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The 7 SINS
The 7 SINS
A D L Y
DE
7 SINS
That Guarantee Your Woman Will
Cheat On You And Blame You For
It
7 SINS REPORT
Waju Abraham
INTRODUCTION
This may shock you, but it’s true. I like feminists aka strong women.
I only tease the noisy ones because I don’t need them. One is enough at a time. And if I
needed to get me a woman today, it definitely won’t be one soft, mumu, glorified house-girl
who will be washing my boxers and tying wrapper around.
A true king needs a queen. But boys can’t have queens. The prefer house-helps.
Of course, there are crazy, bitter, damaged women out there. I’m not talking about those
ones. They need help. Not a man.
A strong woman in these times comes as a hard nut to crack. This is where I show you the
simple part of cracking that nut. It is not a cure all to your woman problems. But it will set
your mind straight on the path of giving your best shot at winning the strongest thoroughbred
around.
There are many benefits to having the respect of your woman. One is the ever obvious
improved sex life. And that alone affects many other things, including your ability to get
money -plenty of it.
Many men are so brow-beaten by their women that they can’t hustle rent. This book will set
you on the oath to changing that.
Lets begin.
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I
The first time was in 2003. I was this young, naive grasshopper asking a girl out in
year 2, LASU.
She gave me HELL. I lost hours just thinking about her. And then one day, I
decided to end it (not like we ever ever got started).
So I called her to a meeting and sat her down in my friend’s room, then spent 30 minutes
calling out her every BS, and ended it with…
“I am done”
It hit her like a bombshell, but she masked it (women are good pretenders). For half a
second, she froze and then was like “Okay. No problem”.
She was wet as a fish under her skirts, her underparts betraying her “I don’t care” attitude.
My calling out her silly attitudes had done what my poems and lyrics had failed to do.
But I was still too naive to learn from that experience. Perhaps if I had known, I’d have not
broken up with her. I’d have toned down to kiss her and bang her. She would never have
resisted.
Like I said before, it happened twice. The second time was 2006. I was trying to date this
iron-lady who had friend-zoned me. She was giving me a very tough time. She would speak
before me in public, argue with me in front of people, generally bench me in every matter.
I was there, being patient and understanding and encouraging her toughness. I felt like I was
the one man that could handle her. (Big red flag there. But topic for another day.)
Then one day we were debating something, and she kept trying to interrupt. But I made her
wait till I was done talking.
“Okay tell me what you understand. So I’ll know you’ve been listening”
2 days later, I called her to a meeting, refused any debate whatsoever, and summarily broke
up with her.
Again, like the first time, she acted like it was no problem, but when she was getting up, she
complained of wet seat. But the seat wasn’t wet. It was her unders that were dripping.
Thats when I remembered the last incident and I began to add two and two together.
You see, friend...most of the time, it is the man who breeds disregard in a relationship. Not the
girl.
Thats why I don’t fear “feminists” as a person. Heck, I married one -and oh she’s happily
obedient to my rules.
Because you can marry a humble, illiterate, village girl and turn her to a demon 10X worse
than Nkechi Bianze.
(Trivia: Nkechi is the fugly social media feminist who allegedly arranges “revenge sex” for hurt
married women whose husbands cheated on them).
My woman will never even open my phone, much less try to check my messages. And she is
a highly-educated, very independent and well-travelled woman.
Long and short of it is, my travails as a young adult male forced me to master the principles
of commanding the respect and loyalty -and obedience- of my woman.
But to be qualified for inner work, you first need to identify a few ways that you are
contributing to and feeding the monster of feminism in your life and relationship.
WARNING: Of course, if you are one of the men who call themselves “male feminists”, I want
nothing to do with you. This book does not even address you or your problems. So fuck off
and gossip about me on Twitter.
For the MEN reading this, here are the 7 Sins as discussed in the title.
1. You talk too much. Where words abound, sin can never be in short supply. One of
the easiest ways to lose the respect of a woman is when you want to tell them
everything happening in your life.
Newsflash: Your woman is not supposed to be your counsellor, or your mother, or
your mentor.
Of course, I have seen many men use these words for their women, and their lives
are just as miserable. Man is a mystery to woman, just as God is a subtle mystery to
humans. The day you lose that touch in your relationship, there’s nothing to respect
any longer.
A lady on Facebook once posted a picture of her husband crying in her arms. He was
stressed from whatever, and she posted the pic saying men need to be able to open
up. I’d hate to be such a guy right now. See finish.
Even the scriptures say clearly “When we see him, we shall be as he is”. Nothing
more to aspire to.
Of course, this springs up the need to have and retain your social friendships.
Your man circle. Never make that mistake of turning your woman into the one and
only repository of knowledge of who you are and what you’re going through. Have a
circle. Have a life. Have friends. And for God’s sake, shut your mouth.
2. You are needy. Blame it on upbringing, but a needy man is an ugly man.
Incidentally, the majority of men in our world today are needy. They are desperate for
approval, for affirmation. So desperate that they draw their confidence from the
acceptance of others.
This is not how our forefathers did it, and yes, they may be dead, BUT…they lived far
better and longer lives. And their women rarely disrespected them.
A needy man is perceived as a baby in a woman’s eyes. Once you bring up that
neediness of demanding respect, or love from your woman, she cannot but see you
small in her eyes. That’s when she starts “having headache” when you come for
nocturnal duties.
3. You believe in love. I don’t know how to say this nicely, but a man in relationship is
first a LEADER before anything else. At any freaking point in time, you’re first a
leader before a lover.
The reason majority of men prefer the love thing is because they are seriously
deficient in leadership vitamins. Anybody can have mushy feelings for a woman, to
the point where you’re now “dragging” issues like mates.
No. That is not the plan for relationships. View it as Chairman and CEO. There must
be boundaries established. She will rant, and throw a tantrum, and she may quit, but
at least you will have her eternal respect.
This is more like the issue of a child trying to use tantrums to have their way with
their parent. If the parent treats them like a friend, they will have friendship but zero
respect. In the end, the relationship you have is the result of what you prioritize.
If you prioritize love, you leave a vacuum of leadership that another sharp guy will fill
out there.
I’m being brutally honest so you know for shizzle there’s a way that seemeth right to most men,
but it is the way of “see finish”.
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