CASUAL

Malu= Pasif Egoism(More think about themself)

memusatkan perhatian yang pendek is not enough when thinking about people.
Stop being self centered? not ditakdirkan buat lose

hmm wtf man

A good listener
-A egoism listerner think about next question
-A good conversation and useful is when 2 people attracted(care) to each other
-A Opened question
-A answer Rise Another Question

Berbagi Perasaan Emosional

-Show Attraction is important
-Most of them time our question is not needed to be answered; we dont really care
about the answer
-Most people comfortable talking about themself
-Friendlyness and Enthusiasm is important
-look at behavior and bodylanguage from friendly people and this enthusiasm
-can be applied to abondened relationship
-careful about "pulling pigtail"(kidding but merendahkan)
this approach is not mature

CLOSE RELATION
Experience Together
-Have a routinal spending time together(twice week)
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Things to do :
- Other centered(spent time together) try to care about the people(question more)
- Dont Think about yourself
- Grow attractiveness to others
- Give Open ended question and ask more
EG :
Apakah Anda suka sekolah Anda?
Ya, sekolah saya keren
Oh ya? Apa yang keren memangnya
- Remember A answer Rise Another Question
- Pay Attention to others Attraction (Show Grace by want to know about them)
- Show Attraction by (Eye contact,smiling,posture,body language)
- Ask about them(give Attraction) and they will tell about themself
- Try initiate conversation and respond warmly and with enthusiasm.
- Dont have tendency to give advice or talk about urself if not being asked.

wtf is this idk wtf

omg