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ENVIRONMENT
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to 2
rhythm. (It’s usually best to build this time around a
meal!)
Use
two experiences that you would like to
incorporate into your family time this week. Don’t
feel burdened to complete all the activities at once,
this Resource
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Remember to HAVE FUN! Strive to
make each gathering unique to your own
family as you enjoy spending time with
God and each other.
Editor’s Note I was in fifth grade the first time I got my heart
broken. I was at camp and my “boyfriend” for
the week dumped me in front of all of my friends and said the meanest
thing any boy has ever said to me. He told me I was “pretty on the
outside, but ugly on the inside.” Crushed and humiliated, I ran to the
phone and called my mom crying.
I’ll never forget the words she spoke to me that In a world that continually tells our children and
day. She told me that no boy, or any other human for us that we are not enough, God tells us that He is
that matter, can decide my worth. She told me that enough. I hope this month’s HomeFront points you
boy had no idea what he was talking about and and your children to a Jesus who gives you worth
that I was beautiful on the inside and the outside and tells you that, in Him, you are enough.
because Jesus made me that way. She told me
Jesus determines my worth and gives me my
beauty, and I should never let a person take that
away from me.
My mom called out my identity that day. She
named who God had created me to be. I was, I am,
beauty, inside and out. She empowered me to claim
an identity that was permanent and true because
God had given it to me.
LAURA WEBER | EDITOR
the Tru Team | Costa Mesa, CA
© 2010 David C. Cook. TruResources are developed in partnership with ROCKHARBOR Church
and a national network of family and children’s ministry leaders. All rights reserved.
ENVIRONMENT
IDENTITY
This environment highlights who we are in Christ. According to
Ephesians 1, we have been chosen, adopted, redeemed, sealed, and
given an inheritance in Christ. This conviction allows children to stand
firm against the counter identities the world will offer to bring them
destruction.
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From the rest of us?
This simple recipe is quick, easy, and can include a couple extra little hands while preparing. So
1 ½ tablespoons paprika
1 teaspoon garlic powder
1 teaspoon cumin
salt and pepper to taste
1 large (32 oz) can ranch-style chili beans, drained
1 large (32 oz) can pinto beans, drained
1 small (16 oz) can kidney beans, drained
1. Coat the bottom of a big pot (5 or 6 quarts) with oil. Add meat and let it cook for a few minutes
over medium heat. Don’t let it stick to the bottom.
2.When the meat starts to cook and break apart, add chopped onions, chopped garlic cloves, and
seasonings. Stir several times while cooking.
3. Once meat is almost completely cooked, open, drain, and add all of the beans. Chili should be
somewhat watery at this point; if it’s not, add a little water.
4. Bring chili back to a boil, then simmer over medium/low heat for ½ hour and taste it. If it tastes
bland, add more chili powder.
5. Simmer chili for another hour. You can serve it up at that point, or you can turn the stove down to
the lowest setting and let it continue to simmer until you are ready to eat.
This makes great leftovers, so you may want to double the recipe and eat it again for dinner later in
the week.
GAME TIME
by Stacy Igarashi
OLDER GAMES
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Putty Sculpture
I love getting together with my family because there is always plenty of
laughter. We laugh about both the good and the bad of life. This month on
game night, try something quirky that is sure to give your family members
lots of laughs.
by Roger Tarabasi
If you saw the Storytelling In years past, we used to hear the
HomeFront Monthly, you may have phrase, “holy matrimony” because
read my friend Laura’s story about marriage was viewed as holy and
her parents’ blessings for her. sacred. In a recent poll, high school
When she shared this story with students were asked if they
me, I was so touched by the ways believed that when they got
her parents intentionally spoke married, their marriage would last a
Truth and identity into her life when lifetime. Sixty percent said no.
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Start by asking God to reveal a piece of • How do you see yourself as a husband/wife?
Scripture to you. Be patient, and allow the • How does this compare to the way God sees
Spirit to guide you in this process. Identify you and what He calls you to be?
a time to share this verse with your child.
• Which of the following qualities do you need
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to start accepting about yourself?
Share with him or her the meaning of the
verse, and about the journey you took that C
ompassionate | Provider | Lover | Kind | Caring
led you to choose it. | Self-sacrificing | Romantic | Encourager
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Decide on a time of day when you can
Begin to ask the Lord to help you believe that
recite and pray this verse with your child. this is what He has made you to be. Pray for Him to
Allow this to begin to be part of your show you specific ways to demonstrate your identity
natural rhythm and daily routine. Have fun with to your spouse.
this tradition and wait to see God honor and use
this verse in the life of your child. Watch God answer those prayers!
Storytelling about your marriage is so important
to your children; they want to know how God has
worked and can still work in your lives. Tell them
over and over!
Blessing
“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus
Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms
with every spiritual blessing in Christ. For he chose us
in him before the creation of the world to be holy and
blameless in his sight. In love, he predestined us to 13
Each month, you will see a different blessing in HomeFront Monthly. This will be your blessing for the entire
month. Take the time to speak this blessing into the lives of your children at different times throughout the
month. You can do this on the way to school, before bed, or while you eat as a family. Just make sure you
have your children’s attention. Look them in their eyes and pray the blessing over them. Affirm your love for
them by placing a hand on their shoulder or holding their hands. Remember, God’s Spirit is at work; He will
bless and care for the growing and tender hearts of your children.
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