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7 Principles of Life Change For Sharing
7 Principles of Life Change For Sharing
Islamic counseling has its roots embedded in the psychosocial discourses and behaviors
as practiced by the Prophet and his Asahabah (Companions). But this researcher would
still point to the heart of this matter, the Quran, and especially a Surah (chapter) essential
to the Islamic view of life’s purpose, serving Allah, Worship, and Surah Al Asr, is the
K.A.S.M learning Theory is based upon the four tenets found in this Surah.
The proof for this therapy springs from the light of the chapter of the Quran titled Al Asr,
the Declining Day (Surah, 103). In the chapter titled, Al Asr , Allah (s) has sent a four
step formula so important; we believe unless we live according to these systematic four
By (the Token of) Time (through the ages), Verily all Man is in loss, except such as have
Faith, and do righteous deeds, and (join together) in the mutual teaching of Truth, and of
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See KASM Change paper: the above Islamic model details seven phases, which are seven
competing responses to addiction, anger, toxic thinking, and behaviors leading to recovery and
habit change. This 7 Phase – Life Change for Sharing and Maintaining KASM in Recovery is
consistent and can be interwoven with psychoeducational treatments. For example, it can be easily
adapted to desensitization, family therapy, or substance use disorder. like the, Prochaska, Di
Clementi Model; thus consumers can take spiritual actions of change and habit reversal along the
treatment cycle. These consumers adopted faith activities can even form measures of successful
progress helping the clinician in managing the treatment and recovery process, assessment, and
clinical care.
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Patience and Constancy (Q. 103). Knowledge (Iman) Action Good Works (Islam )
enjoining Perseverance (Tawassaw Bis Sabri ) From the work of the eminent Shaykh of
Explanation of the Three Fundamentals, we extract that there are four tenets contained in
1. Knowledge
1. Knowledge
2. Action
3. Sharing
4. Maintenance
By comparison it should be apparent that KASM Therapy is a direct extraction from the
The Eminent Shaykh of Islam, Ibn Qayyim Al Jawziyah, has related that the four stages
contained in Al Asr constitutes a struggle against the self, and its desires. This struggle is
one of enjoining right and forbidding wrong, and is the rectification of the individual to
the Islamic life style or Deen. It is the pursuit of knowledge, acting and calling to it and
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perseverance in these pursuits. The need for KASM therapy is evidenced by the fact that
alcoholism, substance abuse and gambling are scourges of our society, and regrettably
many Muslims are adversely affected by medicine resistant chronic severe mental
illnesses. A stratagem of success is to study what made others who have come before us
successful. We have a model of success in the age of the Prophet Muhammad (s) and his
companions may Allah be pleased with them. They were a successful generation, and a
blessed one. The majority maybe as high as 95% abstained from substance abuse and
based in the divine life coping strategies that our Lord gave to mankind.
relates that, “Al-Owasi (2001) underscores the importance of associating spirituality and
counseling because the Holy Quran encourages Muslims to feel security, safety, peace,
Allah (SWT) and plants in the individual optimism and confidence in the Creator as also
in the self, and the sense to avoid everything that is not beneficial to the self. The above
views highlight the importance of Islamic traditions and values and the roles of the
The above views highlight the importance of Islamic traditions and values and the roles
of the Muslim counselor and client. “ Consequently, Inayat (2001) underlines the
significance of applying Islamic principles and traditions in aggregation with the Holy
Quran and the Prophet’s (s) spiritual teachings. Al-Malki (2004) considers spiritual
counseling in Islam works as a platform and foundation for facilitating supportive client
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change in accordance with values they already are familiar with and hold in high esteem
(Al-Thani, 2012). Altareb (1996) states that when non-Muslim psychotherapists are at
work with Muslim consumers the client should feel free to share their spiritual issues in
an environment of acceptance. Saleh (1987) put emphasis on the need for Muslim clients
difficulties within an Islamic framework. Family values and mores are critical in
fundamentals of Islam, that is the Quran and Sunnah which form the cannons of Islamic
2005).
“O Allah I seek refuge with you from cowardice and I seek refuge with you from being
As narrated in Sahih Muslim (4293/1081) the Prophet (upon whom be peace) was
approached by a mentally ill woman who wanted solace from the Prophet and
someone to speak to. The Prophet (upon whom be peace) said to her, “O mother of
so n’ so, I am at your service, just choose where you’d like to talk,” and then he
proceeded with her to the side of the path where they would not be overheard and
And indeed in the Messenger of Allah you have the perfect example.” (Qur’an 33:21)
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The empathy and concern in this hadith hints that we too should have compassion
Fadalah bin 'Ubaid (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: When Messenger of
Allah ( )ﷺled Salat, some people would fall down from their standing posture out
of extreme hunger. They were of the people of As-Suffah. The nomad Arabs
would say that they were insane. After concluding Salat, Messenger of Allah ()ﷺ
would turn to them and say, "If you were to know what is in store for you with
Allah, the Exalted, you would wish to augment your starvation and lack of
Abu Sa'id and abu Huraira reported that they heard Allah's Messenger ( )ﷺas
even with mental worry that his sins are not expiated for him.أَبي ْبنُ بَ ْكر أَبُو َحدَّثَنَا
َ ُ أ، بْن ْال َوليد َعن، طاء بْن َع ْمرو بْن ُم َح َّمد َع ْن كَثير
َ ، سا َمةَ أَبُو َحدَّثَنَا قَالَ ُك َريْب َوأَبُو
َش ْيبَة َ َع، طاء َع ْن
َ ع
َ
Muslim 2573 In-book reference: Book 45, Hadith 66USC-MSA web (English)
The counselor should be able to fulfill the provision of services competently in a manner
that respects and benefits families, especially in the Marriage and Family Therapeutic
(MFT) context of service delivery. this is part of the Islamic family counseling process.
Therefore, to improve the quality of their service, counselors should collaborate and get
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counselors should be conscious of their own perceptions, stereotypes and beliefs about
Islam and Muslims. We have then goal of decreasing mental illness and the development
of Islamic wellness. Here is a guide that counselors can use to motivate change and
transformation. These 7 principles super charge counselors and clients toward change and
1. Sincere Intention – (Niyah) is always necessary before any action since it prepares
consumers and motivates, all actions are by intentions. Ultimately this journey is
2. Cessation – (Imsak) a contract is formed by the consumer to stop using and whatever
harms should be removed to not activate triggers. Here we use avoidance and
3. Atonement – (Tauba) helps in making amends and removing anxiety, guilt, and
4. Purification – (Taharah) means we not only remove forbidden toxic substances, but
also distorted thinking, acting, and avoid fatal and toxic situations, and events. The
should really take advantage of the trust level, since consumers realize you are not
just a counselor but also a faith based super charged change agent that respects and
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6. Meditation – (Dhikr) is taught to help consumers’ battle ambivalence assist
contemplation of the problem and prepare to functionally analyze past events and
situations.
7. Networking – (Al Jamah) reaching out to link up with, family, friends visiting and
and groups. These activities are ingrained in the consumer’s regular life cycle as a
believer, just like any other he does not have to go toward methods and values
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References
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Moracco, J. C. (1978) ‘Counseling: A View from the Middle East International Journal
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Saleh, M. A. (1987) ‘Guidance and Counseling in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia’,
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