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The Gym
Shows and Plays.
Parks.
Libraries.
Meet and Greet parties.
Church.
Night clubs.
Go to places that are similar to your own personal interests. A lot of times we
just can t find someone because we look in the wrong places. If you know you want
to attract a mate that has class and style, then hanging out at the local bar wi
th the neighborhood drunks may not be the best place. Take a class or find a hob
by if you don t already have one. Most times you will find it easier to talk to so
meone you have som,ething in common with.
3. Be Realistic.
Being realistic in your relationship expectations should be in the top priority
of your dating plan. Having the essential social skills to meet people is one th
ing but knowing what you want and being honest about it is another.
Realistic expectations in any relationships can be very important towards your p
ersonal happiness in your love life. It is also an important step in attracting
the right person for a relationship.
Know what you're after before you go out to try and get it. Love doesn't "just c
ome," it can but then you'd be a person of circumstance - not someone sophistica
ted enough to know that you are responsible for getting what you want out of lif
e, love, and everything else for that matter.
Ask yourself these questions and think about them.
What do you want with your love life in the future?
If you have that special someone in your life, what do you expect from him or he
r?
How quickly do you want things to progress to get to where you want to go in you
r relationships?
What values do you have and expect from your significant other?
Ask yourself these questions and answer them honestly. Then use your imagination
or in other words - "realistically" daydream your way to it. This will help you
to focus on what's really important and how you will find what you are looking
for in a relationship.
People that are most happy in their relationships are those that are patient. Th
ey wait for the right time and for the right person as well as have realistic ex
pectations of what is within their reach and control.
People who are unrealistic fall into situations that they cannot have control ov
er and feel helpless and miserable.
Remember that each situation, person, and experience is unique in itself. You've
got to accommodate to each relationship and the partner with whom you're involv
ed with just as uniquely. There's no one size fits all for any one person or rel
ationship because we are all complex creatures with our highly complex personali
ties.
Daydreaming in a realistic manner will not only reduce stress but will help you
to analyze your priorities.