Notes: DECIDE Process Name: ____________________________________________________

Warm Up: Give an example of a Period:_________________________

conflict you’ve had with someone
and how you dealt with it.
1- D__________ the problem: _______________ the problem
Date:_________________________
2- E__________ Options: _____________ possible _________________
3- C__________ Consequences: include both _________ and _________ results
4- I___________ your values: which values __________________ to the decision
5- D__________ and Act: make a _______________ of action
6- E__________ results: __________________ your decision

Video Example

Define Problem:

Explore
Options:
Consider
Consequences:

Identify Values:

Closure: How is empathy helpful Decide and Act:

when resolving conflict?
Evaluate
Results:

Scenario Example

Define Problem:

Explore
Options:
Consider
Consequences:

Identify Values:

Decide and Act:

Evaluate
Results:
Student Example

Define Problem:

Explore
Options:
Consider
Consequences:

Identify Values:

Decide and Act:

Evaluate
Results:
Personal Values Inventory
 Scenarios for students to use:

David gets up late and cannot make it to the computer class on time. He asks Suki, his classmate and
best friend, to sign in for him so that he can meet the attendance requirement for a certificate. If you
were Suki, would you accede to his request?
You are required to prepare a group report within a tight schedule. One of your teammates, Michael,
suggests hiring the report writing service from the web at a cost. What would you do?
Mary goes to a restaurant with her friend. When settling the bill, Mary discovers that it charges 20% less
as some food items are not billed. Mary thinks, ‘Why not treat it as a discount offered by the
restaurant?’ If you were Mary’s friend, would you suggest Mary telling the captain and paying the full
price?
Sammy cannot finish his homework as he has to participate in lots of extra‐curricular activities besides
tutorials. Sammy intends to borrow and copy the homework of his close friend Joe. If you were Joe, what
would you do?
Joey is shopping mobile phones as prizes for a competition organized by the students’ society of which she
is the chairperson. One of the shops asks for a slightly higher price but the owner offers Joey a discount on
a mobile phone she buys for herself. Joey delightfully accepts the discount believing that it is just a normal
business promotion. If you were Joey’s close friend, what would you do if you know what has happened?
Kelvin has signed up for a singing contest organized by the students’ union. It happens that his best friend
Cammy is a committee member of the students’ union and one of the adjudicators of the
preliminary. Kelvin asks Cammy to help him get into the finals. If you were Cammy, what would you do?
Nancy never likes to attend PE classes. Occasionally she consults a doctor a day or two before the class to
get a medical chit by faking sick. With the medical chit, she asks to be excused from the PE class. Nancy’s
trick is subsequently discovered by her classmate Sandy. Nancy begs Sandy not to tell the teacher and
other classmates. If you were Sandy, what would you do?
Jane has been asked to buy gifts for a party organized by the students’ society. To mark its anniversary, a
gift shop offers customers a vacuum flask for purchases over $200. Thinking that the vacuum flask is not
expensive, Jane decides to make it her own. If you were the chairperson of the students’ society, what
would you do if you know what has happened?