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Sex Games
RULES
● Before the game begins, each player states what they'll do for the other player if they lose the
game. (Note: I'm not suggesting you pick something you're not actually comfortable with
doing-- I think everyone in a relationship has a sex act or two that is saved for more special
occasions.)
● At character selection, each computer player is assigned to one of the human's teams.
Basically, whenever your computer player wins, you count it as a win for yourself.
● If you land on a blue space, take a piece of clothing off
● If you land on a red space, put a piece of clothing on
● If you, or your computer ally, win the round's minigame, then you get to decide what sex act is
done for the next minute. The sex at must be possible given the amount of clothing that you're
both currently wearing.
● Sometimes minigames divide things up into teams. When that happens you assign each team
to one of the human players. For example, if my cpu is up against me, my SO, and their cpu in a
1v3 then I would win the round if team 1 wins, and my SO would win the round if the team of 3
wins (since the team of 3 contains 2 of "her" players). The only instance this doesn't really
account for is if it's a 2v2 game and both human players are on the same team; in that case the
round simply ends in a draw.
● Single player minigames, duels, and battle minigames trigger the minute of sexy time. A single
player minigame is won/lost depending on which team the character belongs to and whether
the outcome is positive of negative. (For example, if my cpu character gets a bowser in an item
minigame, then I would be the loser).
● If the round ends in the draw (either because the minigame ended in a draw, or because the
humans were playing on the same team) then no one wins the round and you skip the minute.
● If you manage to play all 20 rounds without the game devolving into "fuck this, let's just fuck"
then whomever wins (or has their cpu win) gets the sexual prize they were promised at the
beginning of the game.
VARIATIONS
● Chastity Wario If you happen to have 3 players, then the computer player becomes "Chastity
Wario". If he wins a non-item minigame then everyone puts all of their clothes back on. I'd also
recommend playing with more than 20 turns so that everyone gets a chance to win a few times.
● Chance Time When a player lands on a ? space, roll some sex die and do what they say for 1
minute (provided clothing allows for it).
● Fuck you, Mario Whenever you fuck with your opponent's computer player (i.e. steal coins,
steal a star, cause an environmental effect to hit them, ect.), remove a piece of clothing of your
choice. This piece of clothing can be from you or from your SO.
● Jackpot If a minigame ends in a draw, double the next minigame's reward sexy time.
● Seeing Stars Whenever a player, or their computer teammate, obtains a star, their opponent
must play the next minigame while giving them head.
WORDS WITH FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS
RULES
● When it’s not your turn you go down on the other person.
VARIATIONS
● Set a timer for 1 minute, if they go over the time they have to submit without making a word.
JENGA
PREPARATION
I happen to love Kinkyp Jenga - my lover and I numbered the blocks 0-9, five sets, with four bonus
blocks for big ticket items, but basically:
I pull a tile, it has a 4, check the corresponding card (we have a few versions we play depending how
kinky we feel) and then he performs X action (remove piece of clothing, 10 spankings, oral/2 mins, etc)
on me. Switch and repeat. Whoever topples the tower is sex slave for the night.
That way there's an actual gaming component, that gets more difficult/intense the longer you
play/more turned on you are.
Ever tried to pull a Jenga block with your hands bound? I have.
VARIATION 2
So I had a few requests to post my lists for strip jenga. This was designed to be played with two couples
but can be altered however. The game is in 3 stages, so first you get, drunk, second you get more
comfortable with each other, third gets more intense. Couples would probably want to jump straight to
the second or third list.
Jenga General Rules: 1. Youngest player or whoever knocked the tower over last starts. 2. There are
three stages; switch when ready. 3. One article of removed clothing is allowed to be put on after each
game 4. The person who knocks the tower down is not allowed to put a piece of clothing back on 5. If a
tile involves you and another player, flip a coin to decide that player. 6. Players make choose the other
player only on specified tiles 7. For spicy, you must flip to decide who removes your clothing. When
picking somebody to remove clothing, you may also decide who removes it. 8. Other rules decided as
needed by group majority.
Mild:
1. Bottom’s up
2. Pick a person to be your date. This person must take a drink and remove clothing every
time you do
3. Do over. Keep this tile and cash it in later
4. Girls remove 1
5. Give 2 drinks (your pick)
6. Bottom’s up
7. Grab a boob
8. Grab a crotch
9. Guys drink
10. Girls drink
11. Give 2 drinks (your pick)
12. Guys Drink
13. Guys Drink
14. Make a Rule
15. Make a Rule
16. Next turn on somebody’s lap
17. Remove 1 article of clothing
18. Truth (your pick)
19. Pick a person to pull 2
20. Dare everybody
21. Remove 1 article of clothing
22. Give 2 drinks
23. Next turn on somebody’s lap
24. Waterfall
25. Pick a person to pull 2
26. Truth (your pick)
27. Waterfall
28. Next turn on somebody’s lap
29. Truth (your pick)
30. Insult and compliment
31. Kiss somebody. Person with least drink left decides where.
32. Skip next turn
33. Insult and compliment
34. Take 1 drink
35. Take 1 drink
36. Guys remove 1
37. Dare (your pick)
38. Take 2 drinks
39. Dare (your pick)
40. Take 1 drink
41. Pick a person to be your date. This person must take all drinks you drink and remove all
clothes you do.
42. Distract another person on their next turn. Cannot touch hands, arms or tickle.
43. Take 2 drinks
44. Girls drink
45. Distract another person on their next turn. Cannot touch hands, arms or tickle.
46. Pick somebody to remove one
47. Take 2 drinks
48. Give a lapdance
Medium:
Spicy:
1. Date (your pick)
2. Make out
3. Dare (your pick)
4. Pick somebody to remove 1
5. Flash
6. Distract another person on their next turn. Cannot touch hands, arms or tickle.
7. Girls remove 1
8. Remove 1 article of clothing
9. Make out while grabbing boob/crotch
10. Flash
11. Truth (your pick)
12. Grab boob under clothing
13. Pick a person to pull 2
14. Take your next turn on another person’s lap. They can distract you.
15. Grab crotch under clothing
16. Take your next turn on another person’s lap. They can distract you.
17. Make out
18. Dare entire group
19. Skip next turn
20. Grab boob under clothing
21. Group’s choice dare
22. Insult and compliment
23. Dare (your pick)
24. Flash
25. Give a lapdance
26. Kiss somebody. Person with the least drink left decides where
27. Take your next turn on another person’s lap. They can distract you.
28. Make out
29. Give a lapdance
30. Grab crotch under clothing
31. Guys remove 1
32. Remove 2 articles of clothing
33. Distract another person on their next turn. Cannot touch hands, arms or tickle.
34. Pick somebody to remove 1
35. Dare (your pick)
36. Do over. Keep this tile and cash it in later
37. Dare entire group
38. Guys remove 1
39. Girls remove 1
40. Distract another person on their next turn. Cannot touch hands, arms or tickle.
41. Pick a person to pull 2
42. Grab crotch
43. Dare (your pick)
44. Insult and compliment
45. Grab boob under clothing
46. Make out while grabbing boob/crotch
47. Truth (your pick)
48. Group’s choice dare
One hides as long as they can. When they get found it’s time to fuck.
D20 DIE
RULES
Roll the 20 sided die, and do the corresponding action with the number on the die.
1. Oral
2. 69
3. Striptease
4. Makeout session
5. Nipple play
6. Shower sex
7. Tongue bath
8. Bondage
9. Naked servant
10. Sexy cosplay
11. Catgirl
12. Cowgirl
13. Reverse cowgirl
14. Sex on the couch
15. Sex on the table
16. Sex on the bed
17. Sex on the floor
18. Sex in the backyard
19. Sex in the pool
20. And for the critical success, a week of a very devoted and enthusiastic sexual plaything doing
anything that tickles your naughty fancy
21. Reverse that last for the critical failure (lots of work but can still be fun)
TOOTSIE CUFFS
PREPARATION AND RULES
Items needed:
● Handcuffs
● SO's favorite Jolly Ranchers (or other hard candy)
● Oven
● Sturdy necklace.
1. Melt down the Jolly ranchers (there are videos on youtube) and pour the liquid candy into a
mold. If you're a guy, I recommend making the mold by using the head of your dick. Aluminum
foil worked, but was a little troublesome.
2. Stick the handcuff key in the bottom of the mold so you have a cock-shaped lollipop with the
handle being the handcuff key. Run the necklace through the loop of the key (this is for safety
so she doesn't choke).
3. Invite her over for a "surprise". Have her close her eyes, then slap the handcuffs on her. When
she opens her eyes, put the necklace around her neck and the end of the key in her mouth.
4. With your sexiest voice, tell her that she's not allowed to bite; if you hear a crunch, the fun
stops.
5. For the next 20 to 30 minutes, depending on the size of the lollipop, you tease the shit out of
her.
6. I also blindfolded my lover and recorded it, but those are optional. The important part is the
teasing. Suck on her labia and lick all around her clit with only brief moments of actual clitoral
stimulation. I also rubbed my dick against her a few times to make her think that I was going to
fuck her, but I made her wait until she was free before I actually penetrated her.
7. When she finally got out of the cuffs, it was pretty epic. I call this game "Tootsie cuffs" because I
was trying to find how many licks it took to get to the center of her orgasm! (har har)
ARDOR
FIND IT ONLINE AT
http://ardorthegame.com/
JAR OF FATE
RULES
We have a jar with little pieces of paper in it, where we've both written ideas (Sex in the backyard, Ice
cubes, Hands only, Loser's choice, etc...).
We love to play card/board games anyway, so when we're in the mood we'll bring out the jar and "play
for stakes." Usually, the winner draws, but we even change that up sometimes... Loser draws, winner
draws 3 and loser picks from those, or whatever.
STRIP POKER
PREFACE
I wrote this post about 3 years ago but didn't have the right sub for it. Now I've found this place I feel it
belongs here
This is a two player version but with a bit of imagination and adaptation you could play it with more.
Decide how far you're willing to go beforehand and adapt the rules accordingly. This version involves
giving head but it doesn't have to. It can involve whatever you want depending on who is playing and
what they are up for.
RULES
● Make sure you are both wearing the same amount of clothes. 10 items is a good number.
● To avoid arguments later make a list of what constitutes an item and in what order they are
going to be coming off and cross off items as you come to them.
● Think a bit about what you would like to wear. The idea is to look sexy so think layering up
underwear with skimpy clothes over them with regular clothes over them rather than just
putting on 3 pullovers. That said hats and shawls can be pretty hot if you put them low down
the list (so they are among the last items to come off).
● Deal out a reasonable number of chips. I think 50 each works best.
● You then start to play standard texas hold-em: small blind 1, big blind 2. There are however
some additional rules:
o The loser of the hand, in addition to losing the chips they bet, must remove an item of
clothing or pay a 10 chip fine. It is very important for the internal economics of the
game that this fine be paid to the "bank" ie placed to one side - not to the other player.
Otherwise the game could go on forever.
o Optionally, to level the playing field and to break the ice a bit, you can say the winner of
the hand has to do a shot. This can be a body shot off the loser for added sexy. Do think
though that you are probably going to be winning a total of around 20 or 30 hands so if
you get a shot of spirits for each you will die. Some options here are to use something
less strong than spirits, to only offer this reward until you've finished a small bottle, or
to only offer the reward during "powerplays" (so - for example - for the first five rounds,
for five rounds after the first belly button is exposed, and for five rounds after the first
nipple)
o If, and only if, a player is out of chips they may sell one item of clothing to the bank and
receive ten chips.
o As a specific example of the above rule if a player is about to go "all in" on a hand they
have three options (if this next bit sounds confusing don't worry, it almost never comes
up, it's just here for the avoidance of doubt in every eventuality):
1. Go all in with the chips they have and standard all in rules apply.
2. Sell items of clothing to the bank (this is one of the only two circumstances in
which you may remove more than one item of clothing at once) in exchange for
the chips needed to raise or match the bet to your satisfaction. You are not
however considered "all in" at this point (and you are doing something wrong,
or cheating, if you end up with more than 10 chips in front of you after you have
bet).
3. Sell items of clothing to the bank in exchange for chips and go all in at some
higher point of your choosing (this is the other circumstance). All in rules apply
from this higher point
● A player has lost when they are either completely naked and completely out of chips or when
they are completely naked and don't have enough chips to pay a fine or a blind that they owe.
The loser must then pay the forfeit.
● Playing times will vary but it should take about an hour.
THE FORFEIT
Obviously you can play more vanilla or more hardcore versions with different forfeits but for me there is
only one real forfeit which gives strip poker the dynamics it needs. The forfeit is oral sex performed by
the loser upon the winner, to be performed continuously through the point of orgasm and until the
winner is sated.
MILD BDSM
PREFACE
I thought some of you might like this new game I've made up. It is very very mild BDSM.
There two things I like about this game. One is that there are virtually no couples for which it wouldn't
work. Both top and bottom can be of any gender and you can involve any other kind of thing you are in
to. It helps if the bottom has long hair, but even this you could find a way around. The other thing I like
is that the bottom looks to be totally free and unencumbered but the rules of the game bind and gag
them more securely than all the hardware in the kink castle.
PREPARATION
● a bed
● an egg timer
● a pair of scissors
● four pieces of string, about a foot and a half long.
Prepare the game by tying each of the pieces of string to each corner of the bed. Around the bedpost is
ideal. Tie loops in the free end of the string.
RULES
The game is simple. The bottom must obey the top's rules for a given period of time. If they do, they
win. If they don't they lose, and they must endure a forfeit. The forfeit must be something they would
work hard to avoid. If you are so minded and equipped a good old fashioned buggery makes for a great
forfeit.
● the bottom must silently obey the top's instructions while they are setting the game up
● the top will order the bottom to strip and lie spreadeagle on the bed
● the top will then cut four of the longest hairs from the bottom's head (use delicate thread if the
bottom has short hair)
● one hair at a time the top then threads a hair through the loop end of one of the pieces of string
and then ties the hair tightly around the bottom's nearest ankle or wrist. Take in any slack in the
string. When finished the effect should be that if the bottom moves in any way a hair will snap.
● If at any point any of the hairs snap the bottom loses.
● The bottom must also now close their eyes. Initially the bottom also loses if they make any
audible sound or are caught opening their eyes.
● The top now starts the egg timer and then uses everything in their power to make the bottom
break one of the rules. Use your imagination. Start slow, think foreplay, but as you get in to it
you can absolutely go to town. Whatever you or they are in to. After all they can always
"safeword" out by breaking one of the rules.
● After the egg timer goes for the first time the bottom may make noises provided these noises
do not form coherent words.
● After the egg timer goes for the second time the bottom may open their eyes.
● After the egg timer goes for the third time the bottom wins. Don't worry too much about this
though, it won't happen.
ANOTHER BY SPSP
PREFACE
This one's more of a fantasy, never tried it. It's dominance/disposability with a bit of tease and denial
thrown in.
PREPARATION
● a boxing timer (there are many online or you can use a stopwatch. Basically with a boxing timer
a bell goes at the beginning and end of each round. A round lasts 3 mins and there's a 1 min gap
between rounds.)
● a six sided die (dice) that goes no higher than 3
● a marker pen
RULES
Using the marker pen number the available women's available orifices from one to three.
For the first round you have three minutes with the orifice the dice has chosen. At the end of the three
minutes you have to stop. You then have a minute to wipe yourself clean, roll the dice to decide what
you'll be doing next, and get into position for round two.
If the woman makes the man ejaculate she wins by KO. If the man makes it through twelve rounds he
wins on the scorecards and can finish up how he pleases.
ANOTHER DICE GAME
PREFACE
The actions are divided into "Torture" and "Pleasure" category. Obviously, torture is meant on a playful
way : you should tease, bite, lightly spank... But again, if you're into more heavy bondage stuff, you can
also do it.
RULES
The first roll shows you the type of action you will use on your partner:
The second roll give you the body part of your partner (you can change them depending on your tastes)
1. Feet
2. Chest
3. Mouth
4. Head (more details below)
5. Ass
6. Sex
Then, you have to choose and perform an action. The idea is to be guided by the dice while improvising
to adapt and surprise his/her partner.
The head is a wide category. I include the neck, cheeks, ears, hair, eyes... Everything except the mouth.
EXAMPLES:
1. Hands: Torture
1. Feet: The obvious one is tickles, but you also can pinch, tap...
2. Chest: You can Pinch or pull the nipples
3. Mouth / Lips Make your partner suck your fingers
4. Head: Grab him/her by the hairs, pinch the nose, ears...
5. Ass: Spanking, pinching the buttocks, tease the anus if this is your thing
6. Sex: Tease him/her, pinch, tap...
2. Hands: Pleasure
1. Feet: Massage, caress
2. Chest: Massage, caress breast, caress nipples...
3. Mouth: gently caress the lips, make him/her sensually lick your fingers
4. Head: Massage the neck, the head, the ears...
5. Ass: Massage/caress buttocks, play with his/her ass if he/she likes that
6. Sex: Massage, caress, masturbate him/her
3. Mouth: Torture
1. Feet: Bite, lick
2. Chest: Bite nipples or breasts
3. Mouth: Bite his/her lips, kiss him/her wildly
4. Head: Bite his/her neck, ears. Blow into the neck to tickle him/her. (lick eyes...)
5. Ass: Biting, licking... Give him/her a hickey
6. Sex: Biting, Teasing him/her : pretend to go for oral but stop right at the begining.
4. Mouth: Pleasure
1. Feet: Kissing, licking or sucking fingers if he/she likes that
2. Chest: Licking, sucking nipples
3. Mouth: Kissing sensually
4. Head: Kissing him/her en on cheeks, neck. Licking ears...
5. Ass: Kissing, licking if he/she likes that
6. Sex: Licking, sucking... Give pleasure with your mouth !
5. Object: Torture: This category depends on your tastes. We like to do light bondage, but you
can adapt this to your needs. You can also replace this category with "take a picture" for
example.
1. Feet: Tickle with feather, Tie his/her feets for the next 2 turns
2. Chest: Use nipple clamps, Tease with pinwheel or toothpick...
3. Mouth: Put a gag for the next 2 turns, make him/her suck a sex toy
4. Head: Attach a collar, blindfold him/her the next turn, remove his/her hearing with
headphones
5. Ass: Spanking with an object, tease with a buttplug
6. Sex: Tease with a sextoy, Use a pinwheel or tie him/her
6. Object: Pleasure
1. Feet: Try a vibrator, Prepare a foot bath
2. Chest: Caress with a soft object, use a vibrator on nipples
3. Mouth: Give him/her a candy or a shot of alcohol
4. Head: Use a head massager. You can also "please" his/her eyes here by showing
something nice (striptease, dance, putting a sexy outfit)
5. Ass: Spanking with an object, tease with a buttplug
6. Sex: Use a sex toy, vibrator...
COIN TIMER
INSTRUCTIONS
My husband and I have a game that involves a coin and a timer on our phone. We flip the coin and if it
lands on heads, I have to perform fellatio on him for a period of 2 minutes decided by the timer; if it
lands on tails, he has to perform cunnilingus on me for the 2 minute period. After the 2 minutes is up,
we flip again and move on to the next round. If someone flips their side three times in a row, that turn
becomes intercourse for a 2 minute period. It's incredibly hot and frustrating to have to stop every time
after 2 minutes, and you become desperate to flip the coin in your favor. Last time we played this game
it lasted about an hour and a half.
VARIATIONS
I began something similar with my SO as well. Instead, we use a timer for "lip contact" of 20 seconds.
Basically, my goal is to give him 100 "kisses". This can include blowjobs, rimjobs, or whatever. I could
stay in one spot or slide my way along his body as long as there is still contact. So each kiss I give
increases by one count, however, each kiss he gives me makes it go down one, and a kiss on the lips
count as 0. If he wants it to last longer he'll have to do some work!
● Kiss = sexual act involving the lips, done for 20 seconds on a timer. This can include blowjobs,
rimjobs, or whatever.
● Rule 1: Each "kiss" received by the male (from the female) increases a counter by 1 (the goal is
to get 100).
● Basically, my goal is to give him 100 "kisses".
● Rule 2: Each kiss received by the female (from the male) decreases that counter by 1. however,
each kiss he gives me makes it go down one
● Rule 3: The kisses may not be on the lips, no points will be gained this way.
● Sex is over (or will proceed to completion) at 100.
SOCKS
PREFACE
You’re both wearing socks. The first one to take the other one’s socks off wins.
VARIATIONS
Hot Cards provides new ideas for you to try, borrows ideas from more traditional card games, and
blends it all together to form a fun sex card game. A card game that revolves around and compliments
your sex life, rather than dictate your activity.
There are two different game play modes, cooperative or competitive. Cooperative is just give, receive,
and enjoy. Competitive starts with each person secretly writing down a desired sex act. Whomever
gives the other person more orgasms by the end of the game gets to reveal their desired act. That can
be initiated as a finale or at a later date.
There are 180 total cards and game play starts with each player drawing seven. Cards are either action
cards like 69, missionary, hands only, etc or modifying cards like +/- time, +/- intensity, blindfolded,
picture taking, etc. If you draw a match, you can start that action with a default time of three minutes
and play a modifier card to tailor the action to your desires. The game naturally progresses from lighter
to heavier activity without forcing the players pace.
The objective is to give each player a fun, easy way to initiate new experiences and to get out of a sex
routine.
BUY ONLINE AT
https://www.thegamecrafter.com/games/hot-cards
MORE GAME IDEAS
SLAVE FOR A NIGHT
Slave for a night: The "master" gets to command the sex slave for the rest of the night (or day!) -
doesn't have to be completely sexual either, i.e. massages, have the slave soap and lather you up in the
shower, etc. Also have fun controlling the slave's orgasms - get him/her to masturbate until you say
stop, he/she is not allowed to cum until you say so.
My bf and I started a new tradition last week called "Slave Saturday". For
the day I have to wear whatever he wants me to and I have to do whatever
he says. Our first one was successful and I hope we'll continue :-)
Naked all the time: Either one or the both of you has to be completely stripped naked once you enter
the hotel room - no clothes allowed for the entire day. A variation on this can be slowly stripping
throughout the day - start the day off fully clothed, and with each passing hour, one or the both of you
have to take off one article of clothing.
FORCED 69
"Forced" orgasms: Have a "competition" to see who can make the other cum first when 69'ing - have a
"punishment" or "reward" for the winner.
ORGASM DENIAL
Orgasm denial: In contrast to forced orgasms, edge each other to brink of frustration - first person to
beg for release "loses" - again can enact a punishment/reward.
ROLE PLAY
STRANGER
"Stranger" hook-up: A fun roleplay if you ever plan on leaving the hotel room - plan out a place to meet
up in advance (i.e. bar, pub, club, etc), dress to impress, and go out (separately) - roleplay a scene where
you two are actually strangers looking for a one night stand and you want to take your partner home for
the night - i.e. she can play coy and you have pick her up, or you both can just have fun flirting with each
other.
STILL
This game is all about self control. One of you lays down naked, the other should be naked but not
necessary. Basically the one who is laying down, can't move at all. The person who isn't laying down is
starting off gentle and slowly escalating the foreplay, basically from base to base. Here's the kicker.
Once the person who is laying down moves, the game starts over. you go back to square one and go at
it again. The person who isn't laying down is trying to make them squirm to their best ability and the
person laying down is trying to get to the farthest base.
Similar to the drinking game, this one is played while watching a movie. Decide beforehand what
"triggers" in the movie you will use - sayings that are repeated, actions that are repeated, etc. Every
time those things are said or done, you get to kiss your partner. Careful, though, all those little kisses
may add up to something a little more steamy!
Turn your board games into sexy games! For monopoly, play as usual, but have sexy treats instead of
rent for your properties. For scrabble, spell only sexy words, with bonus points for particularly erotic
words. Other board games can be turned sexy by just twisting the rules to include stripping, sexy treats,
dirty talking, or whatever works for that particular game.
TREASURE HUNT
Play this seductive scavenger hunt game by making a list of all the sexy things your partner is supposed
to do. The list can include anything you fancy. He has to perform all the tasks on the list to win the
game. To get going you could include things such as – removing underwear using teeth, rubbing ice
cube on the back, back massage and so on.
ONYX
PREFACE
Onyx is a game of sexual exploration designed for two to six consenting adults. It runs on
Macintosh, Windows, and Linux systems. Players perform all kinds of intimate actions, from mild to
kinky. As the game progresses, so does the action! Play with people you are intimate with--or want to
be!
Onyx is a computer board game. Move around the board buying up properties. If you land on a property
belonging to somebody else, you must either pay rent or work off the debt!
You can work off the debt by being assigned fun, sexy erotic actions.
Look out for special squares! If you land on the Torture Chamber, you must draw a "torture card" with
an erotic torture on it. At Center Stage, you are put on display; in the Random Encounter square, you
will be assigned an erotic action with another player; and on the Fate squares, the luck of the draw
dictates your fate.
You control the "spice" of the erotic actions, from harmless fun to wild, anything-goes kink. You choose
"roles," which tell the game what kinds of actions you prefer to be involved in. If you don't like being
tied up, just tell Onyx that you will not accept the "bondage" role.
Registered users of Onyx also receive a Card Editor program, which lets you modify the action cards,
and create your own.
http://www.symtoys.com/onyx.html
ULTIMATE BDSM COUPLES GAME 1
THE RULES
Both players roll a D6. The player with the highest score may elect to either dominate or be submissive
first. The game then progresses through a series of steps. At each step (unless stated otherwise) both
players roll a D6. The dom then chooses between the 2 corresponding actions the one which they
prefer. Players then perform the action. After this, the game progresses to the following step. Once all
steps have been completed the players switch roles. At each step be sure to watch out for special rolls
(where both dice show the same number). Special rolls are shown opposite. Good luck and have lots of
dirty dirty fun ;)
Slave must remain completely motionless for 6 minutes – any noise AT ALL and this cycle reverts to
STEP 2.
1. Slave must lubricate dom’s pussy/cock AND ass using only their tongue
2. Slave must HEAVILY lubricate themselves AND the dom (pussy/cock AND ass AND butt/thighs
AND nipples)
3. Slave must remain silent throughout (back to STEP 3 if not)
4. Slave must be dressed in a feminine manner throughout (buttplugged if female)
5. Slave must be buttplugged
6. Slave must consume ALL CUM due to step 6.
1. Missionary position
2. Face down, ass up
3. HOWEVER THE DOM WANTS IT
4. On sides
5. Cowgirl/Reverse cowgirl
6. Spread eagled
1. Face down, ass up dom sits behind slave and gives 10 minutes of ANAL ONLY pleasure.
2. Face down, ass up dom sits behind slave and gives 10 minutes of anal pleasure whilst pleasuring
pussy/cock with other hand.
3. Legs above head ANAL ONLY pleasure
4. Legs above head anal AND pussy/cock stimulated.
5. 10 minutes of 69 slave on top
6. 10 minutes of 69 slave on bottom.
STEP 13: UNLUCKY FOR YOU (ROLL ON ONCE PER GAME PER SLAVE – BOTH DICE HAVE SEPARATE ACTIONS)
DICE 1
1. Slave’s pubic hair must immediately be shaved
2. Slave may not cum for 6 days (after current game)
3. Slave must give oral next time players meet in public
4. Slave must be spanked next time players meet
5. Slave must make a list of 2 actions that push their limits but do not break them – players then
do dom’s choice.
6. Slave must make a list of 3 actions that push their limits but do not break them – players then
do every single one NO EXCEPTIONS
DICE 2
1. Slave’s ass hair must IMMEDIATELY be shaved
2. None
3. Slave must pose IN ANY WAY for a naked picture (deleted after game)
4. Slave must wear underwear of dom’s choice for a week
5. Slave MUST inform the dom EXACTLY when AND how they touch themselves for 1 week.
6. Slave may not cum without their dom for 3 weeks BUT when players meet slave MUST be made
to cum.
SPECIAL ROLLS
22. Dom’s apology – Dom must lick/finger/pleasure the slave’s ass before continuing
33. Slippery fun: Both players must be HEAVILY lubricated by the dom
44 Silent slave: The slave must remain silent during this step. Failure to do so will result in a spanking
AND a reroll (unless it is a slave pleasure step, in which case skip the step)
66 Unlucky Day: Slave must be gagged and blindfolded until the end of the cycle and must lick the
dom’s ass between steps.
ULTIMATE BDSM COUPLES GAME 2
THE RULES
Both players roll a standard d6. The player with the highest roll elects to either dominate first or to be
submissive first. If this is the first cycle, the submissive must then strip naked, undress the dominant
and ready themselves to do anything required of them ;). After each cycle is complete, players switch
roles unless otherwise stated. At each step, both players roll a D6 and the dom chooses the action that
they prefer. After the action has been completed, move onto the next step.
1. Slave is taken over the dominant’s knee and spanked, they are then gaged (underwear
preferred)
2. Slave must give oral sex until the dom has been edged or has cum (dom’s decision)
3. Slave must lick the dom’s asshole until the dom is satisfied
4. Slave must get on all fours, face down, ass up, and is then lubricated (ass and cock/pussy)
5. Slave is buttplugged until their anus is needed.
6. Slave is blindfolded and must then give oral sex in the 69 position until the dom is satisfied.
STEP 5: A TASTE OF FREEDOM: (IN THE POSITION FROM STEP 3 WHERE POSSIBLE)
Roll is ODD: Master’s choice – Slave may cum (any method OR tough luck slave)
Roll is EVEN: Immediate sex NO CHANGE OF LOCATION (NO CUMMING FOR THE SLAVE)
Roll is ODD: Slave must get on all fours and perform oral sex. Slave is then spanked.
STEP 8: PERMANENT EFFECTS (ONLY 1 PER PLAYER – SKIP TO STEP 9 IF SUB HAS BEEN A SUB THROUGH THIS STEP
ALREADY. ONLY 1 DICE IS ROLLED FOR THIS STEP NO REROLLS)
STEP 9: CLIMAX
1. Dom may cum (any method). Dom is then licked clean of ALL cum.
2. Dom may cum (any method)
3. Dom is climaxed with the slave fingering their ass and pleasuring their pussy/cock
4. Dom is climaxed through sex (any position) NO CUMMING SLAVE
5. Dom is climaxed through anal sex (any position) NO CUMMING SLAVE
6. Dom may choose from any of the above or may choose to not cum to heighten the pleasure
from further cycles.
PLAYERS NOW SWITCH ROLES AND MOVE BACK TO STEP 1 FOR ANOTHER CYCLE
SPECIAL ROLLS
11. Lovebirds: Both players must kiss passionately for 30 seconds before continuing.
22: Dom’s apology: Dominant must lick/finger/pleasure submissive’s ass before continuing
33: Silent slave: Slave must be gagged, blindfolded and restrained (if not already) before continuing.
44: Slippery fun: Dom must libricate the slave’s cock/pussy and ass and their own cock/pussy and ass.
55: Lucky day: Slave must be edged while being anally pleasured before continuing.
66: Unlucky day: Slave must orally pleasure the dom’s cock/pussy and lick the dom’s ass between
EVERY step until the end of the cycle.
ULTIMATE BDSM COUPLES GAME 3
RULES
Both players roll a standard d6. The player with the highest roll is now the dominant
From now on, at each step, both players roll the dice to determine possible actions. The dominant will
then choose from the two chosen actions the one which they would like to play. The submissive has
one veto per cycle DO NOT use this too early ;)
Submissive must
Submissive must (until the dom says stop, remembering that they MAY NOT CUM)
STEP 5: RESTRAINT
Take a break, go watch TV, go make some food, go do something else for a while (DOM MAY
CHOOSE TO SKIP OR END BREAK AT ANY TIME) While on the break…
ReRoll step 3, but roll 4 dice and perform 2 actions, then roll 3 sets of 2 further dice to attempt SPECIAL
ROLLS
STEP 10: CLIMAX: DOM MAY CUM IN ANY WAY THEY PLEASE
If male/female
1. In sub’s anus
2. In sub’s pussy
3. In sub’s mouth
4. On sub’s breasts
5. On sub’s body
6. Sub must lick all precum finger, dom’s ass and then have dom cum in mouth
If female/male
1. With sub’s cock in ass (NO CUMMING)
2. With sub’s tongue in ass
3. With sub licking clit
4. With sub buttplugged and tied watching
5. With sub’s cock in pussy (NO CUMMING)
6. IN ANY WAY
SPECIAL ROLLS
22: Sub may not continue without a gag (used underwear is preferred)
44: Sub must perform the following step in silence (REROLL for noise)
66: UNLUCKY DAY: Sub must perform ALL actions in current step (where applicable) (NO VEETO)
2 MINUTES IN HEAVEN
PREFACE
Looking for a game to play with your spouse that adds just the right amount of spice? This one might be
just the one for you! I am not really sure how I came up with this game, it seems I always think of these
things at the strangest times, but it all came to me one afternoon when I was trying to take a nap.
Instead of sleeping my mind was rolling… We played the game that night and it was a HUGE hit with
my husband.
PREPARATION
RULES
● Set up your two lists (his & hers) of what numbers go with what piece of clothing using your
index cards.
● Make sure each of you is wearing five pieces of clothing. You may have to use your imagination
here! I wore a shirt with a cute sweater over it, pants and (lingerie-type) underclothes. He wore
an undershirt, a t-shirt, jeans, boxers and socks!
1. Your husband starts first and rolls the dice to see which piece of clothing you will take off first.
Whatever number it rolls on, take off the piece of clothing that corresponds with the number on
your card. The catch is you can only take off that one piece! So if the number rolls on the
number for your bra and you still have your shirt on, then take your shirt off, then the bra off
and put your shirt back on.
2. Next, it’s your turn to roll the dice to see which piece of clothing your husband will take off. The
same rules apply to him and he can only take off one piece of clothing.
3. After you both have rolled and taken off your one piece of clothing, set the timer for two
minutes of play time! Play time includes kissing, touching, and anything else you want to do
that does not involve actually making love. Be creative!
4. At the end of the two minutes all playing MUST stop and you each get to roll again. If one of
you rolls a number that has already been played, then their turn is skipped and the next person
rolls the dice.
5. Continue playing by rolling the dice and then having two minutes of play time after each set
until no clothing is left to take off. When no more clothes are left, play one more set of two
minutes and remember anything goes except making love! When the last two minutes are up,
the game is over and anything goes!
EVEN MORE SEX GAMES
STANDARD SEX GAMES
● Meeting your lover at a bar for the first time (acting it out at a real bar)
● What would you do to pick up your lover at a bar? How would the two of you flirt with each
other?
● The two of you must work together to avoid all the fish that might eat the two of you
There are two types of people the 'bored' and the 'boring'. This tip is for the 'bored' person. In fact, the
person who is 'bored' should implement this game without the knowledge of the boring partner.
How the game works. Before the bored partner gets home, the 'boring' partner, will have turned off the
fuse box, (i.e. no hope for electricity), lit some incense and candles and dressed in a sexy outfit. A sexy
outfit may mean wearing a butlers outfit, or some see-through lingerie. Then the boring partner should
situate herself/himself in the middle of the living room / bedroom surrounded by large plush pillows.
When the boring partner comes home, she/he will immediately try to turn on the lights. Of course, this
will be unsuccessful. Then they will start to wander towards the dim lights and find you sprawled out
half-naked on the pillows. The easy partner will immediately drop their pants and be ready to go.
Others may require more work. In fact, initially, she/he may disclose to you that she/he has a lot of work
to do, is simply not in the mood or even tell you that you look stupid.
Regardless of what happens, you, the bored partner must maintain your cool seductive appearance. By
this I mean that you should tell your partner that you may be acting silly, but you are here to please
their every whim (imagine yourself playing a star role in a harem and you must win your partner over).
You may then want to offer her/him a foot massage, or a glass of wine, or some grapes, which you
could hand-feed. Lastly, for the really difficult partner you may want to brush-up on your knowledge
about their favorite activity, which may entail the latest sports game, the stock market, or politics and
romance her/him into your arms. Your mission is to seduce your partner by any tactic possible.
EROTIC SEX GAME FOR THE 'BORED' PARTNER
For the 'bored' partner . . . ask your partner to let you plan an evening of entertainment. Arrive home
from work early that day (before your partner gets home) and prepare a sexual meal. This may consist
of linguine with clams, grapes, wine and cheese… (it all depends on your food tastes… and don't forget,
if you can't cook, you can always order food and have it delivered). When your partner gets home, you
will answer the door in a butler or maid’s outfit. The maid should be wearing just an apron, and the
butler should be wearing just a tie. The only lights in the house should be some dimly lit candles. The
table should be set with the fancy tablecloth, fine china and a bottle of champagne. You may want to
have some snacks prepared in case your partner is hungry when she/he gets home. Upon your partner's
arrival, invite her/him to take a bath. After undressing your partner, you should help her/him into the
bath tub, where you will proceed to wash her/him. Not only should you wash their hair, which entails a
scalp massage, but pay special attention to the genital area. After your partner is relaxed from the
wash, serve your partner dinner. During dinner, pay special attention to whatever your partner wants to
talk about. Let yourself be inquisitive to learn more about whatever your partner has to say. What is the
meaning behind her/his words? After dinner, lead her/him to the bedroom and begin giving a head-to-
toe massage. Let your hands wander.
This sex game is designed for the REALLY bored couple. This game requires both partners to take an
active role in sex. Set design: Two chairs facing each other. Props/people: Two fully clothed bored
individuals.
THE GAME:
Part one: The two people should begin sitting across from each other and fully clothed. Either person
can begin by talking about how bored they are by having sex with each other. After she/he has
completed her/his line, she/he will be required to take off an article of clothes. Eventually, both people
will be stark naked.
Part two: Slowly begin foreplay. After each touch, the giver must say "how boring" and then their first
reaction. In response, the receiver must say, "I am bored" and then add their first reaction. This may
sound like, "I am bored, but hey that feels good, please keep touching me" or it may sound like "I am
bored, but I like the way your nipples feel on my lips". You could also add some variations be saying
"who cares" or "this is silly."
This game at first may make you feel uncomfortable. In fact, the first time I ever played it, I felt stupid,
but sure enough, with time this game became fun. It removed the tension. Usually the first several
times this game is played, there is no sex at the end, just lots of touching. That is fine. What is
important to be learning is how to communicate with your partner, and how to laugh, smile and play
with each other. Sex is about connection, and connections can happen on many different levels. They
are all-important and contribute to having good sex.
EROTIC SEX GAMES FOR PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE COUPLES - AND FOR THOSE WHO LIKE ANGRY SEX
Seduction is the name of the game. Passive partner plays the role of the master and the aggressive
partner plays the role of the maid. The maid should be dressed in a skimpy black outfit, with a white
apron. She should not be wearing any underwear. Whereas the master can wear whatever she wants.
When the master arrives home after a long day of work or shopping, the maid will be busily cleaning the
house. When the master arrives home and sits down in front of the TV, she may want to go to her,
remove her shoes and replace them with some slippers. If the master so desires, the maid may want to
give a foot massage. Then continue cleaning the areas near by. Each time she goes to lean down, she
will wiggle her butt and show her ass - remember she is not wearing any underwear. The master may
ask her what she is doing, to which she should reply 'oh nothing'. The master may angrily say that she
looks silly and is being ridiculous, to which the maid must hang onto her hurt pride and respond by
saying I like it this way and continue to wiggle her butt.
By the third or fourth day, the master will start to become aroused. At this point, the maid must
encourage aggressive sex. She may want to say to him 'do it to me' or 'take me' or 'harder'. Make it
rougher. I like it when you talk dirty. As the master is increasingly aroused, she will start to be more
responsive. By letting the negative energy out through sex it will 1) release the negative pent-up
emotions 2) enable both partners to actually directly feel what has been transpiring between the two of
them. Through sex/sexuality the passive partner will begin to get in touch with her/his anger and the
bigger issue will begin to get resolved. Not to mention, this can lean to some fun and different kind of
sex than the two of you had previously experienced.
This game is specifically written for the nice guy syndrome. He is your best friend, but not a great lover.
Mr. Nice guy is viewed as asexual and passive by the other. To change the image of Mr. Nice Guy, put
on a bandit's outfit and approach your partner while she is quietly sitting in the living room reading, or
watching TV. As you approach, point a plastic gun towards your partner and announce that you are the
captor and that she is your prisoner of war. At this point, she may laugh (or show scorn) and ask what
you are doing. To this, you must respond that you are a bandit and that you are here to steal a kiss from
her. With that, she may tell you to that she does not want to be disturbed. She is reading a
book/watching TV. Again, tell her that you are a bandit and that your job is to steal things. Share with
her that it is OK for her not to want to lose her kisses. That is why you are a bandit, you take things
without permission. Go steal a kiss from her. Then with that, (if you can) pick her up in your arms and
carry her off to your secret den. This secret den, may either be your bedroom with some new satin
sheets, or a fort that you made in your study. If she seems truly angry, you may not want to grab her,
and let her know that it is OK to be angry, sometimes victims do not like to be stolen. If this is the case,
quickly steal a small kiss and let her know that you will be back sooner than she will ever guess to collect
your 'goods'. Do not feel discouraged. Sometimes people either really are not in the mood to play, and
other times she may just be in shock and it will take a while for her to get comfortable with your new
role. In a few days, try again. If you have been successful in 'stealing' her to your fort, begin to make
love to her in a new way. Be more aggressive than usual. You are the bandit. It is your job to take what
you like. I recommend taking her pleasure… as in if you know she likes oral stimulation then take her
vagina and eat your dinner;) It is critical, that while you are taking things like kisses and such that please
you, that you do not fall into the trap of only satisfying yourself. This is a game that is designed for you
to become more aggressive with a partner, but the partner does still exist. As a variation, you could
have in your fort, a small treasure chest. Inside this treasure chest is a black negligee that you will
produce and demand that she wear. You have stolen her some fine clothes to wear in your presence. In
addition, there is a bottle of champagne and two wine glasses.
From your past experiences, you have found that it is hard work to 'steal' things and that sometimes
even you need something to drink.
Are you ready for a different style of games? If so, keep reading . . .
Have you ever wondered how to be a better lover? One simple way is to get to know you and your
partner's likes and dislikes better. When each of you know what the other person likes, it is much easier
to please her / him. The games listed below are geared to help you and your lover identify and share
what each of your likes and dislikes are. There are no right wrong answers, only personal differences.
The only ground rule is that even if you disagree with someone else perspective you need to respect
that this is their reality, and thus to them they are speaking their truth. Your mission is not to change
them, but rather to better understand what makes them believe what they believe.
½ hour or more
index cards
4 pens
Give each person six index card. Then ask everyone to write down on an index card a sexual role that
they play. One sex role per index card.
For example:
● Wife
● Husband
● Primary Partner
● Lover
● Boyfriend
● Girlfriend
● Feminist
● Exploiter
● Teaser
● Male chauvinist
● Initiator
● Instigator
● Virgin
● Expert
● Teacher
● Learner
● Hedonist
● Sadist
● Masochist
● Romantic
● Macho
● Cutesy
● Slave
● Carefree
● Explorer
Then go around the table and read your cards to each other. After learning what everyone wrote
down, get ready for the TRADE. The rules of the TRADE are as follows: Trade away the roles that you
value least. Trade for the roles that you value most. You must trade away at least two of your roles.
Discussion questions:
1) Why did you trade away the roles that you did?
2) Did you obtain the roles that you wanted?
3) Why did you want the roles that you did?
4) In real life, what sexual roles would you like to assume? What behaviors are associated with this
sexual role that you would like?
5) Is this game harder / easier to play around friends, family or lovers & why?
This activity can be done with a friend or with a lover (note: some of the questions may need to be
changed, depending on the relationship that you have to this person, and their gender.) The goal is to
test how well you know your partner / friend. Take a few minutes and answer each question first for
yourself, and then if you were the other person. Then go over the answers with each other. For each
question that you accurately answered for the other person, give yourself a point. The person with the
most points wins! Though I should mention, either way you win. First, you get to know the other person
better. Second, if the other person knows you better than you know them, then you win because
someone really knows you sexually!
We have played monogamy and games like that in the past, but I was
wondering whether anyone on here had their own games they liked to play
with their partners. Particularly if theres anything suited to a situation
where one is bound and essentially rewarded/punished with various
toys/actions based some form of game?
CHESS
One of the games I've played in the past is "sexy chess". The rules are as follows:
● 1 x Chess Set
● Your imagination
To play:
Set up the chess board as standard and start to play according to the normal rules. When a playing
piece is taken, the attacking side (just took the piece) gets to choose an action for the defending (just
lost the piece) side to carry out.
As a guide, you could assign a value to each of the playing pieces so the action required when a pawn is
taken is far less risqué than if the Queen had been captured, for example:
● White takes a black pawn - Black is required to kiss any part of white's exposed flesh as desired
by white for at least 30 seconds
● Black takes a white knight - White must remove an item of clothing of black's choosing, it does
not have to be presently visible.
● White takes a black castle - Black must move as normal, then masturbate without orgasming as
instructed (toy/finger etc.) by White whilst White completes their turn (White will probably take
quite some time over this next move... )
You get the idea...
The great thing about this game is that the more turned on you are, the more likely you are to make
mistakes and therefore the more tasks you have to carry out making you more turned on etc. etc. etc.
I keep thinking about creating a Chess Clock which fires off a vibrator whilst it is your turn, making you
move quicker to avoid your brain becoming scrambled - of course the longer it takes you to move, the
more your brain surrenders to the feeling and the less you concentrate on the game so the the more
tasks you loose etc.
VARIATIONS
I'm a much better chess player than my SO. So to make it fair when we
play, when we play I have 5 minutes while she has 1 hour. And she get's to
do what ever she wants to distract me. It's quite fun
MONOPOLY
If you google erotic monopoly or something similar you'll find various re-worked sets of rules that turn
the heat up when you play as a couple. I especially like these...
- if you land on the Electric Company, use a vibrator on your partner for 5 minutes
- passionately kiss when you throw a double or land on the same square
There are all sorts of possibilities if you replace the Chance and Community Chest cards with tasks of
your own. And penalties / forfeits for landing on properties with houses or hotels can get more explicit
the more the property is worth.
VARIATION 1
Sexy monopoly-
0, take off piece of clothing
1 Parlor : Hug and passionately kiss each other
2 Parlors: Massage your lover's neck and shoulders
3 Parlors: Kneeling, kiss and lick your lover's belly, hips and thighs
4 Parlors: Orally pleasure an exposed erogenous zone
Brothel: Manually pleasure your lover
- when in jail other partner gets to tie up the player who is in jail
- water works you take a shot or a drink of alcohol
- electric you get to take a sexy picture of the person who landed on the occupied electric or use a
vibrator where ever you want
- railroad depending how many you own you get 1 kiss deeply 2 hands used only 3 oral 4 sex
● when you land on your own property you get what ever you want from the other player up to
the highest you have EX: nothing, 1 parlor, 2 parlors, 3 parlors, 4 parlors. Brothel
BATTLESHIP
I like the idea of the smartie game, one thing that has just popped into my mind is a version of
"battleships" where everytime you sink you opponents boat, you opponent has to "go down with all
hands" ( ) - where and how could be related to the size of your vessel and all you need is a pen and
paper to play the game!
RING OF FIRE
INSTRUCTIONS
Me and my SO just came up with this game, sadly she is away at the minute but can't wait to play it.
This game if roughly based on the drinking game ring of fire, if anyone knows what that is. Players wear
what they like, can start naked, in lingerie or just a t-shirt whatever they feel sexy in.
You place the cup in the middle of the table/bed/floor and spread the cards around the cup face down.
You then take it in turns to pick a card, each card meaning the following things.
This is more tended to what we like but could easily be changed to suit different couples. Hope you all
enjoy it, I can't wait til i do.
PICTIONARY
Sexy Pictionary- write down at least 25 sex positions on cards. Then shuffle the cards. Each player picks
one card --(alternate rule picks up to 3 cards and chooses only one position to draw)--- after the player
picks the card they are drawing they begin to draw the position you have a set time limit of 3 mins. ----
(alternate: your allowed to tease the other player as much as you want while there drawing but no
sexual act can be done EX: Oral, vaginal or anal sex. Handjob/fingering may or may not be allowed. You
are only allowed to tease and touch only what is exposed----once done drawing the person who is not
drawing at the time must guess the position if they can not guess it the person who just drew must
remove a piece of clothing. And the guesser gets to draw. If the guesser guesses the position you act it
out and do it
SEXTUAL PURSUIT
SEXUAL PURSUIT (trivial pursuit) when it’s a players turn they draw a card describing a sex position or a
sexual reference if they guess it wrong they remove one article of clothing. if they guess right they get
one point. Each card is put aside into a pile and saved. Once one person has no clothing left the person
who has some clothing on wins or whoever has the most points when the game is over. Once the game
is over the winner may look through the pile of cards used during the game that were saved and pick
any position he/she chooses to do to the looser
NO TOUCHIE
Too hot.
You and your partner make out with out touching each other. The first person to touch the other person
loses and the other partner gets to choose what they get to do to the other person.
This is how you get anal, folks.
SPORTS BET
This may not work for you guys, but if you're at all into sports, I've found it's fun to place sexy bets on
games when you like different teams. Like partner A has to perform oral on partner B if B's team wins
and vice versa.
I am not a neat man. i admit this. i generally exist in a state anywhere from
mild disarray to utter chaos
One time my exgf was giving me shit about my room being dirty. I told her I
know where everything is. "Oh really?" She challenged me "so if asked you
to grab your toolbox to fix something you could do it?"
"Absolutely" I said. she didnt believe (such was the state of disorder in my
room) so I bet her a blowjob that I could get it in 15 seconds. She accepted
the bet. What I didn't tell her is that I had fixed a lock on my bedroom door
earlier that day and knew exactly where my tools were. So I popped up,
strode across the room, got my toolbox from the cabinet right where I had
left it, came back to the bed, and unzipped my pants.
VARIOUS
I received a wonderful response for this thread: http://redd.it/2lktbp
However, having such a response without a clear overview of the games listed there is not very useful.
I've asked for a game to play with my husband. I was looking for a sex game created explicitly for
couples which will inspire our sexual life.
The reason: we like to play with our imagination and although it’s alright to bend some rules and make
up new ones, we prefer the games created for this purpose as we follow the rules there instead of
mixing and inventing them.
There were 3 categories of responses, categories in which we (as couples) could split our sexual games:
1. The products: these are the games created for this purpose, with their own rules and themes.
2. Changing the rules: take an existing game and change its rules to fit your kinkiness. Mario kart,
Catan, Strip Magic: The Gathering, Strip poker, strip rummy, strip trivial pursuit, and others
were mentioned.
3. Completely invented by couples: these are the naughty games we come up with. From simple
things like flipping a coin to assigning different activities and mini-games to a classical card
deck.
Since I was looking for the first category, the products, here is what I have extracted.
1. [Rhadjaz] Check out http://ardorthegame.com my girlfriend and I had fun playing it.
[Rhadjaz] The rules might have changed a bit since I only played beta. There are 2 parts of the
game: first a game where you have your deck and you get 5 cards. You have to collect cards by
playing a card and following the card type. There are also pictograms on some cards. If there is
a pictogram on a card then the pictogram must be followed regardless of card type. When you
finish the deck you count all the cards that you gathered with pictograms, the player who has
the most pictograms wins and makes choices for the second round. During the second round
the player who won the first round checks his cards. He/she picks 5 truth or dare, 5 foreplay
cards and 5 sex cards. You start with all truth or dare (I think, not sure) cards then you go to all
foreplay cards and you finish with the 5 sex positions and you climax in the position that the last
card you get from the sex pile. The game last for about 1-2 hours. It's mainly foreplay oriented
and most of the activities are timed and you really crave more when the timer runs out just
think about a 2 minute blowjob, 2 minute massage or a 3 minute erotic story. It boost open
communication because you can get questions like "what are you not willing to do yet?" or draw
a picture of your body and put notes for your partner to use. That's a short overview of the
game, I can't say much more about the cards since they are at my girlfriend's place (the winner
keeps the cards)
2. [lcsaph] There is a game called Consenting Adults http://www.amazon.com/Enrichments-
Consenting-Adults-Game/dp/B00021KRX2
5. [walkingspastic] There's one called Fetish, I got it in a grab bag from a local shop. Its very
interactive and exposed my SO and I to things we'd never thought we'd be into. There's 4
different stacks of cards involving certain fetishes (food, etc), you draw a card, preform the
action, and move a space. I guess you get to fuck at the end and can probably have a prize but I
don't think we ever held out to the end of the game :P
7. [Mennix] There's a software game a friend of mine gave me a copy of years ago called "Sensual
Sentences."
8. [quizzical] Nookii looks good. Haven't played them but the cards look great.
9. [joecoolosu] We enjoy Bliss. You can tweak it for all kinds of activities and degrees of hotness
12. [Gregersen12] I've had a LOT of fun with playing "Truth & Dare" set on 'Kinky mode'. It's a
mobile app :-)
13. [FreeRangeAsparagus] Strip Cards Against Humanity. Not only will you get to see how
disturbing your sense of humor is, also nakedness. Works well with bigger groups too.
My choice was Ardor. I'll look into others as well, but I saw they have a 15% discount now and it seemed
the most complex and intriguing one. I'll let you know how it goes. The next one will be Nookii or
Consenting Adults. I'll suggest this to the hubby to see if he gets my point.
I hope this list will be useful to some people and don't forget to filter the results from the previous
thread if you want ideas for the other categories
SEXY RACERS
Check out Sexy Racers for Windows (www.sexy-racers.com).
It's a turn based board game with good visuals and can be played at different levels of
hotness by 2 to 8 players. They have a free demo you can download to try it out.
I used to do this to an ex...it drove her nuts. One time we were just out of
the shower and her friend called. So she answered and sat down on the tub
side which put her mouth at penis height. She grabbed me and casually
jerked me for a bit and occasionally licked/sucked. I was close and tried to
pull away but she gripped it harder and made me shoot it in her face while
talking....it was awesome.
GET OUT
IT’S NOT RAPE
We play "you can't get out from under me", which involves her being under
me, me being inside of her, and her trying to wiggle out from under me.
SECRET SPOT
ABOUT THE GAME
My girl and I just came up with one. This one would be great as either a way
to learn your partner, or a test of how well you know them.
You both start off with the same amount of clothing, either barely anything or fully clothed, and flip a
coin to see who goes first. The winner of the coin flip picks a sensitive spot on their body that is
accessible with the amount of clothing they have on, and the loser has 60 seconds to find the spot with
either hands, lips, tongue, the winner of the flip's choice. If the loser of the flip fails to do so, the winner
puts on one article of clothing, unless they are already fully clothed. Then the roles alternate for every
turn.
When one person is completely naked, they pick one position. then the other has three tries to guess
the position. If the guesser wins, congrats! You do that position. If not, another article of clothing is
added to players.
TRUTH OR DARE
INTRODUCTION
Every round each player follows the turn order (as described below) performing dares, answering
truths, rolling for surprises and casting spells on their opponents. Additionally, players can engage in
the optional drinking game found below.
TURN ORDERS
PHYSICAL CHALLENGE
The player’s opponent gets to come up with a quirky physical challenge that…
CHALLENGER TRIVIA
MOMENT OF TRUTH
Just like “Truth” in normal Truth or Dare, the player’s opponent gets to ask a personal/sexual/revealing
question about the player. The player must answer honestly!
SPELLS
Spells can be bought with points you have accumulated throughout the game. Each spell lasts four
rounds!
SPECIAL EVENTS
SPEND POINTS
Activity Cost
Remove Opponent’s Clothes (one article/pair) 2 pts
Put your clothes back on (one article/pair) 3 pts
Opponent makes a Drink Roll 3 pts
Buy a Sexual Favor (lasts 60 seconds) 4 pts
Buy a Super Sexual Favor (limit one per player, lasts one hour) 16 pts
Cancel a Spell 12 pts
SURPRISES
1. Tickle
2. Lick
3. Suck / Kiss
4. Softly Nibble
5. Massage / Rub
6. Touch / Frisk
DRINK ROLL
1. Drink a shot
2. Drink 2 shots
3. Drink a shot from your opponent’s drink
4. All players drink a shot
5. Take a sip of your drink
6. Pour some of your drink onto your opponent’s body then drink it off of them
7. Swap drinks with your opponent
8. Take a sip of your drink then kiss your opponent on the lips with the drink in your mouth.
9. However much your opponent decides to drink, right now, you must match it.
10. Roll a six-sided die and drink that many shots.
11. Mix a shot of your opponent’s drink with one of your own then drink it all.
12. Drink your entire bottle/glass.
PANTSING
We have an ongoing pants-pulling-down war (bonus points for underwear
too). If we're home alone, we try to get each other while cooking or doing
laundry - otherwise, the main time to strike is teeth-brushing or other
activities where both hands are occupied.
It's not sexual at all - it's become fiercely competitive and inventive to the
point of purposely instigating activities which will put the other person in a
vulnerable position.
HIDING
We hide around the house and jump out to scare each other. Even to the
point where he will turn on the shower and go hide somewhere so I think
he's in the bathroom and he'll pop out, or I'll put blankets and such on the
bed to make it look like I'm laying in bed and hide somewhere.
We also bought Nerf guns, turn off all the lights in the house, and shoot
each other
HUMPING
My hubby and I surprise butt hump each other. When one of us is bent over
doing something, the other one sneaks up and dry humps from behind.
VARIATION
My boyfriend and I have all-out wars where the goal is to trap the other
person and hump their behind. It gets out-of-hand sometimes.
SPANKING
Ex gf and I used to play "The Spanking game"
Spank each other at the most inappropriate times, often in the most public
places. Butt squeezes were worth more. The more awkward a situation we
could generate, the better.
One time, while meeting her extended family for the first time, I spanked
AND squeezed her butt almost simultaneously, while being introduced to
cousins or something. I walked away, cackling madly as she turned bright
red and laughed nervously. Her family was not amused.
COMMERCIALS
Me and the girl were watching a movie on her couch. Every time it went to
commercial I'd take to ravishing her, increasing the intensity with each
commercial break, moving from groping, to necking, to ripping clothes off,
to manual, then oral and I'd abruptly stop when the movie came back on
and completely ignore her until the next break. When the credits rolled I
flipped her over and fucked the dogshit out of her. I don't think I've ever
seen a girl beg THAT HARD, get THAT WET, scream THAT LOUD or cum
THAT HARD and THAT FAST. Shit was magic. Don't discuss it beforehand.
Just fucking toy with her head by doing it out of the blue.
DETECTIVE
My SO and I play a game we made up. At the end of the day both of us are
usually hanging on the bed or just in the bedroom. When one us leaves the
room (bathroom/chore/ect) the other quickly takes off whatever items of
clothing they want, gets into bed, pulls the sheets up to their neck then
waits for the other to come back. When the other comes back it's a sexy
gambling/detective time. Goes something like this when I return.
The girlfriend says,"If you can guess what I am wearing under these sheets
you get to do what you want with/to me. If you are wrong, I get to decided
what I want to do with you." Usually we play with the combos of bra,
panties, boxer briefs, socks or nothing. We don't do dumb shit like "oh you
were so close but I had a bracelet on. I mean you can play that way if you
want. Your life.
MARIO KART
My gf and I played Super Mario Kart for valentine's day last year.
Basically our rule was we had to have sex while playing and have
penetration the entire race. So one way to mess the other up was
to thrust and grind. I'd try to rub her clit when she was on a turn.
It was a lot of fun. We were in doggy for most of the races until I
got on bottom and had to kind of look behind me which was
difficult because I kept wanting to stare at her more than the
game. We have agreed this is our valentine's day ritual now.
SENSUAL SENTENCES
There's a software game a friend of mine gave me a copy of years ago
called "Sensual Sentences." And, while it's designed for a group, can still be
played 1 on 1. Basically, you start by putting in the names of all the players
present, and then hit start and you're presented with three rows of five
columns each, and at the top of each column is a word with the format of:
"[Name] [Verb] [Name] [Body Part] [Adverb/Condition]"
Each player takes turns picking a single word and dropping down into a box
below the column. Once a sentence gets formed on one of the three rows, it
has to be acted out. And there are three different levels of sexiness for if
you're playing with a group. Level one will have things like Rub, Touch,
Massage, Tickle, for the verbs and Neck, Shoulders, Feet, etc. for the body
parts. Level two upgrades you to Expose, Lick, etc. and Chest, Butt, Crotch
(I think), and then level three gives you words like "Fuck, Finger, etc. and
Penis, Vagnia, Asshole, etc." The levels will automatically go up after a
certain number of rounds, but you can lock them at a certain level if the
group is down for, say, flashing, but not interested in group sex. As for the
last column, the "Adverb/Condition" column will have things in it like
"Repeatedly, Softly, Roughly, For 30 Seconds" and things like that.
Also, often as a selling point to more shy players, the words that get
dropped down to form the sentences don't have to just fill blank squares,
they can be used to play defensively, like if someone sees the sentence,
"Todd Expose Jenny's ______ Repeatedly" and she's worried about what
body part will fill in that blank, she could replace her name with someone
else's, or change the verb to something like "massage" or whatnot.
I'm not entirely sure where to download it, anymore. My friend that gave it
to me told me he tried to purchase the full version from the company that
made it, but they were out of business. The trial version just has a limited
number of uses, but if I remember correctly, I think you can just uninstall it
and reinstall it to use it again.
If anyone's interested (and if you can suggest a host), and I search around
and see if I can find the program to share.
MARIO PARTY
Mario Party doggystyle. My girlfriend said every time we were in a
mini-game and I was losing I would pound her harder, which I
thought was both hot and funny.
MY PARTNER AND I
http://www.mypartnerandi.com/
VIBRATOR DARE
REQUIRED:
INSTRUCTIONS
It’s a quite simple one which will test your will power!
Get yourself turned on by reading erotica or watching videos here Set the alarm to go off in 8 minutes.
Keep it aside so you can’t see how much time is left.
Turn on the vibrator. Set it to max mode. Slip it down in front of panties so it’s pressed against clit. Zip
up the tight jeans to hold it there so it’s really buzzing in you. In case you are wearing a skirt, give
yourself and front wedgie so you can feel the vibration
Now just lie down and try to hold off orgasm. You’re not allowed to take the vibrator out, move it or
turn it off until the alarm goes off.
If you have an orgasm before just leave it there until the time gets over. Ask me for punishments
The idea is simple: turn things that might distract us from sex into opportunities to turn each other on!
Here’s what we’ve come up with so far:
Okay, right off the bat you’re thinking we’re crazy (and we are…a little), but don’t worry! These cards
aren’t for sending; they’re not even for printing. We’re just going to use ornaments, the Christmas tree,
a santa hat, or whatever to take funny naked pictures together.
Think of it as poking fun at all those super-serious holiday photos that your friends send to you every
year. We hope to look back on years of hilarious photos that make you think, “hmm, that would be a
good place to hang those glittering ball-shaped ornaments.”
We know men hate holiday shopping. Hell, I hate it sometimes, too. We’ve decided to spice it up this
year by adding a little of our exhibitionist streak to the task. I’m planning to wear my shiny jewel butt
plug when we go out to look for gifts and find any opportunity I can to sneak him a peek. That ought to
keep him following me around stores for hours and escalators and stairs are going to be so much fun!
We all know he’s ready with his lightsaber at any moment, but I want to know if MR. can use the force
to sneak under my dress undetected in a crowded room. Seriously though, if MR. manages to even
touch my clit while we’re watching Star Wars at the theatre this holiday season, I’m going to see
galaxies far, far away.