Managing relationship conflicts within teams can be challenging, especially for "hot topics" that trigger strong emotions. When discussing hot topics, relationship conflicts tend to arise without notice due to human cognitive biases. To effectively discuss hot topics, managers must manage themselves by reflecting on their own reactions, manage conversations by digging into divisive issues respectfully, and manage relationships by building trust among team members. This allows teams to harness emotionally charged discussions to strengthen relationships and make better decisions rather than avoiding difficult conversations.
Managing relationship conflicts within teams can be challenging, especially for "hot topics" that trigger strong emotions. When discussing hot topics, relationship conflicts tend to arise without notice due to human cognitive biases. To effectively discuss hot topics, managers must manage themselves by reflecting on their own reactions, manage conversations by digging into divisive issues respectfully, and manage relationships by building trust among team members. This allows teams to harness emotionally charged discussions to strengthen relationships and make better decisions rather than avoiding difficult conversations.
Managing relationship conflicts within teams can be challenging, especially for "hot topics" that trigger strong emotions. When discussing hot topics, relationship conflicts tend to arise without notice due to human cognitive biases. To effectively discuss hot topics, managers must manage themselves by reflecting on their own reactions, manage conversations by digging into divisive issues respectfully, and manage relationships by building trust among team members. This allows teams to harness emotionally charged discussions to strengthen relationships and make better decisions rather than avoiding difficult conversations.
Managing relationship conflicts within teams can be challenging, especially for "hot topics" that trigger strong emotions. When discussing hot topics, relationship conflicts tend to arise without notice due to human cognitive biases. To effectively discuss hot topics, managers must manage themselves by reflecting on their own reactions, manage conversations by digging into divisive issues respectfully, and manage relationships by building trust among team members. This allows teams to harness emotionally charged discussions to strengthen relationships and make better decisions rather than avoiding difficult conversations.
Name : Atika Rizkyutami Witjaksono Student No. : 29319055 Teamwork has been suggested on senior executives as a way to increase leadership effectiveness, but it is not as easy as it sounds, especially when tackling tough conflicts. Research often gives advice to management teams who face conflict to focus on the main issue (the “task”) and avoid relationship issues. It says that teams often facing task conflict will perform way better than teams trapped in relationship conflict. However, it only works on certain conditions; first, the conflict should not clash with contrasting values, interests, or belief systems in the team; second, if analysis of facts can reduce or eliminate main uncertainties that support different options; third, the stakes should be moderately high or lower. Topics meeting these requirements are called “cool topics”. However, issues not meeting the previous requirements should be approached differently, and they are called as “hot topics”. When discussing hot topics, relationship conflict tends to show up without anyone noticing. It happens due to the way the human mind works. People immediately attribute unpleasant motives, traits, or abilities to those who disagree with our views, and two cognitive mechanism that are working behind this phenomenon are the so-called false consensus effect and naïve realism. When the business debate becomes escalating and triggering relationship conflict, executives consider two actions: silencing one’s view, or voice them, however, research suggests that neither choice results an effective team discussion. Teams that discuss the charged relationship dynamics that appear during a hot topic discussion effectively will be able to take advantage of the potential of teamwork rather than avoiding it. The paper will be discussing about the dynamics of the hot topic itself, the contrast of hot and cool topics, and the practices on how to facilitate successful conflict resolution in management teams. In the dynamics of hot topic, there are three identified patterns that happen when it is being discussed. The first one is: people start to repeat the same argument all over again. The second one is as soon as a team reaches a substantive deadlock, the discussion starts to get personal. The third one is once a task conflict triggers negative interpersonal attributions, emotions become the motor of the discussion and substantive progress slows to a standstill. These dynamics show why managers would want to avoid relationship conflict even if it is hard to do. The inability to manage this conflict causes the team to lost the opportunity to synthesize different perspectives and understand the implications they bring for the firm’s future. When talking about cool topics – topics whose data are accessible and straightforward, criteria and goals are commonly shared, and differences don’t run very deep – conflict is easy to resolve. On the contrary, when hot topics are discussed, people may not agree which data are most relevant, and interpretation of the data can be highly subjective. Hot topics trigger emotional reactions that make sound deliberation difficult. When an event is processed through the hot system, it becomes difficult to think slowly and logically about the task at hand or about those with opposing views. In order to engage both task and relationship productively, managers can learn three practices: manage self, manage conversations, and manage relationships. Managing self is an ability to examine and transform the thoughts and feelings that hijack one’s ability to reason calmly when conflicts heat up by reflecting on their reactions and reframing the situation. Reflecting is done by observing the person’s emotional reactions, identifying any interpretations that the person’s making and exploring what the interpretations may say about him and the others. Reflecting will help the person to cool down his emotional reactions, allowing him to have his reaction without them having his and increases self- awareness. Reframing helps the person to invent alternative attribution, consider what he might miss that others might see, and extend to others the same rights he claims for himself. It will make it possible to think outside the box of current beliefs, allow team members to formulate questions that generate new data, and build the person’s individual cooling system. Managing conservation is a practice that channels managers’ reframed reactions into better conversations, ones in which emotionally charged or divisive topics can be harnessed to make better decisions and to strengthen relationships. It is done by digging into divisive topics first and later examine the competing views. Digging into divisive topics is conducted by treating people’s concerns and interest as legitimate, make one’s reactions public, acknowledge any troubles being experienced and invite others to help address them. It will help divisive topics more discussable, increase team’s awareness towards each other, and deepen each other’s understanding. Examining competing views is conducted by exploring competing beliefs by using everyone’s data, inquire the others’ feeling and thinking, and examine the difference of interest each team member has. By doing this, the team will be able to generate more useful data and wider range of options, more powerful solutions, strengthen relationship among its member and build its own cooling system. Managing relationship is done to accelerate the relationship-building process by working in two areas: building grounded trust and target key relationship. Build grounded trust – trust based on recognition of each person’s assets and liabilities – is conducted by acknowledging the person and others can make mistakes and assuming responsibility for learning from mistakes. It will help reducing the likelihood people will feel betrayed or disappointed, improving the decision-making effectiveness, and accelerating learning for individual team members and for the team. Targeting key relationship means targeting for investment those relationship operating along organizational faultlines. It is done by mapping patterns of interaction that will affect the team’s ability to make decisions and using conflicts to alter those dynamics that undermine the team’s effectiveness. It will help making resolving cross-functional problems easier and quicker, accelerating organizational learning, and building the firm’s cooling system.