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Do Stuff That Average People Don't Understand, Because Those Are The Only Good Things
Do Stuff That Average People Don't Understand, Because Those Are The Only Good Things
You are in charge of how you react to the people and events in
your life. You can either give negativity power over your life or
you can choose happiness instead. Take control and choose to
focus on what is important in your life. Those who cannot live
fully often become destroyers of life.
— Anais Nin
The best and most beautiful things in the
world cannot be seen or even touched. They
must be felt with the heart.
— Helen Keller
Wear sunscreen.
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have
been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering
experience. I will dispense this advice now.
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of
your youth until they’ve faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you’ll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way
you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat
as you imagine.
Don’t worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra
equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your
worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 p.m. on some idle Tuesday.
Sing.
Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Floss.
Don’t waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind. The race is long and, in
the end, it’s only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.
Stretch.
Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn’t
know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don’t.
Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You’ll miss them when they’re gone.
Maybe you’ll marry, maybe you won’t. Maybe you’ll have children, maybe you won’t. Maybe you’ll divorce at 40,
maybe you’ll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don’t congratulate
yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else’s.
Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don’t be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It’s the
greatest instrument you’ll ever own.
Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.
Get to know your parents. You never know when they’ll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They’re your
best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps
in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were
young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave
before it makes you soft. Travel.
Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you
do, you’ll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children
respected their elders.
Don’t expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you’ll have a wealthy spouse. But
you never know when either one might run out.
Don’t mess too much with your hair or by the time you’re 40 it will look 85.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia.
Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and
recycling it for more than it’s worth.
— Mary Schmich
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but
narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and
smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but
less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up
too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. We have multiplied our
possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life. We’ve added years to life not life to years. We’ve been all the
way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer
space but not inner space. We’ve done larger things, but not better things.
We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We’ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more,
but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more
computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow
relationships.
These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick
trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything
from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the
stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share
this insight, or to just hit delete…
Remember, to spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up
and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your
heart and it doesn’t cost a cent.
Remember, to say, “I love you” to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an
embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person might not be there again. Give time
to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
— Bob Moorehead
He’s not coming back, and it will be the first time you believe it.
Dorianne Laux
Static in my head,
the reflected sound of everything,
tried to go to where it led,
but it didn’t lead to anything.
— Elliott Smith
Oscar Hammerstein II
Black-dove
You don’t need a space ship
They don’t know you’ve already lived
On the other side of the galaxy
The other side of the galaxy…
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you
back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars
and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch
you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who
wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re
just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly
reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to
have you…. The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s
her.’
— Sam Wilson
Don’t do drugs, don’t have
unprotected sex, don’t be
violent. Leave that to me.
— Eminem quotes
A long time ago, in a city far-far away, two men had an insight.
Ward
Christensen and Randy Suess wanted a way to leave notes and
messages to their
programmer/engineer friends. Back then, modems were used
by field-engineers and
some high-level executives to talk to their companies
computers. A 300 baud
modem was extremely fast, as most people were using 110
baud TeleTypes. Ward
and Randy devloped the concept of the BBS. They called it
CBBS, for “Computer
Bulletin Board System.” CBBS was the first of its kind. It was
an enormous
program written in 8080 assmebly language. By our standards
today, it was
kludgy and bug-ridden, but back then it was heavenly. Users
could enter
messages and read messages… that was about it.
— http://www.textfiles.com/100/bbsdeath.pro
I was thinking about death and all. About seeing how you’re
gonna die. I mean, on one hand, if dying was all you thought
about, it could kind of screw you up. But it could kind of help
you, couldn’t it? Because you’d know that everything else you
can survive.
— Big Fish (2003) - Memorable quotes
The paths fork and divide. With each step you take through
Destiny’s garden, you make a choice; and every choice
determines future paths. However, at the end of a lifetime of
walking you might look back, and see only one path stretching
out behind you; or look ahead, and see only darkness.
— Neil Gaiman Quotes, page 1 of 11
A dark mirror. Imagine that you woke in the night and rose,
and seemed to see before you another person whom you
slowly perceived to be yourself. Someone had entered in the
night and placed a mirror in your sleeping place, made from a
black metal. You had been frightened only of your reflection.
But then the reflection slowly raised one hand, while your own
stayed still….A dark mirror….That was always the intention….
— The Wake: Quotes
— 90210
There is no truth. There is only perception.
— Flaubert
— Gretchen Rubin
Bros before hos. Why? Because your bros are always there for you. They have got your back, after your ho rips
your heart out for no good reason. And you were nothing but great to your ho. And you told her she was the only
ho for you. And that she was better than all the other hos in the world. And then… suddenly she’s not your ho no
mo’.
— Michael Scott
all that is gold does not glitter, not all those who wander are lost
— j.r.r tolkien
— Irv Kupcinet
As long as you keep escaping, they never get you. Even if they think they do.
— Ursula Hegi
Oprah
— Michael Scott
sometimes you know, you get really tired of everything, but you
don't know what else to do except exist.
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Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break
you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to
risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left,
or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in
heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself that you tasted as many as you could.
— Louise Erdrich
You know that moment that comes when the last tear falls? The one when you realize that your worst fears have
come to light and you’re still breathing? Never forget the moment you look into the mirror and into your red eyes
and see that you aren’t broken or weak or lost at all. You are thin skin over steel.
— Unknown
The name Wendy was made up for the book Peter Pan. There was
never a recorded Wendy before it.
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