"FAMILY PROBLEM"

Hello everyone my name is Kyle C.Macahidhid and im here to persuade my speech is all about family
problem,Family problems can seem overwhelming If you or a friend are dealing with separation, divorce,
alcoholic, abused or abusive parents, or another family conflict, this is a place to learn more about ways
to cope.Every family has problems once in awhile. But sometimes family conflict becomes too much.
Often, this is because of trouble understanding each other, changing expectations as you grow older or
lack of trust among family members. It might also be because your parents see things differently from
you since they are from a different generation, and maybe also raised in a different country.When
conflicts happen you might find yourself changing your behaviour or reacting differently than usual. This
is one way of showing your family that you dislike a situation. It may even make you feel like you have
more control over the situation. But in the end, your reactions might confuse your family and distract
them from the real problems.

Try having a straight-forward talk with your family about how you are feeling. Deep inside us, we know
what every family therapist knows: the problems between the parents become the problems within the
children. Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication.
Someone isn't listening. Family quarrels are bitter things They don't go according to any rules They're not
like aches or wounds, they're more like splits in the skin that won't heal because there's not enough
material. In every dispute between parent and child, both cannot be right, but they may be, and usually
are, both wrong. It is this situation which gives family life its peculiar hysterical charm. Most couples
have not had hundreds of arguments they've had the same argument hundreds of times. Family quarrels
have a total bitterness unmatched by others. It doesn't matter what kind of problems a family is having it
should always stay in the family. We're a very close family and we're a very real family, and I think every
real family has real problems. I can't say it's not painful being estranged from most of my family. I wish it
could be otherwise.

Family problems come in all shapes and sizes some are short-lived and easily managed, while others are
more chronic and difficult to handle. Sometimes problems don't require a solution to solve them instead
they require maturity to outgrow them. All happy families are alike each unhappy family is unhappy in its
own way. How many solutions are found to family problems if we take time to reflect If we think of a
husband or wife and we dream about their good qualities that they have Don't ever lose the illusion of
when you were boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't think a female running a house is a problem, a broken
family. It's perceived as one because of the notion that a head is a man. If you cannot get rid of the
family skeleton, you may as well make it dance. You can't teach a son to be loyal if the father is not loyal.
The same applies with the mother and her daughter. The American family is not simply changing it is
getting weaker Family decline drives some of our most urgent social problemsThe heart of the family
problem lies in the steady breakup of the two-parent home. A busy mother makes slothful daughters,
Otherwise, you just become partners managing the kids and life, and that makes your marriage more
vulnerable to problems down the road. The old problems is love, money, security, status, health and
etc.are still here to plague us or please us Pick a dysfunction and it's a family problem, Families and their
problems go on and on, and they aren't solved they're dealt with. Families and their problems go on and
on, and they aren't solved, they're dealt with. I was the black sheep of the family and my mother never
really understood me. After every storm the sun will smile for every problem there is a solution, and the
soul's indefeasible duty is to be of good cheer, The best way to resolve any problem in the human world
is for all sides to sit down and talk. A family is recognized as a group of people who shares DNA, love,
respect, commitment and will to help one another within any situation.

The importance of a family is to instruct children and gives guidance about personal values and social
behavior. Unfortunately, in today’s world countless problems complicate this meaning. Issues such as
incest, absent father figure, lack of communication, divorce, domestic violence, balance of work and
materialism are many of the reasons why families continue to fail. These issues are categorized into
three categories, which are social, emotional, and financial. Social issues or social problems relates to
the perceptions of one’s life and moral character. Emotional issues affect one’s ability to be stable some
feelings may be happy, sad, or even depressed. Lastly, financial issues affect the ability to buy what you
want or need.

Incest, domestic violence and absent father figure are some of the emotional issues that affects a family.
Incest is the sexual abuse of a child by a relative or another person in a position of trust and authority
over the child. Close blood relatives that are statute to incest are father, mother, grandparents, aunts,
uncles, brother, sister, niece, and nephews. Forty six percent of children who are raped are victims of
family members. Eleven percent of rape victims are raped by their fathers or step- fathers, and another
16 percent are raped by other relatives while they are children. In many cases, the child is in fear, that if
they say anything it will disrupt the balance of the family. They often blame themselves for what has
occurred, instead of the person who is supposed to love and protect them.Children and young people
often think family problems are their fault, even if nobody has told them this. Family problems cause
negative emotions such as anxiety, sadness and anger.