“Al-Tahayyo: Towards

Excellence” Program
by- M.H.B, Daerato Tolabaul
Kulliyatul Muminoon & ITNC
• Topics and Subtopics
• Kutub al-Dawah References and Material
PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT & GROOMING PROGRAM FOR
MUMINEEN YOUNGSTERS

Program Description:

▪ This pilot project is intended for mumineen youngsters. Candidates for this program will comprise of those who

can use a little help in developing their “SOFT SKILLS”. For this first project, candidates will be chosen from

financially stable households.

▪ The points covered in this document comprise of two sections as categorized by the author of kitaab al-Najah

while analyzing the statement of Amirul Mumineen AS: “One should make himself ready for his wife in the same

manner he expects his wife to get ready for him”

▪ Grooming of the Body

▪ Grooming of the Mind and Soul

GROOMING OF THE BODY

Hygiene Dressing Physical Body Home

• Dental care • Clothes Fitness Language • Cleanliness
• Hair • Washing of • Exercise • Expressions • House
• Body clothes • Diet • Posture Proud
Cleanliness • Gesture & • Bathrooms
• Fragrance & Movement
Odor
GROOMING OF THE MIND AND SOUL

Verbal Social Skills Self Esteem & Shariah

Communication • Ethics Confidence • Namaz, Taharat
skills • Moral Values • General Knowledge • Dua
• Language • Good Character • Clear Vision • Majalis
• Person to Person talk • Attitude • Education
• Listening Skills • Sense of Humor
• Effective
Communication
‫فمثله كمثل شجرة ثبت اصلها ‪،‬ونمى فرعها ‪،‬وطالت اغصانها ‪،‬‬ ‫❖‬

‫وكثرت ثمارها ‪ ،‬فمن رأها اعجب بها ‪،‬‬

‫‪BODY: HYGIENE‬‬
‫•‬ ‫‪Dental Care‬‬
‫•‬ ‫‪Hair‬‬
‫•‬ ‫‪Body Cleanliness‬‬
‫•‬ ‫‪Fragrance & Odor‬‬
DENTAL CARE (BRUSHING & FLOSSING)

▪ Every attending student will be given a thorough understanding of why dental

hygiene is important.
▪ A dentist will be called upon to the scene. His teeth will be checked and will be
given personal advice to its maintenance and upkeep.
▪ Reading material and guidelines will be included in his manual.
HEAD AND BEARD HAIR CLEANED AND STYLED APPROPRIATELY

▪ How to cut and take care of one’s hair. (Head)

▪ Taking care of beard
▪ Moustache grooming
▪ The hair which grows on the cheeks
▪ Shaving of the underarm and all parts as required by Shariat.
▪ Removing of the nasal hair
BODY CLEANLINESS

▪ Cutting off fingernails and toenails.

▪ Bathing and cleansing the body
▪ Cleansing all areas of the body where dirt and foul smell may
linger
▪ Cleaning the eyes from rheum (mucus)
▪ Istinja, wudu and ghusul (KAIFIYAT)
▪ Regular washing of both hands and legs.
▪ Especially before and after food.
▪ After coming home. All above practices will be demonstrated in detail and will be practiced throughout the
month. It will be designed in a way that all of the above become habitual.
FRAGRANCE AND ODOR

▪ Preferred Soaps
▪ Preferred Atars
▪ Non alcoholic Deodorants.
▪ Non alcoholic Creams

Daily use from the above will be guided and

monitored
 ‫كثير الوقار‬ ❖

BODY: DRESSING
• Clothes
• Washing of Clothes
CLOTHES & ATTIRE

▪ Al-Libas al-Anwar
▪ Pants, shirts and Styles
▪ Inner clothes
▪ Color combinations
▪ Choices for different occasions.
▪ Style of wearing clothes.
▪ Rings
▪ Topi, Feta
▪ Socks and shoes. New and choices.
WASHING CLOTHES REGULARLY

▪ Hand washing clothes.

▪ Machine washing clothes.
▪ Drying of clothes.
▪ Ironing clothes.
▪ Arranging clothes in the wardrobe.
▪ Taking care of clothes. Professional dressers will be called upon and special guidance will be given on all of

▪ Taking care of shoes and shoes.
▪ Tahaarat and Nazafat of clothes.
the above. We will also get each participant a newly sewn kurta saya set, and office
and leisure sets too.
The way they carry themselves around in their clothes will be monitored, and
guided. Al-Libas al-Anwar clothes and the way they carry themselves with these
will be specially monitored in the roza and in majalis.
 ‫وبدنه على بلواه صابر‬ ❖

‫صابر البدن‬ ❖

BODY: PHYSICAL
FITNESS
• Exercise
• Diet
• Sports
EXERCISE & DIET

▪ Daily exercise
▪ Walk
▪ Sports (Swimming, Football, Cricket, Volleyball etc.)
▪ BMI
▪ Medical check up
▪ Cardio Exercises
▪ Look smart and fit
 ‫له حلم ورضى وعقل‬ ❖

‫خياله ضياء‬ ❖

BODY: BODY
LANGUAGE: (NON
VERBAL
COMMUNICATION)
• Expressions
• Posture
• Gesture & Movement
EXPRESSIONS

▪ Positive / Aggressive
▪ Cool & Calm
▪ Nervous / Scared
▪ Active
▪ Passive / Dull
▪ Negative / Weak
POSTURE

▪ Walking
▪ Standing
▪ Sitting
▪ Rest
 ‫مقتصد في الغنى والفقر‬ ❖

‫ومجالسته بركة‬ ❖

BODY: HOME
• Cleanliness
• House Proud
• Bathrooms
HOUSE PROUD

▪ Cleanliness of house ▪ Maula ni Nayaab Tasaweer.

▪ Cleaning Room ▪ Pictures of Family and Friends.
▪ Clean Kitchen
▪ Bathrooms, Changing Areas,
▪ Clean Cupboard.
Valangris and Chakris
▪ Clean Aangan
▪ According to Shariat
▪ House Proud ▪ Taharat Asbaab.
▪ All household items and services up ▪ Chakris.
to date ▪ Towels and Taharat
▪ Design of houses, and soft
furnishings.
▪ Color combinations in interiors.
▪ Taweez
 ‫ولسانه هلل ذاكر‬ ❖

‫والناس منه في راحة‬ ❖

‫ل ّين الكالم سريع الرضى‬ ❖

‫صادق اللسان‬ ❖

‫كالمه منفعة‬ ❖

MIND AND SOUL: VERBAL

COMMUNICATION
• Language
• Person to Person talk
• Listening Skills
• Effective Communication
VERBAL COMMUNICATION SKILLS

▪ Learn LSD Basics; Accent ▪ Practice effective communication

▪ It is two ways
▪ Learn English Basics. ▪ It involves active listening
▪ Art of introduction (Self and others) ▪ It reflects the accountability of speaker
and listener
▪ Person to person talk ▪ It utilizes feedback
▪ It is free of stress
▪ Telephonic talk ▪ It is clear
▪ Voice modulation
▪ Listening skills
▪ Convey one’s thought clearly
 ‫موسوم بحسن الخلق والرضى‬ ❖

MIND AND SOUL: SOCIAL

SKILLS
• Ethics
• Family Relations
• Common Respect
• Net Etiquettes
SOCIAL SKILLS
▪ Ethics and moral values
▪ Etiquettes (Fine arts and fine
manners)
▪ Social grace and formal skills
▪ Thaal manners
▪ Family and social relations
▪ ‫التخلق باألخالق الجميلة‬
▪ Honesty
▪ Confidentiality
▪ Respect
▪ Exhibit a positive attitude and
pleasant demeanor
▪ Rise when you are introducing
someone or you are being introduced
▪ Show common respect and
consideration for others
▪ Net etiquette
 ‫راسخ في العلم‬ ❖

‫كامل في العقل‬ ❖

‫رزين في غير‬ ❖

‫كسل‬

MIND AND SOUL: SELF-

ESTEEM AND SELF-
CONFIDENCE
• General knowledge
• Overcoming shyness
• Goals
• Importance of pursuing higher education
• Sense of humor
 ‫مطيع للجبار‬ ❖

MIND AND SOUL: SHARIAH

• Namaz, Dua
• Taharat
• Majalis al-Dawah
• Refraining from Moharramat
PROPOSED WAYS OF
IMPARTING SKILLS, AND TO
INCULCATE BEHAVIORAL
CHANGE.
• Activities
• Schedule
• Tasks
 SELF-ESTEEM AND SELF-CONFIDENCE

▪ Attend Dua ▪ Badri Mahal

▪ Raudat Tahera (Dakhli sharaf if possible)
▪ Mawaid with Talabat ▪ Saifee Mahal
▪ Matheran
▪ SABAQ (Kitab al-Najah, Tanbeeh al-Gafeleen and
Kitab al-Himmah) ▪ Shopping Expedition
▪ Hifz al-Quran al-Kareem (Tayseer prog) ▪ Take them to the tailor
▪ ‫ سافروا تغنموا‬- Travel of two days ▪ Take them to a restaurant
‫▪ مروة السفر‬ ▪ Amusement park
▪ Air
▪ Rail ▪ Take them to the ground (Cricket, Football,
▪ Road Volleyball etc.)
▪ Dentistry ▪ Take them for swimming
▪ Saire Ilmi: Educational journeys ▪ Trekking
▪ Jamea
▪ Horse riding
 Grooming Program Timeline

Selection Process Screening Arrival

❑ Bayan
❑ PPT 30 th 5th
❑ Video
Moharram Safar
10h
Rabi al-
23rd 1st 11th Safar Awwal
Moharram Safar
Registration Confirmation
❑ Registration final ❑ Confirmation of
date. candidate
❑ Send arrival details

❑Details of the program

❑What to bring