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Before You Begin...
Take a look around you, and you'll notice something obvious - everyone
walks through life glued to their cell phone.
There's a very good reason for that - cell phones are addictive.
And this is changing the way men and women communicate.
Just a few years ago, a majority of women in your city would never be
caught dead using apps or online dating sites to meet guys.
But not anymore. Now, with the rise of online dating and insanely popular
apps like Tinder…
Over 90% of women admit… they do NOT meet guys at bars anymore, they
meet through friends or online. And the ONLY way they communicate is
through messaging apps and texting.
Dating has changed. This is the way it works now. And those who master
the “art of messaging” will have a huge advantage going forward.
See, up until recently, the only guys having any REAL success in this area
were so handsome they could say literally anything and still get a date.
Well, not anymore.
With these 66 messaging secrets, you’ll discover that you suddenly have a
big advantage in the dating game, no matter what you look like or how
confident you feel right now.
www.66Texts.com Andrew Ryan 2

This is especially crucial if you don't have any of the traditional advantages
enjoyed by other men, like chiseled abs, handsome good looks, a big bank
account, natural charisma, etc.
That's the beauty of messaging. You can bypass all that and speak to the
part of her that doesn't care about surface level stuff... her imagination.
Do it right, and by the time you meet her face to face, she will be enamored
with you... seeing everything you do through rose colored glasses... and
90% of the "work" of seducing her will already be done for you.
So when you meet her for a date, just relax, be you, and don't screw up the
magic you already made.
Most importantly, as you start to master these 66 messages, you'll be able
to have fun, sexual conversations with every girl you come across...
And you’ll start to see the bigger picture… the “game” of attraction and
seduction.
Yes, dating is a game… in the sense that it’s fun, it’s based on patterns and
rules, and you can win or lose.
This book will give you all the “moves” you need to win the game. Learn
them, master them, and have fun with them.
Make it happen,
Andrew Ryan

Contents:
1. The Five Most Irresistible “First Messages” Ever
2. “I’m not that easy”
3. Give her “points” and then take them away
4. “If you’re trying to turn me on it’s totally working”
5. How to Make Sure She Won’t Flake on You Later
6. If you’re OLDER than her…
7. “I’ll Allow It”
8. One Simple Trick that makes You the Most Unforgettable Guy in Her
Phone
9. The “BFF Text”
10. Make Her Your Partner in Crime
11. The “Bad Influence” Text
12. The Boneheaded “Beta Mistake” most guys have no clue they’re
making…
13. How to Create an Unbreakable Romantic Bond
14. The ONLY way you should ever compliment her
15. The “Voodoo Witch” Text
16. The “Troublemaker Text”
17. “Know Any?”
18. The “Upper Hand” Text
19. One Text = Perfect Chemistry On Your First Date
20. The “Celebrity Crush” Trick

21. Get her dripping with excitement before your date
22. The “Fair Warning” Text
23. Other Guys Creepiness = Your Good Fortune
24. When she says “not here to hook up”
25. Get Her to Send you a Selfie
26. Get her in the mood (to send you nudes)
27. The “False Choice” Text… 9 out of 10 girls send nudes in response
28. Hire Her, then Fire Her
29. "Alpha" Date Scheduling
30. Why you need to end every conversation FIRST
31. The “Sextrology” Text
32. The “Lust Shortcut”
33. Order Girls to Your House On-Demand
34. She’s Playing Games? Use The FOMO Technique
35. When she’s acting like a BRAT…
36. When she says “you’re not tall enough”
37. The most clever comeback of all time
38. The “Flake Buster”
39. The “Curiosity Bomb” (for when she stops replying)
40. The “Cute/Kinky Combo”
41. The Chase Commands
42. The “Bad Attitude Eraser”
43. She forgot who you are? Send her this text

44. Use this and she will never tell you “I’m too busy”
45. Revive a conversation that went cold
46. The “Emma Watson” method
47. The “Casanova Text”
48. The “Anime” technique
49. “Tell me something honest”
50. Tell her who is in control
51. The “Sweet Dreams” Text
52. The “Erotic Meme” text
53. Can’t See Her for a While? Don’t Lose Momentum...
54. The “First Kiss” Text
55. The “Literotica Text”
56. The “New Orleans Gumbo” Text
57. Accuse her of stalking you
58. Propose to Her, Marry Her… then Divorce Her
59. “Too bad you’re not here…”
60. How to spice up BORING small talk
61. The “Please Your Professor” Text
62. “Good Girl”
63. Daddy Issues
64. Blame it on Autocorrect
65. The “Dead Air” Trick
66. The “Candy Crush” Technique

1. The Five Most Irresistible “First Messages” Ever
Chances are, you’ve got a handful of “matches” on several different dating
apps, patiently waiting for you in your phone right now…
Dude, what are you waiting for?
Here are 5 irresistible ways to start the conversation. Pull out your phone
and try them right now.
“You look like the kind of girl I would have gotten detention in middle
school just to hang out with”

“Let’s be star crossed lovers… I mean best friends… I mean hi.”
*Note - You can thank my good friend, and master texter, Race DePriest for
letting me steal this one - it’s straight out of his personal stash of killer lines
and texting techniques. He’s a master at this stuff, one of the best you’ve
ever seen - for more, click here.
“Can I get your dad’s number? I need to ask his permission to marry
you…”

“Wanna skip all the typical Tinder BS?”
“You seem interesting, hi.”

*Note - this last one, “You seem interesting,” is for when you have a really
attractive bio that girls can’t resist… You want her to start chasing you,
which means putting in MORE effort than you - and so your only goal is to
send a short, neutral message like this that will get her to read your bio and
reply back.
All 5 of these killer first messages are best for girls who didn’t write much in
their bio, or girls who only wrote brief, generic things that don’t make it easy
to start a conversation. If she didn’t spend a lot of time on this, you shouldn’t
either - just cut and paste these messages to a bunch of different girls, and
see which ones reply with the most interest - those are your “hot leads.”
FYI - if she wrote a lot in her bio, you’re always gonna be better off coming
up with a unique message based on what she wrote…
Because if she put in the effort to write something, she’s gonna be more
serious about meeting a guy than the average girl on Tinder or Bumble who
put in the bare minimum effort…

And she’ll be much more likely to reply to a guy who recognizes that in his
first message.
Plus, she’ll know for sure that you couldn’t possibly have cut-and-pasted the
same first message to hundreds of other girls… something you would never,
ever do, of course ;-)
Good rules of thumb for a great first message:
- Flirty, but not sexual

- Easy f or her to respond without having to think too much
- Short a nd sweet (like a tweet, under 140 characters)
Here, I’ll pull out my Tinder right now and give you some examples…
Let’s see… this girl’s bio simply says “Please buy me food”
First message = “McDonald’s or Chipotle?” - she replied - “Burger King,
gotta keep it classy.”
Here’s another one… this girl’s bio says “New to Austin”
First message = “Hey, so what brought you to Austin? Aside from our super
hot forbidden love affair of course...”
She replied with “lol” and then a long description of her job and why she
moved here… more than good enough to start the conversation.
One more example - a girl with a lengthy quote about what it means to be
an Aquarius woman and a free spirit.

First message = “According to my horoscope, Aquarius and Gemini are
nothing but trouble together… but also a lot of fun. Think that’s true?”
She wrote back and started flirting with me based on our “signs” (always a
fun conversation, there’s a whole chapter on this later)
Alright, enough chit chat - get out your phone and send some messages,
see what you get back.
And have fun with this! It’s dating, never take it too seriously.
Make it fun for you, and it will be fun for her.
Want a few more examples for good luck?


2. “I’m not that easy”

Here’s a great frame of mind to take, with any girl you’re talking to or
texting…
“I’m not that easy.”
Why? Because…
Women get turned on when they have to overcome obstacles in order to
get you.

This is a psychologically proven fact.
And if you’re too easy and available, there are no obstacles to overcome,
and no reason to get turned on by you.
So give her some obstacles.
How? By reminding her, from time to time, that you are not that easy. You
are a challenge.
Do it early, do it often, and be playful about it.
You’re not easy. You’re too cool for her. She can’t even handle you. She
better play nice with you. She better have her A game ready. Etc...

3. Give her “points” and then take them away
This one’s easy and super fun.
If you want to get a girl chasing you harder, give her imaginary “points” for
chasing you, and then playfully take them away.
For example, give her points for the following:
- Sending you a cute picture

- Sending a joke or meme that makes you laugh
- Being clever or witty
- Flirting with you
- Admitting she likes you
- Texting you first (initiating the convo)
- Doing something you asked her to do
Then, playfully take them away. PLAYFULLY. Nothing about this is ever
serious ;-)
“Cute pic! You get 10 points for that.”
“You just made me laugh in the middle of work… +1 for you, missy”
“You are just too clever with these puns… 5 points to you.”
“Minus 1 for being a brat.”
“How dare you sass talk me like that… minus 5 points, you dork”

“You’re losing massive points with me, woman.”
“That’s a nice thing to say, I give you points for honesty.”

4. “If you’re trying to turn me on it’s totally working”
Girls love it when you tease them like this…
Assume that she’s trying to hit on you, turn you on and seduce you… and
let her play into the role of “seductress,” while you’re just the “innocent man
being seduced by a horny girl.”
Make it all her fault instead of yours.
For example:
Girl - “This homework assignment is so hard! I’m sick of doing it…”
You - “Doing it? So hard? Wow. If you’re trying to turn me on, it’s kinda
working.”
For example:
Girl - What are you up to? I’m just cuddled up in bed in my pajamas.
You - Stop trying to make me think about cuddling, I’m onto you...
For example:
Girl - You’re so funny!
You - Okay slow down, don’t think you can just seduce me with
compliments like that… ;-)

5. How to Make Sure She Won’t Flake on You Later
“Why isn’t she texting me back?”
You met this cute girl at the bar last night and she was SO excited to give
you her number…
And you thought she was different… she seemed like she was totally down
to hang out with you again… not like all those other flaky, undependable
girls, right?
But now it’s 6 pm and you still haven’t heard back from her… and you texted
her hours ago.
Look man, we’ve all been there. Girls are flaky like that sometimes.
Maybe she got busy. Maybe she wasn’t that into you. Maybe she’s like this
with everyone…
Who knows? Whatever the reason, it’s out of your control now, and there’s
never a good reason to stress over things you can’t control.
But what if I told you, there’s 1 tiny thing you could have done immediately
after getting her number to prevent this from happening…
1 tiny thing that practically guarantees she won’t flake or ignore you later?
Here it is:

Right when you get her number, you need to make her agree that she is
definitely going to respond to you later.
And you wanna do it in a playful way that almost any girl will say yes to.
It’s easy, just say the following words as you’re getting her number:
“Wait a minute… you’re not, like, one of those super flaky girls who never
responds to texts, are you?”
Another way to say it:
“Ok, you can have my number, but only if you’re actually gonna text me… I
promised myself I wouldn’t deal with flaky people anymore.”
One more playful way to say it:
“Ok, I’ll let you have my number, but you’re required to send me at least one
puppy dog selfie per day… do we have a deal?”
You want to QUALIFY her as a girl who is definitely going to text you later,
who won’t flake out on you, or ignore you. Make her agree to it, and it
becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
99 out of 100 girls will say “oh no, of course not, I’m not that kind of girl, I
promise I’ll text you later...”
And now you’ve got the principle of CONSISTENCY working in your favor.
She said she’s not flaky, so she’s gonna feel compelled to act that way.

Assuming she actually likes you, and you’re being your cool, confident,
attractive self… and hey, if she’s giving you her number then you must be
doing something right.
More:
Another good way to “pre-empt” her flaky future behavior is to give her your
number first, then tell her to text you, right there, on the spot. Sometimes, I’ll
literally take her phone and type my number into it, then tell her:
“Here’s my number, text me so I know it’s you, I never respond to stranger’s
numbers” (also true of many hot girls who give their number out a lot)
Your best bet?
Take a selfie of you and her, together, and make it her contact photo. So
when you text her, that picture pops up and she remembers how much fun
she had with you.
Look, the truth is, no matter what you do, or how cool and attractive you
are… a certain percentage of women will still flake on you.
That’s just how dating goes...
But with all these tips working in your favor, you can easily cut that
percentage down to less than 10%...
All you have to do is add that 1 tiny step as you’re getting a girl’s number...
And 9 out of 10 are gonna reply later and text you for a date. I’ll take those
odds any day.

6. If you’re OLDER than her…
… then you also have to be BETTER than her.
Here’s what I mean:
Younger girls are attracted to older men because they *know* things… and
they have things she can’t get from guys her own age, such as:
- Class
- Financial stability
- Sexual experience
- Charisma
- Intelligence
- Depth
You need to show her you have all of that, and more… by being 100% chill,
nonchalant, and non-reactive in the way you talk to her.
No matter what she says, or does… you have to genuinely not give a fuck.
And this is true for any woman you’re talking to, by the way. But it gets really
obvious with younger girls because they’ll give you lots of shit about your
age just to see how you handle it.
Younger women are feisty and they’ll challenge your confidence. And you
have to be WAY too cool for her cute little games to work on you.

You have to see yourself as the coolest motherfucker ever… the total
package, the prize, the catch of a lifetime for this girl.
And when she gives you shit about your age, not only will you not care…
you’ll challenge her to prove herself to you.
That’s right, I don’t care if she’s a hot 21 year old victoria’s secret model
(like the girl texting in the screenshot below).
If she’s younger than you, she needs to step up and prove that she’s good
enough to be dating you.
^^ Did you catch that last line? ^^
“Like playing with fire” (you’re the fire, obviously). That’s what women want
to feel like around you… scared and excited at the same time.
A few more tips, to be specific:

- Make her admit she likes older men - “so what do you like about older
men so much?”
- Challenge her on her past relationships - “wait a minute, is this your
first time dating an older man?”
- Tease her about having less experience - “you young girls are so silly,
do you even know more than 3 sex positions?”
- Toy with her about being younger than you - “isn’t it past your
bedtime?”
If she acts up, treat her like a bratty little girl. Imagine putting her over your
knee and spanking her, teaching her a lesson.
Female fantasies about older guys? They ALL follow these same patterns.
She wants you to put her in her place… that’s why she’s giving you crap.
More examples:
- Tell her she’s gonna get spanked if she doesn’t behave
- “Don’t make me put you in time out, missy.”
- “Isn’t it way past your bedtime?”
- “That’s cute, try to keep up now…”


7. “I’ll Allow It”
These 3 words are so fun to say to girls… for some reason it drives them
crazy and they never see it coming.
Tell her that you’re “allowing” her to do things… even ridiculous things you
just made up.
The game is - “I’m in charge. I say what is and is not allowed.”
It’s dominant, kinky and playful.
“Are you trying to turn me on? Ok fine, I’ll allow it.”
“Are you projecting your emotions onto me? Ok I guess I’ll allow it.”
“You’re trying to seduce me, aren’t you? Well, you’re kinda cute so I
suppose I’ll allow it.”
“Stop trying to make me think about kissing you, jeez… just kidding I’ll
totally allow it.”
“Wait a minute, you don’t watch Rick and Morty? No. I do not allow this.”

8. One Simple Trick that makes You the Most
Unforgettable Guy in Her Phone
This is the secret to making your messages “stick” in her memory… so
there’s literally no way she can forget you, ghost on you or ignore you.
Give each other nicknames.
Call her something cute and girly like Panda Pop or Sugar Buns or Bratty
pants or Nerd ball or Power Puff Girl. And get her to call you something cute
like that too.
Then, make sure she puts your nickname as your contact name in her
phonebook, so every time you text her, she sees it and smiles.
It doesn’t have to be anything crazy… just a cute inside joke between the
two of you.
And you wanna tell her to save your name as that nickname in her phone.
Even better, if you get her number in person you can do it for her - save
your name as “Andrew Future Husband” or “Ryan Hot Guy” or something
dorky and cute like that.
This takes your messaging to another level… it makes it a more intimate,
private form of communication… a personal “inside joke” that lets you stay
on her mind all day long.

Think about it - you are lined up in her phone next to hundreds of other
contacts… but how many of them have a cute nickname that you and her
thought up together when you were flirting?
This is an easy shortcut to make sure she remembers you over everyone
else.
And every time you text her, that nickname is gonna pop up and constantly
reinforce how different and fun you are.
Now, every time she feels her phone vibrate she will secretly be hoping its
you, and she’ll be disappointed anytime it isn’t you…

9. The “BFF Text”
Girls secretly LOVE it when you have the upper hand like this…
Put her in your “Friend Zone” and watch her scramble to get out.
Examples of how to do it:
“I can’t believe you just said that… totally friend-zoning you.”
“Okay, we can be friends… but don’t get any ideas, I’m not that kinda guy.”
“You’re right, let’s just be friends… I think we have an amazing connection,
let’s not ruin it with sex.”
“I can already tell we’re gonna be best friends… just promise you won’t fall
in love with me, deal?”
“That’s it… you’re in the friend-zone with me now, missy. No sex for you.”
When you discover something you both have in common - “ Did we just
become best friends?”
(this is also an inside joke from the movie “Step Brothers” so don’t be
surprised when she says “YUP… do you wanna go do karate in the
garage?)



10. Make Her Your Partner in Crime
This makes use of a technique called “Future Pacing”
Meaning - you talk about things you and her will do together in the future…
And those things are all bad, naughty, criminal, exciting, etc...
It doesn’t matter if you actually do them, or even if they are realistic at all…
because it’s all the same to her imagination.
Describe scenarios of you and her doing something bad and crazy
together… and get her input, so you create it together…
For example, tell her you’re gonna be partners in crime.
“I can already tell, we are gonna get in so much trouble together…”
“What kinda trouble should we get into tonight…”
“You’re a rule-breaker, aren’t you? You’re Bonnie, I’m Clyde… who are we
robbing first?”
“You’re twisted! Will you be my Harley Quinn? Let’s go rob a bank together
and then have crazy hot sex on a pile of money.”
“Let’s get hitched, rob a bank and run off to Vegas…”

11. The “Bad Influence” Text
This is a great way to flirt with a girl by bringing out her “bad” side. It’s easy
and fun - just accuse her of being a bad influence on you.
It works best when you exaggerate the hell out of it, so she knows you’re
kidding… and she gets the idea that the *truth* is, you’re the bad influence
on HER (a very good thing for most girls).

More examples:
“I donno about this, you may be too much for me to handle… I’m pretty
vanilla, all I’m into is knitting sweaters and missionary sex with the lights
off.”
“I can’t even tell, am I a bad influence on you… or are you a bad influence
on me? Either way I think we’re gonna have fun together.”
“I can already tell you’re gonna be a bad influence. My parents would never
approve. Which is perfect ;-)”
“You’re such a bad influence… stop trying to corrupt me, you evil naughty
woman.”
“Stop trying to make me think about kissing you, you’re such a bad
influence.”

12. The Boneheaded “Beta Mistake” most guys have no
clue they’re making…
When it comes to texting and dating, most guys are making a huge mistake
that makes girls think they are total losers…
What’s this boneheaded “Beta” mistake?
Asking her what she wants to do, instead of telling her.
For example…
Beta guy: “When are you free to hang out? What do you like to do for fun?
Where do you want to go for our date?”
Alpha guy (YOU): “Tell me when you’re free. I’m going to take you to the
best place ever, you’ll love it. Meet me there at 7.”
More common examples...
Don’t say - “do you want to go out with me sometime?”
Say - “text me, I have a fun idea.”
Don’t say - “are you free on Saturday?”
Say - “We should totally get drinks the next time we’re both free, let me
know what your week is looking like.”

Don’t say - “Would you like to see me again?”
Say - “This conversation is not over… we’re totally have to hang out again
soon.”
Make sense?
Don’t ask her. Tell her. Trust me, it’s what she wants.

13. How to Create an Unbreakable Romantic Bond
The fastest way to bond with someone is to create a common enemy.
And that enemy doesn’t have to be a person - it can just be “the rest of the
world.”
This is a common female romantic fantasy - “it’s just you and me against the
world, baby.”
So if you like a girl and want to bond with her fast, you want to text her in a
way that makes her feel that way - like it’s you and her against the world.
Here’s how:
First, frame everything you write as “We” instead of “me” or “you.”
Text her things like:
“Look at us, we are so good together”
“We are such dorks”
“Is this city even ready to handle us?”
“If they can’t handle us at our worst do they even deserve us at our best?”

By the way, I hope you’re catching onto the humor here - it’s not a 100%
serious romantic come-on, it’s a little bit silly.
And here’s one more way to make her feel the “us VS the world” romantic
bond - a technique called “mirroring.”
This means, whatever her “style” of texting is… you want to mirror it back to
her.
She writes short sentences with no capital letters? So do you. She uses lots
of emojis and “lols”? So do you. She takes an hour to reply? So do you
The effect is subtle, but powerful. And it works really fast...

14. The ONLY way you should ever compliment her
“Hey gorgeous.”
“You’re so beautiful.”
“I think you’re so perfect.”
Women HATE it when guys text them these things.
Please don’t ever let me catch you sending texts like that… not unless she’s
your 100% committed girlfriend and you’re madly in love (hell, even then,
you only wanna compliment her beauty sparingly, when it really means
something).
But 99% of the time, you never want to compliment a girl’s looks over text.
Now, you may have been raised to believe that calling a woman “beautiful”
is charming and will make her feel good about herself.
But that couldn’t be further from the truth.
The truth is, when you tell a woman “you’re so hot/sexy/gorgeous/etc”... all
you’re really doing is:
>> Reducing her to an object whose only value is in how attractive or
“fuckable” you find her (imagine - would you want your sister, mother or
daughter to be treated like a sex object instead of human being? Of course
not)

>> Putting her up on a pedestal, where the only thing she can do is look
DOWN on you
>> Making her roll her eyes and lump you in with the last 100+ cat-calling
creeps who thought that saying “hey beautiful” is all it takes to make a
beautiful woman swoon…
The ONLY way you should ever compliment a woman over text is on
something other than her physical appearance…
For example - a personality trait you like in her, or something she said that
you really enjoyed, or something she did that impressed you.
Even if she’s the hottest girl you’ve ever seen… d

on’t let her know you think
that about her.
Talk about anything else BUT her good looks. Keep her guessing. L et her
wonder why you’re not capitulating to her beauty like every other guy.
For instance, instead of “I think you’re hot”... say “I’m kinda curious about
you.”
You’re not fully over-the-top loving her, but she is *kinda* winning you over
and making you curious…
More examples:
“I have a good feeling about you.”
“I have a sneaking suspicion you might be a fun date”
“I’m getting a really interesting vibe from you.”

“I love how you said XYZ in your profile, that’s so refreshingly honest of
you.”
“I love how you speak your mind and don’t filter yourself, that’s impressive.”
See the difference? See how a girl would feel flattered, but also insanely
curious and eager to talk to you more…?
See how that will lead her to chase you harder?
Finally, you never want to compliment her for no reason… if you do that,
then you’re obviously doing it for the “default” reason every guy
compliments her (you wanna fuck her).
Trust me, hot girls know they’re hot, and they know guys wanna fuck
them… they get reminded of that every day.
And sure, she enjoys the attention. It boosts her confidence and makes her
feel desirable and “in-demand.”
But what she really wants to feel is SPECIAL and UNIQUE… like you see
something in her that no one else sees.
So don’t compliment her until she’s done something to earn it.
Reward her for chasing you. Let her know that it’s working… she is winning
you over and making you want to know more about her.
And not because of how she looks, but because of something she DID or
SAID to impress you.

15. The “Voodoo Witch” Text
This is a great way to disarm any objections a girl might feel to meeting you
in person for the first time.
Her biggest fear is that you might be creepy, or make her feel awkward on
your date. And this is normal. But you don’t want it to get in the way of you
and her connecting and having an amazing time together...
Well, a great way to get around any objection is to anticipate it before it
happens.
Disarm her objections, before she can say them to you.
For example, before your date, she’s gonna be thinking to herself…
“I hope he’s not, like, an evil axe murderer or a guy who date-rapes
women…”
And man, that is the LAST thing you want her thinking before your date!
So, as you’re planning your date, throw this text in there:
“Excited to meet you! But wait… are you sure you’re not, like… an evil
voodoo priestess who steals men’s souls? Because that would be super
hot.”

OR - “You seem like so much fun… I really hope you don’t turn out to be an
axe murderer who chains men up in her basement… although that would be
kinda kinky”
Below are two different examples of this in action. In the green one, the girl
texted me first and I replied. In the blue one, I said it first.

See how that works? You’re flipping the script on common female
objections… you’re getting away with it by using humor and absurdity… and
you’re using it as a reason to be sexual and flirtatious. Win - win - win.

16. The “Troublemaker Text”
This text will challenge her to tease you and turn you on. And it’s 100%
rejection-proof because she'll be the one chasing YOU.
It’s easy - all you gotta do is paint her as a troublemaker who would be no
good for you, if the two of you ended up dating…
The last part is key - you are assuming that the two of you might end up
dating…
And she’s going along with it because she loves your signature style of light,
playful humor... as usual ;-)
Here are some word for word examples of how you might text her:
“Note to self - she’s trouble, do not date her.”
“I knew you were trouble… this relationship is never gonna work out.”
“We’re never gonna work out… we are just gonna fight all the time. And I’ll
win ;-)”
“Oh no, you’re a troublemaker… I’m not supposed to talk to girls like you.”
“Hey troublemaker… stop daydreaming about me and get back to work”
“Yeah sure, a troublemaker would say that ;P”

17. “Know Any?”
One of the best ways to become more charming with women is to take
something normal that people always say, and put a clever twist on it.
For example, when asking a girl out for a date, most guys would say “do you
want to get a drink with me?”
Which is fine… but also very plain.
And over text, where the only thing you have is your words, it only takes 1
plain, boring message to lose the girl’s attention and never get it back again.
Here’s a clever way to put a twist on that line and make it 10X more
charming and effective...
This is called the “Know Any” technique and you can thank my good friend
Race DePriest for teaching it to me.
Instead of saying “do you want to get drinks with me?”
Twist it into… “I need a fun/cute girl to get drinks with… know any?”
This almost always gets a great response, as you’ll see below… it just
sounds more charming than the standard “ask” she normally gets.
And you can use the same format for anything you want:
“I need a girl for _____… know any?”

Fill in the blank with something fun and enticing that you wanna do with her.
For example…
“I’m about to watch a horror movie and I need a dorky girl to hold my hand
during the scary parts… know any?”
“I’m restless. About to leave work and grab a drink but I don’t have a cute
drinking buddy to join me… know anyone who might be down?”
“Making plans for Friday night but we’re missing a cute and/or crazy girl to
round out the crew… know anyone who fits the bill?”
Just another surefire text to add to your arsenal.
You’ll probably get addicted to using this every time you ask a girl out from
now on.
Look at you, getting more and more charming by the second ;-)
More examples below:

18. The “Upper Hand” Text
This is an easy way to make sure she’s always the one chasing you.
Fact - girls are skeptical about guys they meet online. And rightfully so...
Before meeting you for the first time, she’s gonna have doubts about you,
and hope that you’re not “bad news.”
Well, the best way to get around any objection is to anticipate it beforehand
and turn it around on HER… in a playful way.
For example…
“You seem pretty fun and harmless (probably lol). Text me - xxx-xx-xxxx -
it’s easier”
“I feel like you’d be fun to hang out with… assuming you’re not a serial killer
or something.”
“Let’s get drinks and see if we get along.”
See how that works?
You’re saying she seems fun and harmless… PROBABLY.
You wanna get drinks and “see if we get along” (because you’re not sure if
you will get along, not yet).
Hell, you’re still not 100% sure she’s NOT a serial killer!

The point is, you’re letting her know that you still have a few doubts about
her, but she is wining you over, slowly but surely. And you’re doing it in a
playful way so it doesn’t sound like an insult.
She might be skeptical of you, and that’s fine, she ought to be skeptical of
anyone she meets online.
But you are also skeptical of HER.
You gotta remind girls of this stuff... remind her that YOU are the one giving
HER a chance, not the other way around.
This is so important - your whole attitude is different this way - it changes
the whole dynamic and makes success inevitable.
You have standards. You don’t just accept her right away, it’s gonna take
time and effort on her part.
Do it playfully and make it fun, and she’ll be glad to put in that effort.

19. One Text = Perfect Chemistry On Your First Date
If you enjoy people-watching as much as I do, then you’ve probably noticed
something…
Most people’s first dates SUCK big time.
I noticed this one day when I was sitting in a coffee shop, texting a girl I had
plans to see later.
There were at least 3 different couples sitting near me, all on awkward
Tinder dates with NO chemistry…
You could read it all over their faces and their body language… they were
sitting stiffly across from each other, asking boring questions about work
and hobbies… barely making eye contact... like a shitty business interview
where NO one gets hired.
Sitting there in that coffee shop, I felt genuinely awkward FOR them… and I
wished them the best. I hope at least one of those dates worked out well in
the end!
But then I started getting nervous… because I had a date coming up later
that day, with the girl I was currently texting. And I REALLY didn’t want our
date to be like that too...
So I decided to use the situation to my benefit, and I texted her this:

We met for the date later and the chemistry was perfect, right from the start.
Look, before a date with someone you really like, you’re both gonna be
nervous and afraid that it’s going to go badly.
Knowing this, you can text her beforehand and assure her that your first
date is NOT gonna be like everyone else’s…
Get her on your side, bonding with you. No one else “gets” each other like
you do. It’s just you and her against the world.

20. The “Celebrity Crush” Trick
Every girl has at least one “celebrity crush.”
Imagine a hot, in-demand male celebrity… like Leonardo DiCaprio, or Justin
Bieber, or James Franco.
Do you think that a girl would ever say NO to anything those guys asked
her? Of course not.
She will gladly chase him and do whatever he says, without question,
because she is LUCKY to even be talking to him.
You want every girl to feel that way about you, too.
You want her to feel like she is so unbelievably lucky to be talking to you,
and she better not blow her chance or she will never get it again.
How? There are 3 things you wanna weave into your messages:
1 - Hint that other women are texting you too.
Don’t say it directly, or you’ll sound like a douchebag (and you will be).
You have to be subtle about it.
For example, whenever I meet girls online, I usually like to ask them how
the dating site is going for them.

Why? Because I know they’re getting lots of messages and most of them
are creepy.
But also, because it gives me a chance to mention that I’m getting a lot of
messages too:
“Yeah, I’ve been getting a lot of messages, but I’m only responding to a
few.”
Did you catch that? I’m letting her know, indirectly, that I could have chosen
to talk to any of these other girls, but I CHOSE to talk to her.
I want her to feel special, like I hand-picked her out of a crowd of girls… not
like she’s the only girl I could get.
By the way, you WILL be getting a lot of messages when you use the
techniques in this book.
My advice? Screenshot the weirdest messages you get, and show them to
girls you like.
You’ll bond with the girl and have a laugh together, and it will instantly raise
your value and put you on a pedestal, because other girls obviously want
you.
Here’s another thing you want to convey in your messages:
2 - Your time and availability is limited.
This is covered elsewhere in the book, but just make sure she knows that
you are not available anytime she feels like seeing you - your time is in high
demand.

Finally, you want to do one last thing to really lock in the “Celebrity Crush”
effect:
3 - Make her come to you for the date.
Invite her to a place near you, that you know well. Tell her when to be there.
Send her the address, or even a screenshot of the place on google maps.
Tell her it’s amazing and she’ll love it. Tell her not to be late. Tell her where
to park. You can even have her park at your place and walk there together.
The point is, get her following your lead, and make her come to you.
Get her doing all the things she would do for a male Celebrity…
Make her feel lucky that you chose her out of hundreds of girls...
Make her work around your schedule...
Make her come to you for the date…
… and she’ll feel THRILLED to even be talking to you.

21. Get her dripping with excitement before your date
Fact: nobody wants their first date to feel like a chore or a business
meeting…
And yet, that’s what so many first dates end up becoming… so you
shouldn’t be surprised that many girls are nervous about it happening with
you.
Knowing this, you wanna help her out beforehand…
Get her EXCITED to meet you.
And look, if you want a girl to be excited to meet you, then be excited to
meet her.
As you’re setting up your date, don’t just tell her the “when and where” of
it… take the time to paint the picture of how much fun you’re gonna have
together.
Tell her how fun the place is.
Tell her what to wear.
Tell her to get excited.
Tell her that you’re excited to meet her.
Tell her you’ve got a really good feeling about this.

Tell her how everyone else is gonna be super jealous of how much fun
you’re having.
You get the idea… Have fun with it and she’ll be excited too.
More examples:
“There’s this awesome 24 hour beer garden / coffee shop near me, you’re
gonna love it.”
“By any chance are you a fan of delicious drinks and laughing your face off?
Let’s do this.”
“Taco tuesday tonight? Check one please… ( ) yes … ( ) HELL yes”
“Get excited, you’re gonna love it.”
“Let me just say ‘you’re welcome’ in advance for introducing you to your
new favorite cocktail bar downtown.”
“Excited to meet you :)”
This will dissolve her anxiety that your date could be awkward and lame…
and when she shows up to meet you, she’ll be grinning from ear to ear.

22. The “Fair Warning” Text
What if I told you, there was a way to make a girl feel 90% sure she wants
to sleep with you… before she even meets you for the first date?
It’s not only possible, it’s easy, and you can do it with one shockingly simple
text.
Once you’re making plans and getting excited to meet each other, you’re
going to plant the idea in her mind of what’s going to happen on your date.
How? Send her this:
“Fair warning… I may attempt to sneak a kiss or two.”
If you’ve already been texting, flirting, and she’s agreed to the date, then
she obviously likes you.
So now it’s time to start teasing her and building anticipation.
And what’s the one thing people always anticipate about a first date? The
first kiss!
When you text her this, you’re letting her know that you’re a confident guy
who’s not afraid to make a move, which is sexy.
And you’re even sexy enough to tease her about it beforehand.

Important - don’t get any more sexual than “sneak a kiss” - otherwise you
may sound too forward and creep her out.
You’re not even saying you definitely WILL kiss her. You’re saying you “may
attempt” to “sneak” a kiss. It’s very boyish and charming… like the kind of
thing lovesick teenagers do at the county fair.
It’s sexual but innocent - a powerful seductive combo we will talk about
further in other chapters.
So how does this almost always lead to sex on the first date?
Because now you’ve planted a seed that’s going to grow in her mind. She’s
going to be anticipating the moment you first kiss her…
She’ll be thrilled that you’re confident enough to say this to her (women
LOVE to be teased like this).
You don’t have to say anything else, and the sexual tension will build up
more and more, until it becomes about SO much more than just a kiss.
She’ll invest so much time thinking about it and anticipating it, she won’t be
satisfied with just one kiss. She’s gonna need another kiss… then she’s
gonna need to drag you off to a dark corner to make out with you…
And that’s still not gonna be enough… she’s gonna need to come over to
your place for “just one more drink”...
It won’t be long before clothes are coming off...
But still… you’re not gonna give in and let her have what she wants right
away. You’re gonna make her wait for it… until she’s literally begging ;-)

Have fun with this. It’s a powerful and seductive game.
Learn the art of the tease. Tempt her mind while making her body wait.
It all starts with just this one tiny little text...


23. Other Guys Creepiness = Your Good Fortune
Here’s something you need to know about women:
A vast majority of texts and messages they get from guys are very creepy…
especially on dating apps and sites. And because of that, most girls are
on-guard for “red flags” that you might be one of those guys.
Just take a peek inside this hot girl’s Tinder account:

But it’s not so bad once you understand this.
In fact, you can even use this to your benefit, to bond with a girl really fast.
Here’s how...
First, read some of the top posts on www.reddit.com/r/niceguys and
www.reddit.com/r/creepypms so you understand the weird shit women have
to deal with.
Then, find a way to work into your conversation that you also get creepy
messages from girls.
Without saying it directly, this will show her that you understand her world,
and that you are sexually in-demand (i.e. very attractive).
If you met online, ask her how the site has been going for her so far, and
bond with her over how creepy other people’s messages are.
Or, mention how you had to reject some girl because she had this weird
fetish where she wanted to tie you up and tickle you (true story).
Or, tell her about the last girl you were texting, who sent way too many texts
in a row and turned into a semi-stalker so you had to block her number.
(all true stories, by the way - I’m sure you have some too).
Anything creepy or awkward that’s ever happened to you… this is the time
to use it. If you have screenshots of the creepiness, even better - share
them.

Just let her know that you “get” it… and have fun bonding over how weird
some people can be.
One of my favorite examples is below. I asked a girl “how’s this site going
for you so far, any interesting messages?” and this is what she wrote:


24. When she says “not here to hook up”
Scroll through Tinder and read what girls write in their bios.
Pretty much every girl says the same thing:
“I’m not looking to hookup.”
Funny thing is, Tinder was built for exactly that - hooking people up with
each other.
Even funnier, I can’t even begin to tell you how many girls have said that to
me…
“I’m not looking to hook up”
… and then immediately hooked up with me!
Here’s what’s really going on when girls say these things...
1, tons of creepy guys message her all the time, and they all lead off with
“let’s hook up”...
So she’s really saying - “don’t message me if you’re one of those creepy
guys.”
2, She doesn’t want to be viewed as “easy” or “slutty.”

BUT - she also wants to know that she’s “in-demand” and lots of guys want
her. That’s why she’s on Tinder in the first place. That, and to find a cool
guy like you to take her out on a fun date, of course ;-)
It’s basic “supply and demand” - she wants to know that lots of guys want
her, but very few, if any, can have her.
Knowing that she’s in-demand makes her feel good about herself. Her
social status is high. She’s popular… She feels DESIRABLE, which is a big
turn on for women - to know that lots of men find them sexy.
That’s why girls will post half-naked selfies of their ass on instagram and
invite tons of male attention, but still reject 99% of guys who try to talk to
them - to keep her demand high and her supply low.
So once you know why most girls are saying “no hookups,” you’ll
understand that it’s not that big of a deal. She’s still a girl, she likes sex just
as much as anyone else. She’s just not gonna say it out loud, and especially
not in her freakin bio!
First, don’t get all “butt hurt” or offended by this, it’s just the way girls are.
She’s not rejecting you, she’s rejecting all the creepy guys out there who
have no clue how to talk to her and turn her on.
Second, avoid saying things that sound like you want to hook up with her,
period. Instead, use the techniques in the other chapters of this book to get
her chasing YOU, instead of you chasing HER.
Finally, I highly suggest you visit www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/ and

www.reddit.com/r/creepyPMs/ to see exactly what kinds of messages girls
DESPISE… (and to get a good laugh when you need one).

25. Get Her to Send you a Selfie
Girls love taking selfies, and I love getting them.
Plus, if I haven’t met the girl in person yet, I would like to know that she’s
real, her pictures online are current and she hasn’t gotten fat or anything like
that.
And I’m happy to send her a current photo of myself too, it’s only fair.
But there’s an even better reason to get her sending you selfies as soon as
possible:
It’s one of the best ways to get her CHASING you over text…
Think about it - when you ask her to send you a cute pic, she has to go into
her photo album and choose a picture that she thinks will impress you.
Or, she has to take a selfie right then and there, and make sure the angle
and the lighting is just right, etc…
She has to “jump through your hoops” and work for your approval.
This is a good thing.
But the trick is, do NOT ask for a “sexy” picture right away. It’s too much, too
soon, and she’ll feel awkward and say no. That’s what creepy guys do...
You need to build up to the sexy stuff. Here’s how:
Start by asking for a “cute” picture, and give her an innocent reason why
you need it.

** Psychologists have proven over and over again that adding a “why” to a
request makes people twice as likely to say “yes” **
So you would start by texting her something like…
“Hey, send me a cute picture so I can use it for your contact photo thingy.”
It’s an innocent, easy request, and she will say yes (go ahead and send her
a pic of you as well, it’s only fair). Also, you’re not being sexual or coming
onto her, which is what most creepy, clueless guys do.
IMPORTANT…
After she sends you a cute pic, you need to REWARD her for it! Don’t just
ignore it and move on.

Tell her something like… “ummm, could you be any cuter? Jeez now I can’t
even focus on work, thanks a lot ;-)”
It’s really important that you make her glad she sent you a pic.
Make her feel desired… appreciated… teased… maybe even a little hot and
bothered...
Because now, she’s gonna want to send you MORE pics later on…
You see where we’re going with this, right?
Turn the page and we’ll keep heating things up....

26. Get her in the mood (to send you nudes)
You’ll get addicted to using this with every girl from now on. This technique
is called “compliance.”
First, you asked for something small - a cute pic for her contact photo.
Then you rewarded her for complying - you told her she looked super cute.
From then on, you keep asking for more - a little bit at a time.
Now, she’s gonna love sending you pics, and she’ll want to do it more and
more…
Especially later on in the evening, or when she’s bored at work… and she’s
getting kinda horny thinking about you…
Don’t make the mistake of “trying too hard” to impress her or make her want
you…
That always backfires, because you fall out of the “Alpha” role (the one
being chased) and fall into the “Beta” role (the one doing the chasing).
You always want to keep her chasing you - that’s when everything happens
nice and smooth.
All you have to do is keep teasing her, flirting with her, and rewarding her for
chasing you (all while you’re moving things towards a date or a hook up, of
course).

EXPLICIT Examples below…
Sometimes you can give her some playful encouragement:
Or you can tease her with naughty/flirtatious ideas and see if she sends a
pic on her own…

Sometimes you don’t even have to say anything, she’ll just send you a hot
selfie from home because she wants to get your attention late at night:
But no matter what, ALWAYS make sure you compliment her and m
ake her
feel sexy and appreciated for sending you a pic:

She’s sending it because she wants that reaction from you. It turns her on to
know that she is turning YOU on. She wants to feel DESIRABLE.
Do this right, and by the time she meets up with you… she’s already
decided that she wants to sleep with you.
So you don’t have to do much, or “try” very hard to get her into bed… just
show up and be your charming self.
Pretty cool, right? Instead of stressing out over a date, or worrying about
rejection… just send her the right texts and 90% of the work is already
done-for-you.
Yep, hooking up with hot girls just got a whole lot easier for you, and a LOT
more fun…
Especially when you know this next text that always gets nudes in
response...

27. The “False Choice” Text… 9 out of 10 girls send
nudes in response
This is hands down, the most innocent, rejection-proof way to make her
want to send you racy photos of herself…
Here’s the deal…
A girl isn’t just gonna send you nudes for no reason. You gotta get her
warmed up first. So before you use the text I’m about to teach you, read the
chapters before this one.
But once she’s in the mood (to send you nudes) this works almost every
time.
This is called the “False Choice” text because you’re giving her a choice
between 2 different things, and both of them are sexy and fun.
Plus, it doesn’t matter because every girl responds the exact same way…
not with “choice 1” or “choice 2”...
They all say “both” - just look below for the proof, then try it yourself and
you’ll see.
Here’s the “False Choice” text, for when things are heating up:
“Right now, I want you to either - send me a really sexy pic - or tell me a
secret”

That’s the choice - a pic or a secret.
In action:
Hmmm. Look at that, it worked.
More:
Getting a girl to send you racy photos isn’t just sexy and exciting… it’s also
making her more and more comfortable with the idea of sleeping with you.
Yep, that’s right. This works all the time, even with girls you haven’t slept
with yet. It will even work with girls you met online, that you haven’t met in
person yet (if you do it right, of course).

Sending you sexy pics is the kind of thing she’d be doing with a guy she
was already sleeping with - so even if you haven’t met yet, she’s still gonna
be comfortable sleeping with you right away, because…
She’s already been fucking you for hours inside her imagination.
Wouldn’t that be a power you’d love to have? I thought so.
How does the “false choice” text go again? Like this:
My my… methinks it has worked again.
Even better, sending you pics like this makes it 100% certain she is the one
chasing you…

She isn’t just sending you any old pic… she is going into her phone and
choosing a pic that she really wants you to like… she’s trying as hard as
possible to impress you and turn you on.
Just imagine how hard she’ll try once she’s actually there, getting naked in
front of you for real…
See how that works? Wait… how does it go again… I think I forgot…

See what I mean? Exact same text - exact same response - “both” - like
CLOCKWORK.

(by the way, always make her feel good for sending you sexy pics - this is
one of the only times you can compliment her looks, she’s earned it)
One more time for good luck?

28. Hire Her, then Fire Her
This is a playful “theme” for a text conversation.
Hire a girl, then fire her.
She says something funny that makes you laugh?
“Ok dork, you’re hired. I need you to follow me around and make me laugh
like that every day. I’ll pay you with tequila, hope that’s cool.”
She teases you and acts like a brat?
“That’s it, you’re fired. Don’t make me get security to escort you out...”
She shows that she’s interested in you?
“Hmmm, I may have an open position for BFFN (best friend for now)… what
are your top 3 qualifications?”
She flirts with you in a sexual way?
“You’re hired. Your first assignment: send me a sexy selfie and start calling
me Sir”
This is playful and dominant, which is always a great frame of mind to take.
Women love to be told what to do like this!

And it can lead to so many fun and sexual conversations involving you, the
boss, and her, the naughty secretary…
Simple role play. Have fun with this.

29. "Alpha" Date Scheduling
This is the only way to guarantee she will never waste your time, flake on
you, play games, or string you along.
Tell me if this situation sounds familiar...
You: “Hey, I had a great time the other night, are you free to get drinks this
Thursday?”
Her: “I’d love to but I’m busy on Thursday.”
You: “Ok, how about Friday?”
Her: “Can’t Friday either.”
You: “Saturday?”
Her: “Busy all weekend, maybe sometime next week.”
You: “Ok, when are you free?”
Her: …. (nothing)
Has this kind of thing ever happened to you? And did you realize the crucial
mistake you were making?

Look, if you don’t understand the “game” of dating, this situation will make
you angry. It’s gonna feel like she’s stringing you along and playing games
with you.
But here’s the truth - setting up a date is NOT the same as setting up a
business meeting. You don’t just agree on a time and place and then you’re
all set…
That’s all logical. But dating isn’t logical, it’s emotional.
Here’s the missing piece:
When you suggest a time and get told “no” - you are being put in the “beta”
position in the conversation.
You are reacting instead of leading… and you are devaluing your time
relative to hers.
And every time she says NO, she’s not available, it reinforces that you are
more available than her, your time is easier to get than her time… therefore
you are less valuable than her.
Yeah, I know, it’s not fair. Deal with it.
Here’s how to flip that on its head and make sure you ALWAYS stay in the
“Alpha” position when scheduling a date:
Always get HER availability before revealing yours. That way, you only have
to ask once, and you know the answer is gonna be “yes.”
It’s easy, just ask her:

“What’s your week looking like?”
“When are you free to hang out and have the most fun ever?”
“When’s a good time for us to have our epic whiskey drinking adventure?”
You get the idea.
Then she’ll tell you when she’s free, and you tell her what day you are
hanging out.
Don’t ask her, tell her - “Let’s do happy hour on Thursday, I’ll take you to
this awesome place, you’ll love it.”
There’s an important concept at work here, it’s called SCARCITY.
When your time is scarce, you are perceived to be more valuable. There is
a high demand for your time, and a low supply of it. Never seem “too
available” for a girl, even if you are.

Too much back-and-forth rescheduling before you meet up is never a good
thing.
Look, she obviously likes you enough to consider seeing you again.
Don’t screw it up when you’re this close!
Follow this simple guideline and I guarantee, the amount of women who
waste your time will quickly get down to zero.

30. Why you need to end every conversation FIRST
If you want women to chase you more, you should embrace the concept of
scarcity.
Meaning:
When you limit your time and availability, she’ll gladly work harder for it.
But when you give your time away too freely, she’ll take it for granted.
How do you apply this over text message?
Simple - always be the one to end every text conversation FIRST.
And do it before you think you *should*... especially if it’s going well.
It’s a big mistake to text back and forth forever, with no end in sight… it
makes it seem like you have nothing better to do than talk to her endlessly.
And even if the conversation is going really well and you don’t want it to
end… trust me, the longer you keep talking, the more she’s going to get the
feeling that you’re not that special.
So make it a rule for yourself that you always say goodbye first. It’s for the
good of you BOTH.
It’s easy, just say:

“Getting dinner with friends and I hate being that guy on his phone. Talk
again soon.”
“Gotta run, try not to miss me too much.”
“Going out for the night, later gator.”
Your best bet is to end it on a high note, so she’s left with good feelings
about you, and she misses the hell out of you.

31. The “Sextrology” Text
If you’d like to have an easy, surefire way to flirt with any girl you want, no
matter what…
Get into Astrology.
For real, I have a pink “Sextrology” book on my coffee table and that thing
has been read by so many women, the pages are falling out.
Astrology is like crack cocaine for girls.
Even if she says she “totally doesn’t believe in that shit,” it’s still a fun and
flirtatious thing to talk about, and most guys miss the boat on this.
Astrology is great because it’s all FLUFF. It doesn’t matter if you believe in it
or not, it’s designed to be manipulated and serve whatever purpose you
want it to (what, you thought fortune tellers were telling the truth?)
So use it your advantage with women. Use your Zodiac sign and hers to
paint a picture of you and her together, as a couple.
It’s even easier on dating sites and apps because lots of girls list their sign
right in their bio, so you already have a ready-made opener.
Examples below…
“I’m a Gemini… don’t say I didn’t warn you.” (Geminis are known for being
players and jerks but you can use any sign for this, it doesn’t matter)

“I’m supposed to watch out for you, Scorpio… at least, according to this
Sextrology book on my coffee table.”
“A Leo and Gemini together? Is the world even ready to handle that much
awesomeness?”
“Two Geminis together? We’re probably gonna fight all the time. And I’ll win”
“Our horoscope for today: if they can’t handle us at our worst do they even
deserve us at our best?”
“Wait, you’re a Libra? Uh oh… I’m not supposed to talk to girls like you
anymore…”
“Your profile is so cute! Until you said you’re a Capricorn… totally ruined it”
“I see you’re a Pisces, I’m a Gemini… does this make us best friends or
mortal enemies? Either way, sounds like fun.”


32. The “Lust Shortcut”
This is how you can skip over the whole “first date” thing and get her to
come over to your place right away.
No, it doesn’t work with every girl… but it works a lot more than you might
think.
First, you want to plant the idea in her mind and get HER to suggest coming
over… without risking a rejection by saying “come over” right away.
When you’re just getting to know a girl, the last thing you want is a flat out
“no” - it derails all the momentum you’ve got built up and it’s never good for
either one of you.
Instead, you want to suggest that she comes over… in a way that makes it
not your idea.
To do this, simply phrase it in the “negative” - as in, something you *would*
do, but you’re not gonna do. For example:
“If I knew you better I would invite you over for a drink.”
“I would totally have you over to watch movies right now, if I didn’t just meet
you.”
“It’s too bad I don’t know you better or I’d just have you over for dinner
tonight.”

“I would totally invite you over for popcorn and movies… but we still haven’t
made sure you’re not a crazy voodoo witch or an axe murderer…”
You get the idea - you totally *would* do it, but you’re not gonna do it.
Then, you wanna see how she takes it.
Some girls will say “well you should get to know me better and we’ll see.”
And some girls will say “it’s okay, I’d love to come over.”
The key? She has to be chasing you first (showing lots of interest in you).
For that, use any of the other techniques in this book.
The harder she’s chasing you, the more likely it is that she’ll be down to
come right over.
Don’t be thirsty and aggressive like most guys - she’ll feel like she’s walking
into a predator’s den.
Plant the idea in her mind and let HER be the one to suggest that it’s okay.
More - most girls will be too nervous to come straight over to your place,
and that’s normal - she should be careful about meeting guys she doesn’t
know, it could be dangerous for her!
BUT… she won’t be nearly as nervous if you invite her over in a group
setting.
Like, if you’re having a small party, or even a roommate night. Tell her to
join you, and let her know she can bring a friend too.

If 50% of girls will say yes to coming over alone, almost 90% of them will
say yes to coming over in a group setting.
It’s no longer a nerve-wracking “hook up” full of uncertainty… i t’s a house
party!
And hey, once things are going well and you hit it off… you’re still REALLY
close to your bedroom and it’s easy for the two of you to slip off for some
alone time.
You can also achieve the same effect by inviting her to do things at your
place, that are not IN your place...
For example, I live in a large apartment complex with a grill in the backyard,
two swimming pools, and a gorgeous roof deck.
So all I have to do is say “come over and watch the sunset with me on the
roof” - or “come lay by the pool and be a lazy bum with me” - or “I’m grilling
hamburgers in my backyard by the river, come join me, we’ll roll a blunt for
dessert”
Those things sound fun and inviting, and she doesn’t have to worry about
actually going inside a stranger’s house...
Even though, in the back of our minds, we both know that my bedroom is
just a quick walk down the hall.
Make sense? Examples below:



33. Order Girls to Your House On-Demand
Wouldn’t it be great if you could just pull out your phone, open up an app, hit
a few buttons…
And a hot girl would be delivered to your doorstep in 30 minutes or less?
Just a few years ago, that wasn’t possible.
But now it is.
How? Use Uber! (or Lyft, or Ride, or any other taxi service app)
This little app comes in VERY handy when you’re making plans to hang out
with a girl, and she’s having a hard time with the “logistics” of getting there.
Instead of driving out of your way to pick her up… or making her drive to
meet you, pay money for gas, stress out over parking… or beg her friends
for a ride… etc.
Just get her an Uber and put the whole thing on “autopilot.”
Here’s why this is so amazing:
RULE - if you want women to chase you for sex more often, always make it
easier for her to say YES than to say NO.
So… if she wants to see you, but she’s having a hard time getting there…
make it easier for her! Get her an Uber. It’s the gentlemanly thing to do.

Here’s an example below - I was texting this girl for a date, she was super
excited to see me, but her car was in the shop and she couldn’t make it.


She showed up right on time, smiling from ear to ear, and we were making
out (and more) within the hour.
Most guys would be cheap and not willing to spend the 10 to 20 bucks to
get her a ride… which is hilarious because they’ll go out and waste
hundreds of dollars on food and booze to impress women instead.
Other guys will be too insecure to get her a ride, and say “fuck that, I don’t
spend any money on girls, I’m not a beta guy”
And that’s fine. Those guys rarely get laid. You do. It’s as simple as that.
Girls LOVE it when you get them an Uber, by the way - it’s like being taken
care of by a “Sugar Daddy” who ordered them a chauffeured ride in a fancy
car.
Only instead, it’s a part-time college student driving a Civic… so I guess that
makes you more of a “Splenda Daddy”... but who CARES?! You’re paying
for her to come to you, and girls love that kind of gesture.
Even better - make it even easier for her to say “YES” by taking it on
yourself to handle every little detail for her.
Leave nothing to chance - take care of her and make it effortless.
After you order the Uber, send her a screenshot of the app, with the driver’s
name, car, license plate, and estimated time of arrival.
Text the driver and let him or her know that they are picking up a girl for you.
Text the girl when the Uber arrives and tell her where to be.

Tell her to get excited. Tell her you’re excited to see her.
Make it so unbelievably EASY to go along with the plan, she never has to
think about anything (except what to wear to impress you).
Don’t let “logistics” like driving get in the way of an amazing opportunity.
I’ve personally paid thousands of dollars on Ubers for girls over the years,
and I’ve never regretted a single one of them.
Chances are, it’ll cost you under 20 bucks, and she’ll be super grateful when
she gets there.
Plus, it puts you in total control. She’s depending on you for a ride. For this
one short moment, you are the man who is taking care of her, and women
LOVE to be taken care of...
If it’s your first date, get her an Uber to wherever it is you’re planning to
meet up.
If she likes you, trusts you and is down to take things further, get her a ride
straight to your place.
You are literally ordering a girl to be delivered to your house, like a freakin
pizza.
God I love America.

34. She’s Playing Games? Use The FOMO Technique
Have you ever had a girl play “games” or act UNCERTAIN about you…?
Like, maybe she likes you, maybe she doesn’t.
Sometimes she’s available, sometimes she isn’t.
And you’re always left guessing, and waiting, and reacting to her....?
Here’s a simple technique to make her stop playing games with you.
It’s called FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out).
This will force her to make a decision about you.
Here’s an example of how I used it recently:
I had a date set up, and the girl was excited to see me. We were texting
back and forth like this:
Her - excited to see you tonight!
Me - me too! I hope you enjoy delicious drinks and great conversation (with
hot guys named Andrew)
Her - Three of my favorite things! See you tonight.
Me - 8:00 at Industry Bar, sound good?
Her - Yes! See you then.
It sounded like everything was great, but then, less than an hour before the
date…

Her - Andrew! So sorry, something came up, we’re gonna have to
reschedule.
And there you have it - she’s flaking at the last minute.
Here’s what you do when this happens.
You bring out your “Secret Weapon” … FOMO.
FOMO stands for “Fear Of Missing Out.”
And you want her to fear missing out on YOU.
How? You show her that you are not available any other time, which means
if she bails on this date you had planned, she can’t have you.
And women always want guys they can’t have.
(or guys they think they’re about to lose).
Here’s what it looks like in action:
reschedule.
Me - I can’t, I’m busy all week. What happened?
I know, it looks so stupidly simple.
All you’re saying is “I’m busy.”
But also…
Notice what you’re NOT saying.
You’re not saying “sure, I’m available any other time, whenever you are, no
big deal, just let me know.”

You’re not saying “why the fuck are you flaking on me you mean cruel
bitch? That’s so disrespectful of you!”
And you’re not saying “wait! Please come meet up with meeeee, it will be
sooooo much funnnnn, I promisssse!”
Instead, you’re simply saying “I’m busy.”
But under the surface, here’s what you’re REALLY saying...
“I’m not available to you later. If you like me, you don’t have the luxury of
waiting around and taking your time. This is your only chance.”
That’s how you use the motivating power of FOMO.
People ALWAYS want to take their time and wait until later to make a
decision.
That is, until you tell them they MUST take action now or they will miss out.
Here’s how that conversation ended, by the way:
reschedule.
Me - I can’t, I’m busy all week. What happened?
Her - I have a lot of schoolwork to catch up on. Can I see you later?
Me - (I don’t even text back. I want her to sit there staring at her phone and
feeling that FOMO creep in… second guessing herself… afraid she might
have just lost her chance...)
10 minutes later…
Her - Hey, my fault, it’s just been a crazy week. I really would love to see
you tonight, are you still down to meet up?

Me - Sure, meet me at the bar in 10 min.
Her - Okay! Be there in 7 ;)
See how simple and effective that is?
If the girl likes you, at all, she’ll say yes and come see you.
If she doesn’t… well, sorry but you didn’t have much of a chance to begin
with.
Move on with your head held high because you’re a badass and you know
that life is abundant.
There’s always another girl.
And hey, maybe something really big and important came up, and she is
really sorry, and she will totally text back later and give it another try with
you…
Or maybe she won’t. It doesn’t matter. You’re not waiting around on her
either way...
Because you’re the f@#king man and you’ve got sh*t to do!
You’ve got asses to kick and people to see. On to the next one...

35. When she’s acting like a BRAT…
It’s a test. Don’t take it seriously.
Instead, look at her as something cute and adorable that could never hurt
your feelings…
Like a bratty little kid. Call her that, literally. Say “stop being a brat, silly.”
Why is she doing it? Usually, because she wants a strong, masculine,
dominant man who won’t put up with her shit.
That’s right, women will give you shit and act like a brat from time to time,
and then HOPE you don’t put up with it!
Imagine all her little bratty tantrums and annoying dramatic behavior like a
storm of emotions… And then be the strong oak tree that’s rooted to the
ground and can’t be moved.
Important - know your boundaries - if she’s just being way too rude and
bitchy, then screw that, ditch her and move on.
But don’t freak out or be a little bitch about it either - most of the time,
women throw this kind of thing at you so they can FEEL that you are their
“oak tree.” It’s a turn on, plain and simple.
Here’s a great example of how to handle a bratty girl (FYI, this girl was a
few years younger than me).

36. When she says “you’re not tall enough”
This is the best way to seduce girls who say things like you’re not tall
enough or you’re not her type.
Here’s the deal…
You never want a girl to start thinking she is calling the shots.
You wanna show her that she has to “measure up” to your requirements,
not the other way around. And you wanna be proactive about it, before she
gives you shit about your height.
For example, my dating profile is full of playful “qualifications” that a girl has
to meet in order to talk to me…
And I continue that process when I’m texting girls:
“So what’s the nerdiest thing about you? Confession: I kinda like nerdy
girls.”
“How adventurous are you? On a scale of 1 to let’s have a random
adventure right now?”
“If you were to take me on a random adventure anywhere in the world,
where would we go first?”
“You seem pretty fun and harmless (probably lol)... what’s something super
cool and interesting about you?”

“I’m getting a really cool vibe from you… Would you say you are a fun date?
The idea is, you are asking her to prove herself to you, in a playful way…
And it’s all based on her personality, and how well you two vibe together,
which is far more substantial than how tall you are…
Also, when she answers those questions, she’s gonna be “putting her best
foot forward” and trying to impress you… i.e. chasing you.
And once she starts chasing you, the “Halo Effect” takes over and she starts
seeing everything you do through rose colored glasses…
You want her craving your approval so much, she doesn’t care about
superficial things like how tall you are… that’s a bullshit
socially-programmed belief anyways.
By the way, here’s why women say you have to be tall enough:
1, so you’re taller than her when she wears heels. This gives the
appearance of a strong, dominant man - and it makes other people think
she looks good and approve of her.
It’s also superficial as hell, and it doesn’t matter nearly as much as you
think…
I’ve dated tons of girls who were taller than me, and they were willing to
“waive” their rules about height, because…
2 - women like taller guys because they make her feel safe and secure.

And guess what? You don’t have to be taller than her to make her feel that
way.
Be a dominant, confident, powerful guy who takes care of his girl, and she’ll
feel safe with you even if you’re 5 feet tall.
You can’t make yourself taller, so just forget it. Nail the emotional part and
make her feel safe and secure, and you’ll be able to win over at least 8 out
of 10 girls who are picky about a guy’s height.

37. The most clever comeback of all time
Use this to handle any insult or put down a girl throws your way... and to
pass any “shit test” she tries to give you.
This one works best on the hottest girls because they never even see it
coming.
See that? It’s simple. Frame everything she says as “she likes you.”
She calls you an asshole? Cool.
“So what do you like about assholes so much?”
She says you’re a player? Cool.
“Are you usually attracted to players or is this your first time?”

She says you’re a jerk? Cool.
“So what else do you like about me?”
Don’t “milk” it too hard or you really will sound like a jerk, though.
Just know that if a girl ever gives you shit, this is the best way to handle it.
Own it, and use it to make her like you more.
And definitely, whatever you do, don’t back down or act like she hurt your
feelings.
If you really feel like she’s saying inappropriate shit that isn’t cool with you,
then drop her number and stop talking to her.
Otherwise, own it and laugh it off.
Hot girls will do this kind of thing all the time, it’s no big deal. It just means
she likes you.
I mean, come on… she’s texting you. Girls don’t text guys they don’t at least
KINDA like… they just ignore them.
And when you handle these situations like a badass, she’s gonna like you
even more.

38. The “Flake Buster”
Let me guess… you got her number, you were moving towards a date, and
everything was going great…
But now she’s being flakier than a box of cereal.
She’s not available, she got busy at the last minute, she’s so sorry, etc…
Hey, it happens. Don’t take it personally, do what you can to control the
situation, and let go of what you can’t control.
Here’s a good rule of thumb:
If you really like a girl, but she’s playing games, wasting your time and being
flaky with you…
Give her 3 strikes before you move on (and that’s being generous, I usually
only give 1).
If you ask her out and she doesn’t respond, or she can’t make it… that’s
strike 1.
Wait at least one day, and then try to make plans with her again like nothing
ever happened (I know, she was rude, she disrespected your time, etc… but
you gotta man up here and act like you don’t give a fuck, just trust me on
this one)

However, if it happens again, that’s strike 2. She’s on very thin ice with you,
buster.
Wait at least one more day, then try this one final “Flake Buster” text:
“Hey I never heard back from you. Are you just real busy or should I assume
you’re not interested?”
Another example:
“Hey, I’m not sensing a whole lot of interest here, I thought you wanted to
hang out? If not, no worries, I’ll stop texting you.”
Any variation of that will do.
You’re doing this to give her one last chance, and let her know that you’re
not gonna wait around forever. You’re a high value guy. You value your
time. And you have other options besides her.
So if she likes you and wants to see you at all… then it’s “shit or get off the
pot” time for her.
You’re injecting scarcity into the mix, and scarcity is a powerful motivator.
Even more importantly, you’re being totally NEUTRAL about it - not angry,
not mean, not submissive or weak - just “matter of fact.”
So there’s no way she can think you’re being rude or bitchy.
Usually, about half the time, a flaky girl will immediately text you back and
apologize… and then make plans to see you soon, and stick with them.

And that’s because of the “fear of loss” - she realized that if she didn’t get
her shit together and stick to the plan, she’s gonna lose her chance with
you.
The other 50% of girls won’t bother to respond, and in that case, I’ll be
honest - you lost her a while ago, she just didn’t have the heart to tell you.
Either way, don’t waste time fretting over flaky girls - set your boundaries,
give her 3 strikes… and then she’s out.
On to the next one…
Oh, and the funny thing about flaky girls? As soon as you move on to a
different girl, that same flaky girl is going to start texting you again.
Mark my words, you can almost always count on it to happen.
It’s like some weird hot-chick radar that goes off, where she can tell you’ve
moved on to a better girl and she’s missing out on something good.

39. The “Curiosity Bomb” (for when she stops replying)
Ever have a girl go ice cold on you over text?
You got her number, everything was great, she’s texting you back and
totally wants to see you again…
Then you send her a text and…
Nothing.
Just crickets.
Man that sucks…
But don’t get down on yourself… you have no way of knowing if she lost
interest, or she just got busy and forgot to write you back.
To get her responding again, you’re gonna want to drop the “curiosity
bomb”...
And then follow it up immediately with a plan to see each other in person, so
this doesn’t happen again.
Here’s how it works…
You’re going to send her something that triggers an OVERWHELMING
curiosity to reply to you.

For example…
“Text me when you get this, I have a fun idea…”
And when she replies with “what’s the fun idea” - you describe an exciting
date and start making plans to see her.
Here’s an even deadlier “bomb” of curiosity:
“OMG I just realized something about you…”
Or:
“Know what I like about you…?”
And here’s my favorite:
“I’m so mad at you…”
Can you start to see how these texts trigger an emotion and practically force
her to reply to you?
She’s gonna have to find out WHAT you realized about her, or WHY you’re
mad at her… there’s an urgency to those texts that cannot be ignored.
You’re making her CURIOUS, you’re teasing her EGO, and maybe even
making her a little bit nervous…
But that’s okay, because once she replies, you are going to PAY IT OFF
with something playful and fun that makes her feel great and guides the
conversation forward really fast.

Otherwise you’re basically the text version of “clickbait” and she’s gonna
feel manipulated and angry (no bueno).
See how that works? Literally no girl can resist the Curiosity Bomb... I
guarantee she will text you back, her mind simply can't handle it.

40. The “Cute/Kinky Combo”
Warning: this is going to get her heart pounding like crazy.
This is a great way to turn a girl on over text, without being overtly sexual
and cringey.
Most guys make the mistake of being too sexual, too fast. It’s creepy as fuck
and girls hate it.
But when you just add one more “ingredient” to the mix… it suddenly gets
very easy to get her turned on and chasing you… without making her
uncomfortable or coming on too strong, too fast.
What’s that one ingredient? Innocence.
Here’s the thing - women don’t get turned on like men do.
In order for her to get turned on, she can’t just feel sexual, she also has to
feel SAFE and COMFORTABLE.
That’s where the Cute/Kinky combo comes into play.
You combine something sexual with something innocent.
The sexuality makes her heart start fluttering... and the innocence makes it
safe and not creepy.

So when you’re thinking of what to text her, combine something like kissing,
spanking or holding hands… with something childish, cute or sweet.
Examples:
“I would have pulled your hair so hard in kindergarten.”
“I would hold your hand and skip down the street with you so fucking hard.”
“Ok, I’ll let you come over tonight… we’ll make a pillow fort and watch
movies inside it.”
“You’re trouble. Don’t make me spank you... and then make you pancakes.”
“You remind me of this girl who pushed me into the bushes at summer
camp and shoved her tongue down my throat.”
See how that works?
It’s not seriously, over the top sexual… it’s boyish and silly.
That’s how you wanna start off, every time. That way, you’re not being
BORING like most guys when they first start texting a girl. And you’re not
being CREEPY like other guys who come on too strong, too fast.
You’re striking the perfect balance.
A sexually confident and flirtatious guy who knows how to turn her on
without making her feel weird about it…?
Huh, you’re kinda like… a total catch, dude.

41. The Chase Commands
This whole book is about getting a girl to chase you over text.
And there are a lot of ways to do that, but this is BY FAR my favorite…
Because it’s the most obvious.
And yet, most guys completely miss the boat on this.
But not you, my friend. Not you.
Wanna know the most stupidly simple way to make a girl chase you?
Tell her to chase you.
Oh, and by the way, when I say “chase you” I mean doing something to
show interest in you… like pursue you for a date… send you a picture… try
to impress you… try to make you laugh… try to turn you on… etc.
Anything like that = her chasing you.
You can literally TELL her to do those things, and she’ll do it.
How can you be so sure? Because you’re not just gonna tell her what to
do…
You’re also gonna give her a reason WHY she needs to do it.

Psychologists have proven, time and time again, that giving someone a
reason WHY makes them TWICE as likely to say yes and do what you
want.
Ain’t that crazy?
So that’s how you’re gonna girls chasing you over text.
Tell her to chase you and give her a reason why.
Let’s call it a “Chase Command” - here’s an example:
When you’re talking on a dating app - “Text me, xxx-xxx-xxxx - it’s easier”
The command = Text me (here’s my number).
The reason = It’s easier (than talking on this app).
More examples:
“Send me a cute pic so I can use it for your contact photo.”
“Text me your favorite drink so I can pick the perfect place for our epic first
date”
“Send me a cheesy joke to make my day a little better”
“Tell me something awesome about yourself so I can totally fall in love with
you.”
“Send me a cool photo so I can show my mom her future ex daughter in
law.”

“Send me your cutest selfie so I can use it for our wedding invitation.”
“Text me something cute when you get home so I can get all bashful and
have a crush on you.”
“Text me when you’re on your way to meet up so I can get super excited
and have drinks waiting for you.”
“Text me something naughty later so I can get all hot and bothered thinking
about you.”
See how that works?
Make it easy, make it innocent, and make it fun.
If she doesn’t follow along, she’s just not that into you. “Next” her
immediately (if not sooner) and move on to a better prospect.
Never chase a loss. That’s a command ;-)

42. The “Bad Attitude Eraser”
So I’m sitting in a bar one night and I get a text from this girl Sam:

Maybe? This girl just texted me and asked what my schedule was like… but
she “maybe” wants to hang out?
I’m annoyed. This is a girl I’d been wanting to meet up with for a while, but
as you’ll see, she needed a bit of an attitude adjustment or this wasn’t
gonna work out…
This is a huge red flag for me. After texting literally thousands of different
girls over the years, let me tell you something…

The girls who say “I hate getting my time wasted” are usually the
biggest time-wasters of them all.
Here’s what happened next…
I called her out for being negative. And she immediately backtracks and
says “I’m chill”
No. I’m not letting her off the hook that easily.
Now, this is important. You shouldn’t be afraid to call a girl out when she’s
being difficult.
BUt… if the conversation doesn’t go well, it CANNOT be your fault, it has to
be obviously HER fault (some women have a nasty way of manipulating
men into thinking everything is their fault - it’s called “gaslighting” - look it
up).
Here’s how to call a girl out on her bullshit: Hold her accountable to
something she has already said or done. It’s a text message, there’s literally
a record of what she’s already said.
In this case, she texted me first, she asked me when I was free, and then
she started getting difficult… I know I have the upper hand here - I have
“leverage” in this conversation. And I am going to use it...

Well, would you look at that.
She realized, instantly, that I was not gonna put up with her bad attitude…
and that it was 100% her fault.
And she changed her attitude and agreed to come see me - “ok fine” - like a
bratty little child being taught a lesson.
Jeez… was that really so hard, Sam?
Lesson - if a girl has a bad attitude, don’t get annoyed and react like every
other guy…
This is how you handle people who waste your time - you call them out on
their bullshit and let them see how ridiculous it is.
The message is clear - they better act right or stop talking to you.
Note - when she texts you first, chases you, etc… you have “leverage” over
her bad behavior. This is very important - you didn’t come after HER and
pull this crap, did you? No, she came after YOU.
So remind her of that and put her back in her place.
You’re not being a dick, you’re just speaking the truth, and it’s written right
there in the messages so there’s no way she can deny it.
But hey, at the end of the day you never wanna stress over these things -
it’s just another test, and another chance to prove your masculinity and
dominance and how unbelievably sexy and perfect for her you are.

43. She forgot who you are? Send her this text
Ever text a girl and get a “who is this?”
We’ve all been there, it’s annoying.
If it happens to you, then send her this funny joke to play it off and get the
conversation started off on the right foot:
Girl - “who is this?”
You - “You forgot me already? That’s it, we’re broken up! Jk it’s ___”
If she doesn’t remember you and start replying after that, it might be a good
idea to add this part too:
You - “Honest confession, I don’t remember your name either… Crazy night.
But you must have made me curious if I asked for your number. How’d the
rest of your night go?”
From there, you can move the conversation towards a date - just say, hey,
let’s meet for coffee later and compare stories, that was such a crazy night
out, etc...
By the way, that example assumes you met her at a bar last night - tailor
that for whatever your situation is.

Here’s why you’re saying “I don’t remember your name either” - because
you don’t want to put her on a level *above* you, just because she doesn’t
remember your name.
You want to frame things so you are both on the same level. And if you
remember her, but she doesn’t remember you… you’re automatically in the
“beta” position right from the start, which is never gonna work out well for
you. Girls only chase guys who are in the “Alpha” or “Power” position (more
on that in other chapters).
To make sure this never happens again, try some of the other techniques in
this book related to making sure she remembers you, getting her number,
sticking in her memory, etc.
Also, learn a lesson from this - was there something you could have done
better when you first met her? Did you ask for her number too soon, before
she even got to know you or remember anything about you? Did you
misread her signals?
Finally, and most importantly, don’t let this get you down.
When she says “who is this?” you actually have no clue how she feels about
you, so never assume the worst.
Assume the best. Maybe she just got drunk and momentarily forgot you. It
was a crazy night! No worries…
This way, you have the best shot at reviving things and actually having a
conversation that leads to a date…

Plus, you won’t wind up acting like a dick and texting her rude, reactive,
bitchy things. Lots of guys do that, and almost every girl is afraid you might
do it to her too.
Worst case - she hates your guts and she’s being rude to you on purpose.
In which case... who cares? She’s a shitty person. Move on, and never
engage in drama over text.
Don’t be bitter. Be BETTER.

44. Use this and she will never tell you “I’m too busy”
Use this trick anytime you want to meet up with a girl, and you’ll always be
on top of her "to do" list for the week.
You never want to run into the trap of asking her out and being told “I can’t,
I’m busy”...
When that happens, you suddenly fall into the “beta” role in the
conversation, where you are chasing, and she is being chased.
I know, it’s super subtle and you might think it doesn’t matter, but it changes
the dynamic of the whole conversation and your odds of meeting up with the
girl go way down.
It’s almost like she can “sense” that she has the upper hand, and she starts
getting bored and taking you for granted… especially if you haven’t met in
person yet.
No bueno.
To guarantee that never happens, you want HER to suggest hanging out
before YOU do.
And you can do that by playfully INVITING her to make the move...
For example:
Instead of saying “do you want to get a drink with me tonight?”

Say - “are you a fan of delicious drinks and amazing conversation?”
She’ll say “yes, I love those things” - and then you’ve got the green light to
say “perfect, let’s meet downtown at 8.”
Example:
Instead of “would you like to meet up with me for coffee tomorrow?”
Say - “I have a feeling you might be a lot of fun to hang out with… have you
ever been to Urthh Caffe on main street?”
And let her be the one to say “yeah, I am fun! Let’s go there.”
Example:
Instead of “Do you want to go out to dinner?”
Say - “I just found this amazing vegan restaurant in my neighborhood! But I
need a cute/nerdy vegan girl to be my date… would you happen to know
any?”
And let her be the one to say “I do! It’s me! Take me there!”
Make sense? You wanna get her to suggest hanging out FIRST… so you
hint at it, in a playful and fun way. You INVITE her to suggest hanging out.
Make it super obvious and easy for her to “pick up on what you’re puttin
down.”

Even better, you can slip these things into your text conversation super
early, at times when she’s not even expecting it.
For example, when she says “what are you up to?”
Say - “not much, just texting this cute girl who totally needs to hang out with
me soon ;-)”
And let her be the one to say “yeah let’s hang out soon”
Make sense? I know, it’s super subtle. But TRY IT.
I think you’ll find it changes the whole dynamic of your text conversations
with girls, right from the start. You will rarely find yourself wasting time with
girls who are never gonna go out with you.

45. Revive a conversation that went cold
All text conversations have a certain “momentum”... and after too much time
goes by without talking, you lose that momentum.
At that point, it’s easier to let things go than to put in more effort to revive it.
But it’s not necessarily a rejection, it’s just basic human procrastination.
We’re all guilty of it at times.
Here’s how to revive the conversation and get the momentum revved up
again:
“Hey, just scrolling through my phone, I can’t believe we never met up! Text
me when you get this, I have a fun idea…”
This text does a few things at once:
>> You’re being upbeat about it, NOT blaming her or being “salty”... so she
doesn’t have to feel guilty for not responding to you
>> You’re tempting her to reply with curiosity - “I have a fun idea”…
>> You’re not being desperate or needy because you’re giving her a reason
why you’re texting her - you haven’t been thinking about her for days, you
were just spontaneously scrolling through your phone and you remembered
her

Try it. You won’t revive every cold conversation but it usually works for at
least half of them, which is definitely more than you’d get if you tried
nothing!
Lesson - people ALWAYS follow the path of least resistance.
It’s not usually about you, so don’t take it personally. Just redirect the “path
of least resistance” so it’s now EASIER to text you back and talk to you,
rather than let things go cold.

46. The “Emma Watson” method
A friend of mine has a HUGE crush on the actress Emma Watson…
He says she’s the perfect example of “girlfriend material.”
Just look at all her qualities, he says… She’s intelligent, confident, talented,
beautiful, kind hearted, flirtatious, etc…
Well, that reminds me… whether Emma Watson’s your type or not, YOU
should also have a list of “qualifications” that you’re looking for in a girlfriend
too.
Don’t be desperate and hope to just get “anything” - that’s lame and
unattractive.
Be selective. And you should let girls know that you’re selective when you’re
texting them.
Every girl secretly wants to be “selected” by a guy - she wants to feel like
she’s earned it, she’s special, she’s different.
So when it’s going well and you wanna make her feel special like that, just
tell her…
“Cute, I could maybe see you as my girlfriend… but wait, are you…”
And then start listing your girlfriend qualifications, and make a few of them
funny so she’s not entirely sure if you’re serious or not…

Look, every single girl wants a boyfriend, even if they say they don’t.
Even if she’s super independent and SWEARS she only ever wants to be
single… that’s usually just a temporary phase for her.
Deep down, what every girl is seeking in a man is security and commitment.
And she’ll get turned on like crazy when she feels like that man could be
you...
But she has to feel like you CHOSE her for a reason… because she met
your “qualifications.” So you wanna get her to “qualify” herself to you… to
prove to you that she’s Emma Watson quality “girlfriend material.”
And while every other loser is gushing about how beautiful and perfect she
is, she’ll be chasing you instead.

47. The “Casanova Text”
Every girl is a sucker for this but most men have no clue about it…
Casanova was renowned as the greatest lover of all time. Why?
Because he took the time to make every girl feel special and valued… he
fed off her uniqueness and feminine qualities… he knew how to make her
feel appreciated as a woman.
You can do that too. Take the time to appreciate little things about her, and
let her know that you noticed them.
It’s easier than you think. Just tell her you like something about her
personality and say that it’s a big turn-on for you.
It’s honest, and super easy… but most guys don’t do it because they’re shy,
or afraid of looking “unmanly”
Screw that. Casanova didn’t care about looking unmanly, so you shouldn’t
either.
Don’t make your conversations with women all about yourself and your
“manliness.” Don’t make it about you at all… make it about her.
She’ll feel special, like she’s winning you over just on the basis of who she
is as a person.

As Casanova would tell you, that’s one of the sexiest things you can do for a
woman.
For example, here’s a conversation I was having with a girl who’s an exotic
dancer… so she is VERY used to men valuing her looks, and nothing else:

More examples:
“Something tells me you would be a great mother someday.”
“I like how you speak your mind and don’t filter yourself, that’s a huge turn
on for me.”
“You seem like such a caring and kind person… it’s so refreshing to be
around you.”
“You have this really feminine, sensual side that I think is so attractive, I
really appreciate that about you.
“I love how you smile when you’re around your friends, I can see why they
all look up to you.”
“So I’ve noticed something about you… you’re really open and not afraid to
be yourself. I think that’s so sexy.”

48. The “Anime” technique
I didn’t know it at the time, but Ela was a virgin when I met her.
I had no idea at first… she was this cute little punk/emo chick with rainbow
colored hair, pierced nipples and all-black clothes.
But once we started getting physical, she was super nervous and needed to
take things very slow.
All her past boyfriends tried to have sex with her, then they got angry when
she said no… and no one ever took the time to understand her and connect
with her emotionally… so her “walls” were pretty high and thick.
So we slowed things down, and as I got to know her more, I discovered that
she LOVED this one Anime show called Tokyo Ghoul.
Now, I’ve never been into Anime or comic book type stuff, but I really liked
Ela and I wanted to learn more about her… so I watched a few episodes of
Tokyo Ghoul, and I realized...
The characters are all SUPER sensitive and emotional.
Even though it’s an “action” show… the characters like to EMOTE all the
time. As in, they say how they are feeling, about everything, constantly.
They wear their heart on their sleeve.

And even though they’re super insecure and self-conscious about
everything… there’s a certain “bravery” they display in revealing their
emotions out loud (yes, it’s immature, but you gotta understand that tons of
women feel this way and they don’t wanna be judged for it).
The truth is, to a lot of girls, especially the really sensitive ones… emoting
feels really good… and in fact, it’s almost necessary. It’s a core part of their
identity.
Some girls just need to open up their heart to someone and share every last
one of their feelings… they want to feel listened to, and understood…
And they *need* it just as badly and urgently as you *need* to get laid.
So that night, as I was watching Tokyo Ghoul, I started texting Ela and
getting her to open up emotionally.
It didn’t take long before the sexual energy went through the roof, and the
walls started coming down… and the next time I saw her in person, her
panties started coming down too...
I won’t share our conversation here because it’s personal and private, but I
will tell you how to use the same techniques to get a girl to open up
emotionally.
Not every girl needs this, but the really sensitive, shy, nerdy, submissive
girls will definitely get turned on when you do this…
You will become the only guy in the world who truly “gets” her.
Here’s what you do…

Start by telling her how open and emotional she is, and how much you like
that about her (traits you want her to display).
“Can I tell you something honest? I really like how sensitive you are… it’s
like you feel things on a deeper level than most people… that’s so
attractive.”
“There’s something about you that makes me feel really comfortable… like I
could tell you anything… would you say that’s true?”
Then, you want to encourage her to open up and tell you how she feels…
about herself… about men… about you… about everything.
Open discussion. No judgment. No boundaries.
Say things like…
“What did you feel like when you first met me?”
“What really turns you on about a guy?”
“What happened with your last relationship? How did it end?”
“What scares you the most?”
“Do you like being alone, or around people?”
“What do you like the most about kissing me?”
“Have you ever been in love?”
“How do you feel about relationships? Getting married? Having kids?”

If she gets nervous, remind her that she totally doesn’t have to talk about
anything if she doesn’t want to, you’re just really curious about her:
“Feel free to say no, that’s totally fine… I’m just so curious about you.”
Ask her all the personal, emotional things you want, and really pay attention
and listen to how she replies. From there, just be patient and let her share
her heart with you.
The best part is, because it’s over text, she’ll feel much safer and less
awkward, when she might feel self-conscious and judged if she were sitting
in front of you….
Plus, she’ll have time to think about her responses and not feel rushed or
pressured.
Use this with sensitive girls you genuinely care about. It takes time, but it’s
totally worth it and you’ll learn a ton about women and about yourself.

49. “Tell me something honest”
This is an extremely tempting text to send to a girl… she’s going to feel an
irresistible urge to say “yes” and find out what comes next.
It’s also a great way to deliver a heartfelt compliment that you really want to
sink in and not be taken for granted.
And it’s an even better way to open up the conversation in deeper, more
sexual and erotic directions.
There are two ways to use this technique.
First, you can ask her this question:
“Can I tell you something honest?”
And then follow it up with something genuine, heartfelt and/or sexual.

If you’ve been super flirtatious and silly in your texts, I highly recommend
you try this, it’s a phenomenal way to break up the pattern and hit on some
deeper emotions.
If all you send is silly/fun texts, you run the risk of looking like a clown she
doesn’t take seriously...

The second way to use this technique is to ask her to tell YOU something
honest:
“Tell me something honest?”
She’ll be extremely curious what you’re going to ask her next, and she will
almost always say “yes” right away. Then you follow it up with something
you want to know about her.
It can also be a good idea to add the extra statement:
“Feel free to say no, of course.”
That way she won’t feel pressured into responding, and when there’s less
pressure, things always go smoother.
For example:


50. Tell her who is in control
Women love it when a man takes control.
Even if she’s a boss-ass CEO and eats men for breakfast in the
boardroom…
She still wants her man to take control in the bedroom.
She can’t help it, she gets insanely turned on when she KNOWS you are in
control.
So tell her that in your texts, from time to time.
Remind her that you are in control. Tell her you’re in charge and she has to
follow your rules. Tease her with images of masculine dominance in bed.
Just ask yourself… what would Christian Grey do?
It’s fun, it’s kinky and girls love it.

51. The “Sweet Dreams” Text
This one is short and sweet. You’re probably going to wind up using it with
every girl you text from now on.
The situation - you’re texting back and forth, it’s late, and it’s time for bed.
Text her this before you say goodnight:
“You’re allowed to dream about me, just try to keep it pg-13 okay?”
This does a few things, all at once:
- It’s funny and makes her smile

- It reinforces the frame that she likes you - she’s totally gonna dream
about you
- It suggests that she might have an R-rated or X-rated dream about
you… without actually saying anything sexual
Most girls will usually reply with something like:
“I make no promises” - OR - “it will definitely be R-rated”
Just another way to lead her to the brink of sexuality… and then let her take
the final step there.
She’s chasing you. You’re reeling her in. And it’s good fun for you both.

52. The “Erotic Meme” text
This one is easy and you probably do it already… but if not, get on this!
A well-timed gif, pic, emoji, bitmoji, meme, etc. is a good way to break up
the monotony of text after text…
After all, a picture can say a lot more than words, in less space.
The trick is to only send pics that ADD to the flirtation between you. Don’t
just send her funny shit you saw online for no reason…
Send her funny shit that’s all about you and her together… or something
kinky or sexy that you know she might like because she mentioned it to you
before...
Or, send her a funny meme and add “I saw this and it made me think of you,
I knew you’d appreciate it”
Make it personalized somehow. My favorite examples are below.
I suggest you collect a few of these in a folder on your phone, so you can
send them to girls when you feel the time is right.

53. Can’t See Her for a While? Don’t Lose Momentum...
Most text conversations have “momentum”... and if you lose the momentum,
you lose the girl.
This can be a problem when you really like a girl and the conversation is
going well… but for some reason, you and her can’t see each other for a
period of time.
Like - she’s out of town for a while, or studying for exams all week, etc.
In those cases, you need to get her to agree that she’ll keep in touch with
you.
Otherwise, things will fade out and go cold, and when that happens, your
odds of getting it going again are slim.
Here’s what you do:
You need her to COMMIT to keeping the momentum up over time.
And since you know that people always do whatever is easy and feels
good…
Make this the “easy feel good” option and reward her for doing it.
Start like this:
“Let’s make a deal…”

Then have her promise that she’ll text you in the meantime… and make it
playful and fun, so she’ll smile and say yes to the deal.
“Make me a deal… that you’ll send me at least one selfie and/or love letter
every day so I don’t forget you.”
“Let’s make a deal… that we’ll write each other every day, like that movie
the Notebook… don’t forget me my loooooove ;-)”
“Let’s make a deal… that we’ll keep texting in the meantime because this is
just too fun to let it fade out…”
“Promise me you won’t forget that we are in love and destined to be
together… don’t let our future kids down, darling.”
From there, you wanna make it a point to check in with her every few days,
and “ping” her with something playful to keep the momentum up until you
see her again.
For instance, if she slacks off on the deal you can playfully call her out on it:
“Ok, so you suck at making deals, missy. I’m breaking up with you ;)”
“Don’t worry… I’m not, like, crying myself to sleep and sobbing into my
pillow because I miss you, or anything.”
“Hey loser, miss me yet?”
Finally - if you like each other enough, then just pick up the phone and call
her, or even better - Facetime her.

I’ve done that with girls I met through apps, even when we hadn’t met in
person yet, and it was a great way to bond and connect face to face.
Just text her - “hey, I feel like we might have a cool connection and I don’t
wanna let this slide and forget about you… FaceTime date later?”

54. The “First Kiss” Text
Send this one playful message and she will start daydreaming about kissing
you… even if you haven’t kissed before. It’s crazy no other guy even knows
about this:
“I can already tell our first kiss is going to be amazing.”
More examples:
When she has to go study - “Just try not to imagine kissing me in the library
behind the bookshelves…”
When she’s coming to meet you at a bar - “Come find me and you might just
get the best kiss ever… or maybe just a drink lol”
When she’s meeting you for a second date - “Just so you know, you’re
getting the best kiss ever when you see me.”
When she’s at work in the middle of the day - “Hey! Stop daydreaming
about kissing me and get back to work, silly.”
Make sense?
The best time to send her a text like this is after she’s already shown
interest in you… don’t lead off with something like this or you’ll sound
creepy.

But once she’s interested, flirting with you, etc… this is how you take it to
the next level.
You’re probably gonna feel a little nervous to send this to her, but trust me,
you gotta be willing to put your intentions out there like this.
And don’t be shocked when she starts getting all hot and bothered by how
sexually confident and ballsy you are.
Girls LOVE a guy who is shameless… who tells her exactly what he’s gonna
do, and then does it, with no apology.
And even if she doesn’t love it, you shouldn’t let it get you down too much.
Don’t regret being shameless and putting yourself out there like this.
It’s far better than being timid and holding back, for fear of rejection.
It’s much better to ask for forgiveness, than to ask for permission.

55. The “Literotica Text”
Did you know…
A vast majority of women like to masturbate while reading “Literotica” stories
like 50 Shades of Grey, romance novels, or dirty Fan-Fiction stories on the
internet? It’s true...
The “written word” has a special erotic power over the female mind.
Here’s how to use that in your texts: Turn everything she says into a
beautiful or sexy image of you and her together.
For example, making out in the rain:

More beautiful/sexy/romantic images to play with:
- Hand writing love letters to each other over long distance
- Tying her up with sensuous strands of rope
- Having a super hot forbidden love affair
- Falling in love in the summertime
- Curling up with each other next to a fire
- Wrapping her up safely in your arms
You can also play around with erotic words and phrases like these:
● Soaking wet
● Rock hard
● Heart pounding
● Mind blowing
● Throbbing
● Breathless
● Lying awake at night
● Soulmate
● Open heart
● Spiritual
● Best friend
● Passion
● Flame
● Deep
● Complete
● Craving
● Tease me
● Temptation
● Deep Inside
● Come inside

Want more? Pick up a romance novel and skim through it for ideas. They
cost 5 bucks and they sell em at Walgreens…
Most men don’t care about “that chick-lit stuff”...
Also, most men have zero clue about what really turns a woman on…
Coincidence? Hardly...
Use these tips in your text messages and she’ll start chasing you HARD.
So, so hard… ;-)

56. The “New Orleans Gumbo” Text
“I’m inviting you”
That’s what I texted to about 20 different girls in a row on Tinder one Friday
night.
I was sitting in my living room in New Orleans, with my friend Race, and we
were testing out an idea…
What if we invited every single one of our Tinder matches to a party at the
same time?
I was hesitant at first… it sounded like a dumb idea. What if no one
responded?
Even worse, what if they all responded and came to our party… and then
met each other and realized they were all our Tinder matches?
But it was worth a shot, and it didn’t take any time or effort to just cut and
paste “I’m inviting you” to a bunch of girls.
Well, we messaged 40 girls that night. At least 30 of them replied and about
15-20 of them showed up at our place for the party.
Combined with our other friends, it made for one hell of a night.
Imagine being at your own house, surrounded by girls who all came there to
see you…

I’m not gonna lie, it was pretty chaotic, but we gave each girl plenty of
attention and made sure the group was having fun, and we got a TON of
new friends, dates and girls out of it.
Since that night, we started calling it the “Gumbo” party… because we just
threw a lot of ingredients together in a pot and stirred it all up.
Here’s the recipe to create your own “New Orleans Gumbo” party:
Ingredients:
- As many girls as possible

- A lot of alcohol
- Drinking games
- Music
- Sexual tension
- Awkwardness
- Chaos
- Fun
Directions:
- Text all the girls - “I’m inviting you”

- Add a lcohol
- Stir the pot - give every one of them attention, introduce them to each
other, play fun games, etc.
- Heat things up to a boil
- See what happens
By the way, we were honest with all of these girls. We straight up told them
“we invited you all off Tinder just to see what would happen.”

But the thing is, we were also great hosts. We supplied all the things that
girls love in a party.
We got them all drunk, played music, had a dance party, showed them a
good time, and introduced everyone to everyone.
Two of the girls even wound up becoming best friends!
So, if you’re gonna throw a Gumbo party, just remember - you gotta own it.
No shame in your game.
Just pull out your phone and start making invites, it’s pretty easy when you
have thousands of girls at your fingertips through dating apps.
It all starts with just 3 words - “I’m inviting you” - ballsy, confident, direct.
Ready? Then let’s get spicy and start stirring up the pot...

57. Accuse her of stalking you
This one is pretty straightforward and fun.
It’s another roleplaying “theme” for your text conversation.
Accuse her of stalking you, trying to peep on you in the shower, follow you
home, etc…
It’s a fun, playful way of setting the “frame” that she is chasing you.
And when she starts laughing and playing along, she’s playing into the role
of “chasing you” which is what we want.
Examples:
“So mad at you… just got out of the shower and you’re not here peeping in
my window… what’s a guy gotta do to get a decent stalker these days?”
“Hey stalker, try not to follow me home tonight, okay? I’m not that kinda guy”
“I’m taking applications for a new stalker if you’re interested… I had to fire
my old one for going thru my underwear drawer… some lines just shouldn’t
be crossed.”
“You’re not gonna follow me home later, are you? Because that would be
just great…”
“Hey… is that you outside my window with the binoculars? Caught ya”

58. Propose to Her, Marry Her… then Divorce Her
Most girls have been fantasizing about getting proposed to ever since they
were kids...
You can use this in your texts to get her more excited than a bride on her
wedding day.
The key is to exaggerate so it’s obvious you’re playing around…
Man, you can get away with SO many fun and sexual when you just add a
little humor to it...
For example… let’s say you just matched with a girl on Bumble 5 minutes
ago…

Follow these easy texting topics for hours of effortless fun and flirtation:
- Playfully “propose” to her

- Ask her where she wants to go for your honeymoon
- “Divorce” her and start splitting up your “assets”
- Accuse her of having an affair with the pool boy
- Anything else you can think of involving marriage...
Again, this is all slightly ridiculous because you barely know each other…
that’s why it’s so funny.
But at the same time, to the most basic, primal part of her imagination… it’s
all the same.
When you use this technique, she’ll be giggling and flirting with you fast, so
make sure you move towards a date ASAP - just tell her you need to meet
tonight to discuss honeymoon plans over cocktails at your favorite bar.

59. “Too bad you’re not here…”
This one is guaranteed to get her heart pounding…
Here’s the deal - women get turned on in their imagination first, before it
happens physically.
Texting is perfect for this, because you are not there with her… so your
words can slip inside her imagination and make her feel all kinds of things.
How?
Start with the phrase “it’s too bad you’re not here”
Or - “if only you were here right now”
Then, describe the little details of what would be happening... I F she was
there with you.
Don’t be pornographic (at first)... start by teasing her with little images of
how you might kiss her… touch her… pull her hair… take her hand and lead
her somewhere… etc.
And if she gets really into it, get more and more graphic (in small steps). But
ONLY as much as she is enjoying it and wanting more.

60. How to spice up BORING small talk
When a guy and a girl first meet, they usually make “small talk.”
This is a boring, pattern-based conversation where you say the same boring
things you’ve said to every boring stranger you ever met, like…
“Where are you from?”
“What do you do?”
“How about this weather?”
Dude. Screw that. Nobody cares about the weather.
This is your chance to rise above the typical, mediocre conversation that
every girl is used to having… and show her how much better it feels to text
a guy who knows how to make life fun and exciting.
Rule - never waste a text on something boring when you can easily
write something interesting instead.
This is especially crucial when you’re first getting to know a girl. Every text is
make-or-break important.
For example, when she texts something boring - and you know she will,
because everyone is trained to say this stuff - don’t just answer it right away.

First, give her an unexpected and flirtatious answer:
Example:
Girl - “What are you up to?”
You - “You mean aside from daydreaming about you? Not much, just
cooking.”
Example:
Girl - “Where are you from?”
You - “Isn’t it more about where you’re going? Jk, I’m from Dallas.”
Example:
Girl - “How is your day going?”
You - “Well, Rick and Morty season 3 just came out… plus I’m texting this
cute nerdy girl right now so I’d say my day’s going perfect so far, you?”

Make sense? When you’re texting a girl, you always have a little bit of time
to think of something above-average to send her. Use it!
This is gonna make ALL the difference between a fun conversation that
actually leads somewhere… or a boring conversation that dies in just the
first few minutes.
Even better, you don’t have to wait around for her to say something boring
before you spice things up… you can use this same technique in your
messages to her FIRST.
I do this all the time, as a habit, and it’s one more reason girls love texting
me. Examples of things you might text a girl:
“So what are you up to today? Aside from daydreaming and writing about
me in your diary, of course.”
“What are your plans tonight and how can we add more cuddling to that?”
“How adventurous are you, on a scale from 1 to let’s get in a bar fight right
now?”
“How’s your night going, and how mad are you that you’re not here having
fun with me right now?”
“What are you up to? Let me guess… you’re watching 50 shades of grey
and writing about me in your diary again…”
“What made you move here? Aside from our super hot forbidden love affair,
obviously.”
Got it? Don’t ask lame questions. Assume awesome scenarios.

61. The “Please Your Professor” Text
FYI, when you start doing this, a lot of girls will probably ask you to teach
them something sexual, so be ready to give her an A plus on her “oral
exam.”
This is another role playing “theme” for a fun, sexy text conversation. In this
one, you put her in the “student” role and you make yourself the professor.
Then you give her homework assignments…
Make her stay after class…
Give her detention…
Give her demerits (catholic school kids will know what this means)
Ask her what she’s willing to do for extra credit…
Tease her (don’t make me spank you with a ruler, missy)
Grade her on her efforts… (A+ for chasing you, flunked out for being a brat)
Got it? Easy, fun, chicks love it.

62. “Good Girl”
Once a girl starts chasing you over text…
And by “chasing” I mean showing interest in you… flirting with you… saying
she likes you and wants to meet up, etc…
You want to reward her for doing that.
People are always motivated to do things that make them feel good.
So make her feel good for chasing you, and she’ll do it more and more.
Do it enough, and you can have her eagerly chasing you around like a
lovesick puppy on a leash.
I was thinking of that image one night - a lovesick puppy on a leash - and it
made me want to say these two words…
“Good girl.”
The girl’s response was exactly what I wanted, and now I say it all the time.
It’s cute, and dominant, and kinky, all at the same time. It’s a reward for
chasing you… or doing something sexy that pleases you… etc.
But you have to say it at the right time, when she’s showing interest on a
sexual level. And when you do… oh man, she’s gonna be wrapped around
your finger so fast...

63. Daddy Issues
There’s a certain type of younger girl who is really attracted to older guys.
Not all, but some. And for many of them, it’s definitely a “daddy” thing.
If you’re an older guy and you find yourself talking to one of these girls, here
are a few things you need to know about messaging her:
You can’t text younger girls the same way as women closer to you in age.
You have to take the “daddy” role.
That doesn’t mean she has to literally call you “daddy”... although many girls
would love to, it’s a pretty popular kink (see screenshots below).
It DOES mean that you have to be very dominant and take-charge with her.
That’s what younger girls want from an older guy.
If she wanted a kind, sweet, silly, fun guy she’d be dating someone her own
age.
If she’s going older, it’s because she wants to get something from you that
guys her age aren’t giving her.
Trust me, I’ve dated tons of these girls and they all say the same thing -
“guys my age don’t know how to handle me.”
So - handle her.
And this goes for any girl you’re texting, but especially the younger ones.

All your messages need to communicate Masculinity. Dominance. Sexual
experience. A guy who can teach her things in the bedroom… who can
open her up to new experiences she is curious about… who’s not afraid to
take control and do bad things to her.
Excited yet? Haha, it gets so much better… you have no idea.
Plain and simple, she wants a guy who has power over her. That’s what
she’s seeking, that’s what turns her on, and that’s the dynamic you have to
establish in your texting.
Some guidelines:
>> You always need consent and respect first, before being too
dominant - so start with asking questions you know she will say “yes” to -
and keep her saying YES as you move the conversation along. Even better,
make her say “yes sir”
>> If she’s a brat, discipline her, it’s what she wants - “stop being a brat” -
“don’t make me spank you” - “you’re bad, I’m gonna have to punish you”
>> Find out what nickname she likes to be called - it’s usually something like
“babygirl” or “kitten” - and for you, she’ll usually want to call you “daddy,”
“master” or “sir”
>> Don’t judge her, not for anything - be open and accepting about
everything she says - she’s exploring something new here and she needs
you to be her guide - let her know she can trust you

>> If you’re nervous about her age, ASK TO SEE HER ID before you get
sexual. It’s not wrong to ask, and she should be fine showing you. Don’t
break the law here, it’s not worth the risk, no matter what she might tell you.
Just knowing these little details will instantly make you stand out to her -
she’ll know, right away, that you’re the hot older guy who has what she’s
been looking for.
You’re now an “insider” in her kinky 50-shades-of-grey fantasy world.
Have fun ;-)


64. Blame it on Autocorrect
I discovered this by accident… I was typing something in my phone, and it
autocorrected “sec” to “sex”...
As in, “be there in a sex”
At first, I was embarrassed and immediately corrected myself.
Then I realized… it’s just the word “sex,” that’s not so bad. Why not use this
innocent, honest mistake as one more reason to flirt and be sexual over
text?
It’s just a funny “blooper” type mistake you and the girl can have a laugh
about… and it’s always good to have reasons to be a little self-deprecating,
or even bashful over text. It’s disarming.
Now, I do this on purpose from time to time, as a way of being playful and
“testing the waters” with a girl.
When autocorrect wants to change a word for me… I just let it happen and
make a joke about it afterwards. It’s like autocorrect is my texting wingman...
For example:
“Let me know when you’re free, I’m sure we’ll finger it out…
FIGURE it out. FIGURE. Jeez, thanks a lot autocorrect…”

For example:
“Be right there, just give me one sex.
SEC. Meant to write SEC. Freudian slip? Lol”
And you just want to see how she takes it.
If she laughs and flirts with you, now you know it’s cool to be a little more
sexual in your texts with her, she’s not gonna be freaked out.
And if she says nothing, then you wanna take things a little slower in that
department and wait until you see her in person. Don’t want to trigger any
“red flags” and make her think you’re a creeper just because you didn’t
know her boundaries on sexualized texting, right?
But either way, you won’t lose anything for doing it… it’s an honest mistake
that anyone could make, that’s how I thought of it in the first place.
A small, but effective texting tip. Use it wisely, at the right time.

65. The “Dead Air” Trick
This one is slightly devious but it almost always works.
It’s called the “Dead Air” trick and you can thank my friend Glenn Pearce for
teaching it to me.
This is a “pattern break” that JOLTS her out of her comfort zone and gets
her working hard to impress you.
You wanna use this sparingly, otherwise it loses its power.
Here’s how it works:
Anytime you feel like a girl isn’t totally “sold” on you… like you might just be
one guy out of many that she’s talking to… and she’s treating you like you’re
just an option to her...
Use one of the techniques in this book to get her chasing you a bit, and
then, right when she’s texting you back and it’s going well...
Stop texting her back.
“Dead Air” her, as Glenn says.
And wait until the next day before you reply. Just tell her you got busy and
put your phone down.
In the meantime, she’ll be going NUTS wondering what happened…

Her mind will be working overtime, wondering if she did something wrong, if
she’s lost her chance with you, if you’re “ghosting” her…
She might even get a little angry and self-righteous because guys don’t
usually do that to her…
Usually, SHE does that to guys…
In fact, has that ever happened to you?
Has a girl ever stopped texting you back for no reason? And you had no
idea what happened?
What sort of things went through your mind?
You probably got a little insecure and wondered if you screwed up, right?
You may have even texted her a second, third or even fourth time (ugh, we
all know that’s a huge mistake but it’s just so tempting sometimes)...
And you probably kept thinking about that girl all day long, wondering what
the hell was going on?
Of course… that’s because getting “Dead Aired” is a blow to the ego.
And that’s exactly what’s gonna happen in her mind when you “Dead Air”
her…
I know, it’s a little cold-hearted. But it’s for a good reason.

Because you know it’s gonna amp up her attraction for you and make her
serious about texting back and meeting up with you.
And when you text her back the next day, and let her know that you just got
busy, no big deal, she’s gonna be ready to see you in person ASAP.
This is best used on girls who are interested, but not 100% “sold” on you
yet…
It turns the tables of power in your favor. She’s gonna be going crazy
thinking about you in endless loops, and she’ll be desperate to “figure you
out”...
And the only way she can be SURE about you… and know with absolute
certainty that you definitely do like her…
The only way for her to heal the bruise you just gave her ego...
Is to meet up with you and sleep with you.
Then she can say to herself “ha, I knew it, he does like me. I got him. I
WIN...”
So get her out on a date already. It’s a win-win for you both.
Make it happen.

66. The “Candy Crush” Technique
This is a “meta” technique. It’s not a text, it’s a strategy.
This combines multiple texts from this book to create a powerful, addictive
effect.
Did you know… software companies spend millions of dollars a year to get
people addicted to games like Candy Crush and Farmville?
It’s a billion dollar industry, on the cutting edge of “gaming psychology” - the
same psychology that gets people addicted to gambling.
And with mobile games in particular, the biggest users, by far, are women.
Why are these games so addictive? And how are you going to use that in
your texts to get women addicted to you?
The secret lies in something called “intermittent rewards”... AKA “the most
powerful motivator on the planet.”
But I’m gonna call it the “Candy Crush” effect, since that’s the most
profitable and addictive mobile game that targets women.
You need 2 main ingredients to make this work - challenge, and intermittent
rewards.
1 - challenge - we’ve talked about this all over the place in this book, but the
main idea is simple. You are not easy, but you are still “gettable.”

You’re a “level of the game” that CAN be beaten… but you gotta play the
game for a while to beat it...
This is why I’ve been telling you to never compliment her looks, don’t be too
available, etc…
Make it clear to the girl that you are interested, but you are never “in the
bag.” She still has to work for you.
Always be a little bit of a challenge. And when she steps up to the challenge
and chases you, you want to reward her for that by showing interest back…
BUT - and this is a big “but” - you don’t want to reward her every time. You
want your rewards to be UNPREDICTABLE.
2 - Intermittent rewards
This is why girls love men who are aloof and “hard to read” - guys with a
laissez faire attitude:

It’s that state of UNCERTAINTY that makes her so aroused (imagine a
lovesick girl picking petals off a flower, wistfully whispering “he loves me, he
loves me not…”)
This means - always keep her on her toes, always keep her guessing, never
let her get too comfortable or certain about you.
When she feels like she “can’t figure you out”... that’s what drives her to
keep chasing… to keep playing the game, to keep pulling the lever on the
slot machine, to keep crushing those bright little candies…
That’s the “Candy Crush” effect.
You are a challenge, and you are unpredictable. She has to “play the game”
to get the reward… but she never knows when that reward is gonna come
so she’s always on the edge of her seat, dripping with anticipation...
This is LITERALLY what makes people addicted so please be careful how
you use this…
In practice, here are some things you can do to create this effect:
>> The “dead air” technique (use sparingly) - right when it’s going well, and
she’s texting you back predictably… stop responding to her. Leave her
hanging for a day… then come back and continue. The uncertainty will drive
her crazy and she’ll probably be texting you 3 or 4 times in a row, chasing
you hard for another “hit”
>> Show interest, but never be too available - flirt with her using all the
techniques in this book, but keep your calendar tight and make her fit into
your schedule, so she knows your time is scarce

>> Good morning texts - every now and then, text her when you wake up
with something cute and flirty - girls love this, but it’s unexpected
>> Mix up the “type” of texts you send - sometimes fun and flirty, sometimes
serious, sometimes pictures, sometimes sexual - never let her guess what
your next text will be…
>> Put a twist on common replies/questions - when she expects you to say
one thing, say a different thing, or say it in a different way
>> End the conversation and say goodbye, right when it’s going well…
>> Leave “open loops” - where you ask a question or tease her with
something in one conversation, but don’t answer it right away
>> When you say goodbye after a date, don’t automatically say you want to
see her again… make her wait for that, and let her text you first before you
move forward to the second date.
Get the idea? Always make her work for it, and never be predictable.
These tips are all explained in detail throughout this book, and you will also
find dozens of other tips, texts and tactics you can combine to create this
effect.
This whole idea will take time and finesse to get used to… and if you’re just
a beginner and you’re not that confident with girls yet, leave it for later.
But once you feel like you know what you’re doing, start playing around with
this “Candy Crush” concept of unpredictable rewards and you’ll see just how
powerful the effect can be...

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