This document outlines 10 "laws" for improving one's ability to meet and attract women (known as "game"). The laws emphasize getting out of one's own way by focusing on offering value to others, making oneself feel good, being real and congruent, clear communication, thinking about mutual benefit, improving with experience rather than becoming bitter, escalating interactions towards intimacy, balancing logic and emotion, and applying these principles more broadly in life. The overall message is that inner confidence, presence, and focus on others' enjoyment are key to developing social and romantic skills.
This document outlines 10 "laws" for improving one's ability to meet and attract women (known as "game"). The laws emphasize getting out of one's own way by focusing on offering value to others, making oneself feel good, being real and congruent, clear communication, thinking about mutual benefit, improving with experience rather than becoming bitter, escalating interactions towards intimacy, balancing logic and emotion, and applying these principles more broadly in life. The overall message is that inner confidence, presence, and focus on others' enjoyment are key to developing social and romantic skills.
This document outlines 10 "laws" for improving one's ability to meet and attract women (known as "game"). The laws emphasize getting out of one's own way by focusing on offering value to others, making oneself feel good, being real and congruent, clear communication, thinking about mutual benefit, improving with experience rather than becoming bitter, escalating interactions towards intimacy, balancing logic and emotion, and applying these principles more broadly in life. The overall message is that inner confidence, presence, and focus on others' enjoyment are key to developing social and romantic skills.
Guys get stifled with too much theory when they go out Focus on the Macro , that will take care of the details You are already the 10. There is just shit that you have that’s blocking you it. Game isn’t something you build upon , it’s something you have already This is generally 80% of what Julien focuses on You NEED entitlement Zone in on the things you can offer that no one can beat you at Don’t obsess the micro Souls primes everything in game No girl would judge over the details You’ll fuck it a but , game is messy , it’s okay . Don’t try to be perfect Focus on the soul . Follow the principles aka the fundamentals and not the details You’re uniqueness is not for everyone . Be ok with that . It’s normal Don’t compromise your own self worth Tempo of the night will result in non-escalation during the first half . It’s ok. She is just not ready yet Why do you need the girl? Why do you need the approval? Your night out should really be fun If you don’t have fun then at some point you’ll give up Let go of the need of approval Don’t label anything as good or bad Whats so bad about Approach Anxiety? Whats so bad about being out of state? Try to feel good about AA and being out of state Your label placed on shit is what matters i.e labels are useless Don’t have any expectations Learn how to feel good about everything : AA , out of state , rejection etc Scarcity will fuck you up Learn how to have equal amount of fun with all types of waman Its you and her having an awesome experience together not you vs her and you gaming her. It’s not competition between you and the girl , its collaboration. Law 2 – Offer Value Easiest way to get out of your way is to focus on offering value If you ever have AA etc : Ask what am I trying to take ? instead focus on what you can give. Assume familiarity People are not the enemy Get turned on by giving value 2 ways to offer value : - Good emotions and Realness Be zoned on yourself not her Do a silent opener to see if your vibe is giving or taking You can give by asking questions Give cause that makes you feel good Law 3 – Make Yourself Feel Good 3 inner buttons : Fun , Carefree and Passion Get creative as to how to link everything to these 3 buttons 0 anger or resentment towards the girld Turn rejections into fun Do something out of the blue to self amuse View it as emotional masturbation Do what you find funny Goal of opening : Check this out Law 4 – Be Real Don’t fake emotions Be real in terms of being man to woman Push/Pull , Statement of Intent etc all the techniques should come from being real These techniques are basically unlocking the realness Imagine her reality – No one is real Millionaire Analogy – Be the millionaire who doesn’t ask for money but give it Realness will come after you loose the need of approval Assume attraction Embrace all emotions ( good/bad) Don’t judge emotions or label them Be congruent to how you feel Be clear in your intentions It’s not something you do , its what she feels Always be leading the conversation Push/Pull should naturally happen when you’re real The more personal , the better Don’t copy someone else Law 5 – Communicate Clearly Can she hear you ? Are you loud enough? Be louder or be closer to her Going out – If you don’t go out your not in the game Are you smiling? Eye Contact Close Enough for her to feel it . Squaring up This all has nothing to do with energy Law 6 – Think Win – Win Ask what your goal is and what’s hers? She doesn’t wanna feel like a slut First part of the night is the abundance of fun time not pulling time Don’t say something too far out there Calibrate after the fact The Circle of Relatability The more time you spend together the more the circle expands Don’t be the wolf , be the gorilla Don’t hold back , control it Do stuff that you want to do , instead of what you need to do Get as far away from the place you opened Law 7 – Get Better , Not Bitter You’re gonna counter a lot of BS There will be a lot of humiliation Let go of the bitterness , instead try to get better Game is messy af . This aint bad . Accept it There will be fuck ton of social pressure You need to embrace it all The more shit’s thrown at you , the better . More adversity = Better. Get addicted to the pressure Law 8 – Play to Win Don’t try to stop the fun which at some point is sex Don’t try to leave on a high note Plan A > Plan B > Plan C Don’t Miss out on Plan B That’s 50% of your results If you don’t escalate it will die out Build the interaction to sex Take things to the climax If you don’t , you’re taking from the fun The win is giving Law 9 – Play the Paradoxes Two layers to an interaction – Emotional , Logical Logical – Occams Ask for Logistics 5 Questions – Who are here with? Where do you live? How are you going home? Do you have roomates? What are you doing later tonight or tomorrow? Pre Seeding the pull is key Don’t ask out of the blue Be aware of how much compliance you’re asking for Baby step the compliance Think how to get one step closer to her place Think how to make it epic That’s what game is for : epic stories Put yourself in the situation . Make it epic Movie is a good pull excuse First part of the night is not win win to pull generally , so get many #s and day 2 the chicks later the night Make sure to re- open sets After first half , commit to a set of pull /go with 45min+ is required to pull( in most cases) Dont pursue , attract You create the party Law 10 – Apply this to your life For friends , work , motivation etc . Keep in mind how creatively you can sue these laws