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Forgiveness
Forgiveness
Bible
The Bible has plenty to say about forgiveness. ... The Greek word translated as “forgive” in the New
Testament, aphiēmi, carried a wide range of meanings, including to remit (a debt), to leave
(something or someone) alone, to allow (an action), to leave, to send away, to desert or abandon, and
even to divorce.
8 Reason To Forgive
4.To be of assistance, within reason, toward the one who acted unjustly. Forgiveness extends the hand
of friendship even though the other may reject this.
5.To help me to assist other family members to see that forgiveness is a path to peace. Forgiveness for
peace, in other words, can be passed through the generations.
7.To help me to more consistently live out my own philosophy of life or faith tradition if that worldview
honors forgiveness.
8.To exercise goodness as an end in and of itself regardless of how others react to my offer of forgiving.
When we find it difficult to forgive, often it is because we are not living in the present, and instead, we
assign more importance to the past. We assign a good portion of our energy and attention lamenting
the good old days that are gone forever as the reason why we can’t be happy and fulfilled today.
“Everything has changed,” “No one respects anyone else like they used to…” This is assigning
responsibility to the past for why you can’t be happy today.
Don’t Go to Sleep Angry
Each night as I drift off to sleep, I adamantly refuse to use this precious time to review anything that I do
not want to be reinforced in the hours of being immersed in my subconscious mind. I choose to impress
upon my subconscious mind my conception of myself as a Divine creator in alignment with the one
mind. I reiterate my I ams, which I have placed in my imagination, and I remember that my slumber will
be dominated by my last waking concept of myself. I am peaceful, I am content, I am love, and I attract
only to myself those who are in alignment with my highest ideals of myself.
Your past history and all of your hurts are no longer here in your physical reality. Don’t allow them to be
here in your mind, muddying your present moments. Your life is like a play with several acts. Some of
the characters who enter have short roles to play, others, much larger. Some are villains and others are
good guys. But all of them are necessary, otherwise they wouldn’t be in the play.Embrace them all, and
move on to the next act.
Rather than attempting to dominate with your forcefulness, be like water: flow everywhere there’s an
opening. Soften your hard edges by being more tolerant of contrary opinions. Interfere less, and
substitute listening for directing and telling. When someone offers you their viewpoint, try responding
with: “I’ve never considered that before—thank you. I’ll give it some thought.”
Practice Giving
Be a giver of forgiveness as he teaches: Bring love to hate, light to darkness, and pardon to injury. Read
these words daily, for they’ll help you overcome your ego’s demands and know the fullness of life.
When you stop judging and simply become an observer, you will know inner peace. With that sense of
inner peace, you’ll find yourself happier and free of the negative energy of resentment. A bonus is that
you’ll find that others are much more attracted to you. A peaceful person attracts peaceful energy.
If you take responsibility for having the experience, then at least you have a chance to also take
responsibility for removing it or learning from it. If you’re in some small (perhaps unknown) way
responsible for that migraine headache or that depressed feeling, then you can go to work to remove it
or discover what its message is for you. If, on the other hand, someone or something else is responsible
in your mind, then of course you’ll have to wait until they change for you to get better. And that is
unlikely to occur. So you go home with nothing and are left with nothing when peace is really on the
other side of the coin.