Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Perdev v2.0
Perdev v2.0
Perdev v2.0
By
October 2018
DOMINICAN COLLEGE OF TARLAC
Emotional Intelligence
-The Capacity of recognizing our own feelings and those of others, for
motivating ourselves, for managing emotions in ourselves as well as In our
relationships.
Emotions
-refer to variation in level of arousal, affective state or mood, expressive
movements and attitude.
Personal Relationships
1. Secure attachment – when the primary caregiver is present and available most of the time
and when the child’s emotional needs are met, a sense of security will be developed.
2. Avoidant attachment – when the primary caregiver is cold and detached, the child develops
fear of rejection, premature detachment, and self reliance.
3. Anxious – ambivalent attachment – when the primary caregiver is not consistent in terms of
presence and meeting the child’s emotional needs, the child will develop hesitancy and
separation anxiety.
WHAT IS LOVE?
Strong feeling of affection and concern towards another person accompanied by sexual
attraction
Feeling of devotion and adoration towards God or a god
Sexual desire or activity
COMPONENTS OF LOVE
(Steinberg’s Triangular Theory of Love)
Intimacy
Commitment
Passion
SPOILERS TO COMMITMENT
Criticism – happens when there is the absence of unconditional positive regard for each
other in a relationship.
Denial of existence of the problem – when one party eludes the presence of a problem and
refuses to discuss it
Contempt – this is present when someone who looks down on the party as inferior does not
give unconditional positive regard
RESPONSIBILITIES IN A RELATIONSHIP
Be responsible for what you think and say to the other person.
Be responsible for what you promise to do or not.
Ensure the relationship is mutually beneficial.
Respect the other parties involved.
Be ready to provide support when needed.