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12 Laws of Rich People That Will Change Your Life
12 Laws of Rich People That Will Change Your Life
12 Laws of Rich People That Will Change Your Life
Upon reading the article’s title, you may feel a bit indignant. Some of you may have an internal
(or even external!) monologue going something like this: “What?! Rich people? Follow a set
of laws?” “I follow laws, too, but I’m not rich!” “Looking at things, it would seem that the rich
don’t follow any laws!”
All of these sentiments are understandable and even justifiable in certain circumstances.
We all know how well that turned out. Oh, and the American people ended up footing the bill
for a multi-billion-dollar “bailout.”
But, contrary to what many think, the rich don’t have any particular advantage that expedites
their rise to the upper echelons of the income bracket. At least in the beginning.
Per Wikipedia, the five richest people in the United States are:
Jeff Bezos, founder and CEO of Amazon
Any guesses as to how many of these men were born into wealth? Zero.
In fact, Bezos and Ellison had to navigate turbulent childhoods. Bezos’ father abandoned the
family (his last name is taken from his stepfather) while Ellison was raised by foster parents.
Nope. What sets the wealthy apart is the rules that many of them self-devise and painstakingly
follow.
“Okay, but what about the rest of the rest of them?” you may be asking. According to the late
Thomas Stanley, Ph.D. and author of The Millionaire Next Door, 80 percent of America’s
millionaires are first-generation affluent.
In other words, eight out of every ten high-net-worth individuals are self-made.
Surprising, right? The way that the mainstream media demonizes the rich, you’d think that the
only reason they “made it” was because of some plush trust fund stashed away at some
megabank.
As you’ll see by reading the 12 rules that rich people follow, nothing could be further from the
truth! If you’re willing to adhere to the following twelve rules of rich people, you too may see
your finances change for the better!
Without further ado, here are the 12 laws of rich people that will change your life.
LAW #1: RICH PEOPLE CREATE AND FOLLOW GOOD DAILY HABITS.
Habits are formed in the basal ganglia, a mass in the brain the size of a golf ball that serves as
our “emotional center.” Once habits are programmed into the neurons of the basal ganglia, they
can be difficult to unlearn. Worse, our conscious mind often does not “catch” the undesired
habit surfacing; even if it does, odds are that we’d just carry on as usual.
So, how do you form good habits? First, you must recognize the subconscious behaviors that
are making your financial life difficult. You must be brutally honest here. Get a notepad and
write out every expense for a week. Where are you wasting money?
LAW #2: RICH PEOPLE ARE HEALTHY.
From how long they watch television to how often they call Mom, rich people commit to a
non-negotiable plan of action. In other words, rich people have good, healthy daily habits and
ruthlessly stick to them.
Of course, rich habits aren’t limited to just financial. Put in place a workable diet, exercise, and
a proper sleep regimen – and stick to it. You’ll have more energy and motivation.
Remember: habits shape behavior, but behavior can also shape habits.
They can blow money without thinking twice. But for the average rich person (defined by
having nearly $4 million in assets), wasting money on the frivolous is foolhardy.
So, how do you get rich if a job won’t make you rich? Savings and investment. You make your
money work for you by figuring out the places that will reap the highest returns and putting
your money in those places.
Perhaps most telling? Just 11 percent of the rich read for entertainment purposes.
LAW #6: RICH PEOPLE ARE EVEN-KEELED.
Rich people realize the importance of developing and maintaining relationships – even with
those they don’t necessarily like. An attribute that helps people in this regard is the ability
to manage emotions. In one study, researchers said that 94 percent of rich participants reported
having a good handle on their emotions.
For people whose financial house is a bit messier, a paltry 31 percent reported having the same.
How do you manage your emotions? Begin with noticing the word manage here. What does
management entail? Among other things, measurement, observation, and supervision.
Managing your emotions is about observing, labeling, and watching them come and go. Notice
that there’s nothing in that definition about attempting to suppress emotions.
LAW #7: RICH PEOPLE AVOID PROCRASTINATION.
Procrastination is a dream killer. If you don’t get a handle on the near-universal urge to put
things off continually, you probably won’t succeed at much of anything.
Four strategies that the rich use to avoid procrastination include:
The particular kind of listening that the rich practice is called active listening.
Active listening can be defined as “a (listening) technique … that requires the listener to fully
concentrate, understand, respond and then remember what is being said.”
LAW #9: RICH PEOPLE DON’T RELY ON LUCK.
When it comes to financial success, luck is rarely the catalyst. Aside from those who win the
lottery or are born into wealthy – a very small minority – those who’ve become rich have done
so with not luck, but skill.
Now, perhaps the rich person has caught some lucky breaks, but this is different than relying
on luck. Or blaming the absence of luck for one’s financial failures.
The famous author Coleman Cox said it perfectly: “I am a great believer in luck. The harder I
work, the more of it I seem to have.”
To start with nothing and build up wealth takes tremendous discipline, focus, and persistence.
In other words, the rich are mentally tough.
That said, let’s dispel some myths about what exactly constitutes mental toughness. Mental
toughness is not bullying. In fact, there is nothing interpersonal about mental toughness.
Instead, mental toughness is about accounting for and overcoming your own mental
weaknesses. If you can somehow accomplish this seemingly Herculean task, the world is your
oyster, as they say.
Here are a few steps that you can take to help you find your purpose:
1. Make a list by writing down everything that has ever made you happy.
2. Circle those things from step 1 that involve skill and then identify that skill(s).
3. Order the circled items from #1 to #10 in terms of what makes you happiest.
4. Order the circled items from #1 t2o #10 in terms of income potential.
5. Total the columns. The one with the highest score may possibly identify your life’s purpose.
FINAL THOUGHTS: BECOMING RICH
REMEMBER: Being rich within is the very first step of being rich in any area of your
life…
If accumulating wealth is a priority, you’d do well to follow the twelve research-backed habits
of the rich. Even if you don’t become rich, you may just acquire the most valuable possession
of all: a good character.