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W6 Living For The Moment
W6 Living For The Moment
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IOWA WRESTLING
Tragic loss off the mat changed perspective for Iowa’s Marinelli
By K.J. Pilcher, The Gazette ing out the good in everything.”
I
There are wristbands, shirts and images
that provide regular reminders of Eli, who died
OWA CITY — Scrawled across in a July car accident traveling to celebrate
Alex Marinelli’s water bottle is a Marinelli’s surprise wedding proposal to his
sister. Marinelli and Moriah have demonstrated
simple message. strength and faith, dealing with tragedy and
“Believe.” adversity that is a tribute to his memory.
“I’m wrestling for the now and I’m living life
It is much more meaningful to in the moment,” Iowa’s second-ranked and un-
him than any run of the mill adage or beaten 165-pounder said. “I’m making the most
motivational tool. out of it.”
CELEBRATION BECOMES DEVASTATION
The word is a reminder of his faith, how he
lives life, his approach to wrestling and the loss The day of July 5, 2018, was expected to be a
of the person who served as a constant reminder celebration. Marinelli had secretly planned the
Moriah Stickley has “Love, Elijah,” written in her late brother’s proposal, arranging for Moriah’s family to drive
of what he strives to be. handwriting, tattooed near her wrist. The writing came from in from Ohio and arrive a half-hour after he
After all, right in the heart of the script is a note Eli Stickley wrote Moriah, his twin sister, on her 21st asked for her hand.
“Eli,” representing his late friend, Eli Stickley, birthday. A tattoo artist scanned the note and transferred it to
Marinelli convinced Moriah it was a simple
and twin brother to his fiancee and Iowa wres- her arm.
date night, getting dressed up so they could take
tling manager Moriah Stickley. respectable photos to document the occasion. The
“He did everything passionately,” said Mari- put his whole heart in everything. He was never evening started with friends, hanging out and
nelli, wearing a baseball hat that donned Eli’s lukewarm. He was full-go on everything.
name and the “Live Passionately” phrase. “He “He was full of life and energy. He was bring- ;; MARINELLI, PAGE 6B
open looks, they just weren’t Shayok finished with 24 points — combined to shoot 33 percent the first division of the
falling. on 7-of-17 shooting from the field from the field. conference standings, po- over Northwestern, 3-8
“I thought we had some really and 1-of-7 shooting from beyond “You have to make shots sitioned for a run at the in the Big Ten. That may
good looks, especially myself,” the arc. at some point and we didn’t,” NCAA tournament. be true when it comes to
Marial Shayok said. “I had some Iowa State’s five main guards Prohm said. But it’s really a 20- the NCAA tournament
really good looks I know I should — Shayok, Nick Weiler-Babb, game gauntlet in the Big
make and hopefully next time Lindell Wigginton, Talen Horton- ;; ISU, PAGE 2B Ten, and taking games ;; IOWA, PAGE 2B
6B The Gazette ● Sunday, February 10, 2019
SPORTS SUNDAY
lyst to bring Marinelli and the upset. The crowd was in way.” That’s how Eli was.” my goals that’s awesome, but I
the Stickleys together. Mari- a frenzy and cheered against Both received a lot of sup- Eli’s death didn’t stop him don’t it won’t define me.’ That
nelli remembered the moment Marinelli and the Hawkeyes. port from the Hawkeye wres- from making a difference for impacted me and it still is im-
when a young girl in the Gra- As he stepped off the mat tling family. A number of others. In a way, he lives on pacting me today.”
ham section at a junior high on his way to the tunnel, there wrestlers and Tom Brands at- as an organ donor. Some of l Comments: (319) 368-8679;
tournament caught his eye. He was Eli. He was there with tended the services in Ohio. Eli’s body tissue and part of kj.pilcher@thegazette.com