Submissive Needs List 2

1. The need to feel in awe of, completely overwhelmed by, and overpowered by his Owner.

2. The need to feel that She is in control of him at all times and that he is possessed.

3. The need to know that he is owned completely--meaning mentally, physically, emotionally,

sexually, spiritually, internally, and existentially.

4. The need to know that She is physically, mentally, and emotionally strong enough to handle him
in every way, no matter what he throws at Her.

5. The need to feel Her soft touch at times, and hard, rough or firm touch at other times.

6. The need to know he is completely protected, accepted, loved, and cared for.

7. The need to know Her expectations, wants, needs, thoughts and feelings also.

8. The need to know he has no decisions, no control, and no way out, permanently.

9. The need to be reprogrammed for the better--not to change his personality, but to improve him
for himself and for Her.

10. The need to feel the forcefulness, roughness, aggressiveness, pushiness, and coercion from Her.

11. The need for consistent and rational discipline, and clear boundaries for behavior.

12. The need to give blanket consent to Her, placing his trust in Her completely and knowing that
She will never abuse Her power over him in any way.

13. The need to feel Her gentle side also to love him, caress him, show affection, be his best friend,
his lover, to have fun with and laugh with him.

14. The need to know She is happy with him, proud of him, and proud to be with him.

15. The need to learn from Her new skills and education that will help him succeed in life to a
greater degree, and to be better for Her and serve Her better.

16. The need to know She can make him stop dead in his tracks just by Her look, tone, voice and
gestures.

17. The need to know that She will never leave, and that if he attempts to leave She will follow him
and recapture him mentally and emotionally.

18. The need to be brought to tears by his Owner, and to be allowed to safely cry in Her arms.

19. The need to know that he is neither required nor permitted to dominate himself, and that his
Owner will provide all of the force and coercion required to maintain Her control over Him.
20. The need to know that She will never lie to him, nor ever hide Her feelings and thoughts from
him.

21. The need to be consistently praised and given positive reinforcement, but never in a pandering
way.

22. The need to know that his service pleases his Owner enormously and fulfills Her sexually,
emotionally and spiritually.

23. The need for his Owner to also be his mother figure, who loves him for himself, and not for
Herself.

24. The need to feel tiny and safe on the floor, at Her feet.

25. The need to know that She is in control of the relationship, and that there is nothing he can do
to successfully sabotage it, cause it to end, or drive Her to leave him.

26. The need to know She is not afraid of his emotional outbursts, that his consent is irrelevant, and
that She does not limit what She tells him to do to things She already knows he wants to do.

27. The need to have his Owner support and encourage all his goals and enthusiasms when they are
appropriate.

28. The need to know that She will do whatever She wants to him, but that She always has his long-
term wellbeing in mind.

29. The need to know that he will never have to edit what he honestly needs to say to his Owner in
order to make it sound more acceptable to Her, and that he will never be reprimanded nor
punished for any honest expression of any of his thoughts or emotions.

30. The need to be seen and seen through constantly by his Owner, knowing he is transparent to
Her and that She will never allow him to hide from Her.

31. The need to feel that She has the power to destroy him, but feel certain that She will not.

32. The need to show real and unabashed gratitude to Her, for Her to understand it and accept it in
a real way.

33. The need to know that he is more than just a checklist of generic submissive traits and he is not
interchangeable with any other slave or submissive, that he is unique in Her eyes and that he
gives Her something She needs that no one else is capable of giving Her.