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10 Golden Rules For Staying Happy With The One You Love, Reverend Holly Skinner, Premarital Counseling San Diego, California PDF
10 Golden Rules For Staying Happy With The One You Love, Reverend Holly Skinner, Premarital Counseling San Diego, California PDF
Relationship
• Do y ou lov e and trust y our fiancé?
• How will y ou make decisions once y ou are married?
• How would y ou handle/settle an argument?
• What do y ou do if y ou cannot agree?
• Is it hard to say please, thank y ou and I'm sorry ?
• When y ou are ill, how much sy mpathy and attention do y ou desire?
• How would y ou handle end-of-life decisions and life insurance?
• How will y ou relate to in-laws, opposite-sex friends, ex -spouse or children from prev ious relationships after
y ou are married?
• Do y ou believ e y our fiancé will be faithful?
• Can y ou see y ourselv es growing old together?
• Is y our fiancé an honest and truthful person?
• How do y ou show each other affection?
• Is y our fiancé kind, gentle and understanding of children, co-workers and family ?
Finances
• Who will be the primary financial prov ider in the family ?
• Do y ou support y our fiancé’s career?
• How will y ou decide on what major purchases to make?
• Who will pay the bills and keep the checkbook?
• What is y our philosophy of giv ing to y our church or other charitable organizations?
• What are y our thoughts about the use of credit cards?
• If either y ou or y our spouse lost y our job, what budget items would y ou cut?
• Will y ou hav e joint sav ings and checking accounts?
• Hav e y ou created a family budget?
• What percentage of y our income will go toward home, car, groceries, utilities etc?
Hom e
• Where do y ou want to liv e and in what setting would y ou want to liv e (city , suburb, small town, rural, plains,
mountains, desert, coastal, etc.)
• What do y ou ex pect y our marriage and standard of liv ing to be like after fiv e y ears?
• How soon after y ou are married do y ou ex pect to hav e y our home reasonably furnished?
• Will y ou do y our own home maintenance?
• Who will do the landscaping?
Housekeeping
• Who will prepare each meal and what ty pes of food will y ou eat?
• How often will y ou eat out?
• Who will do the laundry and ironing?
• Who will go purchase groceries?
• Who will make sure general automobile maintenance is done?
• Who will do general household cleaning and bed making?
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Red Flags
• Y our fiancé seems to be irrationally jealous of friends, family or past relationships.
• Y our fiancé is prone to ex treme emotional outbursts and mood swings.
• Y our fiancé display s controlling/smothering behav ior.
• Y our fiancé is unable to hold a job.
• Y our fiancé is unable to resolv e conflict.
• Y our fiancé ex hibits dishonesty .
• Y our fiancé does not treat y ou with respect.
• Y our fiancé is ov erly dependent on others for money .
• Y our fiancé ex hibits patterns of phy sical, emotional or sex ual abuse towards y ou or others.
• Y our fiancé display s signs of drug/alcohol abuse
Note: If any of these signs ex ist, y ou should schedule a time to talk with a minister or counselor immediately .
By Web: www.idov ows.com By Email: rev holly @cox .net By Phone - 7 60-944-4496 (San Diego, California)
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