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Arthur Aron jo ki ek psychologist the aur unke saathiyo ne 1997 me 36 personal questions tayar kiye
jissse do log jo ek dusre ko ache tareeke se jaante bhi nahi, bhut kareeb aa jayenge. In 36 questions ko
teen set me banta gya hai. Aur har ek set pehle se aur zaada personal hota jaata hai.

Author ka kehna hai ki zaada tar log ek dusre se apni personal cheese share nahi karte aur isi liye zaada
kareeb nahi aa paate. Ye 36 questions hamne isi liye bnaye hai taaki do strangers ke beech me bht acha
bond ban sake.

Is study ke dauran couple ko ek akele room me rkha gya aur unhe ye 36 questions diye gaye jo un dono
ko ek dusre se poochne hai. Aur finally36 questions ek dusre se poochne ke baad in dono strangers ko
bina ek dusre se baat kiye hue ek dusre ki aankho me 4 minute tak dekhna hai.

Jab ye study hui to in me se ek couple ne marriage bhi kar li. Is study ko check karne ke liye Mrs Mandy
Carton aur unke ek dost ne ye try kiya aur unhe bhi ek dusre se pyaar ho gya. Aur abhi tak vo dono saath
hai. Mrs Mandy Carton is baat pe ek TED talk bhi de chuki hai.

Neeche vo 36 questions diye gaye hai jo us study me use kiye gaye the:-

SET 1
Q1) Agar aap duniya mein kisi ke saath bhi dinner kar sakte ho. To aap kiske saath dinner karoge?

Q2) Kya aap famous hona chahte ho? Agar haan to kis cheez me?

Q3) Kya kabhi aap kisi ko telephone karne se pehle uski practice karte ho ki aapko phone me kya bola
hai? Agar haan to kyun?

Q5) Aapke abse ache din ke liye us din mein kya kya hona chahiye?

Q6) Kya aapne kabhi apne liye gaana gaaya hai? Ya kisi aur ke liye?

Q7) Kya aapko thoda sa bhi idea hai ki aap kaise mar sakte ho?

Q8) Teen cheese jo aap dono mein common hai?

Q9) Apni life mein aap kis cheez ke lie bhagwaan ka shukriya ada karna chahte ho?

Q10) Kya aap apne bachpan me jis tareke se aapko paala gya hai us mein se koi cheez change karna
chahoge?
Q11) Chaar minute me apne partner ko apni puri zindagi ke bare me btao jinti zaada detail me aap bta
sako?

Q12) Agar aap kal subha jago aur koi bhi quality ya koi bhi ability paa sako to vo kya hogi?

SET 2
Q13) Agar koi jadui ball aapko aapke future ya past ke bare mein kuch bhi bta sake to aap kya janna
chahoge?

Q14) Kya aap kaafi time se kuch karna chahte the? Vo kya hai aur aaj tak aapne vo kiya kyu nahi?

Q15) Aak tak ki aapki life ki sabse badi accomplishmet kya hai?

Q16) Dosti mein aap sabse zaada kis cheez ko preference dete ho?

Q17) Aaj tak aapki life me sabse achi cheez kya hui hai?

Q18) Aaj tak aapki life me sabse zaada kharaab cheez kya hui hai?

Q19) Agar aapko pta chale ki aap ek saal ke ander ander mar jaoge to aap kya karna chahoge aur kyun?

Q20) Dosti aapke liye kya maayne rakhti hai?

Q21) Pyaar aur sneh aapki zindagi me kya maayne rakhta hai?

Q22) Aap apne partner se 5 cheeze share kare jo aapko unke character ke bare me achi lagti hai?

Q23) Aapke ghar vale aapke kitne paas hai? Kya aapka bachpan baaki logo ke mukaable zaada acha tha?

Q24) Aapka aapki maa ke saath relationship(sambandh) kaisa hai?

SET 3
Q25) Teen “Hum” waali statement bnaye? Jaise ki “Is kamre me HUM dono ye mahsoos kar rhe hai
ki…..”?

Q26) Is sentence ko poora kare..! Kaash mere paas koi hota jisse me ye share kar sakta/sakti…….?

Q27) Agar aap apne partner ke close friend bnna chahte hai to unhe kya zaruri baat pta hona hi chahiye?

Q28) Apne partner ko is baar ye btao ki aapko unme sabse acha kya lagta hai ( aur vo sach hona
chahiye)? Aur ye aise cheez honi chahye jo aap kisi aise insaan ko nhi bol sakte jo aapko abhi mila hai?
Q29) Apne partner ko koi aisi cheez btao apni life ki jise aap bhut hi sharmnak smajhte ho?

Q30) Last time aapko kab kisi ke saamne roye the apne aap?

Q31) Apne partner ko koi aise baat btao jo aapko unke bare me achi lagne lagi hai?

Q32) Kya koi aise cheez hai jo serious hai phir bhi aapko uspe hasi aati hai?

Q33) Agar aap aaj raat ko marne vale hai, aur aapke paas koi mauka nahi hai kisi se baat karne ka? Aspko
sabse zaada pachtava kis baat ka hoga jo aapne abhi tak kisi se nahi boli hai? Aur kyu?

Q34) Agar aapke ghar me aag lag jaati hai aur aapne apne saare ghar vale aur apne paltu jaanwar bacha
liye hai? To kaun si aise cheez hai jo aap bachana chahoge? Aur kyu?

Q 35) Aapki family me saare logo me se kis ki maut se aapko sabse zaada dukh hoga aur kyu?

Q36) Apni koi ek personal problem apne partner ko btayiye aur apne partner se advice lijiye ki vo is
problem ko kaise handle karte? Aur apne partner se ye poochiye ki unhe ye problem sun ke kaisa lag rha
hai?

Ab apne partner ko bina kuch bole unki aanko me 4 minute tak dekhte rahiye?