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Visionary Leadership Skills Robert Dilts Meta Publications 1996 PDF
Visionary Leadership Skills Robert Dilts Meta Publications 1996 PDF
Leadership
Skills
Creating a World to
Which People Want
to Belong
Robert B. Dilts
Dedication
Contents
Thie book is dedicated with much love and respect to
Gino Bonissone Dedication ..
i1
who has taught me as much about life as he has about Acknowledgments vii
leadership. Preface ix
Defining Leadership
The Problem Space of Leadership
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Moving From Vision to Action
Exercise: Vision Into Action
Effective Leadership and Internal States
Creating an Aligned Stat*
Level Alignment Process
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thereof may not be reproduced in any form without written Ca-Alignment of Levels
permission of the FubIiaher. Level Alignment Worksheet
iii
An lllustrntion of Different Levels of Rocess
as Applied to Organizational Development 67
Communicnhon and Relational Skills
A Framework for Effective 'Path Finding' 72
in Leadersh~p
'Culture' Versus *Cult'-
The Communication Matrix
Defining the Organization 78
hlonitonng Internal States
Aligning the Members of an Organization 84
Managing Meta Mefisages
Pacing and Leading
Representational Channels and
Turning Dreams Into Reality Thinking Styles
D~eamer,Realist and Critic Basic Perceptual Positions in
Physiology and Creativity Communication and Relationships
Implementing the Creative Cycle The Skill of Meta Communication
The Disney Planning Strategy Practicing Effective Communication Skills
Thinking Styles in Leadership
and Problem Solving
Addressing Diffesent Thinking Styles
Influence of Different Lendemhip Styles 200
Balancing 'Ibnking Styles in a Group
Situational Leadership 202
Transf~nnationalLeadership 206
Leadership Style Assessment Sheet 212
The M u e n c e of Belief Spterns in Levels of Change and Leadership Styles 215
Organ~zationaand Social Systems Exploring and Expanding Leadership Styles 217
The Motivational Space of Change
Assessing Motivation for Change
Belief Assessment Sheet
A New Paradigm for Learning and Leadership 220
Bolstering Beliefs
The Parable of the Porpoise 222
Basic mes of Causes
Levels of Learning 226
Finding a System of Causes
Context and Presuppositions 230
Through 'Connectives'
Culture and Teaming 11' 233
The BeliefAudit - Strengthening
Implications of the Parable of the Porpoise
Motivation for a Vision o r Goal
for Leadership 235
3eIief Audit' Worksheet
Applying the Parable of the Porpoise 237
Auditing a Belief From a
Different Perspective
The Principle of 'Positive Intention'
Acknowledgments
1 would like to acknuwldge:
G i w Bonissone and Ivnnna Gasperini for their support
and mentoring in my growth as a leader and as a person.
The late Todd Epetein who participated in bringing so
many of my visions into reality.
The late David Gaster who introduced me to the notion of
Visionary leadership", the magic of the word "missionn and
the wisdom of Gilles Pajou.
Joe Yeager, who helped me to recognize the contributions
NLP could make in the area of business and organization,
and who formulated the Wow to, Want to, Chance to" model.
Steve h o l d , who gave me the opportunity to explore the
value of different media in teaching the skills of leadership.
Steve Pile who helped to widen my map of leadership.
Gregory Bateson and Bernard B a n for their wisdom and
brilliance in understanding the write& of lendership.
John Grinder and Richard Bandler for originating the
methodology and approach upon which this work is based.
Ami Sattinger and Michele h u s h who helped with the
proof reading and editing of this boak Their commitment to
excellence, and their deep desire for congruence has helped
me to be a better writer.
The leaders involved in my study of leadership:
Gilles Pajou who provided both inspiration and examples
of visionary leadership.
Andy Just who contributed editorial comments as well as
serving as one of the models in my study.
Giovanni Testa who has continued to support the mission
t.hat this book represents for so many years.
Ginafranco Gnmbigliani who provided focus and s u p p d
for the vision behind this work
vii
Preface
In 1988 n vision began to germinate within me about an
extensive study of leadership skins based on the principles
and distinctions of Neuro-Linyistic Programming.The study
would include interviews and interactions with top managers
in organizations throughout Europe and the United States.
At that time, the winds of change were blowing strongly
across the world. Western Eumpe was gearing up for "1992".
the EEC and the dream of a united Europe. Eastern Europe
was poised to undergo profound ideolodcal and economic
changes. These dramatic der-elopments were a reflection of
an emerging new model of the world that is still effecting our
whole planet. These developments have required not only a
new concept of people, groups and culture, but have also called
for a new set of slnlIs for communicating and interacting with
progressively larger v e t e m of people. T h ~book
s 1s both a result
and a reflection of those times and their continuing influence
It was during this period that I first met Gino Bonissone in
Rlilan. Gino was working as a consultant in the areas of
strategy formulation and organizational develapmenl. In
each other, we found a remarkable combination o f shared
interests and complementq skills. Through hme we were to
become each other's mentors, st.udent,s, colleagues and ulti-
mately co-developers with respect to the applicat,ions of KLP
to organizational leadership and change. The book Skills for
the Future is one product of our continuing colIaboration.
One of our first projects together was a study of effective
leadership skills, focused a t Fiat in Torino. This project,
proved to be a major contribution to my larger leadwship
study. The project Kas sponsored by Gianfranco Gnmbigliani
and Giwanni Testa at Isvor Fiat; two men who possessed a
brilliance, commitment and foresight that continues t o im-
presF mc to this day The companion volume to this book,
Mo$eE~ng Effective I ~ a d e r s h i pSkills, describes both the
process and results of that modehng project.
In May of 1989, my friend and fellow NLP trainer, the late Introduction
David Gaster, introduced me to Gilles Pajou, the CEO of the
French branch of the Swedish pharmaceut~cal company
Pharmacia. Gilles was to become one of the central figures of "Lendership is creating a world to tuhich people want
my larger leadership study, His wisdom and words (whlch to belong" - Gilles Pajou
have been quoted throughout t h ~ book! s embody many of the
key characteristics of leadership. In fact, i t is his definition of
leadership a s "creatcng a world to which people want to
At some point in our lives we have probably all felt. the
belong" (which serves as the title of this book) that, to me,
desire to "change the world" or to "make the world a better
rnrat filly captures the goal and spuit of visionary leadership.
In June of 1989, 1 began a project with S t w e Arnold of
place." This desire usually stems from a "vision" that our
Lives or our world could be enriched or improved in some way.
Lucasfilm involving a joint venture with Apple Computer to
Such visions of the future often provide guidance and direc-
create a design example of an interactive multimedia p m -
gram that would teach leadership, communicat~onand SF- tion for our lives and our work, furnishing the motivation
and impetus for chnnge. Visions that become shared by a
temic thinking skills to managers. The "commun~cat~on
number of people form the foundation of effective teamwork;
matrix" was the result of the attempt t o systematize some of
the skills and l n t u ~ t ~ o of
n sleaders for thip project. and visions that become shared by multitudee constitute the
basis for organization, culture and ultimately for the progress
Another key went in the evolution of the vlslon that this
book represents was the Pathways to Leadersh~pconference, of civilization.
This book examines some of the essential skills and tools
which 1 co-conducted mth my late partner, Todd Epstein, 1n
June of 1991. The Pathways to L e a d m h p cunferenn: was that are required to bring about change and "create a world
dedicated to p m m o h g the tmls of NLP as a means to "create a
Co which pcople want, to belong" - the skills and tools of
"visionary leadership". These skills involve self exploration
world to which people want to belong". Much of the workshop
and discovery as much as they involve interacting with
and conference preeentations focused on the applications of the
others. They relate to forming and clarifying one's own
different levels of change and leadership in organizations. In
dreams and ideas, sharing those ideas with others, trans-
addition to a workshop, the program involved presentahom
forming dreams into actions and engaging the help of others
from people who had been applying NLP in orgmzations and a
to bring dreams and ideas into reality.
syrnpasium of people who were leaders h m different fields.
hfany of the skills presented in thia book have been
While the substance of thts book is rooted in the study of
modeled from and/or inspired by effective leaders and man-
leadership in mganrzations m d companies, the applications
agers from around the world. They range fram planning and
of the skills described withn these pages are relevant t c
problem solving, to communicating effectively and eetablieh-
many situations. They can be nn invaluable resource f o ~
ing rapport,. Some of the topics to be covered include:
people interested or involved in group and organizational
work of any kind, including management, consulting, organi-
zational development, training, teaching, even parenting.
Reteasing natural leadership abilities through the iden-
tification of your vision and mission.
Developing and maintaining states of personal excel-
lence.
Chapter 1
Forming effective plans.
Recognizing and addressing different thinking styles.
* Understanding and managing beliefs and belief systems.
Enhancing personal effectiveness in communicating and What is
in managing others.
Exploring and enriching personal leadership stylee. Leadership?
Giving useful feedback.
Dealing with cultural presuppositions, organizational
ecology and other systemic issues.
Overview of Chapter 1
The most important aspect of developing Ieademhlp skills.
however, invoIves engagement and commitment. The activi- * Defining Leadership
ties presented in this b o k m e as important as the text.
While some of the exercises in the book are best done in The Problem Space of Leadership
conjunction w ~ t hothers, most of the exercises m e structured
so that you can explore them on your oran usmg a "fdl in the
* The Basic Skills of Leadership
blanks" approach. To get the most out of this book, however,
it 1s essential to do the exercises either on your o m or
together rmth others. "Creating a world" involves as much
action as it does vision.
The purpose of this bwk i s to define and explore some specific
Defining Leadership models, principles and skills that will allow you to be a more
successful leader, i.e., the "how to's" of effective leadership.
In defining what effective readership" is, it is important to
One of the most important sets of skills required in a distinguish between la) a 'leader," b) 'leadership* and (c)
changing world are the s k l l s of leadership. T h i s has become 'leading." The position of "leader" is a role in a particular
increasingIy evident ns we have nttempted to ndapt t o the system. A person in the formal role of a leader may or may
escalating changes in our socie* and workplaces over the not possess leadership skills and be capable of leading.
past century As we try to take command of our own destiny "Lxudership"is essentially related to a person's SLUE, abilities
and guide the destinies of our families, communities, organi- and degree of influence.A g o d deal of leadership can come from
zations and our planet, the necessity of effective leadership people who are not formal 'leaders." "Lmding" is the result of
ability has become increasingly obvious. Effective leadership using one's role and leadership ability to intluence others in
i s one ofthe ke>?i to our future Ruccess and ~urvivel. some nay.
But what is leadership, and who hns it.? Can you develop In its broadest sense, leadership can be defined as the
leadership ability, or 13 it something you must be born with? ohiliw to influence others toward the accomplishment of some
Some say leademhip has to be learned and earned. Others gwl. That is, a leader leads a collaborator or group of
say leadership is a gifc that cannot be taught. collaborators towards some end. In businesses and organiza-
Much of the literature on leadership focuses on "character- tions, leadership' is often contrasted with 'management'.
i.stics" of good leaders. These characteristicg, however, aTe Mnnngement is typically defined as "g~ttingthings done
often too general to be of much practical value to eomeone through others." In comparison, leadership is defined as,
trying to become a better leader. For instance, to say that " g e m ' n others
~ to do things." Thus, leadership is intimately
good leaderr; are "giRed optimist.^" or are "hnnest" and tied up with motivating and influencing others.
"inspiring" prmides little practical bnsis for specific skill In the emerging views of leadership, however, leaders do
development or improvement. These are typicatly judgments not have influence simply because they are 'bosses' or 'com-
about our behavior made by others. manders'. Rather, leadem are people who are committed to
Frquently, descriptions of effective leadership emphasize "creating a world to which people want to belong." This
what has been effective in a particular business, culture o r commitment demands a special set of models and abilities in
environment, However, the actions, style or cheracteri~tics order to effectively and ecologically manifest the visions
thnt make a leader "good" i n one cofitext may be ineffective which guide those committed to change. It involves commu-
or devastating in another. nicating, interacting and managing relationships within an
Some studies of leadership focus on the outcornee of organization, network or social system to move toward one's
effective leadership; pointing out that good leaders "create highest aspirations.
vision," "mobilize commitment," "recogmize needs," etc. How- Xicholls (1988) has pointed out that a fair amount of
ever, simply knowing about these goals is not enough. The confusion has arisen in leadership research because there
key to actually nchiwing them involves having the mental are three fundamentallv different perspectives of leadership.
and behavioral skills required to put them into practice. He defines these as Metn, Macro and Micro.
1. Meta Ieadershi~m a t e s a 'movement'in a broad general
direction !such as tiviI ri~hts,home computers, nr
The 'Problem Space' of Leadership
glasnostl. Meta leadership, "links indiuiduals, through
the leader's vision, to the cnuironment. i n doing so, it
releuses energy and creates enthusiastic follo~uers." Before identifj5ng some of the specific principles and skills
that accompany micro, macro and meta leadership, let's look
2. In Macro lettdership, 'the lender's mlc in creating o at some of the issues or 'problem space' those sldlls must
succennful organization is fulfilfill in truo luoys; path- address. The elements which make up a typical leadership
finding and culfum-building... Path-findin.g can be situation involve (a)a leader leading ib) others toward (c) a
summed up n s finding the way to n succes.9fuZ future. goal within rd) a system. Thus, the general 'problem space'
Culture-huilding can be viewed es drclwingpeople into and skills of leadership las perceived from the leader's
purposefil oi-ganizafion - one which is capable o f travel- perspective) involve managing the relationship between:
ing along the path that is found or of fully exploiting
current opportunities...lWucm leadership activity can in- 1. Oneself as a leader.
fluence indiuidzrols hy linking them to the entity - he it
the whole organiz~ltionor just a division, department or 2. The desired goal or outcome of the project or situation.
group. T h e Ieadpr influences the individual by supplying 3. The collaborators and others who influence and are
the subordinates with an.cwers lo such questiom as: influenced by oneself and the desired outcomes.
What is this o r p n i t n l i o n all about? W w r e do I fit in?
Hou! a m 1 valued and j u d ~ e d ?What is expected nf me? 4. The system in which one is operating with others in
W h y shvrald I commit m.yselfl In the process, the leader order t o reach the desired outcome.
c r e a t ~ scornmifted members o f the organization."
3. In contrast to both of these, Micro leadershio "ficuws on
the c h n i c ~ of lendership #style to crcnte ran eficient
ulorkin~gatrnosphre and obtain wiELing cooperntion in
getting the job done by acljusting one's s@le on the tr~tin
dim ens inn^ of task and relatioranhip behavior. Choicp of
Ieadership style deptlntls on the partisulnr subui-dinates
and the j o b l t ~ s khaing done; it i s , thus, situotionnl nnd
contingent...the lender directs people in urganizations in
the accomplishment of o specific ,job or task. I f the
Iender,~h.ipstyle is cosmc f ly ntt ltned, people perform
wilEiq1.v in an eficisnt working atmosphere."
"Creating a world t o which people want to belong" involve
-
a miature of all three different types of leadership ability ts The General 'Problem Space' of Leadership
some degree.
On a 'macro'lwel, leadership involves considering (a) one's
AE Nicholls pointed out, however, the types of issues
role within (b)an organizational structure and with respect
relating to this general 'problem space' of leadershp will
to (c) the pmferrsional cuIture in which one is participating in
vrtry depending on whether one is engaged in mete, macm or
order to define and pursue (d) the necessary path of objec-
micro leadership.
tives.
On a h e t a ' level, for instance, leadership involves cons~d-
In the late 1980is, for instance, John Scully, acting within
ering (a) one's mission with rcspect to bl the larger globaI or
his role ns president and CEO ofApple Computer, worked t n
overall system one is s e m n g and icl the community within
create innovations in h s company's organizational structure
which one 1s operating in relation to id) the g w d i n ~rqslon
in order ta develop and support the emerging 'high tech'
that directs that system and community.
culture of the compnny. This allowed the company to pursue
For example, Mohandas Gandhi expressed his spiritual
a path leading to the atable incremental gmwth of the
mission to manifest what he called the 'soul force' in relation
Macintosh computer m the personal computer marketplace.
to the B n t i ~ hand Lndian cornmunit~eswithin the turndtu-
ous a n d war-torn world of the first half of the 20th century.
He emboched his mission through his campaign for non-
violent resistance in the emi ice of the vision of a free and
Structure
united India.
Computer System
/
Rde Self Goal Pam
e.g., GandhE$
cninpaigrr for
non-ciolence Others
Cutture
Mlssion Self Goal Vision
.
e . ~ . Creutiuib
, and Context
Individual
Specific
skills
New idcox
and innovation*
Perceptual Fllters
Of Others
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mw 10 am's mn
p m n a l na!oy
I vi!h rasp&
h tleir
mlr of cultural
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mswt to me
Maw -.nhwy
saaumprhns and
prssuwlllona
Leadership Issues Related to Goals
P~CUlar
p-copNaI flnm
Collaborators and others may be understmi with respPd to: Micm
* thinking otyler
* M i e i s and vahna
a) The larger community of which they are members
b) The professional or organizational culture to which
they belong.
F) The particular perceptus1 filters and thinking styleg Leadership Issues Related t o 'Others'
they employ
Finally, the leader needs to view the s.ystern in terms of. In summary, effective leadership involves:
a) The h g w 9- of people and m ~ n kwhich surmund and
influence the organization as well as its goals and needs. I) Considering the health and ecology of the larger SJTS-
terns of which the leader is a member.
bl The organizational structure which determines the
general purpose and constraints for tasks and projects. 2) Managing the balance of relationships and tasks i n the
achievement of organizational outcomes within a larger
c) The specific situation that establishes the physical
system
and relational conditions within which tasks and
aperations are to be implemented. 3).Managing tasks and projects, through effective plan-
ning and the adjustment of leadership style.
My own work, for example. involves doing trainlug pro-
grams in many different parts of the world. To be effective,I
not only need to take Into account the different rooms and
environments in which T am leading a particular seminar, I
muat also often make adjustments in order to meet the needs
of different organizational structures. Beyond that, I need to
consider the influence of different events and cultures occurring
within the various parts of the world in which I am teach%.
pemived in
t e n s of
I
Sunuundlngglobs1
nehvork of people
and avnnls
sp!dfkFOfdBdS
Micro a n d situettons
Mhws
Mmsteries of Leadership
m e r e ? When? Oppo~n~l-
Levels of Leadership
Moving From Vision to Action Exercise: Vision Into Action
W7mt I see way off is tw nebuluus to describe. But it
'She typical path of change in intellrgent orgonizations
looks big andgliltering. -WaIt Disney (1941)
involves m h n g from the level of vision to that of action.
Meta, macro and micro leadership ability is required to Part I. Creating a Vision
stimulate and manage the various processes that make up
the pathway between vision and action. 1. Put yourself in n relaxed and open state in which you
Meta leaderehip provides inspiration and motivation by can feel fully yourself.
forming the vision into a misslon and creating community
2. With your eyes closed, create a space for Yision'in your
w i t h a system. Macro leadership creates the strategy for mind's eye. Imagine a vast inner 'landscape'. Notice
manifesting the vlsion and mission by defining the values, where the horizon of your inner landscape is.
culture and path for reaching the desired state. Micro leader-
Also notice the 'point of convergence' or 'vanishing point'
ship supplies the structure t o make the culture and path
concrete through specific tasks and relationships related to your focus vrit.h respect to the inner landscape.
Note how far from the tip of your nage this vanishing point.
appears to be. Is it one meter? 10 meters?A kilometer7
1 Vision 1
- Horizon
Diierent Types of Processes and Leadership Ability Extend the point of con>-ergenceuntil it is farther away.
are Involved in the Movement From Vision to Action Lf you need to, you can lower your horizon. Flnd a
vanishing point that represents the rest of your life.
Then, extend your focus far beyond that point. A s you
The fonowing exercise provides a way to combine both do, lengthen $.our spine and lift your head slightly.
systemic thinking and strategic thinking in order to create a Imagine a sunrise breahng over the horizon. Feel what
vision and then define a path leading from that vision to the it is like to experience the dawning of a new day. Lct the
actions that will concretely embody it. feeling of hope and bellef in the future emergc.
From this state ask yourself the question, W h a t is my '7. h a g i n e that you are physically moving forward and
vision?" Let the images and word9 of your answer form associating into that point i n the future and the context
out o f your feehng and the light c o w from the sunrisc. it repreaents, Ask yourself the question. "When and
where will I complete this next step?"
3. Bring pnur attention and focus back to the point repre-
senting the rest of your life, maintaining the awareness
of the sunrise and the feeling associated with your Part U. Defining Your Path
vision, Consider what needs to be done in that time
frame in order to move towards the vi~ion.Ask yourself Complete the answers in the spaces beneath each of the
the questions, "What is my mission with respect to that following questions in order to define the connecting links
\ision?" m a t is my role and identity with respect to between the various levels of processes that you have been
the larger system associated with that vision?" 'What is expIoring. These links will form the path between your
a symbol o r metaphor for that role and mission?" vision and the actions necessary to manifest that vision.
4. Focus your attention on your body and the feelings and
1.V h a t is your vision with respect to the larger system or
emotions associated with your sense of vision and mig-
community in which you me operating?"
sion - especially those that draw you toward them. Fee1
the sense of motivation, inspiration and excitement, that
MylOur vision is t o
you have about the future. Imagine that you could give
your heart a 'voice' no that these feelings could be put
into words. Ask yourself, "What values nre expressed
and represented by my vision and mission?" "Wl~at
2. %at is your identity or role with respect to your vision
beliefs are anemiated with my \ision and mission?"
and the system or community to which you belong?"
5. Shift your attention to your spine and chest. Lengthen
your spine and open your chest. so you can breathe more W h o are you or do you want to be in relation to the
fully and freely. Feel a sense of physical energy and manifestation of your vision?" (Try using a metaphor or
strenglh in your body. Ask yourself the question, T h a t symbol to answer this question.)
capabilities do I have, o r need to develop, i n order to
support my beliefa and values and reach my mission In relation to that virion, I &we are
with respect to my vision?"
6. Bring ynur focal point near to you, finding what feels
like a close but cornforbable diatnnce. Allow your awnre-
W h a t is your mission with resperttr,that system and vision?''
ness to go into your belly and the muscles and bones of
your body. Ask yourself the question, "U'hat, is my next
step toward achieving my mission?" T h a t internal MylOur mission is t o
state will most heIp me t o reach that step?" Form a plan
for taking t h n t next step.
3. ?%at beliefs and values are e~preasedby o r encom- W a t is your plan for achia-ing your vision and miwion?
passed by yourvision and mission?" What, specifically, will you do to accomplish your mission?
What ~pecificactions are assodated with your vision?"
"What values are embdied by your role identity and
larger vision?" Mylour plan is to
*How will you accomplish your mission? What capabili- An Example of o Path From Ksion to Action
ties and cognitive processes are needed o r presupposed
in order to accomplish your vision within the guidelines
I have used this process many times in ordw to create and
organize paths for manifesting my own visions. The follow-
of your beliefs and values?"
ing, for instance, is an example of hov 1 answered these
questions while preparing for this work on leadership.
To accomplish mylour vision and mission Uwe will
use mylour capabilities to
1Mr. vision i~ to promote the worldwide diffusion of more
effective and ecological tools and sLlls for leadership.
h wlation to that vision. I n m like a spring and a reservoir
for special knowledge and experiences,
5. ?$'hat is the specific behnuiur a~snciatedwith maniresting M y mission is to develop, integrate and present practical
vour vision and achieving your mission that m i l l both use skills that will help people of all types to be better leadcrs.
your capabilities and ft with your beliefs and values?
I a m committed to thcs K I I S L Oand msstun because I value
~
growth, the achievement of our highest expression and the
Effective Leadership and
fundamental integrity of life. Internal States
I bcEieue in the value of the future and that people can
truly grow and change their llves through the acqulsihon of
new skills. T also believe that the skills of leadership are "Leadership is mow a state th,an an activi@.'
essential in order to fulfill our destiny on t h s planet - Gilles Pajou
To accomplish my ursrun and mission I will use my capa-
bilities to idenbe, structure, and arbculate the key prin-
ciples and skills of leadership that I have modeled from
effective leaders throughout the world. Manifesting our visions is only partially a result of our
My plan ~9 to create leadership seminars, manuals, books plnns and strategies. Agood deal of what. happens during the
process of leadership i r r unconscious. &Zany key aspects
and other tools that can be hssem~natedto individuals,
organizations and social systems worldwide. related t o implementing a path t o a vision and managing
This plan will he zmpfemented in the context of a global leadership situations often occur outside of con~ciousaware-
ness. They come in the form of insight or inspiration. In
network of people who are committed t o promoting the
progress of all humanity. addition to instruments and tools that allow us to bring our
visions and the path for their realization into awareness, i t is
also useful t.o have some mays of encouraging and actually
Creating on Image of Your irsion directdng or utilizing unconscious processes as well. This is
most effectively done through the management of our inter-
When you have finished defining your path from vision to nal states.
action, create a picture of your ouerall vision Thig will help Leadership ability i s a function of a person's st&e as well
you to consolidate your sense of your tlsion and mission, as his or her conscious mental processes. In this sense,
remember it, and commumcate that vieron to others. Relow effective leadership perfomancr: is similar t o other types of
is an example of my picture for my own vision. performance. Athletes getting ready to perfom, prepare
their internal state as much as they physically prepare
themselves. Similarly, effective leadership is influenced by a
person's internal state.
For instance, one of the questions I asked i n my study of
leadership "How do you deal with challenging ~ituation?
involving uncertainty, incongruity andlor complexiw?" The
mogt common renct,ion t o this question went something like:
Ln the context of "Why will you use those particular cognitive processes or
capabilities in order to accomplish that goal? What beliefs
provide the mohuation for your thoughts and activity?"
V W e believe
2. W h a t is the specific behavior associated with the goal or
outcome?"
MyIOur mission is to
in that context?"
Chapter 3
6. ?That is your sense of the Earger vxtern in which you are
operabing?" Aligning Levels of
%%at is your vision of the larger system in which you are
p u r s u i n ~that rnirrsion?" Change in a
This mission is in the service ofthc larger vision to
System
Overview of Chapter 3
* The Significance of Alignment in an Organization
* Levels of Change in an Organization
* Example of Failure to Align Levels in an Organization
' A n Illustration o f Different Levels of fiocess as
Applied to Organizational Development
A Framework for Effective 'Path Finding'
'Culture' Versus 'Cult'- Defining the Organization
' Aligning the Members of an Organization
The Significance of Alignment persuasion and negotiation as opposed to the processes of
command or directives. In other words, as the 'discretionary
in an Organization apace' of employees increaqes, the focus of the manager shifts
from managing time, tasks and situations, to managing
relationships and systems. Thus, tke e m p h s k in ~ f i c t i c e
In the previous chapter we explored the importance of leadwship and management is moving fmm content to pmcesu.
aligning oneself personally toward the achievement of a Furthermore, the increasing globalization of business re-
vision. These same principles apply to organizationat dwel- quires a whole different concept of management and orpani-
opment and macro leadership. zational learning. The world is the company arena.
Today, many processes related t o management, organiza- Differences in cultural presuppositions, behavior patterns
tional development and leadership are undergoing a pro- and values must be respected and incorporated into the daily
found change for a number of reasons. In the past several thinking and activity of managers a t all levels.
decades companies have continued to become more and more
complex. This complexity is a funct~onof changes i n both the
-
Problems 8 Tools &
.
internal organization of companies and their external envl- Obiectives
ronment. Thie increasing complexity has pven rise to a Problems &- TOOIS a
generation of problems that were not present in the tmdi- Corporare
Objectives Resources
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tional company of the paat. Problems a TOOIS B
Divisional
Due t o changes in technolog3r, production methods and the 0bieclives4 + Re30~rc8~
workplace over the past several decades, the discretionav
apace of people working in compmes has grown larger and
Pmblnms
0biecllvas-
Individual
I Tools &
R~s~urces
I Culture
values I In other words, there are a number of different types of
alignment related t o task and relationship. Types of align-
ment related to tasks involve:
Cmpsbilities
Bshavilrr
Environments
f
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Africa
A
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Ausualia
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b) Define the 'states' of movement within the problem For an effective strategy, the Desired State and Present
space: State need to be assess4 with respect to several key levels of
processes. The Desired State and Present State worhheets
= A present state
on the following page3 provide a tool for making a baslc
A goal state analysis of a Present and Desired Statc wlth respect to the
The appropriate path of transition states required relevant levels of change. These worksheets provide ex-
to attain the g o d state amples of key questions to be asked dunng the initial phase
of 'path fmdlng'. They may be filled out by an lndiv~dualor a
C) Deternlinc the operators (and operations) which c h a n p team of 'pathfinders' worlung together.
the states:
Present State Worksheet What. capabilities (if any) are missing or need t o be
developed?
The mission of hTP Uniuersity is to provide the 5. Individual application courses at basic and advanced
skill leuels.
organizatiwna! structure through which the necessary
guidance, traaning, culture and support can he brought
to the people who are interested in exploring the global
potentcal of S,ystemic XLP. This inuolues t h e
encouragement of research and dev~Eopmcntin nelc
npplicatians, tools and rnodel~i n AZP a,? well us
providing high q~lalivtraining nnd assessment in
existing X L P skills ~ n technologies.
d
The of NLP University involves the
diue~sificationo f NLP based trainings and materials
into a number of focused application am=?. Each
appIicatiun area is dtfined by the mix of I ) the Kinds of
lVLP tools and skills to be used, 23 the kind8 ufpeople
to he serued ond 3) the binds of goals and outcomes to
be accomplished. Thrss, indiuidunls Eaarn practical
hTLP skills b.y developing competency with specific
engineemd materials related to accomplishing gmla
mIeuant to their profession.
The stmcture of NLP Uniuersity consists of a number
ofcntedependent courses and rnudulcss;
1. Core courses for basic, advanced and graduate I e v ~ 2
NLP skills of appmximntely ten days each..
Aligning the Members of an
Organization
Chapter 4
According to Nicholls, the desired outcome of 'path finding'
and 'cutture building is to create 'committed members ofthe
organization." Another way t o facilitate this is through the
co-alignment process described at the end of the last chapter.
Creating the
Co-alignment involves defining and idsntifylng the areas of
overlap between the various members of the system -
especially those related to beliefs, values, identity, mission
Future
and vision. Similar to creating an n l i p e d d a t e within an
individual, the basic steps of to-dignment involve:
Once the path from vision to action has been established, One of the major elements of Walt Disneyk unique genius
and the organizational mission, strategy and structure have was his ability to explore sometliing from a number of
been defined, bhe leadership challenge becomes how to navl- different perceptual positions. An important insight into
gate the path to the deaired state In my interviews w ~ t htop this key part of Disneg's strategy comes from the comment
business leaders, one of my question^ involved how they made by one of his animators that, "...there U ~ ( I Tactually
T thme
managed to move to the future in the face of uncertainty and difkewn! Walts: the dreamer, the r e o l i R b , ond ihe spoiler: You
complexity One of the leaders responded, %u certainly n a w r knew which. one tuns coming into your mceting."
can't do it by trying to forecast the future. The future is much This is not only an insight into Disney but also into the
too complex and uncertain to be able to forecast." process of creativity and effective planning. Any effcctivc
'Then, what do you do?" I asked. plan in~olvesthe coordination of t,hese three subprocesses:
You create it," was the reply. dreamer, realist and critic. A dreamcr without. a realist
A 'blt perplexed, I asked, Wow exactly do you create the cannot turn ideas into tangible expressions. A critic and a
future?" dreamer without a rcalist just become stuck in a perpetual
'I continually make successive approximations until I cunflict. A dreamer and a realist might create things, but
reach a point of 'no return'." they might. not be very g o d ideas without a critic. A critic in
This notion of making 'successive appmimations" as a the absence of a realist or dreamer i s indeed just a "spoiler."
way to manifest a vision seems t o be the essence of the The positive purpose of the critic is to help e ~ ~ a l u aand te
strategic thinkng ski119 necessary to achieve goals. Perhaps refine the products of creativity. There is a liurnorous ex-
no one embodied this skill more completely than Walt Disney ample of a boss who prided himself on his innovative think-
Disney persomfies the ability to make a nuccessful com- ing abilities but lacked some of the realist and critic
pany based on constant impi-orement and innovation. He perspective. Thc people who worked in the company used to
represents the process of turning visions Into concrete and say "He has an idea a minutc ...and some of them are good."
tangible expressions through organization and plannmg. The point is that effective pIanning involvcs the synthesis
IVdt Disney's ability to connect his innovative vlslon with of different processes u r phases. The dreamer i s necessary to
successful business strategy and popular appeal allowed him form new ideas and goals. The realist is necessary a s a
to e~tablishan empire in the field of entertainment that has means to tran~formidens into conrrete expressions. The
survived decades after his death. critic is necessruy a filter and as a stimulus for rcfincmcnt.
In a way, Dlsney's chosen medium of expression, the Certainly, each one or these phases r e p r e ~ e n ta~ whole
animated film, characterizes the fundamental process of all thinking strategy all on its own - strategies thnt more often
effective leadership: The ability to take a vision that exists tend to confLict with each other rather than support each other.
only in the Imagination and forpe it into a physical emstence The specifics of haw- Disney a s 9 ahle to mcthodical1,v shift
that directly mnfluences the experience of others i n a p o s ~ t l v between these different strategie~is somcthung that we need tu
way. explore in more depth before we can put them into practice. For
CSEATING
n t e Frrrmw 89
instance, how did Disney access his imagination ("the "He should feel everq. expression, ever?, reaction."
dreamer"), methodically translate his fantasies into a tan-
gible form (?he realist") and apply his criticaI judgment ("the 3) The 'spoiler' (critic) - observer position, distant:
spoiler") to refine those concrete results into lasting classics? "He should get far enough away from hi9 story to take a
I have examined Disney's cognitive prucesses in detail in second Look at it."
my books Strategies o f Genius, VoE. I and Skills [or the
Future. While this level of detail is not apprnpriate here, a a) EvaIuate whole project:
s i d c a n t nmount of infmation about Disney's pmcess of "to see whether there is any deadphase."
turning dreams into reality is revealed through a few key
b) Evaluate individual characters and relationships:
comments Disney made about his j t r a t e ~ .
"to see whether the persomEities are going to be inter-
Overview of Disney 's Strategy esting and appealing to the audience."
C) Evaluate specific actions:
Perhaps the m o ~ comprehensive
t description of how his
'dreamer', 'realist' and 'critic' worked together comes from "He should also tv to see the things that his chorac-
Disney's statement that: ters are doing are of an interesting nature."
"The story man must see clearly in his own mind how Disney's "second look" prwides what is called a 'double
euery piece of business in a story will be put. He should description* of the event.. This 'double description' gives us
feel every expression, euely reodinn. He should get far important information that may be left out of any one
enough away from his story tu take a aecond look at per~pective.Just as the differences in point of view between
it...to see whether there ts any &ad pha se...h see w h e t h r our two eyes gives us a double description of the world
the personalities ore going to be ~nterestingand ~ p p e a l i n g I
around us that allows us to perceive depth, Disnefs double
to the a u d t e m . He shouZd also t~ tn 9ee that the things description of his own creations sewed to give them an added
t h t his characters are dozng are of an intersting nature." element of depth.
Of particular interest is that the 'second look" involves a
The first part of the description focuses on the interaction specific reference to being 'far enough away'. If it was too
between the dreamer and the realist. It is clear that the close i t could be overly influenced by the other perceptual
'second look" 1s the domain of the 'critic'. positions. Similarly, it wuld also overly influence them. If the
Certainly, the statement defines three distinct perspectives m clwe to the dreamer and the realist, it may inhibit
spoiler is t
'he dreamer's vision and interfere with the realist's planning.
1) The 'dreamer' - vision, whole story: As a realist, one of Disnefn major strengths was the
"The story m a n must see clearly in his own mind how ability to chunk and sequence his dreams into pieces of a
eve? pwce uf husirress in a story will be put." manageable size. In fact, Disney was the innovator of the
Process of story-hoarding (a process now used by all major
21 The 'realist'-feeling a n d action, arrrrociated. mwing: film developers). A story-board is like a visual table of
c o n t e n t s i t is a set of still drawings that represent the Disney's process of 'realizing'his dreams twk place through
sequence of critical events to take place i n the storyline of a his physical association into the characters of the dream and
film. Story-boarding is essentially an extension of the process through the 'story-boarding' process of chunking the dream
of animation on a larger scale. Animation takerr place through into pieces. The realist acts "as F the dream is possible and
a process that involves starting with the drawing of still focuses on the formul~tionof a serim of successive appruxima-
pictures representing the critical event.# of a particular tions elf actiong required to actually reach the dream. The
movement. These drawing3 are typically done by the chief realist phase is more action oriented in moving towards the
animator. Once the critical chunks have been defined, the future, operating with respect to a shorter term time frame
individual drawings connecting these pictorial "rnilestoncr" than the dreamer. The realist is often more focused on
are filled in by the secondary animation team. E s n e y simply procedures or operations. Its primary level of focus is on
extended this process of chunking and sequencing to n larger 'how' to implement the plan or idea.
level-becoming a kind of "meta"animator. Disnefs pmcess of critical evaluation involved the separating
The "story-hoarding" process, which ir, a very powerFul way of himself h m the project and taking a more distant 'second
of organiring and planning, can be applied to any level of the lmK from the point of view of his audience or customers. The
film-making procedure. From the point of view of strategy, critic seeks to avoid problems and ensure quality by logically
the story-boarding process of chunking and sequencing the applying different levels of criteria and checking how the
critical pieces required to achieve a particular result is not idea or plan holds up under various %hat if" ~cenarios.The
limited to Elm making and can be used for any kind of critic phase involve3 the logical analysis of the path in order
planning. It can be used to chart and organize a business to find out what. could go wrong and what should be avoided.
project, a training serninw, a book, a counseling session, a The critic phase needs to consider both long and short-term
computer program and so on. igsues, searching for potential sources of problems in both
the past and the future. Its primary level of focus is on the
T ~Steps
P of the Strategy 'why' of the plan.
Effective planning involves defining and managing a se-
By combining Disney's comments about the thinking skills ries of transition states leading to a goaI via a feedback loop.
of the "storyman" with other information about his creative DimeJ+ dreamer, realist and critic cycle is an effectwe way
precess, it becomes evident that Disney's process of creative to idenhfy and navigate the path of transition states neces-
d r e m l n g primarily took place through vlsunl imagination sfry to reach a desired ~ t a t e .
but also involved the overlnpping and synthesizing of the
senses. The dreamer focuses on the 'big picture' wrth the The Dreamer stage is effective for generating and choos-
attitude that anything is possible. In general, the dreamer ing the goal state.
phase tends to be oriented towards the long term future. Tt
involves thinlnng in terms of the bigger picture and the
' The Realist stage is effective for defining and implement-
ing the path to reach the goal state.
larger chunks in order to generate new alternatives and
choices. Its primary level o r focus is on generating the The Critic stage is effective for evaluating and providing
content or the 'rrhnt' of the plan or idea. feedback in relation to progresr! toward the goal state.
Physiology and the Creative Cycle
As with other cognitive processes, physiology is a n impor-
tant influence on creativity and tile abi1it.y t o plan effectively
There are micro and macro level behavioral cues that accom-
pany the dreamer, realist and critic states. Thege cues can
help you to more fulIy enter the 'state of mind' n e c e s s q to
create a succesnful plan.
For instance, think about what. it is like when you are
'dreaming' or in the early stages of planning a project, and
are finding a n d exploring your optiong. What kinds of behill..
ioral cues are the most significant ibr your 'dreaming' pm-
cess? What ig your posture like? Do you move around? H m PhySlOlOgy
Physiology
do you orient your head nnd eyes? lor lor
'Reallst* Stae 'CrlllC' w t e
Now think about what it is like when you are narrowing
down your options into a specific path in order to 'realize'
your idea o r 'dream' ror n project. What kinds of behavioral Eyes Down
cues are the most significant for your 'realizing' proeew? Head and Eyes Head Dam
Snalght Ahead or and Tilted
How are your mwement.9 and posture different. from when Sllghlly Fomrard
you are dreaming? Posture
POSturs
Recall what i t is like when you are thinking 'm-it.ically'snd Symmetrical and Angukr
evaluating your plan or path. What kinds of behavioral cues Centered
Dreamer State Physiology 6. Where do you want this idea to get you in the future?
This idea will lead t o
5. How can you keep those things when you implement the
new idea?
These positive gains will be preserved by
1. Who will this new idea effect and who will make or
break the effectivene~sof the idea? 7. What is currently needed o r missing from the plan?
The people most erected by this plan are n%at is currently needed or missing from the plan is
What is n 'How' question you could ask in relation to what What is a 'How' question you could ask in relation to what
is needed or missing? is needed or missing?
How 7
Dreamer Dreamer
Horv could you take care of what is needed or mirrsing in How could you t a k e care o f what is needed or missing in
the plnn? the plan?
A possible solution would be A possible solution would be
Realist Redid
How specifically can this be implemented? How specifically can this be implemented?
This cBn be implemented by This can be implemented by
Critic Critic
What else is currently needed or missing from the plan? What & i s currently needed or rnie~ingfrom the plan?
What is currently needed or missing frnm the plan is What is currently needed or missing from the plan is
You can continue the dreamer-realist-critic cycle as long ( a )identifi basic principles and strategies for effectitre
as you like, in order to create a type of verhaI storyboard for system. thinking, problem s o I u i n ~and lendwship.
your project o r vision. (b) explor~the ~ x i ~ t i nmedia
g and technologv nunilable
\ h e n you have finished, you can simply synthesize your for creating interactive self-learnrng ~ s t e r n s .
anywers together t o form a report.
The following is an example of how simply filling in the (c) organize research projects which ~wmbinestrnfegies
answers ta the prompts and combining them together pm- and media to address concrete orgnntrationa2
vides the basis for an effective document describing your problems and leadership situations.
path and plan to reach a vision or goal. I generated this An effective ongoing feedback will be that people of
material usmg one of the computer tools described in the different thinking seles and professions will be ab!e
plan. The s o h a r e tool guides the userls) through the set nf and willing to use the tools in their eueryda.v work. I/
dreamer, realist and critic questions and collects them into n We will know that the goal has been reached when zue
file that may be loaded into a word pmcessor as a document. have !e number of cases demonstrating practical and
innouati~esolutions os a result of the appIication of
the tools.
Example - S.vstemic Thinking and h a d e r s h i p Tool3 The people most effected by this plan are the potential
The goal is to create o set of multi-media tools which customers and their organizations. Their needs me to
support effective s y s t ~ m i cthirakiw, problem soluing have more effectiut., 1e.i~time-consuming and less
and leuakrship. The purpose i s to help people deuelop expensive ways to del-elup practical skills and solutions.
better systemic thinking and strategic thinking abilities. Someone might object to this plan if t h v tho2~gh.tit
The bendcia1 effects of this will be that people wiII he was just a U S P E P ~ S fnd. The present w a y of doing things
better able tu define and realize their visions. An requires no investment of time, money or effort. These
evidence of these benefits will be that they are able to positive gains will be preserved by crenting tools that
gcnerate enthusiasm and support for their ideas. The function 'intuitively' and do not demand a significant
benefits can be expected when thqy haue begun tn amount of time or effort to use. IAVe would not. want t o
appl-v the tools to their most important ideas and implement this plan i f the steps required to manifest it
visions. Thia idea will lead to n greater empowerment conflicted with the vision nnd unEues it represents.
o f people involu~din organizations of aEL types. VWe What is currently needed or missing fmm the plan
want to be like a lamp that illuminates the path fur is the specific set of tools ond media thrat need to be
many trrau~llers. prouided. A possible solution would be to d m u ~fmm
The overall time frame for reaching the goal is the existing set of systemic thinking soft~uarethat 1
eightem months extending indefinitely into the future. haue nIrnady tlevrluped and see which. ones could h@
The chief nctms include ra deuelopment tenm and an most easily adapted to leadership. This can be
e w r widening rircle of people using the tools. The implemented by ~Eectingone or two existing tools and
steps to reach the goal involve: t e s f i ntheir
~ relecnncrp for lcndcrship situations.
What else is currently needed or missing fmm the
plan is a specifi plan for the deveEopment nnd distribu-
Thinking Styles In Leadership
tion of the touls. d possible solution would be to offir and Problem Solving
the t w l s as .supplemental support to existing clients to
s ~ ei f they find them to be uf ualrae to rlcvelop and
support effeetiue leadership p~rformonce.This can be In addition tn the 'self skills' and 'strategic thinking skills'
implemented by approachirag colleagues who ore fac- that Disney's creative cycle provides, it also forms the basis
ing specific Ieudership challenges andproviding design for some important relational skills. A key consideration in
exnmples of the tmls fw fham to apply to their sitmlions. leadewhip is how to link the 'perceptual space' of collabora-
tors to the 'problem space' involved in manifesting a particu-
Making a Pictorial 'Story-Board' lar vision or desired state.
Effective leader~hiprequires methods with which to
As a way to compIete the I3lsney Planning Strategy you can typologize and manage different world views and thinking
create a pictorial 'story-bod for your plan by f i n k or I st.yles. The purpose of such methods is to identify and utilize
drawing m p l e images to represent the shps you have identi- different world views and thinking styles. They also help to
fied for reaching your vialon. This can help to 'anchor"yo own deepen one's understanding and abilib to communicate more
map of your plan and make it easler to commumcate to others. effectively.
Belm is an example o f a pictorial 'story-board'for the Sjsttlmrc 'Dreamer', 'realist' and 'critic' provides a typology of com-
Thtnk~ngand ERadershrp Twls pmject desmbed abmve. mon thinking styles relevant to the planning context. The
dreamer focuses on the 'big picture' a i t h the attitude that
I
anything is possible. The realist acts "as iF the dream is
possible and focu~eson the formulation of a series of succes-
sive approximations of actions required to actually reach the
dream. The critic seeks to avoid problems nnd ensure quality by
logically applying different lwels of criteria and checking how
the product perfoms under various %hat if scenarios. These
w e s of cognitive dyles are h o w n as 'meta program patterns'.
Meto program patterns are an effective set of distinctions
with which to analyze and identi5 basic styles of think in^
rtnd learning. The mmbinations of meta program patterns
Pictorial 'Story-Board' of Systemic Thinking and which make up a person's thinking style are an indication of
Leadership Tools Project how that person structures h ~ or s her map of the world as well
as how that pereon sorts or arranges hie or her expenen-.
When ynu have made your story-board present it to an- A 'program' is a cognitive process or map that guldes a
other person or n group and describe the steps in your plan. person's actions in order to reach an outcome. A program
( F o r instance, try using it for the BoIoncing T h i n k i v S<vles guides performance by collecting, chunking, comparing, as-
in o Group exercise described on page 114.1
sessing and ranking information. A 'meta' program is R involving relationghip, such as 'power' and 'nEliation'. The
program that operates on othcr prorams. In other words, it question of how to balance issues relating to both task and
determines certain characteristics in how a pereon thinks. relationship is obviously a key one with respect t o leading a
Meta program patterns are descriptions of the different ways group in the achievement of the task. either goals, proce-
in which a problem or outcome may be approached. As with dures or choices may be emphasized. Issuea involving ~ e l n -
the other distinctions we have explored, a person can applv tionship may be approached with an emphasis on the point of
the same meta program pattern regardless of content and view of oneself, utherg o r the context {the 'company', the
context. Theae patterns are not "all or nothingmdistinctions 'market',etc.l to varying degrees.
and may occur together in vmying proportions. A problem or objective may be examined by comparing for the
similarities (matching)or dilferences (mismatching)bet.ween
Meta Progrn rn Patterns its elements. At the level of a group this relates to whether
they are trying to reach consensus or encourage diversity.
I
In approaching a problem or objective onc can emphagize Strategies for approaching problems and objectitrcs m a y
moving "fownrd"something or "away from." aomet.hing, or emphasize various combinations of vision, action, logic or
some ratio of both. In a p-oup, a problcm or objective may be emot,ion. Micro cognitix-e pat.terns on an individual level may
approached in varying degrees of proactivity and reactiviv. be expressed in terms of a general thin,king style on the
'Chunk-size'relates to the level of specificity or generalim macro level or group level. Vision, action, logic and emotion
with which a person or group i s analyzin~a problem, goal or are more general expressions of visualization, movement.
perceptual space. Concepts and situations may be analyzed
in terms of varying degrees of detail (micro chunks of' I verbalization and feeling.
informat.ion1and generalities h a m c h u n h of information).
Problems and situations may be examined with reference
to long term, medium term or short term time frames; and
within the context of the past, preaent or future. The time
frame uithin which a problem or objective is considered can .wnhln 'shod-lsm'or
.
a 'Task'(rhe 'uelue' ol the ' D u t c m c ' ~ DlWersnces
difference between former Soviet leader Bfikhail Gorbachev Choi~es- Goals (Contronlatkn)
and the people who attempted t o overthrow him before the - Procedures - OeeraUons
Aelalionsh~u(tba ' v a l u c ' d ' m r ' of
S~rn1lar8lies
lCon%~~sus)
breakup of the Soviet Union. One was trying to prepare for
--
I
m.
the future: the others were trying to preserve the past. $el4 (I. Me) Onc can thhk
Problems and situations may be considered in relation to
'achievements' regarding the task, or in relation to issues
-O!ner(You)
Ccrterl (we, TheCornpanv,ms Mrket)
.
vlsion -
In mrma ol:
Action
~ 1 4 +Emotion
1 ~
Progmm Pattern with Respec?
Some Implications o f M e t ~ time frame. For developing procedures it may be more useful
to Leadership t o be focused on short term actions. For analytical tasks i t
may be more appropriate to logically consider details with
It is useful for a leader to be able to identify, stimulate and to the task, etc.
utilize the different thinking styles indicated by meta pro- In this view, managing the process of n project or group
gram patterns. Different thinking and leadership styles a r e essentially involves acknowledging and directing the differ-
characterized by different clusters and sequences of mcta ~ n meta
t program patterns of individuals or group members
program patterns in variou~ratios. One person's approach to in order to fill in 'missing links' and widen the perception of
a situation might involve a n 80% focus on relationship and problems or goals along the path from vision to action. Meta
20% focus on task, and 70% emphnsis on long-term versus program patterns may also be utilized in order to:
30% short-term considerations, Someone else may empha-
size the task a s 90% of the f o c u ~and think primariIy in terms l j help motivate collaborators,
of short term considerations.
2) better understand the thinking processes of collaborn-
The different cluster^ of meta program patterns cIe&
tors and
cover different areas of perceptual space. In this respect,
there are no 'right'or h n g m e t a progr~ms.Rather, their 31 help people to enlarge and share perceptual spaces.
effectiveness in connection with leader~hiprelates to the
ability t o apply them in a way that covers the space neces-
sary t o adequately deaI with a problem or objective. In Summary, in relation to leadership, meta propam
Different kinds of activities require different sorts of patterns may be used to:
attitudes and approaches. Some activities require or emphs-
size the ability to focus on thc micro chunks and details. a. Explore the 'perceptual space' related to a particular
Others require the ability to see the big picture. Different task or goal.
phases i n the cycle of a project or bask map call upon b. Help t o expand and enrich one's own perceptual filters
different thinking styles. Therefore, particular attitudes ar and the perceptual space of others.
clusters of meta program patterns might be more or leee
beneficial a t different fltages in a project or task. An empha- C.HeIp people to understand differences in thinking styles
sis on results more than procedures might either be a help or and t o share perceptual spaccs.
a constraint t o a group's or individual's performance at
&fFerent times. Some phaees of a project might require
achimjng consensus, yet during other phases it might be
important to encourage differences in perspectives.
Thus, different thinking style^ and approaches will have
different values for different phases of a task or project. In
the conceptual phase, for example, i t mag bc beneficial to
direct thinking in t e r m s of the bigger picture and n longer
The Gn'tic's function is to evaluate the payoffs and
Addressing Different drawbacks associated with the vision and the path to
Thinking Styles the vision.
At first glance, these words seem like gibhrish. They have Critic: Profits were down last quarter. This is terribIe!
no meaning. Rut notice how your expencnce of them change*
U'e'rc ruined (exclmation point)!
if they are punctuated in the following manner: Realist: E'rofit.9 were down last quarter. U'e have had
difficult times in the past (comma),what can we do t o
That that is, is. That that is not, 7.i not. Is not that i r ? I f is!
make ourselves more lean' (question mark)?
Suddenly, there is at least some meaning to them. The Dreamer: Profits were down last quarter. It's just a bump
punctuation, which is on a different level than the words in the road (semi colonr; we're past the most difficult
themselverr, organizes and 'frames' them in a way t h a t shifts phase non-. Things are bound to look up.
our perception of them.
functional system, beliefs undermine the larger system and
Beliefs and values are themseIves shaped by deeper levcI can take on a life of their own, becoming a "thought virus"
processes such as unconscious assumptions about identity, with a destructive capacity similar to that of a computer
n m s and culture, and by core presuppositions about the virus or biological virus.
nature of people and the world. These presuppositions Beliefs and values issues arise at different points and may
cannot be objectively proven but are rather taken as a matter either facilitate or interfere with the process of change.
of unquestioned faith - such as. "There is a positive intention Clusters of common beliefs can give insight into the deeper
behind every behavior;" o r "All systems are inherently func- assumptions and presuppositions upon which an organiza-
tional." Thege very basic core presuppositions are self-vali- tion is based. In the case of limiting beliefs, specific intenen-
dating. They determine how a situation will have to be tions and techniques may be d e ~ s e dt o 'immunize" against
punctuated and perceived (in order to validate the core their negative potential.
presupposition). That is, if someone is operating from the
core presupposition that "There is a positive intention behind Managing BeEiej5 and 7Jalues
w e r y behavior," they will continue to widen or shorten time
frames, shift levels or points of view uniil they find the As organizations change and evolve, leaders are called
framework of perception that will vaIidate the core presuppw upon to manage the impact of those changes on the values
sition. and belief systems of the organization and the individuals
Thus, stated beliefs and values are often derived fmm even who are a part d it. More and more, leaders are being
deeper level nssumptions about conterrt, role: norms, etc.. required to reargnnize their activity around (a) the coordina-
that are typically unstated. The beliefs which arc the most tion of people from different backgrounds and cultures, and
influential are generally those which people are the least (b) the implementation of values - such as 'quality', 'cus-
conscious of - like the water in which a fish swims. In tomer senice', 'employee empowerment', etc. This brings
organizations and othw systems, beliefs are frequently not along with it a demand for a special set of new skills and
expres3ed overtly but rather as presuppositions in language knowledge relating to the communicat.ion and management
prttterns, non-verbal behaviors and 'meta messages'. of beliefs and values.
Problems oRen occur because people think everyone shares There is a range of leadership skiIls necessary to address
the same unspoken assumptions. For example, an individual different types of belief issues. Those skills primarily have to
d c h t choose to send a particular type of message under the I
do with perceiving and managing contexts of change and
assumption that he or she is in a context of cooperation, but transition. The most common skills include the abilities to
that message is misperceived and given a meaning unin- 'redefine', 'reframe', 'repunctuate', 'contextualize', take new
tended by the sender because the receiver assumes the perspectives and widen 'perceptual space' in order to give
context is one of antagonism o r competition. Thus, beliefs meaning to particular events and situations.
and values may either be influenced directly o r used as a In general, leadership skills for managing beliefs and
means to uncover deeper assumptims and presuppositions. values are clustered around two a ~ p e c t sof the process o f
In a functional system, beliefs and values are aligned with deaIining mith situations of change and transition: 1) perceiu-
the organization" identity and the environment. In a dys- i ing change and 2 ) managing change. Differences in the types
of skills and issues arising within contexts of change and
transition depend upon the role that beliefs and values play The Motivational Space of
in that context. Change
Some common contexts requiring leadership sldll in
managing beliefs and values in organizations and social
systems include:
Leadership i n organizations and social systems is needed
most in situations involving change. Effective leadership
1.Situations in which new prwsedures, values, criteria o r
skills are necessary to both stirnulute and deal with the
working relations are being introduced to replace the old
consequences of change. The basic process of change involves
ones.
1 ) aperson varying his or her 2 ) hhnuior in order to achiwe
2. Situations in which there are 'boundary crossings' be- 31 an outcome in the environment.
tween different groups within the organization or sys-
tem ihorizontal, vertical, i n t e r p e r ~ o n a l or
interfunctional).
3. Situations involving the definition or redefinition of
1kt-l Beh-ior Outcomes
t
Outcome
enough to actually make effective decisions.'
Even whcn people want an outcome, trust that it is
possible, believe in the actinns that havc been defined in
order to reach the outcome and have confidence i n their own
Path abilities to perform the necessary skills and actions. they
may question whether it is their responsibility to perform the
Belief Essues Related t o Organizational Change required actions or produce the outcome. A top manager may
complain, "It ia not our responsibility to ensure that people's
actions are aligned. That is part of their job. We are already
For examplc, let's say a leader has a vision invol~ing too saturated. We don't deserve another responsibility on tnp
'software and paper tools that will help top managers (people: of what, we are already required to do."
make more systemic decigions behavior] in order to improve It i s also possihle for people to doubt whether they in rack
the alignment of the activities of people within the company deserve t o reach a particular desired state. Sometimes people
loutcome)." Relief issues may arise with respect to any one of may feel unworthy of their role or accompIishments.
the dements of change identified above. These various belief issues are relevant. for all levels of
Some people mighL question the desirability orthe outcome leadership; metn, macro and mic.m. They are also as impor-
to "improve the alignment of the activities of people wiihin tant to evaluate in oneself as in one's collaborators. We are
the company." Someone might argue, "Given the immediate not one-dimensional beings, and often have to address our
needs that have to improve profits, we need to fncua on Own doubts about o u r visions hefore we present them f n
more uracnt issues than alignment." others.
3. The evaluation of the appropriateness and difficulty of
Assessing Motivation for Change the behavior (regardless of whether it is believed to
produce the desired result).
"A leader is self confident but must haue doubt to Statement: What has to he done in order to achieue
the goal is cleor, appropriate and ecological.''
create. The leader must transmit confidence and
acknowledge doubt. Then transform doubt into 4. The belief that one is capable of producing the required
opportunity." - GiIles Pajou behaviors.
Statement: "Itwe haue the c~pabilitiesnecessary to
achieue the goal."
In addltion to skills and actions, the underlying beliefs and
assumptions of h t h leaders and therr collaborators are 5. The sense of self worth or permisrrion one has in relation
extremely important in reaching their visions and 'creating a to the required behariors and outcome.
worId t o which people want to belong'. Statement: "Illuehaue t h e responsibility and derieme
On the one hand, plans and actions cannot be enacted to achicue the goal."
congruently if they nre in conflict m t h core assumptions and
presuppos~tionsof the individuals responsible for carrying
I
them out. On the other hand, empowering beliefs a n d as- After the beliefs have been stated, individuals may rate
sumptions can release capabilities that are inherent in the their degree of conGdence in relation to each of the state-
repertoire af a particular person or p u p but are not being ments on a scale of 1t o 5, with 1being the lowest and 5 being
activated. the highest degree of belief. This can prwide an immediate
One way t o determine the motivation of a person or group and interesting profile of potential problem areas of mot,iva-
is to make an assessment of the five key beliefs we have tion or confidence.
identified as reIevant t o the mot~vationalspace of change Any statements which are given a low rating indicate
The beliefs can be assessed by making a specific statement of poseible areas of resistance or interference which will need to
the belief as illuetzated i n t h e following examples. be addressed i n some way. The leader will need to provide or
procure the cognitive maps, reference experiences, relational
1. The desirability of the outcome. support or tools necessary to bolstsr confidence in areas of
doubt and "transform it into opport~nity.~
Statement: "The goal is desimble ond worth it." The Belief Assessment Sheet on the folloffing page
2. Confidence that the specified actions will produce the provides a simple but effective instrument for quickly assess-
outcome. ing the relevant areas of belief in relation to a goal or plan.
c. m a t has to be done i n order to achieve the goal is dear, Let's suppose that the person has ranked his or her own
appropriate and ecological." belief in each statement i n the following way:
a ) To explore precipitating cnuses you would want to use The following statements provide an example of how the
the words "hefororr", "after"o r ubrcnuse." method would be applied to the symptom of decreasing
productivity.
b) TO explore constraining causes you can use the words
't~.hile*or*whenerrer:"
Pmductivity is decreasing bemuse
C) Tb explore finaI causes you can substitute the phrase "so
that" or 'therefore."
d) To explore formal causes you can try t h e words "in the Productivity is decreasing therefore
name way thot" or "if."
e) To explore potential counterexamples and constraints in Productivity is decreasing after
order to check the strength of your cause-effect premises
you can substitute the word "although."
Productivity is decreasing while
C a w Productivity is decreasing if
because
therefore
I sentence prompted by the connective with the word 7" or
'we". This helps to insum that the individuals remain associ-
ated i n the experience and avoid merely making 'rationaliza-
aftpr tions'. Thus, the series of new-statements would be created in
while the following manner:
whenever
so that e.g.
if IlWe have the capabilities necessary to achieve the p a l
although hcacase i / m e
in the same way that
W e have the capabilities necessary to achieve the goal It is possible to achiew the gout to create a computer &chmlogy
ifI/we thrat loill respond to human thoughts and emotions therefore
I/we aath to the vision with confid-
I
I
It is pssibla to ahiswe the goal to create a computer t ~ c h m l w
IlWe have the capabilities necessary t o achieve the goal that wall respond to human thoughts ond emotions a f t e r
'although I / we Ilwe comnlete a w u g g d <
At the end of the audit process you can group the belief
statement together with the answers generated by the audit
process to create a paragraph.
therefore I t we
As you try this process with one of your own beliefs, you
will realize that some of the prompts are e a s i e ~to respond to
thon others. You may also find that it is eaFier or more
after 11 we appropriate to respond to the prompts in a different order
than they are listed. Of course you can feel free to answer the
prompts in the order that feels most natural and comfortable
for you or your p o u p , nnd it is okay to leave some of the
prompts blank. I have found hon-ever, that the prompts
while I l w e
which seem most difficult to answer oRen lead to some of the
most surprising and insightful results.
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w heneuer Youl I
so that You / I El -
c. What has to be done in order to achieve the goal is clear,
appropriate and ec~logicn1."
i f You / I
* Reframing the problem or goal by taking a different Representational Channels and Thinking Styles
I
point of view. Basic Perceptual Positions in Commdcation and
* Shifting the level' of focus. I Relationships
* Identifying limiting (but unrecognized) assumptions. The Skin of Meta Communication
* 'Chunking down'to set sub goals, o r addressing pnr- I Practicing Effective Communication Skills
tial areas of perceptual space.
Encournging 'as if" thinking.
Communication and Relational The Communication Matrix
Skills in Leadership
The communication matrix prorides a simple hut useful
Once you have identified a vision, a pathway to the visior m d e l of communication. This model can help you to h0t.h
rt plan to navigate the path and the relevant belief issue understand the process o f communication better and to
related to navigating the path, it is then time to bepi, develop more effective communication skins.
moving along t.he path. This involves specifying and commu- According to the communication matrix, communication
n i c a t i n ~t h e necessay goals and tasks to be accomplish~d involves people sending messages to one another through
and managing the relat.ionships between the people in\-olved various media. Thus, the three basic elements involved in
in carrying out those t a ~ k i\ithin
s the organizational system. any process of communication are: 1)people, 2) messuges and
This is the arena of micro Icadership. 3) the mediu.m through which the messages are being sent.
EfTeedive micro leadership invoIves the application of prac-
tical communication and reIational skills that are essential
for expressing oneself and accomplishing goals while working
together with others. These skills make it possible for a
Ieader to create contexts i n which people can thrive and
excel.
Effective cormnunication and relational skills involver
Communication and relational sklls support effective lead- 1 involve t w o people sending and receiving messages from one
another through t.he medium of the spoken word. The two
ership by allowing the leader to foster communicut.ion and I
would altcrnate at various times between (a)the 'sender' or
understanding between people in order to help them more 'transmitter' of various types of messages and ibl the 're-
efTectir7elyaccomplish their tasks. These skills are a function ceiver' of various tl-pcs of messages from the other. .4s the
of how a leader uses \-erbal messages [both spoken and two people interact, in addition to spoken language, t.hey
written) and non-verbal messages !ranging from visual aids m a p at times also draw diagrams, make geet,ures or refer to
to his or her own voice tone nnd geeturesj in nrder to written material as a medium for the various messages they
facilitate undergtanding, address different, lhinkirlg stgles are attempting to tmnsmit..
and encourage participation and effective performance.
Sender -c Receiver
Sender Receiver
u Physical dimensions
In considering the 'message' element of communication, a Messages -Micro, Macro and Para
first distinction needs t o be made between the 'intended'
message and the 'received'rnessage. I n NLP there is a saying In considering the components that make up a particular
that "the meaning of your communication is the response you communication, it can be useful to diehguish between
elicit; regardlass of what you intended t o communicate." In ?nitro messages', 'macro messages' and 'para-messages'. Mi-
other words, the 'meaning' of a message to the receiver is cro messages relate to the details of the communication and
what that individual 'receives', irrespective of the intent of involve messages containing specific Ideas or steps. A micro
the sender. This statement is an acknowledpnent that. the message would be hke a particular sentence In a paragraph.
message intended by the sender is not always the message Macro messages have to do with the ab~lityto get across a
that is receivd by the others invnlved i n the internction. One general idea. Typically, a 'macro message' is composed of a
of the most important communication skills of leadership js senes of mlcro messages (like the reIation~hipbetween a
insuring that the message you intended is the one that was sentence and a chapter in a book).
received. As one of the leaders in my study maintained, "The Para-messages reIate to the fact that several messages may
challenge is to get people to do what you wanted, not what be sent simultaneously. A 'para-message' is a message that
you said." In essence, effective communication is a feedhack accompanies another message. Para-messagerr are usually
loop between sender(a? nnd receiver(s1 which attempts t o sent through a dlfferent channel than the primary message.
optimize the congruence between the intended and received Pointing to somethng with your finger while you are talking
messages. about it is an example of a non-verbal para-message.
A para-meseape mag support another message or contra The function of a meta message is basically to inform the
d i d it. For example, when a person says, *IwouId like thret listener as to what, 'type' of message is a b u t to be d e l i v d or
coflees please," and simultaneouely holds up three fingers has been delivered, and how to best 'receive' that message. In
his or her para-mesaaee 1s c o n p e n t with the verbal mes other wordu, nleta messnges are necessary in order to 'decade'
sage. On the othcr hand, if ;l pcreon says, 'I think that i s E the 'meaning' of a message. Thus, the same message will have
good idea" but is simultaneously shaking h ~ or s her hear different mcanings if accompanied by different mcta messages.
"no,* the para-message is contlrcting with the verbal message. As an analogy, when one computer is communicating with
another i t needs to send certain 'control characters' along
Messages rnnd Meta rnessuges with the actual text. it is transmitting. The control characters
are meta messages informing the other computer what kind
This Eends us to the relationship between the 'content' of a of data i t is sending and where to place it, in its memory.
mewage and the 'meta message'. The content of a message is
generally accnmpanied by higher level 'meta messages' (often
non-vcrball that give ernpha~isor provide cues for how to Levels ofMessages
interpret the message. In many cases, the 'content' relates to
the purely verbal aspect of the communicat.ion, while meta The purpose of meta messages is oRen to clarif>fat which
messagcs relate to the non-verbal portion of the communica- 'level' the content of a meseage has been sent or received. As
tion. Rkta messages are messages ubout other messages. rn an example, if a leader gives a collaborator the verbal
this sense, meta messages are a special form of para- message, "You made a mistake," it could be interpreted in
messages. While para-messages may contradict the priman. several different ways. Is this message intended to be focused
message, meta messages arc on a different level' than the a t the level of identity o r behavior? In other words, is the
content. PIE an example. a leader may tell a group to "Pay leader indicating disappointment in the person or simply
attention" while pointing to his or her eyes. This gesture giving feedback about a particular action? This type of
would be considered a "metn message" indicating how the information is often critical for the proper interpretation of a
group is to pay attention li.e., by ivatching). If the lender communication. Clearly the message 'you made a mistake"
were pointing to his or her ears, it would indicate a different takes on a completely different.meaning if the meta message
mode of paying attention. is "I want to help you do better" than if the meta message is
Using a yellow highliter to mark out key phrases in n text 'I a m angry at you."
is another example of a meta message. Punctuation also Such information is often communicat.ed through non-
serves as a meta messoge. Changing a question mark to an verbal cues such as voice inflection. The statement, "You
exclamation point., shifts t.he meaning of the rest, of thc made a mistake," is more likcly to be interpreted as an
message. Even the medium through which a message is sent indication that the cnllaborat.or hns done something wrong
can be a mcta message. A message sent by fax o r courier and is in trouhle. The statement, "You made a mi,~tnke," on the
would indicate an urgency with respect to task. A phone call other hand, would ke more likclv t n indicate an emphasis on an
or personal mceting would place an emphasis more on the event or the correctness of a procedure rather than the person.
relational aspects of the message contents.
Micro physical cues, such as body posture, voice tone and
tempo, eye contact, etc.. are indications of both state and
status. Two people sitting side by slde looking at a report
would be a meta message about a different type of state and
status than if one perrron is sitting with his or her arms
folded w h l e the other is walldng about the room in an
agitated manner.
Certnin behaviors are also meta messages about context.
Wearing a suit and tie, for example, indrcates a certaln
formality in a context When a person takes off his jacket and
he, and rolls up his eleevee, it is a meta message that the
Sender lkeiver
Slnlp = Cr,nti&nr
context has shifted somewhat and that it is h e to get 'down
State = Uoncemd
t o work".
General Manager Hped ofFunck~m
Slnluti = Compl?menbary
verbally, they are o h n outside of the awareness of both the Typically sent non-verbally
sender and the receiver. Developing the am-areness to read
and monitor meta messages is probably one of the most
essential micro leadership skills.
Verbal
Contaxt Culture
Pictorial
Physical
Elements form in^ the 'Medium' of a Messago
Different modalities of representation have differen wife's words within a wider context of both physical and non
strengths. The verbal: mode of representation, for instance, physical aspects of the situation.
has a lot of strengths in terms of how information is se- The physical dimensions of a context have to do with
quenced with respect to lopical dependencies. The visud external cues and constraints. For instance, the husband's
channel is often the best way to synthesize information into a response in the scenario described above was influenced by
whole or 'gestalt'. Acting out an idea or concept physically the fact that the mindow was open and h e was sitting
brings out its concrete aspects. together with his wife on the sofa. If the window was already
Emphasizing different channels of communication and closed and the husband had j u ~ tput on his coat and was
representation can lead people into different types of think- getting ready to run an errand, he probably would have
ing styles. For example, the visual channel helps to stimulate responded to his wife's word^ in a different way.
imaginative thinking. The verbal channel is often most If someone enters a room that is set up with a blackboard
effective for logical or criLicnl thinbng. Focusing on physical a t the front and chairs arranged facing the front of the room
channels influences people t.oward an action orientation. in "theater style," he or she is likely to interpret it as a
Different representational channels can also influence context for a 'presentation' and be prepared to sit passively
pmple'fi relationship to information. For instance, writing and listen. If that person enters a r m m in which a small
something down on a flip chart is a simple way d encourag- group of chairs is arranged facing each other in a 'round
ing consensus, because once an idea is expressed on paper table" format, he o r she wiIl most likely interpret. it as a
the person who proposed the idea is not so intimately context for 'discussion' and be ready to be more proactive and
associated with the idea anpmoi-e. Externalizing a n idea participative. This type of influence is referred to as the
allows you to separate the whrat from the who. "psycho-geography" of the situation.
Time constraints aTe also an important contextual influ-
ence. For example, if a time limit of 15 minutes has been set
Media - Context for a meeting, it is more likely that the meeting will be
interpreted us being task oriented rather than as an explor-
'Context' is another important aspect of the medium in atory brainstorming session.
which messages are sent. A s an illustration of the influencr The non-physical dimensions of a context have to do with
of context on communication, consider the following scenario. parameters such as people's goals, roles, the phase of work
A husband and wife are sitting on the sofa m thelr living they are in, etc. A meeting with a defined objective of "t.eam
room watching televisron. At a certain moment thc wife turns building" creates a different context than a meeting with the
to the husband and asks, "Are you cold7" Without saying a defined objective of "planning or "reaching consensus" about
word, the husband gets up from his chair, shuts the wlndow a course of action.
and then returns to hie seat.
How do you explain what has happened here? Ifhe were to
have responded onl)~to the verbal message of his wife, the
husband would have simply answered her question 'yesv or
'no." Instead, the hushand interpreted the meaning of his
Media. - Culture Comrnunicafion Strategies
As the example of the hwhand and wife demonstrates,
communication is often given meaning based upon unspoken 'Communication strategies' relate to managing the mix of
asswnptiong and pmuppmitions. In order to make scnw out of elements defined by the communication matrix.
a particular message or experience, one must make assump
tions about the situation in which one is operating. Different
assumption* influencethe priority and relevance one gives t o
elements of a message or experience. W k have explored the
influenceof beliefs and ewumptions in detail i n the previous
chapter. From this perspective, it is important to consider what
i~ presuppwed by one's own messages and messages of others.
Context and culture determine, and m e determined by, the
kinds of assumptions and expectations people apply to a
particular ~ituation.'Cult,ure' is also embodied in hnth overt
and unspoken rules. 'Rules' establish constraints and reflect
beliefs, values and assumptions. Rules define what is apprn-
priate and inappropriate in a particular context o r situation.
Diiferent cultures have different ns~umptions and rules
about the sipificancc of time. space, attire, etc. Being 10
Elements of the Communication Matrix
minutes Iate for a meeting in one culture, for instance, might
be perfectly acceptable. In another it could be considered as a
serious transgression. Cultural rules and assumptions can
There are several classes of activities related to one's
even influence people's perceptions of reality h P i a n
communication strategy:
acquaintance of mine, For example, was riding in n car with a
wlleaye from Spain.As they were approaching a stop light, it
1) Determining the general message and 'chunking' it into
turned red. The Geman rider wm terri6cd and appalled w-hen
the content elements and meta messages.
his colleape drove through the red light without even slowing
down. ITDidn't you see that the light was red?" she exclaimed. 2) E~tablishingthe current and desired state, statne and
Her driver rcplied, "Yes, but it. was only a little bit red." context i n wluch the messnges and meta messages are to
Rules relate to both c o n t e x t and status. For example, in be sent.
some cultures direct eye contact is the only way to show that 3) Determining by what channels mesqi.4age and mcta mes-
you are truly paying attention. Tn other cultures it is consid- Edge elements will be most effedively transmitted.
ered d i m a p ~ t f u lo r insulting. ObvioueTv, k i n g aware of
cultural influences afi part of the medium of communication 4) Kecagnizjng and responding to feedback about how rnes-
is an important leaderahip skilt, especially in situations sages rmd mcta messages are being ruccived hy others.
involving trans-cult,ural interactions.
A communication strategy involves elements which are
preplanned and aspects which are selected or adopted in
Monitoring Internal States
response to feedback. The preplanned aspects of a commum-
cnhon strategy essentially relate to how information is pre-
Managing one's own internal state and the states of one's
pared and delivered. For example, havlng the same message
collaborators is one of the most important and influential
in a written report and on a transparency is a mcta measage
skills of 4-0leadership. Non-verbal cues are often one of
about the sigmficance of the information. Whether printed
the most relevant and influential aspects of monitoring and
material is g v e n at the b e ~ n n i n gof a meeting or handed out
manaRing internal states. It is important to acknowledge the
during the progression of the meeting is a meta message
influence of behavior, even very subtle aspects of physiology,
about how to percelve that ~nformationwith respect to the
on communication, Different stntes or attitudes can be ex-
other information that hae been presented.
pressed through different patterns of language and bchav-
The dpnarnic aspect of managing messages involve3 the
iors. Ln this sense, states are often influenced bp meta
conbnuous monitoring of how messages are being rent and
messages and are themselves a rneta message about what
rece~ved- i.e., the ab~lityta adapt one's messages and meta
sort of information is being sent. or received. That is, if
messages according to the responses received as reactions to
someone suddenly shifts from being open to being skeptical,
other messages. Messages may be 'adapted' via.
it is a meta messaEe aabut how that person is receiving your
messages.
1) Using observationa1 skill and feedback to reduce distor-
Physiolog~.also provides a powerful la-erage to change
tions between intended and received messages.
people's states and thinking processes. Physiological rues
21 Determining the election and combinntion of messages give us tools t o influence internaI stntes as well as the
and meta megsages. cognitive processes associated with effective communication.
As a leader, i t is important to realize that in situations in
3) Ensuring that the mimo messages support the larger which you experience stress or conflict., you might, express
message and lead in the direction of the communication those attitudes even though you're not aware of it. As you
outcome. become awnre of these kinds of cues, some of them become
more obvious, especially in situations where people are
The foIlowing flections of h i s chapter will explore different acting spontaneously.
aspects of the communication matnx in more detail, empha- A core skill for an effect.ive communication is to recognize
sizing how they m y be synthesized into m effective commu- the connection h t w e e n behavioral cues and patterns on the
nication strategy one side, and attitudes and thinking styles on the other. To
accomplish this it is important t o have the skill to diatin-
D i s h between 'observation' and 'interpretation' when inter-
acting with others. Observation involves simply noticing
patterns of behavioral cues. Interpretation involves giving
mean in^ to what one observes.
To sap that Pomwne "is sitting with his arms folded" i s , walked Into the dining hall and it was filled with
~ e e khe
obsemation. To say that finmeone "is closed to new ideas' ls women m red sweaters.
an interpretation of those cues. W h i l e that interpretation Apparently the students also decided to try the process on
may be accurate, it is important t o know that it is a personal the professor himaelf. If the professor went to one side of the
judmmt, and to recognize how one arrived at. that judg- mom when he was teaching, the students all agreed amongst
ment. This is &cause sometimes people misread o r rnisinter. each other to yawn and act bored. If he went to the other
pret. non-verbal meta messages. In fact, one of the side of the room, they all sat up, nodded t h e ~ rheads and
distinguishing characteristice between cultures is the varia- acted very interested. ARer a while the profesgor found
tion in their use and interpretation of non-verbal cues. himself dolng all of his teaching from one side of the room!
It can be difficult to appreciate the differences in the micro
phyeiolom related t.o different states unless you are verv
accurate in your observation because many behaviors appear
to be similar. This kind of accuracy invoIves n certain
commitment to observation which you may not a l w a p have
time for in daily life. On the other hand, there might be
certain contexts where it's worth the investment of precision.
For exnmple, detailed observation may be essential in certain
intense interactions o r in very delicate situations. one of
the leaders in my study commented, "There a m moments
wlzere a leader has to have the ability to change the second
half of his sentence based on the feedhack he received i n
response lo the first half of the sentence." Not that you would
always do that, but sometimes circumstances require t.hat
degree of commitment to obeenpationalskill.
Having sensitivity t o the non-verbal aspects of communi-
cation allows the leader to recognize and encourage states i n
ot.her.9. One method for accornplisbining this is called "shap-
ing". Shaping has to do with encouraging something in a
physiological way. For example, there is a story about EI
psychology professor who conducted an experiment with a
group of university students. He ingtructed the students in
his class t o compliment or non-verbaI1~express nppra.al for
women m-ho wore red sweaters They were not to comment on
the swea*r itself but just t o say somethmg like, "Oh, you
Imk nice today," or to smile a t them. Supposedly, after n
messages. For example, consider the difference in the impli-
Managing Met a Messages cations of the following messages:
"You should not try to think ihnt ufuy at this time."
The process of 'shaping' involvea the use of verbal a n d non-
verbal 'meta messages' - messages ABOUT other rnessage5.
"You should not try to think that way a t this time."
In face-to-face communication meta messages are most often "You should not try to think that way a t this time."
transmitted non-verbally. People nre constantly sending meta
messages, even when they themselves are not talking. T,ln- Based on the placement of voice inflection, the message
guists call this the 'grunts and p a n g ' phenomenon of takes on different implications relating to a part,icular level
communicahon. of emphasis:
When people are listening they are often making nolses
like "Ah," TJh huh," "Hhrnmm," etc. As it turns out, these You (identity) should not tbeliefs/values) t r j to think
e ~ not juat random. They me meta messages about
n o i ~ are (capability) that way (specific behavior) at this time
how they are receiving the messages being sent. If somebody (environment).
is rapidly golng "Ah ha, ah ha, ah ha," for instance, it
indicates he o r she is receiving the message differently than It i s the presence or lack of ~ u c hmeta messages t.hat,often
if that person slowly says, " A Mhaaaa." determines how a message is received and whet,her or not a
I once modeled a top manager at IBM who almost exclu- message will be interpreted appropriately.
sively (though unconsciously) used meta message7 to d i m t For example, if a leader says T O U weren't respecting the
people to 'discover' that they agreed with his approach. When rules," t.hia is much more likely to be taken a s an identitg
he was talking with somebody that was t h l n h n g along message. If the leader says, 'You weren't respecting the
similar lines as he was, he was a wonderful and very achve RULES," then he or she is not emphasizing the individual
listener, constantly making eye contact, nodding his head identity so much as the level of what and how.
and saying things like, "Oh really?" That's interesting." "Tell Thus, a typical non-verbal communication skill is the
me more about your idea." If somebody started to go off l n a ability to use voice stress. If a leader says, "Now I want you
direction he didn't like, he would stare blankly and mumble to pay c l o ~ eattention to what I will any next.,"in a monotone
"Uh huh...Uh huh." It was like talking t o a brick wall. AS Voice he or she will probably not accomplish the intended
soon as the other person began to ehiR directions, the purpose of getting the group's attention. The same message
manager would come back to Life and become very interested with a different voice stress as a meta message would give i t
in the other person's direction of t h n h n g . People found a different meaning. The leader could say, "I want you topay
themselves eventually comng m u n d to his way of thinking close attention (with voice emphafiis) to what I'm going to say
mthout understanding why. next." That non-verbal aspect of the communication will
As I mentioned earlier, the same message will have differ- have an influence on how people receive that message.
ent meanings if accompanied by different non-verbal meta People in companies and organizations are often exposed
to so much information that, a key qtieation for them is whnt.
to emphasize or what's important. This is typically done through
the non-verbal meta message3 that accompany the inform~tion.
Pacing and Leading
Somebody even experimented with the influence o r meta
message9 in relation to the computer. One of the problems
[f you have ever watched people communicating, 1-ou hare
with a computer is that it. doesn't give meta messages. So, probably noticed that, at times, they tend to imitate each
they decided to program the computer t o give meta messages
other. When people interact and begin to establish rapport
to the people who were us in^ it. The computer mould con-
with one another, frequently therc's a matching of certain
stantIy print responses like, "Oh yes.' "Isee.* "En.good." It
behaviors that starts to occur. They will begin to sit in a
turned out that people really liked using this computer!
pimilar posture, speak at a similar rate and in a similar tone,
They were actually more productive with the computer
nnd even take on aimilar gestures. This is related to a
because they somehow felt more rapport with the computer,
process called "pacing- in XLP. If you watch people carefully,
even though they couldn't tell you why.
you will notice that when two individuals are really in
Difierent kinds of meta messages are used in different
rapport with each other, they do a lot of mirroring of each
way9 in different cultures. For example, someone once did a
oth~rs'beha\-iors. This is a basic principle o f communication
study on the interactions between people in English pubs
that can he used as a tool to help Iead people more erectively.
and people in French bistros. They found that. 'he French
Pacing is the process of wing a n d reeding back key verbal
touched each other on the average of approximately 110
nnd non-verbal cues from the other person, in order to match
times per hour. The English touched each other only an
his or her model of thc world. It inTolves having the
average of three times per hour.
flexibility to pick u p and incorporate other people's vocabu-
Meta messages do not only relate to voice stress. They
lary and behavior into one's own vocabulary and actions. The
come from many other non-uerhal aspects o f communication.
process is important t o many of t,he essential aspects of
In addition to voice inflection, some other w-nys in u-hich a
effective communication, (such as rapport and trust build-
leader ecnds non-verbal mcta messages arc through gestures
ing). When you are pacing, you are trying to step into
and the mnl-ement of hi9 o r her bndv Setting up the meeting
another person's shoes and experience their model of the
room in a certain way is a meta message about thc hind of
world. In pacing you want to communicate with someone in
interaction that you want people t o have.
their own language and through their own way of t.11inking.
The geogmphical relationship between group mcmhera
For instance, one way to develop rapport is by 1ist.eningto
has an important non-verbal influence upon ~ r o u pprocess. Tr
the kinds of language pntt,erns a person uses and then doing
often has both a physical and symhlic influence on shaping
a type of "active listening" by matching some of t.heir words.
the interaction between group members. For e ~ ~ m p lsitting
e,
So if somebody says, "I fee! that me need to go more deeply
in a circIe, as in a round table, encourages different t w e s of
into this," you might say, Tes, I understand that you havc a
feedback and interactions between group member? than
feeling that we need to explore this."
sitting at a rcctangulnr table or in a 'theater style' arrange-
Of course, i t i s easier to'pace' people you already know and
ment. Around table also conveys n diifcrent h n d d sjmbolic
with whom you already have rapport. It's like a meta
relationship between group members. This influcnce j3
message ncknowledging pour rapport in that case. But in
called 'psychogeography'.
aituat.ions involving people that you're not familiar with, it have some time. .. to talk with you .... when you really have
might be difficult; and i t might even be disrespectful. On the some time ... to think about our products ... I know it's really
other hand, i t can be a very effective way of encouraging important for you ... to take your time and think about
rapport with people with whom you me unfamiliar. Onc things ... Could you tell me when we could call ...." and so on.
suggestion in that situation would be t o do it. in stages s~ Instead of saying, "I11 only take a minute." You Fay, T h e n
that, you pace one element nt a time. You might begin by could I call you back when you would have enough time to
matching the other person's voice tone and then respectfull?; think about this comfortably and thoroughly?" The company
adding body posture, gestures, etc. president felt so comfortable with the approach that he
Leading involves the attempt to get another person t o scheduled a meeting, and the telemarketing group ended up
change, add to or enrich his or her bchavior or thinkin: getting the account.
process by subtly shifting one's own verbal and behavioral AF tthis example illustrates, one of the most important
patterns in the desired direction. The basic iden of pacing outcomes of pacing is the establishment of rapport. When
and leading is to incrementalIy introduce somebody to changes people know you can think as they do and can take their
in t.heir behavior o r world view by first matching and world v i m into account, they are much less resistant to new
acknowled~ng,and then widening their model of the world. ideas.
For instance, when people are being introduced to some thin^ There are a lot of ways of pacing someone. In addition to
new, it is best to start with something familiar and then matching voice tone and tempo, you can match key words
move to something new. and physical posture. One way t o pace someone at a very
Most people think of leadership as being primarily associ- deep level is t o speak at the rate which the other person is
ated with 'leading'. But often t.he most effective leaders are breathing. You speak in tempo with their breathing rate.
those who can first understand and respect other peoplc's This can even help in dealing with problem people. For
modeIs of the world. and have the flexibility to incorporate example, once during a presentation on communication skills
those other world views into t h e i ~own visions. In other I was giving, a man stood up and said, "All this stuff you are
words, effective leadership requires effective 'pacership'. saying about, communicntion seems too easy. I'm in the REAL
A gwd example of the power of pacing before leading WORLD. These theories are only for seminars. I just don't
comes from a sales seminar for a telemarketing group. There feel that it will work with MY clients." So 1 said, 'You
was one customer that no one had heen able to sell to. It certainly have a legitimate concern. Why don't you come up
turned out this person talked very s...l...o...m-...l...y. However. and tw a dcrnonstration subject? You pretend that you're one
he was the president of a big company t.hat could become a of your difficult c1ient.s in the real world, and well try to get a
very important customer. People would call him and say. hold of how this might put you more in touch with them."
"Hello, sir, 1know you're a very busy man, if 1 could just take So he came up and started *role playing." The first thing I
a minute of your time," speaking at about twice his speed. did wns to subtly put myself into n similar body posture. He
But that isn't the way that person thinks, or listens. AS said, Well, h a busy man. I have to see a hundred people
way to improve his communication skill; ~ b e rof the hke you every day. Most o f them are full of crnp and end up
group was instructed to call this man u ;y, "Hello... wasting my time. Let's hurry up and get through t.11is."As I
(very slowIyl ... l'm fsnm ~ x company.
x .. and I'd realty like to responded to him I began to match my speech t u the man's
breathing, and said, "It. ~ o u n d to
s me... Like you want some.
one... you feel you can trust... Someone who cares .... about Representational Channels and
what you need ... and will support you ...Think of somebodv Thinking Styles
you have really trusted ... in your Life... and how you felt..,
That's the kind of relationship ... I'd like to develop rvit.h you."
I continued pacing his breathing, and finally aRer about
To be an effective lender, it, is critical to keep in mind that
three minutea of this the man stopped him and said. Yiou
e u e ~ h o d yhas his or her oum rnnp of the uurld. When a
know, I was going to try to be as resistant as I could, but person wants to communicate something or understand some-
right now I'd buy anything fmm you." thing,that person will construct a mental map of the idea or
This example il1ustrat.e~ the value of using simple but concept. It ia the job of the leader to recognize (and in some
subtle non-verbal cues to help establish rapport a n d t o pace instances to help develop) the thinking styles of their collabo-
a n d lead another person's state so that they are more open to
rators and to provide as many options and rhoices as they
'receiving' your messages. can that will fit those st.yles.
People's maps of the world are con~tructedfrom experi-
Leadership and RappoH ences they perceive through t.heir sensory representational
systems. People will often find themselves more at home with
One of the most important relational skills of lendership is one sense than the others us they build their mental maps.
the ability to establish rapport -7th one's collaborators. The For some people "seeing is believing;" others rely much more
quality af performance you can draw out of othem ail1 be heavily upon their feelings; whereas other people value what
greatly influenced by the amount of rapport you have ~ 7 t h they hear and ~ e e thek verbal opinions of other people.
them. People ~enerallyexperience more rapport with people The notion of 'thinking style' is hapically a recognition, or
who share n similar model of the world.
an acknowledgment that people think and understand in
Matchng language patterns is one way of acknowledging different ways. Different people develop their senson capa-
someone else's model of the world. Idenhfying and incorpo- bilities to different degrees. Some people are naturally very
rating key words, micro metaphors and examples commonly visual. Some people have a very difficult time forming visual
used by a pwhcular individual or group 1s another may of images, or thinking visually a t all. Some people are more
sharing t h e r maps of the world and attaining rapport. verbal, and can speak md nrt.icu1nt.e experiences very easily,
Paclng or subtly rmrmring their non-verbal communica- while other people struggle with words. Words mnfuse them.
tion can also greatly enhance their experience of rapport Some people arc very feeling-oriented. and learn or under-
because they m l l perceive you as being "like them". SomP stand something through action. A leader needs t,o address
ways to non-verbally pace or mirror people include putting the fact that pmple have different strengths.
yourself into a similar body posture, uslng similar lntonntlon A major part of communication strategy is directed not
patterns and expressions, dress~ng~imilnrly,etc. This is only at what messages collaborators should receive, but in
powerful form of putting oneself 'into the shoes' of another determining which channel of communication will be most
person. effective for delivering those messages and the meta mes-
sages necessarg f o r them to be interpreted appropriately.
The representational channel an individual uses to present channel of representation is an important method of estab-
informahon, such as desired future events and potential lishing rapport and insuring that they will understand your
consequences, is not simply a trivial detail. For example, communicat~on.
some people run into problems accomplishing tasks because Underetanhng can be enhanced by either utilizing people's
they have great risions but no comprehension of the feeling strengths or strengthening their weaknesses. If somebody
of effort that i t might take to accomplish the vision, or no typically does not use v~suahzation,encouraging them to
realization of the logicnl sequence of sctivitiea leading to the t h n k m terms of pictures could be very useful for them. If
goal. somebody i s .good at vi~ualinng.emphasizing and enriching
Take a moment and examine the way you uee these the use of that capablhty can also help to increase his or her
different representational channels internalIy and externdIy ability to understand and perform in certain situations.
while you are leading others. For example, when you are I t is also psslbIe to use several types of reprerentat~onsor
setting g.oals, are the goals represented visually? Are they repreeentat~onalchannels when leading. For example. goals
represented as actions, physically? Are they represented on a task level might be represented i n terms of a picture or
vcrbaIly? Perhaps they are represented simply as a b n d of image of the desired result, but goals on a relat~onallevel
feeling. might be represented verbalIy or emotionally, Certain ideas
Similarly, yvo might check whether the evidence you are or concepts may be represented in terms of multiple senses
utilizing to confirm whether you are accomplishing your such a s feelings and imagery.
goals is verbal, visual, emotional or physical. As an analogy, consider for a moment whch of the follow-
When you present goals and ideas to people do you tend t o ing houses would appeal to you the most:
be primarily verbal? Or do you also use pictures and imageT
or physicalIy act out ideas by giving 'microdemonstrations? T h e fir.~thouse is quite picturesque. It hos a w r y
Perhaps you have a clear preference for one of these repre- quaint look to it. You enn sep that a m j o r focus has
sentational channels. been put on the coEorfuE patio and garden area. It has
I t is dangeroufi to automatically assume that others have a Lot of window space so that you can enjoy the view.
the same thinking style as our own. Sometimes a person is It is dearly a good buy.
not used to ~ s u a l l z i n geven
, though people are talking about.
things that require the ability to remember or fantasize
visually. At other times a person might tend to focus tno me second house is u e v soundly eonstructcd and well
much an a particular image that has become imprinted in his situated. It is in such a q u i ~ at m that all you hear
or her mind. It stands out because it's unique or it" the only when you walk outside are the sounds of the birds
one that person has been exposed to. In challenging or singing. Its s t o ~ b w kintenor speaks of so much
~tresrrfulsituations, peopIe oRen revert to their most. familiar character that you'll probably find yourself asking
repres~ntationalchannel. yourself how you could ever pass it b.v.
1% ooRen make assumptions that others have the same
cognitive capabilities that we do. B u t most often this is not The thipd house AP no! oonly ,solidly mmtructed, it has n
the case. In communicating with others, matching their very special feeling to if a*we![. It's mt open that you
come in contact wiik a place that touches you m sn Basic Perceptual Positions in
manv ulays becuuse o f i t s wide range of special f~ntuws.
It is spacious e w f l g h that you moll?: feel ltke you can Communication and
moue around freely and y ~ cozy t ennugh thnl yoti won't Relationships
rueor yourselfout tukrng core af it.
Which one would you choose? To be a more effective 'sender' it is important to know
something about your intended receiverls). Developing better
Actually, t.hese are all degcriptionrr of the same house! The observational skills for non-verbal cues, pacing and mirror-
only difference is that each description was written to appeal ing physiology and language patterns, as well as gaining
to a different. sense. If you chose the first house you are more flexibility in t.he use of different representational chan-
probably more visually (sight) oriented. If you chose house nels and thirking styles are all ways of accomplishing this
number two you are most likely more nuditorally isoundi goal.
oriented. If you chose the third, you probably value your Another way to understand people better when you are
feelings more than your other senses. communicating with them is to 'put yourself in their shoes'.
Presenting a new vision o r goal is a bit like presenting a This serves to shift your *perceptual position" with respect. to
house. People will have different styles of perceiving and an interaction. In my study of effective leaders, many of them
understanding it. Pacing people's behaviors and thinking mentioned that it was important for a leader to understand
styles is a communication skill that will help C O ~ ~ ~ ~ O Tt oR ~ O ~ E the ch,aractetietice of h i a or her collaboratore by somehow
comprehend m d commit to that goal o r vision. entering their viewpoint or "feeling space."
In summary, representational channels may be used t o Certainly, our perceptions of situations and experiences
facilitate effective communication in a number of ways: are greatly influenced by the point of view or perspective
from which we consider them. In addition to being in the
1) Emphasizing the representational channel that is most shoes of another person, there are several basic "perceptual
appropriate or best suited to the type of task. positions" from which an interaction may bF vicwcd. Percep-
tual positions refer t o the fundamental points of view one can
2) Matching the channel that is most Gtequently used and
valued by the receivwls) (appealing t o a strength).
take concerning the relationship between oneself and an-
other person:
31 Using a channel that is not frequently used t o stimulatt'
new ways of thinking or perceiving (st.rengthcnjng a 1st Position: Associated in your own point of view,
weakness). beliefs and arsumptiong, seeing the external world
through your ovfneyes - an "I"position.
2nd Pus~tiun:Associated in another person's point of
view, beliefs nnd assumptions, seeing the external
world through his or her eyes - a ':y<runposition.
3rd Position: kssociated in a point of view outside of spectives of a situation o r experience. Try taking the differ-
the relationship between yourself and the other person ent p+ceptual positions with respect to a leadership situa-
- a "they" position. tion by practicing the following steps.
4th Position: Ansociated i n the perspective of the 1. Think about a challenging situation you have been in, or
whole system - a WE^ position. This is what one are expecting to be in, invol\kg a particular mllaborat.or.
leader described as a Yhinking vision of the system."
2. Put yourself fully into 1st position by imagining that
ks the descriptions above indicate, perceptual positions your collaborator is here right now and that you are
are characterized and expressed by key words - "I," "you," looking a t him or her through your own eyes.
"they," and "we." In a way, these key words are a @-pe uf 3. Now imagine you are *in the shoes" of pour collaborator
meta message that can help you to recognize and direct the l w b n g at your self through hi8 or her eyes. Assume thc
perceptual positions people are assuming during a parhcular perspective, beliefs and nssumptions of the collaborator
interachon. For instance, someone who frequently uses the a s if you were that person for a moment.
word "I" is more likely t o be speaking from his or her point of
view than a person who is using the word "we" when talking 4. Now view the relationship between yourself and your
about ideas o r suggestions. A person who is stuck in one r if you were an observer watching a >ldeo
c o l l a ~ r a t o as
perspective can be paced and lead t o ~ h i Rperceptual posi- of some other leader interacting with a collaborator.
tions through the subtle uEe of such language cues. 5. a final experiment, take the perspective of the whole
For example, let's say a member of a project team i s being system and consider what would be in the best interest
overly critical of an idea or plan and says something like. *I of the system.
don't think thls will ever work", indicating a strong 'first
position' reaction The leader could pace and lead the indi- Notice how taking the different perwptual positions changes
vidual to a more 'systemic' position by saying,"I understand your experience of the interaction.
you have some big concerns about this plan. How do you What new awareness did you get about p u r ~ e l f ,your
think we can approach it in a way that will work?" collaborator or the situation?
To guide the person to nn observer position, the leader
could suggest, "Imapne you were a consultant for this team
What ways would you suggest for them ta work together
more effectively?" TO encourage the critical individual to go
to 'second position' the leader could say, "Put yourself ~n m?'
shoes (or one of the other team members) for a moment.
I n a t reactions do you thlnk I would have h your concern7"
Certainly, one of the most important communication grid
reIationa1 skills a Ieader can develop for himself or herself 1s
the ab~lityto smtch points of vlew and take multiple per-
T h e Skill of Meta Communication channel (looking', biew') that could be essential for sharing
the intended meamng of the message, T a u weren't respect-
ing the rules." Thus, meta commumcation addresfies the
earnework surrounding the rest of the communication.
Another key cornmication skill for erective leadership
relates to the process of "meta communication". Meto com-
In my .study of the communication patterns of effective
leadem, I observed that almost half of the leaders' mmmuni-
munication i~ 'c-unication about communication'. For
catlon was actually meta communication. Effective leaders
instance, a rneta communication is ofien a verbal statement
mere con~tantlys a y n g things like, "I'm going to be talking
that sets a framework around a communication situation in
about this ..." T h i s is how I want you to think about it."
the form of rules, guidelines and expectations. It essentially
"Focus here..." "Have these types of expectations.." It is as if
involves setting the frame for an interaction. A leader 'mcta
they were setting up all of the elements necessary to inter-
communicates' about n situation in order to set up appropri-
pret their mrnrnunication accurately before they finally made
ate expectations and presuppositions in an individual or a
the one essential point. Because the interpretation and under-
p u p . Before n leader initiates a meeting or an interaction,
standing of that one point is so sighifitant,they neded to cover
for example, he or she may decide to set certain guidelines,
all the 'perceptual space'around it so there was no ambiguity
mles of interactition, diredionrr for interpretation, etc.
Meta communication i s oRen necessary in order to estab-
It is important to distinguish meta communication from
lish or clarifv the context of a communication. When a leader
h e t a messages'. Meta communication is a more macro level
enters into a n unfamiliar culture, for instance, he or she may
process than sending a meta message. A meta message is a
spend quite a bit of time meta communicating before actually
message about another specific message. It operates as a
beginning a meeting or interaction. This can help to set the
kind of non-verbal subtext that. emphasizes certain aspects of
framework for people to accurately interpret both verbal and
a message. As I pointed out earlier, if a person says, "YOU
non-verbal messages. If the leader doe~n'tprwide any con-
weren't respecting the rules," emphasizing the "You" with
textual information, he or she can only hope that people will
voice inflection, i L marks the communication as directed
share a similar enough awareness and understanding to be
toward the 'who'. Saying, T a u weren't rerpectingthe RLTLES,"
able to interpret messages appropriately.
shiRs the emphasis ofthe message t o the khat'.
Meta communication also invoIves 'talking about' what is
Meta communicntion, on the other hand, would be saying
happening during a commumcation interaction in order to
something like, "Let's talk about what the rules are and why
make conscious or acknowledge some significant aspect of
we have them." ?%at a r e the goals and purposes of the
the interaction. Therefore, if a leader feels that there is
rules?" In other words, meta communication would involve
something golng on in a group that seems ambiguous, he or
initiating a discusgion nbout the rules. Meta communication
she might choose to go back and clan% some of the issues or
might. be saying something like, "It's important for us to
assumptions by meta communicating about the situation.
respect this", a "The k l e s help us to a-r~oidthat."
The amount of meta communication one uses is a strategic
The statement, "Looking back on your comment from the
choice. For examplc, when a leader goes into a new situa-
company's point ofview, you'd have to admit.that ..." is a meta
tion, he o r she might spend more time mcta communicating
communication that is telling the listener what perceptual
than if it mas a more familiar context.
position ('company's point of view'? and representat,ional
Your internal state.
Practicing Effective The type of relationship ynu want to have with the group
Communication Skills (complementary, symmetrical, reciprocall.
The desired internal state for the group members.
The type of context for your interaction (i.e., teaching,
The following exercise will help you t o explore how the brainstorming, motivational, etc.).
distinctions, principles and skills that have been outlined in
this chapter relate to the persona1 experience of leadership. Determine which communication ~ h a ~ e (voice l9 inflec-
Its purpose is to underline some principles of effective tion, gestures, body posture. 'psychogeagraphy', etc.) you will
leadership and to make you aware of some aspects of your use to commumcate your desired meta messages. Also, deter-
own leadership sblls and style through a concrete reference mine which issues m g h t be most important t o 'meta commu-
experience. nicate' about prior to or during the interaction.
There are two roles in the exercise; a 'leader'and a 'group'. Before interacting with the group, it is also a good idea to
The Teader' is to make a presentation to the group about a go through the process for creating nn 'ahgned state', de-
tision' that the leader hns. The gmup members are to I i ~ t e n scribed in Chapter 2.
tn the presentation, observe the leader and notice if there are
patterns and consistencies of language and behavior relating
to the leaders's skills and style. Part Il -Delivering the Message
4
Task
your favorite dish ready for supper when you're finished. Now important his feelings and values were, gi-i?ng him time to
a b u t the i m p , I thinkit would be better..." consider each question fully. She would also attempt to put
If the wife were to approach the task from the more herself in his shoes and ask if there was mything that might
'transformational' style or management by objective, she make the job of rearranging the furniture easier or more
would T i s t lay out a very clear representation of her desired efficient.
state for the furniture. She might draw a picture ~ h o u i n gthe Were the wife to become chnrisrnatic in her st.ylele, she
exact locations in the room that she mould like to have the might discuss her long term vision for her relationship with
various pieces of furniture placed. She might comment t o her her husband and their life together. She would talk about their
husband about some of her reasoning and criteria, and home, and how each mom was an important reflection of thitt
express her appreciation for her husband's ahility to move vision. She might mention thnt her husband's assistance ~ j t h
such bulky furniture as well as his willing~essto hclp. even the details of the arrangement of f m i t u r e in their home
Were the wife to take on the style of intelIectual stirnrria- was an important part of their reI~itionship,and that it ga~-e her
tion, she might h t sit with her husband and discuss with concrete feedback about his commitment to thcir marriage and
him the placement of the furniture. She might point out some of the vision they shared of their fulure together.
210 CREATING
A W o r n TO ~ C A W m m BELOSO
P.OPL&
Obviously, the different styles involve more or lens empha. priate. And if them hw been an emotional incident resulting in
sia on aspects af 'task' versus 'relationship', and on Vision tears,a healthy dose of indiuidunlized mnsidemtion is in order.
versus 'action! n e y also involve assumphons about the In k t c t it
! seems to me that the different leadership styles
quahty of relationship btween the 'leader' and 'mllaboratod~I' form a natural sequence. The leader begins by presenting the
as well as their respective sldlls and capabillhes. vision, then ~ h i R sto individualized consideration in order to
Accord~ngto the model, the mare transformational factors better understand the beliefs and values of collaborators. Lnspi-
the mllaborator pawaves in the leader, the more effective the rai.ion involves connecting those beliefs and values to the vision.
leader is, regardless of the specific situation. The leader's t a ~ k Intellectual stimulation then helps people to consider ways to
is to change h a or het behnvlor in a way that increases the manifest the vision. Afterwards, specific objectives may be set
amount of transformational qualities percerved by collahraton and a sy-*ern of rewards worked out. If these steps h a w k n
While t h s model undoubtedly has many merits, there are accomplished effectively, leadership s h f i to the collaborators
some potential draw backs. For Instance, the model does not and the leader is able to operate from management by exception.
provide a system of behavioral micro skills or cogn~lltiv~
strategies to dlrect the leader as ta how specifically to change Assessing Leodemhip S t ~ l e s
his or her behavior in order to influence his o r her collabora-
tors' perceptions. Clearly, such micro slulPs would involve the It seems evident that different people will have their own
ability to send certain meta meEsages as well a s message9 - natural l e a d c ~ h i pstyle and proclivities, which will be more
otherwise the style will appear 'forced' or 'fake'. or less effective based on the culturc, conlext, typ~of collaho-
Perhaps more importantly, the model does not necessarilv rators and dcsired outcomee, One aspect of an emective
take into account individual differences between situai~ons communication stratew is for the leader to develop a better
and types of tasks, goals and collaborators that might make sense of his or her onn leademhip style and cnrich it in order
m e of the styles (even the transactional styles) more appro- to be effective in a wider variety of situations.
priate for some contexk than it would for others. In assefising leadership styles it is important to note that
For instance, as n father of two young children, I find that Bass determines these styles based on the subjective opin-
there is &en value in some of the transactional leadwhip ions of collaborators, mt,her than on the leaders' self evalua-
styles in effectmely managing the behavior d m y children If the tion. Therefore, assessing one's own leadership ~ t y l requires
e
two of them are playing together happdy, there is less need for the abitity to take 'second position' with collaborators.
explicit leadershp' on my part. hly involvement may even The Le~dershipAssessment Sheet on the following pages
interfere mth them own creativity and imagination. SO. I provides an instrument for assessing one's leadership style.
essume a style of management by exception. As long as there 1s To 611 it in, first identify a particular collabnrator and a
no crying or fighting, I don't intervene. Even w h them i s , I common leadership situation that you u.ould like to explore.
might first see if they can work out the problem on their o m . To rate your style, rcview your behavior in the eituation from
When it. is time f o r the children t o clean their rooms or get either the perspective of an nhserver or from the perceptual
their pajamas on, however, I must shiR to a style invoIving position of your collaborator.
more management by objecti~seend contingent rercnrrl (per- Another way to use the sheet would be to fill it out yomeIf,
haps even some inspimtion on occasion). In doing a project o t using your own ~ubjectivcp m p t i o n or your style. Then have
homework for schoo1, i n t e l I ~ c t r t n lstirnulotion is more nppro- your collaborator fill it out, and compare your ratings.
Assessment of Leademhip Styles of WorZd-Class'LeveELeaders Levels of Change and
Bass and Avolio (1987) used a similar type of assessment Leadership Styles
process to examme how 'world clasa' leaders differed with
respect to these vanous leadership factors using b~ographrcal
accounts. The scores of some well-known leaders are listed Leadership is needed in situations requiring influence.
beIow 14 = frequently, if not always, 3 = fairly often, 2 = Styles of lendership can be related to the level of change that
sometimes, 1=hardly ever, 0 = never]. the leader is attempting to influence. Different. styles of
leadership are needed when influence is focused upon differ-
Tndiui#lualirR1 Imullpctual Contingent Ym3grmer~
ent levels of change. In the path of achieving a degired ~ t a t e ,
. ,
Conardcntlon Stimulation hvF:rw~tipa
Mlrdin Lvihcr Kina 3.9 2.5 3.4 2.4 1.9 a leader directs his or her infl uence toward different levels of
Mabatma O ~ n r l l ~ i 9.8 1.3 3.5 2.1 1.5
~ohnF Kennedy ae 3.1 3.4 2.0 1.9
learning and experience. He or she thus might use several
Abraham Lincoln 1.9 2.6 2.9 1.9 2.0 leadership styles depending on the goals and phase of the
Adolob Hitlrr 3.4 1.0 2.0 1.8 3.1
J O ~ P OSlol;n
!~ 2.7 2.1 2.4 1.9 2.3 task o r project, as well as the degree of proactivity o r
reactivity required from the leader.
Considering these various individuals and their styles can For instance, in some activities and situations, the leader
help ta give you a better idea of the different leadership may want collaborators to be highly proactive so they can a d
styles and their impact. based on their own skills and competence. In such cases the
leader's style may shift to one of 'management by exception'.
That, is, the leader primarily directs his or her influence
Leadership Styles and Manoging Beliefi toward the context or environment surrounding and support-
inp the activity and only intervenes if collaborators experi-
If you reflect on the vmous belief issues outlined in Chapter ence a problem or diff1cult.y.
5, it will probably be dear that hfferent leadership styles are Other situations and activities may require more proactive
more suited to address d i h n t belief issues. For ~natance,if input and supervision from the leader. In such cases the
there is doubt a b u t the desirability of the goal or o u t m e , a lender may assume a st,yle of 'intellectual stimulation'. For
style emphasizing inspiration or individualized comderation leademhip tasks that require the estahlifihment o r change of
would be more effective than management by objechve. If there beliefs and values, it ma~lbe more effective for the leader to
1s doubt relahng to the appropriateness or pos~ibilityo f the shift to a style involving individualized considmation. meat-
path, intellectual stimulation would be more helpful. ClariW ing a space for individuals to discuss their personal opinions,
issues would b mast efl~tivelyaddressed through m a n k g motivation nnd beliefs.
ment by objective and contingent reward Concerns about Thus, the communication strategy of the leader will re-
capabilitx responsibility and worthiness would require a combl- quire that the leader adapt his or her leadership style
nation of individualized considerabon, inspiration and inteller- appropriately t o the level of influence and change required
tual stimulation. All belief issues, however, nre most ~ffectively by the context or task:
managed when embedded in the larger context af the vision
* When influence is directed towards the ennironmcnt
(wherehhen), the leader intervenes only if something :- Exercise - Exploring and
going wrong o r deviating from the 'status quo' - 'laisrte. Expanding Leadership Style
faire' and management gY exceptwn.
Levels of Learning
?..you can reinforce a mt fpositivcly ot negatiuely)
when he inuestigntes a prrrticular strrange object, and
Bateson makes the point that, in such a c o m p l e x i ~of he will approprintcly learn to approach it or avoid it.
contexts, there are a t least two types o r levcls of learning But the very purpose of exploration is toget information
fnvolved Learning I (stimulus-responge %e conditioning) about which objects should be approached or avoided.
and Learning 11 [learning to recognize the larger context in The di~couerythat a giuen object is dunprous is
which the stimulus is occurring so its meaning may be therefore a success in t h e husiness o f getting
comctly interpreted). The most basic exampIe of learning I1 information. The success uiE1 nut discourage the rat
phenomena is set learning, or when an animal bccornes "test- from future exploration of other strange objects.*
wise" - that is, laboratory animals will get faster and faster (Ecology of Mind p. 282)
a t learning new tasks that.fall into the same class of adivity
!or make a learning leap Pike the porpoise in the parable). The ability to explore, to learn a discrimination task or to
This has to do with learning cIasses of behavior. be creative is a higher level of learning than the specific
An animal trained in avnidance conditioning will be able to behaviors that make up these abilities - and the dynamics
learn different types of avoidance behavior more and more and rules of change are different on this higher level. The
rapidlv. It will, however, be slower at learning some importance of the "unearned fish" in the porpoise example -
'reepondently' conditioned behavior (e.g.. salivating at the used to acknowledge and preserve the relationship between
sound of a bell) than some animal that hap been conditioned the trainer and the animal a t this higher level - is brought
in that class of behavior earlier. That is, it will learn quickly out in the seeming failure of dolphins to perform well at what
how t o identify and stay away from objects that might have is called "reversal learning".
a n electric shock associated with them bub will be slower at I n reversal learning an animal is trained to discriminate
learning to salivate when a bell rings. On the other hand, an between two stimuli - say, to approach something when it is
animal trained in PavIwian type conditioning will rapidly ~ h u w nthe color green and to avoid it when it is shown the
learn t o salivate to new sounds and colors, etc., but will be color red. ARcr the animal has lenrned to make the diacrimi-
slower to learn to avoid electrified objects. nation with 'better than 80% success the Yules' are reversed -
Clearly this ability to Iearn patterns or rules of a class of 30 that it must avoid the green and approach the red. Once
conditioning procedures involves more than simple stimulus- again, after it has made the switch with eater than 80%
response-reinforcement sequences for isolated behaviors. accuracy, the rules are reversed again. and so forth. The idea
Although Learning I1 involves reinforcement it is obvi- is to see if the animal w-ill make the switch faster and faster.
ously a different Iogical type than reinforcements for task That is, that it learns on a higher level. "Ah,the rules have
learning. The reinforcement for "exploration" i.a means of been switched again," and makes the transition more quickly
learning to learn) in rats is of a different nature than thot for Most laboratory animals are able to learn the higher level
the %sting" of a particular object !the learning content of pattern to some degree and progressively become faster a t
explorationl. As Bateson Points out: making the switch. Cochoaches, in fact, are apparently quite
PMLK OF THE PORPOII~E 229
g o d a t it. The dolphins that were tested, however, refused t o the aeverity nor the diversity o f the symptoms - which Pavlw
continue participating in the experiment after a while. wrote off to "character" differences in the dogs.
Bateson, who was not involved in the resenrch, talked to one Why did this conflict of excitatory and inhibitory responses
of the trainers involved in testing the dolphins. She reported manifest itself in the dogs' refusal to enter thc laboratory?
that eince the tegt was being done as psychological 'research', I l p did they attack their trainers? U'hy did all nf their
no unearned fish were allowed because it would be c o n t r q other conditioned reflexes disappear - and then return'?
to the strict conditioning procedure required for research. It seems to me that Pavlov neglected to look at t,he context
According to her, the dolphins eventually became 'bored'with and relationships within which the whole experiment was
the whole process and frustrated with the trainers, until they taking place. Naive dogs that had not been pretrained, for
finally refused to 'play the game'. She mentioned that r i ~ h t . instance, n~henpresented with the undiscriminable ~ t i m u l i
before the dolphins quit they made an unusual noise. Rateeon did not show any of the -neurotic" synptoms but simply
asked if she had ~ecordedit. She said yes, but because thc guessed randomly. The fact. that the prei.rained animals had
study was considered a failure, the recordings had been learned that 'this is a conteKt where some definite discrimi-
thrown away. Rateson lamented the fact since, according to nation should take place", is a nccessay preparation for the
him, they had destroyed the only e ~ s t i n grecording of the development of the behavioral disturbance. The circle and
dolphin idiom for "F- You!" ellipse werc context markers that said, "discriminate be-
Anot.her insightful example of the processes invoIved in tween the two stimuli." The laboratory was a context
Learning lI is Pavlox,'~report of the development of "experi- surrounding that which said, "you must find the one right
mental neuroses" in his dogs. This occurred when a dog. anmer." The relationsiup with the trainers mas the context
trained to discriminate between two stimuli, an ellipse and a surrounding both of the other contexhs. Unlike the porpoise
circle for example, was forced to continue rnakinc the d i a - in the exhibition tank, Pavlov's dogs were given no "un-
crimination a s the stimuli were sIowly made to match each earned fish." \'hen the frustrat,ion experienced by the dogs
other more and morc closely (the circle was made flatter and damaged the relationship with the trainers. all of the other
the ellipse was fattened) until discrimination become impos- conditioned reflexes disappear~dbecause Lhe whole purpose
sible, At this point the animals began t o exhibit q m p t n m s of the training was a function of the dogs' relationship with
as extreme as refusal to enter the experimental mom, refusal the trainers. This kind of carryover is undoubtedly what
tn eat, attacking the trainer, and even becoming comatose. Freud referred to as "transference".
Furthermore, not. only did the animals' ability to make the
discrimination of the circle and ellipse break down but nll of
the other 'reflexes' that had been previously established to
other stimuli disappeared for several months before return-
ing. Favlov cxpIained the reaction as being due t o a clashing
togethcr of excitatory and inhibitory responses within the
dog's nervous system since one of the stimuli was conditioned
to trigger salivation while the other triggered a suppression
of that reaction. Yet, this explanation does not account. for
Context and Presuppositions ferret^ (a Iong weasel-like animal that feeds on rabbits) since
they had to constantly learn to find food in the maze-like
structures of rabbit's holes. The student discovered that
This notion of contexta embedded inside of other contexts when he first let a ferret into the maze, not surprisingly, i t
has profound implications for leadership and management initially went down everp blind alley until it. found the one
since it is context which determines meaning. F o r example that mntained the piece of meat that was the 'reinforcement'.
Bateeon comments that outside of the laboratory situation of The second time through the maze the ferret again system-
isolatable behaviorrr, stimulu.9-responfie-rebforcmcnt ex. atically went down every blind alley - except the one that i t
changes will overlap and "slide" in the sense that different had found the meat in before! Since meat can leave a smell
individuals will pick out different stimuli as being the cause that lingers, the ferret figured that it had already gotten
or reinforcement of a particular response depending upon the what wae down that alley and wasn't going to waste its time.
surmunding context. Any pilrticuIar behavior map conyti- Recause of its familiarity with the context, rather than
tute a stimulus, response and reinforcement a t the same motivate the ferret to enter that alley of the maze, the smell
time. 'She way that a n individual perceives o r punctuates a reminded the ferret that he had already been down it before.
particular behavioral exchange, and the way that the indi- No matter how many times he tried, the student couldn't get
vidual perceives his or her universe, is a rceult of Learning 11 the ferret to go down the 'right' alley twice. Of course, the
- the perception and interpretation of context. As in the case experiment was considered a failure and was never pub-
of the exploring sat or neurotic dogs, the behavioral contcnt lished.
and response is punctuated in terms of a larger framework. Bnteson points out that any particular conditio~ngproce-
Because the rcinforcement of higher lei-eTs of learning does dure is both a product. and a reinforcement of the larger
not come from a specific incidence of feedback o r *om a system of values or epistemology that spawned them at a
particular behavior, i t is more difficult to change such pat- higher level of context. Furthermore, since i t is easier for an
terns. In fact, because behalior can be re-punctuated. individuaI t o perceive the results of his or her behavior than
learn in^ patterns tend t o be self-validating. Bateson to perceive the process by which that behavior has been
points out that people in cultures that engage in rituals t o installed and ordered. Learning TI patterns tend to take
make i t rain or control the weather won't be persuaded by place outside of the conscious attention of the individual.
the ineffectualness of these rituals. If they don't work, they For example, reqondent conditioning mas developed in
will be inclined t o think that the rituala were w ~ o n g l y Russia whereas operant conditioning was developed in the
performed rather than accept the idea that rituals are fut,ile. United States. Respondent conditioning tends to breed !and
R7c discover this in attempts t o change our accepted most likely derive from, n 'fatalistic' model of the world that
psvchoIo@cal p a r a d i p s as well. For example, it study was says TOLL can't control your environment. You have to leom to
once conducted in which a student wanted to test the abi1it.y respond to an. environment that k completely controlled by
of animals to run mazes. The studcnt wsnted to see if an someone else. You have no impad on the world hut you ctln
animal that survi~-edby running natural mazes would l e m prepare yourself fir what is going to happen by recognizing
artificial mazes faster. So, t h e student decided tn conditinn certain CUP.?.^
Without question, this was the kind of world in wh Culture and 'Learning 11'
Pavlov's dogs 11ved. Pavlov meticulously controIIed every
aspect of their environment; including the amount of light,
sound, even the vibrations in the experimental setting. They Tom MaIloy, an NLP researcher and friend of mine, went
were put in harnesses so they couldn't make extraneous
to Russia in the late 1980's to participate in a peace march
movements. The timing of their food and every aspect of with a group of about two hundred Americans. His cxperi-
their care was prec~selydetermined and recorded by Pavlov ence there t ~ n d sto confirm the higher level influences such
They had absolutely no choices regard~ngtheir own behaviar as 'culture' and the direrences between Americans and
or activities. It is not ~ u r p n s i n gthat this paradigm flour- Russians. He said that the American group was constantly
ished in Stalin's Russia. Pavlov was a classic 'Big Brother' attempting to participate in the planning of the process: they
figure to his dogs. His epistemology of behavior fit in per- changed their march in^ routes if they thought a different
fectly with the needs of the context he was operating in. way was more suitable; they spent longer amounts of time i n
B. F. Skinner's operantly conditioned pigeona a n d rats, some places; they gathered where it was more convenient.
however, lived in a more cnpitalistie a n d entrepreneurial etc. This drove the Soviet officials who were overseeing the
world. The model of the world bred by operant. conditioning whole process crazy, because the group was not doing what
is, "You h u e to do snm~thingto suruive. Your actions they were supposed to he doing and following the plan.
determine what happens in your enuironment. The signd.4 Of course, the Americans were not trying to be belligerent
around you are c w s to take ractions which., if you do them
or contrary, They were well aware of the political situation
right, ruill get you more of ~ornelhingyou need or want - but it involved and, in their eyes, were bending over backwards to
i s up to you to take the initiative and figure orst how to do it
be cmperative and not create any problems on an ideological
righ f. " level. They didn't wen consider the things that they were
No doubt this kind of paradigm was congruent with thc doing, which irritated the Swiet officials, to be out of the 1
epistemology of SldnnerB industria1 and political America. ordinav, The things they wwe doing were such an uncon-
Bateson contends that the research involved with these scious part of their behavior that they presupposed everyone
m d e l s ia less for the purpose of finding the truth than did it that way.
verifying the epistemology of the context from which they %%en the Americans found out they were making the
come. In the porpoise analogy, the behavior of the porpoise Soviet officials upset they tried to do things to correct the
'
trainer is shaped by his or her relationship with the audience situation, which only made matters worse. Interestingly
who has paid to come to the show. enough, contrary t o the 'Big Bmther'tStalin type of reaction,
!
the Soviet officials seemed more or less unprepared and
unequipped to deal with the American's operant style of
i
behavior. After making some initial threatening types of
responses, if the Americans did not reapond, the Soviet
officials didn't know what to do. lt was as if the Pavlovian !
Respondent approach had k e n so successful that morlrrn
Soviet officials were no longer prepared to deal with people
who did not share or respond to the same conlextual and
Implications of the Parable of the
culturn1 presuppositions. Intimate cuIture contect with the Porpoise for Leadership
We'est had been so successfully avoided, that the primary
problem was not that of conscious ideological conflict but. of
unconscioua presuppositions about, context. In the anaIogy of Bateson's porpoise parable, the leader'is
Incidentally, another type of context is required if, inetead the porpoise trainer, the collaborator is the pm-poise, the
of producing 'capitalist' or 'fatalistic' laboratory animals, one performance tank is the office and the organization or social
is to makc 'fascist' or Nazi animals. Bateson points out that system is represented by the audience observing the trainer
rat.$, for instance, a r e fairly social animals end will not. do and the porpoise.
serious battle with each other very often. However, if you The mission of the trainer is not t o 'condition' specific
engineer the structure of their training cage [their mntext) behaviors, but rather to get the porpoise to be creative inside
such that there is a scarcity of food and construct a funnel of its own natural set of behaviors. The success of the trainer
leading to the food that is only big enough for one rat to get is based on his or her ability to 'draw out' or release the
through at a time, rats will have to fight with each other over creativity of the porpoise. This involves teaching the por-
who is t o get the f o d . Bateson repom that if you structure poise to learn how to genesah new behaviors on its own
the situation such that a particular rat is always in competi- within the bamdariea and conditions of a specific context
tion with smaller rats that it can fairly easily defeat, it defined by a certain time and space.
s build a generaIization about itself in rclation to its
b e ~ n to The trainer is not some unaccounted for, disembodied,
environment and fellow rat^; that this is a context in which it. objective observer (as most animal researchers like to per-
should be dominant. ceive thernselvesl but rather is in an intense relationship
A much larger rat is then put in the cage that. fiererely with the porpoise. And the trainer's success depends on
beats the medium fiiired rat who has always previously been maintaining the quality of that relationship.
victorious. According t o Bateson, the medium sized rat will Note that the trainer is being required to use a leadership
thereafter instantly and viciousIy attack anything that is put style that is exclusively based on 'contingent reward' !a
in the cage, as soon it is placed in the cage - not onIy other transactional style) but is attempting to get the porpoise to
rats, but even objects such as pieces of wocd or plastic. lenm a transformational task. The "unearned f i s h is an
Once again, this is not a case of simple st.imulus, response admixture of a bit of 'individualized consideration' as part of
and reinforcement but inxrolves context, relationship to 0th- the trainer's style. The 'contingent reward' of the fish in
ers and generalization that is occurring on mother level of return for a particular performance is an effective way to get
learning. the porpoise to learn a particular behavior. But to learn t o
Inside of this paradigm, leadership may be seen more as generate new behaviors for each performance, the porpoise
the abilitv t o create and manage a set of contexts nnd must 'jump up' to the level of capability. Since the communi-
relationships i n which hie collaborators can excel as opposed cation Iirnit~tions between the trainer nnd the porpoise
to the ability to persuade others to do his bidding or convince prevent the trainer from effectively applying 'management,
them to follow him. by objwtive', 'intellectual stimulation' o r 'inspiration', indi-
vidurtlized consideration becomes the only other viable lead-
ership style available. Applying the Parable of the
Tne relational dimension of the communication is not Porpoise
conducted through 'stimuli' and objectified 'reinforcements'
but rather through messages and meta messages about:
Leadership is more of a process that is 'reoeoled'
1)the state and status of thc beings involved in the
through. self motiuated activities than taught tkmugit
elations skip,
techniques. Jgrow us a lender by fce1in.g a strong usill
2) the set of contexts in which both the task and the to modif:?,the enuironment to make it hetter, then creote
relationship are occurring and chnllenging situations that I can't g ~ tout of except by
3) the level of messages being sent. changing. - GiIles Pnjou
Self SkiIls:
Establishing a vision and the supporting levels of pro-
cesses necessary for translating that vision inta actions.
Creating and maintaining effective internal states by
aligning oneself with one's vision and miesion.
Assessing and strenglhening the beliefs needed to achieve
one's mission and pursue one's vision.
Developing more awareness and flexibility with respect
to one's communication abiliw and leadership style.
Relational Skills:
= Recognllzing and utihzing hfferent thinking styles.
Identifying key beliefs related to change.
Explonng ways t o transform resistance t o change and to
strengthen confidence in the futurc.
Understanding the relntionship between messages and
non-verbal meta meusages
Insuring that the 'intended' and 'received' messages are
congruent. Afterword
Exploring the influence of various leadership stpleg on
differ~ntpeople, situations and levels nf change.
* Giving effective feedback. I hope you have enjoyed thig exploration into Crenting a
World to Which People Wont to Belung. As I indicated during
Strategic Thinking Skills: the course of the book, other tools and resources exist to
Defining a present state and desired stat.e with respect further develop and apply the models, strategies and skills
to one's vision and mission. descrihd within these pages.
Determining a path to the desired state, and chunkiny? Systemic Solutions Internationd l e a tra~ningand
that path into manageable steps through the pmcessea of consulting company estabhshed in order to help businesses
'storyboarding' and m&ng succes~iveapproximations. and organizations define and achieve desired states through
the use of NLP based tools and m e l h d s . Its mission is to
Systemic Thinking SkI1Is: provide the materials and the support necessary to promote
* Considering multip1e Ievels af change nund acknowledg- erective and ecological change in social sptems. The core of
ing different perspectives. Systemc Solutionrr International is a set of engineered mate-
Understanding the influence of context. mental maps, rials for people in medium to large organizations, developed
assumptions and culture. through research projects and training intenrentions con-
Recognizing the impact of different leveIs of learning and ducted with companies such as Fiat, TBM, Apple Computer,
how hehaPior reflects deeper values and presuppositions. T,ucasfilms and the State Railway in Italy. A key feature of
the SSI product line is it3 approach to systemic change which
Taking the time to master these skill? Rill help you to: involverr a combination of eeminarg, rrelf learning paths and
1)Feel more motivated and engaged in your work and life. assisted learning paths. For more information On Systemic
2) Communicate more effectively with others. Solutions International see Appendix B.
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situations and diverse types of people. the h i ~ h e s tquality trainings in basic and advanced h?P
ski113 and to promoting the de\-elopment.of new models and
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Appendix A:
Overcoming Resistance
to Persuasion
by
Robert Dilta & JosephYeager
A: Its important not to inconvenience your fami1.v. I11 h~ P: Oh, yes, I have. Itk nice to involve your friends t,hat
happy to store it for you. (Pacing) way.
P: Yes but, as you aid, I'd need to seEI it to my friends to A Now you know what 1 mean when I sap there is no
get started. And I don't think it's nice to sell to friends selIing i n this program. If you are h l p excited about
They might not like it. And besides, selling isn't my ide: these products and communicate that excitement, you
of an honest profession. (Cure belief and criteria) hnve informed your friends about something that they
might want. Thcn, thcy can dccidc for themseIves if they
At this point it is obvious that the objections have to do would like to purchase it. It's just. like telling them about
u-irith the belief that selling is an unParrory activity that cnuld a movie or a new lipstick. You are helping t,hem learn
rnakc the persnn unpopular. A way tn change that belidis tc about things they may want.. You could consider it as
chanw the meaning of selling. Here's how it was done. doing them a favor. It doesn't impose on them a t all.
(GTtilizingcounter-examples by asking a reading question
A: Oh, I understand perfectly. We wouldn't want you t o to substilute neu! crirerial equicalrnn. for "selling" -
sell. That isn't necessary at all. But ~ i n c eyou are such a "Iwlping your friends I ~ n r nn hnut t h i n ~ ts h ~ may
y u!rrnt"J
fiendly person, I imagine that you have frequently told
your fiends about things that interegt or excite vou P: I know what you mean. I hadn't thought of it that way
Pacing, then Ieading lo 'ofher'uriented criteria) Perhaps we can meet tomorrow, after all.
Assuming that this person is representative of a larger W Well awe. I went out with this person who was so
population of potential beer buyers, the interviewer has now intelligent. He seemed to know something about every-
uncovered some other values or criteria that m a y he ap- thing.
pealed to in order to sell an unfamiliar and more expensive
beer ta people that rmght not normally purchase it. M: What would make you consider going out with someone
This process of paclng and leading through the use of who wasn't rich, handsome or witty, and who didn't
counter-examples can really help in the process of effective particularly impress you with their intelligence?
persuasion. By g e b n g people to answer these types of
questions you can help them to break out of their habitual W: There was this one m y I really liked who didn't have
ways of thinking and can learn about the ordering of their any of those things but he just seemed to know where he
values. was going in life and had the determination to get there.
This information can then be used to get around bound-
aries that are often tsken Tor granted. One of the authors M: Have you w e r gone out with anyone who didn't have
once taught this method of queatiomng t o a group of men monex good looks, wit, intelligence or determination?
who were shy about meeting women because they didn't
think they had anything to offer a woman. They were W: No. Not that I can remember.
instructed to go out and intemew women and lenrn to
i d e n t ~ evalues in women that could help them realize that M:Can you think of anything that would motivate you?
they had more choices sncially. The following is an example c
one such interview: W: Well, if they did something or were involved in eome-
thing that was unique o r exciting I'd he interested.
N:Anything else?
Appendix B: Systemic
W: If they really cmed about me and helped me to get in
Solutions International
touch with myself as a person..or brought out something
speciaI about me.
Systemic Solutions International was established by Rob-
M How would you know if Fomeone reallv cared about ert E l t a (Santa CNZ, California), Charlotte Bretto-Milliner
you?... tSanta Cruz, California) and Gino Bonissone (Milan, Italy) in
order to help companies and organizations define and achieve
Once +gain, this dialogue demonstrates how some smple desired states through the use of NLP based tools and
queshom may be used to get fmm surface level beliefs to deeper methods. Its mission is to prwide the materials and the
beliefs and values that can broaden a person's choices and support necessary t,o promote effective and ecological change
flmbility. in socia1 systems.
In summary, the process "peels back" layers of resistance The core of Systemic Solutions International is a aet of
thmugh pacing and leading. Then, once the mitenon of the engineered materials for people in medium to large organiza-
most hasrc res~stanceis ident~ficd,the criteria1 equivalence tions, developed through research projects and training in-
may be clarified or expanded t h r o u ~ hthe process of finding terventions conducted with companies such as Fiat, TBM,
counter-examples. Apple, Lucnsfilms and the State Railway in Italy. These
materials cover a number of essential abilities required for
people to operate effectively in organizations, including:
- Leadership Skills
hlanaging Creativity and Innovation
Applied Systemic Thinking Skills
Presentation Skills
Teaching Skills
Training Skills
Self Managed Learning
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hhgning the Members of an
Orgxnizahon 84 116, 235
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54 Belief hsessment Sheet 126,
Americans 233 146, 149, 151
Zierden, W.E.; Leading Thmlrgh the Follower's Point of T'irru,
Anchor 37,44 ReliefAudit 141, 143, 148.
Organizational Dynamics; Spring 1980. 153, 164
Anunntion 90
Antecedent Causes 133 Belief Audit Worksheet 146,
Zolno. 5.;Scoring a P l m in OD: Skillsfor h n s i t i o n : ASTD Apple Computer 11, 62 149
Winter 1992. Aristatle 131. 132, 137 Belief Systems 116
kscsaing Leadership Belief Systems in Or~anizntinns
Styles 211 and Srrcial Systems 116
Assessing Motivatitm for Rdiefx 26, 36,39,41, 42,
Changc 126 126,131 172, 249
Asmmptiun~ 16,118, 148, Reliefs and Valucs 18. 20. 21,
162, 172, 186, 201, 220 28. 51, 58, 116, 117. 200.
Athtudrx 160 215, 216. 247
audit in^: a Belief From a 'Big Brothcr' 232.233
Different Perspective 148 Blanchnrd. Kenneth 202
Avolio 214 Bolstering Beliefs 131
Butch Cassidy 32
B
C
Ralance 112
Balancing Thinking Styles in a Cnlif<imia 11
G n ~ u p 114 Capabilities 21.28. 30,36,4fi,
Randlet, Richard 62 ... fiR
5n. ..
Baodura. Albert 123 Capability 23. 216. 235
B ~ s i cElements of Chmgc 121 Capitalist 234
Basic R o c r s s r+fChange 121 Cxust.s 131
Ranic nvee nt'Caures 132
Channels of Communicatiun Creatini: an Aligned State 34 Environment 29,36,38, 39, Heart 45
47, 60,58, 215,216 Hcrsey, Paul 202,204
168,169,170,195 Creative Cycle 92,94, 107
Envimnmental Influences 18 Hierarchy 54.58
Characteristics of Good Leaders Criteria 154, 249, 250,251,
E n w o n m e n t d Lcvel 20 Hitler, Adolph 214
2 252. 254. 256
Charismatic Leadership 207, Epistemolom 282, 236
Criteria1 Equivalence 249, Ep-qtcin,Todd 80
209,213,216 250,254, 258
Chunk-Size 108 Exprctations 121,122,192 IBM 178
Critic 87,91,92,100,107, Experimental Neumses 228
Class of activity 226 113,114,117 Identity 19,20,21,22,27.
Co-Alignment of Levels 49,84 Critic State P h y s i n l o ~ 100 Exploring and Expanding 34,36,43, 44, 51,57,38.
Cooperatiun 54 Leadership Styles 217 62,87,79,118,216
Cultural Framework 168
Communication 166, 158. 168 Cultural hesuppositions 55 Identity Level programs 64
Communication Matrix 157, Culture 4, 78, 172, 133, 200, Implementing the Creative
173,174 233,236 Feedback 91,162,173, 174, Cycle 94
Cnmmunication Ski115 157, Culture and 'learniw II' 233 176,195, 206, 230, 237, Indiridualized Consideration
182,188,194,197, 198 Culturc Building 79, 84 238,240 207,208. 211.213,215,
Communication Strateg?r 173, 'CuIture' V c ~ u s'Cult' 78 Feedback Lw~pBetween 'Sender' 216, 235
174,185, 200,211, 215, m r l Teceiver' 163 Inner Vapg 18,20
218, 241 F e m t 231 Inspirrition 32
Cnmplernentary Relationship Final Caupes 135, 136, 138 Inspirational Leadership 207,
x r n
IUU
DeZozier. Judith 80 'Firat? Position 189,190,191 209,213,216
Complexity 31, 54 Desired state 72. 73,91, 107 Formal Causes 132,136, 138 Intellectual Stimulation
Congruence 34, 162 Desired State Workqheet 74 'Fourth'Position 190 207,208. 211, 213,215,
Connectives 137,138 Discretionary Space 55 Freud, S i v u n d 229,248 216
Constraining Causes 134, Disney, Walt 8,10,86,87, 88, P~mctianilSystem 118 Intended and Received
136,138 90, 91, 94+107 Functions 19 Message 162: 174,197
Context 166,167,168,170, Disney Planning Strategv 95. Intended .\lessn~e 194
96 Jiterferences 153
172,171,193, 195,215,
217,224,225, 229,230, Dogs 221,224 229 Internal Stntc 31.32, 33, 159.
Dolphins 221,22R Gmdhi, 410handas 6, 9, 133,
284, 236. 241 134,135,137,214 175,195
Context and Presuppositiom Double Description 89 Interpretation 175,176,196,
Dreamer 87,88, 90,92,96? Gap 73 --"
230 mn
107,112,114, 117 Globalization 55
Contegts Requiring Leadership Gorbachev, M. 108 J
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S M In Manaeing Beliefs
rbn
1LU
Dreamer State Physiology 96
D v n ~ c af s a Groua 112
~ ~ s f u n c h o nsy&n
al 118
Grinder, John 62
Group Values 49 Jobs, Steve 65
Contingent Reward 206,208, Grunts and Groans Phenomenon
211,212,216,236 E or Communication 178 K
Core Critcri~ 249 Guide 37
Core Values 68, 250 Ecolom 13 Kennedy, John F. 214
Corporate 'Programmin$ 62 Effeclive Cr~mmunication 168. H Key Capabilitic~; 68
Correctire Feedback 239 175, 194,211, 218 King,Martin Luther 214
Counterexample 138,Z!iO, Effective Leadership 60 Hallbum, Tim 80
253,255,256, 258 E i n ~ t ~ iAIhm
n. 221 Hear 42
M i c r o Messages 163 Operant Conditioning 231
Mxrc Fhynical Cues 167 Organization 12
Laissez-Faire 206, 208, 216 Mamtosh 7, 62, 64, 66 ?dilTU~g 181, 184 Organizational Change 60
Larger System 34, 62 Macro leadership 4. 23, 24,54, Mismatching 109 Organizational Develupment
1,aw ofRequisite Variety 217 72 Mlsslon 8, 21, 24, 28, 30, 67
Leadtr 3 Macro Mes~ageu 163 34, 36, 42. 43, 44, 45. 52, Outcomc Expectancy 123
Leadership 2, 3,18 Mnlloy, Tom 233 56, 57, 67, 78,$ 9 , 207 Overcoming Resistance 154
Leadership and Rapport 184 M a n a ~ r n e n t 3, 205,220 Models of the World 247 Overcoming Resistance to
Lcndership hsesmwnt hlanagernent By Exception Momtoring I n t e m ~States
l 175 Persuasion 247
Sheet 211 206,208, 210,212, 215, Motivation 18, 116,121, 126,
Leadership Situation 5. 216 141, 215, 220, 237, 238 P
Leadership Style 4, 60, 201, Management by Objective 207. Motivational Space of Change Pacing 181, 182, 183,184,
202, 203, 204,205,214, 208,211, 212,216 121 188, 250, 251, 252, 255
216,236 Managmg a Group 112.113 hfulh Media Tools 104 Pacing and Leading 181, 250,
Leadership Stylc Assessment Manakmg Behefs and Valuw Multiple Paths 70 254, 258
Sheet 212, 217, 218 119 Multiple Perspectives 190 Pajou, Gilles 31, 126,237,240
L!ndership Styles 198,200, Managing Mctn Messages 17, Pdo Alto Research Center 65
212, 215, 217, 218 Mastenes of Leadcrslup 16 N
Parable of the Porpoise 235-
Leading 3, 182, 252, 253,255 l l a t c h g 109, 181, 183,184 Nansm 234 238
Learning 220,237 186,188, 249 Negahve Feedbsck 206 Paradigm 220,232, 234
Learning 1 226 Media 168, 169, 170, 172 Kested Levels of Rocesses 67 Paramesnaps 163,164
Learning I1 226, 228,230, MentalMxps 16, 153 h'ewtonian Model 220 Path 31, 69, 78, 79, 91
231, 233, 241 Mental Strate~cs 40 K~chnllx,John 3, 78, 84, 202 Path Finding 4,71,72, 73, 84
Lwrnardo da Vind E4 Messages 157,162, 164, 165, hZP 181, X3, 248, 2.19, 2 3 , 251 Pavlw 225, 228, 229, 232
Level Alitpment Rocesrr 36, 174, 185, 236 KLP University 80, 82 Pavlwian 2.26, 233, 2 4
38, 48, 49 Meta Cognition 195 KLP Wmld Health Community Pavlovian Conditiuning 226
Level Alignment Worksheet. 50 Meta Communication 192,19 80, 81 Pavlw's do@ 232
Level of Influence 216 197 Non-Leadership 206 Pep6 Cola 11
Levelp nf Change 18, 57,215 Meta Leadership 4, 23, 24 Non-Phfiical hmensions of a Perceived Self-Efficacy 122
levels nf Change and Mcta Messages 164,165,166, Context 171 Perception 21
Leademhip Styles 215 167,173,175,176, 178,180. Non-Verbal Communication Perceptual Filters 7
Levels of Changtl in an Orgmt- 185,192,194, 195.197.201, 180,184 Perceptual Positions 87. 189.
zation 58 210,225,236 Non-Verbal Cuea 175,176, 191,192,197
Levels of Experience 35 Meta Pmparn 62, 64 184,197 Perceptual Space 107, 143,
Levels of Leadership 22,23, Meta Program Patterns 107, Non-Verbal Measages 193 148
34,36 108, 110,160 Nun-Verbal Skill 16 Permission 21
ikvcls of Learning 19,226 Meta-Complementary Relation- Perrronal Computer 62,63,64
Levels of Mesaages 165 s h p 161 0 Persua9ion 247,249
Limiting Bdiefs 119,152,251 Metaphur 27, 36, 42,43,44.
T,incoln, Abraham 214 49, 51,184 Obervation 175.176.196, 288 Physicnl Activities 32
Observahonnl Shll 176 Physical Dimension of
Logical Levrls 56 Miml Behaviorx 39 Communicatinn 158.159
Micro Leadershp 4, 23, 24, Observer Position 190
156, 202, 207