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The Book of William
The Book of William
OfWILLIAM
INVITINGYOU
TOTAKEA
ACLOSERLOOK
I will never forget the time I asked you what your favorite hobbies are, and you said there
are two: sports and thinking. So, in your honor, as you become a Bar Mitzvah, I decided to
create a book for a sportsman and thinker; I want to share some words of wisdom, blessing
and encouragement from one generation to the next.
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Speaking of family, when it comes to the Greatest of All Time
Rabbis, Rav Yisroel Meir Kagan, who is known to us by the name of
his book, Chofetz Chaim, is at or near the top of everybody’s list.
And he is your father’s mother’s father’s mother’s father! He
teaches us that if you really want to be smart and clever, you
should study Torah because you can learn so much from it. For
example, the Chofetz Chaim learns a lot from a verse in your
Torah portion: "You shall not cause your fellow Jew
aggravation." This teaches us that we should not use words that
will distress someone, anger him, scare him, embarrass him, or
cause him pain. The Torah is teaching us that our words are very
powerful. A slip of the tongue can embarrass someone, hurt their
feelings, or even make them cry. So much aggravation and even
hatred can be avoided by thinking carefully before we speak. On
the other hand, a kind word of appreciation or encouragement can
lift a person's spirits. Compliments have changed people's whole
lives.
The point of these two lessons is to use your G-d given skills not just on the basketball
court but on the court of life. It is important to size up court challenges and life
challenges with a careful eye. It is important to use watchful thinking before you pass balls
to someone as well as watchful thinking before you say words to someone.
Whether it is chess, brainteasers, puzzles, or adventures like an escape room, you accept and
relish a challenge. More than most kids your age, you are inquisitive and ready to question
whether seeing is truly believing. The Torah teaches in the Shema prayer which you have
learned, "do not follow after your heart and after your eyes, which lead you astray." The
illusions in this volume will teach you to expect the unexpected, to not make false
assumptions, to not be bamboozled by context, and to not be overconfident that what you
see is actually the truth. In short, this book will, I hope, help you sharpen your senses; and I
have a feeling you will enjoy doing so.
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FALSE ASSUMPTIONS IN SPORT:
Believe it or not, people get enslaved in false ideas even in the world of
sports. Take the field of running, an activity that you have done
competitively in the past. Back in the 1950s when I was your age,
practically everyone believed that a human could not run a mile in less
than 4 minutes. After rigorous testing and mathematical computations of
the physics of our anatomy, scientists were saying that they’d proven it
was impossible to run a mile in under four minutes. A physical
impossibility, the scientists said.
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How fast does a human have the potential to run the
mile--or swim the 100-meter, or complete the
marathon--today? We honestly don't know. That is
why we hold our breath during every Olympic
competition, to see if a new world record has been
established.
• Did you know that Hall of Fame player Wade Boggs would eat only chicken the day of a
game, and used to draw a Hebrew symbol that means “To Life” in the dirt before every
at bat?
• Did you know that Michael Jordan wore slightly longer shorts than other players because
he needed to make room for his lucky North Carolina shorts, which he wore under his
uniform throughout his career!
• Did you know that, besides tossing chalk before every game, LeBron James has a
special handshake for each of his teammates, and he has to go through them all one at a
time before every game in order to feel at peace with himself?
• Did you know that, before every contest, Kevin Durant will hike each leg up on the
scorer’s table, untie his shoes, and then tie them back up?
• Do you or your friends have any rituals you use before or after athletic events? If so,
you are not alone!
Just as we sometimes are fooled into believing what we want to believe, even if it’s false, our
eyes can be tricked as well. It’s no wonder that optical illusions are so fascinating. They
challenge us and help us get out of our comfort zone and think in new and creative ways. The
brain needs this kind of exercise; it’s like a trip to the cerebral gym. Working puzzles can
increase your brain’s flexibility or neuroplasticity. And most importantly, they are a lot of
fun.” I couldn’t agree more.
Turning the
This
Tables illusion shows
that our brains have difficulty
making sense of two-
dimensional (2D) images that
look three-dimensional (3D).
Our brains think that items
that are further away (like the
far ends of the table
on the left) are smaller than
items that appear closer (like
the side edges of the table on
the right).
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OPTICAL ILLUSIONS:
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OPTICAL ILLUSIONS:
Does this
image seem to
be moving?
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Color ILLUSIONS:
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Color ILLUSIONS:
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Color ILLUSIONS:
Confusing?
Even creepy?
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Color ILLUSIONS:
Bright idea: Like these illusions, PURIM is the Jewish holiday that reminds us that
appearances can be deceptive.On Purim, nothing is as it appears. Esther, the
Queen of Persia, is really a secret Jew named Hadassah. Mordechai, the
arch-enemy of Haman, ends up receiving the king’s
honor by being paraded around town, by Haman no
less. Haman ends up being hanged on the very gallows
that he erected to hang Mordechai. Purim, the day
marked for death and destruction for Jews, is flipped
over into a day of feasting and gladness instead. Yes,
on Purim, we celebrate this concept that things are
not alwayswhat they seem, dressing in costumes,
reading the topsy-turvy story of Purim, and eating
traditional foods like hamentashen which "hide" their
fillings inside.
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SEEING THINGS IN CONTEXT:
(Now, read it again, this time from the bottom to the top!)
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SEEING THINGS IN CONTEXT:
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AMBIGUOUS ILLUSIONS:
Now for some of my favorite illusions where two things are vying
for your attention at once. These are ambiguous figures, also
called “Ambigrams,” where your perception flickers between figure
and ground, one thing or the other.
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AMBIGUOUS ILLUSIONS:
Now you probably feel that your memory is pretty good, maybe
not like people with photographic memories. We are going to
check whether you can remember what you see; let’s see how
good of an eyewitness you are.
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AMBIGUOUS ILLUSIONS:
Here is one more test to see if you can follow directions and
decipher a text in English:
Tahnks to the phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, it dseno’t mtaetr what oerdr
the ltteres of a wrod are in. The olny imroamptnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer
be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can still raed it whotiut a
pboerlm.Ptrety azanmig, huh? If yur’oe able to raed this, rsaie your hnad!
Here is the famous ball and bat problem which you answered
correctly right away, just as your father had done when he first
was given the same problem:
A ball and a bat together cost $1.10. The bat costs exactly $1.00
more than the ball. How much does the ball cost?
For many people, even mathematicians, the immediate answer that springs
to mind is $0.10. Sorry, that’s the wrong answer. It comes from focusing
quickly on the numbers, dividing the 110 into 100 and
10, and neglecting the “more than” statement. Of course, once you take the
time to reflect that the difference between $1.00 and 10 cents is only
$0.90, then you see that the correct answer is actually five cents.
This teaches us that our minds have two distinct ways of thinking:
Those who confidently predicted that 10 cents would be the correct answer
were using fast thinking, and those who answered 5 cents were using
slow thinking. to succeed in school and in most human problem
situations, it is good to cultivate slow, deliberate, analytical thinking
patterns.
Do you know when fast thinking is at its best? When I see an athlete,
especially someone considered G.O.A.T (greatest of all time) at the top of his
game, I can’t think of a better example of fast thinking. You have seen Lebron
do things other basketball players can’t do, just as Odell Beckham, Jr., plays
at a higher level than most football players. So, if you want to succeed like
Lebron and other superstars, you have to practice and practice and practice
so that you are ready to function on autopilot using fast thinking:
❖ You have to be ready to accept failure because unless you learn to fail you fail to learn.
❖ You want to get into the zone, that magical state of mind where you are immersed in the here and now.
❖ You want your actions to seem effortless and where there’s a deep sense of enjoying each moment.
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Favorite Brain Teasers:
4. Is it possible for
you to find the
hidden tiger in this
picture?
5. In ancient days gone by a
wealthy land owner
challenges his two sons to
a horse race. The one whose
horse is slowest will
inherit the entire estate.
After a few days into the
race, the brothers have
made no progress and begin
to wonder what to do. Upon
the advice of a wise old man they jumped on the horses and
raced as fast as they could to the finish line. What did the
wise old man suggest?
How many of these riddles were you able to answer correctly? When you’ve given them your best
shot, look in the Appendix to see how well you did. Bright Idea: Riddles are definitely good for
your mind: they help you form associations, link ideas and think, be creative and make
conclusions - all of which are good ways of learning and remembering things quickly and with
ease.
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Appendix:
VK2 productions (1): A collaboration of Val KAran and Vera kulikov (of upworks.com)
Muller-Lyer Illusion (9): The ‘angles in’ line seems to be an object that is closer,
and the ‘angles out’ line corresponds to an object that is far away. Because the lines
are actually the same size, the one that is perceived as being farther away is
experienced as being larger than the one perceived as being closer.
Turning the Tables Illusion (9): This illusion works because our brains are fooled
by parallel lines. When parallel lines are vertical, they often appear longer than if
they are horizontal.
Hermann Grid Illusion (10): Your visual neurons are being duped once more, this
time by the play of light and dark. The precise spacing between the black corners of
the squares and the white intersections give the neurons a double whammy: some
cells are stimulated while others mellow out. The result is that gray dots seem to
appear and then vanish if you look right at them. While there are really only black
blocks and white spaces in the grid, the high contrast black and white areas fool the
eyes into perceiving a gray circle at each intersection.
Leaning Towers Illusion (10): So why do we perceive the tower on the right to be
more precariously positioned, if both towers are in fact identical? It is because our
visual system treats the two pictures as a part of a single scene. Our visual system
assumes that they must be diverging as they recede from view, and this is what we
see.
Adele Pictures (11): We are programmed to recognize faces instantly right side up.
When two images are viewed upside down, they appear to look similar at first glance
but, when viewed the correct way, you can clearly see the difference between the
two images. When we look at a face flipped upside down, we cannot process it as
quickly. And, so, we can be in for quite a surprise as you saw for yourself.
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Appendix:
How many F’s (11): The letter “F” appears nine times in the sentence. Your brain uses its
past experience with the sound of letters as a shortcut to build them into familiar
words. As a result, many people forget to count the “F” in the word “of” because, when
spoken, it has a “V” sound.
Color Illusions (12): The strawberries appear red because of color constancy – the
human brain is designed to perceive the same colors under a range of circumstances.
Whether you’re outside in bright natural light or inside in a dimly-lit closet, the brain
works to color correct, ensuring you see constant colors. So even though the image of
the strawberries consists of gray and greenish pixels, you still see red strawberries.And
if you saw a small tint of color in the bananas, that’s incredible! But, you’re wrong.
There isn’t any. If you see a color, you’re not alone. That’s because color exerts a
profound influence on how we see the world around us. Since your brain utilizes colors
to help recognize objects, it should come as no surprise that, in turn, your brain
utilizes objects to help recognize colors – even when they’re not there. In other words,
even when we think we are seeing things as they really are, a host of other factors –
light, surrounding color, our environment – are all affecting our perception of reality.
We are hardwired to want to learn new things but much of the time we operate on
auto-pilot, not really observing the world around us. Optical illusions shake up our
perceptions of the world, allowing us to notice things afresh.
Stroop Effect (11): Here you are getting mixed message from the different sides of your
brain. You see, there are actually two separate sides or hemispheres in our skull, and
they each control different parts of our body and our nervous system. The interference
between the different information (what the words say and the color of the words)
your brain receives causes a problem because (1) words are read faster than colors and
(2) naming colors requires more attention than reading words.
Bumps and craters image (15): When your brain sees lighter shading on the top of the
circle and darker shading on the bottom, it assumes that it must be a bump. That’s due
to hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution. Our brain tells us that light
comes from a single source above – the sun – and that shadows are created by that
light’s direction. In this puzzle, when you flip the card, it re-orients the direction of
the shadows, thus giving you a different number of bumps and craters.
Seven Letters Puzzle (16): Actually, the correct riddle answer is that one word in
different ways fill all the three blanks. So, notable is the word, but it is separated by
space to fill the blanks in different ways.
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Appendix:
False Memory Test (19,20): Because the lists contained words such as thread, sewing, and
knitting, more than 50% of people remember, incorrectly, that the list contained the word
needle. Similarly, many people swear that the lists contained the word sleep because the
lists included blanket, doze, and pillow. You see, false memories of unseen and unheard
words arise from associations. Our minds have difficulty suppressing false memories which
can become as true as real memories. Imagine how hard it is to be accurate witnesses when
we have to observe complicated and fast-paced events, such as accidents or crimes?
Riddles Correct Answers (22,23):
(1) Say to either guard, “If I ask the other one, what will he say?” Whatever the
answer, choose the other door.
(2) During a typical chess game.
(3) Happy Birthday.
(4) The Tiger’s stripes spell “The Hidden Tiger.”
(5) Let each one ride the other brother’s horse.
(6) This describes the game of Monopoly.
(7) The catcher and umpire in baseball.
(8) “Errers” is one “there is” is another and “three” is the third!
(9) The Skies the Limit.
(10) Scrambled Eggs.
Lesson from Rabbi Lamm on Behar: Behar means “on the mountain,” and it is referring
specifically to Mount Sinai. Here were the people of Israel in the time of Moses, marching to
the land of Israel, a place they had never seen. And here they are being given agricultural
laws such as Shemetah and Yovel. These are people who were nomads, never having lived on
farms and with no background in raising crops. What’s going on here, they must’ve thought
when they were given laws that appeared weird and irrelevant.
Here is a lesson I learned from Rabbi Dr. Norman Lamm, a great teacher of mine and former
president of yeshiva University. Just because the children of Israel at Mount Sinai did not see
practical value or even understand the laws they were given didn’t mean that this wasn’t
important knowledge. There are things that we have to learn for their own sake even if we
don’t completely understand every detail. It also reminds us that we must always continue
learning and searching beneath the surface of the teachings to find lessons and truths that
are pertinent to us. Above all, Rabbi Lamm teaches, we must be future oriented. We must
have faith that what is genuinely irrelevant now may someday become most relevant and
meaningful. What today seems visionary may prove indispensable to tomorrow’s very real
need.
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