Julien Manifesto

Opening
 Opening is the least important part of the game
 Three rules when opening
 1. Lower your time of reaction
 2. Instead of calibrating before, start calibrating after the fact
 3. Set the frames of the interaction from the start (man to woman)
 Physicality
 Strong eye contact
 Breaking rapport tonality
 Be clear in your intent: thoughts, words and actions aligned
 Comfort is having no filters
 Be yourself, but don’t worry about the outcome

Hooking
 After opening, your objective is to reach the hook point
 Indicator: anime eyes
 Sometimes set will automatically hook after your opener, other times you
need to plow
 You want the girl, but you don’t need the girl
 Set the rhythm of the interaction: you want her to be reacting to you
 First 3-5min: short, breaking rapport: Hey, what’s your name, cool, what do
you, etc., come here, boom (you talk 90% of the time)
 Get close, in her face
 Be the cause, not the effect (poke her in the stomach randomly)
 Be the buyer, not the seller

Vibing
 Once hooked (see anime eyes), then turn it to a normal conversation, you talk
50%, she talks 50%
 Give her the opportunity to talk back (contrasted with above)
 Get to know her as a human being
 Build a bubble with just you and her, isolate, turn her away from her friends
 Bounce her around (lets go outside, lets go talk to my friends, etc.)
 Roleplay (“hey, this is my gf, this is my sister---makeout!”)
 Get her to emotionally invest (“You can go if you want to…”)

What Next?
 Find out the logistics
 1. Who are you here with?
 2. What are you doing tomorrow?
 3. Where do you live?

Timeline
 First 2 hours: shorter sets, less investment/commitment, joking around
  It’s all about me
 Warm up, get in the social zone, screw around, pranks, be loud, no
pressure, bounce around
 Get numbers, build leads
 First ask 3 logistic questions (find out who’s DTF)
 “We’re hanging out later…what’s my name?...cool…we’re hanging out
later” repeatedly
 If can’t hang out later, then suggest Day 2: “have coffee with me
tomorrow” (hammer out the logistics in person)
 Text her next day, “what are you doing tonight?”
 Later that night, can text these leads
 Last 2 hours: longer sets, more investment/commitment, pulls
 Determine the girl you’re going to pull and commit for the SNL (could be
one of the leads from before, could be a new girl)
 Set will be 45min-1.5hrs: open, hook, vibe, then pull
 Establish logistics for her to go home with you: “Hey, afterparty, let’s go!”
 Take responsibility, give her bits and pieces to rationalize why it’s ok