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The Teachers Role Home-School Communication
The Teachers Role Home-School Communication
Everybody Wins
By: Rick Lavoie
For the past 50 years, countless media outlets, governmental agencies and private
foundations have been studying and surveying Americans schools. This intense scrutiny has
been conducted in order to analyze and, hopefully, improve public education in the United
States.
Generally, this research focuses on failing and struggling schools in an attempt to discover
what these programs are doing wrong. However, researchers have taken a different
approach in recent years; Rather than studying what failing schools have done wrong, they
now focus their scrutiny on what successful schools are doing right. Implicit in this
approach, of course, is the opportunity for inferior schools to replicate the "best practices"
of the effective programs. Makes sense.
In study after study, it is found that successful, responsive and productive schools share
one common trait:
They solicit, encourage, facilitate and promote parental communication
In these schools…
Everybody wins!
But there are pitfalls for the teacher who is attempting to increase the intensity and
frequency of her contact with parents.
What follows is a list of Do's and Don'ts that the teacher may find helpful.
Do create a partnership with parents
A partnership implies that all parties work together — as equals — with specific rights and
responsibilities toward a common goal. Each party contributes his own specific skills and
knowledge toward meeting the objectives.
Unfortunately, much home/school communication is one-sided and school-directed.
Information is shared… but power is not shared. This approach is not conducive to creating
a genuine partnership.
The great majority of home/school crises (and lawsuits!) are a direct result of poor
communication.
Do be positive
In most families, a phone call or note from a teacher automatically indicates bad news
related to the child's behavior or performance. You can prevent this from occurring by
making "sunshine calls" on occasion. Simply drop the parent a note or give them a call
when a child pleases (or surprises!) you with positive behavior or progress.
Mrs. Robbins,
I wanted to let you know how delighted I was with Jeffy's behavior today at
the Fire Prevention Assembly. He was attentive and responsive to our guest
speaker and even asked a few question and shared some information about
his uncle, the firefighter.
You would have been very pleased. I certainly was! Way to go, Jeffy!
Best,
Mrs. Crimmings
These brief, positive communiqués will do a great deal to improving your relationship with
the parent. You also enhance your credibility with the parent for those times that
you mustcommunicate negative information.
Do remember…
Before they care how much you know, they gotta know how much you care!
Parents want to feel that you know their child and enjoy his company. For a child who
struggles in school, this relationship may be the most important ingredient in his success.
Every parent has attended the never-ending, tedious classroom meeting with a teacher who
drones on about the curriculum expectations and the educational objectives… but says
nothing that indicates any knowledge of (or interest in) the child as a individual.
Always begin your communication with a quick anecdote that reflects your knowledge of the
child as an individual:
Hello, Mrs. Granger. I love Sarah's new coat. The collar is so unique and the
color looks terrific on her. I want to find one like it to send to my niece for her
birthday!
Good morning, Mrs. Starkey. Jason is certainly excited about the pennant
drive, isn't he? He told me that your husband is taking him to the game over
the weekend. Lucky boy!
Hello, Mr. Drexel. Gwen told the class about the new puppies. She is so
excited. I love the names that you chose.
Again, by personalizing the communication a bit, you send a very comforting and reassuring
message to the parent.
Do encourage dialogue
When you send a note home with the child, put a space at the end for the parent's
signature to indicate that she received it. But also put a small space for the parent to make
a comment.
Don't hesitate to provide special education parents with occasional guidance and
advice on home issues… if they request it
Your knowledge and understanding of the child's disabilities would be very useful to Mom
and Dad as they work with the child at home. Encourage the parent to read books when the
child is watching… to speak positively about school and teachers… to show an interest in the
child's schoolwork… to review school assignments… to praise the child's efforts… to
encourage independence… to establish a specific time and place to do homework… and to
provide occasional learning games and activities at home… to provide the child with a warm,
supportive home environment… to minimize the use of disappointment and punishment at
home… to encourage and nurture the child's peer relationships… to speak slowly and clearly
to the child, avoiding multi-concept phrases.
Do understand that special education parents often have great difficulty
accepting the fact that their child has a disability
Provide them with advice and reading material that may assist them in this process.