# Sex Education in Islam

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 # Sex education in Islam

*Masturbation: Masturbation is a minor sin; For Example: if u break

the traffic rules and you are fined INR 1,000.00 ; but if you break the
rule everyday and fined INR 1,000.00; by the end of the month your fine
will add upto INR 30,000.00.

A minor sin becomes major if done everyday.

*A safer approach is not to take any sin easily and lightly; major and
minor both. As Allah may forgive major sin after repentance;
and a person can be in hell for doing minor sins for which he has taken
lightly and not asked for forgiveness and not repented..

*PORN: It is haram (strictly prohibited) to watch PORN and forward

videos, photos and magazines etc. to others to indulge in it. As per
Quran 16:90, 24:21 and 29:45 Committing Al Fahisha (indecency,
immorality, illegal sex) is a great sin and Allah do not like people
who transgress..

(Quran-16:90)Verily, Allah enjoins Al-'Adl (i.e. justice and worshipping

none but Allah Alone - Islamic Monotheism) and Al-Ihsan [i.e. to be
patient in performing your duties to Allah, totally for Allah's sake and in
accordance with the Sunnah (legal ways) of the Prophet in a perfect

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manner], and giving (help) to kith and kin (i.e. all that Allah has ordered
you to give them e.g., wealth, visiting, looking after them, or any other
kind of help), and forbids Al-Fahsha' (i.e all evil deeds, e.g. illegal
sexual acts, disobedience of parents, polytheism, to tell lies, to give false
witness, to kill a life without right), and Al-Munkar (i.e all that is
prohibited by Islamic law: polytheism of every kind, disbelief and every
kind of evil deeds), and Al-Baghy (i.e. all kinds of oppression). He
admonishes you, that you may take heed.

(Quran 24:21) O you who believe! Follow not the footsteps of Shaitan
(Satan). And whosoever follows the footsteps of Shaitan (Satan), then,
verily he commands Al-Fahsha' [i.e. to commit indecency (illegal sexual
intercourse)], and Al-Munkar [disbelief and polytheism (i.e. to do evil
and wicked deeds; and to speak or to do what is forbidden in Islam)].
And had it not been for the Grace of Allah and His Mercy on you, not
one of you would ever have been pure from sins. But Allah purifies
(guides to Islam) whom He wills, and Allah is All-Hearer, All-Knower.

(Quran 29:45) Recite (O Muhammad what has been revealed to you of

the Book (the Qur'an), and perform As-Salat(h) (Iqamat-as-Salat).
Verily, As-Salat(h) (the prayer) prevents from Al-Fahsha' (i.e. great sins
of every kind, unlawful sexual intercourse) and Al-Munkar (i.e.
disbelief, polytheism, and every kind of evil wicked deed) and the
remembering (praising) of (you by) Allah (in front of the angels) is

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greater indeed [than your remembering (praising) of Allah in prayers.
And Allah knows what you do.

*Oral Sex: kissing private parts is allowed in Islam but licking private
parts like anus or vagina is haram (Prohibited). As per research and
survey done by medical science it causes cancer and other diseases like
herpes etc…

Also its common sense, we use our tongue to taste food and drink and is
used for zikr (remembrance of Allah); its indecent to use tongue to lick
at unhygienic place…

*Anal Sex: Allah has cursed people who indulge in anal sex (26:168).
Homosexuality is haram in Islam. Also if any man forces his wife to
indulge in anal sex, oral sex and sex during periods will fall in the
category of domestic violence and can ask for divorce…

(Quran 26:168) Prophet Lut said: "I am, indeed, of those who
disapprove with severe anger and fury your (this evil) action (of
sodomy).

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*Fornication and Adultery (Sex other than your wife or
husband): Fornication and Adultery (Zina) is a major sin and is strictly
prohibited in Islam.

Allah The Almighty Says: {"And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily,
it is a great sin and an evil way (that leads one to Hell unless Allah
forgives"} [Quran, 17: 32]

*Allah The Almighty made the punishment for these sins vary from
lashing to stoning to death, along with the humiliation which results
from informing the community of the perpetrators of this sin. Allah The
Almighty Says (what means): The fornicatress and the fornicator, flog
each of them with a hundred stripes. Let not pity withhold you in their
case, in a punishment prescribed by Allah, if you believe in Allah and
the Last Day. And let a party of the believers witness their punishment.
(This punishment is for unmarried persons guilty of the above crime, but
if married persons commit it (illegal sex), the punishment is to stone
them to death, according to Allah's Law). } [Quran, 24: 2]

The adulterer will only marry an adulteress or Mushrikah (one who is an

idolatress or polytheist). And the adulteress, she will only be married to
an adulterer or Mushrik (an idolater or polytheist). And this has been
forbidden for the believers. (Quran 24:3)

*The Prophet set the penalty for adultery and fornication as

follows:"If the parties (committing fornication) are unmarried, they
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should receive a hundred lashes and be put into exile for a year. If they
commit adultery after they are married, they should receive a hundred
lashes and then be stoned to death." [Muslim]

*Effects that zina has on the soul (or on one’s psyche):

Zina encompasses all the characteristics of evil: lack of religious
commitment, loss of piety, loss of chivalry, lack of protective jealousy
(gheerah). You will not find any adulterer who is pious, or keeps his
promises, or speaks truthfully, or is a good friend, or has complete
protective jealousy towards his family. Treachery, lying, betrayal, lack
of modesty, lack of awareness that Allaah is always watching, lack of
chivalry, loss of protective jealousy from the heart – these are the effects
and implications of zina.
One of the effects of zina is that it earns the wrath of Allaah because His
sacred limits are transgressed.

Allaah has forbidden Paradise to every evil person, and He has made
Paradise the abode of the good, and no one will enter it but those who
are good.

*AL-Laghwa (Vain Talk or abusive language and bad

words): Laghw means "evil vain talk", vain, dirty, false, falsehood,
nonsensical, meaningless and anything forbidden by Allah. It refers to
anything which serves no purpose or goal in a proper Muslim life.

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According to the Chapter Al Furqan in Quran, Muslims are to avoid
such things and pay them no mind; "... if they pass by some evil play or
evil talk, they pass by it with dignity".
Avoiding Laghw is an important attribute for being a successful Muslim
as described in Sura Mu’minun (The Believers) of the Qur'an 23: 1-9.
“Successful indeed are the believers. Who offer Salat with all solemnity
and full submissiveness. Those who turn away from Al-Laghw (dirty,
false, evil & forbidden speech). Those who pay Zakat Those who guard
there chastity.

*Sex in Ramadan: Intercourse during the day in Ramadan is haram

for men and women alike, who are obliged to fast during the day. Doing
that is a sin for which expiation (kaffarah) must be offered. The kaffarah
is to free a slave; if that is not possible then the person must fast for two
consecutive months; whoever is not able to do that must feed sixty poor
persons.

*Intercourse during the night in Ramadan, this is permitted and is not

forbidden, and the time when it is permitted lasts until the onset of dawn.
When dawn comes, intercourse becomes forbidden.

*Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“It is made lawful for you to have sexual relations with your wives on
the night of As-Sawm (the fasts). They are Libaas [i.e. body-cover, or
screen, or Sakan (i.e. you enjoy the pleasure of living with them] for you
and you are the same for them. Allaah knows that you used to deceive
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yourselves, so He turned to you (accepted your repentance) and forgave
you. So now have sexual relations with them and seek that which Allaah
has ordained for you (offspring), and eat and drink until the white thread
(light) of dawn appears to you distinct from the black thread (darkness
of night), then complete your Sawm (fast) till the nightfall”[al-Baqarah
2:187]
This verse clearly states that it is permissible to eat, drink and have
intercourse during the nights of Ramadan until dawn.
*After having intercourse it is obligatory to do ghusl, then pray Fajr.

*Wet dream and semen discharge in Ramadan: Having a wet

dream during the daytime of Ramadan does not affect the validity of
fasting because the pen of recording deeds is lifted from the sleeping
person; i.e. he is not held accountable for his deeds because he has no
way to avert what he encounters during his sleep.

However, he should make ghusl once the time of the prayer comes,
based on the words of Allah, the Almighty, (what means): {Do not
approach prayer while you are in a state of janabah [state of major ritual
impurity] until you have washed [your whole body].} [Quran 4:43]

*If semen comes out intentionally through masturbation, kissing, or

lustful contact (with the wife), fasting is invalidated and one must make
up for that day (Kaffarah)

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Similarly, if the discharge of semen results from looking repeatedly (at
what arouses the desire), it invalidates fasting according to the
predominant opinion in the sight of some scholars.

If the discharge of semen results from having arousing thoughts only, it

does not invalidate fasting. The evidence is the statement of the
Messenger of Allah , who said, “Verily, Allah has forgiven the people of
my Ummah (community) the evil thoughts which occur to their minds as
long as they do not execute them or speak of them.” [Al-Bukhaari and
Muslim]

*Woman’s period in Ramadan: If a woman gets her period while

fasting, her fast is spoiled, even if the blood comes a moment before
sunset, and she has to make that up if it was an obligatory fast. It is
haram for her to continue fasting when she is menstruating.

The ummah is unanimously agreed that it is haram for women who are
menstruating or bleeding following childbirth to fast and that their fast is
not valid… The ummah is also unanimously agreed that it is obligatory
for these women to make up missed Ramadaan fasts. Al-Tirmidhi,

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 # What is Islam

Islam is a pure Monotheistic religion which teaches:

*Worship the creator, not creations like humans, animals, nature and
natural elements like fire, trees, water, sun, moon, stars and inanimate
objects like stones, statutes, paintings, holy books, country or flags.
*As per Islam, Allah (Name of GOD) created us and gave us shape and
structure but we humans cannot create God and give shape and structure
to GOD in the form of statutes, idols or paintings; who is unseen…
*Allah (Name of GOD) is only ONE (not 3,5,10 or 330 million etc.)
*Allah (Name of GOD) is Unseen (no one knows the shape and color
and size and structure)
*Allah (Name of GOD) is ETERNAL (never born and never dies)
*Allah (Name of GOD) has no parents, nor wife and no children like
human beings and animals.
*Allah (Name of GOD) is not human, or animal, or inanimate objects
like stones, paintings or statues, or nature or natural elements like fire,
trees, air, water, land etc.
*Islam is the oldest religion, Muhammad (Peace be upon Him) is the last
messenger and Qur’an is a last religious book revealed by ALLAH
(Name of GOD) for the guidance of human kind.
*Islam has 5 pillars: Tauheed (Belief in ONE creator), Salah (Namaz),
Saum (Roza), Zakat (Charity) and Hajj (Pilgrimage)
*Islam is what is mentioned in Quran and Hadees (Teachings of Prophet
Muhamamd-Peace be upon HIM), there is no place for personal opinion
like other religion
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 #Guidance from Quran
*Life is SACRED: (Quran chapter 6:151)
*Women- No forceful marriage and harshness: (Quran chapter 4:19)
*Peace with enemy: (Quran chapter 8: 61)
*Tolerance and Forgiveness in Islam: (Quran Chapter 7:199)
*Killing Innocent is as if he slew the whole Mankind: (Quran 5:32)
*Suicide is Prohibited: (Quran 4:29)
*Stand out firmly for justice: (Quran 4:135)
*Restrain Anger: (Quran 3:134)
*Do not be rude in speech: (Quran 3:159)
*Do not laugh at others: (Quran 49:11)
*No Corruption and Bribery: (Quran 2:188)
*Women also have the right for inheritance: (Quran 4:7)
*Order righteousness to people and also practice it yourself (Quran 2:44)
*Do not commit abuse on the earth: (Quran 2:60)
*Fight only with those who fight you: (Quran 2:190)
*Peace with enemy: (Quran chapter 8: 61)
*Kind and Just towards Non Muslims: (Quran 60:8)
*Fight in the cause of Allah for weak and oppressed: (Quran 4:75)
*Be dutiful and do not say a word of disrespect to parents (Quran 17:23)
*Judge with justice between people: (Quran 4:58)
*Charity to people who do not beg: (Quran 2:273)
*Do not kill children for fear of poverty: (Quran 17:31)

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*Charity for doing (mixing) good deeds and bad deeds together: (Quran
9:102-104)
*Kind word with forgiveness is better than almsgiving (Quran 2:263
*Walk with Humility: Quran (25:63)

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