SOLACE AROUND TOXICITY

BY:ANGELI VIA LOZANO

What is the real essence of having inner peace in one’s life?Is it necessary in a person?Is it
something a human being must have?Is it a kind of thing which transients?There are many
questions regarding in this topic.In all of these,which one is the most important question should be
answered?

According to Wikipedia,inner peace refers to a deliberate state of psychological or spiritual calm

despite the potential presence of stressors. It means whatever kind of distress we experience,it will
hardly disturbs our calmness in things if we have inner peace.It shows how the state of our inner
peace can affect the way we live our lives.This leads us to the conclusion having inner peace is
really important in us.It helps us how we are going to do things in great purpose.This will also
determines our character as a human being.

Inner peace is innate in us,yet most of the times it is disturbed by some circumstances.For
example,a person has spread rumors about you.When you entertain those kind of behavior,it can
affect your inner peace.It can lead you for not having inner peace at all when you entertain the
negativity you are being aware of.Until you will be at the point being disturbed by all
circumstances you are facing.It’s not good for your mental,emotional,spiritual even in physical
health.

This kind of peace is important.It gives us direction in our lives.People will always try to ruin this
peace which is innate in us but we have the power to fight it.We have the power not anyone else
to destroy our inner peace even all they know is to give us negativity in life.The most effective
way to not let them snatch your inner peace is,don’t be invoved in these kind of people.If it is
necessary to stay away from them do it.Our inner peace is more important than anything else for
it is rare to find.

Never let anyone or anything disturbs your peace.It is one of the great powers a person have.Use
it how it should be use.It helps how we will direct our lives.It help us to see our greatest
potential.When we have inner peace,we can see the greatest things life has been offering to us.
Commitment in Love

Some of us wants a relationship to love and to be loved but the question is are We ready to open
up ourselves to someone ? are we ready to be committed to someone ? I know that it is hard to
give a valid answer.

When we say commitment there is a lot of things that comes into our mind because some of us has
trust issues to deal with it.Fear of commitment is the avoidance of long term partnership.The
concept is often much more parvasive,affecting school,Home life, and social life as
well.Sometimes our biggest problem when it comes to relationship is our own expectations, Our
unrealistic expectations lead us to commitment issues.There is a lot of reasons why being
committed to someone is not easy.

To love somebody isn’t just a strong feeling.It’s a decision,a judgement,and a promise.You have
choices whether it is your commitment or your fear.
Deciding for the Future Career

Career is the job or profession that someone does for a long period of their life. It is an important
aspect of any person’s life. It will determine the lifestyle of a person that will lead her/his to have
a good future. Are you having a hard time on deciding what you’ll be your future career? Then
you need to think and decide well.

For some people, deciding for their future career is easy. While everyone is not able to build a
strong career that can ensure the same. It will take a lot of time to decide for the future career. So
decide well. You must learn about yourself. You must choose the career that you really want.
Don’t mind the salary that you will get. Don’t mind the opinion of others. Don’t mind the what
if’s. Because at the end of the day, you will realize if you are really happy to your chosen career
or not. What really matters is that you enjoy, you love and you are happy to your career that you
will not regret it.Settling for the future career that you desire will keep you from experiencing
disappointment when job hunting.

It will be challenging. We must be really cautious. We need to take time and explore more. We
must not enter a career just because our parents want us to take or because our friend just taken it
up. We should listen to our heart, we should follow it. Because our heart knows what we really
love and like. We should understand what really interests us for us to be contented to our career
someday.