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Journal of Rural Studies, Vol. 11, No. 2, pp.

113-122, 1995
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Queer country:
Rural Lesbian and Gay Lives
David Bell and Gill Valentine
Department of Geography, University of Sheffield, Winter Street, Sheffield S10
2TN, U.K.

Abstract - - Studies of rural life and lifestyles have yet to seriously address issues of
sexuality. This paper outlines some of the experiences of lesbians and gay men who
live in the countryside. It begins by tracing the history of the relationship between
homosexuality and rurality in fiction and film, paying particular attention to the
role of rural utopias in the lesbian and gay imagination. The paper then goes on to
consider the structural difficulties experienced by those gay men and women who
are born and raised in rural areas, and the lifestyles of those who choose to move to
country locations in an attempt to create alternative communes. The paper ends
with discussion of the ethics of researching 'rural others'.

Studies of rural life and lifestyles are only just live in the countryside, and further there are those
beginning to seriously address issues of sexuality, who visit it and make use of the various resources it
and have yet to move far beyond merely including it has to offer. This paper aims to look at these people
in lists of sociocultural variables (along with gender, and their lives and lifestyles, by surveying firstly the
class, ethnicity, disability and so on) mentioned as place of the rural within gay cultural products
commonly overlooked by rural research (Cloke, (novels, poetry, film), then the lives of lesbians and
1994; Cloke and Thrift, 1994). That said, there is a gay men born and raised in rural areas, and lastly
growing awareness of and commitment to broaden- rural communal living experiments and recreational
ing the social remit of rural studies to include uses of the countryside by sexual dissidents. Each of
'neglected others' (Philo, 1992). At the same time these sections mobilizes a different (though over-
much work on sexual identities and communities lapping) conception of 'the rural' - - either as an
remains firmly located in the urban - - especially the imagined, idyllic setting for same-sex love and sex
metropolitan (e.g. Adler and Brenner, 1992; Binnie, (for both utopian communes and cultural projects),
1995; Knopp, 1992; Weightman, 1981) - - and has or as a space that structures social opportunities and
only comparatively recently migrated to the suburbs life-chances (either positively - - for commune-
(Lynch, 1987; Mendelsohn, 1995), never mind the dwellers - - or negatively, for those struggling to find
countryside, despite the fact that many sexual identity and community in claustrophobic, xeno-
dissidents (especially perhaps gay men) do try to find phobic and homophobic rural communities). As
a home outside the city. Maybe this almost exclusive rural studies becomes sensitive to the many mean-
focus on the urban should not seem surprising, given ings of the rural, research into aspects of 'queer
that many social constructionist arguments about the country' can add to this broadening conception of
development of gay identity I suggest that this is the rural as both an imaginative and a social
predicated upon the opportunities offered by city life resource.
- - by anonymity and heterogeneity, as well as by
sheer population size (Bech, 1993; Knopp, 1995;
R u r a l i t y in t h e g a y i m a g i n a t i o n
Stein, 1992). But there a r e lesbians and gay men who

lit should be pointed out here that using terms such as We can trace a history of the perceived relationship
'gay' or 'lesbian' is deeply problematic, since they are between homosexuality and rurality which runs, to a
identities to which not everyone who might engage in
same-sex sexual acts (or have fantasies about, or what- point, hand-in-hand with the changing position of
ever) would wish to subscribe', see later in the paper for the rural in the popular imagination, and more
more on this. especially with its romanticisation from the V i c -

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114 David Bell and Gill Valentine

torian era onwards (Marsh, 1982). Examining the creativity and selfhood in response to the phallo-
biographies of key figures such as Edward Carpenter centric city', and that part of this plight involves the
(Tsuzuki, 1980; Weeks, 1977) and works of fiction rejection of heterosexuality. In the same volume,
which use rural setting and/or landscape metaphors Sherrill Grace (1984) looks at the deployment of
to discuss (homo)sexual themes affords us a window rural and urban codes as symbols of female and
into this imagination, and grounds our study histor- male, respectively: Margaret Atwood's poem
ically within key changes in society. Byrne Fone 'Marrying the Hangman' encapsulates this (quoted
(1983), in his pioneering study of Arcadia and gay in Grace, 1984, p. 204):
male literature, suggests that the role of this mythic,
Edenic place in the gay imaginary is as safe space for 'He said: foot, boot, order, city, fist, roads, time, knife.
same-sex desire, to serve as metaphor for homo-
sexual themes otherwise undisclosed, and to estab- She said: water, night, willow, rope hair, earth belly,
cave, meat, shroud, open, blood'.
lish a spiritual and, he says, divine sanction for
homosexuality as a 'means to an understanding of
Utopian representations in the gay imaginary do not
the good and the beautiful' (Fone, 1983, p. 13).
solely deploy rural settings, of course. The
Fone quotes, among others, Joseph and His Friend,
metropolis is also widely depicted as the ideal arena
written by the American novelist Bayard Taylor in
for sexual outsiders, with the already-mentioned mix
1869. Taylor's Arcadia is:
of anonymity and increased opportunity supple-
mented by the possibilities afforded by distinctly
a great valley, bounded by hundreds of miles of snowy
p e a k s . . . [with] a perfect climate, where it is bliss urban pastimes such as flanerie or the d~rive
enough to breathe, and [where there is] freedom from (Hallam, 1993; Munt, 1995) and the fetishizing of
the distorted laws of men, for none are near enough to particular urban landscape forms, such as (post)-
enforce them (Taylor, 1869; quoted by Fone, 1983, p. industrial derelection (Binnie, 1992). Lisa Doyle
16). (1995), in her discussion of utopia in lesbian film for
example, saw the Chicago portrayed in Go Fish as
Works such as Gore Vidal's The City and the Pillar,
positively as the Nevada of Desert Hearts.
E.M. Forster's Maurice and Nial Kent's The Divided
Path also offers images of secret seclusion where
men can escape law's prying eyes, and be united in Other film representations such as Salmonberries
love. Similarly, poets such as Walt Whitman, W.H. and The Garden have also deployed rural and/or
Auden and Gerard Manley Hopkins wrote of 'manly wilderness settings as stages upon which to enact
love' in wilderness and rural settings. In his book (homo)sexual dramas (see Allen, 1995; Jarman,
Articulate Flesh (1987), Greg Woods reviews the use 1992). Within lesbian and gay pornography there is
of body-landscape metaphors in homoerotic verse - - likewise a strong association between untamed
hair is like grass (or, in the case of Genet's landscapes and erotic play (Woods, 1995), a fact
description of Querelle, pine needles), the pectorals reflected in the eroticisation of rural settings for
a mountain range - - Auden, surveying a man from episodic sexual encounters (Lieshout, 1992; see also
the vantage-point of being beneath him, between his work by the artist Tom of Finland). Outdoors sex in
legs, looks 'through the forest of pubic hair/To the general and sex in the countryside in particular have
range of the chest, rising lofty and wide' (quoted in a long history and a wide geography. From juvenile
Woods, 1987, p. 39). sexual games at boy scout camp (Crew, 1977) to
lesbian cruising on Riis Park beach in New York
In addition to these poetic and prose works using (Nestle, 1987), sexual encounters are ascribed a
landscape imagery, there is a particularly strong special 'feel' if they occur in the right setting
tradition of utopian fiction which uses fantastic rural (Ingram, 1993; Jarman, 1992). In this way, too, the
settings. Feminist and/or lesbian novels from rural has become an intensely fetishized locale in gay
Charlotte Perkins Gilman's Herland (1915) to Sally culture - - one popular gay bar in the West End of
Miller Gearhart's The Wanderground: Stories of the London calls itself Village Soho, its adverts in the
Hill Women (1985) use rural utopianism and a kind gay press showing two London boys before an
of ecofeminist critique of masculinist techno- unmistakably Batsford-esque rural landscape. The
urbanism to write fables of women reunited with following two ethnographic extracts embody this
nature (and thereby rediscovering lost strengths and fetishization perfectly:
powers), free from men and male tyranny, and
developing their own loving, caring communities. In My best memory of outdoor sex was a bit of mutual
her essay on Rebecca West and Sylvia Townsend (safe) buggery, just in boots, in the middle of day in late
summer, with the sun glinting through the leaves of the
Warner, Jane Marcus (1984, p. 136) notes that 'in forest. We ran naked through the trees, rubbing against
modern British fantasy novels, an imaginary mytho- the bark, and rolled in the leaves... ('Jon', in National
logical wild space is sought by women as a source of Lesbian and Gay Survey, 1993, p. 116).
Queer Country 115

Woodland in the dark has a promise of adventure. Perhaps most widespread as popular ideas about
Perhaps it is the combination of fear and expectation. rural sex lives, and with tremendous currency in
Behind each tree you may expect something or someone comedic representations, are images of particular
frightening or tempting or both. For me it is very erotic
scenery . . . I also like other settings, but leathersex and forms of rural depravation, most notably of
a scenery like these woods belong to each other incestuous 'in-breeding' (see for example the
('Richard', in Lieshout, 1992, p. 16). 'Farmer Palmer' strip in U.K. 'adult comic' Viz) and
of zoophilia or 'bestiality' (see Dekkers, 1994) - - in
Further, to counter the urban bias of much reporting English slang, rural dwellers are pejoratively
in the gay media, articles have recently been run in referred to as 'sheep shaggers', while (too) many
major gay magazines and newspapers proclaiming comedy sketches have traded on the in-bred 'village
the glories of, for example, Cumbria (Wilcox, 1994), idiot'. In a more scholarly vein, the twin-volume
while gay Cornwell has produced its own tourist Kinsey reports catalogue 'animal contacts' in both
guide (ICT, 1994). The pink press also regularly men and women, noting their higher frequency in
carries advertisements for gay or gay-friendly rural areas, where close to 20% of males had sexual
holiday accommodation in the countryside. In contact with an animal to the point of orgasm (the
addition, the continued influx of rural lesbians and most common animals involved in sex with the
gays to big cities has become sexualised (for 'human male' were farm stock rather than the
example, the 'innocence' as well as the enthusiasm household pets favoured by the 'human female') - -
of country boys is clearly fetishized in the Terrence they also note that for the 'city boy', animal sex is
Higgins Trust safer sex leaflet Hick From The more common' when he visits a farm during the
Sticks). vacation period' (Kinsey et al., 1948, p. 674; for
material on women's animal contacts, see Kinsey et
Of course, rurality has many other sexual conno- al., 1953).
tations which get played out in popular cultural
forms, 'from the erotic to the boisterous', as Dave However, in reality rural areas may best be rep-
Matless (1994, p. 40) describes them, listing, among resented as settings for traditional (and not especi-
others, novels by H . E . Bates and D.H. Lawrence. ally enlightened) moral (including sexual) standards
Recent televisual and fllmic portrayals, including (on the broader 'moral economy' of the countryside,
adaptations of classic rural novels, have also see Mahar, 1991). In its cosiest forms, rurality
depicted widely different forms of rural sexuality, conflates with 'simple life', with hegemonic sexual-
from the innocent sauciness of ITV's The Darling ities (church weddings, monogamy, heterosexual-
Buds of May to the self-consciously raunchy Lady ity); although even here 'modernisation' o c c u r s -
Chatterley's Lover, and from repressed homo- British radio soap The Archers has storylines involv-
sexuality, integenerational sex and murderous rape ing adultery and abortion (though continuing to
in The Reflecting Skin to religious abstention and deny homosexuality, except in its listeners' fantasies;
self-imposed isolation (rocked by the arrival of an see Howes, 1992). Similar depictions of simplicity
urban cop) in Witness. 2 Even the buccolic British and safety exude from tv shows such as Heartbeat or
soap opera Emmerdale has latterly got sex (and All Creatures Great and Small, where the only
sexuality), with an ad campaign showing characters potentially counterhegemonic displays of sexuality
in raptuous clinches and with its first lesbian are of the cheeky 'love-among-the-haystacks'
storyline. variety, easily absorbed and rarely mentioned - - just
as T a m m y Wynette sings in the Country and
2Interestingly, a recent episode of the American drama Western classic 'Stand By Your Man', even if your
serial The X Files, about FBI investigation of unexplained husband has an affair, 'If you love him, you'll forgive
phenomena (UFOs, mutants, etc.), used a rural religious him . . . For, after all, he's just a man'. :~ In such an
separatist community very like Witness's Amish as the
setting for a story about the ultimate in polymorphous unreconstructed, essentialized environment, what
perversity - - the community members were actually place can there be for sexual dissidents?
shape-shifting and sex-changing aliens with overpowering
sex hormones, who killed their human sexual partners
during intercourse with a kind of lethal lust. Their sudden Rural gay life
departure (on discovery by the FBI agents) by UFO also
left crop circles in the fields they had previously tended.
3This song, one of the Country and Western's all-time There has been a general neglect of rural gay men
greats, has been heavily ironicized of late - - recorded by and lesbians in the growing number of life history
laconic (male) 'New Country' star Lyle Lovett, it was used volumes published in recent years (but see selected
at the end of the movie The Crying Game, about a gay entries in National Lesbian and Gay Survey, 1993)
transvestite and the ('straight') man who falls for him/her.
The song had already become a kitsch standard, played which must, in part at least, reflect problems of
(and sung along with) lovingly by countless lesbian access for researchers, as well as continued metro-
Country music fans (see Ainley and Cooper, 1994). centrism in work on homosexuality. This paucity of
116 David Bell and Gill Valentine

empirical material means that discussion of rural gay 'community' makes health promotion in rural areas
life as lived cannot, unfortunately, be that extensive especially difficult. Kathleen Rounds (1988) suggests
at this time. that this issue is of great importance since a person
with AIDS may return to their family in a rural
Those studies which have been conducted reveal, setting to be cared for, meeting head-on the
not surprisingly, tales of isolation, unsupportive prejudices about AIDS and about homosexuality
social environments and a chronic lack of structural from which they fled to the city in the first place.
services and facilities - - leading to eventual or And, as Poull~rd and D'Augelli (1989, p. 35) note in
projected emigration to larger (urban) settlements their study of rural-based health promotion pro-
which offer better opportunities for living out the grams in the U.S.A., those services which do exist
'gay life' (D'Augelli and Hart, 1987; Kramer, 1995). may be tinged by rural attitudes - - a quarter of the
Louie Crew's autobiographical account of 'growing volunteers on rural health promotion programs they
up gay in Dixie' (1977) tells exactly this kind of questioned said that gay men should do everything
story, with the threat of being cast out making denial they can to 'overcome' their homosexual feelings,
and invisibility the only option - - but, as he says, 28 and 20% thought male homosexuals 'disgusting'.
years of sexual abstinence was a high price to pay for
'fitting in'; his decision to come out, however, has However, studies of rural gays and lesbians also
caused just as many problems, including discrimin- show the extent to which informal support networks
ation by realtors and employers, not to mention the have evolved, facilitating the creation of spatially
Anglican bishop who wrote in their local newspaper disparate but strongly interwoven 'communities
that Louie and his partner Ernest's 'lifestyle' has without propinquity' in remote and rural areas (see
brought forth the wrath of God in the shape of a also D'Augelli, 1989; D'Augelli, Collins and Hart,
tornado that ripped through their home town. 1987; Gowans, 1995; Kramer, 1995; Krieger, 1983).
Of great importance here is the presence of tele-
A significant part of the problem of rural gay life, as phone helplines, chatlines and sexlines, which can
mentioned, is the lack of facilities and services - - as transend problems of isolation, fears of discovery
one respondent in Georgina Gowan's (1995) study (lines are anonymous) and so on, while imparting
of lesbian life in smalltown Salisbury put it, 'It must vital information and support (Brown, 1995; Moses
be exciting to be heterosexual' - - because at least and Buckner, 1980).
then you have places to socialise freely. A regional
survey of publicised gay facilities in Britain clearly A further issue that must be discussed here is that of
maps their uneven distribution, with regions such as identity and identification. Autobiographical
the North and South West underserviced by gay accounts such as Crew's, and work such as Kramer's,
institutions (Nocton, 1983). As Tony D'Augelli and show that many people who feel attracted to others
Mary Hart (1987, p. 82) note in one of the very few of the same sex, and many who act on those feelings,
studies to discuss (US) rural lesbian and gay lives in often actively deny the label 'homosexual', let alone
any detail: 'gay' or 'lesbian'. In fact, due to the intense
heteronormative pressures of rural life, many are
In most rural areas the gay community is invisible. This married, or have long-term partners of the opposite
invisibility is a result of justifiable fear and discomfort sex (though this does not necessarily make them
about others' reactions to disclosure of affectional 'bisexual' or mean that they would lay claim to
orientation. Many rural gays fear discovery and possible
rejection, worrying that any gay behavior will lead to 'bisexuality' as an identity). 4 HIV prevention work
exposure. Contacts with known gay people may be has been sensitized to these issues, attempting to
avoided due to fears of others' reactions. target what it calls 'men who have sex with men'
through peer education programs in public toilets
In the 'age of AIDS', this lack of any graspable and on cruising grounds, which may be the only
possible sites for those seeking same-sex contact (on
these issues, see Bell, 1995; Woodhead, 1995). The
4There is neither room nor sufficient empirical material issue of women's use of such sites remains problem-
available to say anything much about the relationship atic, with informal social gatherings often cited as
between bisexuality (in its current, politicised sense,
rather than in its Freudian undifferentiated sense) and the performing a similar function for rural women
rural. AnecdotaUy, the 'bisexual movement' in the 1990s (Gowans, 1995). However, for some men and
seems to embrace alliances with assorted oppositional women, any kind of acknowledgement of their own
politics stances - - with green issues, paganism, a kind of same-sex activities, fantasies or attractions is un-
'hippie' mentality - - which could mean strong links with thinkable, rendering even the most sensitive pro-
rurality; however, as with the contemporary lesbian and
gay communities, it exists in a similarly tense relationship gram or helpline useless (and, of course, these
with both the positive and negative aspects of rural and people rarely if ever show up on any kind of surveys
urban life (see Weise, 1992). into sexual behaviour).
Q u e e r Country 117

In rural and urban areas alike, of course, it is not prospecting, cattle-running and lumberjacking,
only those in search of sex who like to frequent might overcome moral codes against same-sex desire
cruising grounds and public toilets - - both gay and sexual activity (for a similar situation occurring
bashers and police officers have their reasons for in South African mining communities, see Elder,
being there, too. In a rural area 'unfamiliar' with 1995). As the Kinsey Report (1948, p. 457) puts it:
gays, policing may be even more punitive, as the
arrest of 38 men at a leather party in the Yorkshire These men who have faced the rigors of nature in the
village of Hoylandswaine in March 1993 shows. wild. They live on realities and on a minimum of theory.
Such a background breeds the attitude that sex is sex,
David Smith, writing in Gay Times (1993, p. 7), irrespective of the nature of the partner with whom the
reports arresting officers as 'clueless' when con- relation is had.
fronted with leather clothing and bondage gear. Two
years later, the Hoylandswaine men are being paid a It is no wonder, then, that the cowboy (or 'cowgay')
total of £40,000 in damages for wrongful arrest (Pink has become one of the most eroticised of macho gay
Paper, 1995). Anti-gay violence remains a dominant stereotypes (again, see work by Tom of Finland
fear for rural lesbians and gay men, however, further here).
restricting the opportunities for social, political and
sexual liaison (Gowans, 1995). Kinsey's comment about these men living on a
'minimum of theory' is especially resonant for rural
Not all lesbians and gay men living in rural areas are lesbian and gay lives, which are often not exposed to
willing to tolerate homophobic policing, social the political and social progress made by urban
prejudice and violence, and nor do they decide that lesbian and gay movements. Lack of availability of
the only option left is to move away. Some have even the most basic resources such as gay news-
started to fight back. A recent report on Welsh gay papers and books makes access to up-to-date and
groups clearly shows a radical strand of activism unbiased information difficult (although perhaps this
informed by Q u e e r politics in a seemingly unlikely is becoming less so gay issues appear more
coalition with Welsh-language activism. Two frequently in the mainstream media and as the
groups, Cylch and Dicllon (the latter a kind of Welsh possibilities of global communications through cable
OutRage!) have been engaged in Welsh-speaking and satellite tv and electronic mail, not to mention
campaigns for lesbian and gay rights, first picketting the more homely gay phone-lines, open up at least
and then being allowed a stand at the Eisteddfod virtual communities in remote areas). However, for
(Nobbs, 1994). Meanwhile in Norfolk, gay activists those not cognisant with new technologies - - and
have begun to protest at the annual Walsingham not able to filter tabloid sensationalism and bigotry
pilgrimage, in part highlighting the hypocrisy of a - - even the most basic issues of gay politics and
church which undoubtedly contains many gays, identity might be beyond reach. For such 'bachelor
lesbians and bisexuals, but which continues a policy farmers and spinsters', as Jerry Lee Kramer (1995)
of publicly condemning homosexual sex (Otton, calls them, the only openings for expressing their
1994). sexuality might come from episodic encounters in
public toilets or highway rest areas (Corzine and
O f course, there are two very different groups of gay Kirby, 1977), or from infrequent trips to neigh-
rural dwellers: first, there are those gay men and bouring towns' adult bookstores and porn cinemas
lesbians born and raised in rural areas; and second, (D'Augelli and Hart, 1987; Kramer, 1995). The
there are those who choose to move to a country formation of any sense of identity or community
location. It is the first group which follows the beyond the most clandestine is clearly not feasible in
stereotyped life-path which includes relocation away such an environment, although any fixed locus of
from the oppression of country life in one of the 'gay' activity, even if no more than a public toilet by
larger regional urban population centres. Even the side of a road, can at least offer an alternative to
within this group, however, there are contradictions. solitude and self-loathing, and so may represent a
Empirical findings from the first Kinsey Report very valuable first step in individual (and maybe
(1948) suggested high levels of same-sex sexual collective) identity-formation (see Kramer, 1995).
activity between rural men precisely because of But the 'community of the cottage', 5 like the
isolation and conservatism which, when coupled 'community of the closet', is a fragile foundation
with the rigours of hard physical work and the upon which to construct anything more concrete or
homosocial bonds of male-only occupations such as lasting (public toilets used for sex are routinely
raided and closed down - - as well as being a clear
focus for homophobic attacks - - so that the
5That public toilets are referred to in U.K. gay slang as
'cottages', with visiting them for sex known as 'cottaging', geography of opportunities for sex is constantly
adds a further rural connotation which cannot go changing, and the risks involved in cottaging are
unremarked. always high).
118 David Bell and Gill Valentine

Country living 6 and so on have been used throughout history to deny


women everything from education to employment
(Merchant, 1980; Sayers, 1982), lesbian feminist
For those lesbians and gay men who actively choose
philosophy has at times positively embraced a belief
to live in rural settings, the immense structural and
in women's 'natural femininity', relationship with
attitudinal difficulties outlined above must be offset
'mother earth' and so on. Although these discourses
by other benefits. One attraction of the countryside
around femininity and nature have been subject to
is the space it is perceived to offer those lesbians and
feminist critiques (see for example Nesmith and
gay men who wish to create communes and alter-
Radcliffe, 1993), this philosophy has been at the
native lifestyles. The rural is particularly appealing
heart of many lesbian separatist attempts to establish
because it offers freedom from many of the undesir-
women-only rural communes. In particular, there
able sides of modern life. For lesbian feminists a
are strong spiritual dimensions to some of these
return to nature, a break from the nuclear family,
communities, with women worshipping earth
and freedom from men could all best be realised on
goddesses, renaming themselves after plants (e.g.
farms and ranches. As one member of a U.S. lesbian
'Buckwheat', 'Willow', 'Clove', 'Weed'), and
commune explains:
holding meditations and festivals celebrating
menstruation.
We view our maintaining lesbian space and protecting
these acres from the rape of man and his chemicals as a
political act of active resistance. Struggling with each The strong spiritual dimension of some of these
other to work through our patriarchal conditioning, and communities is captured in Joyce Cheney's definitive
attempting to work and live together in harmony with anthology Lesbian Land (1985). This collection of
each other and nature, is a revolutionary act (quoted in writings by women on farms and ranches across the
Cheney, 1985, p. 135).
U.S. gives the women from these communes a
chance to describe their experiences - - except for
In the 1970s, a whole circuit of women-only farms
the community which did not respond to her enquiry
developed in the U.S., where lesbians could travel
as they had rejected all technology, including the
from place to place, staying to work awhile with
written word. From the practicalities of land law to
their fellow country women, as they called them-
the spiritual experience of union with Nature, the
selves (Faderman, 1991). The proliferation of these
stories in Lesbian Land offer a richly textured
lesbian ranches across the whole country made them
portrait of a little-known social movement.
a significant rural phenomenon. A lesbian country
magazine was even established, entitled Maize. In
For example one woman describes her time
the U.K. during the same period there were similar
'travelling in dykeland':
attempts to create rural communes, albeit on a
smaller scale. Some, including one set up by a group
We had a stable small community of about 13 dykes and
of radical lesbian feminists who moved from London
one boychild, living in tents, trailers, tipis, c a r s . . . We
to settle in the Pennines, are still in existence two celebrated winter solstice, candlemas, international
decades later. wimmins day, and spring equinox, with campfires,
circling, singing. One new moon, we had a day of
Many of these North American and British com- silence. We talked a lot about herbs, healing, astrology,
nuclear power/actions and food . . . I enjoy[ed] being
munes were founded on philosophies of lesbian
part of a sharing tribe: creating wimmin culture, new
separatism, which whilst not exclusively anti-urban, ways of living based on our needs, with respect for the
could perhaps best be enacted away from man-made land, each other, the plant world, the animal world,
cities (Lee, 1990). In particular, radical lesbian living in harmony (quoted in Cheney, 1985, pp. 166-
feminism has been strongly influenced by essentialist 167).
ideas about women's affinity with nature. There is a
long tradition within Western thought of arguing Another, Buckwheat, describes living in a woman's
that women are closer to nature than men because of place:
their biology (menstrual cycle and child rearing)
and of devaluing nature (female) in relation to We gather in circles, usually outdoors, and generate
science and culture, the creation of 'rational' men womanspirit. We chant and sometimes share the names
(Nesmith and Radcliffe, 1993). Yet whilst arguments of our matrilineage. "I am Maryann, daughter of Mary,
about women's 'uncontrollability' and 'irrationality' daughter of Mamie, daughter of Mary Jane, daughter of
Mary" (quoted in Cheney, 1985, p. 21).
6While there might still exist considerable squeamishness
over the word 'cunt', its currency within the lesbian A third explains why she left the city:
feminist circles discussed in Lesbian Land (which includes,
among other things, an illustrated plan for planting a 'cunt The city has a way of making you feel t r a p p e d . . , when
garden') makes its use here appropriate. I did come here and the vision began to unfold even
Queer Country 119

more, I knew this was the place and I had not chosen it, The Edward Carpenter Community's 'Beyond
but She, my Mother Earth, had chosen me to come Barriers' weekend is billed as having its emphasis on
h e r e . . . During the time I was there I became very 'personal growth and adventures in the Outdoors',
clear that the womyn that I used to be was behind me,
and the womyn-warrior that I was to be in future was while a Gay Men's Week at Laurieston in June 1994
entering my body (quoted in Cheney, 1985, pp. 31-35). was described thus:

But these utopian visions have not always survived There'il be faeries, there'll be magic; there'll be fear and
the reality of rural living. Many of these lesbian rural trepidation; there'll be the highlights and the lowlights
and challenging exploration. With hidden things to show
communes in the U.S. and U.K. have folded as a and share and other things to get to know, this life
result of political disputes (for example over whether enhancing, sense enchanting place will warm your
'boy children' should be allowed in), personality soul.
conflicts and relationship breakdowns. In other
communities, the idealism of the founders to reject In a similar style, Mark Thompson (1987, p. 292)
all the trappings of the man-made city, such as writes of the 'dance of the fairies' at a U.S. gay
electricity, central heating, carpets, cars, modern men's wilderness gathering:
medicines and so on has largely been modified as a
result of the hardships of this lifestyle, illness and the We build a fire near the sweatlodge, in a field above the
daily grind of organising collective chores. Some of bubbling springs, and form a circle around it . . . We
these pains of communal rural life are described in evoke the elements, the four directions... Slowly,
some men begin to sing, or join with others in a low,
the detailed book-length record of the Womanshare rumbling chant. We draw instinctively closer as the
Collective from Oregan, published as Country sound grows in intensity and men, young and old
Lesbians (1976). together, begin to move. Some break from the circle
and dance to shaking rattles and the voice of automatic
There are historical precedents for this kind of tongues.
communal life, too, although Muncy (1973, p. 13)
rather acidly notes in his study Sex and Marriage in While not all lesbians and gay men who move to the
Utopian Communities that nineteenth-century country end up in rural communes, there is an
American utopian communes were unanimously unmistakable thread of green utopianism within
heterosexual, even if they espoused free love and both lesbian and gay communities. For example, in
sexual experimentation (just as histories of 1960s Sandra Anlin's study of lesbian housing needs
hippie live-ins tend to deny homosexual activity). In (1991), some respondents located their 'fantasy
turn of the century Britain, Edward Carpenter lived home' in a rural setting. For many gays and lesbians,
out a kind of gay communal farm life at Millthorpe however, the only option (as with much of the
(Carpenter, 1984; Tsuzuki, 1980; for a dramatisation population of western urban-industrial nations) is to
of Carpenter's life, see Greig, 1979). In fact, one of use the countryside recreationally.
the U.K.'s current gay rural groups, founded in
1980, calls itself the Edward Carpenter Community. There is a huge range of specifically homosexual
Although it has now shelved plans to establish a full o u t d o o r recreational groups currently organising
rural gay men's community (see Woolaston, 1991 for events in the U.K. - - from the Hiking Dykes to the
their original plans), the group continues to run Gay Naturist Group, and from gay potholers to
events for gay men who want to get out into the lesbian mountaineers. The largest and probably
country. The most prominent of these are Gay best-known of these is the Gay Outdoor Club, estab-
Men's Weeks, a kind of spiritual retreat to lished 20 years ago and now with a membership of
Laurieston Hall in Scotland. over 900 spread between 20 local groups from the
Highlands to the Solent. The Club publishes its own
The activities offered by the ECC's Gay Men's newsletter (the May 1994 edition was number 99),
Weeks - - circle-dancing, drama, therapy and self- and activities include swimming, canal boat holi-
healing, discussions of desires and sexualities - - also days, walking and climbing, cycling and camping. Its
reveal links with the contemporary men's movement stated aims include helping gay men and women
which, like ecofeminist and lesbian-feminist philos- "increase their knowledge and love of the country-
ophies, embraces the spirituality of nature, the side through the development of skills".
dignity of labour, and the liberatory healing effects
of alternative (non-urban, non-industrial, non- As well as articles on everything from practical
consumerist) lifestyles (though it should be noted hillwalking skills and how to clean a sleeping bag,
that many of the so-called mytho-poetic men's the lesbian walkers' newsletter The Dyke has a
groups are hostile towards homosexuality, wary that broader agenda, documenting everything from
it will somehow challenge the 'safety' of their lesbian rural cultures to the history of women in the
masculine homosocial intimacy; see Bonnett, 1995). country. Some lesbian groups writing in The Dyke
120 David Bell and Gill Valentine

include stories of local rural lesbian patois and resentations in popular culture). Fuller and more
folklores. A group from D u n d e e write: " . . . a nuanced work on sexuality and rurality must flesh
folklore of Lilidot tales has emerged to keep up the out all of these, where possible and appropriate.
aching spirits. Lucky the blistered group who hear
about Helda and Griselda of Loch Lee, fighting off This brings us on to a final crucial issue - - the ethics
marauders by pouring boiling massage oil on them of this kind of research. We must immediately
from the tower at the foot of the g l e n . . . " (The question the effects that academic exposure of rural
D y k e , 1994, p. 3). Such a use (and enjoyment) of the sex liv.es might have. Who will it benefit and who
country could not be more different from the closed might it harm? Is it better to leave hidden those who
and closeted rural gay lives discussed earlier. wish to be invisible? As with any 'sensitive' social
research, justification cannot solely rest on the filling
of an empirical gap. Certainly, there are sound
Conclusion
reasons for wanting to bring to light the harsh
realities of rural life for many sexual dissidents, and
From those born on the farm to those moving to the perhaps even to 'give voice' to that life, as an
commune, and from those out for a hike to those out ethnographic account such as Georgina Gowans'
for a luck, the lives and lifestyles of lesbians and gay (1995) does; at the same time, our understandings of
men in rural locations embody a range of responses the rural are enhanced by including perspectives
to the rural from Edenic and utopian to dysfunc- from popular culture, including the kinds of gay-
tional and oppressive. Both rural studies and lesbian themed (or gay-appropriated) cultural products dis-
and gay studies stand to be enriched by the further cussed above. An awareness of the many axes of
investigation of this queer country, and this paper 'difference' may also suggest the need to 'think the
has only begun to show the complexities of the rural' in more fragmented, contingent and contested
interplay of 'the rural' with particular forms of ways than totalizing tropes have thus far enabled. In
sexual dissidence. The tensions should now be clear: short, we see such research as part of a response to
as an imaginative resource, the rural can be a place Chris Philo's (1992, p. 202) call to turn 'neglect into
of fantasy and utopia, a place for living an idyllic engagement' in a way which enriches both rural
'gay' life; at the same time, the urban maintains a studies and lesbian and gay studies.
position of equal (if different) appeal, both in
popular culture and in the life-courses of many Acknowledgements - - We would like to thank those
lesbians and gay men. For many with same-sex people who commented on earlier drafts of this paper,
feelings, however they deal with them, the country- most notably John Ambrose and Chris Thomas, and those
people who responded to live performances of it at either
side offers nothing but isolation and loathing, Cheltenham and Gloucester College of Higher Education
without the social networks or opportunities offered or the University of Oxford. The referees' comments were
by metropolitan and cosmopolitan life. For others, it also particularly insightful and helpful.
is a place of escape from the evils of the city, either
as an occasional recreational resource or as the
setting for a whole new way of life (communal, eco- References
friendly, etc.). In common with an increasingly
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