own time,  and that's good.  My way seems very strange though.  I
was one of the so called lucky ones - I had my very own 'burning bush'
experience.. but what I did with that beggars belief.  I very, very subtly
(so that I wouldn't even notice I was doing it) turned and walked away
from it.
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The burning bush
Some years ago, after a lifetime of being determined to find out 'how
things really worked', and having studying  A Course in Miracles  for a
year or so, I was out walking my Labrador on the hill behind my
home.  After I had gotten tired of throwing sticks for Ben I sat down
on a stile to watch the world go by for a while, and the dog curled up
under my feet. In the next few minutes I came to see my whole life in a
completely new light, totally reframed and everything fitting perfectly
together - like adding the last few lines to a 'join the dots' picture
where suddenly you see what it is all about for the very first time.  I
thought I had been building businesses, raising my children, trying to
be all the things I wanted to be.  I had no idea that totally unbeknown
to me, life had had a completely different agenda.

This 'secret' agenda had been working through everything I had ever
thought, spoken and done, through every so called failure and success
and through every traumatic or blissful moment in my life.  I saw so
clearly that everything that had happened since the day I popped onto
this planet had been orchestrated to bring me to this place where I was
now sat and was able to see the perfection and beauty of it all.  It all
was suddenly so clear, every single part of my life fitted together
faultlessly, with not one piece missing or to spare.  Enlightenment had
been going on all the time.... perfectly.

Here's what I now knew:  After all my efforts to understand, to 'get it'
and then to walk the path, the path has been walking through me all
along.  We had always been the vehicle for enlightenment, we just
didn't see ourselves as doing that, and certainly didn't see ourselves as
being in the driving seat.  There was one beautiful purpose to life and
my expression of that had been played perfectly by me all along, and
this was true for everyone.  Suddenly all concept of right and wrong
and guilt and doubt disappeared completely.  And there was no place
for  regrets  anymore, only this one vast, all encompassing Love.....
and it had only been my desire to find happiness in this life that had
blinded me to seeing it was already here.
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Good intentions gone wrong
I knew from that moment on that my life was changed because there
could be no forgetting this.  By some form of grace I had glimpsed
Reality and all I wanted or needed to do was find a way of helping the
rest of the world see the same thing. And that's where I started to lose
the plot again.

The more I tried to explain this, to myself or others, the more distant
it seemed to become.  All I wanted do was to help and yet the more I
tried, the more this epiphany turned into a distant memory.  What I
didn't see then was that the very act of trying to understand was the
act of denial of what I had so clearly seen.  By trying to understand
I was separating the one who was trying to understand from
that which he was trying to understand.  By attempting to
reconcile God and Life and Love and Enlightenment and 'Who I am', I
was denying that they are all the same thing..... this Oneness that I had
been so fortunate to experience.

It's only when I imagine there is more than one thing, like when I put
the little word 'my' in front of the word 'life', that there arises the
concept of an under-stander and an under-stood and then the need to
understand.  Oneness can only ever be experiential because it is all
inclusive.  Reality can only be known, because there is no-one separate
to understand it. It's only the mind that obfuscates this feeling of Love
and connection that we already exists in.  And anything I can imagine
to do to come to this realisation, can also only be part of my denial of
this feeling of Love that is constantly trying to seep into our conscious
awareness.  As Thomas Aquinas one said:

Love takes up where knowledge leaves off."

Awakening was life's role not mine.  I had forgotten that our part is
only to allow it to happen.
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Wising up
So little by little I've come to accept there is nothing I can do to
awaken because life itself is the process of awakening.  It's a process of
accepting what already is and that requires no doing and no effort, just
a surrender to what is already here in this moment.  Life delights to
set us free, to make us happy.. and everything we need to fulfill that
purpose comes to us, perfectly.  When we really accept that we don't
know how to wake up then a miracle happens.  Instead of not-knowing
being the problem, not-knowing becomes the answer - our whole way,
because 'not-knowing' is the clean and empty slate on which Love will
write a different story through our lives.  It is in the invitation and the
opening to grace.

I suppose we could paraphrase the whole process of life down to this

one thing:  A process of letting go of our resistance (in a multitude of
ways) to the Love that Is.  This is all that is really going on here.  And
so we come home to Truth, to the knowing of our true Self, simply by
allowing it to happen - by allowing ourselves to become non-resistant
to everything.
At the end of the day the choice is this:- we can either be true to Truth
of our own experience or true to the latest idea of what is still needed. 
This is seen so clearly in the way the great religions keep us in chains
by lowering expectations and by promising freedom some time in the
'future'.  And so we end up settling for being Christians instead of
Christs and Buddhists instead of Buddhas.  Didn't Jesus once say,
"Greater things than these things shall ye do".  Adyanshanti says it
well in this essay entitled  'You are the Buddha'.

This is what the Buddha

did.  He didn’t say, “I’ll
try.”  He didn’t say, “I
hope I’ll find the Truth.” 
He didn’t say, “I’ll do my
best.”  He didn’t say, “If
not in this lifetime, then
maybe next lifetime.” 
He came to the point
where he didn’t look for
anyone else to tell him
the Truth or show him
the Truth.  He came to the point where he took it all on himself.  He
sat alone under the Bodhi Tree and vowed never to give up until the
Truth be realized.

The power of this very simple, yet unshakable intention and absolute
stand to be liberated in this lifetime propelled him to awaken to the
simple fact that he and all beings are liberated—that all beings are
freedom itself.  Pure awakeness.

The Buddha was no different from you.  No different. .....

Adyanshanti also says "What we serve we cannot lose".  True enough,

but even this idea of 'serving Truth', at least for a  bear-of-little-brain 
like me, is too much.  I have seen that we already do this and I have
seen that in spite of appearances, everything we have ever done has
served Truth.  We were just mistaken, and thought there was
something else going on here.  And so when I attempt to serve Truth
there is this very human tendency that arises in me to judge how I am
doing, and then I lose my way again - lose sight of the fact that we
already do this perfectly - that we are already awake and perfectly
creative, and just don't see it yet. 
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Homeward bound
So for me at least, I need to finally let go of trying to live it, of trying to
serve it, and simply  allow It  to live and serve through me - become
nonresistant ('surrender' if you like) to this Love that we call life that
already flows through us.

There's a huge freedom in this tiny change of intent because now there
is no cause for stress or concern.  When we replaces all the reasons
'why' we do things (especially all those spiritual or do-goody reasons)
for this single 'why' of allowing Truth/Love/Life/Joy/*your own term
here* to express itself through me, then there are no worries any
more.  Life makes no mistakes..... 'mistakes', 'problems' - that's all
mind stuff.  Success in this is always certain, but now we come
to  know it is so.

So perhaps I finally am 'getting it':  Just surrender to life.....let life flow

through me un-resisted.... and see what happens.  'Listen and allow'....
as my friend  Jodee Bock  tells me to do.

What a release not to have to do or understand anything anymore ....

just enjoy the ride.  No worries, no cares, it's not up to me now... not
my problem.  And what problems could there be once their cause, my
resistance, has gone.  Trusting instead, that when we are just being
who we Are, in harmony with Universe, everything just works out fine.

Love Is.... what more could we do than simply let it be?

To let go and let Love......Why did no-one tell me it's this simple?

Or perhaps they did and I just wasn't ready to hear. ;-)

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Life as celebration
So what to do, now that I know that anything I try to do to bring about
enlightenment blinds me to the recognition that it's already here?
How about just doing whatever it that makes us happy and trust life to
take care of all the rest?  Hard as it is to shatter the egos belief in
unworthiness and sacrifice and struggle, it's only in the path of our
happiness that we find what we have come here to learn.  Life has
only one agenda: -  that we be happy, now.

And what better way to strengthen this realisation than to see it

everywhere, take joy in everything that comes our way and share it
freely?  It's this what we came for.

So to me, our greatest role models and teachers are not the obvious
ones.  Not the ones that lecture or hold retreats, but those who know
how to squeeze the juice out of life and then invite you to dine with
them.

Evelyn at  Crossroad Dispatches  and Tittin at  Backtracking Slowly

Forward  spring immediately to mind.  Click over there and you'll find
a pot-pourri of art, raw life and insight....... and you'll perhaps also
discover what  George Bernard Shaw  meant when he said,  "The man
who writes about himself and his own time is the only man who
writes about all people and all time."  (we can forgive him the gender
bias of those times).  But like any good feast, the best times to go there
are when you are little hungry and when you have a little more time
than you need... so you can savour and enjoy all the different flavours.

Happy Valentine's Day.

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