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A K B O: Ccidental Iller Y Lebogeng Mawelela
A K B O: Ccidental Iller Y Lebogeng Mawelela
BY OLEBOGENG MAWELELA
The pills that I was using they were not cheap and because I
was no longer working I had to buy them on black market
day by day and I ended up getting in debts because of drugs.
Drugs became my best friend and my enemy at a same time.
After five (5) months I was already down and out, i had no
money and I ran out of things to sell, my father was still mad
at me but he cared about me deeply so he took me in and
my mother was so heartbroken to realize that I was deep in
drugs, they were thought they can help me at least they
tried but within a month I started stealing from them and
eventually they got tired and kick me out. I ended up on
street at first it was not hard to get drugs but as time went
by I was on my own asking for money saying I want to buy
bread and once the money reach R30 I will go buy a fix and
get high that time I was on cocaine I couldn't afford
expensive drugs anymore...I needed to get high at least
three (3) times a day. People on street got tired of me asking
for R1, R2 and R5,i started collecting cold rink and beer cans
to sell them at scrap yard so that I can get a fix, that became
my routine each and everyday.
I started sleeping with other drug addicts so that they will
smoke with me, i was no longer bathing. The only time I will
bath is when a taxi driver takes me to his place I will get
there bath and wear a nice clean dress then eat after all that
he will sleep with me and take me back to the street, the
dress wouldn't even lust a day on me, I will just sell it and
buy drugs.
On periods day I will use cloth. I might sound like I did not
care but I did I mean I had a perfect job and dreams to
achieve but at the end those dreams turned into ashes as
drugs where controlling my life. Feeding my addiction was
not easy, it was a full time job, i had anger, fear and
desperation. I was forever on street and making money to
get high, each and every day i turned my hard earned cash
into few pills and that broke me. There where times when
reality will hit me so hard and I will cry I mean a qualified
doctor end up on street I was in hell and I felt like there was
no getting out of the drug life. Honestly I did not want to go
back I enjoyed drugs they helped me forget what I did. Out
of quilt I felt like I deserve worse than what was happening
to me.
Taxi drivers kept on taking turns on who is taking me to his
place, there was this one taxi driver they called him General.
This man saw me beyond my private part he will always say
"how can a beautiful woman like you end up on street" I
won't even respond to him. one thing I did not like about
him was the fact that he would give me food and nice
clothes but not money because he knew I will buy drugs, one
day he decided to take me in he felt that I did not belong on
street, I stayed with him for a week and already I was
missing the street. When he was not home I went to the
street to collect my drug addicts friends and we went to his
place and stole everything including a Dustbin and we sold
the stuff very cheap, that day we had a drug party. He
looked for me and he found me, he hit me with an electric
cable over and over while he was busy saying "do you know
how hard I worked for everything you stole?
I will not stop beating you until you tell me where you sold
my stuff" I stubbornly kept quiet until I passed out, when I
opened my eyes I was already in hospital and they said I
have been on a coma for two weeks and I am lucky to be
alive. General almost killed me it means he was very angry, i
made a plan to steal pills in hospital and I took over dose, i
was on a second coma for 3 days. I did not want to kill
myself as they thought, my cravings where high and my
blood got very excited when I saw that large amount of pills.
During visiting hours there was this man who was praying
for sick people and he came to me, he prayed for me and
something in me shifted I felt something that I cannot
explain, for the first time in so many years I wanted to
change, i wanted to stop taking drugs. He kept on coming to
the hospital and I finally opened up to him telling him that I
lost my son and I found comfort in drugs I even lost a home.
He said when I get discharged I can come stay at church I
was willing to change for my son Hope and my parents.
After a week I was out of hospital and I went to church, that
guy he was a pastor and he took me to rehab, it was hard
but I got through it with his support and everyone from
church. After 6 weeks I was out of rehabilitation center and I
was clean but that did not lust even a week, I stole 275
chairs from church and I sold all of them R500 and I went
back to the street, he found me and took me back to rehab
and I went back to street again, he was determined to safe
me and i was determined to disappoint him.
I felt like I have nothing more to live for I lost the only thing
that kept me from going insane, he was my reason to wake
up every morning with hope and faith that I will be out of
institution and be a mother to him. all my hopes and dreams
turned in to ashes and there was nothing to live for...I
wanted to die but a had a small faith that he will forgive me
one day.
After few days I went to court they found out that I was not
insane I blackmailed a doctor. He came clean and told the
police everything but I did not understand why he waited so
long to come clean i where thought it's over for me but I was
wrong the docket was missing at that moment I knew
someone was out to get me I mean who could it be? Who
stole the docket? No one was happy to realize that I am
going home i am free
I went home to my parents and my son said "well done
mother you did it again wow you are one hell of a twisted
human" he moved out because he wanted nothing to do
with me I was hurt but happy that I get to see my parents
and my mother said "I really thought you are insane I guess
you are a woman of many talents" my father got very
furious at my mother he said "how can you be impressed
about such evil things? Since you got arrested no one ever
came to my church i had to close the doors because of you
Olebogeng you and your mother and now you both happy
for such evil thing"
My mother felt guilty for condoning my behavior this
woman supported me through thick and thin, he risked
everything to make sure I stay out of jail I guess we both
fought for one thing which is reputation...my mother has
always been suffering from "what will people say"
syndrome. As hard as we fought at the end we lost a battle
and our reputation and fancy life were gone my son was
now a breadwinner he was the only working one.
Asked my mother "mom what kind of a job is Hope doing?"
My mother said "he work at a grocery store" I was so
shocked to hear that my son who went to private school
ended up in some lousy grocery store I furiously looked and
my mother "how can you let it happen? Hope had a dream
of becoming a professional chef he should be doing that
now" my father responded "your son had to leave school
and look for a job to provide your actions did not only hurt
families of people you killed they also hurt your family, your
son had to abandon his dreams to step in and be a man at a
very young age"
I realized the damage I made maybe that's why my son
wants nothing to do with me because of the choice he had
to make in life. After few days around 2am we were sleeping
and I was woken by a smoke covering my whole room, my
room was burning and I heard the community saying "she
must die she is a danger to the community" as a whole
family we managed to escape but the house was not lucky it
burned to ashes they even burned the church.
My mother said "Olebogeng run this people want your
blood" I was only wearing a bra and panty nothing else and
I was on bare foot I tried to run but they cached me. They
wanted to burn me with a tire and petrol I screamed as I
saw my life coming to an end but I was saved by the police,
if they came a second later I would've burned to death. We
went to live with my son at his rental one room, the
situation was bad a bedroom and a kitchen was a same
thing and there was no space, we had no clothes as for me
the only clothes I owned at that time was a bra and a panty
my son had to borrow me his clothes, the situation was
terrible and my father hated me even more he said "you see
what your actions put us through? We are now homeless
because of your actions" I wished things were different but
they were not and I realized that being around my family
could harm them or get them killed so I decided to go back
to my old place, it had no furniture but it was better than my
son's one room, there was no water or electricity and police
when they dig up the bodies they didn't close up the holes I
had to work almost the whole night. Each and every day I
would walk for 2 hours just to go eat at my son's place, it
was terrible but I had no choice.
One morning after two months as I was about to go eat at
my son's place I heard a knock at the door of my empty
house I opened and I was shocked to see the judge at my
doorstep I even felt like I am having a running stomach, i felt
like I needed toilet immediately she said “you are too hard
to track can I come in? “With a confused voice I said “yes
please” she got inside and there was no chair or anything
she could sit on she said “here is your docket I am the one
who stole it “what did she just say? Wow how can a judge
who makes sure Justice is served all the time end up
breaking the law? She said “ can see you are confused well
there is a catch I want something in return and who knows I
might help you buy some cheap furniture so are you in? Oh
what am I saying of cause you are in because if you say no
you could go back to jail and this time death penalty”
I was still shocked I just looked at her as the stealing part
was slowly sinking in my brain I mean this is a judge we
talking about how did she pull it off? Should I be impressed
or shocked? I said “wait what? You want something? I am
broke what do you want me to give you? My head? I have
nothing on my name ”oh God this woman was too cute and
strict to be a thief she said “I want you to kill my husband, i
don't love him anymore I met someone else” I looked at her
and said “divorce him” she said "no we are married under
community of property if I divorce him I will lose a lot so kill
him I don't care how you do it just make sure is not traced
back to me no lose ends then you will get your docket. Don't
waste time I might get someone else and take you back to
jail “she left
I didn't even go to eat at my son's place i just slept the
whole day and night on an empty stomach. Every time i
think I am done with killings someone take me back should I
risk my freedom and refuse to kill her husband or should I
kill the poor man in exchange for my freedom? In the
morning I went to see my mother “mom I want you to
borrow me your phone I have a plan to rebuild your house”
she said “A plan again Olebogeng? Are you going back to
your old ways? When will it end?”
I hugged her and said “mother relax I won't break the law
but don't tell Dad about this you know he will faint and I
have no time to nurse him” she gave me a phone and I left I
got to my place and called the judge. She came and said
“here are the details of my husband's schedule don't kill him
at our home i don't want my kids to see that, kill him at a
restaurant he eat at everyday his lunch is around 2pm so do
your thing and kill him with respect I don't want to bury him
with terrible wounds he doesn't deserve to get hurt” what
on earth is she saying? Weather I stab him or poison him at
the end he is going to get hurt and die.
Our deal was that I kill him before the end of the week and
that didn't happen she came to me again and this time she
was very mad “I said kill my husband before a week end so
why is he still breathing and in my bed? “I smiled “he is your
husband that is why he is in your bed” she got furious and
said “don't test me you know your life it's in my hand I can
end it just like that” I guess she underestimated me I could
kill her right away but the new me won't do that I find
murders boring I said to her “funny thing is I also have your
life in my hands “with a confused voice she asked “what are
you talking about?”
I played her a recording were she was telling me about her
husband's schedule...she started shaking I said “you could
lose your job, your kids, your marriage, properties, your new
boyfriend and you could go to jail and be someone's bitch.
As for me I already lost everything so whatever you do I
have nothing else to lose” she asked “what do you want” I
smiled and said “my docket and I want a million to start
afresh and I want you to love and respect your husband stop
thinking only for yourself but also for your kids if anything
happens to your husband I will take this recording to the
police” she had my docket and I had her recording.
This woman knew what I am capable of but she still
underestimated me I mean no one can blackmail me and get
away with it, she gave me a million and i rebuild my
parent's home and gave my son a portion of money to
follow his dream of being a chef. He agreed to take the
money but he said it's a loan and he will bring every cent
back, he made it clear that me giving him money doesn't
change anything between us. My father was convinced that
there is a dead body out there waiting to resurface even my
mother was a little suspicious.
I moved back to live with my parents and pastor came to see
me after a week he said “ I heard you rebuild a home for
your parents who did you kill this time to get money? You
even managed to get out of jail after killing so many people.
You are evil and unpredictable I don't know what I saw in
you I…” I interrupted him and said “hold it right there so you
walked all the way from your place on this 38°c weather to
come and insult me? Who the hell do you think you are?
Don't you think I might kill you too? I squash annoying
mosquitos so don't push me” the fear in his eyes was so
priceless only if he knew I was just joking he left and I never
heard from him.
The community was still not at peace they wanted me dead
so my parents suggested that we sell the house and leave,
as for my sisters after finding out that our parents knew
about everything I did they forgot about them they wanted
nothing to do with us and we never heard from them since I
went to jail, we moved to another town and started a life
there. After my son graduated he moved away very far
away he only sent money to my parents but he never came
home, I missed him everyday and there was nothing I could
do to change how he felt about me.
I decided to write him a letter hoping he might change his
mind ...the letter was read" I don't know if you will read this
letter or not but I pray that you do because it comes from
the bottom of my heart, Hope I know I made lots of mistakes
I made wrong choices and I was not a mother you deserve, i
am sorry that I took your brother away from you and if there
is anything I feel guilty each and everyday and I am
suffering please forgive me, I know I wasn't there to be your
mother but is not to late please give me a chance to make it
up to you I love you so much Hope"
I kept on sending him letters and eventually he came back
home after two years of begging him.. He said "I am willing
to give you chance to be a mother to me hopefully I will
forgive you as time goes on" our relationship was not
perfect and it was far from being perfect but I was happy
that we were trying.
I learned in life that family is important; blood is thicker
than water and no matter how angry you are at your family
or how far you walk away from them sooner or later you
will go back home weather by your own will or a coffin.