Who am I as a person?

Who am I as a Person? For me, I've never asked myself that question in my 13
years of existence, Sometimes I wonder if I'm the person that people would easily
approach to. And for me NO. Why?
Time after time, I've become mature as the day comes by. I've realized that I'm not
very communicable towards people, even the people around me. I don't know why,
but I guess I'm that person. In my dreams, well, most of my dreams, I dream about
me communicating of the persons that I see and not feel awkward about it but
based on my research "Dreams don't mean ANYTHING, instead they are merely
electrical brain impulses that pull random thoughts and imagery from our
memories" Which is sad if you think of it. So, since it's a new school year, I would
like to set my goal at least be communicable towards the people around me. But I
think if I survey at least to my classmates they would say that I'm quiet, I
sometimes think that I'm a weird person. I don't know if weird is the right word for
me to describe myself but when I don't know that person, I'm quite talkative. Some
people say "Don't talk to strangers" If I were to ask, Why would I communicate
more to the person I don't know? My answer would be, I communicate more to the
person I don't know it's because I'm more confident with them. Based on me I
would not say to not talk to a stranger. Because based on the book that I read "We
judge people based on their clothes, social class, and, dare I say, ethnicity" Which I
think all people around the world or some of the people living they judge a person
especially on their clothes which would make that person think to not talk to that
stranger. For me, if a person were to be judged by their clothes it's not right
because most of the people living want to be judge by WHO they are, not, WHAT
they are.