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Coffee Shop Entrepreneurs
Coffee Shop Entrepreneurs
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COFFEE SHOP ENTREPRENEURS
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Wake up and smell the location independent economy
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RICHARD PATEY
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www.richardpatey.com
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Published by Richard Patey from Boulder, CO
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Copyright © 2013 by Richard Patey. All rights reserved but
feel free to use the odd paragraph or two in print or online if
you link back to www.richardpatey.com. If you would like to
use more please email me at richard@richardpatey.com.
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ISBN-10: 1490925686
ISBN-13: 978-1490925684
WC: 16,280
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Cover design by Lis Dingjan from www.theidentity.me
Formatted in Norwich, UK and Boulder, CO
Printed by Amazon
Typeset in Adobe Garamond Pro
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Publisher info:
Website: www.richardpatey.com
Email: richard@richardpatey.com
Twitter: @richardpatey
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Wake up and smell the
location independent economy!
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CONTENTS
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Preface
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1. First principle: Learn to trust your gut
1. Interview with Mish & Rob
2. Second principle: Switch your thinking from scarcity to
abundance
3. Interview with Lis Dingjan
4. hird principle: Find and reach out to people living the life you
want
5. Interview with Chris Osborne
6. Fourth principle: Start by making money from your efforts (and
not your passions)
7. Interview with Erika Degoute
9. Fifth principle: Choose the people you want to do business with
10. Interview with Alastair Cameron
11. Sixth principle: Realise the game is social
12. Interview with Sam Title
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Afterword
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PREFACE
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Wake up and smell the new economy. Old scripts, such as
getting a mortgage based on a job for life in a ixed
location, no longer apply. In order to thrive you need to
lip yourself into an entrepreneurial mindset.
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It took me over three years to become location
independent. Back at the end of 2009 when I quit my job,
I regarded working from a laptop anywhere in the world as
a lifestyle choice, as a cool thing to do. Now, as a Brit
writing this preface from Ozo Coffee Co, Boulder,
Colorado, surrounded by other laptop workers, my
opinion has changed; it’s inevitable and the best way to
thrive.
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In his book Choose Yourself, James Altucher talks about the
fact that there are no more booms coming anytime soon
and that the jobs that have been ‘lost’ in recent years are
not coming back. I share the view that the era of the full-
time job is ending due to companies outsourcing as much
as possible (to cheaper / higher value regions) and
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1. FIRST PRINCIPLE:
LEARN TO TRUST YOUR GUT
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Do you recognise any of these scenarios? Feeling stressed
and worried Sunday evenings. An even worse sick feeling
deep down in your gut whenever you sit down at your
office desk / cubicle? How about this one: drinking more
water than is necessary just to have more genuine toilet
breaks where you spend at least 10 minutes in a private
cubicle on your phone?!
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I’ve done and felt all this and it sucks.
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I was ridiculously stressed out from the last 6 months of
going insane at my office ‘pod’ where I had ended up
being the only one left working at a charity I had helped
build, after it got taken over by a corporate-styled housing
association which was seemingly intent on letting it all fall
apart. One-by-one, management either walked or were
pushed, until it was just me, the only pea in the pod. On
the day my request for lexible working to go down to 4
days a week was being considered at board level and the
day where I had been asked to put together a presentation
on how I could be more motivated at work (seriously) I
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3. SECOND PRINCIPLE:
SWITCH YOUR THINKING FROM
SCARCITY TO ABUNDANCE
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I irst learned about the concept of paradigms on my
undergraduate business management degree which
subsequently turned me anti-business for the next decade,
hence ending up working for a charity.
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Paradigms are distinct models of viewing the world within
which ‘good’ knowledge is produced through shared
beliefs and assumptions. hese shared beliefs are
institutionalised in us through university, government and
corporations. For a paradigm to exist - for conventional
thinking to be conventional - other paradigms or coherent
ways of viewing the world such as ‘radical’ must also exist
so that they can be compared to each other. Revolutionary
ways of viewing the world can displace conventional
thinking to become the new normal.
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As such I believe that viewing and choosing a job as the
best way to achieve security is currently under attack by
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setbacks and people that will piss you off in your irst few
years of business, that if you react negatively to such events
you will become a negative person. And when you
instinctively react negatively to events then you become
closed to potential positive interactions. You may end up
swearing on your laptop in a coffee shop just as the man or
women of your dreams or ideal customer sits next to you.
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Resonance is the natural frequency of a system. In order to
resonate with people you have to resound the same note
and when you do there’s a transfer of energy between you.
A surfer has to swim hard enough in order to catch a wave
but if too slow or too fast they will miss the energy of the
wave and stay in the same spot rather than picking up
vibrational energy and ripping it.
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Our vibrations do not end at our bodies but emanate out
and we both attract and repel things that we are in
vibrational resonance with. he human body generates an
electromagnetic ield which is affected by our moods when
you are happier, your ield is said to act at a higher state of
vibration, a higher speed of motion or energy. We are both
a transmitter and a receiver of energy.
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For the blogger Dave Navarro, positive thinking is more
simply choosing thoughts that create positive feelings that
make you take action. He states that when you believe
your actions can make a difference, you're more likely to
act and that ‘looking on the bright side’ is simply using
NLP to reframe a situation in your mind so that it makes
you want to take action.
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For the writer Jonathan Fields, for us to take action
towards attaining a goal, we need to believe we can achieve
the goal. He believes that repeatedly visualising
accomplishing a goal has a profound effect; that repetition
creates belief and the momentum to act.
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When you believe in your potential and see an abundance
of opportunities to achieve your goals you will start to
interact differently with people. he conidence you give
off will mean that people respond to you differently and be
attracted by your energy. You then have to learn the ifth
principle in actively choosing who you do business with.
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4. INTERVIEW WITH LIS DINGJAN
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Lis Dingjan is the founder of www.theidentity.me
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What do you say when someone asks you what you do?
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I take a big, deep breath and then say one hundred things
at once! I'm a multi-passionate kind of gal so I've always
got a lot going on. Generally my one liner is that I'm a
business brander and website designer/developer with a
few fun side projects, a dash of legal consulting, inancial
analysis and a dollop of international development thrown
in.
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What activities are currently making most of your income?
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Website design, development and branding is currently
making up the bulk of my income. his is slowly
diversifying through side projects and some legal
contracting work, and hopefully in the future will be
further expanded through the addition of products,
courses, speaking engagements and workshops.
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here's no roof to making money when you're in business
for yourself so there's a million things you can do.
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When and why did you become location independent? What
were you doing previously?
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I've always wanted to be location independent so I could
schedule my own life, I just didn't know how. I worked for
several years in the corporate world and was constantly in
the office working far too many hours, dreaming of exotic
cultures, promptly quitting and taking off into the
unknown only to do it all again. Over and over just
skipping between continents. On a trip to Cambodia early
2012, after I had quit yet another job, a friend suggested I
set up a blog rather than write my usual behemoth emails
to keep everyone updated. I discovered people actually
earned money outside of the office (woah!) and the rest has
been one huge learning curve full of tear your hair out
moments, celebratory raw peanut butter and chocolate
tarts and a lot of fun.
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What makes a great coffee shop to work from?
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What are the tools or resources you just couldn’t live without
for your biz?
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Oooh so many. Bufferapp to schedule all my social media
posts. Wunderlist to keep track of the one million items
on my to-do list. Filezilla as the best FTP application ever.
My life wouldn't be complete without Photoshop.
Dropbox to store all my iles. Skype for client meetings.
Camtasia to chop and edit videos. Mailchimp for mailing
lists (you just can't beat the delicious user interface they're
rocking). Self Control App to ban me from getting on
anything other than strictly what I'm coding at that very
moment!
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he best and/or worst bit about running your business from
your laptop is?
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he best: I get to control my own life. I'm in charge of my
time and although I work my butt off, nobody says I have
to be in an office for 50 hours a week to work for a
company conlicting with most of my morals. I wake up
every day knowing I can jump into something I love and
shape my own life. If I need a yoga session at 3pm I can do
that. If I need Wednesday off, it's done. If I want to work
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a-ok. If I have a great idea, I can just start on it. Plus I get
to take my work with me wherever I go so I'm no longer
tied to any place.
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he worst: It can get freaking lonely. he one thing I miss
most about the corporate world is the 'water cooler chats'.
he fun we'd try and infuse amongst the grey petitions
and artiicial lights (my 3pm karaoke rocked…badly!).
Some days I go a little stir crazy so I'm incredibly thankful
co-working spaces and beautiful, independent cafes are
popping up all over the world! Switching off from work,
because it's always there and there's always more to do, is
incredibly difficult unlike leaving an office every evening
too.
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What does your average day look like (where in the world you
may be from morning to night)?
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I jam pack my life in and even though I imagine relaxing
on the beach, I wouldn't have it any other way (though
Bora Bora does look inviting). My days change all the time
depending on where I am but I usually get up at around
5.30 in the morning, get dressed and pretend to play nice
with my hair. I'll likely sit with the laptop for a couple of
hours either at home or at a cafe. Depending on what city
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I'm in I'll have a few catch up's with friends during the
day and in between I'll work. Often I'll go for a walk in
the afternoon to stretch my legs and ind some sun. I've
been horrendous with the exercise of late but I'd normally
try to hit the gym a few times a week or add in some latin
dancing or spin. When I'm in Cambodia I'll spend
mornings at charity projects, exercise during lunch and
then work the rest of the day before catching up with
friends in the late evening.
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One of your funniest travel stories / dramas is?
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I've travelled through over 50 countries so I've got so
many and apparently I tend to only remember the good
things about travelling and block the bad! Join me on a
trip and you'll wonder how I'm still alive (though I'm
oblivious). I got detained in Vietnam once which was
fun…on hindsight (I laughed for quite a long time before
I realised they were deadly serious). It was made all the
funnier because it's the only country I've ever gone out of
my way for to obtain a visa through the embassy which
was an effort in itself because I was in New York at the
time during the UN Assembly.
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If you had all the money and time in the world (with all your
ingenious ideas) what would you start on right now?
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Oh gosh I'm one of those people that have 1,307 ideas
(approximately) at any given time. Right now I would set
up an organisation to revolutionize the education system
around the developed world. I would do up the
orphanages in every developing country so they become
brighter, happier places full of play equipment and
educational materials. I would campaign for better,
compassionate and more humane asylum seeker policies in
Australia. I would set up a team to action against the abuse
of workers in developing countries and initiate the
enhancement of their work environment. Build a
company to create bubble bath retreat rooms all over
major cities in the world so you can soak that aching body
for 20 minutes during the day (yeah, this one might be
just for me!). Figure out the best way (or rather, hire
someone smarter) to spend millions on saving endangered
species and blocking businesses from destroying
environments. Create a team to make every page on the
internet far prettier and functional. Deploy the best EU
Law policies around the world. Solve the homelessness
problem with the best moral, ethical and economical
outcome. Oh did I not get super powers too?! Oh and I
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5. THIRD PRINCIPLE:
FIND AND REACH OUT TO PEOPLE
LIVING THE LIFE YOU WANT
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I’ve grown up and lived in Norwich, a slightly isolated city
on the east coast of England, for most of my life. he
trouble I’ve had since quitting my job and going it alone is
that I’ve not met one person locally whose life I wanted
and I’ve been told I’m a good networker.
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I’ve found people setting up and growing agencies for the
big win that I ind inspiring and respect, but no-one who
isn’t doing the ‘deferred life plan’ by creating and living the
lifestyle they want now rather than in the future.
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Fortunately we have Twitter - the best medium for both
discovering awesome people and reaching out to them.
Living in Boulder, CO I’ve met up with so many positive,
entrepreneurial and creative people that I’ve created
context with, to coin a Gary Vaynerchuk phrase, through
conversations on twitter, Facebook, Skype and
communities such as the Dynamite Circle: in fact a
member met me from the bus station, took me out and
connected me with other entrepreneurs.
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If you feel stuck in your life, it’s likely due to the fact that
the closest people to you who you spend the most time
with are also stuck. If you surround yourself with
successful, happy, healthy, positive, creative,
entrepreneurial people then you will naturally develop
these abilities and mindset. It was impossible for me to
achieve this in my hometown.
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For example the person who has massively inspired me to
grow and work on my business (rather than in my
business) is Dan Andrew from Tropical MBA. His and co-
host / business partner’s podcast is my go to source for
motivation and inspiration and so I reached out and asked
the following question which he kindly answered:
Me: What advice would you give to inding a partner like Ian
who shares your ambition / direction? I've done my 1,000
days myself and have built my biznass to over $5k/m mainly
through SEO and now want to build something meaningful
and think it would be way more productive with another one
of me. Or perhaps it's better to ind an opposite that
complements? Cheers, Richard
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6. INTERVIEW WITH CHRIS OSBORNE
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Chris Osborne created www.foundersgrid.com - a
community dedicated to location independence, offshore
business and international living.
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What do you say when people ask you what you do?
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his all depends who I’m talking to. If a taxi driver asks, I
work in marketing (short, simple and straight to the
point). However for others, I’ll evaluate my answer based
on what would be of interest to them. For example, if I
meet business founders or location independent folks, I’ll
talk about Founders Grid, if I meet a local business owner
I’ll mention I design websites, take photos and create
videos.
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I see you’ve been travelling non-stop for the last 8 years – what
did you do previously?
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Out of school I worked in an apprenticeship scheme in the
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7. FOURTH PRINCIPLE:
START BY MAKING MONEY FROM YOUR
EFFORTS (AND NOT PASSIONS)
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Neil Strauss, on an interview with Tim Ferris, said if you
want to live your passion you have to be willing to not
make money out of it to start with: “You either choose
money or passion”. I agree which is why I advocate
starting with what makes money.
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Your passions by default are very active in terms of
consuming time and it will be hard (unless you are one of
the best in the world at something) to instantly monetise
to make a good living. I think the initial goal should be to
create as many income streams as possible to free up your
time to then pursue your passions. And ironically the
fastest way to achieving a lifestyle built on passive income
(either websites converting traffic or outsourcing others to
do your work) is through starting with the most active of
income streams by trading time for money doing what
you’re best at.
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site and create some leads. Your own site doesn’t have to
look great, it just needs to be designed ok and have good
enough content so that a potential client would feel
conident giving you money. As Noah Kagan from
AppSumo says, you need to validate your business idea,
your service in this case, before you spend any money or
invest much time.
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I don’t want this to be a ‘how-to startup an online
business’ book as there are too many of those and Google
has all the answers anyway (check out the great post by
Sean Ogle titled he ive most essential online skills for
starting your irst business online such as copywriting,
wordpress, SEO, design, and coding) but a lot of friends
ask me how to get started and this is my advice:
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1) B u y y o u r o w n n a m e d o m a i n , s u c h a s
www.richardpatey.com - I use www.123-reg.co.uk
2) Get a low cost web hosting company with the ability to
do one-click wordpress installations and point your
domain at their nameservers - I use
www.dreamhost.com
3) Install Wordpress and then setup Gmail on your
domain - Google how to set up the DNS, in particular
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which also sells on its site target the best keywords for
search traffic?
8) Come up with a list of 5 businesses that could beneit
from design / online marketing improvements.
9) Come up with 5 bullet points for what you would do
to improve their ability to reach and convert more
customers. You need to present your work in money
terms - i.e. by paying you £500/m you believe you will
bring them an additional £2000 per month.
10) Email them and make the tone warm. Make it sound
as if you really don’t need the money, you just wanted
to help them.
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he cold emails I sent below converted into an initial £500
a month retainer:
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his was the irst email (I’ve since got a ton better at
writing copy and think this is actually pretty poor but still
worked):
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Dear Graham / Rachael
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I'm currently emailing from the Warings Café which I have
been frequenting / working from with my MacBook (great
chai latte!). I offer digital marketing services for small
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I didn’t hear back so exactly one month later I sent a
follow up:
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Hi Rachael / Graham
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I'm currently sitting in your café (another chai latté!) and
thought I'd just send a friendly reminder to the email I sent
last month about SEO on your site.
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I really think I could add a lot of value through search and
social and make you more money. From doing further analysis
I can see that your highest value back link is from http://
www.channel5.com/shows/the-hotel-inspector/suppliers/
series-8-suppliers-bodkin-house that most sites link to you
with the word 'restaurant furniture' and that your homepage
has had 8 shares on Facebook.
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It would be great to meet with you.
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Best wishes
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Richard
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As soon as you get your irst client you’re making money.
It’s not like building up passive income from ad or affiliate
revenue which can take 6-12 months of creating content;
it can be the case that just 3 clients can replace your
previous income from a job. It’s the quickest way I know
to start and build an income.
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When starting up it’s critical to manage your cashlows, to
get payment up front and not to be paid on results at the
beginning, rather on your efforts. Some things are just out
of your control. New Google search algorithms can
destroy online businesses overnight. Don’t promise irst
page Google or let your initial income be dependent on if
you can get a client site to rank. Don’t offer a ixed price
web design with unlimited changes that can run for
months and be a time sink that crushes your cashlow.
When you’re trading time for income you need to make
sure you do it effectively, especially at the start of your
journey.
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Having said this, in order to start picking up clients an
effective strategy is to offer a guarantee, if you need to, by
saying something like ‘in the event you feel I am not
meeting the standards described in this agreements /
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8. INTERVIEW WITH ERIKA DEGOUTE
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Erika Degoute is the founder of www.atworkcafe.com
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What do you say when someone asks you what you do?
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Basically I answer that I am a web content manager
working freelance for foreign clients. Most people I met
ask me if I am working OR travelling (they know by my
accent that I am not a local) and I love their surprised
looks when I say that I do both at the same time. hen I
have to fully explain what I am exactly doing and it
usually takes a couple of minutes and is followed by a long
conversation on how they could do something similar. A
lot of people aspire to location independence!
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What activities are currently making most of your income?
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Most of my income comes from my work as web content
manager. I currently only have a couple of loyal clients and
I could not handle more, because the rest of my income
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What’s the best piece of advice you would give your former
selves at the point of leaving the 9-5?
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I would give myself ‘’Breaking the Time Barrier’’ a free
ebook from Freshbooks which is great to read before
starting a freelance activity. To realize that being freelance
is not always about charging hours for fastidious work
done for greedy clients is much more motivating! http://
breakingthetimebarrier.freshbooks.com/
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What are the tools or resources you just couldn’t live without
for your biz
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I use all the following, devices and softwares, at least once
a day:
- Internet !! Of course.
- My laptop, which is powerful enough to run a few
softwares at a time: Illustrator, Photoshop, Dreamweaver,
and XnView for easy fast picture batch processing.
A few cloud services: Freshbooks, Basecamp, Gmail and
most Google apps (Drive, Hangouts, Voice..) Evernote,
Hootsuite, wetransfer.com.
- My smartphone (I have a nexus 4) and a bunch of apps
that are actually the cloud services I use the most use while
working on my laptop too .
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What does your average day look like (where in the world you
may be from morning to night)
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My average day schedule is arranged to mind the time
difference with my clients. Being in Australia at the
moment and my clients being in Western Europe and
North America, It is not really easy!!
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Here is my actual average schedule:
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First thing in the morning: monitoring my emails from
my favorite wii cafe in town , being online to chat with
my canadian team who are inishing their work’s day.
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hen going for a 2 hours walk on the beach (currently
living in a beautiful setting in Coolum beach,
Queensland). Having a brunch or lunch on my terrace,
reading a book.
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Spend a few hours working either on my blog and its
social medias, invoicing, running personal errands online
or in real life.
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It was the best and the worst thing I did in New Zealand!
Sounds silly now but that was pretty scary at the moment.
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If you had all the money and time in the world (with all your
ingenious ideas) what would you start right now?
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Help wildlife conservation NGOs make this world a better
place (inancially and in person) and open a real Work
Cafe in Montreal, Canada. A perfect one!
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9. FIFTH PRINCIPLE:
CHOOSE THE PEOPLE YOU WANT TO DO
BUSINESS WITH
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After you get your irst few clients or customers you will
need to actively choose what opportunities you convert
and which people you deal with both in business and in
life.
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You will have problems with clients, you cannot imagine.
After an initial meeting, a new client asked to be my friend
on Facebook, but because I have a policy of only having
actual friends on Facebook; (through regular culling and
by capping it at 100 to get the ticker) I didn’t accept him.
He then followed me (previously called subscribing) and
left a negative comment on one of my posts. I didn’t
respond, so to then get my attention he followed up by
saying he wasn’t happy with the amount of work I’d done
in the irst month and that I needed to make it up before
he would pay me any more money. I replied, breaking
down the value I had given, and said I would not be able
to do anything else on the SEO / social campaign until I
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Rather than it being a complement, or feeling like a
positive thing, getting indicators of interest from an
attractive girl (who I would never have normally noticed
or not normally received having previously walked around
with my eyes averted) has made me feel as if the only thing
that matters is getting a phone number, and that if I don’t
it’s not only a loss but that I am also the loser. As Clay
Collins says in his excellent post about the ‘goal auto
immune disorder’, our goals can be our worst enemies and
the goal of seeking attraction started to own me like poker
did and led me to an unbalanced internal state.
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As Clay states, after we free ourselves from the 9 to 5 or
repressive relationships we often fail to ind true freedom
due to the repressive nature of the ego-driven structure
that we replace this with:
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‘A goal that was supposed to empower you made you
feel like a loser, it became a little tyrant running your
life. All this really has everything to do with the
screwed up tactics of…he Goal Goblin’
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Developing awareness, being in the present and having a
positive outlook (from feeling positive inside) really is
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he simple act of paying someone else money to do your
work for you can be a big stumbling block for
solopreneurs. You feel that you could do the work better
than others (not necessarily true at all) and it feels as if you
would be just donating money away that would otherwise
be in your pocket. But going back to the concept of
having multiple currencies, getting more time back has a
cost.
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Once you start paying to get your time back, you just may
continue until you have outsourced everything; the time
you free up can be spent on your passion projects such as
writing this book.
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It’s hard paying someone for the irst time; up to that
point, other than dabbling in ecommerce and Adsense, I
had spent my whole life being paid to trade time for
money in jobs and from clients. I was used to being the
employee: I’m even an employee of the company that I
own!
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Moving from an employee mindset to an owner mindset is
a necessary transition to be able to thrive in the location
independent economy. Once you remove yourself from
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them from the States. Real life interactions have the best
affiliate deals!
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11. SIXTH PRINCIPLE:
REALISE THE GAME IS SOCIAL
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he mobile lifestyle can be a lonely existence, so you need
to develop your social muscle.
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he Myers-Briggs Type Indicator test is a questionnaire
designed to measure psychological preferences in how
people perceive the world and make decisions. I was forced
to complete this a number of times in jobs I’ve done (and
therefore thought it was bullshit) but always came out the
same; interestingly after being in business for over 1000
days my makeup has not changed. I am apparently more
extroverted (E) than introverted, I act on intuition (N)
more than sensing, I act on feelings (F) more than
thinking and I go with what I perceive (P) (and with the
low) more than I judge.
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Apparently people who prefer extraversion draw energy
from others, which is certainly a big reason why I need to
work from coffee shops, and they tend to act rather than
relect which is the essence of entrepreneurship. As the
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If you can become fully relaxed in your own skin and can
look someone in the eye with warmth rather than fear, you
will become incredibly attractive and interesting to people.
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People will start to approach you as you become more
approachable; you become interesting by being interested.
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Building community can, initially, be most effective offline
and starts with where you are. Build off the positive and
curious energy of others you are attracting, i.e. why is this
dude looking so happy working off his laptop?!
Recommend to others content on your site they may ind
useful and encourage them to like your Facebook page.
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Back in the online world, if someone reaches out to you
for advice, you should feel obligated to respond, more
from a business sense than moral. If someone asks you to
guest post or interview for their site or review their book
on Amazon, this actually becomes a priority. You have to
pay it forward when starting out and build your network
by being as helpful as possible. Come across someone you
respect and see how they could improve their operation?
Reach out and ask for nothing in return. As Dan Andrews
says, in the Tropical MBA podcast, it takes a lot of time (x-
axis) before the hockey stick of success kicks off. And as
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12. INTERVIEW WITH SAM TITLE
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Sam Title is the founder of www.thecoffice.biz
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What do you say when someone asks you what you do?
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Here’s how this conversation typically goes:
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You: So, Sam…What do you do?
Me: I’m working on an Internet startup.
You: (blank stare) …ah. So…what is it?
Me: It’s an online community for professionals who work
from coffee shops.
You: (blank stare)
Me: You know when you walk into a coffee shop and see a
row of laptops lining a wall?
You: OH! Yeah…Okay. hat’s interesting. here are plenty
of those people in the world. I can see that being pretty
useful now that I think about it…
Me: Yup!
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What are the tools or resources you just couldn’t live without
for your biz?
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Laptop
Smartphone
Coffee shops
Supportive family/friends
Cofficers! <~ THE most important!
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he best and/or worst bit about running your business from
your laptop is
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…my tendency to wander online or into a piece of the
business I’m developing on any given day. I’ll lose track of
time and space; some days I’ll come up for air and it’s the
end of the day…or I’ll see my phone buzzing with my wife
reminding me I’m on carpool duty.
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I’d say that’s both the best and the worst part…
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What does your average day look like (where in the world
you may be from morning to night?
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I don’t often have an average day. I enjoy the diversity of
what I’m working on. I think that’s what keeps me focused
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AFTERWORD
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Quitting your job, especially if it’s your irst time, is not
easy but it means that you’re wanting to get to a better,
more fulilled place.
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My happiest and most stress free time was back in January
2006 when I was doing a ski season in Whistler, Canada. I
had prepaid a sick condo, a season pass and had a great
group of people to go boarding with and hang out every
day. Plus an average of 15cm of fresh snow every day for
the month was the icing on the cake.
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But I wasn’t content. I didn’t have an income stream; I had
saved up a few months of freedom from a charity job that
I no longer found fulilling and I knew that this lifestyle
was on a timer and I would be forced to get a job that I
wasn’t into again.
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It’s now 2013, I’m 34 and can honestly say I’m truly
content. I wasn’t sure what that word actually meant, my
subconsious just picked it, so had to look it up: ‘a state of
satisfaction’. I don’t think you can be truly happy until you
are satisied with who you are and how you’re living your
life. At least I know I wasn’t.
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For me, right now, that’s being location independent and
the six principles in the book are all I know about how to
get there. If you’ve read this far then my hope is that they
have helped you too; please reach out, I’d love to hear
from you.
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Richard.
richard@richardpatey.com
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
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To my grandfather ‘Mac’ who encouraged me to follow
my passions. To my parents for instilling in me the love
and conidence necessary to go against the grain and for
letting me boomerang back when entrepreneurial times
were tough; to my mother for helping to edit the book. To
my friend Louise for helping me structure the book and
feeding me over the years. To my friend AJ for enabling
me to take off the blinkers and choose my own reality. For
those location independents before me such as Dan
Andrews, Colin Wright, Natalie Sissons and Sean Ogle for
showing me it could be done. To the great people who we
happy to be interviewed for this book, one of which is the
talented Lis Dingjan who also did the cover design.
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