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communication, daily living skills, socialization, and Research from the perspective of homeschooled
social maturity subscales of the test. In a similar children themselves is rare, and few of these studies
study (Lee, 1994), homeschooling parents rated their have examined genuine social skills. Most self-report
children higher than did the parents of conventionally studies have measured self esteem (Hedin, 1991;
schooled children on the Adaptive Behavior Kelley, 1991; Kitchen, 1991; Lee, 1994; Medlin,
Inventory for Children (Mercer & Lewis, 1977). 1993, 1994; Shyers, 1992a, 1992b; Stough, 1992;
Francis (1999) matched homeschool children to Taylor, 1986; Tillman, 1995). McEntire (in press)
public school children, and asked their parents to found that homeschooled children engaged in fewer
complete the Parent Form of the Social Skills Rating antisocial and self-destructive behaviors than a
System (Gresham & Elliott, 1990). This version of matched group of public school students. Ray (2003)
the test measures cooperation, assertiveness, studied adults who were homeschooled as children
responsibility, self-control, problem behaviors, and and reported that they are more involved in civic
also yields a total social skills score. Although affairs and less likely to be convicted of a crime than
homeschooled children received higher scores on all the general population (see also Knowles &
the social skills subscales, and lower scores on the Muchmore, 1995; Ray, 1997; Webb, 1990).
problem behavior subscale, only the self-control and Montgomery (1989) interviewed homeschooled
total scores were significantly different. adolescents and concluded that homeschooling
In one of the most methodologically astute helped them develop leadership skills. In the study
studies of homeschooled children, Shyers (1992a, described earlier, Shyers (1992a, 1992b) also tested
1992b) carefully matched homeschooled children to assertiveness, but did not find a significant difference
children attending traditional schools. Naive between homeschooled children and children
observers then watched small groups of the children attending conventional schools. Kingston and Medlin
playing or working together to solve puzzles. The (2006) reported that homeschooled children
results were striking––children attending described themselves as more altruistic than public
conventional schools showed more than eight times school children did.
more problem behaviors than homeschooled In conclusion, the available studies show either
children. Shyers described the traditionally schooled no difference between homeschooled children and
children as “aggressive, loud, and competitive” other children, or a difference favoring
(1992b, p. 6). In contrast, the homeschooled children homeschooled children. They suggest that
acted in friendly, positive ways. He noted that they homeschooled children’s social skills “are certainly
introduced themselves, initiated conversation, no worse than those of children attending
cooperated with others, invited uninvolved children conventional schools, and are probably better”
to join them in play, took turns, let others know it (Medlin, 2000, p. 116). The available studies,
was alright if they lost a game, and even “exchanged however, are few and often not focused on specific
addresses and phone numbers for future contact” social skills. More research, especially from the
(Shyers, 1992b, p. 194). perspectives of objective observers and of
Galloway (Galloway, 1998; Galloway & homeschooled children themselves, is clearly needed.
Sutton, 1997) used objective records to compare
college students who had been homeschooled in high The Present Research
school to those who had attended public or private The purpose of this study was to examine social
high schools. She evaluated the students on more skills in homeschooled children from their own point
than 60 indicators of college performance grouped of view. There is a danger, of course, in asking
into five categories: academic, cognitive, social, children to evaluate their own behavior. They are
spiritual, and psychomotor. For example, academic likely to lack the objectivity and sophistication of
indicators included measures such as grade point parents or other adult observers. However, they
average and class rank. Homeschooled students led experience the social exchanges in which they
the others by a large margin in every category except participate with an intimacy and immediacy that no
psychomotor skills. Since many of these indicators outside observer can. And they judge the success or
involved positions of leadership, Galloway failure of those exchanges according to criteria that
concluded that homeschooled students were readily adults may not even be aware of. Without this
recognized for their leadership abilities. In fact, her perspective, therefore, children’s social skills cannot
results were so one-sided that she felt justified in be fully understood.
making a rather provocative statement: “I don’t ever It was hypothesized that homeschooled
want to hear again that homeschooled children are children’s scores on a self-report test of four key
socially inept” (Galloway, 1998). social skills––cooperation, assertiveness, empathy,
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and self-control––would be higher than those of the small towns or suburban communities. The sample
public school children who formed the was more ethnically diverse than the homeschool
standardization sample for the test. This difference group: 72.3% were White, 20.1% were African-
was expected to become increasingly obvious as American, 3.8% were Hispanic, and 3.6% belonged
grade level increased. Among the homeschooled to other ethnic groups. A subset (64%) of the
children, girls were expected to have better social children’s parents also participated in the
skills than boys. standardization research. These parents were
described as “better educated than the population as a
Method whole” (Gresham & Elliott, 1990, p. 103). No
information concerning their socio-economic status
Participants was reported.
social skills in children and adolescents” (Gresham & Mean Cooperation, Assertiveness, Empathy,
Elliott, 1990, p. 112) and then evaluated for their and Self-Control subscale scores are presented in
importance to healthy social development by Tables 4-7 along with mean subscale scores for the
teachers, parents, and students. Studies evaluating standardization sample. Notice that 27 of the 32
criterion-related validity of the Student Form have mean scores for the children in this study were higher
found low to moderate negative correlations (-.12 to - than those of the standardization sample. Only the
.43) with a test of problem behaviors and low to third-grade girls’ Self-Control score, the fourth-grade
moderate positive correlations (.12 to .34) with a test boys’ Assertiveness and Self-Control scores, and the
of self-esteem. In one study of construct validity, fifth-grade boys’ Assertiveness and Empathy scores
children’s social skills were rated by the children were lower.
themselves, their parents, and their teachers. The
correlation coefficients generated by this research
were relatively low: parent-child correlations ranged
from .03 to .12, while teacher-child correlations Grade Boys Girls
ranged from .10 to .29 (Gresham & Elliott, 1990). 3 t(289) = 1.13 t(285) = 0.27
Nevertheless, the test authors concluded that 4 t(304) = 0.47 t(325) = 1.49
5 t(307) = 1.02 t(300) = 5.173
their research confirms the SSRS as a “reasonable,
6 t(310) = 3.373 t(274) = 2.351
useful, and efficient approach to the assessment of 1
p <.05
social skills” (Gresham & Elliott, 1990. p. 142). An 2
p <.01
independent review of the test in comparison with 3
p <.001
five other measures of children’s social skills Table 3. Results of t-test analyses comparing SSRS Total scores of
homeschooled children to public school children in the
concluded that “the psychometric properties of the standardization sample.
SSRS are excellent” (Demaray & Ruffalo, 1995, p.
6).
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Discussion
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have better social skills than boys in grades 3 through was based on a self-report measure, it is reasonable
6 (Gresham & Elliott, 1990). to ask if homeschooled children may be more given
Several inferences can be drawn from the to presenting themselves in an unrealistically positive
pattern of results. For homeschooled boys, SSRS light than public school children are. In fact, previous
subscale scores––especially Cooperation scores–– research suggests that the opposite is true (Kingston
were generally higher than those of public school & Medlin, 2006). These results, therefore, can be
boys, but only the sixth graders’ scores were considered at least as valid as those of other self-
significantly different. And as only two sixth-grade, report studies.
homeschooled boys participated in this study, these Although the results of this study are consistent
differences must be interpreted with caution. The with previous research, social skills are complex, and
most appropriate conclusion for homeschooled boys, more research is clearly needed. Many studies of
therefore, would once again be that their social skills homeschooled children’s social behavior (including
“are certainly no worse than those of children this one) are too simplistic. Social skills should not
attending conventional schools, and are probably be viewed as static traits, and cannot be fully
better” (Medlin, 2000, p. 116). understood using paper-and-pencil tests. They
For homeschooled girls, SSRS subscale scores involve dynamic, interactive processes that should be
were typically higher for fifth graders than for sixth examined in the natural, everyday settings that make
graders, suggesting that homeschooled girls were not up children’s social lives. Social behavior occurs in
simply maturing earlier than public school girls (or context, and tests such as the SSRS may be measuring
than homeschooled boys, for that matter). Instead, social opportunities––what circumstances allow or
their scores were generally higher than those of other encourage children to do––as much as they are
children across all grade levels. For homeschooled measuring social abilities. And more attention must
girls, therefore, the results of this study agree with be given to the way homeschooled children learn
previous research that found homeschooled children social skills, rather than simply to the end result of
to have better social skills than children attending this learning. How homeschooled children develop
traditional schools. complex interpersonal skills over time needs to
A few methodological issues are worth emerge as a prominent question. The strategies such
discussing briefly. First, not all homeschooling research requires––naturalistic observation,
families, of course, choose to join support groups. interactional analysis, qualitative studies, longitudinal
Those that do may be especially interested in the designs––are largely missing from the homeschool
social activities such groups offer. “Isolated” literature.
homeschooled children, therefore, may have been In conclusion, homeschooled children in this
missing from the sample used in this study. Also, the study described themselves as more cooperative,
homeschool and comparison groups here were not assertive, empathetic, and self-controlled than public
comparable in ways that may have affected the school children did. There appears to be, therefore, a
results. Ethnic background was certainly different, convergence of evidence from three different
while ideological homogeneity, parental education, perspectives––parental report, objective observers,
family income, and other variables were probably and self-report––that homeschooled children’s social
different. And although all the homeschooled skills are exceptional.
children had been homeschooled for at least two
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